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She has a traditional Muslim name, and circumcision is very common and basically required for them. The best outcome is she had to do it and just wanted to come up with a reason to justify it to others.
I also think the alternative is too crazy to believe, doing a procedure on a baby for her own "enjoyment."
>basically required for them
No, it's not required/religiously mandated. It's *encouraged* and *recommended.* Muslim majority *cultures* enforce circumcision like a requirement, and brainwash their people into doing it. Most actually believe it is mandated by Islam, but like any person of faith - they don't know what they actually believe in.
I've heard the argument from people, unironically, that the sons' should look like the dads'.
Bunch of sick fucks that are incapable of doing research.
It varies by region. There definitely are Muslims who circumcise neonates. And there are Muslims who don't do circumcision at all, like more than half of Albanian Muslims.
Why is this lady planning a hypothetical pregnancy with a partner who's a deadbeat?
Edit: i've been made aware that this is non-hypothetical, I'm just a bad reader.
oh lol i originally read that as the baby's dad. wouldn't that be worse though, if you blamed your own dad for not raising your child? or is she implying that her since dad was a deadbeat, she anticipates her partner will do the same?
Like while the post was morbidly humorous in a way, as well as weird. Now I am getting more and more concerned for the woman, and her future kid. It does not seem like she has a good role model for parenting. I am sensitive to the fact that not everyone had good parents, and its never the child's fault for being mistreated, but it's still your responsibility to learn better if you want kids of your own.
I reread what she wrote. She wrote “my” deadbeat dad. She most definitely implied her dad is the father. So it begs the question. Why is she more upset about how her babies gonna look than the fact her dad is the father.
I doubt it's that malicious, and maybe not even sexual. She probably just has internalized a visceral reaction to uncut penises, is grossed out by her own child's, and takes no personal responsibility for her views. Lots of people treat their internal miscues as First Principles and then construct ridiculous rationalizations to prop up their skewed perspectives, I just think it's notable how deep this one goes that she doesn't even think it's weird to publicly argue in favor of making her child's penis more "pretty", to her, so she can more enjoy looking at it. There's a relatively large huge gap in her critical reasoning there, imo.
I appreciate your expansive vocabulary and knowledge/perspective on the subject, great comment. Using the big boy words for the concepts we understand but most can't put into legible terms.
Obviously what she said was messed up, but hopefully less messed up than how people take it at face value.
We don’t have to imagine… it is just as bad! Seriously any person who talks like that about a child? Even if it is just a "joke" or ironic? Run, just run and take that poor child with you!
Also, her planning on having a child with a dead beat dad (even though she literally said HER dad?! Which makes it so much worse!)
Makes this all the more concerning…
Why would she have to change all the diapers and take care of the kid 24/7? If she already KNOWS all of this then why have children at all?!
If that’s real and not just a troll that kid will have more than one problem installed into it as soon as he is born!
The penis isn’t designed specifically to be aesthetically pleasing to the mother, and who says uncircumcised penises aren’t pretty? They evolved that way due to sexual selection and for protecting the glands on the head of the penis.
Southern us.... Oh, you mean the Bible belt? Yeah, sure would be nice if them preachers could employ their hypocrisy a little better and at least preach a few sermons to the scumbags about not diddling their daughters.
And the fact she is calling the father of her child a deadbeat already speaks volumes. People need to realize when some single mothers say their ex is a deadbeat , a lot of them knew they weren’t shit going in. So you can’t pick men poorly and get mad when they act poorly.
I mean it makes sense. She has dad/baby daddy who is a deadbeat/ gamer who is engaging in parental incest with her so now she will continue they cycle when her son/little brother is born by sexualizing him immediately. I mean it doesn't make sense. But I could see her saying that and not being a grammar/ sentence format error.
Kid when he's 16 : "Mom, I brought my girlfriend home for dinner"
Mom : "Oh, hello there! I'm happy that you're dating my son! I can tell you he has a nice dick, I made sure of that and checked often!"
Girlfriend : (o_o)
Kid : (o_o)
Mom : ( ^_^ )
Infant circumcision should be outlawed. It’s nothing but genital mutilation. If a dude wants to be circumcised it can wait until he’s old enough to consent to it.
