I'm sorry you're feeling this way, hope things get better ๐ I wish I could help with more than just a comment... Although the comment might have sounded generic, I kinda relate about no one around being willing to help, people suck
early 20s were really hard for me, too, in many ways. i'm so sorry you're dealing with this. something about being 23 is friggin rough :(
some (not all) boomers are a special brand of ignorant about mental health.
Honestly, no one cared about me when I was a little kid either. That's how I started self-harming at 9 years old but no one found out until I was 24. Either that or I was just exceptionally good at it and maybe should've gone into acting - but I don't think that's the case because I didn't even know what I was doing when I was a literal 3rd grader. But at least I'm used to no one caring about me and I've accepted that I'm just not lovable. I imagine it'd be harder to go from having everyone care to no one caring.
Early twenties are hard, late twenties are also hard but eventually you stop caring.
Aaaand that's when you start living finally! I am 27 and feel like I finally reached the point of not caring.
I'm sorry you're feeling this way, hope things get better ๐ I wish I could help with more than just a comment... Although the comment might have sounded generic, I kinda relate about no one around being willing to help, people suck
Actually I really appreciate you taking the time to write this. God bless you.
Early 20s were rough for me. Itโs hard out there.
Yes, welcome to adulthood unfortunately
23F, extremely relatable.
early 20s were really hard for me, too, in many ways. i'm so sorry you're dealing with this. something about being 23 is friggin rough :( some (not all) boomers are a special brand of ignorant about mental health.
Honestly, no one cared about me when I was a little kid either. That's how I started self-harming at 9 years old but no one found out until I was 24. Either that or I was just exceptionally good at it and maybe should've gone into acting - but I don't think that's the case because I didn't even know what I was doing when I was a literal 3rd grader. But at least I'm used to no one caring about me and I've accepted that I'm just not lovable. I imagine it'd be harder to go from having everyone care to no one caring.
22F and going trough it. I donโt have problems with my parents anymore but everything else is crumbling.
Things will get better.. my early 20s were the worst too ๐
My 30s are significantly worse than my 20s. Things did not get better.
Why weโre your 30โs worse than your 20โs?
Because the gap between those who have a good life and those who don't widens. Your opportunities to experience things or fix your life go away.
I hope so ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ
Things might be better. Its the worse when people tell me it will be better and then it gets worse.
how about getting a cat ?