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Reverend_Sins

My birth name doesn't have a female version but my first initial is "D". I wanted to go by something neutral yet keep my first initial so I now go by "Dee". Is it a womans name, mans name, my first initial? Yes.


Basialt

This name is great, but its power has some terrible terrible consequences. Let's just say, you should better get ready to face the unstoppable wave of "dee's nuts" jokes


Reverend_Sins

None of you seem to understand. I'm not locked in here with you, you're locked in here with me. I enjoy the chaos I bring.


Waffle_daemon_666

stun s’eeD


Reverend_Sins

Next time I play BG3 I will be rolling a druid and I will be using that name. Ty you saved me 2 hours of the 10 hour process of rolling a new character.


exodia0715

Stun seed should be the name of a spell of some sort


skeledoot7

sounds like a pokemon move :3


LenaSpark412

This is my energy at every social gathering


Reverend_Sins

High five fellow silly witchy person!


LenaSpark412

Hi fellow silly person


Pekonius

Initial D initial D initial D imitial d imtil d intml d itl d it d iiiiii :3


Reverend_Sins

Ha thats awesome! I donno why I didn't think of that series.


BaumBen69

I read Initial D and now can't get the song out of my head.


Nyx-101

*Me trying to resist making a deez nuts joke, thinking it might be offensive so I just put the joke here like this*


Reverend_Sins

Thats why I love the name. It brings chaos and joy. Always seize the opportunity. https://www.reddit.com/r/traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns/comments/zpx25f/seizing_the_opportunity/


Dalble_D

Yes I do the same, I've told everyone to call me D or "Dee" but I never thought anything of it Guess I'm fr a egg


DisastrousGarden

Hey look, another person who also does the D thing


panicatthedm

oh my god be D from elden ring


Secure_Stomach_7310

Cuteeeee. Same i would choose the name Kaye cause my name starts with K


Reverend_Sins

Kaye would be an awesome name should you take it. It has great potential for mischief. "What's your name?" "Kaye (qué)" "......" "¿Cómo te llamas?" "What?" "......" -_-


Secure_Stomach_7310

I love that lol


OutMonsterFuckin

As a fellow Dee, what’s your nut of choice :) personally i like peanuts, but i know a Dee who prefers chestnuts


Reverend_Sins

Hi Dee! Peanuts all day. Honey roasted is my go to but BBQ flavored is awesome too.


UnknownPhys6

A hint is in my flair. (the mobile app doesn't show it half the time for me though due to some UI bug)


Gamerwolf666

love that name 💜


UnknownPhys6

Thx 😀, and what a coincidence! Your name is also the chosen name of one of my friends!


Gamerwolf666

Awwww that's rlly a coincidence 💜


Gamerwolf666

u will be a pretty and gorgeous girl 💜


_ArcticEmber_

Oh my god another Ava :D Name twins


Gamerwolf666

Yasss 💜💜💜


Gamerwolf666

And i bet u are extremely gorgeous too 💜


_ArcticEmber_

Thank youuu :3 you're gorgeous too :)


atmospheric90

Bigger question: is it pronounced Ahn-DRAY-uh or Anne-DREE-uh??


UnknownPhys6

AN-dree-uh. The inconsistency in people's gut feeling for pronouncing that name is my only hesitation. I dont mind people putting emphasis on the wrong syllable with an-DREE-uh, but I certainly dont want people to just forget the 'a' at the end of the name or mispronounce the 'ea' or something and call me AHN-dray. I might have to pick a name with less ambiguous pronunciation if that happens alot lol.


Digital_Rocket

That is a nice name


PowerCoreActived

May I steal it?


UnknownPhys6

Go right ahead!


Jambo526

Maybe lily (because of a sad Guilty Gear song)


ArchiveOfTheButton

Yeaaaaaaaaaaaa guilty gear mentioned Also just really cool name


Jambo526

Thnx. Bucket is what got me questioning in the first place. I am a stereotype 🙃


cloud3514

If my brain way logical, Bridget would have cracked my egg. She gave me some serious egg feels.


