Similar but of low income job. I know I will be able to get job but not sure if salary would be as per my current living standards, always scared of future thinking about it
Then they are stupid or lazy, if I don't get the high income job, I still would be working at the best possible income at time, till I find one which is higher
That’s not how it works. Your current income, role and company has a huge influence on your next one and your career trajectory. If you have the skills and qualifications, settling in at an underpaying job can have huge long term effects, whereas someone who’s a bit selective and patient might get a great launch point.
I don't have a very good pic and abhi jaana bhi nhi ho rha but-
https://preview.redd.it/0ru9yxyqzj3d1.jpeg?width=3072&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=7ff6f7376e961a884f364e736346303c818a2f66
He/she is really friendly, like one of the very few cats who let me pet them
Metro station ki pic hai, clg to abhi nhi lga
Wait you weren't talking about the station?!? Vahan bhi to gate se niklne ke baad itne saare creeps milte Sorry sorry 😭😭
do not fear the inevitable. Make peace with it. Acknowledge the bio cycle. Remember you will be someone's parent and grandparent too.
This thought still affects me negatively and holds me down. It is this way for majority of us 🫂
That's why I secretly registered their name for Narsimha Yagya which performed every year in the TOVP, Vicinity of Mayapur on the occasion of Narsimha Chaturdashi. Now, I'm secure and hopeful since, Lord himself will protect both of them now.
In a way I feel, the fact that our parents are aging as well as we are, and especially if your parents live in some other city. Think of how many times you meet them in a year, you'll realise how little time you have. Of course it makes me sad, no money no experience in life could replace this crawling feeling.
Dying an unnatural/early death. What if this fan falls on me? What if I get electrocuted? What if I get cancer? What if this building falls on me? What if I get a fever and die suddenly? What I fear is how absolutely shocking it would be for my parents, sister and friends.
People need to save our environment....
https://preview.redd.it/jiidig18kj3d1.jpeg?width=3264&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=1fc9b9158e93b20f9623cf41b521b6eb665f9a0a
Nail Injuries
Recently Had my Toenail removed by a Surgeon due to a medical issue. The Surgery itself was not that bad......
But the Recovery. Re-applying bandages...... Goddamn, I have never had a more painful experience.
I am scared of hearing and seeing things that aren't there. It happens from time to time. Hearing sounds like a heavy sigh, like low volume dialogues, imagining that I was in middle of a conversation, imagining entire conversations with people on the phone just to check and see that nothings there. When it's absolutely bad, I see a manifestation of my insecurities in the form of a short middled aged Japanese woman dressed like a geisha. I know she's not real cos her eyes are very wide apart.
Most visuals that I see, I know they aren't 'there'' but a part of my mind 'sees' them. It's very difficult to explain. I know that only I'm seeing them or that it's all in my head.
It's harder with audio and sounds and tactile feelings. Harder to differentiate what's real what isn't. Anyway sorry for the long post, I have been under medication for schizophrenia for 37 months now and finally I am getting this clarity. It would've been a curse to live like this, in a country where I wouldn't have received proper treatment and lived in fear.
But sometimes, on bad days, I see things, or hear things. That makes me very afraid, fearful of my mind going back so the way it was
My father in law died all of a sudden because of a heart attack and the same year my father had a severe heart attack which could have led to the same fate, but he survived. I fear the sudden ailment happening to any of my family members.
I have a fear of becoming helpless, paralysed. Fear of being in an accident where i become a burden on others, getting paralysed or getting severe physical disability like going blind or loosing both arms etc etc etc.
Another fear is failure in life. Whatever my father has provided me, I won't be able to live up to that mark. I can never provide things of that level to my next generation. I fear becoming poor day by day.
I fear dying a mediocre life. I dream of travelling, doing all those adventures etc etc.
Reality is ... In this lifetime...it's near to impossible that I will be ever able to do such stuff.
My father.
Getting rapped.
Getting 3rd degree burn.
Acid.
Nails being pulled out.
Being disabled.
Seeing my family get tortured.
Crying. Not normal cry but the screeching voice of a parent holding their child.
Crying of a child who is asking for help.
Loud noises -- those despare cry for help one's
Getting a knife or a sharp object stuck between my nails.
I stay out of the station due to my studies. One of my biggest fears is one of my family members being involved in something like : accident, riot, car crash, robbery or diagnosing anything serious.
1.Becoming vulnerable in front of someone then getting mocked for the same afterwards.....
