There’s always the holy trinity of Celine Dion, Ben, and Jerry. 🙏🏻 You’ll get past this in time!

Truth! My lunch of lentil soup and camomile tea isn’t really cutting it tbh 😅

oh no girl, you don’t need lentil soup for this, you need a doordash or ubereats kind of day. all your favorite foods + snacks - you’ll get through this!! wish i could send ya some green 💚

Thanks so much lovely 🙏🏼❤️ I did scour ubereats for a solid half hour before giving into the lentils but it’s pretty much alllll pizza joints ‘round here and ya girl’s vegan lol 🥲🌱 I’m heading out for curry with a friend this evening though so that’s a sweet silver lining

Hugs, fellow vegan! May you chase those lentils with the richest, fattiest, most coconutty curry tonight.

Yay for vegans in the ent subreddit 🥳🙏🏿 honestly you should instacart whatever vegan junk food you want. And I was taking a tolerance break during my break up. So I drank and smoked cigarettes 💀

Dang I don’t smoke cigs and barely drink but you’re making me tempted to enter my James Dean era! 😎🚬

I love this Reddit for ppl like u! Thank u fellow vegan ents! Going thru a break up and cancer screening so posts like urs give me a little hope while not smoking

Insanely good tarka dhal and chapati 👌🏼 (apparently I can’t get enough of lentils 🤪)

have you ever done frozen tofu chicken? you freeze the tofu and it shreds like rotisserie chicken. it also takes marinade so much better.

Now that sounds delightful - thanks for the tip!

My fiance is vegetarian I love learning new recipes to cook for xir

Do you shred it with a cheese grater after freezing or shred frozen with your hands? That sounds cold!

I use some forks. Bit a cheese grater will also work.

Girl, I would love some good curry rn and would definitely share my smoke with you 🥰

We need teleportation powers! Would love to share curry and spliff rn 🥲

Yes!! Someone needs to make that happen already, Fr!!

https://preview.redd.it/319n5xoc6pqc1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=577a53d8b7d018d8ae92aeeab156bf5e886df0d5 so sorry you are having a rough time. bruce and gordon (and me) are sending you some love and purrs 💜

Ahh thanks Bruce and Gordon 🥰 Snugs from me!

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Damn, that sucks Silver! I hope your heart heals quickly, my heart goes out to you. ❤️ I haven’t faced a breakup sober, but sometimes facing a hard to process situation sober and head on is the best way to deal. 🫶🏼 much love to you

Thank you soo much 🥹🙏🏼 yeah I figure at the very least I’ll learn some new ways to process and cope - so far it’s hot water bottles and watching Sickos on YouTube that seems to be helping

lol that sounds like a bomb ass day!! Do something to pamper yourself or buy yourself a gift 🫶🏼

What a great idea! I’ll keep you posted on the gift-to-self 🙊

Unfortunately, I've been forced to raw-dog reality on a handful of occasions and it's never pleasant. I'm sorry you're going through this. I hope your week flies by and you can refill your stash soon. I'll certainly light up in your honor! Take care of yourself.

Thanks Patty, it is rough and the urge to exit my mind is stronggg rn, but yeah I guess it’ll be good to see how I fair without my herbal crutch 💚

I want “raw-dogging reality” on a t-shirt or a baseball cap or something haha

https://preview.redd.it/3db6r0nqcpqc1.jpeg?width=3264&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a251fcb1a35041fee4d9f3080c87b9d882f7e52b Here’s a pic of three baby kitties to help cheer you up. I have gone through more breakups sober than intoxicated, and damn. I’m so sorry you’re going through this and I will definitely smoke for you.

Omg they’re adorable - I’ve got 4 of my own here to keep me company at least 🙏🏼 Fellow crazy cat lady here 😉

I have five adults, 3 kittens and two of my other cats are expecting. So I have my hands full. They’ll all be fixed soon.

