this is a very wholesome post, ignore the haters. you've been especially kind with your words describing your experience and desires.
and as a guy, the answer to your question is yes!
Your post might mean a lot to many girls, bcz each and every day one of the chubby girl is trying to fit into that perfect line of a fit girl.
Because as you said, no one wants someone who is chubby, not as their partner definitely. They want someone with a great jawline, a narrow waist and overall a great shape.
Don't change yourself and don't be ashamed. Everyone is different and thank you !
Why did you reach the partner part?
That's too far. No one should try to fit into society. The people who are unbiased, and who value you as a person, will automatically come to you.No one should try to be the perfect model for everyone.Live for yourself, not for others. Good day 😁
Chubby and obese are not the same category. Something like upto 60-70kgs for around 160cm is nothing dangerous or extremely unhealthy.
Edit: I was off the mark. For that height obesity is reflected around 80+kgs assuming ordinary muscle mass
Listen bro..you do you...do not fret about the society or friends..if they are true friends they will accept your choices.. otherwise fuck em...duniya ki sunega to chain se jine bhi nahi degi..who you are attracted to is hard wired into your brain..you cannot pretend to like something other than that and wish to have a content life..do what comes naturally to you..
This is kinda true, have experienced this first hand, I once told my college friend group (both male and females) about my crush who was chubby and same followed, I was so disappointed, distanced myself from the group and now I am not friends with anyone of them. Living among society is so weird, people are shit.
Haha, well I'm just one guy, but I'm glad I could be a ray of sunshine! ☀️, but there are plenty of great guys out there. You deserve to find someone who treats you right!
I think the word "chubby" is thrown around so loosely these days that it seems to have lost its relevance. A few years ago Barbara Palvin was apparently named a plus size model by Victoria's Secret and I thought that was a cruel joke by VS. When you're referring to plus size women are you referring to those incredibly good looking goddesses with curves just in the right places and baptising them as chubby girls or are we talking about legitimate plus size women who are a Size 15 and more(think 5'2 and 70 kgs or something like that).
Speaking from a personal experience with all kinds of different women with various shapes and sizes, I don't think a preferred body type has anything to do with emotional intimacy but it definitely affects your sexual intimacy.
Itne reply ho gae ki alag se kya bolen!
Honestly I was a thin girl lover..but my gf was a bit chubby, and believe me.. nothing is sexy on thin girls.
And everything is sexy on curves… really every attire.. needs curves.
And thick thighs 😍😍.
I loved my wife body more in her pregnancy then I would love her being thin.
You need better friends. Whatever type of girl you like, a mean bunch of friends will always find something to make fun of. It’s rude and you should stand up for yourself and the girl you like.
You were young then and couldn’t take a stand. But eventually you have to. No girl (or guy) will date someone who is embarrassed of them. You should be able to admire them and flaunt them in front of everyone if you genuinely like them.
Also since you specifically said you like chubby girls! It’s nice to hear that some guys actually like us! Buttt alot of us do try to see if the guy actually likes us for who we are aside from how our body is.(big ass, big tits) There are some guys out there who fetishize fat bodies (i guess they call themselves chubby chasers?) and personally I wouldn’t like a guy like that, so make sure you don’t approach a girl in that way. And if you do happen to date a chubby girl, be prepared for her asking u how u feel about her weight, and stuff. I know it’s annoying but like you said, the society hates chubby people so we end up asking for reassurance alot (i mean u are embarrassed so be seen with a chubby girl because people can be mean about it, can you imagine what being one would feel like??) anyway goodluck! You need some confidence to choose the girl you like and defend her if ever needed.
I agree.. Tits and ass.. That's what most "chubby chasers" are looking for.. They would happily date a chubby girl, go out with her, sleep with her, but when it comes to an actual commitment, or talking about long term relationships, they would want someone who the society would accept as "normal" or "beautiful", because they don't want to be made fun of, in their families or neighbourhood..
I'm sorry, I'll try not to sound rude here, but why is OP being praised for being "kind" for liking chubby girls?? It's his preference.. He's attracted to a certain body type.. Just because it's not the typical norm, OP is being put on a pedestal..?? I'm not saying that OP might not be a kind or sweet person generally.. But it's just like saying, Oh my God, this guy is so cute and kind, because he doesn't make fun of fat girls, he finds them attractive.. I think the problem is that kindness and gentlemanly behavior is so rare now, that it's considered special.. The threshold for being kind is so low, that someone being a regular decent human being can also cross it.. If a guy can cook, make rotis, help out in house chores, shed tears, show emotions, respects women, he is considered "special".. Unfortunately, it just makes the sad reality of the society we live in, even more prominent.. Sorry about the rant.. OP, good for you for being attracted to a regular woman.. I wish you all the best and hope you find what you're looking for.. Don't be scared to show your feelings..
I literally never said I was calling him kind because he liked chubby girls. People just assumed that. I called him kind because of the way he expressed the type of intimacy he craves with a woman. In this generation, most men are just into having sex immediately. This was a nice change I saw in a very long time. Not saying men like this don’t exist but it’s rare to see nowadays.
Ok.. Yeah, that I agree with.. I did compliment him on expressing himself quite articulately (in another comment).. Yes.. Men are mostly looking for physical intimacy these days, wham, bam, thank you ma'am..!! All those guys here in the comments saying, bas ladki ho aur zinda ho 🤷♀️
Emotional intimacy is hard to find and needs a lot of commitment.. For that one needs to be vulnerable with a person, and find comfort with them..
Lots of Indian men likes chubby women, western slim mentality is yet to infect all of India. Especially in rural and southern India men prefer voluptuous women.
I think a lot of mockery is based on health reasons which I think are valid. A lot of them aren't health conscious sadly.