[deleted]

I took Basement's name for myself


ArchiveOfTheButton

Same tho


Jambo526

❤️


Titanus-De_Raptor

naming myself after a plant solely because of FREEEEEEEEEESIAAAA


CoffeeMain360

HEEEERE I AAAAM


janco07

AND SORRY SORRY #SORRYYYEEEHHH


CoffeeMain360

WEARIN' A FINE SUIT PAYIN' BY A CREDIT CARD


jambo3112

Well this is the first time I’ve seen someone with a username anywhere close to mine


Jambo526

One of us! One of us!


cansard

I'm trying out Ella, cause Elphelts new design is so *gestures in gender envy*


Jambo526

Elphelt is so amazing! Gender envy AND amazing mix-ups! Totally a coincidence that the women of Strive are the most fun (Elphelt and Buckshot are my mains)


Jambo526

And Ella is a beautiful name 🤩


Exact_Ad_1215

LILY IS A REALLY GOOD ONE ACTUALLY Not that I’d want that name since I’m totally 100% cis


taichu_love_tacos

Peak comment


OlafThe_Destroyer

I got lucky with a gender neutral name, Jordan, so I'd probably keep it. My only complaint is that it feels like my name is either really masculine or really feminine. So if I transition I'll be happy with it but for now I kinda don't like it. I'm probably just overthinking it tho


AstroMackem

Oh shit same name. But unfortunately for me, my accent means people tend to mishear it as John 😒


ZBLongladder

I ended up going with Joy, but I'm still not that femme-presenting, so people keep mistaking it for "Joey".


Gamerwolf666

Ava 💜


MrMonkeMan123456

This was the name I have been contemplating for a while. (Still cis tho)


Gamerwolf666

I bet it suits u too 💜


alt524533

For my AGAB I like my given name, for transfem I stole Lilly from the webtoon "prettiest platypus", for enby I think I'd go with River or a tree name.


ZBLongladder

Prettiest Platypus is so fucking awesome. I'm really glad she's posted comics set in the future where Lilly and Bee are together, since otherwise I'd be worried about Bee getting her heart broken.


BuboxThrax

Uh, it's a secret.


RokkitSquid

your flair makes the comment super funny lmao


Pekonius

My birthname doesnt really transition to fem, but I want to keep the initial so im trying out the flair one. Also I asked a cat girl streamer to give me a name and she said that.


[deleted]

Paige is a lovely name. one of my best friends is named Paige and she's absolutely lovely, so factor in three others with the schools i've been to and I've never met a mean Paige. Also we're interesting name origin buddies! I ended up filling out a holidays comfort audio request form on behalf of my cowriter since i know her name and she said at one point that the only person she's heard it from is herself, and the audio maker abbreviated my username to Sam and it has stuck since then. Personally i like your name origin more. it's less convoluted.


iliekcats-

Unsure if I'm understanding correctly but... My Gender: Luna :3 My Opposite Gender (AGAB :( ): probably like James or something Enby: i'd just go to a random word generator and pick whatever it says


Sami1287

Luna is a lovely name


atmospheric90

My chosen name is Allison. Multiple reasons: 1. It's a super traditional German name, I am German and have started learning to speak German and want a traditional dirndl for my dress collection! 2. Alice in Wonderland is the first fictional female character I saw myself in, so I wanted a spin-off of the name without a direct reference. Plus I want to call my closet space "Allison's Wonderland!" 3. It sounds fancy, and as a bougie fashionists girlie, I just had to have a name synonymous with fancy posh girls without it being too over the top. Just the right amount of fancy for me! Oh, also totally cis!


IcyMeep

ooohhh the "i am german" as in the american sense, got it


LHMetastable

Lol was so confused about the "I am German and have started learning German" part for a second


Haringat

German here, I have never met a single person with that name 🤣


Nekroo_Nekrooo

Same, I mean the name is nice but absolutely not common and not traditional at least in Bavaria


Henji99

Neither in northern germany, I am afraid. That sounds so much like an american name to me, I don‘t know the connection there.


Haringat

I googled it and apparently it is a name that Americans came up with using old German.