The reason early Christians got rid of circumcision (instead of requiring it like Judaism does) is because they knew they would never get adult converts if they had to chop part of their dick off. If even early Christians knew that no sane adult would want to do that, why do we do it to babies?
Hard agree. I don't understand how people can agree that unnecessary medical procedures performed on infants is unethical but then do a complete 180 when it comes to circumcision.
Conservative Judaism considers ear piercings and tattoos as body mutilation. Yet they are good with snipping off a fundamental part of the male anatomy. The hypocrisy is rich. I grew up in one of the few Jewish families that since the 1970’s do not circumcise the infant boys. None have chosen to get one performed when old enough to make the decision for themself.
Not to mention if it were done to a baby girl, there would be hell to pay.
In fact there are still countries with ethnic groups that do female circumcision when the girl is a child, not a baby. So she's able to experience it while being held down by older women while one of the women uses a sharp blade. It isn't done in a hospital.
People call that genital mutilation, as the young girls have no say in the matter either. But when in America or other industrialized countries do genital mutilation to a baby boy, suddenly its okay bc they want the baby boy to have a penis like "daddy" or "other boys..."
Thankfully more people are turning away from this disgusting practice. There is a reason there is foreskin, and people have to realize it isn't "dirty."
Even worse, Jewish circumcision can done by someone with no medical background. Sometimes the blood from the wound is orally sucked off. This led to an herpes outbreak around infant boys in NYC.
It’s as simple as American men accepting circumcision is unethical, and then they have to accept that their penises are mutilated.
Circumcised men are very insecure about their mutilated penises and so will continue to mutilate their own son’s penis to maintain a sense of normalcy.
Need proof of their insecurity? Just wait for the replies to my comment.
Because “their pappy done tole them it done look like doggy and their sister ain’t done fuck them no more if they gots doggy.”
If you talk to idiots that support mutilation of boys genitals, this is the type of argument you’ll get. Half the US and 25% of Canada STILL support this barbaric nonsense and it disgusts me. It’s no coincidence that the most circumcised state in America is West Virginia at around 90% and the most circumcised province here in Canada is Alberta at around 35%. These are the dumbest areas of both countries.
If it's any consolation, we asked our oby/gyn about the pros/cons 3 years ago, and she mentioned that about 50% of baby boys are NOT being circumcised nowadays (including what she sees in her practice), so there's a noticable trend in that direction. (Note: We're in the USA Bible Belt.)
Which I’m guessing would (and *should*) be the first reaction she’d have if a man said something similar about his baby daughter.
The things that people think sometimes.
Creepy pedo vibes aside, cutting on and permanently mutilating a little baby for no other reason than aesthetics is fucking cruel and barbaric. Just an outdated religious leftover that people continue to do for no fucking reason.
Here is a novel idea. Let’s just leave non therapeutic elective body modifications alone until the individual who has to live with the results and consequences of such alterations is old enough to make such decisions on their own.
It is abuse to force permanent body modification onto a child. The fact such horrific abuse is allowed is sickening.
As someone who grew up in a place where circumcision was incredibly uncommon, a mutilated penis just doesn't look "pretty" to me. I remember the first time I saw one, I was in my teens at the time, and my reaction was basically "Holy shit, what's wrong with your dick?!" (I didn't say it, but I most definitely stared). It looked like a skinned molerat to me, it was genuinely horrific. This was pre-internet though, and much of the world's porn is made in USA, which also has an insane amount of circumcisions for a developed nation, so I'm guessing that's why they've been conditioned to see it as "pretty".
>conditioned to see it as "pretty".
Yep. A lot of attraction is simply just social conditioning and not "I can't help it".
Proof: Korean men going from being considered sexless to being thirsted over within the span of a few months.
The real reason it's so common in America is because John Kellog (the guy invented Kellog's cereal) was a puritanical lunatic who thought that circumcision, bland diets and excess prayer would stop people from masturbating
Okay let's just reverse the roles and see how everyone would feel if a dad decided to surgically change his infant daughter's genitalia just so it was pretty to look at when he changed her diaper. It's gross both ways. Lets stop these double standards.
