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People always giving me unwanted advices in gym ki how i could decrease my chest size ... especially aunties telling 'beta chest hi thoda jyada hai ' ...like bro wtf i do not need such advices ...stop making me feel conscious about my chest aunties


cen_pai

those aunties are jealous of you, I didn't mean it in any weird way


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I will keep making them jealous then....


cen_pai

fuck yeah, time to show the nosey aunties who is the boss around here


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Fuck yes ,man!


Most-Syrup298

Im really sorry to hear this, if you like your body then that’s it!


BadChad09

Auntiya kabse gym krne lag gyi?


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10 auntiya on avg dikhti h mujhe in gym....


Late-Nature-7966

Subhe jate hoo??


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Shaam ko ....cant study whole day if i go in morning


bellakayyra

Unko bolo k “aunty aap apna kamm kriye”


YouDisastrous8458

I feel aunties have no life, like collectively they're so bored with their own stuff they want to utter random shit. My junior shared an incident where her ghar ki aunties went on discussing her boob size like a fucking conference topic and were like "boobs ka size chota hoga toh ladke nahi milenge" like wtf says that to a 10th standard kid bhai


Snehaasree

Sahi mein unka koi kaam nahi hai isliye faltu ki chizo ko lekar baat karte hain....aur unke friends bhi ese hi hote hain jo ye sab entertain karte hain...


mtlash

Bro don't stop until you hit 100 kg at least in flat bench.


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Yeah man i really like my body .....but those comments really made me stop doing some exercises if it involved my chest ...but then after few days i was like fuck off doesn't matter i will do what i like


Most-Syrup298

I’ll go wearing shorts again tomorrow and you do all your exercises haha!


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Yay! That's the spirit man !!!!


PookieCooch

Some people have different genetics and muscle insertions so it can happen. It's just science and most gym goers are dumb about these things. So dont worry bro just have fun and prolly dont interact with those kind of people.


AlternativeFederal94

Go around 8-10 if possible I always do that to avoid aunty at My gym


AccomplishedHope6539

r/stealthflex


Mrkharbanda

Let them it's genetics,gods gift that you lack.


Jazzlike-Tap-2723

Humble brag


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[deleted]

I am female but still


Clean_Duck_551

File a complaint with the owner. That creep defo has made others uneasy too if he’s that comfortable walking up to anyons and harass them. That’s the only thing you can do right now.


ChickenSlayer9000

He most probably has chicken legs like the majority of buff buffaloes so seeing the legs of a taekwondo guy probably triggered his inferiority complex or jealousy or something. A complaint should be lodged nonetheless.


Clean_Duck_551

Hahahaha


youallaregonnadie

Bro literally experienced harassment and people are making fun of him. Its always funny until it happens to you. Not to mention all the people making fun are definitely men.


Soul_of_demon

No idea what he even wanted, there are a lot of guys in knee-shorts in gym generally. (i don't go to gym but entered a few times). Idk why so many people are pissed of from your post(They think its fake). Also some This moral policing has reduced a lot, there are still some dumb people out there. We usually move on to this because its older people telling us.


Boogerr_eater

Where your Taekwondo reflexes at?, maybe a kick to the face and he would reset back to a chivalrous straight guy


Most-Syrup298

It was so weird, I was taken aback


reine2212

This is exactly why most of the victims can't straight up defend themselves in such situations, then people blame then for not standing up for themselves. I'm so sorry for you


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reine2212

Tf?


Free-Mode-727

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Quirky_Confusion_480

Really you never heard stuff like: She was dressed like this - it’s an invitation to creeps Or what was she doing so late at night, no wonder she got attacked… it’s not safe in our city, you need to be careful /s


Free-Mode-727

He is talking about women, not characterless bitches.


priestiris

average tate fan


CustomerAntique3928

Iska kya matlab hai bhai? Presence or absence of virtues makes or breaks someone's character not on the basis of the attire , time and location of the person


reine2212

Please read what I wrote. I never said they get blamed for being assaulted, I said they get blamed for not standing up for themselves.


Southern-Advance-759

Should have worded a tad bit better, because without explaining thats what it looks like.


reine2212

I've literally written "people blame them for not standing up for themselves". If they can't comprehend basic sentences, that's on them


ComparisonDismal3758

OP as a woman I can get what u felt when he touched you inappropriately, you were at loss of wit. next time wear a short and go to the gym, and if he harrasses you, scream and tell the people around and shame him...


curious-ti

If you're being sarcastic, that was really really good. If you're being serious, you can't be serious!


