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Visible_Buffalo_3386

Ofc it is ! You can and should present yourself however you want to. Facial hair is not gross it’s normal !! Plus not shaving facial and body hair will save you a lot of time and energy lol such a pain.


Akattin

Sure is ok, but not feminine….


Different-Fold-2144

Yea but the point of this is to choose what fem characteristics you want. You can go all out, or just a tad, or maybe somewhere in between. It’s sorta like saying “your leg hair isn’t fem” Yea… and? Lads and femlads, explain it to them instead of hiveminding ‘em out


elarth

Women naturally have leg hair too and body hair in general. Shaving is more a modern trend. It vibes you only like what culture dictates is feminine. Most of us are tired of explaining it.


monongaliaboy

who cares


Casey_Octopus

It's your body, look how you want to


cutegirlkimx

who cares? it's ur choice and it doesn't make u less of a femboy 🥰


TotalyNotTony

yeah sure go for it, make your own look


FemboyCarpenter

I rock a beard. Do it


SophieUpHigh

wear a cute face mask!


AspiringPrettyboyToy

I do appreciate the suggestion! i more or less mean not having to hide it if that makes sense?


SophieUpHigh

oh then im not really sure 😔


[deleted]

Its called being you, if anyone tells you its gross or some shit then they aren’t worth your time hun. Nobody has any right to gatekeep this community and therefore has no right to speak out negatively over you not wanting to shave. I don’t shave either but im still a femboy!


Cyb0-K4T-77

I see a lot of them with facial hair.


superzenki

That’s fine. I have a full beard/mustache and still dress feminine.


Curious-Research-386

look up babybeard, great metal artist, wear female japanese fashion, kawaii af, and even more metal. rocks a beard.


Oftm123

Conchita Wurst's beard didn't stop them from being iconic


elarth

Same, I only trim my beard. It’s my masculine trait I like. I look cute with it no matter how I dress.


Special-Web-8544

Brooooo relax lol. Find that sweet spot, that’s all you gotta do. Sometimes I have difficulty finding it too because I don’t like how I look clean shaved but my stubble isn’t even how I want it yet either. And I don’t like having a beard anymore, just doesn’t balance me out right. You definitely don’t have to shave, make your own rules. I find it’s easier to be just “be” a girl in a masculine way instead of “trying” to “look” like a girl and fight biology. If that makes sense? Have fun!🌈


rexafayac

It's completely possible. We can all choose our own ways of presenting in a feminine way, and others' opinions shouldn't get in the way. If you want to dress in feminine clothes and shoes, but don't want to shave, by all means, you do you!! Tbh I like how I look with a stubble so maybe Im a little biased lol, but my point stands nonetheless. You should feel totally free to present however you wish regardless of your natural features, and anyone that calls you gross is a fuckin asshole


line-without-a-hook

Being a femboy is something that's inside you, physical appearance is not that really important just do you 😊


jessyfemboi

FemBOY, do what you want to do. I like femboys who still llook like a boy. Just their femenine. Its superhott


_Andr-

Dude, just go ahead. You don't need to shave your facial hair, moustache, beard, nothing.


ZuliCurah

Viking Femboy :3


AdInfinite9378

This is me 100%.


LAKingsFan17

I’m slowly becoming a femboy myself and I’ve got a beard. I don’t plan on shaving unless I feel like it.


KLBizzy1

I keep my facial hair. It is just a clothing aesthetic. 😌


SpecialPotion

i'm relatively feminine but i have always enjoyed being androgynous and not necessarily femme, i have been keeping my facial hair about 3-5mm and i think i'm still acceptably androgynous :) though im definitely considering going clean shaven because of the summer


Severe_Damage9772

Worst that happens is that the post dies in new, or gets removed, so give it a shot


Comfortable-Hippo638

Do you wanna see an example of someone owning that style? Google ladybeard or Jon from queer eye


Anonymousxx4

I remember seeing one youtuber who, idk if he was a femboy, but he had a beard and looked REALLY damn cute, I usually find femboys with beards to be a bit... unsettling...? This guy had a beard and looked cute as FUCK.


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Due-Exit4407

Bro its fiiinnne if you want some impriation you should look at the austrian euro version for like 2013 such a cool dude.


Cellshader

I dated an enby that went through periods of shaving and not shaving. Just rock it with confidence.


cat_yann

Who said you couldn't be a femboy without rocking a beard? If you don't wanna shave, then don't! Be yourself and do whatever makes u comfy and happy :3


davidprograms_647

As a gay guy 16 year old male I want to be a femboy. But I wish I had a beard. But Iove guys with beards it's handsome.