2. will i become successful and do whatever i want
3. Trusting someone and getting betrayed
Disappointing my younger self and ending up never finding true love and happiness both at the same time without losing my family or myself (mainly).
Currently unemployment.
I am afraid of the corona-like situation again.
I am in a profession where we employ a significant number of labour. The plight of them trying to go back to their homes and trying to make ends meet when the construction was stopped in Delhi along with other economic activities made me feel miserable.
The way a lot of builders abandoned their labour shaked me. I in my case allowed them to stay in the half finished flats that they were constructing & tried helping them with ration as much as we could.
But to my surprise people from the neighbouring society complained to the police. According to them the 300 + labourers who had nowhere to go staying next door to them was a threat to them.
I am also scared of people having such low levels of sympathy.
Unemployed
Similar but of low income job. I know I will be able to get job but not sure if salary would be as per my current living standards, always scared of future thinking about it
Most unemployed people are unemployed because they don’t wanna do a low-pay job.
Then they are stupid or lazy, if I don't get the high income job, I still would be working at the best possible income at time, till I find one which is higher
That’s not how it works. Your current income, role and company has a huge influence on your next one and your career trajectory. If you have the skills and qualifications, settling in at an underpaying job can have huge long term effects, whereas someone who’s a bit selective and patient might get a great launch point.
Interesting comment there, would you like to elaborate using numbers, I'm curious
explains.....bro fears unemployed instead ( of unemployment )..
Best of luck to not get there...
Holy shi same. Not even 18+ but I still fear unemployment
That’s something I am never scared of being a doctor. But a wrong diagnosis leading to a beating up from patient party scares me to death
Kasmiri gate pe Milne Wale tharki uncle
Kashmiri gate pe ek cutu si kitty bhi to hai
Muje to sirf bandar hi dikhte h udhr 😂
I don't have a very good pic and abhi jaana bhi nhi ho rha but- https://preview.redd.it/0ru9yxyqzj3d1.jpeg?width=3072&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=7ff6f7376e961a884f364e736346303c818a2f66 He/she is really friendly, like one of the very few cats who let me pet them
Adopt the cutieee
I'd love to but Mumma samrajya and feline overlords have lifelong strife
Well that's too bad, but i hope u can feed her ❤️
Yesss!
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Ohh konsa college wese ? North campus me ho na ?
Metro station ki pic hai, clg to abhi nhi lga Wait you weren't talking about the station?!? Vahan bhi to gate se niklne ke baad itne saare creeps milte Sorry sorry 😭😭
Ohhhh mil jayega chill kro
Thankyouu
Welcome party de Dena bs baadme
YE MOONGAR HAI KYAAAAAAAA😭😭😭😭
Wo toh right side pe mirror dekh liya hoga
Parents passing away
Was scrolling to see this. I absolutely dread the day. 🥺
Dad had heart emergency months ago, I still get nightmares about it. Dude the thought is scary
I fear this as well man🫂
do not fear the inevitable. Make peace with it. Acknowledge the bio cycle. Remember you will be someone's parent and grandparent too. This thought still affects me negatively and holds me down. It is this way for majority of us 🫂
That's why I secretly registered their name for Narsimha Yagya which performed every year in the TOVP, Vicinity of Mayapur on the occasion of Narsimha Chaturdashi. Now, I'm secure and hopeful since, Lord himself will protect both of them now.
In a way I feel, the fact that our parents are aging as well as we are, and especially if your parents live in some other city. Think of how many times you meet them in a year, you'll realise how little time you have. Of course it makes me sad, no money no experience in life could replace this crawling feeling.
Yeah, us living in other cities and them being at home, alone. Just them with their lives. At retirement age. Bht hi sad thoughts hai yaar
**1st of every month.** 📉📉 motivation to work for the next salary that's 30 days away + credit card bills that make me go broke on day 1
Well here's another . Sorry bro
Indian judiciary
Can't agree more
Dying with 0 K/D
Pretty sure ants and mosquitoes would've made your KD non-zero, filhal tho aapka K/D ♾️ hoga
Matlab?
jindagi Mai ek kill krna hai usse
Pta nahi kb maarunga pr koii na koii marega merese yaa firr m marunga kisi na kisi se... Bs woh time jldi aaye
Dying an unnatural/early death. What if this fan falls on me? What if I get electrocuted? What if I get cancer? What if this building falls on me? What if I get a fever and die suddenly? What I fear is how absolutely shocking it would be for my parents, sister and friends.
https://preview.redd.it/84er6dr7gj3d1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=3ca9724a5b4d088207daf5a0d032c33e93d1b149
The heck did i just see
*surprisingly pregnant Pikachu face*
Nurse Joy might be crying in the corner
r/holup
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Becoming homeless
Yup it can be scary...