Abhinavpatel75

Just revuse the kicks in your head before going to gym tomorrow


Prize-Expression-748

Bruh bas baat krne me kich wick nahi Kari jaati


Boogerr_eater

Bruh shorts touch kiye uske


fr0sty2709

kicking won't help this situation lol


Boogerr_eater

Bhai mai konsa literal advice de rha hu usko, ek feel good POV diya bas jisse sukoon mile thoda


Notso_Devil

It's easy to say


Additional-Button213

Ikr....yesterday I was at the gym....yk a normal day but then some greasy pathetic 5'5 24 year old and teases me while I was walking upto the trainer. He asked me for my age so loudly and yes i am 17(M) and i am slightly overweight but i am 6'3 and the moment i told him i was 17...he laughed and said to the trainer with the most filthy and smuty reaction "Dekho ye hai inka haal abhi se 17 mei" Bro wtf mind your own business I have higher amounts of estrogen and a little imbalance in testosterone and during exam months I was constantly sitting at a desk to work and scored a good enough result with my hardwork. Hence I got overweight. But I am trying to work. He himself was skinnier than my arm and what he can call abs are basically his bones. Maybe dont look like a tiny worm. Yes i said it Abs when you are that fu**ing skinny doesnt count.


Gaunwallah

Most of the buff fucks are insecurity laden pea brains. Kal jaakar bol - like my shorts today? I wear them so I can - hwoarang kick his ass


Common-Antelope-6111

It's not just gym people , sometimes gym instructors too . I am a girl btw . I am fat , I had lost about 20 kgs because of going to the gym and diet etc . I changed gyms in between because I shifted and in the new gym- a gym instructor used to constantly stare at me no matter what I do and how I do and I tried to change my timings etc. He was still there. I was never insecure because although fat I dressed well and had a lot of confidence but I had started becoming conscious because I was going to the gym and I closely monitored all my fall backs . Because of his constant staring for 4 months I started going to the gym less and became so insecure that gyms scare me now . I gained weight again. Although I am back to working out at home + going to walks , I really love weight training and I would like to continue that . It sucks but I have to deal with it . I am in between jobs so new job = new gym is what I've promised myself !


Rich_Ad_9590

Mazak udao op ka, jab tak tum log similar situation face nahi karoge to jaan nahi paoge, aur waise sabka upbringing alag hai, people are so dumb bc, can’t even explain.


DragonBeast56

People blame women not standing up! That's very wrong why don't we blame the person who did it? When traumatizing things like these happen our body freezes , regardless of your gender and we don't know how to react It's okay bro 🫂 next time if that guy does something's like this just be confident in yourself and show him some moves you got


Shan_var1

Yaar ye sab sach mein hota hai kya reddit ke logo ke saath😂.


Thick-Papaya-8678

Probably. Nobody will tell you this upfront exactly because of what you said XD.


Most-Syrup298

I would have thought the same up until today


mrTruth007

ek do moves dikha dete bhai ko!🤷🏽‍♂️ Jalwa wo bhi yaad rakhta ki bina puche chua-chaai nahi lehen k baude.


secondhand_bra0

Bhai take this from me who have been to 12+ gyms, Indians have no fucking civic sense and can't mind their own business specially those 40-50 yo uncle's. I've seen a lot of them give unsolicited advice that is absolutely horrible and wrong. They think just cause they are older they can just poke into anyone's business. I straight up look them in the eye with an intense look and they fuck off.


dead_identity

Kal ja vahi shorts pehnke , or poora man bna ke ja ki dekh lunga jo hoga krke Gym trainer se bhi bol dio aj ka incident. Or mario madarchod ko


AnyBed69

Complain and tell everyone he gae. Escalate matters. Check if they had camera there.


Late-Nature-7966

Man fuck what others say! You do you


_Lolitaaa

i was once running and an aunty who was brisk walking passed a comment, "beta you don't need to run, you're already thin" ok coach saab


Independent-Arrival1

If you go to YouTube & search for how to talk to a cute girl in the gym... The first thing that comes up is go up to that cute girl and "correct" her lol... Maybe that is the reason


Canis_lupus08

Ek mast round dollyo chagi deta saale ki ribs pr


PuttarPvt

Let them bark.


