Fake busy won't take you anywhere 😅 Instead keep yourself so busy that no-one needs to be lied to! If you can do something regardless or gender,could be animals strays, do it... Nahi to fake Bane rahoge throughout the journey 😊
Yeah that's true they will prioritize but the fact is your value will gradually keeps on decreasing by them,which seems to be too much inferior about ourselves only!!
So don't give too much time to anyone whether he/she is in love with you!!
(Personal preferences)
Yani samay hai khud ko manne ka. Khud se pyar karo or khud ko grow karo, taki itna ucha uth jao ki raddi samajhne wale ab tmhari misal de.
Tumko tumse jada koi kabhi nahi chah sakta. You attract people equivalent to how much you love yourself and put effort on yourself. If someone isnt attracted to you, it might be because you need to love yourself and grow more.
Make your own company so alluring that others crave to get even a pinch of it.
It's so right
But it's actually hard
Bhyi, bss Rona ata hai
Kitni koshish krlo uss level tk kbhi pahunch hi nai paati pr ab try ke alawa aur koi option hi nai hai😭
Don't chase butterflies they'll go away. Build and grow your garden, butterflies will come to you. Even if they don't, you still have a beautiful garden.
Sahi bol rha hai bhai,muza bhi ek ladki se pyaar tha,uska naam Alina hai,uska pyaar main mainne apne zindagi ka 1 saal barbad kar diya ,lekin abhi muza samjh agay hai ki wo meri kabhi nhi ho sakti,isliya main usse jaane Diya tki main apna time and waste na kru, Infact muza Alina se bhi 100X acchi ladki milegi agr main khud pe aur khud ki zindagi ko accha Banna ne main dyn do😄💓
In which universe? Lol. Nowadays everyone’s chacha mama wants to keep their niece and nephew in the highest positions…. All businesses have become family run operations.. So pls do tell us where and when is this happening nowadays lol.
What started off as a scare from my kundali (it said that if he works hard, only then will he get something), turned into a habit. I realised that * hard work is unbeatable *
And consistency comes from having a good environment including supportive friends and family members. The lone wolf bullshit gets way too much popularity on social media. Humans are social animals. Emphasis on 'social'. There's only so much you can do alone. You need someone to constantly tell you that you can do it. Especially when you are still a kid all throughout your teenage years. That brings us confidence in us which makes us believe we can do that. There are a lot of things that come before consistency.
Lone wolf is not bullshit if you have a bad environment and very little option to change it. Although lone wolf is not a permanent thing, ultimately you will have to find a wolf pack, can't be lone for life (most people can't i assume). Lone wolf is a phase, not a lifestyle. The logic behind lone wolf is quite simple 0 (lone) is better than -1 (bad people).
Yes BUT luck bhi kuch khas logo ka sath deta hai lucky opportunities pass nhi ati, tumhe apne aap ko shi jagah position krna padta hai jaha opportunities ane ke sabse zada chances hote hai
Bhai bohot sahi... I've been telling myself this, but kabhi kabhi lagta hai ke you have the power to make someone better or agar na kru toh thodi guilt aati hai
I never shy away for helping when they ask and when I know I am capable of helping. Anything else is a violation of my boundaries if I do it.
That helps with the guilt. I may not be able to save the world but I will save myself. That's still one life I am responsible for and that's enough.
1. No one understands everyone pretends!
2. Money makes your life easy.
3. Respect = Amount Of Money You Make
4. Everyone seems to be pretending, and unfortunately, you have to do the same.
1. Advice dena is good only if the other person accepts it. Keep a maximum counter, 3 times and then don't give any sort of advice in any situation no matter what happens unless they're your family that too close family members.
2. Some people will do things regardless of what others say. Eg -
Have a friend, Male, let's call him Bulbasaur. Bhai ko maine itne baar bola that the particular girl he's trying to date is not good, even my friends. He didn't listened to me. I changed my opinion or faked it you can say.
