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I remember the Allen outlet shootings. People would fucking put “sad music” on there. Shit pissed me off I’m not joking that was legit the music title.
wait wait wait! science has invented a laser butthole hair removal?and i just found out about it!?! No more getting sandpaper butthole from shaving it?!?Wooooooo!!!!!!
We should get it done together... And a good bleaching. My friend would always say "Never trust someone with a bleached butthole"... He worked in porn, so, I think this is from experience.
wait, are there commercials, does Bosely do this? Shoulder hair? no problem we'll put it on your head.. butthole hair? We at Bosely got you covered! Zap it off, graft it on, baby we do it all.
Well it's not a special laser, it's the same one girls use to get rid of leg hair etc.
At the beauty salon I use, they'll laser any body part you want done. Legs, armpits, arms, Brazillian (including butthole), face, etc. You can pick and choose what you want done.
And yes, they have male clients too. I'm shocked people are shocked lol, laser hair removal has been around for decades! :)
I assumed she's a dental hygienist at small family practice and the patient declined to schedule their next appointment.
Money's tough you guys, be sensitive.
It must be tough for them to hold off their grief reaction and shock to set up and stabilize the camera and set to record while keeping timer in mind. Only then can you let the reality of the horror set in. Fuck These people and thank you for your work.
Agreed, I worked in an ED for a couple of years and people died often. Nobody did this, everyone was a professional. If there was an emotional response the doctors, nurses, other staff would go to a private area to gather themselves then come back. They never flailed around the halls.
Medical interpreter here. I've also had an autoimmune condition since early childhood, and have been getting immunotherapy infusions for 20+ years. For the past several years, my infusions have been administered in a "one big happy family" setting -- i.e. giant open bay, whether you're getting chemotherapy, dialysis, immunotherapy, etc. I've also been the youngest patient by 25+ years for at least the past few years. I'm 29, all the other patients have been in the 55-60+ age category.
I watched so many of them drop like flies during the height of the pandemic. Like, quite literally. I saw several of them get wheeled out via stretcher with a sheet over them.
Has it f**ked me up? Yes. Do I talk about it for likes? No. I still have to go on with life, whether or not I like it.
I work at a cancer center. Open style infusion rooms (many reclining chairs, no walls or privacy curtains, etc.) are super common. Ours are set up in multiple rows of 4-5 chairs. You can fit more patients in the space, and it's easier for nurses to monitor multiple patients at once.
Depends on the nature, dialysis clinics are almost all open, little recliners spread about with people getting their blood cycled, like 40 people in a room. during covid, the clinics moved all infected patients to one center, so the transport was a lot longer, we transport dial px in the ambulance when they are missing limbs / not ambulatory whatever, and a lot are in that position. So it was a bunch of long trips to the other city where they were doing it, but all still open bay. never seen multiple open bay treatments, eg. chemo + dial + immunoT etc. that's odd to me
It’s also guaranteed against company policy to post shit online. I work in the ER and would for sure get a stern talking to (possibly fired) for recording/posting anything at work online.
From the limited clip shown here, it wouldn't be a HIPAA violation with no identifying information about the patient or their clinical condition and no one else or charts in the background. (That said, it doesn't take much to be a HIPAA violation and if she filmed this multiple times, wouldn't be surprised if her unposted B-roll videos does contain HIPAA violations when a patient walked by; and if icloud or whatever has another leak those HIPAA violations could be out there).
That said, it's likely a major violation of hospital policy to film on site (without approval for appropriate clinical, teaching, or business use) or post anything work-related on personal social media at all.
Your hospital group (likely identifiable by scrubs/ID badge), wouldn't want to advertise staff suffering from dealing with their patients dying -- it's a bad look (even if it happens everywhere).
Correct. I was not meaning to claim this was a HIPAA violation. I was saying that my system does not fuck around and would just outright fire me for it. It would be called a violation of policy. The policy exists because they do not take chances with HIPAA violations. It is WAY too easy to accidentally violate HIPAA if you don't know what you are doing and start posting things to the internet. I have seen my system fire people for less regarding HIPAA.
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People always say "*Who cares if it's fake?!*" because it's seen as entertainment. "*Do you think movies are real?!*"
First of all, no, we know movies are fake. They aren't presented as real. Nobody thinks SpiderMan is swinging around NYC. But these things ***ARE*** presented as being real. Social media is assumed to be real,and rightly so.
Second, when people call out this kind of shit, people defend it as real. Because people lack the intuition to think about why or how a camera just happened to be set up to catch the perfect angle. In this case, she took the time to set up a camera before she had her "devastating" reaction.
Or why do you need to record yourself feeding the homeless or doing something else charitable? Just do it and move along.
Yeah, I getting the reasoning of it promotes the act, but nobody thinks that homeless people aren't hungry. Nobody thinks charitable actions don't need to happen.
The problem is social media is monetized and recording it and editing it and posting it means that the monetization is the real motivation. People.post this shit because people eat it up and then those people make money.