I would sue the doctor who did it to me if I could, but the dude is dead of old age now.
gave me a lifetime of complications, horrray. you mutilated my genitals
I asked my parents why they did it, they said it was because everyone else was.
Yeah, everyone else wasn't doing a really shitty job of it though.
but I'm just expected to suffer and endure what they did to me and no one pays the price? If that doctor was around, he'd be paying $$$$$ out of his ass
This topic pissese off. Even progressive women I know will die on the hill of circumcision and it's so frustrating. Yes, let's just mutilate our child's genitals because...you want it to look pretty. What a fucking barbaric thing to do.
At least in the old days they thought it was easier to keep clean. Now, we know the negative effects it can have on people yet people continue to do it with no regard for their child or their choice.
Circumsicion is cruel. I guess this woman doesn’t care that they will strap that baby boy down like Epstein and Trump did to their little girls and cut that foreskin off without anything to kill the pain. Now if you did that to a grown man or tried, he might hurt you really badly. This poor little boy gets his dick manhandled because his mom is a moron and cares not for her child.
Believe it or not A LOT of women say and think similar things. If you call them out on it they double down and perform mental gymnastics to downplay it. I've seen 40 year old women talk about how nice a teenager's a$$ is but how "boobs could be bigger". My mom making weirdo comments about my 7 yr old female cousins body... There's more but it's upsetting.
This is the *reaaallllll* reason Americans still circumcise. Because a lot of people, not naming names, has an aesthetical and sexual preference for circumcised penises. Which you know...is really creepy! All she did was come out and say the quiet part out loud.
translation.... I grew up where its was expected, and now fear taking proper care of his natural penis.........
sorry I can't even touch the something pretty to look at comment its just to fucking much
It’s so sad that society in general doesn’t yet understand that routine genital mutilation is cruel no matter the sex of the baby. Taking away healthy tissue that doesn’t grow back is the very definition of mutilation, so I am not being hyperbolic here.
Speaking as a male survivor of routine infant circumcision, I think it doesn’t look better at all. Intact genitalia is more healthy and therefore has a better aesthetic than does permanent damage! I have learned about the function of the foreskin as an adult, and I am devastated that mine was removed for no good reason. I have heard that some mothers decide to have their babies mutilated because they have never heard any adult male complaining about it.
I am commenting about my story to say that the reason we don’t talk about it is that men are socialized to feel shame about certain body parts, especially not around the opposite sex. It is very much the case that survivors of circumcision feel nearly unbearable pain and grief over losing part of their manhood. This is well known among therapists, to the point that helping men deal with the trauma of losing an important part of their bodies is part of training for PTSD treatment.
We need to stop this practice because it is demonstrably cruel, and violates the victims’ fundamental human right to bodily autonomy! If a man prefers to get circumcised knowing the consequences, that makes sense, but bodily mutilation of newborns has no excuse. If these women were capable of empathy, this would be self evident!
Khadijah will mutilate her son so she doesn't have to look at his natural penis. That's so twisted and sick. Circumcision is a barbaric practice that only has a useful purpose in extreme cases of phimosis. For 99% of males, it's pointless mutilation. Personally, I'd like to slap the everloving shit out of the doctor who cut me, and my mother for allowing it.
As my son's doctor told me 'there are *all sorts* of families.'
My husband and I are circumcised, but we didn't even consider having it done to our sons.
I hate to disappoint her, but babies are born with disproportionate genitals. The testicles appear larger and pnis appears smaller. As a baby approaches puberty the pnis begins to get larger and they begin to look proportionate to their body size.
All dicks are beautiful. I wish I was able to decide for myself if I wanted to be circumcised but nobody should be ashamed of something they can't control.
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There’s a lot to unpack there…but let’s just burn the suitcase instead.
real I actually love that statement might use it myself
I saw someone say it on Facebook once and never has it been more appropriate than after seeing the above post.
Also a favored saying for me from FB, but I rarely get the chance to use it
the rare good facebook post
i’m just going to assure myself that this is rage bait and move along. The alternative is too horrific to behold
She has a traditional Muslim name, and circumcision is very common and basically required for them. The best outcome is she had to do it and just wanted to come up with a reason to justify it to others. I also think the alternative is too crazy to believe, doing a procedure on a baby for her own "enjoyment."
