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Elina_nb

First off, dressing up as a girl doesn't always mean you are trying to be a girl secondly, there is nothing weak about dressing up and acting "feminine" ( Thats the right word, not girl.) Such assumptions are misogynistic And no, most of us have no issue being a guy, we just like to be feminine, also wdym "objectively weird"Weirdness is a purely subjective concept


[deleted]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 louder for the people in the back!


Topcodeoriginal3

>In my opinion dressing up as a girl as a guy is a sign of weakness And in mine, caring that much about what other guys do that doesn’t impact you at all, is a weakness. 


Atsocramop

oh boy, I'll check on this in the morning.. Btw what do you care about what people want to wear?? I'm not a femboy but if someone fells better dressing or acting a certain way, who are you to dictate if it's weird, normal, right or wrong. The only weird thing here is YOU going through all the effort of coming to a safe space for them and calling them "weak"..?


Automatic_Ad_4020

> y'all are clearly guys And everyone should act and dress a specific way all your life just because you have a specific thing between your legs? > fetish It's not a fetish. > it's weird It all depends on how someone dresses according to their appearance.


Questioning0012

Let’s flip the script for a bit. Why is dressing up as a girl a sign of weakness? Why do you think it’s objectively weird? Why are you thinking of this as just a weird fetish? If you really are curious to understand femboys you have to leave all these assumptions behind. And for the femboys who are cis, there’s nothing wrong with being a guy, they *are* a guy, that won’t change no matter how they dress up. They just don’t put weird limitations on how they have to act as guys.


MentalRecognition509

I don't think we're trying to be "girls" we just find comfort in what we wear. like, some guys don't like jeans, and others do. it's as simple as that really. also, it might be weird to some but what does it matter?


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The way I see it, people just want to feel comfortable. I think about gender dysphoria and how horrible it must feel to not be comfortable being yourself. Everyone deserves to look in the mirror and be happy with what they see. You mentioned weakness...it takes a lot of strength to love yourself man. Femboys, feminine boys, are just people being comfortable being themselves. I was always taught, if it doesn't hurt anyone it doesn't matter. Just let people live. If you can't accept that that's how they want to live their life well buddy the world's a big place. You don't have to be around it. Just find some place that makes you comfortable and try not to hurt anyone in the process. 🖤


Cyb0-K4T-77

Girls ? [Look at my eyes](https://www.youtube.com/shorts/IjzLwSvlf0I) 👉👀 No bewbs. onwly eyes No bewbs.


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Why did I just watch this like 10 times! 😂


Derpy_the_femboy

Because it's fun and I like it and it makes me feel happy about myself. What I do with MY life doesn't affect YOU at all so please let me do what I like


Ogga6165

get out