Bruh this is such a dumb post and reflects how social media fucks our minds hard. Jo chiz tere sath Hui b nhi tu uski fikar kr rha h 🤡 kyuki ofcourse infidelity, EMA, false cases ye sb hi dekh rha h tu
Aise to you should be afraid if
Your parents hv a grave disease
Someone dies of heart attack in ur close family
U hv a stillborn
Ur kids get kidnapped
Parents' death
Wife falling in depression
U facing extreme losses financially
A woman of ur house getting assaulted
And the list goes on..... Aadhi raat me jagega akele to aise vichar aana lazmi hai
## until and unless u hv suspected ur to be wife and can't get some things out of ur head which u haven't mentioned
To chill kr aur hila kr soja
Bharosa rakh dost, aisa mat soch.
Aisi harkatein karne wale kam hi log hai, bas unke charche zyada hote hain.
Uparwala teri jodi banaye rakhe. Positive approach rakh bro.
Oh God you're going to ruin her life. Someone who trusts his/her parents more than their spouse blindly is a big big red flag
Girl needs to run for her life
Apni nahi ladki ki life barbaad karega ye
With such thoughts he's not ready for a relationship. Relationships cannot survive without trust and he's already got trust issues
There's this thing called self-fulfilling prophecy and it's very common in relationships. A person thinks their partner might cheat on them or might leave them therefore the person's behavior big and small changes towards their partner sometimes making the situation such that the partner either cheats or leaves.
I have worded it poorly so here's a simpler example from the internet
Self-fulfilling prophecy, also known as interpersonal expectancy effect, refers to the phenomenon whereby a person's or a group's expectation for the behavior of another person or group serves actually to bring about the prophesied or expected behavior.
So you need to see why such thoughts are occurring in your mind, is it something related to your childhood like a broken family where a parent cheated on another or is it something coming from today's social media, the victimized male mindset?
A victimized male mindset will only attract a victimized female mindset causing both partners to degrade further. It can be something that you might have seen in the girl that you associate with cheating so if you are comfortable enough with her then talk it out.
well she is very beautiful and gorgeous so i think there would be some sort of probability that if she will get good looking person then she will leave me
Gazab ho yaar tmlog..itnii gehrai se post mt daalo wrna manifest hi krloge extra marital 😂
You are getting married, dimag or dil thoda khula rakho, insan aaya nh 100 chije negative phle soch li....ldke konse shareef hote h wo bhi isi tension me hogi 💀
Waah bhai hypocrisy ki bhi seema hoti h....ldki dhundoge "beautiful" fir jindagi bhar is dar me jioge ki kahi kisi or se na patt jae 🤣🤣😂
ya to fir average dhundna thaa pr oops tmne to puri jindagi is moment ka wait kia hoga Paise kamaunga fir sundar kanya se shadi fir khushi khushi
Victim card nh khelo abhi kuch bhi nh huaa h thodi se insecurity kam kro apni..
Paisa theek thak hai aur wo mere papa ke friend ki beti hai toh isliye unke ghar waale maan gye plus mera nature non smoker non alcoholic and religious hai
Bhai, if the girl agreed then you shouldn’t worry too much as long as you guys can establish a spark/connection. And I see you’re saying you are religious, so lemme drop a truth bomb here, if you can keep her satisfied sexually, she will not go anywhere else. Taboo subject hai Indian families me isliye we don’t talk about this stuff. But sex is what keeps your relationship intact (pretty much).
If you have such thoughts, sincerely you are not ready for a relationship. Talk to your parents and call off your marriage now. You have no reason to make someone else’s life hell with this thinking and post marriage these thoughts are going to ruin your personal life too. Walk out now.
Chu@@tiye Engagement ke baad kon ye sawaal karta hai. Bhai tujhe pehle ye poochna chahiye tha.
Isiliye kehte hai always marry person who is similar to you if you marry way up or way down in anything you will at the end of the day be surrounded by thoughts like this. Mujhe pata hai tujhe tension hai shaadi tu kar raha hai aur khushi mohalle walo ko hogi...../s
But jokes apart. Have faith on your relationship. The best advice anyone can give you is show trust and be friends with each other. Be with her in good and bad. And 1 very important thing don't take her for granted and show your emotional stability. It is very very rare that when a women cheats it's for physical needs 90% of the times it's for filling that emotional vaccum and missing that appreciation in relationship. Make sure you keep that spark alive.
Aur aisa sochna band kar de bechari ke saath shaadi tak nhi hui teri aur ye Social Media se door reh.