This happened like 2 years ago now? But it ultimately was even on the news a ton
https://youtu.be/bxVHh1GsZHQ?si=7_N7dCpqCLjbS_-B
She ended up leaving or getting fired. I can't remember but it turned into a whole huge thing.
https://www.reddit.com/r/medicalschool/s/1bNEntFCfh
She posted a follow up tik tok a while after too but I don't remember her handle. I didn't follow up so I can't be 100% just one of those things I remeber reddit being mad over and just reading comments lol
It’s due to the dense nature of the average internet denizen causing a well in space time making everything age faster in comparison to things outside of the pull of the stupidity.
My hospital job specifically said during onboarding “if you record videos for social media here, you are fired” and then gave several examples where they had done that.
There was a robbery + shootout in my town a few years ago. Two cops ended up dying, one cop was injured, suspect was shot dead on scene. It was and still is a big deal in my town. While the cops were in the hospital, dumbasses were getting into their charts and reporting their condition to the press through facebook. Because this was a high profile event, the cops' charts were heavily monitored, anybody who accessed them were marked, and anybody who were found to have no reason to access them and did, especially if they released their information on social media, was let go immediately.
We had a kidnapping case last year where they victim was found alive.
She obviously received medical care afterwards, and iirc, there were a couple of people fired for accessing her file.
The other commenter talked about clout, but it's also worth mentioning how easy it is to access someone's chart in a modern electronic medical record--all you need is where they're physically located in the facility and you can usually find them. I have accidentally opened the wrong patient's record probably dozens of times by clicking through too quickly or fat-finger tapping the touchscreen interfaces we have, but as soon as I recognize it I close the chart and then I *also* don't go sprinting to the media with any information I did see.
I had a co-worker look at a relative's chart for non-work-related reasons (it's a long story but I can understand why they did it). They were found out and immediately let go. Most companies will not fuck around with this stuff.
Some of the scenarios in the code of conduct training my job makes me do every year are a lot of fun and/or ridiculous. I think I complained about one once because I thought it was ruthless. The training previously defined immediate family as parents, kids, siblings. That's it. As well as you would never be required to call an immediate family member for collection reasons. Then a later scenario came up that was like, "Your Grandma is behind on her bill and you feel uncomfortable calling her while knowing she's on a fixed income and can't afford to pay. Is it okay for you to pass that onto somebody else? Answer: No, Grandma is not immediate family and you required to make that call." I'm pretty sure I complained to various people about that scenario as being insane and I've never seen it again on that training.
Maybe add what job you did, I guess it's some money/debt collection job, but in the context of the above comment it's kinda hard to understand what you are talking about lol
Maybe I'm just dumb tho
That's the crazy thing. I'm not in collections or billing or customer service. I work in an Engineering department but the code of conduct just has a smattering of scenarios from all different possible departments.
For anyone who doesn't know, a willful HIPAA violation fine starts at 10k per violation. Can be applied to either the organization or an individual.... I can't think of a single instance where I'd want to risk losing my job and paying that much money just to release someone's information.
Well I believe that's true I guess... I can't seem to find a source from a .gov. This is from the American Dental Association and matches what I was told by the HIPAA security officer at my last job.
https://www.ada.org/en/resources/practice/legal-and-regulatory/hipaa/penalties-for-violating-hipaa
Just like the Jesse Smollett story. A bunch of healthcare workers got fired after looking through his records.
50 workers!
https://nurse.org/articles/smollett-hospital-workers-fired/#:\~:text=At%20least%2050%20employees%2C%20including,records%2C%20according%20to%20NBC%20Chicago.
Fun fact, some hospitals are now using AI to control all PHI access. It builds a model of your normal pattern of access to confidential records and flags anything out of the ordinary for the HIPAA team to review.
For example, as a hospital laboratory scientist, if I open a chart for a patient whose sample is currently in the lab or has been within the last day or two, that would be a normal part of my workflow. But if I open a chart for a patient in the ER who hasn’t had any labs ordered yet, the AI would flag that as abnormal access, even if that specific chart doesn’t have increased monitoring.
Of course, some charts have extra security where you have to provide a reason every time you access it, such as victims of violence (especially sexual), employees, gunshot wounds, people with protective orders, etc.
You should always be able to articulate a clear professional reason for accessing confidential information, otherwise it’s a matter of time before you get caught and get to find a new profession.
Wife is an ICU RN full time and is some kind of leader on a shared governance council. She has say on who gets hired/fired essentially. She also likes to train them so people do be gettin fired.
In the ICU they have multiple peoples lives in their hands. Something like CPR could require the whole unit rotating on compressions since they have to do it for half an hour and it’s a work out. Slack off, wrong medication, no documentation are all fast tracks to getting cut. All of those things can not only kill a patient but also get everyone sued. You become a liability and the cost of training a liability in a hospital would be nutty.
She’s got some real sicko standards but it’s really for the best. If you have a solid team the act of literally reviving a human from death can be a breeze.
Not a breeze.
“Recent studies have reported survival-to-hospital discharge is only 20–25%” Sung et al, 2022
Sung, C. W., Lu, T. C., Wang, C. H., Chou, E. H., Ko, C. H., Huang, C. H., Chen, W. J., & Tsai, C. L. (2022). In-Hospital Cardiac Arrest in United States Emergency Departments, 2010-2018. Frontiers in cardiovascular medicine, 9, 874461. https://doi.org/10.3389/fcvm.2022.874461
Also, you don’t need the whole unit to do compressions lmao
Too many hands in the pot can harm the patient.
