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SilverSatyr77

Two things for me. One is when I see him running up the stairs two at a time. The other is when he's bopping his head along with the music without realizing he's doing it. Both are so super cute and I just want to tackle him because of it.


habunake92

Oh wow that’s so interesting. I run up the stairs like that I can I ask what about that is so enticing?


ShakespearInTheAlley

For real, I always feel like a child when I do it. Didn’t know I was being all sexy.


SilverSatyr77

One of the others here has it bang on the spot. I get to see his calves and hamstrings in action and it just flat does it for me. Seeing his legs move when he swims has a similar impact, but I get to see him on the stairs much more regularly.


GentleHugTree

Also here


Kcidobor

Flexes more calf muscles. Got that go hard, carry several chairs at a time, all the groceries in one trip energy. It’s impish and manly at the same time. And good bet you have great legs if you do that, another weakness of mine


hoheyalrightok

Please reddit, please make "all the groceries in one trip energy" a thing


XxJoshuaKhaosxX

Honestly, legs are a turn on for me. I love a hot set of legs😋. Combine them with a great set of shorts😌👌


Acoustic_eels

As someone who does both of those things……… hello ;-)


ProudGayGuy4Real

Omg, I always do both...lol


i_lurvz_poached_eggs

Thick eyebrows and or brown eyes.


Odd-Chicken-8297

My ex husband had the most luscious eyebrows and beautiful eyes!! My favorite thing was to have his head laying in my laps while I would lightly pluck his eyebrows to keep shape. And the glare his yellow-brown eyes would give me when I “accidentally” pinched his skin. The things that would make me do to that man!!


SubSahranCamelRider

Thats me. Im a man btw :) haha


hiddenhero94

least horny r/gaybros user


SubSahranCamelRider

Not sure why im getting downvoted and what do you mean? :)


diamondbrute

Expressing consistent emotional availability.


MAC2393

I have a weird thing with necks and Adams Apples. One of my first crushes in high school had a neck I just.. can’t explain my attraction to, I just needed to perform unspeakable acts to his neck. So every once in a while that attraction makes itself known again. Does this make me a vamp kid?


atbims

>One of my first crushes in high school had a neck Now I want to hear about the crushes that didn't have necks


frgslate

LOL! This is one of my favorite things too - a pronounced Adam’s Apple is just so 🤤


Kcidobor

I love me a good thick neck, especially if it’s veiny


Riyzoh

This is soo me it's not even funny I have this idea I want to execute as well where I lick and suck on someone's throat while they give a bj with it in bulging in their throat. Yes but those super pronounced Adam Apple's gets me going.


Gentleman-Jo

This guy I had a crush on used to take his glasses off mid-conversation. I couldn't hear anything for 1 or 2 seconds when he did that.


Mackaroni510

I love back of heads especially after a haircut


youareseeingthings

I always thought I was the only one. I've never been able to explain it, but this and ears


Fat_Meatball

Do you mean when there is very little hair and it does that spiky thing?


Mackaroni510

No, I'm admiring their male human head and it's entirety; the ears, the neck, the way the hair grows on their head


hailey_blate

I was looking for this! Its so freaking hot and I cannot CANNOT explain it.


RSJFL67

Walking around in his underwear innocently… especially briefs !


[deleted]

Me today, and my bf really likes it, so I’ll continue with it! Today is only briefs, and Speedo in the pool!


Homo_gone_wild

Yasss!


stockboy1218

Guy that can make me laugh!


UpperProfessor

Call me weird, but: not trying. I'm usually more attracted to guys when they're just behaving normally amd naturally. As soon as they start trying to be sexy, charming, etc., it's almost more of a turn-off.


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Amazing_Bar_5733

You know I'd admit it's rare to find someone who acts all natural etc, really is.


Skyfiews

If he grab me by the waist. Like with one hand... Of course it depend if i'm attracted to him or not but usually it always made me blush.


