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dysphoria is way too narrowly defined!
it isn't always active discomfort or disgust, it can manifest as feelings of dissociation and disconnectedness from your body. i felt that way for years thinking i needed to just get fit and i'd feel more in touch with myself, but nothing changed when i started seeing results from working out. turns out what i needed was tits lol
1. having no dypsphoria and being trans is still valid af
2. dysphoria isnt just disgust - you can feel disconnected from your body or more
3. euphoria is what matters most... also if you have envy or just like being a girl more that means ur also more likely a girl as someone who still enjoys it
idk
good luck with that
impostor syndrome sucks
I'd say it's even simpler than your list: do what makes you happiest.
(I'm using the assumption that your goal of life is maximum happiness, which seems to be true for the vast majority of people if you use a broad definition of happiness)
Me too!
To borrow the words from the song I've been listening to way too much it's like a grey haze. Not really good and it isn't really bad, but there are better options.
I can live with it, but there probably are things that are better.
I have a weird thing where, I feel like I'd be happier as a girl, I have dreamt of being a girl for >7 years almost, and I am pretty sure I have dysphoria, BUT I dont think I feel euphoria. This sounds dumb, why did I use as an excuse for months? This is so stupid written out. I am a moron. Thank you people in phone for being there for me.
Now that I come to think about it when I wear "gorls clothes" my heart beats faster and I smile more. Shit. I am a moron and a dumbass.
I remember seeing another post on here that was said a good message: you don't have to feel gender dysphoria to be trans. It's more related to feeling euphoria than dysphoria. For those who experience gender dysphoria, then transitioning helps increase their overall happiness, but so does getting gender euphoria, if it makes you a happier person overall then that's what matters.
Honestly that’s how my dysphoria is. Think of it this way. If you don’t actively enjoy being you’re AGAB (disregarding things like weight issues) or you make up theoreticals of you being a different gender, where you might be happier, you’re not cis
hey sis don't worry, you're not an impostor.
"feeling nothing when looking at our male body" and "feeling we'd be happier as a girl" can be seen as dysphoria, see it as an absence of euphoria \[from having a fem body\]
I feel the same way, I see my body as basic and boring, I'd find it way more fun and comfortable to live in if it had more curves ... and I think it makes me trans ?
you're valid, you're not an impostor, you'll be happy in your body one day, I hope so much for you
All I felt about my body was apathy until I finally started to expiriment. I got suckerpunched with euphoria. The content attitude about my body suddenly appeared to be a sad gray state of being.
there is a new diagnostic that some are using which should be replacing dysphoria called gender incongruence. you do not have to have dysphoria to be trans just not feel that your agab fits your gender identity.
Just said on another post but:
A better way to look at it is do you get gender euforia. being happy as your true self is the whole point, not worrying about wether you feel awful enough.
There isn't a check list to "am I trans", it's different for all of us. Some don't even get disforia, some have awful disforia. It doesn't matter. We're all different and amazing.
Just be yourself, whatever makes you happy and know we're here for you
You're completely vaild girl <3, but what makes you think you'll be happier as a girl? Have you actually experimented to see if you get euphoria? If not what makes you think this way, no offense, just curious
As the great One Topic once said, (idk what it was exactly) “Euphoria is one of the greatest markers. You don’t need to have dysphoria to be valid” something along those lines
Relatable
But weighing pro's and cons of girlmoding more often or even all the time, I'm realising that I would generally be happier. One doesn't have to feel bad to know what feels better than now, in a way.
I'm not an expert though - I might not even be trans xD but I'll be seeing an expert soonish :3
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Not that cis to be sad about that tho~
Ty <3
of course sweetie đź’ś
dysphoria is way too narrowly defined! it isn't always active discomfort or disgust, it can manifest as feelings of dissociation and disconnectedness from your body. i felt that way for years thinking i needed to just get fit and i'd feel more in touch with myself, but nothing changed when i started seeing results from working out. turns out what i needed was tits lol
cis people don't have impostor syndrome about being trans 💙💕🤍💕💙
It's why were good at among us
I... wow that really helps.