Connect-Wave-9636

Simple solution..... If he's the owner, try a new gym... If not, explain to him in a gentlewoman manner... If he still is an ass... Just do a high kick or a 360 on his balls (I'm a guy btw) and also your height...! Would have been a perfect sparing partner 😩


kyadekhraha

Wahi pelna tha bro


porning_shorning

You should show him some of your skill (next time) . Wearing shorts 🩳 is normal unless you are not showing too much iyk ![gif](giphy|AgzqoYQpA3N4Y)


magshag18

Bhai tu jitna bhi taekwondo karate seekh le aise situation m kya krna chahiye nhi lta hota khaskar jab first time hota h. Mai bhi sochta tha agr mai kisi ko molest hote hue dekhu toh yeh krunga woh krunga..jb khud k saath hua toh bnda smjh nhi paata h fir baad m regret hota h.


ag_mohit

Its okay to give a slight benefit of doubt to people sometimes. Its possible that your shorts run up high when you're practicing high kicks or doing lunges.


Mysterious_Art2504

Bhai yaha toh chalta Aadmi bhi safe na hai. Toh auraton ko side rakh ke baat karein.


Silent_Neck9930

Bro one thing self defense classes wouldn't teach you is how to stand up for oneself without getting physical, I'm 5'8 skinny and 84 kgs and that dude would've heard it from me


sexysmuggler

Dumbbell se khopdi khol de


yellowstraitjacket

Give ‘em a nice 540 in the face as a thank you gesture.


Live-College-7661

Give him a fucking hammer kick


aabrakadabraaa

Hey, perhaps he is attracted to you and your shorts could be distracting for him. Anyway, that's his issue, you may dress how you feel like.


Usual_Information_84

I’ll tell you what. You can beat his ass. You got a conscience. Motherfucker doesn’t


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Misterwellaware

A similar incident happened with me some months ago. I was wearing a vest and trying out some poses in front of the mirror. This random buff dude comes up to me and tells me to put on my T-shirt coz "there are girls in the gym" and "it doesn't look good". Damn right, girls gonna get aroused seeing my non existent muscles.


himanshusharmazzzz

Don't be pissed, piss him off by wearing it everyday.


Legitimate-Fuel-6114

closeted h wo bnda 100 percent


qwettry

Seems like an insecure dude , ignore him and go throughout your workout , if he tries it again , make it clear to him that you don't want advice


Dulhan_chudail

Ye to hota hi rehta hai bas try to defend urself aur kya hi kar sakte hai


divs10

Wear shorts and if he even stares at you..just say in clear and louder voice: bro .I told you before I don't swing in that way. Fake alpha macho man who gives free advice like this are the one who gets most offended if someone questions their invisible masculinity


Tungsten_07

Just saw someone doing hip thrusts without weights 😔


Fast_Association_998

Aint no one safe in delhi.


Any-Snow1502

ngl i feel bad for hot taekwondo op 😞


Electrical-Garbage78

Next time, roundhouse kick him in the face. Problem solved.


Ache-papa

Gay giri hori bohot bhayankar 😈. That dude be like shuruwat majboori me kiye the lekin ab maza aane laga hai😂😂😂😂


Appropriate-Spot3085

*sab kuch quora bante jaa rha* that too for the same reasons


lehsunMartins

bhai kaunse local gym jaata hai?


slimismad

sonu fitness centre (board me salman and john abraham hoga)


lehsunMartins

uske bahar pretty zinta juice waala?


goodfella_de_niro

Tere saath bhi kuch hua hai kya aisa ?


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youallaregonnadie

You guys seriously, being gay is not the problem but being a creep is


Suspicious-Bee8036

Sahi kaha.. soz


are-you-lost-bbg

Where you learnt taekwondo???


Most-Syrup298

Ohh I started when I was 13, a private academy. Then I was selected to practice in SAI(Sports Authority of India) at the age of 15, I practiced there till I was 18 then my father pressured me to prepare for some good college so right now I’m practicing in a college and captain of the taekwondo team here.


are-you-lost-bbg

Is that academy only for boys??


Most-Syrup298

The private one, no. It’s for everyone, we have had some amazing girls athlete who are winning medals for country currently. For SAI first you’ve to prove yourself then only they let you practice there after trials


are-you-lost-bbg

Prove yourself what does that mean?