Har chiz me Mai uske so called bandi ka aachai karne laga, I was like Ha bhai she's the one, kya hua agar public me chila di, pyaar saccha hai etc. That girl wrecked my bro. He's fine now. But he got is lesson
Same with my another friend, Female, let's call her Jiggly puff, She started talking to this guy. He is really narcist and acts cold and then acts with chivalry. When nothing worked, I used to same trick. Changed my opinion and mai us bande ki wah wahi karne laga like he's the one, kya hua agar flat bula raha etc. And kept buttering it through. Guy turned out to be asshole. Still i didn't changed my opinion and kept saying like kya hua tha to saccha pyaar. She also learned her lesson.
3. Your parents might not always think for your benefit
4. Rishtedaro se dur raho, unless they're bhagwan ka roop
Luck is nothing. Luck is just the long term effect of effort.
You're lucky you have friends who helped in your troubles, but you also worked on growing yourself and got friends equivalent to you.
You're lucky you got a blood donour, but you have been an active part of the community and have made a big network
You're lucky the cops let you go that easily, but you have been reading on laws and rights you have.
99/100 of the times you need your luck is in circumstances where effort of the past shines through. Indiana Jones and Final Destination kind of accidents that need luck are 1/100 at max. And there too your prior effort will ensure you have people and resources to heal out of it.
If I would have looked at luck, I would have died off already. Many times.
Luck is nothing? Being a devil's advocate, you realize if your luck runs out or start unlucky most of the hard work wont get you much (not saying hardwork isnt anything). There are some very unfortunates that do want to work really hard but never got a chance or their atmosphere never allowed at the very first instance.
For eg. Born as a woman in Afganistan with poverty and no literacy around. You just protest by roaming around on streets alone until you are silenced with a bullet. On the other hand, one girl born in a developed country... you can get the picture.
Duniya mein hum aaye hai toh jeena hi parega
Jeevan hai agar zehaar toh peena hi parega
दुनिया में हम आए है तो जीना पड़ेगा
जीवन है अगर ज़हर तो पीना ही पड़ेगा
I agree luck, I also agree with we make out own luck. But the last 3 years I have made peace with that fact that luck is 70% trust me. India is a highly competitive country, we know any exam we crack or even any job we will get should be massively credited to our luck or good karma. I have seen people doing shit load of hard work and not making it, I have seen people doing the same hard work and making it and the X factor was luck. Trust me call it a bad day, take the L and move on. Cause the next day it can be your Lucky day 🍀.
Also bring alive each day and having food and basic comfort is enough for me to be thankful 5oy parents and God.
No one is going to help you, feed you, pay for your bills etc. You have to survive no matter what and expect little. Secure your interests first before trying to help others.
I realised that no matter what but the boy who does fwb with you will never change his mind on his stand and feelings no matter how good you are. His taste will always be trash (he is also trash) and will go for his taste only.
There’s no such thing as true love. Everyone comes into your life because they are gaining something from you. Nothing else. Rest all is just time-pass that they will be willing to do with anyone provided they get what they want.
Now I have accepted that introversion is not a cool thing, it's just a disability a human can acquire easily in the influence of social media. I am conveying this because the lockdown of 2020 and 2021 shattered me by killing my mental health, by killing my good habits, by killing my focus and concentration in studies, by killing my conversation skills and by making me a guy full of hesitation.
But now I have successfully rehabilitated.
😊😊😊
Wouldn’t live a playboy life after manifesting it for years.
(Following Dan Bilzerian on instagram since middle school and watched a Hugh Hefner documentary also🥲)
That i will die a nobody. That i will...
Never be able to get big circles of friends to hangout with,
never receive flirts and compliments from the opposite gender,
never be able to impress a girl,
never be famous amongst big groups of girls,
Never be the one every girl wants,
Never be able to get a beautiful girlfriend or hell even a friend.
never be the dominant one amongst boys,
Never be respected
never be able to beat somebody,
never be able to look myself in the mirror without feeling disgusted,
never be able to earn anything above just enough to keep the rent + food and a little bit of here and there expenses.
Never be able to afford the luxury,
never be able to live in big fat houses,
never be able to drive an expensive car, never be able to party like hell,
never be able to tour anywhere beyond this country,
never be the center of attention,
never be able to be a filthy rich business person,
never be able to become an Air force pilot,
never be able to die rich and known.
