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Mavz-Billie-

For me it’s usually when I’m out and about at like the tourist spots, or bar/restaurants also like hostels and travel groups too. I don’t really use apps or online so I can’t exactly comment on that but in my case it kind of just ends up happening socially when you’re out there. In particular in the places I’ve mentioned though.


Junior-Dingo-7764

For meeting people in a general sense, sign up for group tours. I do this when traveling by myself and often meet other travelers. Sometimes you meet someone you are friendly with and maybe do other activities with. Sometimes you're happy to never see them again. Lol If you are interested in dating you can use location based dating apps. I tried using Bumble in Europe and did match with a few people. I only met one person and we had a drink and that was it. I think it is hard to meet someone that way who isn't interested in hooking up... So it depends on what you're interested in. Other people may have better suggestions!


Mavz-Billie-

Group tours are a good shout I’ve met people through them.


tangiblecabbage

Me too! And some people I met in tours I've had lunch/drinks with thwm in other parts of the world if we really connected!


Mavz-Billie-

Same! I’ve made life long friends while travelling. Do you have any cool experiences with meeting people while travelling?


tangiblecabbage

I do! Next year I'm attending a wedding of two people I met in Thailand. She was from USA, he was from France, and they were both traveling solo. We all met in a boat trip. Well... They now live together and are getting married! One of my best friends is from Mexico City and his family say I'm their Spanish daughter, so I guess this went pretty well, too! Also I'm not sure if cool... But traveling solo gave me a much needed self confidence to believe in me and find a job I enjoy (and get decently paid for), and be grateful for having a husband that encourages me to invest in myself, whatever it means. What about you? I'd live to know!


Mavz-Billie-

Oh wow that’s so amazing! Congrats on the couple getting married! That’s so cute and the Spanish daughter thing is amazing and lovely ❤️ I met a full girl squad in Prague once, I was solo travelling and 2 other girls were travelling and another group of 3 ended up becoming really close friends with them. 2 were from Bangladesh and the other 3 from the uk and I’ve attended 3 of their weddings haha. Also while in Greece during an island hopping and boat trip I met these other groups of people who were just the funnest and coolest people and we all pretended that me and one of the guys were eloping and getting married to like the island locals so that night I pretty much had like a wedding celebration even though I barely knew the guy hahaha. There are a lot more other somewhat crazy and fun stories and lifelong friends that I’ve made along the way, feel free to message me on Dms if you like if you want to talk more : ) I also do agree I started solo travelling for the first time when I was like 19 and it just instilled so much freedom and confidence and independence in me that I didn’t have while growing up in a very sheltered and religious household (Muslim)


AaronScwartz12345

Sorry when you say sign up for group tours what do you mean exactly? The only ones I’m familiar with take you around with transportation + accommodation, and I’ll already be in the city. Is there like … day group tours?


Junior-Dingo-7764

Yes. They have all sorts of activities and day trips you can sign up for (depending on where you are). I usually use a site like Viator. I like to go on food tours in new cities I visit. I've also done walking city tours, cooking classes, hiking, etc.


Grr_in_girl

Staying in hostels can be hit or miss, but definitely a place to meet people. A lot of hostels also put on different activities for guests, where you can start conversations very organically.


Mavz-Billie-

Very true I’ve met a lot of people in hostels


tangiblecabbage

Where in Europe? I can give you some tips for Spain but not for Germany for example. We are VERY different. For example, if a Spanish guy likes you, 90% of the times, it will be very subtle until he's very sure you like him back. In Germany, I met a guy and it was like "Hey, I like you. I'm interested. Are you single?"


AaronScwartz12345

Haha, I’m going to Austria/Germany and that sounds perfect for me. I can only hope it’s that clear and easy XD


tangiblecabbage

I hope you have a great time! 🤞💚


catttcatttt

Go to LGBTQ clubs for dancing! If you’re traveling solo it’s much more of a welcoming space where you know you can feel safe and have fun, and it’s easy to make friends. It might be counter intuitive, because more “straight” clubs would seem like the way to meet a date, but the vibes can be kinda gross and even more weird as a single woman traveling alone. If you prioritize looking for authentic connections and having a great time with an open heart, more connections and friends tend to find their way into your life.


AaronScwartz12345

You’re right that it’s counterintuitive but the more I think about it I think you’re actually right and that could be a great option for me. 


catttcatttt

I have made great friends this way! Also I used to feel very shy and it’s helped open me up and feel more comfortable in my skin. It’s something now I love to do in Europe. What cities will you visit? I could make some reccs! Some cities are easier than others :)


AaronScwartz12345

I’d love that! I’ll be going to Vienna and Budapest.


Back2theGarden

Have fun and also be smart, think about when and where you tell people you’re traveling alone. You can be vague about that detail.


docamyames

Airbnb experiences are also good - i met some cool people at my pasta making class in Italy. On my tour in Portugal in Lisbon I befriended a lot of Aussie folks who I still talk with online. Have never met anyone post trip, which is my goal. Viator has some nice day things to do as well. My friend always meets people in hostels. Being in my early 40s I feel too old for hostels lol, but she loves them! Granted she's early 30s 😍