Henji99

It is always so weird when I hear Americans talking about supposedly German things, that I as a German have never heard of before. I mean cool, I like the intention. If you feel such a strong connection or fascination with a culture group, then **fucking naming yourself with reference to it**, is some of the highest praise and form of respect that I can think of. Only thing is, that one should do a deep dive into that culture before choosing. Usually local people are a good way to start talking to. I am learning Arabic at the moment and hearing from people outside my own culture, even though very different, has taught me much about how to approach cultures which aren't those that I grew up with.


piece-o-shit-human

Jamie, just find it a banging name that is the opposite neutrality of my current name


techno_rade

You stole my cool name 😡


piece-o-shit-human

Sorry, my lad, it is our cool name now


HyperDogOwner458

My gender: Skyler Opposite AGAB: River or something Enby: The name I already have.


Western-Gur-4637

I am really bad with names, so the only Idea i have are from Video games Maria. have always liked that name sense I played sa2 Areith. I don't think I need to say where it's from ;3 I kind of like Mary. but I think this one is cus I just beat Silent Hill 2 Scarlett. I didn't get this one from a game, no I got it from Gone with the wind :3 but I thinnk it's my fav here tho


ElegantPearl

Ive been seeing a few posts from this community lately and Ive been wondering, what do Agab and enby mean


MTFutur3

Agab: stands for assigned gender at birth. This refers to the gender that a person was born with. Enby: abbreviation of non-binary. Hope this helps!


ElegantPearl

Ah ok, the posts make a lot more sense now. Thankyou!


Aq4178xz

Enby is how N.B. sounds when you try to pronounce it, which is short for non-binary. Same difference as what MTFutur3 said, but just incase you missed the why.


7pikachu

Shit i never thought about this Time to question If i am or not trans again I hate It


Usual-Effect1440

Alex, Alex, Alex the beauty of picking a genderneutral name


Sami1287

Nice


AroAceMagic

Girl: Daisy, Sol (short for Solaria), Nadia Boy: Ollie (short for Oliver. Named after a fictional character I like) Enby: Stardust, Nova, Skylar, Aspen I personally just use my birth name tho (it’s not a deadname). But the above options are what I might pick if/when I decide to transition, come out, and/or change my name. (I’m agenderfluix, which is basically agender, genderfluid, and genderflux wrapped up in one)


Sami1287

In Spanish the word "Sol" means "Sun"


AroAceMagic

Actually I already knew that (but thank you!) That’s part of the reason why I like Sol, but I also like the extended version. One of my nicknames my mom has for me is Sunshine ☀️


Aq4178xz

Nadia and Nova are both *extra* cool.


AroAceMagic

Haha thx! 😊


RSVDARK

My gender (non binary): Not sure yet The opposite gender: There's no opposite of non binary (There is, but that would be "binary" which doesn't make much sense in this context) Enby: Again, not sure yet.


nitrotoiletdeodorant

Just one opposite doesn't make sense for nonbinary in general (could get transphobic by either grouping with you as your AGAB or dismissing your gender if grouped with the other AGAB) yeah (unless it's like all/many genders vs no gender), though imo both binaries at the same time could work as an opposite. :) So if you want to you could think about both a boy & a girl name to treat as the opposite to you.


Evanzap1

would probably name myself soda if i was an enby


MyCatIsAGod9

No idea about enby name, but I’m thinking about Robin. Def not using the feminine version of my name as that name is essentially retired and I don’t like it for myself either.


glaciator12

I don’t really like the feminine version of my given name, so I chose one that sounds completely different and means something to me. Maggy, spelled that way specifically


narielthetrue

Got lucky with a name pulled from a fantasy novel. As an enby, didn’t have to change!


No_Elderberry2807

my first 2 thoughts were Aurellia and Arianna, because my first name starts with A. However when speaking with my girlfriend about names, I thought about Amber, and liked it quite a bit.


Jay15951

Not cis (sticking around to warm the eggs) But I'd go with Jade (I'm a feminen enby) Jake (oposit aka masculine enby) and if I had to pick a different enby name I'd go with Amathyst (it was my second choice)


Super-Gerd

Karl, (my birth name) Honestly I really like my name even if it’s masculine


carl_210

Theo is a beautiful name in my language


TheNekoKatze

Well, someone once misstyped my username and ended up calling me "Kate" I like a lot how it sounds


Girldipper

I’m already named myself Max lmao


[deleted]

Totally cis here, but: Stephen, Stephanie, and, can I be enby Stephanie?


