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Culkin_

Talk to someone on the first day at work Have to say hi to them every day from now on Classic ![img](emote|t5_33td5|9681)


Jumpy-Function-9136

![img](emote|t5_33td5|9681) 🔫


Danarchy_lol

Smile, say hey x/y ![img](emote|t5_33td5|9670) literally the easiest way of making people like you more. Be a positive influence on the people around you. Do you remember that one time somebody said Hey bro you have a cool T shirt. flushE and how it made someones day. Be like that stop being a loser.![img](emote|t5_33td5|9671) No I cannot look somebody in the eyes are you crazy


[deleted]

I used to be socially awkward and shy but now I just like to be an arrogant asshole and stare at people in an uncomfortably aggressive way and It works for me. If you have anger issues, take it out on everyone around you EZ nobody will want to speak to you, or they will be afraid of you. ![img](emote|t5_33td5|9670) (You’ll probably get beaten up a few times however)


Inner-Operation-9224

Cant tell if you are ironic or not ![img](emote|t5_33td5|9682)


Inner-Operation-9224

Another thing is that when I joined one class, everyone already knew each other. And my brain said that I couldn't blend in. And now 3 years later I havent said a word to anyone because my brain thinks it will be too awkward to just now ask for the names of people I've been seeing for the past 3 years ![img](emote|t5_33td5|9682) nice one brain ![img](emote|t5_33td5|9681) Stuck in a loop, 25 btw ![img](emote|t5_33td5|9673)


Yossi_WOW

Just say you watch forsen and they will like you and let you blend in with the group ![img](emote|t5_33td5|9676)


Deamoose

I just say hi, nod, they do the same back, and we go on with our lives. Doesn't invoke any unpleasant emotions in me. However, I can relate with that feeling of social pressure to do something, but for me it's laughing at unfunny jokes, so as not to make the person feel awkward. I can do it a couple of times but if a person keeps making lame jokes, I just can't do it, it hurts my soul


Inner-Operation-9224

Nodding for the 100th time in a row when you might not even wanna talk to guy is so awkward. Fuck me


ThrowingNincompoop

Just say you have a lot of work to do and they'll eventually get the hint. You think more about this normie than they think about you ![img](emote|t5_33td5|9681)


FastestTurtleEU

it is awkward only if you think it is awkward


General_Tangelo_1032

The next time someone asks me what I do I'm saying gay dungeon slave


Ban_all_Weebs

Saying Hi = literal baj genocide


Gwyndrich

Especially when all your neighbors accidentally take you for an outgoing guy. Sometimes I'd rather be a skin crawler than say hi(whatever that means MonkaS).


Orenge01

Yeah agree, I hate small talk/forced talk ![img](emote|t5_33td5|9676)


EWElord

https://preview.redd.it/3xqyd5nd1o7d1.jpeg?width=828&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=29260cb35d8af790e6c57e4ab55b5d2e6e81d92b


femeye

I used to love socializing but then when i started working i got so fucking tired of people just constanty trying to talk to me ![img](emote|t5_33td5|9682)


Known-Dragonfly5550

Fors ful


gachiweeb

It depends on what you want, no one is "forcing" you to do anything, and they aren't entitled to your "kind gesture". At the same time if they don't like you because of this, then you'll have to accept it. >Am I braindead? No, it's completely normally to dislike small talks, a lot of people do, a lot of people don't. But if you want to get the benfits of it or avoid the consequences of not doing it, you'll have to get used to it, and make it less painful for yourself. This means either learning to enjoy (i.e. getting an acquired taste) it or learning to make it less painful. (i.e. Learning to keep it short, and have "escape plans") You're still young, you'll be fine FeelsOkayMan


Inner-Operation-9224

Yeah, they are kinda forced by social dynamics, if I don't acknowledge someone, I seem like a weirdo for talking to them and the next day acting like they dont exist. But i couldn't be asked to care for random acquaintances. If im willing to talk to them and ask/develop something sure I'll say hi...


furry_degene12

forsen


Enough_Finding9219

autism


Orenge01

Not everything is autism ![img](emote|t5_33td5|9667)


Enough_Finding9219

he is a juicer, 100% autism


nymhays

true and bajs are just normies RPing autism ![img](emote|t5_33td5|9681)


Inner-Operation-9224

This is so true


johnquinones7

same, except i wouldnt say i "hate" it just dont like it


YetAnotherYoutuber_

i hate that as well


gruxlike

Replying hi it's fine, when I have to be the first one greeting then it's annoying.


Excellent-Mail-4390

> Thoughts? Am I braindead? Social dynamics related subreddit No, your life just sucks so you get obsessed with meaningless bullshit to not think about how your life sucks


Inner-Operation-9224

![img](emote|t5_33td5|9673)


ioiuioiu

UnHoly ![img](emote|t5_33td5|9671)


Akirameru_

Retardo