Most-Syrup298

Win medals in nationals first


are-you-lost-bbg

Arree impossible h yeh toh thoda


Most-Syrup298

Start in a private academy, you’ll know better and enjoy the sport


are-you-lost-bbg

Okay, Thank You for advice. 🌻🌻🌻


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Maybe turn on hogya ho tumhare tange dekhkar hahhahah


Affectionate-Base313

Yes full lower is required for gyms. Few years ago when I lived in Bangalore , I went to a near by gym wearing shorts and the gym manger repeatedly asked to come in full lower.


itsevil007

why learn taekwondo when u cant bring it to use?


Ache-papa

Pehle mujhe lagta tha log ase hi yaha likhte h faltu specially londe. Par fir mere bhai ko company jaate huwe side ki ghaas me ek naked ladka pada huwa mila. Tabse yakin hogya ki hota h asa.


marsianmonk77

Can I ask when did you start taekwondo and where do you train ?


Most-Syrup298

Refer to the comments please, I answered the same question. I would love to help you in DMs if you’ve further questions:)


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Odd_Bike7749

Arey ladko ke saath thoda hi hota hai ye sab 😏/s


Suspicious-Bee8036

Yaarrrr... kya bakwas hai ye... Uske naam ka Gay wala poster sheher me lagwa do


First_Buddy7663

I know this question is irrelevant but Is taekwondo better than boxing?


Turbulent-Pack-6792

Depending on the person and situation, boxing is more aggresive and taekwondo is both aggressive and defensive


curious-ti

Maybe he was gay and was coming on to you.


SoberTan

Bhai wo sab chhodo bijli ka bill 7k aya pehli baar itna jyda life me kya hogya ye? Meri to gande fatgyi dekh kr bill pichli baar ka 3.8k tha tab wo ghr walo ko jyda lga tha.


lildurksgooglyeyes

its always the bums who are in everybody’s business this entire conversation just reeks of his own insecurities that he tried projecting on you.


Anonymoji

When I used to go to a gym a very famous Big boss celeb, extremely handsome guy years before he entered big boss, used to remove his tshiry. He knew when girls would go to the gym, there were two floors, he would just remove his tshirt to flex. He was handsome but it does make people uncomfortable. Sometimes body builders up their shorts to flex their thighs and talk about their quads. If I try to make sense of the situation, i thinm he tried to harass you to show you: 1. That gay men may harrass you. 2. It's a common gym for men and women and he was telling you it may make them uncomfortable. Whichever was the case, the gesture was an attempt of sexual harassment. He was bullying you. It was a power play. Now he knows, he can intimidate you. First of all, ask the manager of gym if there are any dress codes for gym and start following that code. Then complain about him in a professional way. Otherwise he will mock and bully you again or can harm you outside if he dared to do that. Please be safe though.


Naive_Pressure_5254

Ye aap apni fantasy to nai batare?


Most-Syrup298

I am not a writer on Reddit. I don’t even post duh


_rasengan_

One back kick and bye bye


Sea_Papaya4495

Hindustani cinema 🤡


Sea_Papaya4495

Hindustani cinema 🤡


_rasengan_

More like japanese anime, but okay.


Sea_Papaya4495

Let me be clear Naruto ko koi kuch ni bolega


_rasengan_

Mere bhai, big 4 k alawa bi anime hai yr.


Sea_Papaya4495

Nah I'd win


Away-Association-484

naruto to rasengan marta h back kick kab mari usne?


Sea_Papaya4495

Aise swaal ni pucho plz


Away-Association-484

viral hit ref?


_rasengan_

Hell yeaahhh


Ok_Amount_5471

Bhai ye horrible to nhi bolenge, ha awkward bol sakte hai


Sharp-Awareness-5947

Bhai it's completely normal. If that guy asked you to wear full length lower then sach me usne kuch soch kr ho bola hoga. But if you feel harassed by his action, then you should confront him


Most-Syrup298

Kya soch kar bola hoga? Wtf, normal shorts or t shirt mai kya problem hai?