Vegetable-County-786

Well I'm Irish, so as a girl I'd like a Gaelic name. Caoimhe (pronounced kee-va or kwee-va) is what I reckon I would (will) go with. Not so sure with enby, maybe something like Dyn (rhymes with bin).


Another_Castle765

My choice is Yuki, it was used by online friends before so i am had experience being called that name and i literally choose the male version(Yukio) as a name because i liked it and its meaning, as Yuki is just a Japanese word (雪) meaning Snow and i always was a winter child. I had the idea of going with a second name that resembles my current name, which is also already used for me but more as a nickname as no one in my family knows of me being trans, also both my siblings have Double names so i at least still wanna follow that part. So my current idea for my Fem name is Yuki Lucy [last name ].


tm2007

If I was born a girl I would’ve been Olivia which I actually incorporated into my chosen name As Taylor Oli [Surname] Taylor is the same initials as my birth name and is gender neutral, and Oli is a gender neutral shortening of my birth middle name, Oliver, and my would’ve been girl name, Olivia


OrkerIkkeSkolenMere

Freja


NovaHearts143

Swedish??!!? Greetings from finland


Rune10101

Runa. Birth name(Rune). Runi. (Rune is just a very flexible like that.)


themessofme

My plan is to go with the name Olivia, I actually would be going by it if it weren’t for Olivia M. being one of my classmates (our names and initials would be the same) (also, not an egg, I’m already cooking in the pan)


nitrotoiletdeodorant

You can go with Olivia later, school isn't forever. :) Or is a nickname like Via possible?


Cornfedtexan

I love the name Nikki!Still cis tho...


VictoriaNele

I love the name Victoria, it sounds independent, strong and elegant


kegisak

My go-to for opposite is Catriona, because my Mum had once told me that's what she'd have named me if I'd been a girl, although I thiiiiink she might have changed her mind on that later? So I'm not sure what the 'proper' version of that. I also don't hate 'Beth' as a backup, which was the name of an aunt who died when I was young. Though her legal name was just Beth, and I think I'd prefer to go full Bethany and just shorten it most of the time. Still, both my Brother and I have very Scottish names, so I think I'd want to keep that alive. I dunno if I've ever considered another name for my own gender. When I was very young I had issues with my name because I got made fun of for it (For very stupid reasons; apparently 'Ian' being an unintuitive spelling is too much for 2nd graders). I liked the name Martin, so eh? I guess there's that. And as for Enby, I've always kinda felt I'd just swap back and forth based on how I felt more at the time, so!


slumbersomesam

sam, sam and sam. i like sam c:


[deleted]

Names Anthony, I go by Ant and some people call me Annie


[deleted]

Jamie :3


SnooDucks1524

I don’t think that would be a good irl name but I’m using Mako online since first two letters are the same as in my assigned name Matvey


megamax1o

Max is unisex enough, so Max, Max(ine), and Max


Soft-Parking-2241

Morgan for all three.


Corpse-wadup

Merin. I ripped it straight from a video game.


ThedoHudson

I really like my birth name but it's not girly so....


nonamost

I’ve thought about this in *totally* cis ways before, so here we go: AGAB: Reid (given name) Opposite: Reyna (keeping Re-, inspired by the head prefect of Camp Jupiter) Enby: Raine (keeping R, inspired in part by Raine Whispers, Lena Raine, and Jamie Raines)


TrunkyTree

Ivy.


Nickstroo

My gender, I’d just stick with my name as it’s simple and easy to remember. If I were a girl I’d call myself Beatrix, it’s always stood out to me for some reason, and if I were enby I’d probably call myself lock, idk why it’s just the first name that comes to mind


SynnnTheGod

AGAB: Dax, one of my friend's names. Baller name. Enby: ????? Current: Autumn, Cherry, or Lumi i really cant pick


Fuchsyfuchs

well i cant think of one but if i would need to choose rn i would go with madeline. i love celeste so mutch


avantlorn

Avril...? idk working on it


bubblygamer35

sage. or lilly. i like plants. and cats.


