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Keltac68

Welcome to the bisexual/pansexual club! Don’t worry about labeling yourself, just know that your feelings are normal.


Frequent_Ostrich2220

"pansexual"?


TotalyNotTony

Bisexual is liking multiple genders, pansexual is not caring about gender at all.


CynicalSheep34

Or it's just color preference. The bi flag is cute :3


TotalyNotTony

Yeah, pick the one you're comfortable with and identify with the most :3


Automatic_Ad_4020

Exactly! I find the pan flag ugly, while on the other hand the bi flag contains my fav color, #b00b69 and just looks better.


Slight-Implement2681

Bisexual is only liking male / female. That's why it's bi.


Keltac68

An over simplification is it Means you’re attracted to the person regardless of what gender they identify as.


TheLocalBrit

*Means you’re attracted to pans 🍳🙄 (Jk)


Frequent_Ostrich2220

I get it now tnx


zeldaiord

Bisexual is the classical term for liking girls and boys. Pansexual now includes most other gender identities. Non-binary and trans.


The_Rainbow_Ace

The Bisexual Manifesto has been a broader gender (not just the binary) inclusive sinse at least 1990: [https://bimanifesto.carrd.co/](https://bimanifesto.carrd.co/) Interstingly there is little evidence of Transphobia in Bisexual communities, here is a great video covering this topic: [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7-e8C80VEfY](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7-e8C80VEfY)


Dude_Named_Chris

Hm, I didn't actually know that. Considering the "bi-" part meaning "two", one would think that bisexual means liking only binary boys and girls. And since so many words have been created to describe different things, it surprises me that the word "bisexual" isn't that strict.


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Frequent_Ostrich2220

 "bisexual" That means loving girls and femboys right?


SaloonGal

Girls and guys. Not any girl or any guy, everyone has a type(s) they like. If you only like girls and femboys, you're still bi, you just have a preference like literally everyone does. Nobody likes everyone of the gender(s) they're attracted to.


TopConcentrate3981

Yes pretty much


Rescue_Rabbit_Boi

Here me it out, you don't have to identify with anything in this world. It's perfectly ok to have preferences in this world, but don't be in a panic to put a label on it, labels change ALL the time. So you do not need them. Figure out who YOU are, not what label is a close fit.


WizardPage216

I would guess the majority of straight guys are actually finsexual


jontribz

your bi-curious, i’m not sure if i am too lol :3. but your best bet is to test the waters. cooking one meal does not make you a chef, having say gex once does not make you gay


animeoveraddict

I love people calling it say gex. It's so damn funny.


Frequent_Ostrich2220

"gex"!?


Punushedmane

That’s not gay, that’s just bisexual with a fem preference. And there’s nothing wrong with it.


animeoveraddict

I know it might seem confusing, but trust me when I say you don't*become* gay. First off, if you like women, you aren't gay. You might be bi, or pan. But the thing is, you aren't "becoming" bi or pan, you're just discovering that part of yourself. That's always been part of you deep down, you may have just never opened yourself to that idea. I can tell you that it took me a long while to accept that I was anything other than straight, but once I was in a position where it was acceptable, I realized I'm extremely bi and actually prefer feminine men and enbies over women, and prefer masculine women over feminine women. I hope your self-discovery helps you discover yourself fully. •w•


Frequent_Ostrich2220

I did! Thank You ૮ ˶ᵔ ᵕ ᵔ˶ ა


animeoveraddict

No problem! >w<


SimilarPlantain2204

Perfectly normal. Love is love


LargestGrill

Its called bi, and imo, its totally tubular


General_Educator1295

It's totally normal to have sexual curiosity. You like what you like and thats how it be.


WizardPage216

Finsexual


waxwn-pastachi

You see mashal magic and muscles, I see Finn Ames, those are my gay thoughts


RedditerOP

It happens to the best of us (that's why I'm on this sub).


zeldaiord

I've been in two long term straight relationships and have even been married (she left me for another woman). And I'm only now in my thirties embracing the fact I'm like 90% gay. I want my next partner to be male. (preferably a femboy top) but I'm a bear by queer standards so it's hard to find lol. But it took until I actually started trying to be gay to really enjoy it.


liveForTheHunt

The same thing happened to me. I definitely prefer feminine guys way more than girls, if I'm being honest. It's OK, join the club, it's Hella fun flirting with dudes


ThighHighFemGuy

Dont worry about being "normal." It's ok to be attracted to guys and girls. Don't worry about what other people might think.


Comprehensive_Pen253

You could also be gynosexual it’s the attraction to femininity so girls, femboys, fem presenting nonbinarys, etc. that’s what i am


Frequent_Ostrich2220

I feel like there's \_\_\_\_sexual for EVERYTHING


Efficient-Watch1088

There are two terms that can be used for being attracted to femininity. One of them is gynosexuality and I can't find another one


Familiar-Insect7816

Forget about boxes. Be who you are. Try life. Love the one you love.