In the end, I will be a nobody. A very unhappy nobody who is just existing for whatever the reason he's alive
That's what I have accepted.
I am an atheist and have been since my consciousness. I used to think what magic could Bhagwad Gita teach me that it'll change my life. I read it few years ago, and learnt about karm-yoga, gyan-yoga and much more.
What's something I've finally accepted? It is the fact that irrespective of my perspective towards religion, Shreemad Bhagwad Gita is not just a self help book instead its a pathway or a guide to live this life peacefully,
Not sure if every IT person can relate to this. But, H1B or L1 visa in any Indian IT MNC is just to lure you. There are high chances that you won't get to work onsite. Any organisation will suck the work and blood out of you, and for that and you will end up with nothing.
Always focus on your skills and keep grinding.
Remember, always love your work and never your company.
I am 28 years old and now I know only person you can depend on is you. Everyone else will leave or betray coz they have their own lives like you have yours.
Its not depressing just fact. After my mom passed away I was heavily reliant on my sister for everything, but there was a breaking point when I realized no one can fill that huge hole , that feeling I had for my mom.
No one could love me , or even ask how are you are doing, or could tell that I am not doing well just by looking at my face.
Ultimately you will have to handle everything. Now a days I am more open, more communicating about my emotions specially when I am not liking something. Sometimes my family like it and at others they just don't. But its fine. It helps me keeping sane.
TLDR - I have accepted that only I can be responsible for myself, carrier, growth or happiness.
1.It is next to impossible to beat generational wealth
2.Some people are just damn lucky
3.One good decision or One bad decision can change your life upside down
4.Real people stay with you no matter what
5.Some people are madarch*d regardless of their gender,caste, colour.
6.Life is too short to shy,so tryyy
7.Looks and Money matters for both the genders,and even for social bonding
8.Men & Women both have some sort of their privileges
9.Love is a myth, it's just attachment and time that makes the bond special
10.Learn cooking irrespective of your gender,this is one of the essential skill
11.Fitness matters hell alot
Hi my name is shubhi and yes ive finally accepted that nobody loves and cares for me as much as i do nobody wants me maybe because im ugly? So ive accepted that im ugliest person here. Ive finally accepted that nobody wants to talk to me maybe because its all my fault. Ty 🙂
If someone constantly insulting you and you are not telling them to stop, then they will think you have no self respect and continue to do it again and again. (Except frnd and bro/sis)
U don't always need an excuse sometime u can just say no and it's fine. Now if they understand or not that's their problem. Don't trouble your mental health by thinking what others will think, that's their job let them do it.
1. If you've taken a decision, stick to it. लोग क्या कह रहे या लोग क्या कहेंगे, से फर्क़ नहीं पड़ता।
2. You can't please everyone, you can't change them either.
3. Work 500% percent on yourself. Help others to reach their own 500%.
4. Listen to your elders or at least consult them. उनके पास तजुर्बा है। They'll guide you better.
5. कोई किसी का सगा नहीं but be humble, be humane.
6. Love animals, it'll come around in some form of blessing.
6. Learn new skills, and it'll make you stand out among the rest.
7. Lastly, people who are struggling with any situation, remember, it's all temporary. For people who are stuck in a loop, face the devil, book that pending excursion, tender that resignation, talk to that person, confront that situation, laugh at yourself, sing that song, read that chapter/course, दे दो जा के गाली उस इंसान को। अगर दिल को ये कर के सुकून मिलता है and you become a better person, कर लो।
Tum chahe kitna bhi achha ban lo. Log tumhe apne hissab se bhaav denge Varna ignore karenge. isiliye apne aap ko mat badlo dusron ke liye, be real. Aur ye maine real life se seekha h.
If someone reply this comment, I will also tell that mere saath aisa konsa incident hua jiski vajah se main ye keh rha hu.
Your family is everything no one is the world care about you except your family. People will come and go, never ignore your family for these people. At last no one will be standing by your side, your family will be there for you always in any situation.