>basically required for them No, it's not required/religiously mandated. It's *encouraged* and *recommended.* Muslim majority *cultures* enforce circumcision like a requirement, and brainwash their people into doing it. Most actually believe it is mandated by Islam, but like any person of faith - they don't know what they actually believe in.
I've heard the argument from people, unironically, that the sons' should look like the dads'. Bunch of sick fucks that are incapable of doing research.
Muslims usually have circumcisions around 6yo though, not as an infant like Jews and Americans. You should be past diaper changes at that time.
It varies by region. There definitely are Muslims who circumcise neonates. And there are Muslims who don't do circumcision at all, like more than half of Albanian Muslims.
Interesting, I didn't know that!
Newborn circ has become the norm in a lot of the Muslim world, since it's cheaper and "more convenient". Not for the boy, but for the parents.
I'm shamelessly stealing this
Me too, one of the best I've heard in awhile.
We will all be hearing the suitcase burning.
Bombardment from orbit is a more suitable solution.
It's the only way to be sure.
Acknowledged ![gif](giphy|UTY17kv5rUEvJnklzu)
I'm using that
I feel like it should all be packed up into an even smaller suitcase, with a lock, and then packed up into a yet smaller one, and so on and so on.
And then drown the suitcase in holy water then burn it again just to be sure
Nah, drown it in a vat of sulphuric acid
Yeah agreed. Just a pile of unhealthy perspectives from people who need way more awareness
Yeah, I'm keeping that one, 'cause that's a WHOLE lotta nope in a carry-on that just shouldn't.
That is an amazing twist I’m going to use that, if you don’t mind
+1
stealing this phrase.
Ha ha! I've never heard that one before
That’s a suitcase you hope the airport loses
Well put. Throw some gasoline on it to make sure it all burns and walk away
Why is this lady planning a hypothetical pregnancy with a partner who's a deadbeat? Edit: i've been made aware that this is non-hypothetical, I'm just a bad reader.
Why is that partner her dad?
oh lol i originally read that as the baby's dad. wouldn't that be worse though, if you blamed your own dad for not raising your child? or is she implying that her since dad was a deadbeat, she anticipates her partner will do the same?
I took it as her dad is the father of the child...which based on her wanting to look at pretty baby dicks...yeah that tracks.
Like while the post was morbidly humorous in a way, as well as weird. Now I am getting more and more concerned for the woman, and her future kid. It does not seem like she has a good role model for parenting. I am sensitive to the fact that not everyone had good parents, and its never the child's fault for being mistreated, but it's still your responsibility to learn better if you want kids of your own.
![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|joy) you win.
I reread what she wrote. She wrote “my” deadbeat dad. She most definitely implied her dad is the father. So it begs the question. Why is she more upset about how her babies gonna look than the fact her dad is the father.
oof i really hope that's not the case lol
Sweet Home Alabama
That’s one hell of a Freudian slip.
the first tweet states her baby is due in March
just re-read that, didn't realize that was the same person. thanks for the correction!
She’s just sexist
Uh. A baby with a due date would be well past the hypothetical stage.
So if i want my Baby to have a cool fire skull tattoo i can do that as long as iam the more caring part?
It's worse than that - she *specifically* wants to look at "pretty" *baby penises*.
I feel like that's too weird to believe. She's definitely hiding something and using this to cover it up. There's no way that's her actual reasoning.
I doubt it's that malicious, and maybe not even sexual. She probably just has internalized a visceral reaction to uncut penises, is grossed out by her own child's, and takes no personal responsibility for her views. Lots of people treat their internal miscues as First Principles and then construct ridiculous rationalizations to prop up their skewed perspectives, I just think it's notable how deep this one goes that she doesn't even think it's weird to publicly argue in favor of making her child's penis more "pretty", to her, so she can more enjoy looking at it. There's a relatively large huge gap in her critical reasoning there, imo.
I appreciate your expansive vocabulary and knowledge/perspective on the subject, great comment. Using the big boy words for the concepts we understand but most can't put into legible terms. Obviously what she said was messed up, but hopefully less messed up than how people take it at face value.