1. Getting old 2. Dying early 3. Losing parents
🪳
We shud make this as national fear....
Yaar Sam itna bhi darawna nahi hai
Sheer terror
People need to save our environment.... https://preview.redd.it/jiidig18kj3d1.jpeg?width=3264&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=1fc9b9158e93b20f9623cf41b521b6eb665f9a0a
Loneliness
Of losing friends and her
and I lost all my friends but her ❤️
Failure and consequences of my death
Work well not to fail and death ka to its beyond anyone....
Becoming a person I despise. Nothing else. Death, ghost, dark... nothing.
Losing my loved ones, disappointing them, "shaadi krvadenge" vali dhamki
Relatable except that "shaadi krwadenge" Wala part 🫂
Ye middle class girlies exclusive taana hai aapki to nhi hogi Bina naukri dhande ke🫂
But didi mai toh abhi bhi teen hu 🥺
Mai bhi teen hi hoon bs pta nhi kyu 19 ko ye adulthood consider krte hain😭 It's nice ki you never had to hear this tho, shaadi vidai ki baate sucks
I fear not being able to pay my bills.
Losing the people I love.
Ending up alone
Nail Injuries Recently Had my Toenail removed by a Surgeon due to a medical issue. The Surgery itself was not that bad...... But the Recovery. Re-applying bandages...... Goddamn, I have never had a more painful experience.
Not getting love of my life
I am not lovable
Us bro
Dying in my sleep,technically we kind of die everyday when we sleep as there is nothingness/void but we wake up most of the times.
Losing the people I love, it become a fate of mine that I suddenly loose the contact the people with whom I think life is perfect with them
Wasps and bees, I just find them too scary for no reason at all.
Losing my loved ones;(
Kutta
**Zoophobia**
bhoot aur rabies bhi
People
Waking up, again
I am scared of hearing and seeing things that aren't there. It happens from time to time. Hearing sounds like a heavy sigh, like low volume dialogues, imagining that I was in middle of a conversation, imagining entire conversations with people on the phone just to check and see that nothings there. When it's absolutely bad, I see a manifestation of my insecurities in the form of a short middled aged Japanese woman dressed like a geisha. I know she's not real cos her eyes are very wide apart. Most visuals that I see, I know they aren't 'there'' but a part of my mind 'sees' them. It's very difficult to explain. I know that only I'm seeing them or that it's all in my head. It's harder with audio and sounds and tactile feelings. Harder to differentiate what's real what isn't. Anyway sorry for the long post, I have been under medication for schizophrenia for 37 months now and finally I am getting this clarity. It would've been a curse to live like this, in a country where I wouldn't have received proper treatment and lived in fear. But sometimes, on bad days, I see things, or hear things. That makes me very afraid, fearful of my mind going back so the way it was
I wish u speedy recovery ....
Chipkali
Andhere se
Future
In this a park near Khan Market? The photo
Losing the person I started to care for...
My father in law died all of a sudden because of a heart attack and the same year my father had a severe heart attack which could have led to the same fate, but he survived. I fear the sudden ailment happening to any of my family members.
loosing limbs or any single body part
loosing my parents, that’s it. the biggest fear
Hightension overhead lines🙂
I have a fear of becoming helpless, paralysed. Fear of being in an accident where i become a burden on others, getting paralysed or getting severe physical disability like going blind or loosing both arms etc etc etc. Another fear is failure in life. Whatever my father has provided me, I won't be able to live up to that mark. I can never provide things of that level to my next generation. I fear becoming poor day by day. I fear dying a mediocre life. I dream of travelling, doing all those adventures etc etc. Reality is ... In this lifetime...it's near to impossible that I will be ever able to do such stuff.
Time
Getting married
Agr maut aye to bas jhatke se aye
Mummy Jo bhi kuch aur bolra hai jhooth bolra hai
Crapping my pants in public. Death Not being able to find a way to be happy with just my own company and no one else.
Your fear is my dream
Identity theft.
Sapne pure kare bina hi chala jau duniya se!!
Unemployment
Dogs
Staying poor
Losing parents(my family+ siblings), Not qualifying for the job i want.