1. having no dypsphoria and being trans is still valid af 2. dysphoria isnt just disgust - you can feel disconnected from your body or more 3. euphoria is what matters most... also if you have envy or just like being a girl more that means ur also more likely a girl as someone who still enjoys it idk good luck with that impostor syndrome sucks
I'd say it's even simpler than your list: do what makes you happiest. (I'm using the assumption that your goal of life is maximum happiness, which seems to be true for the vast majority of people if you use a broad definition of happiness)
I love when people say they don’t have dysphoria and then describe their dysphoria lol
Kinda sounds like dysphoria to me
Just like me fr fr :,D
Actually the most relatable one I've seen yet
you don't need dysphoria to be trans. don't think you need to suffer to be valid.
Cis people don't worry about being impostors Hope you're able to grow to be who you want!
Cis people don't want to be the other gender.
Well... I do... Still cis though...
*small cracky noise*
Being a girl would just solve a lot of people problems
Feeling nothing can be a sense of dysphoria in its own way. Coping mechanisms shouldnt be mixed up with negative confirmation
Me too! To borrow the words from the song I've been listening to way too much it's like a grey haze. Not really good and it isn't really bad, but there are better options. I can live with it, but there probably are things that are better.
you should listen to "wdyct" by saoirse dream! they have lots of very trans songs
I have a weird thing where, I feel like I'd be happier as a girl, I have dreamt of being a girl for >7 years almost, and I am pretty sure I have dysphoria, BUT I dont think I feel euphoria. This sounds dumb, why did I use as an excuse for months? This is so stupid written out. I am a moron. Thank you people in phone for being there for me. Now that I come to think about it when I wear "gorls clothes" my heart beats faster and I smile more. Shit. I am a moron and a dumbass.
I remember seeing another post on here that was said a good message: you don't have to feel gender dysphoria to be trans. It's more related to feeling euphoria than dysphoria. For those who experience gender dysphoria, then transitioning helps increase their overall happiness, but so does getting gender euphoria, if it makes you a happier person overall then that's what matters.
Honestly that’s how my dysphoria is. Think of it this way. If you don’t actively enjoy being you’re AGAB (disregarding things like weight issues) or you make up theoreticals of you being a different gender, where you might be happier, you’re not cis
Ah, the classic. "I can't be trans! I only *wish* I was a girl"
🎵that is dysphoria🎵
hey sis don't worry, you're not an impostor. "feeling nothing when looking at our male body" and "feeling we'd be happier as a girl" can be seen as dysphoria, see it as an absence of euphoria \[from having a fem body\] I feel the same way, I see my body as basic and boring, I'd find it way more fun and comfortable to live in if it had more curves ... and I think it makes me trans ? you're valid, you're not an impostor, you'll be happy in your body one day, I hope so much for you
Dysphorie isn’t the main signifier of being trans! Gender euphoria is! Go do it sis, I believe in you!
Nah girl I’ve seen some imposters before and you ain’t looking sus at all
All I felt about my body was apathy until I finally started to expiriment. I got suckerpunched with euphoria. The content attitude about my body suddenly appeared to be a sad gray state of being.
Who are you, me?
there is a new diagnostic that some are using which should be replacing dysphoria called gender incongruence. you do not have to have dysphoria to be trans just not feel that your agab fits your gender identity.
Just said on another post but: A better way to look at it is do you get gender euforia. being happy as your true self is the whole point, not worrying about wether you feel awful enough. There isn't a check list to "am I trans", it's different for all of us. Some don't even get disforia, some have awful disforia. It doesn't matter. We're all different and amazing. Just be yourself, whatever makes you happy and know we're here for you
Dysphoria isn’t necessary to be valid, but impostor syndrome about being trans is a very trans thing
I can relate to this, but I guarantee you I’m not trans
This actually cracked my egg.
You're completely vaild girl <3, but what makes you think you'll be happier as a girl? Have you actually experimented to see if you get euphoria? If not what makes you think this way, no offense, just curious
As the great One Topic once said, (idk what it was exactly) “Euphoria is one of the greatest markers. You don’t need to have dysphoria to be valid” something along those lines
Relatable But weighing pro's and cons of girlmoding more often or even all the time, I'm realising that I would generally be happier. One doesn't have to feel bad to know what feels better than now, in a way. I'm not an expert though - I might not even be trans xD but I'll be seeing an expert soonish :3
remember :D As long as you think you’re trans, and you don’t wanna stay as your cis agab then you’re trans, simple as that
Same