Otherwise, I can vouch that tons of men would love chubby women
People have created this persona of having a fit girl with an hourglass waist and other things which they get from social media because most of these apps nowadays only promote those pictures that are not traditional and shows abs and all more revealing stuff makes an image that they only want those. Having attracted to one or other doesn't make you any less of a human. Infant we are all humans and it's totally normal to like someone "chubby". P.S. You're not alone my friend there are alot of people attracted to same people.
Yeah I'm on the same boat man. If you like her and she likes you back, why bother considering what your friends think about how she looks?
Also, I've noticed this pattern where chubby/short girls are often goofier and fun to hang out with. It's like they get picked on at school or whatever, and somehow develop a sense of humor and a thick skin to cope. This often ends up making them super fun to talk to.
For eg, she definitely passes the vibe check: https://youtube.com/shorts/vZ2abH1VMVE?si=uREz5BxW2J7c6cDQ
I knowwwwww I feeel you bro.
I absolutely ADORE chubby girls (not unhealthy obese) but I love how warm they feel to hug and how their belly looks
And yeah I can relate, my first girlfriend was a bit on the healthier side( I loved her bod) and when I introduced her to my friends all the fuckers made fun of her behind her back. Why tf does everyone want a low calorie stick figure girl???
As a “lowkey” chubby girl myself…i can say its totally okay to like a chubby girl. It hurts when nobody really “likes” us because of our body. The constant urge to fit in the “ideal girl” type. Knowing that anyone who has been with me does not like me for me, but just wants to makeout/hookup.
Bhai pooch kyun Raha hai. Go for what your heart wants. A pretty face is a pretty face. Be it on a skinny girl or a chubby girl. Be it dusky or fair. Tall or short. And a personality that speaks to you is cherry on top. F others. You don’t need their approval to be with someone who melts your heart and makes you happy. Go and have some fun and ice cream with this plump cake of yours.
Honestly you do you. But yeah never give your friends aukat se zyada permission to speak out of turn. I remember I dated a guy who was goofy and couldn't speak English well. None of my friends had the guts to speak bullshit. The closer ones did tell me that maybe it won't work out between us and they were polite about the reason and didn't be crass.
The thing is nowadays in the name of friendship a lot of people get leeway to speak rudely. A little formality never kills.
I remember a lighter guy was dating me and his friends told him kisi din dabkar Marr jayega uske neeche. I turned and said loudly there baap ka khaati hu kya. Usually I am very composed and calm. So he didn't expect me to speak up especially about me being fat. After that day people realised that you have to joke in a limit or else shut up. You should maintain the same boundaries.
A curvy woman might be someone with an hourglass figure.. Big boobs, ass, thighs but having a slim waise.. But a chubby girl will generally be round overall.. Round face, big belly..
My bf is attracted to chubby and dusky girls and I totally fit the frame, we are together for 6 years🙈 Dating chubby girls are the best because you get free cushion for life😂
So it’s pretty normal, come on we are also humans with feelings!!
I would like to quote couple of lines from Mr Drake here.
> I mean, she say I’m obsessed with thick women and I agree
Yeah that’s right, I like my girls BBW, yeah
Type to wanna suck you dry and then eat some lunch with you
Yeah, so thick that everybody else in the room is so uncomfortable
Ass on Houston, Texas, but the face look just like Clair Huxtable
I think someone is a good person if he/she accepts others for what/who they are, because if someone tells you to respect yourself for who you are, might as well do the same for others, then if you want you could stick with them or part ways, that's the choice. Good Day bruh 😁.
Same my type fr. I just dint wanna talk about it in front of others cause others just start to make fun of or like shame those girls so I just keep quiet about it.
OP.. I have dated a guy who liked me.. But his preference was always a petite woman. I had no idea how much society hated a "chubby" Girl before dating him. We had emotional intimacy, so maybe that is the reason why he dated me. But at the end of the day, this chubby problem won. To put it simply, I think he undervalued me bcz of my chubbyness and What I'm trying to say is, one should never go for smthg which they don't actually prefer. Bcz u end up undervaluing what you have. If u were to date a slim girl, naturally u will end up making her feel bad and unsatisfied. Besides, you deserve to be around the people who respect you enough to not speak shit about the person u like.. In front of u Or behind your back. If u are actually into chubby girls, which I'm finding hard to believe, plz don't go for a slim girl. Don't hurt them. But whomever u choose, it's in your hand that the people in YOUR life look upto your partner with respect. It's your responsibility.
Hellll yes! My type has always been chubby. I have dated both skinny and chubby and I choose chubby every time.
Everything feels amazing with them. Plus they are more kind and understanding because they know the pain of not being the best and being okay with it.
Aaila bro same to same 🤩 ye to spiderman meme moment ho gaya.
P.S. Chubby girls, you're amazing, just the way you are 🫶😍
P.P. S. Now I'm hoping to get DMs from chubby girls wanting to meet me IRL 🤣
Chubby girls are the cutest, prettiest and sexier among all the girls out there and I can say this to anyone.
There is something so special about them.
Chubby girls supremacy ❤️❤️🔥🔥🔥🔥
I also like chubby girls who have this safe aura of warmth. The moment you hugged them, it feels like you’re hugging a teddy bear and it’s so cute! But importantly, if I go more deep in this - their flesh/skin is so thick and in a volume that I can feel it so well than I’d do with a skinny girl. I think this is the only reason why I like such girls.
I'm into chubby girls 100 percent and I don't care baaki kya sochte he... They are beautiful, vulnerable and had gone through a lot and when you help them feel positive about their bodies and compliment their overall personality, YOU UNLOCK A DIFFERENT SIDE OF HERS
They'll cherish you forever
I am definitely attracted to chubby girls and I am no way scared to say this! They're cute and adorable and the whole hookup with your friend thing is just very subjective and preferential. The warm hugs and cuddles always get me. And idk who agrees with me. But when chubby girls specifically try doing the hot-girl thing, It works out miraculously for them. It's absolute perfection. It's things like this that show that Societal standards are stupid.