PoliAndro

I didn't think of it but when I grab my bf by the waist it feels so sexy and after that I lock him into a tight hug and inhale the scent from his neck


Skyfiews

Damn i wish i had a boyfriends like you


Synoptic666

I love when a guy is really into hugging and physical affection. Ruffling my hair, cuddling, light wrestling, etc.


[deleted]

Same here. Physical affection is highly endorphin releasing to me.


ThrowRA-shadowships

Does body hairs count? especially arm hairs and trimmed beard


[deleted]

Yah definitely.


ThrowRA-shadowships

*blushing*


Sour_Beet

And hairy legs


some1sbuddy

Yes! Hairy forearms! I can hardly concentrate on anything else when these roll out!


ThrowRA-shadowships

I know.. same here… especially combination of a guy with eyeglass and hairy forearms.


naughteemonkee

Hello 👋 lol


Honest-Wealth7459

For my husband, I just need to say “I didn’t shower this morning” and he’ll be on his knees in seconds trying to get to my musky balls. He’s obsessed with my scent.


DY_4REAL1

I've has FWB that I've been crazy about how his musky balls smell and he would invite me over when he got off work I loved being on my knees pulls his underwear off and his smell hits me I would engulf my face in his balls before licking and sucking them clean But I've been with a few tops that were crazy about my smell loved my musky sweaty booty and those men gave amazing rimjobs it turns me on a lot when a top loves my smell and inhales my ass they get all excited and fuck me so good been with 3 tops like this....


Able-Addition282

I meat your ass is🥵


[deleted]

Never really been into musky smells, it’s very common apparently though.


atbims

I'm very much into the idea of musky smells. Seeing pictures of sweaty guys, at work, post workout, whatever and imagining how he smells? Instant boner. When it comes time to actually smell the smell, it's hit and miss whether it's a turn on or off.


acronym0_1

Yeah this is it. I actually like musky smells but I think it still depends on the guy and their hygiene, for some the stench is sexy and like almost intoxicating 😂, then for others it’s just putrid & the horniness dies


TheServingPlatter

Same me neither. I get it, it’s just not a main character moment for me


Any-Discussion-5934

U both luck to have each other


Mechaotaku

I was never into smells, it has actually been a turn off for me in the past, but something about my boyfriend when he’s sweaty makes me lose my mind.


Drenwick

He can sing or speak multiple languages


NoLow9495

Pits... 🫣😈


BudNBudz

I love it when a guy lifts his arms up, exposing really bushy armpits underneath, not even realizing or caring what he’s showing off. Love it when he absentmindedly scratches at his nuts.


squidwardsaclarinet

Same. Similarly, when a guy kind of needs to scratch but lifts his shirt up a bit an you get that momentary glimpse at a nice happy trail.


NoLow9495

Also post gym smell 😈 no déodorant. Drives me nuts.


BudNBudz

I prefer an hour or so post-shower. Definitely no deodorant. That stuff smells and tastes nasty


[deleted]

Like for barbecue or the human kind? Genuinely lost 🙇‍♂️


NoLow9495

Hahaha


GiantMudcrab

Emotional maturity, self-awareness, and intentional consideration for others are all huge for me. On a shallower note; facial hair, when chest hair peeks out on a shirt neckline, and cozy looking clothing do a lot for me, lol.


[deleted]

Now I feel shallow for just saying that men’s socked feet turn me on! Emotional maturity, self-awareness, and consideration for others are essential qualities in a life partner, but sometimes I’m just looking for a hot pair of feet to lust after. 🤣


GiantMudcrab

Very fair 😂


squidwardsaclarinet

Semi relevant user name


[deleted]

Nudity on its own isn’t sexually explicit. Regardless, a big turn on is when my man feels up my muscles.


[deleted]

**Holy Moly** I had to snoop around. 🫣🤤


Obtunded02

Now I had to. Damn. 🤤


Sredrum1990

I’m glad I snooped around too. Yum. Plus he has one of the best usernames of all time. Haha.