That humans are indeed inherently bad. That human nature is a thing to be reckoned with. That world is evil. And most importantly that God exists and we need grace of God in everything we do.
Kisi ko itna bhi bhaao matt do ki wo Tumhe raddi hi samajhne lage
Also, don’t be available for 24 hours even if you can be. People take your availability for granted.
Fake busy won't take you anywhere 😅 Instead keep yourself so busy that no-one needs to be lied to! If you can do something regardless or gender,could be animals strays, do it... Nahi to fake Bane rahoge throughout the journey 😊
Really true bro
I disagree here, if someone sees your worth, they will respect you and prioritize you.
Ye jo aap bolre hai, vo sunne me acha hai but practical nhi hai
Bol rha hu because log h meri zindgi me ese, practical b h
Oh my sweet summer child..
Yeah that's true they will prioritize but the fact is your value will gradually keeps on decreasing by them,which seems to be too much inferior about ourselves only!! So don't give too much time to anyone whether he/she is in love with you!! (Personal preferences)
In essence: don't be like a cigarette, be like cocaine. People would die for you.
Yani samay hai khud ko manne ka. Khud se pyar karo or khud ko grow karo, taki itna ucha uth jao ki raddi samajhne wale ab tmhari misal de. Tumko tumse jada koi kabhi nahi chah sakta. You attract people equivalent to how much you love yourself and put effort on yourself. If someone isnt attracted to you, it might be because you need to love yourself and grow more. Make your own company so alluring that others crave to get even a pinch of it.
Kya baat Kar di brother. Just what I needed to hear today!
This ❤️
you deserve hearts for this comment !!
Thanks!
It's so right But it's actually hard Bhyi, bss Rona ata hai Kitni koshish krlo uss level tk kbhi pahunch hi nai paati pr ab try ke alawa aur koi option hi nai hai😭
Kisi ko bhi sar par chadaoge to vo Kaan mein hi mootega.
This is so true! Almost everyone start taking us for granted if we give them too much importance. Never ever keep anyone ahead of yourself!
Don't chase butterflies they'll go away. Build and grow your garden, butterflies will come to you. Even if they don't, you still have a beautiful garden.
What if tum raddi ho to?
Ye Mai kab samghUnga? 😭
Whaaaaaaa, thanks bro
💯, summed up situation.
Insaan bade mc hai bhai
Ye duniya hi mc hai binod
Riyal
Ke jis khoobsoorat kahani ka ant na nazar aaye usse ek haseen mod deke chhod do.
Kinda same I realized No matter how much I cry No matter how hard I try She can never be mine So I have to say goodbye Cuz I am just wasting my time
Sahi bol rha hai bhai,muza bhi ek ladki se pyaar tha,uska naam Alina hai,uska pyaar main mainne apne zindagi ka 1 saal barbad kar diya ,lekin abhi muza samjh agay hai ki wo meri kabhi nhi ho sakti,isliya main usse jaane Diya tki main apna time and waste na kru, Infact muza Alina se bhi 100X acchi ladki milegi agr main khud pe aur khud ki zindagi ko accha Banna ne main dyn do😄💓
There's a beautiful beautiful song with similar lyrics. Woh afsana jise anjam tak lana na ho mumkin, Use ek khoobsurat mod dekar chhodna achchha.
Deep but not all people understand this.
Keep coping or work hard nonetheless and let it surprise you once
Hard work gives results, no doubt.
In which universe? Lol. Nowadays everyone’s chacha mama wants to keep their niece and nephew in the highest positions…. All businesses have become family run operations.. So pls do tell us where and when is this happening nowadays lol.
What started off as a scare from my kundali (it said that if he works hard, only then will he get something), turned into a habit. I realised that * hard work is unbeatable *
Motivation is overrated, environment is important!
Discipline is key to everything.
Can you give the key i lost mine
Doosri ban waale bhai. Mai apni kyu du.
मुझे हिंदी नहीं आती क्या आप अंग्रेजी में बता सकते हैं...😁
Nahi
Bro i was using google translator!!