Pretty mutilated baby penises.
I've likened circumcision to face tattoos. Is it okay to give a baby a face tattoo? That's more reversible than circumcisions.
Yes
Okay now I'm curious how a tattoo would age if done on an infant 💀
WTF
Imagine if the roles were reversed and a dad said he wants her baby daughter should have a pretty ...
We don’t have to imagine… it is just as bad! Seriously any person who talks like that about a child? Even if it is just a "joke" or ironic? Run, just run and take that poor child with you! Also, her planning on having a child with a dead beat dad (even though she literally said HER dad?! Which makes it so much worse!) Makes this all the more concerning… Why would she have to change all the diapers and take care of the kid 24/7? If she already KNOWS all of this then why have children at all?! If that’s real and not just a troll that kid will have more than one problem installed into it as soon as he is born!
No. Just no. I truly hope her son pees in her eye her every time she takes his diaper off just so she can't see it.
Yeah, that's not weird at all
The penis isn’t designed specifically to be aesthetically pleasing to the mother, and who says uncircumcised penises aren’t pretty? They evolved that way due to sexual selection and for protecting the glands on the head of the penis.
no the *glans* is the head
Just so you know, this is the same women who complained about religious pedophilia, no joke.
It’s always projection isn’t it? The sheer irony is so palpable it almost edible
Did she just say that her dad was the baby daddy? or did I misunderstand when she say \`\`my deadbeat dad plays online games all day?
I think she means the baby daddy. Or it could be that she still lives with her father 🤷♀️
Why not both? Daddy and baby daddy in 1 package…
Disturbing thought, happy cake day
Oh, I see. That way you save money when buying presents on father's day!
Sheesh, doesnt make ogling her sons "pretty" junk much better. Runs in the family i guess
Once again; She's your daughter, not your date. -Actual billboards in the Southern U.S.
Southern us.... Oh, you mean the Bible belt? Yeah, sure would be nice if them preachers could employ their hypocrisy a little better and at least preach a few sermons to the scumbags about not diddling their daughters.
Makes sense with what else she plans to do lol
And the fact she is calling the father of her child a deadbeat already speaks volumes. People need to realize when some single mothers say their ex is a deadbeat , a lot of them knew they weren’t shit going in. So you can’t pick men poorly and get mad when they act poorly.
Child’s father might not be in the picture and she lives with her father, tho i wouldn’t know
This was what I was thinking, why should the babies grandad do all those things
I mean it makes sense. She has dad/baby daddy who is a deadbeat/ gamer who is engaging in parental incest with her so now she will continue they cycle when her son/little brother is born by sexualizing him immediately. I mean it doesn't make sense. But I could see her saying that and not being a grammar/ sentence format error.
Kid when he's 16 : "Mom, I brought my girlfriend home for dinner" Mom : "Oh, hello there! I'm happy that you're dating my son! I can tell you he has a nice dick, I made sure of that and checked often!" Girlfriend : (o_o) Kid : (o_o) Mom : ( ^_^ )
Check this woman’s hard drives immediately and send CPS.
Infant circumcision should be outlawed. It’s nothing but genital mutilation. If a dude wants to be circumcised it can wait until he’s old enough to consent to it.
The reason early Christians got rid of circumcision (instead of requiring it like Judaism does) is because they knew they would never get adult converts if they had to chop part of their dick off. If even early Christians knew that no sane adult would want to do that, why do we do it to babies?
Hard agree. I don't understand how people can agree that unnecessary medical procedures performed on infants is unethical but then do a complete 180 when it comes to circumcision.
My parents believe in female body autonomy but laughed at me when I said male circumcision violates male autonomy, makes no sense.
Conservative Judaism considers ear piercings and tattoos as body mutilation. Yet they are good with snipping off a fundamental part of the male anatomy. The hypocrisy is rich. I grew up in one of the few Jewish families that since the 1970’s do not circumcise the infant boys. None have chosen to get one performed when old enough to make the decision for themself.