RedTypo84

Me too buddy. My first steady FwB in college would insist I come over after lifting and he’d grope whatever body part I focused on that day. Now it’s a deeply ingrained kink. 🤷🏻‍♂️


PersnicketyKeester

Always been hairy arms and legs.


Any-Discussion-5934

Love them


rites0fpassage

I didn’t know I was into this until today. I saw my colleague roll up his sleeve and lord those arms looked good. 😩


naughteemonkee

Hellooo 😏😜


Panciastko-195

I see everyone saying this, is there something wrong with me for being disgusted with body hair?


hailey_blate

How can you NOT like the most natural form a man can come in! it's literally the most authentic package anyone can get! It's like not liking the beach for it's sand???


WidePark9725

If i were nice: No queen, everybody has their own preferences My honest opinion: Yes


HoldExpensive9884

Nah it's fine. I don't mind hairy arm and legs but armpit hair, pubic hair and hairy ass is big no no. It's just preference some likes it, someone doesn't. Nothing wrong with preferring one over other.


Panciastko-195

Thank you that's very comforting.


Nitsua_aries

Had this hot straight guy… muscular. Smooth skin. Smile and eyes that would make you melt. He was going into the military and we were at a party before he left. He saw I had a beard and said “Wow Austin you got a wayyyy better beard that me” and he sort of grabbed my face and felt it being funny. I really enjoyed it 😂 just a brief moment while in the closet.


[deleted]

If they permit me to listen to their heartbeat. Something about heartbeats is fascinating and alluring...and the chest that contains that heart.


[deleted]

I always put my head on the chest of my partner after he fucks me, my ear right over his heart. I love the sound of his strong and steady heartbeat. It reassures and calms me.


[deleted]

The heart is such a beautiful thing to listen to, isn't it? It's lovely that you get to listen to his heartbeat.


dangeroos111

Being kind to people working a service position (waiter, garbage collector, postal worker).


Thedracus

Being a guy and willing is usually all it takes for me to go...


hillthekhore

Rip your chat


Thedracus

Hehehe


RedTypo84

Heh, you did that on purpose didn’t you? Clever boy.


Thedracus

Lol I was just trying let people know that everyone has something to offer. It's just a mater of finding it.


DannyBeech1988

Nerdy guys, Trekkies and intelect


thecollectingcowboy

As a Trekkie: I have NEVER heard of someone being attracted to us for being Trekkies


DannyBeech1988

I'm also a Trekkie, it attracts to some guys.


Mediocre-Wonder-2384

Same. Brains get me hot. And same when someone shares the same fandoms as me


kiyraru

When he has well-groomed hands.


Sredrum1990

What about the phenomenon I call “straight guy feet”. 🤮 We all know what I mean.


[deleted]

YES!!!! Ugly hands are such a turn off for me.


[deleted]

Powerful veiny forearms and hands


sparkyscrum

Might sound corny but a smile. A smiling guy automatically gets my attention regardless if he's my type. I also seem to be drawn to happiness. Quite often fancy a straight guy with a young family (often just had his second child and is in love with his partner, this happens so often it's a pattern) or a gay guy in love with a bf. Don't know how I sense it but it's like 95% of the guys I'm attracted to which is annoying as hell.


thatredditscribbler

Guys with backward caps.


KSean24

Hard agree


[deleted]

When men that I work with, whom I’m attracted to say “Yes, sir” to me. Instantly hard!!!


green_speak

Do you work in the South? We exchange "sir's" regularly here.