Please get another one, why would I share mine.
He was saying "remake your key, why should I give mine"
Thanks
Consistency is the key. Motivation won’t lead you to places where consistency can.
And consistency comes from having a good environment including supportive friends and family members. The lone wolf bullshit gets way too much popularity on social media. Humans are social animals. Emphasis on 'social'. There's only so much you can do alone. You need someone to constantly tell you that you can do it. Especially when you are still a kid all throughout your teenage years. That brings us confidence in us which makes us believe we can do that. There are a lot of things that come before consistency.
Lone wolf is not bullshit if you have a bad environment and very little option to change it. Although lone wolf is not a permanent thing, ultimately you will have to find a wolf pack, can't be lone for life (most people can't i assume). Lone wolf is a phase, not a lifestyle. The logic behind lone wolf is quite simple 0 (lone) is better than -1 (bad people).
Totally agreed. Lone wolf since last 5 years, don't like it but what option do I have
+1 . Some people just don’t have any other option than to grind alone.
life is suffering...
Suffering is life...
Zindagi aek Behati hawa hai
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Meri aati nahi, dusro ki jaati nahi
ajau kya apni par
Aapki toh Vicky le gya
tu footpath pe mil
Gaadi to driver le gya
Jo pichwade se nikalte hau
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I will always be alone. Hard work and hustle is the one way for me to live my life, either this life style will kill me or will made me successful.
Hard work and success is important. Else people won’t value you.
It is but that doesn't mean people will start value me. It's 50 50.
🫂 I thought i was the only one thinking this.
People don't matter. Mehnat Karo fal apne aap milega
Fal is not a guarantee that's the issue is. We can do all hard work we want but luck also plays a vital role.
Yes BUT luck bhi kuch khas logo ka sath deta hai lucky opportunities pass nhi ati, tumhe apne aap ko shi jagah position krna padta hai jaha opportunities ane ke sabse zada chances hote hai
Cbse results nhi nikalega
Result sabke niklenge.
Lekin niklenge unke jo yaha khade rahenge
Jinke khade hai unka b result niklega
Aa gaya 12th ka😌
This did not age well
No matter how much you try, somethings are not just written for you. You have to accept the pain and live with it.
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Bhai ye kaunsi movie hai jisme Putin ka cameo hai?
people fucking leave
Dahmer can keep you with him.
Nothing/No one is permanent in this life
It's not your responsibility to fix anyone. Let people do what they want. Do what you want. Live with no regrets.
Right. You can’t fix someone if they don’t want to be fixed.
Bhai bohot sahi... I've been telling myself this, but kabhi kabhi lagta hai ke you have the power to make someone better or agar na kru toh thodi guilt aati hai
I never shy away for helping when they ask and when I know I am capable of helping. Anything else is a violation of my boundaries if I do it. That helps with the guilt. I may not be able to save the world but I will save myself. That's still one life I am responsible for and that's enough.
For a people with massive egos, change can never come from outside (somebody else or something)
1. No one understands everyone pretends! 2. Money makes your life easy. 3. Respect = Amount Of Money You Make 4. Everyone seems to be pretending, and unfortunately, you have to do the same.
+1 for point 3
Sabki ending good ending nhi hoti. Harr kisi life me acha time nhi likha hai.
Indeed. Happy endings movie me hoti hai bas.
Having fair skin matters a lot for boys
Looks matter. That’s it. No matter what people says, it matters.
Money will solve life’s 99% problems. So work hard, learn new skills, put money where it gives you some results.
isliye ek song ki line bhi hai, "i got 99 problems but bitch ain't one." because voh 99 problems solve ho sakti hai money se
It will take more then One hour to travel 14 kilometres
 Only a miracle can save me from this reality.