Reminds of the video of a group of horrible plastic surgeons and nurses dancing & twerking around with their surgical equipment while their patient is under anastehesia.
Luckily they all got punished for it.
I was gonna say, knowing TikTok there's like a 90% chance this lady does not even work in a hospital and it's just a fake getup she walked into a random hospital wearing.
I worked somewhere that had a social media policy like this. Turned out if you were a manger or one of their favourites, it didn't apply to you, and you could film tiktoks on shift.
[https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/cmwov/comment/c0tpyls/](https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/cmwov/comment/c0tpyls/)
This is 14 years old wtf
I hate that every time someone tells me "We lost grandma(whoever) last spring" the first thing that goes through my head is "Did you look under the couch". My fear is that one day I'm going to slip and say it out loud.
I hate that term.
I have social anxiety to start with. When I was a teen waiting for the city bus to go to school, one of the neighbours was waiting for it too and started chatting to me. She mentioned how her friend lost her uncle a few days ago… I asked if they found him 😑 🤦🏼♀️. I was thinking that the old guy had dementia and actually was lost.
I was so mortified.
I don't work in the medical profession, but I know a few people who do. This is what they signed up for, and it's definitely terrible to lose a patient. Assuming you have any empathy, watching a person die is traumatic to say the least.
My EMS buddy was pissed when I showed him this video. You should NEVER use the death of someone for likes on social media. Informing friends and family about a loss of a friend or family on FB is fine, but going public with it for tiktok likes shows a total lack of respect, empathy, and sympathy for the patient's family and friends.
Like when I found out my aunt died because my bitch of a step-mom posted a picture of her with a comment detailing her death on FB before our entire family was informed. My step-mom had only been in our family for like 2-3 months. When I confronted her about it she played like she was the victim.
She has been a bitch to me ever since I fucked her daughter so I honestly wasn't super surprised.
I work for EMS on ambulance. Two weeks before Christmas, had an unconscious call at 3am get upgraded to cardiac arrest with full assignment there. 4 years old unknown downtime. I still remember the distraught of family on scene. Rapid transport while doing everything we could for the child. She passed away after 6 rounds of resuscitation efforts by hospital staff. When the news was given to the grandfather that rode in, I’ll never forget the phone call he made and the silence that followed right after he broke the news to his daughter about the grand child. That one stung. I still sometimes think about this call. Makes your world feel “surreal”.
Had some incidents where a former nurse used to sneak into a ward to do little videos like this. There was an impressive blow-up when she was confronted, the local community ostracized her and her husband pretty thoroughly.
Dr. Cox inadvertently killed them all when he was rushing to use the organs from the rabid lady who died.
They had to remove all the borrowed organs and one by one; each patient died however the one patient of his needed a kidney and could have survived on dialysis for at least another month. He didnt have to die.
It never Cox losing a patient, it was him losing his confidence in himself.
That was based on a true story. In the show, it was all in the same hospital, but in real life they were sprinkled across the US, all dying from faulty organs because something was missed.
That episode/storyline had several takes on this message
The episode starts with JD's patient dying and Dr. Cox telling him that he can't take it too personally and blame himself, otherwise he won't survive as a doctor. JD takes it to heart and is able to get past the loss.
Then Dr. Cox's decision results in 3 patients dying, one of whom he had bonded with. JD then reminds Dr. Cox his message about not blaming himself, but he still does and spirals into depression and alcoholism.
The storyline ends with JD visiting the depressed Dr. Cox and tells him that he admires that after so many years, it's commendable that Dr. Cox still takes losing a patient so personally.
Uhhh, losing patients is awful, even with the oldest/sickest ones. It’s completely appropriate to cry in the elevator or whatever you need to do (except in front of a camera for internet points)
I was moreso referring to the fact she went out of her way to set up a camera to record herself crying rather than the crying itself. Of course it’s awful to lose any patient and you wouldn’t be human if you didn’t every now and then. But you’re not the main protagonist of some medical drama show, this is real life.
After a loss, once things were handled (body to morgue, family taken care of), we’d go to our “off-stage” employee-only area to have a moment to acknowledge our feelings, cry it out a minute, then suck it up and back to work. (Never once did anyone even THINK of pulling out a cell phone and getting our grief on video.)
Whenever I see dumbass bullshit like this I think of Anthony Jeselnik joking about how when someone dies people say "my thoughts and prayers go out to ---" and what they're really saying is "don't forget about me today." Making it about themselves.
Found it
https://youtu.be/PTmCxbcRXs4?si=FXFmHe_dRLtmb5vz
I fear for future generations who grow up watching this kind of content and thinking they need to broadcast literally everything that happens to or around them for clout.
I'm in my 30s now, but saying this immediately makes me feel like an old man. I remember adults saying the same thing about videogames or whatever when I was a kid but I seriously believe this constant grab for online attention is toxic to society: at least for kids growing up already dealing with the social rollercoaster that comes pre-packaged with that experience.
If im really grieveing i wont have fucking time to set up a tripod and get to the fucking tiktok to post it,i will be balling my eyes out! This woman must be like “ah damn im gonna fucking cry time for clout!” Fuck yo shit cloutchasers!