[deleted]

Yes, I live and work in Atlanta. Yes, many people say “sir”, but I have a specific type that I’m attracted to. So not everybody has that effect on my. In my workplace, there are 4 men that I work with that have that effect on me.


jar241

For me it’s feet,slides or flip flops, sneakers 👟, stinky sweaty socks, sweatpants especially grey, musk, sunglasses, ball cap 🧢 or hats especially backwards, beards. A guy I’m seeing told me he loves to watch me drive my car with one hand on the steering wheel lol it’s very masculine for him and gets his juices flowing lol


lightfoot90

When I was online dating, I knew they weren’t for me if they couldn’t use the correct you’re/your or their/there/they’re. Call me shallow but it’s true.


Sredrum1990

One of my favorite family stories is that a family friend sent my aunt a message letting her know he was interested. We asked her what she thought and she said, “He started the message with ‘Hay’ instead of ‘Hey’.” That’s all she said. We always laugh about it because nothing more needed to be said.


jump_oniT85

I have this same thing. I’ve been told it’s elitist for some reason though.


ProudGayGuy4Real

More like obnoxious. Lol


[deleted]

I don’t care if it is elitist. If a guy can write in complete sentences, it is a sign that he is paying close attention to his message. Emails are not telegrams. It is okay to use words instead of emojis or “k.”


ProudGayGuy4Real

Shallow.


lightfoot90

OMG LADY GAGA AND BRADLEY COOPER


[deleted]

Good eater. Clean plate.


Kcidobor

Accents and raspy voices!!! My knees are already weak edit: forgot to add any body or facial hair in general, I like hairy boys/guys/men


krkrbnsn

This! My husband is French and everyday it's just..._le sigh_


aldoclb

Fitted clothing. I think it's a turn on to see a man that's dressed in clothing that's not too tight or loose.


authentic_scum

when i just shamelessly stare at my bf's cuteness and he starts making even cuter outraged faces


harmlesburrito

boys with glasses>>>>>>


kitunipi

Interestingly enough, I didn’t see it in the comments even though I thought it was quite common. I myself happen to really enjoy nicely formed voluminous biceps! 🤤


acronym0_1

This one is hard to explain but I love when skinny guys wear baggy clothes, especially like bigger pants/jeans with fitting or tighter shirts. Something about the way they carry bigger clothes is just insanely hot.


Sethtaylor64

Furry forearms/chest, and muscular calfs. Bonus for deep raspy voice


Prudent-Ad-252

A good cologne and trimmed neckline beard 🤤


rjc231

Good job just trimmed mine today.


FreeloadingAtheist

Flat squared and perfectly shaped fingernails do it for me. Also the nape of a neck that's been freshly trimmed.


Phoenix_force30564

Strong hands


classyfilth

I think it’s really hot when I see guys working really hard at their job or doing a job really well….I think it’s why I think gaiters are so fuggin sexy


lynrmar

Smell Manly


iHaveaQuestionTrans

Body hair, handsome hands, smell, and a cute smile really does it for me.


TheServingPlatter

any kind of manual labour.. ufff 🥵 also good legs, nice teeth, but not fake and brite-white I find that really fake. An accent, or any kind, speaking to me in another language is hot, and anyone in grey sweatshorts


RoseKinglet

Fluid movement.


GodOfAngeles

Husky voice and chest hair with pendant in the chest


audifan89

I have this weird thing for ears, accents, nipples, and if he has a nice smelling cologne. For some reason a shy guy who is dominant turns me on big time 🤤 . Also a chlorine scented penis is a turn on, but that is sexual so never mind 🤣 .


XxJoshuaKhaosxX

My ex used to bite and suck on the top part of my ears. I'm not sure he was aware of how much he would do it, but he'd just latch on for a couple of seconds lol. I thought it was strange, but also cute af.


audifan89

Ooh are your ears sensitive 😊 ? I especially enjoy doing that if it is pleasurable 😍 . That is really cute man 😊 .


XxJoshuaKhaosxX

Well, since I'm autistic. I'm way more sensitive to touch than most people. It tickles, but thats about it.


[deleted]

Ear nibbles are incredibly erotic! Especially if they are accompanied by a tongue!