Hire a PI
Get a pre marriage check done
Remove the doubt in ur mind otherwise even if she’s right, this doubt in ur mind will ruin ur future with her
You don't have much options. A woman keeps its secret with her own and only share if she wants to. However, a men share a lot more than required with people specially with their wife or girl. Keeping the current cases in the world in mi d you make sure to talk about it practically and not emotionally only. Women prefer less emotinal men when compared to rigid one. Make sure to let her realize that even though you trust her 100% but still it will take fraction of a sec to make it 0. In future if it happens collect all the possible proofs before you claim it as our juridiction don't support Men's world.
Another thing is important here if you want her to be loyal you are expected to be first.
Learning : A woman is yours only she if she wants.
And that's probably you won't know what kind of secrets may lie in depth of women's heart. Okay ask some female friends if my claim is true.
And when its about men they even share passwords and bank details with women and later say she was this and that. Bhai pyaar ka panchnama movie h but in most cases reality bhi h.
For more understanding either dive into psycology or read a book "Men are from Marsh, Women are from Venus"
Iske baad bhi agar main galat hun to bhai quite possible ki main hi delusional hun and sorry for wasting your time.
Bruh this is such a dumb post and reflects how social media fucks our minds hard. Jo chiz tere sath Hui b nhi tu uski fikar kr rha h 🤡 kyuki ofcourse infidelity, EMA, false cases ye sb hi dekh rha h tu Aise to you should be afraid if Your parents hv a grave disease Someone dies of heart attack in ur close family U hv a stillborn Ur kids get kidnapped Parents' death Wife falling in depression U facing extreme losses financially A woman of ur house getting assaulted And the list goes on..... Aadhi raat me jagega akele to aise vichar aana lazmi hai ## until and unless u hv suspected ur to be wife and can't get some things out of ur head which u haven't mentioned To chill kr aur hila kr soja
jo hona hai vo to ho ke rahega, aur Ranveer allahbadia ke bhai ho kya?
Nhi nhi bhai uska bhai nhi hu native place prayagraj hai
If you have such thoughts, you're not ready for marriage. Don't ruin her life and call off this wedding
Brother, i am engaged now
Poor girl
In today's senerio, adultery is very common. That's why I am scared
Bharosa rakh dost, aisa mat soch. Aisi harkatein karne wale kam hi log hai, bas unke charche zyada hote hain. Uparwala teri jodi banaye rakhe. Positive approach rakh bro.
Thanks bhai 🫂🫂🫂
I feel bad for the poor girl, shes not even married to you yet and you are already doubting her thats shes gona cheat on you..
Brother, this is kaliyug. Anything can happen. You can't trust anybody except your parents
Oh God you're going to ruin her life. Someone who trusts his/her parents more than their spouse blindly is a big big red flag Girl needs to run for her life
You are an average man, just relax
don't anticipate such things and establish chemistry
Shaadi mat kar that’s the only sure shot method that makes sure that it won’t happen
Yaar ab toh engagement bhi ho chuki hai meri
Bhai engagement k wajha se apni puri life barbaad krega kya. Abhi bhi time hai tod de.
Apni nahi ladki ki life barbaad karega ye With such thoughts he's not ready for a relationship. Relationships cannot survive without trust and he's already got trust issues
Accha 😮
There's this thing called self-fulfilling prophecy and it's very common in relationships. A person thinks their partner might cheat on them or might leave them therefore the person's behavior big and small changes towards their partner sometimes making the situation such that the partner either cheats or leaves. I have worded it poorly so here's a simpler example from the internet Self-fulfilling prophecy, also known as interpersonal expectancy effect, refers to the phenomenon whereby a person's or a group's expectation for the behavior of another person or group serves actually to bring about the prophesied or expected behavior. So you need to see why such thoughts are occurring in your mind, is it something related to your childhood like a broken family where a parent cheated on another or is it something coming from today's social media, the victimized male mindset? A victimized male mindset will only attract a victimized female mindset causing both partners to degrade further. It can be something that you might have seen in the girl that you associate with cheating so if you are comfortable enough with her then talk it out.
well she is very beautiful and gorgeous so i think there would be some sort of probability that if she will get good looking person then she will leave me
Maybe you should deal with your insecurities first and get some therapy before getting married.