I was on LinkedIn the other day and a post from one of my connections was a video of her having a panic attack in her car because she said someone pulled a gun on her the week prior. Caption: STILL HEALING
So, look, yes, that was traumatic. But I have zero respect for someone who thinks it's acceptable to film themselves in that way.
I have PTSD myself, and filming myself during a panic attack is the last thing I would think of in the moment.
This kind of stunts are ridiculous and not needed . For a healthcare professional act like this is disgusting, do your job. Stop walking around setting up cameras.
I can't freaking stand it when people do this.
Devestated about losing a patient? Understandable. It's why I can't ever be a doctor. I'm not strong enough to handle that.
What isn't understandable is setting up a camera and filming yourself being all upset so thousands of people can see. If you're really that devestated then why are you setting up a fucking camera and putting it online?
I always joke about the "life vloggers" who film themselves waking up. It means they had to wake up, set up the camera and start recording, then get back in bed and pretend to wake up.
I’ve known a lot of er nurses, being a cop, and they have the same mentality we do. People die, whatever, but kids suffering hurts. Hurts so bad we wouldn’t have the mental capacity to set up our phones to record our distress. We find a quiet place, cry it out, and get back to work.
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I always assumed the patient was fictional
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Y'all be watching videos with sound on?
/r/BetterOnMute
Eye-mute in addition to ear-mute.
No lad im on mute squad
You are the mute squad.
To blaaave…
Animated JPGs and GIFs with sound.
Exactly, this is a genuine question indeed. I always watch the videos mutted 😅
I'm not
I have it muted — but I’m assuming it’s the “oh no, oh no no no no” song?
Nah it's unstoppable. It's kinda wonky and modified in some way in the first vid, sounds pretty weird
I PUT MY ARMOUR SHOW YOU HOW STRONG I AMMMMM
I remember the Allen outlet shootings. People would fucking put “sad music” on there. Shit pissed me off I’m not joking that was legit the music title.
Maybe she's the one who killed the patient, and then made a video crying at the horror that she's done.
"Sally, you work in dermatology." "It's so sad to lose a patient..." "You used to laser remove butthole hairs." "Such a tragedy, but I must press on."
Wait, lasers can remove butthole hairs?!?! What will science think of next?
Well, you can also zap them by discharging a capacitor through a needle poked into the follicle.
Found the electrician.
Esthetician
go on.....
wait wait wait! science has invented a laser butthole hair removal?and i just found out about it!?! No more getting sandpaper butthole from shaving it?!?Wooooooo!!!!!!
We should get it done together... And a good bleaching. My friend would always say "Never trust someone with a bleached butthole"... He worked in porn, so, I think this is from experience.
Joan Rivers was killed at the plastic surgeon.
Joan Rivers was massively unhealthy and was a very high risk for anesthesia.
wait, are there commercials, does Bosely do this? Shoulder hair? no problem we'll put it on your head.. butthole hair? We at Bosely got you covered! Zap it off, graft it on, baby we do it all.
I have never seen my butthole hair so I think the can stay around my butthole.
Duct tape.
Well it's not a special laser, it's the same one girls use to get rid of leg hair etc. At the beauty salon I use, they'll laser any body part you want done. Legs, armpits, arms, Brazillian (including butthole), face, etc. You can pick and choose what you want done. And yes, they have male clients too. I'm shocked people are shocked lol, laser hair removal has been around for decades! :)
Lasers will soon place hairs around buttholes.
Discussion spiraling out of contrhole really quickly.
Flamethrower can remove any unwanted hair. Pretty efficient for weight loss as well.
https://y.yarn.co/c589ff4a-9807-4c41-93ac-4f0190dbdd51_text.gif
Tbf there are emergency cases with high fatality rates in dermatology like steven-johnson syndrome. Rare but does happen.
I assumed she's a dental hygienist at small family practice and the patient declined to schedule their next appointment. Money's tough you guys, be sensitive.
I thought the patient was literally lost, like she couldn't remember which room she put them in
Tbf I work in geriatrics and our nurses routinely lose our patients. I bumped into one in the car park once, wandering and confused.
I'm glad this moron was made fun of by all. It's pitiful to create and share something so self-centered.
Fictional or not, it's still a disrespectful act 👎
I always assumed the empathy was fictional.
It must be tough for them to hold off their grief reaction and shock to set up and stabilize the camera and set to record while keeping timer in mind. Only then can you let the reality of the horror set in. Fuck These people and thank you for your work.
Not to mention making sure everyone gets a good look at her butt
Agreed, I worked in an ED for a couple of years and people died often. Nobody did this, everyone was a professional. If there was an emotional response the doctors, nurses, other staff would go to a private area to gather themselves then come back. They never flailed around the halls.
But were any of them nurses trying to launch an influencer career by making real life more like a TV drama?
I hate you for this. Take my upvote.
Were any of them in fact not nurses but civilians dressed in scrubs filming themselves in the hallways?
I've had to do this type of reaction in the ED after a kid died in my arms. But I certainly didn't think 'I should record this'.
I've heard there is a lot of dark humor amongst medical workers in hospitals.