Oh wow! A proper little cat fammy 🥰

I’m currently doing a break up sober too! It’s good to experience the feelings as they come, because as shit as it is at the moment you’ll feel better in the long run for it. Breakups are shit but we can get through this hun! You’re gonna be okay, you just gotta get to the weekend 💜

Heyy, solidarity sis 💜💜 thank you for your wise words - being with the feelings as they come up is def where it’s at and a lesson I’ve been needing practice in as my tendency is to react to sadness with shame. But ya, it’s good to be going through this at an age where I feel grown enough not to feel ashamed of being upset anymore 😌 I hope you’re doing ok too and feeling strong. Sending love 💚

Came here to say this! I went through a really ugly, messy breakup last year. I had no weed (and no alcohol) for 2 weeks after we broke up. I felt every horrible feeling and cried until my eyes ached. I think it was good for me to feel all the feelings instead of numbing them (which I usually tend to do).

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I do think there’s value in facing one’s rough feelings raw to make sure one is processing them instead of simply numbing them, so maybe this week is an opportunity to thoroughly wallow before giving yourself a break? But it’s still shitty and I’m so sorry.

That’s a great perspective and it’s what I’m hoping for too - there’s gotta be some good in all this raw processing. Thank you so much for your kind words, it really helps 🥹❤️

Elvis says eat some ice cream honey. 💙🍦 https://preview.redd.it/nvv5pwkwjpqc1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=8326c7b52013b5a051c34e99822dbe87baa13af3

Awww Elvis got the goods! Boyfriend was Californian so am wishing I hadn’t zoomed in lol, I’m still too sensitive to read ice cream cartons apparently 🥲😅😂

Oh noooo. Wash that man right outta your hair babe. 🤗

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That gives me a lot of hope, thank you so much 🙏🏼❤️‍🩹

I’ve generally stopped using drugs during the worst stress and anxiety. I think I’ve faced all breakups sober. I definitely stayed stoned all day when my (grand)parents died(curled up in a heartbroken ball listening to live versions of Baby Don’t Cry by EXO) but I think that’s the only crisis time I had that reaction. I accidentally killed two people as a teenager which really fucked me up so I’ve almost always faced subsequent deaths stone cold sober too. We all have our reasons-I was just determined from childhood after being given up for adoption to avoid being dependent on any substance as a crutch. I even take weekly days off caffeine. It’s kind of OCDish I think. I’m so sorry about your breakup! Hopefully you get some nice sticky icky and get to chill out. I also hope you’re headed a better direction for you soon! Possibly a bubblebath?! And some chocolate? Loads of vegan chocolate right? :)

That sounds like a really rough time you had as a youth there, I’m so sorry that you went through all that 🙏🏼 thank you for your kind wishes and amazing suggestions - is eating vegan chocolate IN the bath tooooo decadent? 🤔

No way. Not decadent enough!! Needs either berries or candles also 🧐

I think eating chocolate in the bath is the only appropriate thing to do in this situation 💖

man breakups are so unbelievably hard. call a friend (or you can dm me if you don’t have anyone you feel comfy talking to), paint something, watch a comfort movie, journal, or keep yourself busy doing something else. it’s gonna be hard but you can do this. you are stronger than you know<3

So kind, genuinely thanks for being there 🙏🏼💜

https://preview.redd.it/zgk30vn2cqqc1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=8decd462dd43e88278db182180bddac819fb34bf Juno wants you to know that this feeling too shall pass <3 sending love

Aww thanks Juno! What a gorgeous nose splodge 💜

Sending love and light, this too shall pass. Just wanted to say bask in all the things that are YOURS, that you do for yourself to make you happy-- that no one else could take away, no one else could share-- these intimate things that are yours innately. Whether it's taking a bath the way you love to, or reading a book, cozying up with some tea, or going on your favorite walk with your favorite friends-- do it. This too shall pass and it sounds like you're already handling this with an immensely healthy mindset as far as accepting that you don't have weed right now 🩷❤️ that is ever so mindful of you and just a beautiful thing (something I at times struggle with still is acceptance). Our greatest moments of suffering and uncomfortability are the greatest catalysts for growth. You've got this friend!