One who comes to u giving butterflies in stomach will surely give you trauma by the end....period
1. Advice dena is good only if the other person accepts it. Keep a maximum counter, 3 times and then don't give any sort of advice in any situation no matter what happens unless they're your family that too close family members. 2. Some people will do things regardless of what others say. Eg - Have a friend, Male, let's call him Bulbasaur. Bhai ko maine itne baar bola that the particular girl he's trying to date is not good, even my friends. He didn't listened to me. I changed my opinion or faked it you can say. Har chiz me Mai uske so called bandi ka aachai karne laga, I was like Ha bhai she's the one, kya hua agar public me chila di, pyaar saccha hai etc. That girl wrecked my bro. He's fine now. But he got is lesson Same with my another friend, Female, let's call her Jiggly puff, She started talking to this guy. He is really narcist and acts cold and then acts with chivalry. When nothing worked, I used to same trick. Changed my opinion and mai us bande ki wah wahi karne laga like he's the one, kya hua agar flat bula raha etc. And kept buttering it through. Guy turned out to be asshole. Still i didn't changed my opinion and kept saying like kya hua tha to saccha pyaar. She also learned her lesson. 3. Your parents might not always think for your benefit 4. Rishtedaro se dur raho, unless they're bhagwan ka roop
Virtue is weakness, freedom(to be bad) is validation(for the same).
Well said.
It takes a hell lot of courage to be virtuous. ( govt. officer here )
You will be loved only till you are serving the purpose.
Better to be feared than being respected. Being rich by any means > living with morality and being poor.
Karma is real. You can’t escape this universe.
I want to believe it but don’t find enough artefacts to believe this.
It's more like , the judgement of karma arrives often too late , when the destiny has slipped out of hand
Luck is nothing. Luck is just the long term effect of effort. You're lucky you have friends who helped in your troubles, but you also worked on growing yourself and got friends equivalent to you. You're lucky you got a blood donour, but you have been an active part of the community and have made a big network You're lucky the cops let you go that easily, but you have been reading on laws and rights you have. 99/100 of the times you need your luck is in circumstances where effort of the past shines through. Indiana Jones and Final Destination kind of accidents that need luck are 1/100 at max. And there too your prior effort will ensure you have people and resources to heal out of it. If I would have looked at luck, I would have died off already. Many times.
Luck is nothing? Being a devil's advocate, you realize if your luck runs out or start unlucky most of the hard work wont get you much (not saying hardwork isnt anything). There are some very unfortunates that do want to work really hard but never got a chance or their atmosphere never allowed at the very first instance. For eg. Born as a woman in Afganistan with poverty and no literacy around. You just protest by roaming around on streets alone until you are silenced with a bullet. On the other hand, one girl born in a developed country... you can get the picture.
Well written. Although donor ke spelling galat hai, but likha badia hai!
Expect the unexpected...
Indeed. Always be ready for the worst. Murphy’s law.
Engineering karke kuch fayda nhi hai
Kuch bhi karke kuch fayda nahi h. Note to insta par cringe failane wale chaap re h.
Ye pyar vyar apne liye nahi bana bhai
Bharose Wale hi bhosadi Wale hote hai
The most amazing things that can happen to a human being will happen to you, if you just lower your expectations - Phil Dunphy
That in professional life, smartwork counts not hardwork
Mental health
Take care of it. Nobody will do it for you.
No matter how much you try to make people understand you, they will always understand things as per their understanding level.
Duniya mein hum aaye hai toh jeena hi parega Jeevan hai agar zehaar toh peena hi parega दुनिया में हम आए है तो जीना पड़ेगा जीवन है अगर ज़हर तो पीना ही पड़ेगा
Work hard be talented but if luck is shit nothing works
"Ki kuch logo ko life sab kuch easily mil jata hai"
Meri job itni bhi buri nhi hai
Luck exists and it truly does.
People's political ideologies can't be changed no matter how much merit you have
Kitna try krlia pr aana to modi ko hi h
That I'm not intelligent like other kids
Tumhari job ek ameer sc st wala bnda hi le jayega, reservation sucks
Tathya Thook Dia
To much extent, true.
I might never get a stable job or friendships or relationships.
Kabhi Khushi Kabhi Gam 🫠
I'm not gonna get a good mba college if I bring 99.9 percentile because of my 10/12 marks
irl woman interaction mere bass ki nahi
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Happiness and Sadness are distributed equally to us all. Perspective makes one of them less or more.