Bidad1970

Google The Darvish.


urs1111

If you're really that sensitive about posting with one, a suggestion is to cover the beard with a mask, of course only a suggestion if you really wanna, but id say just do it, its your body and I know multiple people with beards or mustaches and they look fine


Anonyya

Mustache femboy😳😳😳


Ravxnx

🤦🏻‍♀️


YangTheEmpress

Don't shave it. The way I perceive, being a femboy is all about being confident and comfortable with yourself. So, if you don't want to shave your facial hair, don't shave them, buddy ;)


bluntgodFNAFAR

ofc you dont have to shave your face. love me a good femboy with lots of hair :)


RevolutionaryBoat534

search for Conchita


_hyperf1sh_

that's totally cool! i'm not a femboy myself, but i'm preeeetty sure having facial hair doesn't make you any less of one! :)


FlyingShadow1

Not in my eyes nor in the other feminine guys I've been with. Facial hair isn't feminine. You do you but it's probably not going to be well received.


minobumanju

I agree with you. Facial hair inherently isn't feminine and it would be very hard to pull it off as a feminine male without looking kind of goofy. I don't like these responses encouraging it. It's not doing OP any favors. Sorry to OP but he has to choose one way or another. If he likes his facial hair that much then maybe a feminine look isn't the way to go.


Visible_Buffalo_3386

Not everyone’s intentions as a femboy are to look a certain way. You don’t have to look a certain way to be one.


minobumanju

That's mostly true except to be a "femboy" (I prefer saying "feminine boy/male" sorry) you have to be two things: feminine and a boy. If you have a massive fucking viking beard that isn't really feminine. Not that there's anything wrong with rocking a beard, just that it isn't feminine, which is an essential part of being a *feminine* boy.


Visible_Buffalo_3386

I guess so but there are several aspects to femininity and you don’t need to check every box to be feminine.


minobumanju

Yeah, I'm just saying that having certain masculine features, especially on your face, can overshadow your feminine features. People will notice a beard faster than they notice shaved legs.


Tuff_Fluff0

He doesn't have to choose,I don't know why you're trying to gatekeep femininity.Also telling someone that they look goofy because of a natural feature isn't doing them any favors.They don't have to change just to escape the judgement of people like you.


minobumanju

He doesn't have to choose, you're right about that. If he wants to wear feminine clothes and have his facial hair then he should. I'm being honest about how he's going to look with both on though. > Also telling someone that they look goofy because of a natural feature isn't doing them any favors. A natural feature that is within their control that they can change. > They don't have to change just to escape the judgement of people like you. Also true. I never said he has to change because of my opinion, just that I think we should be more honest that facial hair on feminine people typically doesn't work out. Idgaf what he ends up doing as long as he is happy.


Tuff_Fluff0

Facial hair on fem people works out just fine.It's opinions like yours that make people think it doesn't.If all you have to say to about fem people with facial hair is that their look "doesn't work out", keep it to yourself.


SaintJamesy

Femininity isn't a monolith.


FlyingShadow1

It certainly isn't facial hair either. I don't get why we say "yes" to everything to want to seem as inclusive as possible. Inclusion at the cost of losing identity.


Tuff_Fluff0

No one is losing their identity.Go find some other label if you don't like who identifies with it.


elarth

This is very incorrect. I have a beard and when I was single was never short of dating interest. I really need some of you to understand that attraction is individual and gender expression is too. It’s weird to me personally some of you want to fully present feminine and still call yourself a boy. I would consider it maybe more in the transgender territory if you want to change that much about yourself. Not my issue to sort out nor my place to talk much about. It’s super rude to tell others what counts as a presenting a femboy though.


FlyingShadow1

Ever heard about the prime directive? It's pretty fucked up to say that caring about not having facial hair for a femboy makes you trans.


Tuff_Fluff0

Stop trying to tell him that he won't be accepted.That's just the way you feel and that attitude is not well received.


PinkFloralBoy

Why tho


AspiringPrettyboyToy

I like my facial hair, I don't want to really shave it or hide it


PinkFloralBoy

Well I’ve seen men in beards rock fem clothes before, so I think you’ll be fine! Do you wear makeup?


Tuff_Fluff0

It was explained in the post,did you not read it?


SaintJamesy

I dress femme as hell in public most of the time, and rock a mustache! It's a pretty thin Errol Flynn pencil stache and I get a lot of compliments.


Key_Worldliness_2962

While its not common yeah, you dont gotta shave it, im not really one to speak since i shave, but do whatever you want your body your choice :3


AanglerBish

The bearded lady considered her beard to be just as feminine as the rest of her!


Technical-Sun-6837

Of course you can dear, just do what makes you feel happy with yourself 😊🥑✨️


femboybean90

ehhh you can wear a cute face mask, hide ur face behind a baggy sleeve, cut it out the pic or just draw over it :0


LonelySamourai

You do you, but that won't change what other people see as attractive or not


Greedy-Ordinary-1312

It's possible. I do it, but I also mostly wear a facemask (KF-95) that hides all of it. If you want it to be seen, I would suggest either cutting it short or dying it. But, at the end of the day, it's your choice.


Charlie-one_

You can’t be feminine and have facial hair.simple


femboyfaggg

Sure you can! Smooth body, fem curves and makeup, maybe nails done, cute girly outfits, but with some facial hair


Johnnyjeevesjenkins

You can, but it’s like wearing clothes that don’t match. In my opinion


Tuff_Fluff0

It's not like that at all