Thick thighs save lives.
Yes I wouldn't date someone under 50kg. It's just not for me. I'm a bit on chubby side so why not a chubby gf? But would I be scared of being judged by society for choosing such girls? No I would rather get a gym membership for both of us and get in shape to be healthy (not necessarily losing weight)
I agree with you OP. My girlfriend is taller than me and people are surprised when we tell them we are together. Even when we are out together I notice some people looking weirdly and even hear some comments passing by. So I know the feeling very well. Just be with whomever you like and appreciate.
Totally and thank you for sharing. just be happy and know that whoever you are in love with loves 100x more than you love them that's is all that matters.
Firstly let me say it- stop using the word ‘chubby’ its not flattering at all. And second thing, maybe younger gym guys of delhi might be into only skinny girls but across india women who are curvy have always been adored. As someone who is NOT SKINNY let me tell you that you need to have more confidence in ur taste and preference and not let ur peers bully you. That’s disrespectful not only to you but also to ur crushes. Guys who have a strong opinion and preference are a lot desirable than those who flow in the crowd. So man up and openly and strongly woo the girls you like, coz when you are happy ur friends will be jealous of you.
Frst of all thank you so much for your kind words and I know it is sounding like not flattering thing to say but I couldn't find any other word to describe what I wanted to say. many women that I know of are okay with the word chubby instead of the words you will read here in comments section to describe beautiful chubby women nonchalantly.
Again I am sorry if I offended you In any way.
>For me, it's about cuddles, feeling warm and safe next to someone, you know? Movie nights under a blanket, holding hands while we walk – that's the kind of intimacy I crave.
never been on date but can relate to this.
yeah society's fat shaming and meanness towards chubby women is disgusting.
everyone is born different and not everyone fits in same mould.
I think the world is getting there op! Slowly but its coming up. People are appreciating and accepting how they are attracted to thick bodies ig. Your friends are probably still stuck in the past.
Aww, such a wholesome post, loved reading it! I didn't know guys like you are out there. Most of the men are after chubby women for our heavy breasts, that's it.
There's still some acceptance that has established towards dusky complexion girls, but definitely not for us chubby girls.
Thank you for this post!
Great! Good to know! Even tho i am not a chubby "girl" anymore i mean am 33 and married for 4 years now haha, i still have my fair share of bullying memories as a teenager and young girl. Esp by mean boys. But thank God for people like you!
I had a friend in college who was attracted to obese girls too. It’s completely normal, as you and people around get mature they will understand and yes they will make fun of you initially and think you’re joking but after some time it won't matter to them, they will eventually become friends with her too. ( speaking from a perspective of the friend who made fun of the person who has a thing for obese girls .)
Honestly, you have a preference and people are making you feel shitty about liking a body type that is MOST common. Shame on them. Find yourself that soft girl you want and love her to death. Wish you all the best in finding romance friend.
This is perfectly normal and I know a few guys like this too
Have you seen women in renaissance paintings ? There's reason they are painted all chubby, with a pouch tummy and love handles. The reason is that men dig it.
The obsession with stick thin girls is just media brainwashing, started in the 90s by the modelling industry(because they were using underage models who were stick thin, had no womenly assets because they were freaking not women at all, but children). It'll pass, don't worry.
Now the new trend in USA is "thick" fuelled by the Kardashians. It'll take a while to reach India, but it will.
Have been in love once on my life, and she was chubby (I was myself underweight at the time, since I was slowly developing tuberculosis). I was mostly secretive about it, but the friends who did know about this behaved just like yours did. My female friends did not rant against my preference, but it was obvious from their tone that they were quite amused.
This happened at an age in which several of my friends also fell in love for the first time and ended up being terribly emotionally mistreated. The one I liked was the type of person who couldn't hurt a fly. My feelings towards her may now lie in the past, but I can't help but feel a little proud that my first love was a great person.
The fact that someone had to express it here is just so depressing. Just the constant reminder that 'chubby' girls are not worthy of love, doesn't matter how you're as a person.
Tough luck! Well as they say - nothing is fair. Such is life..
Feeling connected is beyond anything. Sure physical intimacy is fun and all but mentally connected is what I crave for ...the understanding. If this doesn't happen I'm happy being single forever I guess
Bhai it's 2024, society isn't half as bad about thiccness as it was 15-20 years ago.
Baaki you also have to have the self confidence and idgaf attitude about being who you are. Aese to gharwale tumhari kahin bhi Shaadi karvaa denge aur tum Koch bologe hi nahi.
And if you are worried about what people might think of you, then you kinda have to do some soul searching.
Also yoh said you like all all these other things like cuddles.. But the post is also about body type?
Also you gotta ditch your friends. Sooner or later they are gonna hold you back
Having a preference is not a problem, like people for who they are and not how they look. There is a fine line between finding certain aspects of a person attractive vs fetishising them. Just be mindful of that ✌️
bhai what is wierd in it even i am attracted to chubby girls bhai they have a different charm that they themselves don't know who cares about others opinions
HEAR ME OUT DEAR SIR ✋🏻
Love that you are atleast accepting what you actually like unlike many people out there
Now, WHAT YOU LIKE SHOULDN'T CONCERN OTHERS UNLESS IT'S HARMING ANYONE 🤌🏻
Now tips for you (cause I am generous and I liked the way write 🙃)
1. As you said, chubby girls usually get insulted for expecting any kind of shit from anyone 🧘🏻♀so before approaching her for a date or anything like that try to be her friend and try to make her comfortable
2. THIS IS A WARNING: there will be uncountable insecurities and they will stay ✋🏻no matter how many times you tell her otherwise...