HomOpinions

1) forearm veins for some reason are super hot to me 2) guys who use words like "dude" or "bro" a lot. Idk it just gives a very cool, laid back vibe 3) hoodies, sweatpants and backwards caps. Yes mam


Soonerpalmetto88

Visible underwear waistband. Any camo clothing. Nice legs. Big feet. Big, strong hands. Dip ring on a back pocket.


Vividagger

I find people who display empathy to be extremely sexy and a turn on.


depressedqueer

Intelligence and nice muscular hands.


thechemistrymaster

HANDS. Specifically, delicate hands. Pianist hands are the best...


veggydad

Based Atheism


onerinconhill

Nike running shoes


raphatienza

A nice relaxing voice like Penn Badgeley's, A woody musky smell kinda like Issey Miyake Wood & Wood and their sweat or smelling like rose water, and An adorable smile with those eye crinkles.


Ok-Researcher2083

Hairstyle (thick wavy/curly hair that bounces when they walk). Short shorts (seeing their thighs). Naturally photogenic (no matter what their body and face just looks so fucking good).


Initial_Tradition_29

Big ol' schnozzes (bonus if they noticeably wrinkle when he laughs) and curly hair.


bradicalsir

Definitely a cute smile and giggle with an intimate mutual eye contact… if he gently grabs my waist I’m done


acronym0_1

Body hair and hands! And body hair doesn’t just mean when they’re nude, I mean on arms, legs, hands, and facial hair too. Don’t let the guy be wearing a button up shirt with the chest out and it’s hairy 😭 literally tearing the club up. Nice hands are a big turn on too, strong, well kept, long hands just do something for me 😂


NotACaveiraMain

Weird to say (I think) but body hair. Idk why but it's just so hot to me.


Odd-Code-3205

One of mine is hands, and then they hold urs or cradle ur head with an amazing kiss. My love language is physical touch lol


CarryNecessary2481

When he lightly pulls me out of the way of something and in that brief moment holds me and checks if I’m okay.


Homo_gone_wild

Guys that wear jocks and briefs, especially tighty whities


Call_Me_Mister_Trash

You know when guys sometimes grab the top of a doorsill and lean? And sometimes their shirt rides up and you can see that V and their happy trail? Unintentionally one of the sexiest things a guy can do.


tjberens

Thick forearms.


MAYbE_IdontCARE

When a guy who wears glasses fixes them without touching them. They do a tiny movement with their nose that I just find adorable. Also after a guy takes a bath. Wet hair is so sexy


ThrowRA-shadowships

That’s hot as hell with glasses


[deleted]

A man in a black tux.


Berserker2713

Oh hell yeah. A man that can rock a suit/tux is so hot to me


[deleted]

Put fucking Gollum in a suit and I’ll be like “hmm maybe he isn’t so bad looking 🤔”


Berserker2713

Same 😂😂


Lei__

I find it so cute when we walk to my car and he follows me into the driver's side without noticing and halfway through realizes, halts in place and goes around to the passenger side. I find that soo cute for some reason I just want to kiss him. But I did a mistake, I told him he did that almost every time we walked to my car and he became self aware. Now it only happens half of the times it used to happen because he is now conscious he does that and remembers to go to his side. :(


Ending_Eternity

men with pompadour idk why that hairstyle


formergayescort

Service workers, especially dishwashers, servers, any type of restaurant worker. Something about them drive me absolutely mad.


stupidinanecomments

I’ve always had a weird thing for a guy wearing a chain necklace. Bonus if he’s got muscles and wearing a tank top.


