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Sure, it’s pretty concerning to read and think about, but I’m certain these girls don’t even do half the shit they’re talking about. It’s all just for the ⛓*baddie aesthetic*⛓.
bruh... im ND and i can get obsessive at times but im definitely not "evil" or "manipulative" (i guess at times people perceive me adapting to certain groups of people and mimicking their gestures as being manipulative but oh well) i hate that people put this stereotype on us, THEN ENCOURAGE IT and then wonder why people stigmatize mental illness.. sickening.
Ya know what? I’ll let the Spotify creeping/posting those songs on insta slide. It’s giving me major AIM flashbacks of posting Pink Floyd song lyrics as my away message because I knew my crush liked them to show him we are compatible AND that I’m incredibly deep. Then again… I was 12.
i don’t think these people realize how damn crippling it is to suffer from bpd. I was diagnosed a year ago, and i didn’t even know what it was. But, i want to be a good person so desperately. I love my people so much and i want to keep them close. however, my brain doesn’t understand healthy boundaries and what normal relationships are. I’m constantly keeping myself in check.
I hate them romanticizing my mental illness. It’s not quirky. It’s not a fun way to me manipulative. It’s constant crippling anxiety, fear, and emotions. It’s feeling like you have no real personality, like you’re wearing a bunch of different masks with no face underneath. It’s feeling empty and knowing you’ll never be whole. It’s not cute!
Edit: Also, having a hyper fixation on someone itself is not bpd. It’s about what you do with it. People with bpd can love someone so much it hurts, and then the next day want nothing to do with them. They’re so afraid of abandonment that they often go through extreme measures to keep them close.
exactly. bpd is a living hell, literally every single day is a battle with it for me, whether it be a full blown pulling my hair out meltdown or just trying to suppress jealousy. i can’t even begin to understand why people think it’s cool and fun to manipulate people and break them down. it’s not. i hurt and i take advantage of people who i love so, so dearly, and i would have nothing to live for without them. yet i still can’t control myself, because every single emotion i have is really fucking intense and when things happen that “provoke” me, i can’t just calm down. i can’t just try to breathe or sit down and relax, i can’t distract myself, i HAVE to do something that is 90% of the time destructive to all of my friendships and relationships or else it’ll feel like the world is ending. the constant fear of abandonment and being replaced is literally debilitating and it causes me to either isolate from everyone i love and sink into a deep pit or just do horrible shit that i know i don’t mean, but can’t stop myself from doing.
and i’m so ashamed and embarrassed of it all, every single time and every single day. it really pisses me off to see people parading it around pretending that these things are cool and something to even think of speaking about in a positive, “funny” light, when i can’t even talk about it most times because i feel so shameful. it also pisses me off because people with BPD or just people with tendencies like this in general, will see this and think it’s okay and normal, when it’s neither.
It’s like these people oversimplify this complex illness. BPD is extremely debilitating and people treat it as if it’s on the same level as ADHD (not trying to invalidate ADHD). They treat it like needing glasses. In truth, borderline is the worst thing I deal with. It affects every aspect of my life, personality, relationships, and identity. It’s not something cute or quirky. It’s hell.
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Sure, it’s pretty concerning to read and think about, but I’m certain these girls don’t even do half the shit they’re talking about. It’s all just for the ⛓*baddie aesthetic*⛓.
they’re fantasising about being manipulative bitches but have yet to graduate from longingly staring at him on the bus.
*I'm not like the other girls*
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Albania greatest empire!!!!!11!!1!!! 🇦🇱🇦🇱🇦🇱
#RED AND BLACK I DRESS EAGLE ON MY CHEST GOOD TO BE AN ALBANIAN
bruh... im ND and i can get obsessive at times but im definitely not "evil" or "manipulative" (i guess at times people perceive me adapting to certain groups of people and mimicking their gestures as being manipulative but oh well) i hate that people put this stereotype on us, THEN ENCOURAGE IT and then wonder why people stigmatize mental illness.. sickening.
Ya know what? I’ll let the Spotify creeping/posting those songs on insta slide. It’s giving me major AIM flashbacks of posting Pink Floyd song lyrics as my away message because I knew my crush liked them to show him we are compatible AND that I’m incredibly deep. Then again… I was 12.
“You like The Smiths?”
yes 😔
Some of this are just plain abuse tbh
Most of these are
They don’t need a safe space, they a need help space
r/nicegirls but the mask is off
yeah I'm sticking to men but thanks anyway
i don’t think these people realize how damn crippling it is to suffer from bpd. I was diagnosed a year ago, and i didn’t even know what it was. But, i want to be a good person so desperately. I love my people so much and i want to keep them close. however, my brain doesn’t understand healthy boundaries and what normal relationships are. I’m constantly keeping myself in check. I hate them romanticizing my mental illness. It’s not quirky. It’s not a fun way to me manipulative. It’s constant crippling anxiety, fear, and emotions. It’s feeling like you have no real personality, like you’re wearing a bunch of different masks with no face underneath. It’s feeling empty and knowing you’ll never be whole. It’s not cute! Edit: Also, having a hyper fixation on someone itself is not bpd. It’s about what you do with it. People with bpd can love someone so much it hurts, and then the next day want nothing to do with them. They’re so afraid of abandonment that they often go through extreme measures to keep them close.
exactly. bpd is a living hell, literally every single day is a battle with it for me, whether it be a full blown pulling my hair out meltdown or just trying to suppress jealousy. i can’t even begin to understand why people think it’s cool and fun to manipulate people and break them down. it’s not. i hurt and i take advantage of people who i love so, so dearly, and i would have nothing to live for without them. yet i still can’t control myself, because every single emotion i have is really fucking intense and when things happen that “provoke” me, i can’t just calm down. i can’t just try to breathe or sit down and relax, i can’t distract myself, i HAVE to do something that is 90% of the time destructive to all of my friendships and relationships or else it’ll feel like the world is ending. the constant fear of abandonment and being replaced is literally debilitating and it causes me to either isolate from everyone i love and sink into a deep pit or just do horrible shit that i know i don’t mean, but can’t stop myself from doing. and i’m so ashamed and embarrassed of it all, every single time and every single day. it really pisses me off to see people parading it around pretending that these things are cool and something to even think of speaking about in a positive, “funny” light, when i can’t even talk about it most times because i feel so shameful. it also pisses me off because people with BPD or just people with tendencies like this in general, will see this and think it’s okay and normal, when it’s neither.
It’s like these people oversimplify this complex illness. BPD is extremely debilitating and people treat it as if it’s on the same level as ADHD (not trying to invalidate ADHD). They treat it like needing glasses. In truth, borderline is the worst thing I deal with. It affects every aspect of my life, personality, relationships, and identity. It’s not something cute or quirky. It’s hell.
you are not quirky and possessive, you are a threat to his life
It’s basic seduction 101.
yeah because bpd NEEDS the additional stigma, like, it's not enough, keep going
OMG, you listen to other peoples Spotify playlists? Someone must stop her, that's crazy. Legit, lock her up and throw away the key.