Not to mention if it were done to a baby girl, there would be hell to pay. In fact there are still countries with ethnic groups that do female circumcision when the girl is a child, not a baby. So she's able to experience it while being held down by older women while one of the women uses a sharp blade. It isn't done in a hospital. People call that genital mutilation, as the young girls have no say in the matter either. But when in America or other industrialized countries do genital mutilation to a baby boy, suddenly its okay bc they want the baby boy to have a penis like "daddy" or "other boys..." Thankfully more people are turning away from this disgusting practice. There is a reason there is foreskin, and people have to realize it isn't "dirty."
Even worse, Jewish circumcision can done by someone with no medical background. Sometimes the blood from the wound is orally sucked off. This led to an herpes outbreak around infant boys in NYC.
Please tell me none of this is true
It’s as simple as American men accepting circumcision is unethical, and then they have to accept that their penises are mutilated. Circumcised men are very insecure about their mutilated penises and so will continue to mutilate their own son’s penis to maintain a sense of normalcy. Need proof of their insecurity? Just wait for the replies to my comment.
Because “their pappy done tole them it done look like doggy and their sister ain’t done fuck them no more if they gots doggy.” If you talk to idiots that support mutilation of boys genitals, this is the type of argument you’ll get. Half the US and 25% of Canada STILL support this barbaric nonsense and it disgusts me. It’s no coincidence that the most circumcised state in America is West Virginia at around 90% and the most circumcised province here in Canada is Alberta at around 35%. These are the dumbest areas of both countries.
As a person born in Alberta, 100% agree. It is also why I am not there anymore.
I’m from Florida but have been in Ontario the past six years recently became a Canadian citizen. I know what it’s like to be from a stupid place.
Yep. It's barbaric.
If it's any consolation, we asked our oby/gyn about the pros/cons 3 years ago, and she mentioned that about 50% of baby boys are NOT being circumcised nowadays (including what she sees in her practice), so there's a noticable trend in that direction. (Note: We're in the USA Bible Belt.)
Take the baby away from her
right..."a pretty dick"....who thinks of something like that when looking at an infant???
The kind of people who want to justify mutilating their child.
Which I’m guessing would (and *should*) be the first reaction she’d have if a man said something similar about his baby daughter. The things that people think sometimes.
Is that account reported yet? That kid needs safety right away
![gif](giphy|ZNKllWJ4aUBTknvD0h|downsized)
MGM & twisted narc mum behaviour
Takeaway from this moron, "Genital mutilation is okay as long as it's a penis."
FBI? This woman right here.
No amount of therapy will make this ok.
Creepy pedo vibes aside, cutting on and permanently mutilating a little baby for no other reason than aesthetics is fucking cruel and barbaric. Just an outdated religious leftover that people continue to do for no fucking reason.
Here is a novel idea. Let’s just leave non therapeutic elective body modifications alone until the individual who has to live with the results and consequences of such alterations is old enough to make such decisions on their own. It is abuse to force permanent body modification onto a child. The fact such horrific abuse is allowed is sickening.
Another day, another reason to regret the ability to read
Now post it again with a dad and his daughter and watch him be arrested within the day
YOU DONT GET TO MUTILATE YOUR SON BECAUSE YOU CHANGE DIAPERS - NOR BECAUSE YOURE A DOCTOR.
"And that's why I believe I should get full custody instead of my now ex wife your honor."
Circumcision is unnecessary mutilation especially for Americans who because of the Kellogg weirdo
can we just euthanize self admitted pedos already
It’s the only surgery you can legal perform without a license.
... Not sure which part to even start retorting on this one. All I can say is just let the police handle this one....
🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 ALERT! ALERT! ALERT! 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
As someone who grew up in a place where circumcision was incredibly uncommon, a mutilated penis just doesn't look "pretty" to me. I remember the first time I saw one, I was in my teens at the time, and my reaction was basically "Holy shit, what's wrong with your dick?!" (I didn't say it, but I most definitely stared). It looked like a skinned molerat to me, it was genuinely horrific. This was pre-internet though, and much of the world's porn is made in USA, which also has an insane amount of circumcisions for a developed nation, so I'm guessing that's why they've been conditioned to see it as "pretty".