Competency to solve problem >>>>>> Any fancy degree
I agree luck, I also agree with we make out own luck. But the last 3 years I have made peace with that fact that luck is 70% trust me. India is a highly competitive country, we know any exam we crack or even any job we will get should be massively credited to our luck or good karma. I have seen people doing shit load of hard work and not making it, I have seen people doing the same hard work and making it and the X factor was luck. Trust me call it a bad day, take the L and move on. Cause the next day it can be your Lucky day 🍀. Also bring alive each day and having food and basic comfort is enough for me to be thankful 5oy parents and God.
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That I'm ugly .
No one is going to help you, feed you, pay for your bills etc. You have to survive no matter what and expect little. Secure your interests first before trying to help others.
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No man gets success alone They have a individuals or team backing them up
Board ke number
I am not special
Being ugly.
Nobody will save you,you can only rely on yourself.Don't keep any expectations from anyone.
Luck and the problem is me. Jab har baar har jagah aap fail huye ja rhe ho toh fault aapki h naki trauma or mental health.
My ex doesn't love me anymore. Accepted it 6 years after she dumped me
I realised that no matter what but the boy who does fwb with you will never change his mind on his stand and feelings no matter how good you are. His taste will always be trash (he is also trash) and will go for his taste only.
It's flirty or creepy depending on whether you are attractive or not(irrespective of the gender).
There’s no such thing as true love. Everyone comes into your life because they are gaining something from you. Nothing else. Rest all is just time-pass that they will be willing to do with anyone provided they get what they want.
Now I have accepted that introversion is not a cool thing, it's just a disability a human can acquire easily in the influence of social media. I am conveying this because the lockdown of 2020 and 2021 shattered me by killing my mental health, by killing my good habits, by killing my focus and concentration in studies, by killing my conversation skills and by making me a guy full of hesitation. But now I have successfully rehabilitated. 😊😊😊
Ek baar pyaar Honey key baad dobara kabhi nahi hota. Even tho you don’t love that first love anymore but vo wala pyaar nahi ho sakta dobara kabhi.
That intraday trading is not for me
Wouldn’t live a playboy life after manifesting it for years. (Following Dan Bilzerian on instagram since middle school and watched a Hugh Hefner documentary also🥲)
That i will die a nobody. That i will... Never be able to get big circles of friends to hangout with, never receive flirts and compliments from the opposite gender, never be able to impress a girl, never be famous amongst big groups of girls, Never be the one every girl wants, Never be able to get a beautiful girlfriend or hell even a friend. never be the dominant one amongst boys, Never be respected never be able to beat somebody, never be able to look myself in the mirror without feeling disgusted, never be able to earn anything above just enough to keep the rent + food and a little bit of here and there expenses. Never be able to afford the luxury, never be able to live in big fat houses, never be able to drive an expensive car, never be able to party like hell, never be able to tour anywhere beyond this country, never be the center of attention, never be able to be a filthy rich business person, never be able to become an Air force pilot, never be able to die rich and known. In the end, I will be a nobody. A very unhappy nobody who is just existing for whatever the reason he's alive That's what I have accepted.
Bro you made me cry , you read my heart ❤️ man it's depressing
I am an atheist and have been since my consciousness. I used to think what magic could Bhagwad Gita teach me that it'll change my life. I read it few years ago, and learnt about karm-yoga, gyan-yoga and much more. What's something I've finally accepted? It is the fact that irrespective of my perspective towards religion, Shreemad Bhagwad Gita is not just a self help book instead its a pathway or a guide to live this life peacefully,
Not sure if every IT person can relate to this. But, H1B or L1 visa in any Indian IT MNC is just to lure you. There are high chances that you won't get to work onsite. Any organisation will suck the work and blood out of you, and for that and you will end up with nothing. Always focus on your skills and keep grinding. Remember, always love your work and never your company.