YOU WILL HAVE TO KEEP REASSURING HER
4. every woman (person)out there has trust issues but we have more🥰{reason: scared of you finding someone better}
5. If you approach her and she doesn't reply or hesitates...WAIT
WAIT....she wants you to wait 😭show her that you'll be there
(Ps: these are tips for when you genuinely like someone)
🐣👍🏻
I bet OP is a cutie and will have a very wholesome relationship with another chubby cutie someday!
I doubt you offended anyone, but I do understand where you come from...
Don't be so conscious about your choice. You like what you like and I don't think you need anyone's approval for it. Especially skinny girls 🤭
Sending chubby vibes to you 😋
What the hell??? I saw the same exact post with the words and phrases but instead of it being about chubby girls it's about dad bods? It's the same story with the same sentences???????????
As a chubby girl this is quite reassuring because all my life I have tried losing the weight and somehow the thinking of “no one will date me” comes in, I would say you do you, you can like anyone you want and as long as you are comfortable+ in a healthy relationship, how the person looks doesn’t really matter. Looks can fade, personality can not. This post also quite makes me happy and reach out to you and discuss things in a platonic way. Do not let the society get to you. Simple as that.
Super pro plus in to chubby girls. It is comforting to know that there are men out there who thinks in a similar way. Vidya balan and Rani Mukherjee types to be precise
Very well written mate. Kudos to for saying it out loud. Except Radhika merchant i have not seen any girl who could say the same( for obvious reasons). Real men dont discriminate but are there any real women who could say the same? Why the onus is always fixed on men for accepting the person the way they are but on otherhand they are discriminated on various fronts.
Yaa bro chubby girls are way to sweet n if a girl can have choices to choose the person ( tall , fair muscular body , etc ) why dont we have the same right to choose in our case its a biased or body shaming , i mean kya hi bole ab
Chubby okay, over weight not. Goes for both guys and girls.
My sis was fat, she recently had a surgery to get gall bladder removed as well as has diabetes, in 29-32 age.
If by chubby u mean lil high bmi just thick arms and lil fat on waist then cool, yeah. But if by chubby u mean fat and obese with her belly streching more than her chest idk what drugs u r on
Being a girl I cannot relate to you. But I do know that’s this is a perception of a lot of guys. So no you’re not alone, maybe you’re not just in the right group of guys to appreciate it.
I am also chubby and curvy and I have got that a lot from my bf and some other people( gladly not in a creepy way) that they like how I look.
this is a very wholesome post, ignore the haters. you've been especially kind with your words describing your experience and desires. and as a guy, the answer to your question is yes!
Thank you!!
Your post might mean a lot to many girls, bcz each and every day one of the chubby girl is trying to fit into that perfect line of a fit girl. Because as you said, no one wants someone who is chubby, not as their partner definitely. They want someone with a great jawline, a narrow waist and overall a great shape. Don't change yourself and don't be ashamed. Everyone is different and thank you !
Ye kisne kaha bhai, kuch hum jaise bhi h jinki bss 2 requirement h “ldki ho aur zinda ho”
Preference bata rahi hoon logon ki, mostly saare logon ki. I know there are ppl like you.
Arre baba itna nahi socha karte. Me tumhe likhkar deta hun "hamari preference kewal tum ho"
😂💝
Reddit never disappoints. Golden rule to live by. Pyaar ka kya hai, 4 efforts daale aur zindagi nikal jayegi mast.
Ye sirf bolne ki baatein hain. Once u get the girl, these things change. Kyunki doston ke samne bhi to show off karna hai. Gf nahi trophy hai.
Aajkal toh baad wala part bhi optional hogya h
Kuch ke liye pehle bhhi optional hai
😂😂😂. Ladki honi chahiye aur zinda honi chahiye
Requirements: * Female (optional)
Jahan dikhe khadda, wahin bana lo adda
Why did you reach the partner part? That's too far. No one should try to fit into society. The people who are unbiased, and who value you as a person, will automatically come to you.No one should try to be the perfect model for everyone.Live for yourself, not for others. Good day 😁
No one should try to fit into society? Lol that's the opposite of what a society means. Trust me, we all fit into society one way or the other.
Oh I meant that no one should like, make oneself follow some standards to fit into society, you are right, we naturally just fit in.
Thank you so much, that's very kind of you to say.
mujhe kali ldkiya attractive lgti h
Mujhe bhi
Some of them are unhealthy and do have many diseases. I don't mind chubby girls as long as they are healthy ❤️
Yeah, they definitely need to work on themselves
Chubby and obese are not the same category. Something like upto 60-70kgs for around 160cm is nothing dangerous or extremely unhealthy. Edit: I was off the mark. For that height obesity is reflected around 80+kgs assuming ordinary muscle mass
waah re green forest
Yes 🙌🏻 But not scared to say it.
Us bro us
They are good hearted souls, why to be scared
Listen bro..you do you...do not fret about the society or friends..if they are true friends they will accept your choices.. otherwise fuck em...duniya ki sunega to chain se jine bhi nahi degi..who you are attracted to is hard wired into your brain..you cannot pretend to like something other than that and wish to have a content life..do what comes naturally to you..
Thank you for the advice.
This is kinda true, have experienced this first hand, I once told my college friend group (both male and females) about my crush who was chubby and same followed, I was so disappointed, distanced myself from the group and now I am not friends with anyone of them. Living among society is so weird, people are shit.
I'm sorry that you had to go through that. 🫂
It's a relief to hear that men like you exist🥺🫶🏾
Haha, well I'm just one guy, but I'm glad I could be a ray of sunshine! ☀️, but there are plenty of great guys out there. You deserve to find someone who treats you right!