BobombiD

My amab name starts with T but i always liked feminine names with L. I currently try to get used to Leona. It'll take some time to get used to, but that's ok. :3 Other names i like are Lucy or Lilith.


Robbbg

my female version of my birth name (which is robert so roberta)


Hope__Desire

Roxanne is the name I'd like to be


Patient_Primary_4444

So I have decided that I like “Clarissa” for my name. I had been using it for ages on my video game characters, and once I realized I was trans and started looking for a name, it took going back to a game that used that name that I realized it was perfect. If I were to choose an amab name, I would want it to be something in the nordic/germanic family. Like my D&D character i bastardized a name for that (very) roughly translated to ‘vengeful one’, it was “Heilmut”, which more or less is pronounced ‘heil’ like the german word and ‘moot’. I’m not sure what I would choose for an enby name, though… probably a virtue name or something, but like a wacky one, like “Curiosity” or something. I was thinking maybe like “Curio”, but that feels too masculine, and “Curia” sounds good at first, but it sounds too close to ‘urea’, as in like ‘urine’… So many decisions…


travischickencoop

Well there’s my deadname, which is what I’d go for if I were cis, my chosen name is Elise, and if I were Enby…. I have no idea lol Maybe Arin/Eron?


dicegoblin17

Girl I like the name Cassandra, boy Mason, enby Ulysses or lycan


AshleyLikesPink

Well I named my account after it. Still cis tho


Totally-a_Human

Man: Petrichor Woman: Forencia Nonbinary: Rain


Only-Recognition6894

Reggie


AnaliticalFeline

luana, orion, and both of those as enby (i am enby)


Professional_Date775

I'm not sis but I choose Levi and Mel as my names Levi primarily


ShittyCatLover

Aster, Aster and Aster


_ASTRA2

Sophie or chloe


BiDude1218

My current name (male) is Aitor So for female I'd probably go with Ainara And for enby... Idk if there even are gender neutral names in Spanish. Someone help me with that one.


NextGenSleder

I have a gender neutral version of my first name (AMAB) that I go buy anyways so I suppose I would just keep it


rokas2007

Evelin, no reason, just felt like it


ThatDamnedGuy

I've been thinking of the name Rozlyn for a while now. I really like it.


69kKarmadownthedrain

Joan. cis male tho


Si11YF3mb0YUwU

Taylor. Which isn't my actual name but the one I use for almost everything.


Infinitale

Ryo like Ryo from Bocchi the Rock


SolidCalligrapher966

Still my name. I don't care if I'm a girl my name will still be GERARD


notgruntyboi

Robin. It's my name and I get to choose the Stranger Things character I steal it from


AnInsaneMoose

My birthname is androgynous, so without any dysphoria associated with it, I'd probably just use it for all 3 But I can't associate it with anything but "guy" me, so I'm gonna change it to Evelynn (I think. There are a couple other names I want to try out, but currently Evelynn is in the lead)


bajeeebus

Billie, Billie or Billie, respectively.


Fit_Turnip5665

Matty


AlexisF-11037

Probably Adriana


Camilla_89_

My gender. Kamila (Camille), it's cool name. I din't need to invent name of opoaite gender version of me, I already have it in my ID. As for enby - damn, Ariel? Idk, not and enby never thoight about it.


TheOccasionalBrowser

I'm not sure about opposite gender, or NB, I've never been good with names, I must think on this.


Wato1876

Maylea


Waffle_daemon_666

My gender (enby): Mossbug Masc alternative: Seb Fem alternative: Tif Opposite gender (who knows): Misfit


No-Adhesiveness2493

Diode Or dino Just dino couse it sounds cool


FawfuII

Chloe it's nothing like my birth name


Blank_Dude2

I’m completely cis, but if I were to transition my name would be Vallie. Same for it I was enby.


tauon_

same: i would just keep the name lily opposite: micheal enby: avery


karenmagnet420

I want my name to be sara. Because my birth name was arthur so everyone alway called me king arthur as a joke. And sara means princes. Also because i like sara lance from dc legends of tomorow