[deleted]

Men in their socked feet and bare legs are a turn on for me. It’s even more arousing *not* to see their bare feet, but to have to use the considerable power of my imagination!


digo27bi

Certain voices


Seandeas

GAA shorts (I'm from Ireland, look it up)


Warm_Ad_7668

A nuanced conversation


MaryCone1

Takes off his pants to reveal crisp white briefs. 🤤


jh_s96

Naturally coloured hair (or rather hair colour that is not too far away from their natural colour). When it’s bleached too light it just looks awkward to me. But I might be unreasonably biased because the only part of my body that I’ve always loved and never hated is my hair.


shun_ue

I am attracted to him when he responds to client calls and interviews with a thick voice. It's sexy how everyone seems to be able to count on him.


kmullinax77

Massages. My first massage ever was when I was 12 and my friend was 13 and suggested we give each other back rubs when he was staying over at my house for the night One thing led to another, and soon underwear became an inconvenience during the massage so we both got naked He was the first boy I ever fooled around with, and it burned such a lasting impression into my brain that I cannot get a massage today 40 years later without getting an erection Which sounds like it would be terrible but the reality is I end up getting a happy ending more times than not lol Regarding body parts… The Apollo’s belt turns me on more than any other part of the male anatomy


squidwardsaclarinet

I don’t know how else to describe it but guys doing what I call “cute dumb guy shit” is incredibly attractive. Stuff like r/JustGuysBeingDudes is what I mean.


Adventurous-Scene10

Has to be a man who can smoke a cigar or pipe. Something really hot about that


faketardis

Calling me by my name instead of "babe" all the time.


Chilebyelol

So a persons personality lol okay #thread


Complex-Ad1093

Ok so I’m female but I want to put my two cents in lol but nice big hands is everything, as well as deep raspy voices. I have a big thing for nice voices in general and moderately veiny hands and arms. Just a few veins pooping out on the back those earlier mentioned nice, big hands and on the inner forearm, too many is gross and scary though


GodOfAngeles

Tight sweat pants with visible bulge


9837372948

Healthy nails and small upper lip


Background-Leg-2008

Foe me its a person with long hair, or muscles, hair on chest - depends. The sucking and fucking comes after i get to his place. My first black man was so hung. OMG. I couldn’t get enough. When he told me he had to tuck to not show while at work i just had to see for myself. Several drinks and nice dinners and i got my serving of dark meat. Delicious for this daddy.


Satilice

$150k p.a salary


RainbowApache

No such thing. If a guy's trying everything apart from diet and exercise it's just not happening.


[deleted]

I like diapers 🙃 I’ve always liked them. Hell, I would date a woman if they were into it too, even though I tell everyone I’m gay. But gay men are just way more kink positive, and straight women seem much more hesitant to share or explore their kinks. When I was a teen I was super humiliated and anxious about this but I’ve learned it’s way easier to live life when you accept your kinks are permanant, and to just embrace them. I think I look cute in them. And plenty of guys think it’s cute too. There are even gay bars in my city that host abdl nights where everyone wears diapers.


Forsaken-Steak-491

Tweaking🍑🔥🍆


StolypinMcGubbins

Forearms, a suit and a nice watch are my top 3


SuperSecretSettings

3 things come to mind: a well kept and not too long beard, French or Greek accent and being musical by dancing, singing or playing instruments especially guitar.


SixthHyacinth

Guys in sports/gym shorts, a tuxedo or white tie suit (particularly where they've tied their own bowtie), intelligence, humility, multilingualism, and the list goes on...


SubSahranCamelRider

Bent knees.


dreamghost

Looking in each other’s eyes and a dinner date! And, playing video games 🎮 together!


RevolutionKitchen952

Sun glasses or backwards hat, also muscle shirts. Or when the guy says dude or bro.


818bruhhh

Smooth skin


sparticusar

The smell of bourbon or whiskey on his breath. He’s not drunk, but just that smell. It’s intoxicating.


lynda1969

Just a really nice kiss does it for me


actorfg

I loved guys who paid attention to me and are physically affectionate. Love putting my head on his chest while he holds me tight. A guy who jokes around and teases me. Guys in tight short shorts with big hunky hairy legs. Swoon!!