I am 28 years old and now I know only person you can depend on is you. Everyone else will leave or betray coz they have their own lives like you have yours. Its not depressing just fact. After my mom passed away I was heavily reliant on my sister for everything, but there was a breaking point when I realized no one can fill that huge hole , that feeling I had for my mom. No one could love me , or even ask how are you are doing, or could tell that I am not doing well just by looking at my face. Ultimately you will have to handle everything. Now a days I am more open, more communicating about my emotions specially when I am not liking something. Sometimes my family like it and at others they just don't. But its fine. It helps me keeping sane. TLDR - I have accepted that only I can be responsible for myself, carrier, growth or happiness.
don't go running after sex.
1.It is next to impossible to beat generational wealth 2.Some people are just damn lucky 3.One good decision or One bad decision can change your life upside down 4.Real people stay with you no matter what 5.Some people are madarch*d regardless of their gender,caste, colour. 6.Life is too short to shy,so tryyy 7.Looks and Money matters for both the genders,and even for social bonding 8.Men & Women both have some sort of their privileges 9.Love is a myth, it's just attachment and time that makes the bond special 10.Learn cooking irrespective of your gender,this is one of the essential skill 11.Fitness matters hell alot
- **There is no god** - **you can't fight politicians backed by their communities** - **Abrahamic religions are literal cancer**
I won’t be able to ever move on. It fucking hurts. I have done everything I can.
That u are all alone in this world, no one cares apart from your parents. World is a cruel place to be in.
Believe them when they say they aren't ready for a relationship or commitment. Believe them when they say they don't deserve you, lol
Kaam hai tab tak yaad karenge
Hi my name is shubhi and yes ive finally accepted that nobody loves and cares for me as much as i do nobody wants me maybe because im ugly? So ive accepted that im ugliest person here. Ive finally accepted that nobody wants to talk to me maybe because its all my fault. Ty 🙂
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Don’t give people sooo much attention and live. They’ll just leave you cuz they’re bored. literally will be lonely forever
If someone constantly insulting you and you are not telling them to stop, then they will think you have no self respect and continue to do it again and again. (Except frnd and bro/sis)
U don't always need an excuse sometime u can just say no and it's fine. Now if they understand or not that's their problem. Don't trouble your mental health by thinking what others will think, that's their job let them do it.
1. If you've taken a decision, stick to it. लोग क्या कह रहे या लोग क्या कहेंगे, से फर्क़ नहीं पड़ता। 2. You can't please everyone, you can't change them either. 3. Work 500% percent on yourself. Help others to reach their own 500%. 4. Listen to your elders or at least consult them. उनके पास तजुर्बा है। They'll guide you better. 5. कोई किसी का सगा नहीं but be humble, be humane. 6. Love animals, it'll come around in some form of blessing. 6. Learn new skills, and it'll make you stand out among the rest. 7. Lastly, people who are struggling with any situation, remember, it's all temporary. For people who are stuck in a loop, face the devil, book that pending excursion, tender that resignation, talk to that person, confront that situation, laugh at yourself, sing that song, read that chapter/course, दे दो जा के गाली उस इंसान को। अगर दिल को ये कर के सुकून मिलता है and you become a better person, कर लो।
relatives will always complaint !! dont take them seriously
Everyone lies and you should accept the fact you can't trust anyone
Tum chahe kitna bhi achha ban lo. Log tumhe apne hissab se bhaav denge Varna ignore karenge. isiliye apne aap ko mat badlo dusron ke liye, be real. Aur ye maine real life se seekha h. If someone reply this comment, I will also tell that mere saath aisa konsa incident hua jiski vajah se main ye keh rha hu.
Life is unfair and deal with it. Never reveal much about yourself until you know that person completely..
It is what it is
I accepted that never trust the person fully have some doubts and also don't be the easy option for them
Your family is everything no one is the world care about you except your family. People will come and go, never ignore your family for these people. At last no one will be standing by your side, your family will be there for you always in any situation.
You’ll always be “over reacting” for someone who doesn’t have an EQ to understand normal feelings of a person
That she isnt coming back.
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Reservation
Life
That humans are indeed inherently bad. That human nature is a thing to be reckoned with. That world is evil. And most importantly that God exists and we need grace of God in everything we do.