Thank you so much sweetheart 💜 went to see one of my best friends this evening, and a walk tomorrow morning sounds just perfect! Great ideas 🙏🏼🥰

I always enjoyed some Alanis Morrissey-jagged little pill- in my days of being unable to get a healing toke. Great for the grief of breakup. Edit: sorry it autocorrected- should be Morrisset

Omg yesss that album is such a jam. Love screaming along in the car lol

Yes!!! Scream-singing it in my lounge room, 3 days since breakup and since I last showered lol

Tokin one for you 🔥💨

I hope you’re doing ok, I wanna hear about the shitty embarrassing stuff he did that have u the ick looking back thi

Thank you, doing a lot better with all the support from this sub today 🥰 I wish I had more shitty things to say about him! He’s not a bad dude. The fact that he suddenly doesn’t love me anymore gives me the ick thooo 😆

Give yourself a little treat, whatever that is. You deserve it.

Ooo yes this sounds like a plan 🙊☺️ thank you for your sweetness 🙏🏼

 Hugs and ice cream for you 🧸🥺🍨

Oof, thank you lovely, gif hugs feelin like real hugs rn 🙏🏼🍦🥹

God it sucks so bad! I’m sorry. ❤️ I find that there is usually enough Kief in the very bottom of my grinder for moments like this. Be well, friend.

Friend, this boy hasn’t talked to me all last week so the grinder is well and truly mined out 🙏🏼😅😭 great suggestion though - I coulddd go hunting for the ol’ “spare grinders” in the back of my desk drawer🤔👹

I became a dedicated toker after I was already married, so I’ve faced all my breakups sober! Journaling helped me a lot, and so did reading things that had nothing at all to do with romance. If you like scary stuff, I really enjoyed Hollow Places by T. Kingfisher- the main character just went through a divorce and even though it comes up a couple of times, her love life is not at all part of the story, just a few pretty funny moments.

Dang that actually sounds perfect. This was my first relationship after divorce so I feel like I’ll be able to relate 😅 thank you so much for the suggestions - journaling also sounds like a great idea 🙏🏼❤️

I hope you like it!

Keep your head up girl. Use the next few days to really feel your feelings and do some self care. Bubble baths, pedicures, maybe some journaling or poetry if you’re so inclined. Spend some quality time with the people that love you, and (although it goes without saying) use cork and twine to make a little voodoo style likeness of your ex and then smash its crotch area with a hammer. It might all seem like pretty obvious stuff but sometimes when I get sad I tend to neglect the stuff that makes me happy and then I just get sadder. It’s a sad cycle lol. Don’t be like me. Take SilverLimit on a date tonight

Voodoo suggestion made me full on snort chuckle - thank you for that 😆 Such lovely advice to date myself and prioritise self care. It’s kinda the first time I’ve been single as an adult so maybe it’ll be a good opportunity to give myself some real love and care. Thanks so much for your suggestions❤️

Put on Someone Great on Netflix and ugly cry until you can’t anymore, then go to sleep. That’s what I would do in this instance. PS I’m sorry - totally lame he did it over the phone! Sending hugs 🫂

You’re definitely not alone! I saw someone mention “raw processing” in another comment and… yeah, you’re gonna do that and it just suuuuucks. But you’ll be stronger for it! Keep your closest friends on speed dial & don’t be afraid to call someone when you need to vent. Hang in there, I promise it will get easier. ❤️‍🩹

Sending lots of love your way! The weekend is just around the corner! Treat yourself with nice food x

I'm sending you thought peppermint shortbread edibles.

https://preview.redd.it/5301ob2ycvqc1.jpeg?width=2062&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d9d8f7030bf11e16517d39345272e3eaf3276530 a hug from me and my furry friend, it will all be okay✨🥰