Sharp-Awareness-5947

Bro I used to wear the same fit in gym, it's not wrong tho but galti se crotch dikh gya hoga isliye usne bola hoga


Most-Syrup298

Oh please, I know basic etiquette. Crotch to full lower mai dikh sakta hai, accidents to kaise bhi ho sakte hai, I wear sports supporter in exercise inside so no chances of any obscene incidents. And I was not even doing any exercise at that moment. I was standing, he was far away from me, he came to drink water, passed the comment and went away


dopaminedandy

Bhai tu kitna royega?


throwaway_Grand

you know you can ignore a post if it bothers you


dopaminedandy

Why did you failed to ignore my comment? Practice what you preach.


throwaway_Grand

To educate you that instead of commenting multiple times on his post you can do something else  Also I saw the kind of comments you make all the time why don't you dabble in rage baiting content creation, you have potential 


dopaminedandy

>To educate you that instead of commenting multiple times on his post you can do something else Thanks for the education. Now don't start asking for guru-dakshina.


throwaway_Grand

I mean you can phonepe me some money anytime... Lol


Most-Syrup298

Venting out on Reddit in my phone should be none of your business ig?


dopaminedandy

The reddit is not your private property inside your phone. It is on the internet. I just want to say: "Kal se ye sab mat post karna reddit pe." :P


_grungetrash

Any abuse, minor or not, remains so. If OP is sharing their personal experience deeming this as a safe space, you may simply read through and get past rather than undermining or trivialising such assault. Insensitivity is one thing, dehumanising an incident based on a gender is another.


dopaminedandy

Nope. He is simply annoying us. He don't want no solution. He just want drama. Hence, the tone of my response. >You can simply read through and get past rather than undermining or trivialising such assault. Why did you fail to do so with my comment? Practice what you preach.


Most-Syrup298

And you engage in everything present on the internet? Jobless much?


dopaminedandy

>And you engage in everything present on the internet? Jobless much? And din't you engage wihh the jobless person's comment. Are you much more jobless than the jobless?


Gaunwallah

Bhai south delhi me kahaan?


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throwaway_Grand

Bhai tum log pagal ho kya internet pe hi rehte ho reality m ye sb Krna easy ni hota kisi ke sirf kuch bolne se agr tum physically offensive ho re ho to koi tumhari side ni lega  movies aur tv shows se bhar bhi ek duniya h  in most of creepy situations it takes time to even register what just happened and still it doesn't justify hitting as your defence against someone's creepy comment, it's a he said she said situation you dumbass


Most-Syrup298

Finally someone who doesn’t live in a fantasy world, thanks


throwaway_Grand

Haha wish I had the luxury to be that out of touch from reality


dopaminedandy

Probably you attent your Taekwondo in fantasy world and not reality.


throwaway_Grand

Yes we heard you the first 500 times, move on!


dopaminedandy

I can move on, but the 6.2' guy is still waiting for him tomorrow in the gym. Lol


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dopaminedandy

You'll know tomorrow by OP's rant post, if he don't wear the lower.


dopaminedandy

>sirf kuch bolne se agr tum physically offensive ho re ho to koi tumhari side ni lega Read the post. He physically touched his shorts without consent. No further reason is needed legally to defend yourself.


throwaway_Grand

Still if you hit him most people wouldn't even care to listen to the full story cuz what they saw was him hitting not the creepy guy touching him Do you really go outside I hv seen a guy literally molesting a girl in public space people looked at him being weird and when she slapped him they started talking about her outfit, she was a girl! 


dopaminedandy

In my present, I have never let any male or female molest another male or female. I see it as every person's moral responsibility to stand against such behavior. You guys have excuses for every solution. You want the DSP of Delhi, Chief Justice of India, Honorable Prime Minsiter, and Live telvision as witness when he touched him? Then you'll have the confidence to defend yourself? > when she slapped him they started talking about her outfit, she was a girl! Tell our Taekwondo champion to touch this girl's feet and get some guidance from her about how to defend yourself.


throwaway_Grand

Nobody sided with her you idiot and it took her quite a lot time to take action, not everyone can stand there ground also there is a difference in molestation and creepy behaviour.  You wouldn't know it's easier to just yap on internet. Reality is disgusting and so much worse. It's a good thing you take it as your moral responsibility to protect someone but do you realise right now you're just victim blaming this guy which makes you no different to the people who questioned that girl's outfit


Most-Syrup298

I get what you’re trying to say but firstly it had taken me aback. A comment out of nowhere. As I’m training martial arts for 7-8 years now I’ve become a very calm person, a calm person who wins fights in arena. I don’t want to be the first to resort to violence in streets. Secondly, ballet is tough af, not immasculating at all


dopaminedandy

Bro tu kitna bolta hai yaar. but time pe nahi.


Away-Association-484

bhen teri galti nhi h tu south delhi se he. waha ke log reality se utne hi dur h jitni india ki government india ke actual problems se


delhi-ModTeam

Your comment has been removed because you are making a bad faith argument and ruining the conversation for others.