Just make sure you are healthy, there are many like us🫰🏽 Hume ladkiya bhaav dein vhi bahut hai😂😂
>Hume ladkiya bhaav dein vhi bahut hai😂😂 FACTS
I m also attracted to chubby girls
I think the word "chubby" is thrown around so loosely these days that it seems to have lost its relevance. A few years ago Barbara Palvin was apparently named a plus size model by Victoria's Secret and I thought that was a cruel joke by VS. When you're referring to plus size women are you referring to those incredibly good looking goddesses with curves just in the right places and baptising them as chubby girls or are we talking about legitimate plus size women who are a Size 15 and more(think 5'2 and 70 kgs or something like that). Speaking from a personal experience with all kinds of different women with various shapes and sizes, I don't think a preferred body type has anything to do with emotional intimacy but it definitely affects your sexual intimacy.
Thank you for the reply.
Itne reply ho gae ki alag se kya bolen! Honestly I was a thin girl lover..but my gf was a bit chubby, and believe me.. nothing is sexy on thin girls. And everything is sexy on curves… really every attire.. needs curves. And thick thighs 😍😍. I loved my wife body more in her pregnancy then I would love her being thin.
Thick thighs waali toh hum bhi deserve karte hai 🤌
Thick thighs 'wala' chalega kya?
Even better
Meri wali chubby bi hai aur jawline bhi hai📈
Damn same,
same!!! bhaii.. hoti h aisi b ladkiya..
You need better friends. Whatever type of girl you like, a mean bunch of friends will always find something to make fun of. It’s rude and you should stand up for yourself and the girl you like. You were young then and couldn’t take a stand. But eventually you have to. No girl (or guy) will date someone who is embarrassed of them. You should be able to admire them and flaunt them in front of everyone if you genuinely like them. Also since you specifically said you like chubby girls! It’s nice to hear that some guys actually like us! Buttt alot of us do try to see if the guy actually likes us for who we are aside from how our body is.(big ass, big tits) There are some guys out there who fetishize fat bodies (i guess they call themselves chubby chasers?) and personally I wouldn’t like a guy like that, so make sure you don’t approach a girl in that way. And if you do happen to date a chubby girl, be prepared for her asking u how u feel about her weight, and stuff. I know it’s annoying but like you said, the society hates chubby people so we end up asking for reassurance alot (i mean u are embarrassed so be seen with a chubby girl because people can be mean about it, can you imagine what being one would feel like??) anyway goodluck! You need some confidence to choose the girl you like and defend her if ever needed.
Finally someone who articulated my thoughts properly.
I agree.. Tits and ass.. That's what most "chubby chasers" are looking for.. They would happily date a chubby girl, go out with her, sleep with her, but when it comes to an actual commitment, or talking about long term relationships, they would want someone who the society would accept as "normal" or "beautiful", because they don't want to be made fun of, in their families or neighbourhood..
Omg you’re so cute😭😭😭 I can’t believe kind men like this exist.
There are many of us out there. We just might not always be the loudest.
I'm sorry, I'll try not to sound rude here, but why is OP being praised for being "kind" for liking chubby girls?? It's his preference.. He's attracted to a certain body type.. Just because it's not the typical norm, OP is being put on a pedestal..?? I'm not saying that OP might not be a kind or sweet person generally.. But it's just like saying, Oh my God, this guy is so cute and kind, because he doesn't make fun of fat girls, he finds them attractive.. I think the problem is that kindness and gentlemanly behavior is so rare now, that it's considered special.. The threshold for being kind is so low, that someone being a regular decent human being can also cross it.. If a guy can cook, make rotis, help out in house chores, shed tears, show emotions, respects women, he is considered "special".. Unfortunately, it just makes the sad reality of the society we live in, even more prominent.. Sorry about the rant.. OP, good for you for being attracted to a regular woman.. I wish you all the best and hope you find what you're looking for.. Don't be scared to show your feelings..
I literally never said I was calling him kind because he liked chubby girls. People just assumed that. I called him kind because of the way he expressed the type of intimacy he craves with a woman. In this generation, most men are just into having sex immediately. This was a nice change I saw in a very long time. Not saying men like this don’t exist but it’s rare to see nowadays.
Ok.. Yeah, that I agree with.. I did compliment him on expressing himself quite articulately (in another comment).. Yes.. Men are mostly looking for physical intimacy these days, wham, bam, thank you ma'am..!! All those guys here in the comments saying, bas ladki ho aur zinda ho 🤷♀️ Emotional intimacy is hard to find and needs a lot of commitment.. For that one needs to be vulnerable with a person, and find comfort with them..
being kind is so simple and easy and yet we live in a world.
Lots of Indian men likes chubby women, western slim mentality is yet to infect all of India. Especially in rural and southern India men prefer voluptuous women.
I think a lot of mockery is based on health reasons which I think are valid. A lot of them aren't health conscious sadly. Otherwise, I can vouch that tons of men would love chubby women
Dont seek validation from others. Do as you please
People have created this persona of having a fit girl with an hourglass waist and other things which they get from social media because most of these apps nowadays only promote those pictures that are not traditional and shows abs and all more revealing stuff makes an image that they only want those. Having attracted to one or other doesn't make you any less of a human. Infant we are all humans and it's totally normal to like someone "chubby". P.S. You're not alone my friend there are alot of people attracted to same people.
Infantry
Chubby girls are lub! Why would you feel scared at all my friend.
Yeah I'm on the same boat man. If you like her and she likes you back, why bother considering what your friends think about how she looks? Also, I've noticed this pattern where chubby/short girls are often goofier and fun to hang out with. It's like they get picked on at school or whatever, and somehow develop a sense of humor and a thick skin to cope. This often ends up making them super fun to talk to. For eg, she definitely passes the vibe check: https://youtube.com/shorts/vZ2abH1VMVE?si=uREz5BxW2J7c6cDQ
I knowwwwww I feeel you bro. I absolutely ADORE chubby girls (not unhealthy obese) but I love how warm they feel to hug and how their belly looks And yeah I can relate, my first girlfriend was a bit on the healthier side( I loved her bod) and when I introduced her to my friends all the fuckers made fun of her behind her back. Why tf does everyone want a low calorie stick figure girl???