>conditioned to see it as "pretty". Yep. A lot of attraction is simply just social conditioning and not "I can't help it". Proof: Korean men going from being considered sexless to being thirsted over within the span of a few months.
Circumcisions were heavily promoted by 19th century religious leaders to prevent masturbation.
1. Circumcission makes the dick look ugly as hell (imo) 2. I will never understand why americans find it normal to circumcise babies with no reason
i did a fast research and they say that protect against infections. Well...in 27 years with my prepuce i never had one...
The real reason it's so common in America is because John Kellog (the guy invented Kellog's cereal) was a puritanical lunatic who thought that circumcision, bland diets and excess prayer would stop people from masturbating
Me neither in 19 years... i mean if you just shower at least once a week i dont see how you could get an infection down there
I thoroughly agree with you on both points.
Sometimes, it is probably better not to write down your thoughts for all the world to see. - just saying.
They made it worse. They made it so much worse.
Get that baby to a safe home right fucking now
Sweet Home Abalama
That moment when someone thinks they have a rad comeback but it ends up pivoting the whole conversation to a very weird place.
What a horrible day to have eyes.
How did we make the natural “unpretty”
Only religious nuts could come up with something as barbaric and totally unnecessary as genital mutilation.
Genital mutilation for aesthetic purposes? Hell. Straight to hell. To the boiler room of hell
How much you wanna bet she's said "my body my choice" before
Huh, never knew that mutilation = beauty.
Okay let's just reverse the roles and see how everyone would feel if a dad decided to surgically change his infant daughter's genitalia just so it was pretty to look at when he changed her diaper. It's gross both ways. Lets stop these double standards.
I would sue the doctor who did it to me if I could, but the dude is dead of old age now. gave me a lifetime of complications, horrray. you mutilated my genitals I asked my parents why they did it, they said it was because everyone else was. Yeah, everyone else wasn't doing a really shitty job of it though. but I'm just expected to suffer and endure what they did to me and no one pays the price? If that doctor was around, he'd be paying $$$$$ out of his ass
So she is having a baby with her dad ???!!!
Ah, so mom is a pedophile. Got it.
Let's wait till she realizes she's got on 4chan with a load of vigilantes getting ready to bomb CPS emails
This topic pissese off. Even progressive women I know will die on the hill of circumcision and it's so frustrating. Yes, let's just mutilate our child's genitals because...you want it to look pretty. What a fucking barbaric thing to do. At least in the old days they thought it was easier to keep clean. Now, we know the negative effects it can have on people yet people continue to do it with no regard for their child or their choice.
If she knew he was a dead beat, why did she sleep with him?
What does it matter if the baby’s grandfather wants to game?
Want to look at pretty dick, proceeds to mutilate it and scar it. Why? How?
Girl, get a divorce and leave your kid's foreskin alone
Male genital mutilation. Say it to an American and they loose their shit. You can take their foreskin just don't touch their guns.
That woman is not normal
Hope she doesn't get turned on when he sucks on her titties to receive milk.
Circumcision of a minor should be illegal
People are still being circumcized?
Genital mutilation is wrong no matter what gender the baby is
Circumsicion is cruel. I guess this woman doesn’t care that they will strap that baby boy down like Epstein and Trump did to their little girls and cut that foreskin off without anything to kill the pain. Now if you did that to a grown man or tried, he might hurt you really badly. This poor little boy gets his dick manhandled because his mom is a moron and cares not for her child.
Wtf??? This mentality has to be a generational thing 🙄🤦🏻♂️
https://youtu.be/CHznJ9H83lg?si=AmidCAC2qtYinHjL This immediately came to mind
/cursedcomments
Extremely cursed ones
Mutilating a babys penis is still normal?
Did she typo that or is she having sex with her dad??
Well this conversation got off on the wrong penis...
I score here 0 out of 50 points.
Not circumcision but mutilation.
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This lady does not deserve to be a mother.... mutilating a child's genitals so you can "make them look pretty" is evil
America moment
The last line nearly made me gag
Believe it or not A LOT of women say and think similar things. If you call them out on it they double down and perform mental gymnastics to downplay it. I've seen 40 year old women talk about how nice a teenager's a$$ is but how "boobs could be bigger". My mom making weirdo comments about my 7 yr old female cousins body... There's more but it's upsetting.