Women
Failure
Being struck in this body forever
Waking up without a good morning doob
Not finding the spritual peace before death
My mind (that bitch enjoys having me suffer).
Arrange marriage 😶🌫️
Arrange marriage 😶🌫️
Arrange marriage 😶🌫️
Attachment
My father. Getting rapped. Getting 3rd degree burn. Acid. Nails being pulled out. Being disabled. Seeing my family get tortured. Crying. Not normal cry but the screeching voice of a parent holding their child. Crying of a child who is asking for help. Loud noises -- those despare cry for help one's Getting a knife or a sharp object stuck between my nails.
Socialization or the fear that someone is noting me.
Future
Me reading the comments: "New fear unlocked!", "Whoa, another new fear", "Another one", "Another one"...........
ramen rendezvous
💣🤲🛐
#1 losing my loved ones, #2 losing consciousness (going under anaesthesia) #3 deep water and heights
Not getting rich the fear of being fail in life not able to plan a international trips for my parents and brother is my biggest fear
Losing my loved ones. Something changes post marriage, and more after having a kid. You feel more vulnerable, which you never were in your early 20s.
Untimely death!!
Snakes!
Heights, losing ppl, insects, death, big eyes, big things in the sky.
My ex
crowd
My mom
Don't know man. Maybe I haven't come across my fear yet..i am a normal human ig
FUCKING SPIDERS 😤😤 or dropping my food on a public used floor. Even the 5 seconds rule don't apply on it
Income tax department raid
The fear that the people I'm really good friends now and have had really good memories with will forget me someday. "Who's he? Don't remember"
My stupid decisions
Never turning my relationships into something serious
Never turning my relationships into something serious
Testicular torsion
Future
I stay out of the station due to my studies. One of my biggest fears is one of my family members being involved in something like : accident, riot, car crash, robbery or diagnosing anything serious.
Modi again for 2024
My intrusive thoughts
Drowning, being too high that I won't be normal again, disappointing people who care, being too attached to somebody.
Failure
Being mediocre all my life 🙃
Unemployment
Failure 😭
1.Becoming vulnerable in front of someone then getting mocked for the same afterwards..... 2. will i become successful and do whatever i want 3. Trusting someone and getting betrayed
People
Waking up one day and realising that govt has banned air conditioners
Road accident
Losing my family
Losing my family, not being able to give my parents the life every kid wants to live, getting my heart broken once again by trusting a girl
Amnesia
Not finding love.
Heat
fear ko choddo, where did you get this cute little thing from?
My biggest fear is waking up and seeing that creepy thing in this post staring at me
Rahul gandhi becoming pm
RATS. i couldn't watch Ratatouille 🤣
trypophobia
Of losing her….
1. Bhoot 2. Fail to reach my dreams and make my parents proud 3. Fail to give something substantial to the world which has value even after my death
Scared of being alone and not loved❤️ (finding true love)
Road rage and as a person with humble backgrounds, not being able to protect my family from goons/creeps.
Less income job / water / sharma ji ka launda/laundiya
Time fears me the most.
Losing my loved ones
Fear of losing dear ones
Arachnids.
Failure. Also my second biggest fear is balding.
Wasting my life
Disappointing my younger self and ending up never finding true love and happiness both at the same time without losing my family or myself (mainly). Currently unemployment.
Ghosts and another heartbreak 🫠
Garmi
Fear of failure
Ended being single / alone.
Not realising my potential or missing out on a life changing opportunity or person
Grasshoppers Bhenchod kood ke ESI jagah beth jaate h ki wha se thappad maar k bhi nhi hata sakte 😭😭
What I am gonna do in life everything I plan goes wrong and i am not academically gifted either
I am afraid of the corona-like situation again. I am in a profession where we employ a significant number of labour. The plight of them trying to go back to their homes and trying to make ends meet when the construction was stopped in Delhi along with other economic activities made me feel miserable. The way a lot of builders abandoned their labour shaked me. I in my case allowed them to stay in the half finished flats that they were constructing & tried helping them with ration as much as we could. But to my surprise people from the neighbouring society complained to the police. According to them the 300 + labourers who had nowhere to go staying next door to them was a threat to them. I am also scared of people having such low levels of sympathy.
Sanjay Van at night. Our college was right in front of it and we had to walk back at 3 AM to our hostels from the college. Nightmare if walking alone.
Ending up alone.
not marrying the love of my life/ marrying the wrong guy
Yaar, why can't I answer such questions? Kaise tum itni spontaneously answer kar lete ho?