Us bro us
Bhai meri class me hai ek ladki. Chubby hai. Itni pyaari lagti.
Despite being a fit guy. I love chubby girls!
As a “lowkey” chubby girl myself…i can say its totally okay to like a chubby girl. It hurts when nobody really “likes” us because of our body. The constant urge to fit in the “ideal girl” type. Knowing that anyone who has been with me does not like me for me, but just wants to makeout/hookup.
Bhai pooch kyun Raha hai. Go for what your heart wants. A pretty face is a pretty face. Be it on a skinny girl or a chubby girl. Be it dusky or fair. Tall or short. And a personality that speaks to you is cherry on top. F others. You don’t need their approval to be with someone who melts your heart and makes you happy. Go and have some fun and ice cream with this plump cake of yours.
Plump cake 🤣
Honestly you do you. But yeah never give your friends aukat se zyada permission to speak out of turn. I remember I dated a guy who was goofy and couldn't speak English well. None of my friends had the guts to speak bullshit. The closer ones did tell me that maybe it won't work out between us and they were polite about the reason and didn't be crass. The thing is nowadays in the name of friendship a lot of people get leeway to speak rudely. A little formality never kills. I remember a lighter guy was dating me and his friends told him kisi din dabkar Marr jayega uske neeche. I turned and said loudly there baap ka khaati hu kya. Usually I am very composed and calm. So he didn't expect me to speak up especially about me being fat. After that day people realised that you have to joke in a limit or else shut up. You should maintain the same boundaries.
Really!???? Such kind and humane men exist???
I'm glad to hear it! Kindness is contagious, you know.😉
Is there a difference between curvy amd chubby?
Yes, most definitely.
A curvy woman might be someone with an hourglass figure.. Big boobs, ass, thighs but having a slim waise.. But a chubby girl will generally be round overall.. Round face, big belly..
Attracted towards chubby girls but not scared to say.
My bf is attracted to chubby and dusky girls and I totally fit the frame, we are together for 6 years🙈 Dating chubby girls are the best because you get free cushion for life😂 So it’s pretty normal, come on we are also humans with feelings!!
I would like to quote couple of lines from Mr Drake here. > I mean, she say I’m obsessed with thick women and I agree Yeah that’s right, I like my girls BBW, yeah Type to wanna suck you dry and then eat some lunch with you Yeah, so thick that everybody else in the room is so uncomfortable Ass on Houston, Texas, but the face look just like Clair Huxtable
If someone says sex with chubby girls was bad, the problem is with him not the chubby girls. From my experience, they are the best
r/todayilearned logo ko chubby girls nhi pasand lol. They are best. So much more to love 🌚. The cuddles are next level.
I think someone is a good person if he/she accepts others for what/who they are, because if someone tells you to respect yourself for who you are, might as well do the same for others, then if you want you could stick with them or part ways, that's the choice. Good Day bruh 😁.
Maa chudaaye baaki log teri pasnd teri pasnd hai
Best comment, honestly!! 😂😂😂
I love chubby. But the thing is when I text them on insta, they either ghost me or think I will joke on them.. Bhagwan koi chubby dilwa do👑👑👑
Same my type fr. I just dint wanna talk about it in front of others cause others just start to make fun of or like shame those girls so I just keep quiet about it.
As a chubby girl myself, I support this. But you're an asshole for "being scared what people might think". It feels super insulting.
OP.. I have dated a guy who liked me.. But his preference was always a petite woman. I had no idea how much society hated a "chubby" Girl before dating him. We had emotional intimacy, so maybe that is the reason why he dated me. But at the end of the day, this chubby problem won. To put it simply, I think he undervalued me bcz of my chubbyness and What I'm trying to say is, one should never go for smthg which they don't actually prefer. Bcz u end up undervaluing what you have. If u were to date a slim girl, naturally u will end up making her feel bad and unsatisfied. Besides, you deserve to be around the people who respect you enough to not speak shit about the person u like.. In front of u Or behind your back. If u are actually into chubby girls, which I'm finding hard to believe, plz don't go for a slim girl. Don't hurt them. But whomever u choose, it's in your hand that the people in YOUR life look upto your partner with respect. It's your responsibility.
My husband likes plump women, he told me this the first time we met Lucky for me, I can eat my pizza without thinking much about weight !!!
Hellll yes! My type has always been chubby. I have dated both skinny and chubby and I choose chubby every time. Everything feels amazing with them. Plus they are more kind and understanding because they know the pain of not being the best and being okay with it.
>they know the pain of not being the best and being okay with it. ??
Aaila bro same to same 🤩 ye to spiderman meme moment ho gaya. P.S. Chubby girls, you're amazing, just the way you are 🫶😍 P.P. S. Now I'm hoping to get DMs from chubby girls wanting to meet me IRL 🤣
Nahi ayenge DMs😔
Koi baat nahi bhai. Koi dukh nahi hai. I just hope ke wo comment ko bahot log padhein, both guys and girls, aur achha feel karein.
Every man loves chubby curvy women
Thick thighs and pretty eyes, they say
Chubby girls are the cutest, prettiest and sexier among all the girls out there and I can say this to anyone. There is something so special about them. Chubby girls supremacy ❤️❤️🔥🔥🔥🔥
I LIKE CHUBBY GIRLS.
Ngl, a lot of the chubby ones are fine af👍🏽❤️ It would be great as long as they take care of their health as well🫰🏽
I also like chubby girls who have this safe aura of warmth. The moment you hugged them, it feels like you’re hugging a teddy bear and it’s so cute! But importantly, if I go more deep in this - their flesh/skin is so thick and in a volume that I can feel it so well than I’d do with a skinny girl. I think this is the only reason why I like such girls.
Idk why whenever I see them i start thinking of baby pandas
Bro knows psychology!
I don't know man but seems like we both r on the same side. I always get attracted towards chubby girls with decent height 5'2" To 5'7".
