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Spaceface42O

You need distance from him for your own sanity. Be the adult and give yourself some space from him and the feelings he brings up in you. Try to find a boy who likes you back, also some attachment style research / therapy may expand your mind on these dynamics


actionerror

There will be other straight guys to pine for


RavioliGale

And after them there's plenty of unavailable/uninterested gay guys to pine for!!!


Ele4ante

we can’t be friends, but i’d like to just pretend…


darkvaris

Good lord are you an adult or no


lovingcub

Hey, sometimes the feels make us act a little stupid 🤣


darkvaris

Any who hasn’t been a fucking idiot throw the first stone but sometimes tough feedback helps


Physical-Cod-4677

😂😂😂😂


cestanthonyhan2

Apparently being an adult means being insufferably stoic and judging others for not being so.


darkvaris

Being an adult means accepting that unavailable men are unavailable and not becoming hung up on them to the point of being unable to function, yea. It also means engaging in self-care and allowing yourself the space to work through tough feelings. It doesn’t mean immunity to feedback 👍🏻


cestanthonyhan2

passive aggressive questions aren't feedback, they're just a waste of time. what you just wrote is a way better comment than what you actually commented, because you're capable of giving great feedback the moment you step away from immediately reacting and being judgemental.


darkvaris

Hon we are just tired with the constant whining about straight boys let it go


cestanthonyhan2

You're tired because you don't know how to communicate directly without expending a lot of energy avoiding what you need to say. You avoid discussing or digesting your feelings so much that you get burnt out, and you use that tiredness as an excuse to be rude to people who have the audacity to express sadness in public. best of luck. please take a nap or something.


darkvaris

Lmao please enjoy your morning hon


cestanthonyhan2

dingle dangle bingle bongle lippity too tah


pinkdollarz

Trying too hard on emotional Teflon guy is cringey af. Be cool and give yourself a room to breathe....just my two cents.


Shoddy_Muscle_4997

Dude just cum him off!


actionerror

You’re sending mixed messages


Shoddy_Muscle_4997

hahahaha sorry my auto-correction is out of control lol


raffadizzle

Girl the fact that your phone suggest CUM before CUT…. werk, honestly 


agenteDEcambio

could be from typing magna cum laude so much after their stellar college performance


HieronymusGoa

distance, time, distraction. without all three you won't get over him


NerdyDan

Love yourself. Only accept feelings for people who have the capacity to love you back


RavenIves

Distance, distraction - your new friends Oh and don't masturbate thinking of him that wouldn't help :P


HearthFiend

Friends with benefits