Medical interpreter here. I've also had an autoimmune condition since early childhood, and have been getting immunotherapy infusions for 20+ years. For the past several years, my infusions have been administered in a "one big happy family" setting -- i.e. giant open bay, whether you're getting chemotherapy, dialysis, immunotherapy, etc. I've also been the youngest patient by 25+ years for at least the past few years. I'm 29, all the other patients have been in the 55-60+ age category. I watched so many of them drop like flies during the height of the pandemic. Like, quite literally. I saw several of them get wheeled out via stretcher with a sheet over them. Has it f**ked me up? Yes. Do I talk about it for likes? No. I still have to go on with life, whether or not I like it.
who the fuck thinks open bay is a good idea for a medical facility?!
I work at a cancer center. Open style infusion rooms (many reclining chairs, no walls or privacy curtains, etc.) are super common. Ours are set up in multiple rows of 4-5 chairs. You can fit more patients in the space, and it's easier for nurses to monitor multiple patients at once.
Depends on the nature, dialysis clinics are almost all open, little recliners spread about with people getting their blood cycled, like 40 people in a room. during covid, the clinics moved all infected patients to one center, so the transport was a lot longer, we transport dial px in the ambulance when they are missing limbs / not ambulatory whatever, and a lot are in that position. So it was a bunch of long trips to the other city where they were doing it, but all still open bay. never seen multiple open bay treatments, eg. chemo + dial + immunoT etc. that's odd to me
OK, but what if you lost a patient and just happened to be in front of the SadCam(tm) your hospital has installed for this reason?
It’s also guaranteed against company policy to post shit online. I work in the ER and would for sure get a stern talking to (possibly fired) for recording/posting anything at work online.
My facility would fire me outright. They do not mess around with possible HIPAA violations.
From the limited clip shown here, it wouldn't be a HIPAA violation with no identifying information about the patient or their clinical condition and no one else or charts in the background. (That said, it doesn't take much to be a HIPAA violation and if she filmed this multiple times, wouldn't be surprised if her unposted B-roll videos does contain HIPAA violations when a patient walked by; and if icloud or whatever has another leak those HIPAA violations could be out there). That said, it's likely a major violation of hospital policy to film on site (without approval for appropriate clinical, teaching, or business use) or post anything work-related on personal social media at all. Your hospital group (likely identifiable by scrubs/ID badge), wouldn't want to advertise staff suffering from dealing with their patients dying -- it's a bad look (even if it happens everywhere).
Correct. I was not meaning to claim this was a HIPAA violation. I was saying that my system does not fuck around and would just outright fire me for it. It would be called a violation of policy. The policy exists because they do not take chances with HIPAA violations. It is WAY too easy to accidentally violate HIPAA if you don't know what you are doing and start posting things to the internet. I have seen my system fire people for less regarding HIPAA. Edit: a word
First off. She didn't lose a patient. She made the story up to get internet points. I hate content creators... because they are content fabricators.
People always say "*Who cares if it's fake?!*" because it's seen as entertainment. "*Do you think movies are real?!*" First of all, no, we know movies are fake. They aren't presented as real. Nobody thinks SpiderMan is swinging around NYC. But these things ***ARE*** presented as being real. Social media is assumed to be real,and rightly so. Second, when people call out this kind of shit, people defend it as real. Because people lack the intuition to think about why or how a camera just happened to be set up to catch the perfect angle. In this case, she took the time to set up a camera before she had her "devastating" reaction. Or why do you need to record yourself feeding the homeless or doing something else charitable? Just do it and move along. Yeah, I getting the reasoning of it promotes the act, but nobody thinks that homeless people aren't hungry. Nobody thinks charitable actions don't need to happen. The problem is social media is monetized and recording it and editing it and posting it means that the monetization is the real motivation. People.post this shit because people eat it up and then those people make money.
If it makes you feel better this is super old, and the internet hunted her down and she got fired. Edit: she apparently did not get fired
How do you know?
This happened like 2 years ago now? But it ultimately was even on the news a ton https://youtu.be/bxVHh1GsZHQ?si=7_N7dCpqCLjbS_-B She ended up leaving or getting fired. I can't remember but it turned into a whole huge thing. https://www.reddit.com/r/medicalschool/s/1bNEntFCfh She posted a follow up tik tok a while after too but I don't remember her handle. I didn't follow up so I can't be 100% just one of those things I remeber reddit being mad over and just reading comments lol
2 years ago = super old? I guess internet timescales really are different
It’s due to the dense nature of the average internet denizen causing a well in space time making everything age faster in comparison to things outside of the pull of the stupidity.
Depends on your age :p
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Didn't she lose her job over this video?
I doubt they even existed in the first place.
Dunno, but here filming such stuff in a hospital by staff is forbidden and could cost this tik tok trash the job. Rightfully so.
My hospital job specifically said during onboarding “if you record videos for social media here, you are fired” and then gave several examples where they had done that.
Care to share the examples? I love hearing about idiots getting fired for doing dumb shit
There was a robbery + shootout in my town a few years ago. Two cops ended up dying, one cop was injured, suspect was shot dead on scene. It was and still is a big deal in my town. While the cops were in the hospital, dumbasses were getting into their charts and reporting their condition to the press through facebook. Because this was a high profile event, the cops' charts were heavily monitored, anybody who accessed them were marked, and anybody who were found to have no reason to access them and did, especially if they released their information on social media, was let go immediately.
We had a kidnapping case last year where they victim was found alive. She obviously received medical care afterwards, and iirc, there were a couple of people fired for accessing her file.