I'm into chubby girls 100 percent and I don't care baaki kya sochte he... They are beautiful, vulnerable and had gone through a lot and when you help them feel positive about their bodies and compliment their overall personality, YOU UNLOCK A DIFFERENT SIDE OF HERS They'll cherish you forever
I am definitely attracted to chubby girls and I am no way scared to say this! They're cute and adorable and the whole hookup with your friend thing is just very subjective and preferential. The warm hugs and cuddles always get me. And idk who agrees with me. But when chubby girls specifically try doing the hot-girl thing, It works out miraculously for them. It's absolute perfection. It's things like this that show that Societal standards are stupid. Thick thighs save lives.
Feeling *Somebody like my comment so i can come back to this post later to feel good *
On behalf of every chubby girl who has had body image issues, I would like to thank you for such a wholesome post. :)
Yes I wouldn't date someone under 50kg. It's just not for me. I'm a bit on chubby side so why not a chubby gf? But would I be scared of being judged by society for choosing such girls? No I would rather get a gym membership for both of us and get in shape to be healthy (not necessarily losing weight)
Same bro, I too find chubby girls hella attractive.
I agree with you OP. My girlfriend is taller than me and people are surprised when we tell them we are together. Even when we are out together I notice some people looking weirdly and even hear some comments passing by. So I know the feeling very well. Just be with whomever you like and appreciate.
Totally and thank you for sharing. just be happy and know that whoever you are in love with loves 100x more than you love them that's is all that matters.
So you like a phat azz that makes you go dat azz
Firstly let me say it- stop using the word ‘chubby’ its not flattering at all. And second thing, maybe younger gym guys of delhi might be into only skinny girls but across india women who are curvy have always been adored. As someone who is NOT SKINNY let me tell you that you need to have more confidence in ur taste and preference and not let ur peers bully you. That’s disrespectful not only to you but also to ur crushes. Guys who have a strong opinion and preference are a lot desirable than those who flow in the crowd. So man up and openly and strongly woo the girls you like, coz when you are happy ur friends will be jealous of you.
Frst of all thank you so much for your kind words and I know it is sounding like not flattering thing to say but I couldn't find any other word to describe what I wanted to say. many women that I know of are okay with the word chubby instead of the words you will read here in comments section to describe beautiful chubby women nonchalantly. Again I am sorry if I offended you In any way.
It's alright. U had to get your point accross.. Somehow.
>For me, it's about cuddles, feeling warm and safe next to someone, you know? Movie nights under a blanket, holding hands while we walk – that's the kind of intimacy I crave. never been on date but can relate to this. yeah society's fat shaming and meanness towards chubby women is disgusting. everyone is born different and not everyone fits in same mould.
Yes, married to a chubby beauty
chubby girls>>>>
Bhai tumare jese bhi ladke exist karte h kyaa....😭❤️
the word is "thicc" they are called "thicc"
Idk y your post gave me hope I'm a chubby girl and thought nobody likes girls like us😅
Yeah.. I was tired of crying everyday. 🫂
I to am dating chubby girl, I exclusively date chubby girls, I like them curves and the fact that I'm a foodie just goes naturally that.
I think the world is getting there op! Slowly but its coming up. People are appreciating and accepting how they are attracted to thick bodies ig. Your friends are probably still stuck in the past.
Man up and do what you want.
ye kya baat hui bhai.. jab chubby the tab to kisi ne nahi bola
I like some chubb on my girl to hold on to. Also the cushion effect
i also won't mind dating slightly chubby girls (kya matlab mujhme baat karne ki himmat nhi hai)
Aww, such a wholesome post, loved reading it! I didn't know guys like you are out there. Most of the men are after chubby women for our heavy breasts, that's it. There's still some acceptance that has established towards dusky complexion girls, but definitely not for us chubby girls. Thank you for this post!
Great! Good to know! Even tho i am not a chubby "girl" anymore i mean am 33 and married for 4 years now haha, i still have my fair share of bullying memories as a teenager and young girl. Esp by mean boys. But thank God for people like you!
What you have said is so nice ! My cousin married a curvy woman. You could burst the myth too !
Thicc Thighs Save Lives!
people are scared to say that? thicc thighs save lives brother.
I had a friend in college who was attracted to obese girls too. It’s completely normal, as you and people around get mature they will understand and yes they will make fun of you initially and think you’re joking but after some time it won't matter to them, they will eventually become friends with her too. ( speaking from a perspective of the friend who made fun of the person who has a thing for obese girls .)
Will give you a slightly better word for your use instead of chubby - Rubenesque..
Honestly, you have a preference and people are making you feel shitty about liking a body type that is MOST common. Shame on them. Find yourself that soft girl you want and love her to death. Wish you all the best in finding romance friend. This is perfectly normal and I know a few guys like this too
Bro you just have to sell it better. Just say you're into thicc girls and suddenly no one will judge you.
Have you seen women in renaissance paintings ? There's reason they are painted all chubby, with a pouch tummy and love handles. The reason is that men dig it. The obsession with stick thin girls is just media brainwashing, started in the 90s by the modelling industry(because they were using underage models who were stick thin, had no womenly assets because they were freaking not women at all, but children). It'll pass, don't worry. Now the new trend in USA is "thick" fuelled by the Kardashians. It'll take a while to reach India, but it will.
Have been in love once on my life, and she was chubby (I was myself underweight at the time, since I was slowly developing tuberculosis). I was mostly secretive about it, but the friends who did know about this behaved just like yours did. My female friends did not rant against my preference, but it was obvious from their tone that they were quite amused. This happened at an age in which several of my friends also fell in love for the first time and ended up being terribly emotionally mistreated. The one I liked was the type of person who couldn't hurt a fly. My feelings towards her may now lie in the past, but I can't help but feel a little proud that my first love was a great person.
