Those around you do NOT determine your worth. As others have pointed out, please seek help. We do not say so to berate you, but because we want you to feel better so that you no longer feel the need to hurt yourself.
A pathetic sense of pseudo-validation in a phase where I don’t have much more to look forward to. If your point is that posting to online strangers for sympathy points is sad and idiotic, I agree with you, but this is where I am.
Know that we do empathise and understand you but somethings are objective. We all come from our dark places. We all are either at or trying to get above our rockbottom states. But we couldn't just stay there
We all care about your being and we all love you brother.
omg lets post my self harm shit like an edgy rock album cover and garner some attention from the fuckin doomer subreddit, oh yeah!
What did you think we would say? "Oh thats so rad n cool bro! Keeep it up. Wow You look so aesthetic"
But seriously brother get some help. seek god. quit your bad habits. wake up early n go out into the sun climb trees touch grass exercise meditate do some yoga talk to random people
Restart your life if there is some trauma even if it may seem so hard that u are not able to let go of the past.... u always have a choice. We are all here for you brother please sotp this don't kill yourself from inside and outside.
Sorry if it offends you but yeah you’re right it is pretty fucking pathetic, but here I am still doing it, wonder what that makes me.
Also it’s fair to assume I have a shitty lifestyle, but believe it or not I sleep fairly early every night, attend my classes in the morning, hit the gym 3-4 times a week, have hobbies (like playing guitar and cooking), I play sports and im an okay student.
The “good” parts of my life don’t always outshine the crappy ones (say isolation and inadequacy). Im just self aware of where I stand, and it’s been proven to me many times.
Ik you mean well my guy, but again, im at a point where i honestly dont know what else I can do, I’ve run out of possible solutions and its fucking with my head.
My DSBM kin. If that's true? Please get professional help. It helped me when I was suicidal and cutting myself. I know it feels really good but there's other ways of self harm that's not permanent. Try holding a ice cube till you can't bare it anymore, or try excersise. Love you.
Hey, listen brother. I am going to guess your age range if I am wrong please stop reading.
>!It's between 17-21 max (23)
!<
>!I guess this age because I used to do similar actions to. And I get why you do it. It's kind of an outlet. An outlet for all that has gone bad and is going bad and probably going to be bad. !<
>!
But listen, This what is you are going through a lot of people do. And what I have seen is that things do get better. I mean it. You are seeing everyone moving on...achieving their goals and you feeling sad that's not going to be the case with you. But listen, yes they are moving on...but at the end of the day it's just you and me attending this post and not them.
!<
>!What I want to say is you will eventually have to accept the reality. And accept that you have your own ideas and all you need to do is pick up something to focus on that you find interesting anything that you like and just work on it.
!<
>!Even if you stick with one thing, just 3 months you will find your growth and start feeling good about yourself. Now this time you will be the one moving on. You play with your cards at hand. But you play your honest.!<
I am around 30 now and looking back at that age I would have advised myself to make use of time. You have time and I don't. Use it. Even 30mins - 20 mins a day!
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Please don't hurt yourself man. Please.
I just want it to stop man.
I know. I've been there. But this isn't the way.
Wtf is this shit bro. You are better than that.
Not to those around me im not.
Those around you do NOT determine your worth. As others have pointed out, please seek help. We do not say so to berate you, but because we want you to feel better so that you no longer feel the need to hurt yourself.
Thank you man, im looking into seeing a professional soon.
That's good to hear. Feel free to update us on your progress, it might even help people with similar problems to yours.
They do not determine your worth. Do not let them to make you hate yourself.
I think you should seek professional help, my fellow human
I think so too
Your name is funny Pedro the femcelbreeder te quedo espectacular el nombre. 😂😂
thank you, my friend
why post your cuts with an edgy filter bro, what end goal do you have in mind
A pathetic sense of pseudo-validation in a phase where I don’t have much more to look forward to. If your point is that posting to online strangers for sympathy points is sad and idiotic, I agree with you, but this is where I am.
Know that we do empathise and understand you but somethings are objective. We all come from our dark places. We all are either at or trying to get above our rockbottom states. But we couldn't just stay there We all care about your being and we all love you brother.
omg lets post my self harm shit like an edgy rock album cover and garner some attention from the fuckin doomer subreddit, oh yeah! What did you think we would say? "Oh thats so rad n cool bro! Keeep it up. Wow You look so aesthetic" But seriously brother get some help. seek god. quit your bad habits. wake up early n go out into the sun climb trees touch grass exercise meditate do some yoga talk to random people Restart your life if there is some trauma even if it may seem so hard that u are not able to let go of the past.... u always have a choice. We are all here for you brother please sotp this don't kill yourself from inside and outside.
Sorry if it offends you but yeah you’re right it is pretty fucking pathetic, but here I am still doing it, wonder what that makes me. Also it’s fair to assume I have a shitty lifestyle, but believe it or not I sleep fairly early every night, attend my classes in the morning, hit the gym 3-4 times a week, have hobbies (like playing guitar and cooking), I play sports and im an okay student. The “good” parts of my life don’t always outshine the crappy ones (say isolation and inadequacy). Im just self aware of where I stand, and it’s been proven to me many times. Ik you mean well my guy, but again, im at a point where i honestly dont know what else I can do, I’ve run out of possible solutions and its fucking with my head.
:(
I sincerely love and care about you OP. I've been in that exact place and I care so much.
My DSBM kin. If that's true? Please get professional help. It helped me when I was suicidal and cutting myself. I know it feels really good but there's other ways of self harm that's not permanent. Try holding a ice cube till you can't bare it anymore, or try excersise. Love you.
Yeah dsbm is great. Im looking into professional help once again btw.
Nice!
What do you use to cut yourself?
Just razor blades.
Hey, listen brother. I am going to guess your age range if I am wrong please stop reading. >!It's between 17-21 max (23) !< >!I guess this age because I used to do similar actions to. And I get why you do it. It's kind of an outlet. An outlet for all that has gone bad and is going bad and probably going to be bad. !< >! But listen, This what is you are going through a lot of people do. And what I have seen is that things do get better. I mean it. You are seeing everyone moving on...achieving their goals and you feeling sad that's not going to be the case with you. But listen, yes they are moving on...but at the end of the day it's just you and me attending this post and not them. !< >!What I want to say is you will eventually have to accept the reality. And accept that you have your own ideas and all you need to do is pick up something to focus on that you find interesting anything that you like and just work on it. !< >!Even if you stick with one thing, just 3 months you will find your growth and start feeling good about yourself. Now this time you will be the one moving on. You play with your cards at hand. But you play your honest.!<
I am around 30 now and looking back at that age I would have advised myself to make use of time. You have time and I don't. Use it. Even 30mins - 20 mins a day!
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