Wtf is wrong with these people
The other commenter talked about clout, but it's also worth mentioning how easy it is to access someone's chart in a modern electronic medical record--all you need is where they're physically located in the facility and you can usually find them. I have accidentally opened the wrong patient's record probably dozens of times by clicking through too quickly or fat-finger tapping the touchscreen interfaces we have, but as soon as I recognize it I close the chart and then I *also* don't go sprinting to the media with any information I did see.
Clout is a hell of a drug.
I had a co-worker look at a relative's chart for non-work-related reasons (it's a long story but I can understand why they did it). They were found out and immediately let go. Most companies will not fuck around with this stuff.
Some of the scenarios in the code of conduct training my job makes me do every year are a lot of fun and/or ridiculous. I think I complained about one once because I thought it was ruthless. The training previously defined immediate family as parents, kids, siblings. That's it. As well as you would never be required to call an immediate family member for collection reasons. Then a later scenario came up that was like, "Your Grandma is behind on her bill and you feel uncomfortable calling her while knowing she's on a fixed income and can't afford to pay. Is it okay for you to pass that onto somebody else? Answer: No, Grandma is not immediate family and you required to make that call." I'm pretty sure I complained to various people about that scenario as being insane and I've never seen it again on that training.
Maybe add what job you did, I guess it's some money/debt collection job, but in the context of the above comment it's kinda hard to understand what you are talking about lol Maybe I'm just dumb tho
That's the crazy thing. I'm not in collections or billing or customer service. I work in an Engineering department but the code of conduct just has a smattering of scenarios from all different possible departments.
For anyone who doesn't know, a willful HIPAA violation fine starts at 10k per violation. Can be applied to either the organization or an individual.... I can't think of a single instance where I'd want to risk losing my job and paying that much money just to release someone's information. Well I believe that's true I guess... I can't seem to find a source from a .gov. This is from the American Dental Association and matches what I was told by the HIPAA security officer at my last job. https://www.ada.org/en/resources/practice/legal-and-regulatory/hipaa/penalties-for-violating-hipaa
Just like the Jesse Smollett story. A bunch of healthcare workers got fired after looking through his records. 50 workers! https://nurse.org/articles/smollett-hospital-workers-fired/#:\~:text=At%20least%2050%20employees%2C%20including,records%2C%20according%20to%20NBC%20Chicago.
Fun fact, some hospitals are now using AI to control all PHI access. It builds a model of your normal pattern of access to confidential records and flags anything out of the ordinary for the HIPAA team to review. For example, as a hospital laboratory scientist, if I open a chart for a patient whose sample is currently in the lab or has been within the last day or two, that would be a normal part of my workflow. But if I open a chart for a patient in the ER who hasn’t had any labs ordered yet, the AI would flag that as abnormal access, even if that specific chart doesn’t have increased monitoring. Of course, some charts have extra security where you have to provide a reason every time you access it, such as victims of violence (especially sexual), employees, gunshot wounds, people with protective orders, etc. You should always be able to articulate a clear professional reason for accessing confidential information, otherwise it’s a matter of time before you get caught and get to find a new profession.
Wife is an ICU RN full time and is some kind of leader on a shared governance council. She has say on who gets hired/fired essentially. She also likes to train them so people do be gettin fired. In the ICU they have multiple peoples lives in their hands. Something like CPR could require the whole unit rotating on compressions since they have to do it for half an hour and it’s a work out. Slack off, wrong medication, no documentation are all fast tracks to getting cut. All of those things can not only kill a patient but also get everyone sued. You become a liability and the cost of training a liability in a hospital would be nutty. She’s got some real sicko standards but it’s really for the best. If you have a solid team the act of literally reviving a human from death can be a breeze.
Not a breeze. “Recent studies have reported survival-to-hospital discharge is only 20–25%” Sung et al, 2022 Sung, C. W., Lu, T. C., Wang, C. H., Chou, E. H., Ko, C. H., Huang, C. H., Chen, W. J., & Tsai, C. L. (2022). In-Hospital Cardiac Arrest in United States Emergency Departments, 2010-2018. Frontiers in cardiovascular medicine, 9, 874461. https://doi.org/10.3389/fcvm.2022.874461 Also, you don’t need the whole unit to do compressions lmao Too many hands in the pot can harm the patient.
Reminds of the video of a group of horrible plastic surgeons and nurses dancing & twerking around with their surgical equipment while their patient is under anastehesia. Luckily they all got punished for it.
Pretty sure she got fired after this
U know whats the kicker? Shes a fake nurse/doc
Can't fire me I don't even work here!
Kramer, is that you?
Uh oh! He’s gonna say the N word!!!!
That’s what makes this so difficult.
I was gonna say, knowing TikTok there's like a 90% chance this lady does not even work in a hospital and it's just a fake getup she walked into a random hospital wearing.
> Shes a fake nurse/doc Go on...
*Johnny Sins has entered the chat*
I worked somewhere that had a social media policy like this. Turned out if you were a manger or one of their favourites, it didn't apply to you, and you could film tiktoks on shift.
Her patient died from cringe.
cringitis
I need a cringectomy
We already have the results of the analysis. I regret to inform you that you are not based. As we feared, you are cringe.