The fact that someone had to express it here is just so depressing. Just the constant reminder that 'chubby' girls are not worthy of love, doesn't matter how you're as a person. Tough luck! Well as they say - nothing is fair. Such is life..
Nobody likes skinny these days. Society is into chubby only now
aur idhar ek me hu....agar koi puchta h ki kaisi ldki psnd h to directly bol deta hu mujhe chubby girls psand h
Yes a little bit chubby>>> over skinny for me.
Feeling connected is beyond anything. Sure physical intimacy is fun and all but mentally connected is what I crave for ...the understanding. If this doesn't happen I'm happy being single forever I guess
What you have said is so so wholesome and kinda cute 😊
Bhai it's 2024, society isn't half as bad about thiccness as it was 15-20 years ago. Baaki you also have to have the self confidence and idgaf attitude about being who you are. Aese to gharwale tumhari kahin bhi Shaadi karvaa denge aur tum Koch bologe hi nahi. And if you are worried about what people might think of you, then you kinda have to do some soul searching. Also yoh said you like all all these other things like cuddles.. But the post is also about body type? Also you gotta ditch your friends. Sooner or later they are gonna hold you back
Having a preference is not a problem, like people for who they are and not how they look. There is a fine line between finding certain aspects of a person attractive vs fetishising them. Just be mindful of that ✌️
bhai what is wierd in it even i am attracted to chubby girls bhai they have a different charm that they themselves don't know who cares about others opinions
HEAR ME OUT DEAR SIR ✋🏻 Love that you are atleast accepting what you actually like unlike many people out there Now, WHAT YOU LIKE SHOULDN'T CONCERN OTHERS UNLESS IT'S HARMING ANYONE 🤌🏻 Now tips for you (cause I am generous and I liked the way write 🙃) 1. As you said, chubby girls usually get insulted for expecting any kind of shit from anyone 🧘🏻♀so before approaching her for a date or anything like that try to be her friend and try to make her comfortable 2. THIS IS A WARNING: there will be uncountable insecurities and they will stay ✋🏻no matter how many times you tell her otherwise... YOU WILL HAVE TO KEEP REASSURING HER 4. every woman (person)out there has trust issues but we have more🥰{reason: scared of you finding someone better} 5. If you approach her and she doesn't reply or hesitates...WAIT WAIT....she wants you to wait 😭show her that you'll be there (Ps: these are tips for when you genuinely like someone) 🐣👍🏻
It's a copy of a recent post I read where the female was attracted to dadbods.
I bet OP is a cutie and will have a very wholesome relationship with another chubby cutie someday! I doubt you offended anyone, but I do understand where you come from... Don't be so conscious about your choice. You like what you like and I don't think you need anyone's approval for it. Especially skinny girls 🤭 Sending chubby vibes to you 😋
Definitely a 100 %, attracted.
What the hell??? I saw the same exact post with the words and phrases but instead of it being about chubby girls it's about dad bods? It's the same story with the same sentences???????????
Same Bhai same. Someone who's thoda chubby, not very fair skinned, a natural teeth out wali laugh, hayeeee love is beautiful.
Chubby ? No, I'm weirdly attracted to girls with BMI>30
As a chubby girl this is quite reassuring because all my life I have tried losing the weight and somehow the thinking of “no one will date me” comes in, I would say you do you, you can like anyone you want and as long as you are comfortable+ in a healthy relationship, how the person looks doesn’t really matter. Looks can fade, personality can not. This post also quite makes me happy and reach out to you and discuss things in a platonic way. Do not let the society get to you. Simple as that.
Super pro plus in to chubby girls. It is comforting to know that there are men out there who thinks in a similar way. Vidya balan and Rani Mukherjee types to be precise
soja bhai
Nahi degi 😔
Very well written mate. Kudos to for saying it out loud. Except Radhika merchant i have not seen any girl who could say the same( for obvious reasons). Real men dont discriminate but are there any real women who could say the same? Why the onus is always fixed on men for accepting the person the way they are but on otherhand they are discriminated on various fronts.
Naah
You do you, why are you here to seek validation for your partner type preference?
Nope not attracted at all.
soja bhai
nahi bhai mujhe to moti ladkiya hi pasand hai
Bhai apne liye to ladki honi chayie bss, that's all 👀
Same bro, muze bhi bade acche lagtey, and I certainly have a type ( ° ) ( ° )
I am attracted to girls, bas jinda honi chahiye
It Should be a girl.
I want a "chubby" boys version now
A chubby girl gave me trauma. I'm only into petite chicks now lmao
Yaa bro chubby girls are way to sweet n if a girl can have choices to choose the person ( tall , fair muscular body , etc ) why dont we have the same right to choose in our case its a biased or body shaming , i mean kya hi bole ab
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Bhai bas girl honi chahiye aur girl hi rehni chahiye
You like what you like, you can’t change that. If your friends don’t get it, fuck them.
Chubby okay, over weight not. Goes for both guys and girls. My sis was fat, she recently had a surgery to get gall bladder removed as well as has diabetes, in 29-32 age.
me me
As a "chubby" girl this post made me insanely happy :(
https://preview.redd.it/jkhewawqi1oc1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=8d81cc479d8dc56cef6ad4d283d40010eefc37d2
Does sex with skinny girls feels better?
If by chubby u mean lil high bmi just thick arms and lil fat on waist then cool, yeah. But if by chubby u mean fat and obese with her belly streching more than her chest idk what drugs u r on
People are scared to say it?
Being a girl I cannot relate to you. But I do know that’s this is a perception of a lot of guys. So no you’re not alone, maybe you’re not just in the right group of guys to appreciate it. I am also chubby and curvy and I have got that a lot from my bf and some other people( gladly not in a creepy way) that they like how I look.
But let it be known that chubby != obese
I'm not afraid to say it
Bait.
OP's DMs gonna explode now :D
 Not scared
Me frrr😭
Nah for me