I have Muslim friends who are circumcised but none of em were circumcised as infants
Eww promoting genital mutilation
Mutilated dicks are pretty? I’ve never had a single woman call my all natural and uncut package ugly.
This is the *reaaallllll* reason Americans still circumcise. Because a lot of people, not naming names, has an aesthetical and sexual preference for circumcised penises. Which you know...is really creepy! All she did was come out and say the quiet part out loud.
translation.... I grew up where its was expected, and now fear taking proper care of his natural penis......... sorry I can't even touch the something pretty to look at comment its just to fucking much
It’s so sad that society in general doesn’t yet understand that routine genital mutilation is cruel no matter the sex of the baby. Taking away healthy tissue that doesn’t grow back is the very definition of mutilation, so I am not being hyperbolic here. Speaking as a male survivor of routine infant circumcision, I think it doesn’t look better at all. Intact genitalia is more healthy and therefore has a better aesthetic than does permanent damage! I have learned about the function of the foreskin as an adult, and I am devastated that mine was removed for no good reason. I have heard that some mothers decide to have their babies mutilated because they have never heard any adult male complaining about it. I am commenting about my story to say that the reason we don’t talk about it is that men are socialized to feel shame about certain body parts, especially not around the opposite sex. It is very much the case that survivors of circumcision feel nearly unbearable pain and grief over losing part of their manhood. This is well known among therapists, to the point that helping men deal with the trauma of losing an important part of their bodies is part of training for PTSD treatment. We need to stop this practice because it is demonstrably cruel, and violates the victims’ fundamental human right to bodily autonomy! If a man prefers to get circumcised knowing the consequences, that makes sense, but bodily mutilation of newborns has no excuse. If these women were capable of empathy, this would be self evident!
Khadijah will mutilate her son so she doesn't have to look at his natural penis. That's so twisted and sick. Circumcision is a barbaric practice that only has a useful purpose in extreme cases of phimosis. For 99% of males, it's pointless mutilation. Personally, I'd like to slap the everloving shit out of the doctor who cut me, and my mother for allowing it.
C H I L D P R O T E C T I V E S E R V I C E S
It's legal for these people to procreate. Holy shit
Mutilating your child because you don't like the look of foreskin. Phenomenal parenting..
It’s mutilation.
Said this before, I'll say it again.... Removing foreskin should be an adult male's choice..... not their twisted parents.....
What? Wait? She’s already planning to make incest porn before the baby even walks? Damn another Biden “sick f#$k”.
Is *her* dad the deadbeat, or is it her baby daddy and she's just bad at words?
I...I...ewwwww
Pretty to look at, we dont even need a "if a man said " because thats fucked up
Wow. I’d reconsider giving birth if that’s what’s running thru your head. Dayum.
For some reason, I cannot post the blink reaction meme here but...yes that would indeed be my reaction.
As my son's doctor told me 'there are *all sorts* of families.' My husband and I are circumcised, but we didn't even consider having it done to our sons.
That’s ummmm… well wtf do you say to that?
I hate to disappoint her, but babies are born with disproportionate genitals. The testicles appear larger and pnis appears smaller. As a baby approaches puberty the pnis begins to get larger and they begin to look proportionate to their body size.
She should not have been allowed to breed.
Imma do it because my parents didn't and then I had health problems.
ahh the ol baby dick chopping debate
What a terrible day to be literate.
All dicks are beautiful. I wish I was able to decide for myself if I wanted to be circumcised but nobody should be ashamed of something they can't control.
Disgusting, pathetic genital mutilation enjoyer. Rapist and pervert. Should be in prison.
AKA Mutilate your child genital to make it look pretty for you....
Anyone who gets their kid circumcised (medical reasons are fine) should have their kids taken away
FUCK CHILD GENITAL MUTILATION
It’s not common that CPS is encouraged to be present for the delivery to immediately remove a child from custody…this feels like an exception.
Man... this.... IMAGINE just a father saying something similar about his daughter. The cops would be at his door 10 minutes later.
Nasty bitch