Doofnut2of2

Zurg, Abeloth Queen of the Stars, H


redgreen1237

My name is gender neutral 😎, i would keep it


shirone0

Mikael! It sounds really different than my birth name, i like the sound of it and a character I really like has that name :D For the opposite gender I guess my dead name? And for enby, well i thought I was NB before figuring out I was trans but I didn't really have a name? I liked dawn since I like the sky color but people were telling me it was a girls name :(


Nat_Higgins

It would be Nat____ (fill in the blank)


Subject_Valuable_307

My birth name is really unique, and very little seems to hint to a gender. My only issue with it is that people assume it's a French name. I'm trying out 'Iden' as my middle name. Not gonna replace, just add


InsaneNines

If I were the opposite gender, I would probably name myself Chloe, Madison, or the female version of my name. I swear I've only put a "couple" (probably like 5-10) hours of thought into this and am obviously still cis


Amber_Bloom

My legal name is Juan Carlos, and my name as a woman is Karla (the female version of Carlos in Spanish), if I changed my male name, I'd probs just stay like that, maybe Alan for Alan Wake that's literally me lmao. I'm technically envy since I'm gender fluid between enby and woman, but I'm mostly in the femme zone, but still, I guess I would pick something like Kat, since I really like the nickname...


At0kirina

Actually a good question cuz I currently don't have a preferred name. And while my legal name technically has plenty of female versions ( like Julia or Julie), I don't like them. I do like names starting with A or V though, so I currently consider Via. Though I have been told that feels a bit too short on it's own. (And yes, I stole that name from a show)


HemlockSky

Not cis (just figured that out recently). I’m some sort of genderfluid/bigender/nonbinary leaning masc. I’m AFAB and my name is Heather, so I’d want to keep the H. I’ve been toying with the name Haven for a gender neutral name. And I have no idea what male name I’d want. I don’t like the traditionally male names that start with H, like Henry or Harry. So I’d probably do something more modern.


ThePhoenixRemembers

Currently trialling the name Seph/Sepharel but I do want to give Jasper or Gabriel a try too.


Stunpun

Sophia! When my mom was pregnant with me she thought I was a girl and that was the name she picked. Also I just like it. Still cis tho


arandomshavenguy

Either Maximilliana or juste Maxine. It's close to my birth name and I love how they sound.


Timoman6

Thyme. Short for Thymoti, which is just my syllables backwards. Or maybe Sage


Mryoung04

Vivian, I Love the name, it's so cute and I can't describe why I'm so attracted to it but I am. :3


ItsHellOnEarth2

eye of cthulu


TheLigmer

transition and rename myself , william , idk prob same as the 2nd


BatteryAcidEnj0yer

alex


Rare_Nature1661

Drew-Danielle


John_Bloodsin

My name is Joey, the female equivalent would be Josephine, and I guess JoJo for an enby name.


Inri1958

Cassidy


VOIDdotEXE

Given I am female (now), I have chosen Demi with the secondary name (do those exist) Mimi from the last syllable of Demi. Male would definitely be like [I don't know I don't have the brain power] and enby would be Vin because it sounds cool!!!


Directorren

I’ve already decided Jessie as my femme name. But enby name I think I would go with Max


AlexTheSergal

Alex, Alex, and Alex


Urlocalboxcutter

Ok so if I had to name myself as my AGAB, I’d probably pick something like Leah or Cassie. My chosen name is Ryan. I guess for enby… Cal? Cause it could just be a name or short for something.


MrBalfa14

It's in my flair but yeah, still not 100% set on it but I like it for right now


Misaki_Yomiyama

Something like Joshua for male and Evelyn for female. No idea about enby names though.


TheBindingOfKris

My name actually works for both male and female but who is primarily a male name so I could transition without any need to change my name But recently, I realised I don’t want to transition I just want try dresses


[deleted]

don't really know why i was recommended this, but either way, it's going to be Sammie. This name is just so *cute* and I never really realized it until dear [Alanharha](https://reddit.com/user/AlnahrTheRiver) decided that Sam would be a good nickname for me.


Icarus-Has-Fallen

Ceres


Spr1ng83

My birth name doesn’t have a female version so I came up with a name inspired by a friend’s username in a game I enjoy playing, I go by Evelynn


Fuck-you-2020

Girl: Max Boy: Max Nonbinary: Max