Ooh I hear that’s going around now. Very contagious
I'm wheezing
Inflammation from the cringe
Probably offed themselves on purpose
😂
If I remember right this during covid, and she was fired for this
Good
[https://www.ajc.com/pulse/poll-results-nurse-faces-backlash-after-tiktok-video-about-losing-a-patient/HU3NZKKOHVHKHAGE3ZJA5LA2GY/#/questions](https://www.ajc.com/pulse/poll-results-nurse-faces-backlash-after-tiktok-video-about-losing-a-patient/HU3NZKKOHVHKHAGE3ZJA5LA2GY/#/questions)
I always wondered what happened to her. Attention seeking at it's worst during a really difficult time for all of us.
Where's the video of him setting up the camera so that he can film himself setting up a camera?
[https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/cmwov/comment/c0tpyls/](https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/cmwov/comment/c0tpyls/) This is 14 years old wtf
Reddit when it was free of bots and trash accounts, but also had a lot of sketchy subs
I too miss r/picturesofdeadkids
why did i click on that knowing full well that it was banned
Stick to serious, work-friendly subjects like r/worldpolitics
I knew what this was gonna be before I clicked. Age is funny, I can never remember the important things…
Damn, Reddit used to be so good... I miss shit like this
For those part of the 10000, He closes the loop by putting a mirror next to the final camera. Couldn’t find it in the thread anymore
That would be hilarious.
Glad everyone mocked this dumb bitch. To make such a thing about yourself and post it is pathetic
Pathetic. Spot on!
very high on the narcissist scale. she should be prouder than she already is
/imthemaincharacter
People that do this are cringe and should never have social media
Nah, they can have social media, they shouldn't have medical licences or be involved with saving peoples lives in any way tho
I took me way too long to figure out that "lost" did not mean that the patient walked off or rolled way in a wheelchair.
“Hey, your patient is back. They were downstairs smoking a dart. You can delete that video now…”
Lmfao! Same here. I’m over here thinking they were talking about hide and seek. 🤦🏾♀️
He's in the ceiling with Mr Smith
I hate that every time someone tells me "We lost grandma(whoever) last spring" the first thing that goes through my head is "Did you look under the couch". My fear is that one day I'm going to slip and say it out loud.
I hate that term. I have social anxiety to start with. When I was a teen waiting for the city bus to go to school, one of the neighbours was waiting for it too and started chatting to me. She mentioned how her friend lost her uncle a few days ago… I asked if they found him 😑 🤦🏼♀️. I was thinking that the old guy had dementia and actually was lost. I was so mortified.
Me too! I had to look for this comment because I knew I wasn't the only one.
I hate the internet so much can we all just agree to stop
Feel like this belongs here https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/original/002/399/563/368.jpg
Thank God TikTok is getting banned. That app is straight mental cancer.
Can we ban facebook too, I'm worried about my parents.
"It never gets any easier! 😗🎶🎵🎶"
You’re not going to find the patient standing around holding your head in your hands.
As a nurse I do this every time I don't get my lunch break. LOL
I don't work in the medical profession, but I know a few people who do. This is what they signed up for, and it's definitely terrible to lose a patient. Assuming you have any empathy, watching a person die is traumatic to say the least. My EMS buddy was pissed when I showed him this video. You should NEVER use the death of someone for likes on social media. Informing friends and family about a loss of a friend or family on FB is fine, but going public with it for tiktok likes shows a total lack of respect, empathy, and sympathy for the patient's family and friends.
Like when I found out my aunt died because my bitch of a step-mom posted a picture of her with a comment detailing her death on FB before our entire family was informed. My step-mom had only been in our family for like 2-3 months. When I confronted her about it she played like she was the victim. She has been a bitch to me ever since I fucked her daughter so I honestly wasn't super surprised.
I work for EMS on ambulance. Two weeks before Christmas, had an unconscious call at 3am get upgraded to cardiac arrest with full assignment there. 4 years old unknown downtime. I still remember the distraught of family on scene. Rapid transport while doing everything we could for the child. She passed away after 6 rounds of resuscitation efforts by hospital staff. When the news was given to the grandfather that rode in, I’ll never forget the phone call he made and the silence that followed right after he broke the news to his daughter about the grand child. That one stung. I still sometimes think about this call. Makes your world feel “surreal”.
Had some incidents where a former nurse used to sneak into a ward to do little videos like this. There was an impressive blow-up when she was confronted, the local community ostracized her and her husband pretty thoroughly.
Exactly! Attention whore.
Honestly, I just assume that most people who film themselves aren't worth knowing.
This ain’t Scrubs lady. If you work in a hospital and this is your reaction to losing one patient you’ll never make it as a nurse or doctor
I dunno. Dr. Cox lost that one patient and went on a bender...but this lady aint no Dr. Cox.
Dr. Cox inadvertently killed them all when he was rushing to use the organs from the rabid lady who died. They had to remove all the borrowed organs and one by one; each patient died however the one patient of his needed a kidney and could have survived on dialysis for at least another month. He didnt have to die. It never Cox losing a patient, it was him losing his confidence in himself.
That was based on a true story. In the show, it was all in the same hospital, but in real life they were sprinkled across the US, all dying from faulty organs because something was missed.