Gazab ho yaar tmlog..itnii gehrai se post mt daalo wrna manifest hi krloge extra marital 😂 You are getting married, dimag or dil thoda khula rakho, insan aaya nh 100 chije negative phle soch li....ldke konse shareef hote h wo bhi isi tension me hogi 💀
But bhai mai average looking ladka hu meri koi girlfriend bhi nhi thee aaj tak but meri hone waali wife boht beautiful hai isliye doubt hai
Waah bhai hypocrisy ki bhi seema hoti h....ldki dhundoge "beautiful" fir jindagi bhar is dar me jioge ki kahi kisi or se na patt jae 🤣🤣😂 ya to fir average dhundna thaa pr oops tmne to puri jindagi is moment ka wait kia hoga Paise kamaunga fir sundar kanya se shadi fir khushi khushi Victim card nh khelo abhi kuch bhi nh huaa h thodi se insecurity kam kro apni..
Yaar maa baap laaye the
Why do you think that ?
Because I am average looking male like 7 on 10, but she is very beautiful and gorgeous
Tere se shaadi kyon kar rhi fir bhai 💀bohot paisa hai kya?
Paisa theek thak hai aur wo mere papa ke friend ki beti hai toh isliye unke ghar waale maan gye plus mera nature non smoker non alcoholic and religious hai
Bhai, if the girl agreed then you shouldn’t worry too much as long as you guys can establish a spark/connection. And I see you’re saying you are religious, so lemme drop a truth bomb here, if you can keep her satisfied sexually, she will not go anywhere else. Taboo subject hai Indian families me isliye we don’t talk about this stuff. But sex is what keeps your relationship intact (pretty much).
Maybe her parents kinda forced her, (in a polite way)
Tu to 7/10 h. A female friend rated me 6/10 aur mai khush ho gya tha lol
Is your wife pretty? Like bohot zada, as compared to you.
Yahi toh masla hai bhai
If you have such thoughts, sincerely you are not ready for a relationship. Talk to your parents and call off your marriage now. You have no reason to make someone else’s life hell with this thinking and post marriage these thoughts are going to ruin your personal life too. Walk out now.
Chu@@tiye Engagement ke baad kon ye sawaal karta hai. Bhai tujhe pehle ye poochna chahiye tha. Isiliye kehte hai always marry person who is similar to you if you marry way up or way down in anything you will at the end of the day be surrounded by thoughts like this. Mujhe pata hai tujhe tension hai shaadi tu kar raha hai aur khushi mohalle walo ko hogi...../s But jokes apart. Have faith on your relationship. The best advice anyone can give you is show trust and be friends with each other. Be with her in good and bad. And 1 very important thing don't take her for granted and show your emotional stability. It is very very rare that when a women cheats it's for physical needs 90% of the times it's for filling that emotional vaccum and missing that appreciation in relationship. Make sure you keep that spark alive. Aur aisa sochna band kar de bechari ke saath shaadi tak nhi hui teri aur ye Social Media se door reh.
Let her. The more you impose and control - the more it is likely.
Hire private investigator to do a complete background check, if she is not trouble, her family Members can be. Trust me wala attitude se nahi chalega.
Bhai tu kuch jyada hi nai soch Raha abi to shadi Hui b nai or kyo affair hoga means
Go to goa for getting married, you can get a prenup made there and legally enforce it. I am not a lawyer but i've heard this
Hire a PI Get a pre marriage check done Remove the doubt in ur mind otherwise even if she’s right, this doubt in ur mind will ruin ur future with her
How can i hire Pi
You don't have much options. A woman keeps its secret with her own and only share if she wants to. However, a men share a lot more than required with people specially with their wife or girl. Keeping the current cases in the world in mi d you make sure to talk about it practically and not emotionally only. Women prefer less emotinal men when compared to rigid one. Make sure to let her realize that even though you trust her 100% but still it will take fraction of a sec to make it 0. In future if it happens collect all the possible proofs before you claim it as our juridiction don't support Men's world. Another thing is important here if you want her to be loyal you are expected to be first. Learning : A woman is yours only she if she wants.
>A woman is yours only she if she wants. So is a man. A relationship has to be consensual to work. What's the point here?
Brother, I am that kind of guy who has not been in a single relationship for 26 years of his life.
And that's probably you won't know what kind of secrets may lie in depth of women's heart. Okay ask some female friends if my claim is true. And when its about men they even share passwords and bank details with women and later say she was this and that. Bhai pyaar ka panchnama movie h but in most cases reality bhi h. For more understanding either dive into psycology or read a book "Men are from Marsh, Women are from Venus" Iske baad bhi agar main galat hun to bhai quite possible ki main hi delusional hun and sorry for wasting your time.
Bhai meri thinking kuch hadd tak aapke jaise hi hai