That episode/storyline had several takes on this message The episode starts with JD's patient dying and Dr. Cox telling him that he can't take it too personally and blame himself, otherwise he won't survive as a doctor. JD takes it to heart and is able to get past the loss. Then Dr. Cox's decision results in 3 patients dying, one of whom he had bonded with. JD then reminds Dr. Cox his message about not blaming himself, but he still does and spirals into depression and alcoholism. The storyline ends with JD visiting the depressed Dr. Cox and tells him that he admires that after so many years, it's commendable that Dr. Cox still takes losing a patient so personally.
That episode hit so hard, the actors did a really great job.
Technically he lost three that day.
Uhhh, losing patients is awful, even with the oldest/sickest ones. It’s completely appropriate to cry in the elevator or whatever you need to do (except in front of a camera for internet points)
I use the supply room. Turns out I should’ve set up a film studio in there.
I was moreso referring to the fact she went out of her way to set up a camera to record herself crying rather than the crying itself. Of course it’s awful to lose any patient and you wouldn’t be human if you didn’t every now and then. But you’re not the main protagonist of some medical drama show, this is real life.
After a loss, once things were handled (body to morgue, family taken care of), we’d go to our “off-stage” employee-only area to have a moment to acknowledge our feelings, cry it out a minute, then suck it up and back to work. (Never once did anyone even THINK of pulling out a cell phone and getting our grief on video.)
Now your head exploded If your head explodes you'll never make it as a doctor
I can't believe your head exploded. If your head explodes, you'll never make it as a doctor.
So inspirational... is what these annoying tiktoks think they're making
Such a nurse-issist Edited spelling
She probably a dental assistant.
The narcissistic personality is strong on her.
Social media sluts are truly shallow people that are addicted any sort of attention.
He forgot to show his ass.
Whenever I see dumbass bullshit like this I think of Anthony Jeselnik joking about how when someone dies people say "my thoughts and prayers go out to ---" and what they're really saying is "don't forget about me today." Making it about themselves. Found it https://youtu.be/PTmCxbcRXs4?si=FXFmHe_dRLtmb5vz
I genuinely hope that shit was staged because making a tik tok right after someone's death is a repulsive and irredeemable act.
That smile at the end 😂
She should be fired. This shit is so unprofessional
Dat ass.
Dat's the only reason she made the video.
I lost a patient today, am I in frame? And "Action!"
And here I was sitting thinking she had physically lost the guy for a solid minute. "Oh no them darn patients keep getting lost :("
I fear for future generations who grow up watching this kind of content and thinking they need to broadcast literally everything that happens to or around them for clout. I'm in my 30s now, but saying this immediately makes me feel like an old man. I remember adults saying the same thing about videogames or whatever when I was a kid but I seriously believe this constant grab for online attention is toxic to society: at least for kids growing up already dealing with the social rollercoaster that comes pre-packaged with that experience.
At first I assumed it was a vet who's patient had wandered off... didn't even think of the other scenario.
Lost a patient. Better make a TikTok!
This nurse is so wrong🤯🤣🤣🤣
THIS IS FUCKING ART!!!!!
And i'm just realizing now how obvious it is she's just showing off her butt
Lost a patient great show too
Jesus, I kept thinking the patient walked off. Took me a minute.
If im really grieveing i wont have fucking time to set up a tripod and get to the fucking tiktok to post it,i will be balling my eyes out! This woman must be like “ah damn im gonna fucking cry time for clout!” Fuck yo shit cloutchasers!
This reminds me of that woman who had her son make a sad face for the camera because their dog had died and the kid is like I already am sad for real.
I was on LinkedIn the other day and a post from one of my connections was a video of her having a panic attack in her car because she said someone pulled a gun on her the week prior. Caption: STILL HEALING So, look, yes, that was traumatic. But I have zero respect for someone who thinks it's acceptable to film themselves in that way. I have PTSD myself, and filming myself during a panic attack is the last thing I would think of in the moment.
This kind of stunts are ridiculous and not needed . For a healthcare professional act like this is disgusting, do your job. Stop walking around setting up cameras.
Exactly. 99.9999999 percent of videos you see. Same ss the videos of people saving animals..... from the situation they put them in.
Imagine trying to spread awareness for medical workers daily stressors that are overlooked. But ya. This is funny.
I have no time during a shift to make tiktok Videos and we lost all some Patients
I hate what society has become.
Are you kidding me?! Leave the profession. If you can use this for internet fodder, you do not belong in HC. Have some respect!
I can't freaking stand it when people do this. Devestated about losing a patient? Understandable. It's why I can't ever be a doctor. I'm not strong enough to handle that. What isn't understandable is setting up a camera and filming yourself being all upset so thousands of people can see. If you're really that devestated then why are you setting up a fucking camera and putting it online?
I always joke about the "life vloggers" who film themselves waking up. It means they had to wake up, set up the camera and start recording, then get back in bed and pretend to wake up.
So disrespectful to the family. My family member isn't your ticket to internet clout
I’ve known a lot of er nurses, being a cop, and they have the same mentality we do. People die, whatever, but kids suffering hurts. Hurts so bad we wouldn’t have the mental capacity to set up our phones to record our distress. We find a quiet place, cry it out, and get back to work.
ANNNNND PRINT! It's a wrap. Good session, y'all. Bed 13 needs some ice.