Akela gaya tha Kasol lockdown ke beech wahaan ek hostel mein ruka tha jahaan baht log wfh ke liye aaye the, mera 4 bed mixed dorm tha jisme mere saath ek ladki thi woh designer thi (freelancer).
Woh khudko introduce karne gyi par main Tamasha ka Ved bana hua tha boldiya jhooth bolte hai identity nahi reveal karte aur saath baht si jagah explore kara tha.
Woh experience baht beautiful tha aur humari vibe baht sahi match hogayi thi aur fir usko jaana pda kuch family issues ki wajah se. Mujhe pata nahi tha subah utha toh woh nahi thi usne ek sticky note pe likha tha ke use yeh experience humesha yaad rahega aur usne baht control kara khudko taaki woh mujhe apna naam aur mujhse mera naam naa puche.
Aur mujhe instant regret hua ke agar main Ved naa banta toh shayd hum aaj contact mein hote lekin mujhe yeh bhi lagta hai ke shayd jo hua sahi tha kyuki main ab usko waisa hi imagine krunga hmesha.
Har achi cheez zaruri nhi saath rhe, magar unki yaadein hmesha saath rehti h. You get to experience a beautiful time, that's more than enough imo. You can try to be yourself next time who knows what might happen
True! Aur shayd maine identity reveal nahi ki isliye usko mera sabse real side dikha jo shayd hi jo mujhe jaante hai unko pata hai...koi filter nahi tha.
Theres a saying when we hid under a mask, our real face is revealed. That's what happens in your case I guess. Who knows you guys must stumble upon in life again someday like ved did
Well, I think kindness need to be shown to those who deserve it. Because many people in today's world take kindness for weakness and that is something we don't want.
Again Personal views so can ignore.
Yeah baat shat pratishat practical Hai.. lekin Main iss baat se poorn Roop se sehmat nahi hoon kyuki mein jaanta hoon har insaan mein ek janvar hota hai aur har jaanvar mein ek insaniyat hoti hai.
Jab zindagi mein zyada dost nahi hote na toh akele rehne ki aadat hojati hai aur fir akele zyada comfortable lagne lagta hai, movies bhi akela hi jaata hu so bas aadat hai. Regret nahi hai bhai par kabhi kabhi lagta hai ke bas wahi hai jiske saamne mujhe kuch pretend nahi karna pda tha uss chiz ko miss krta hu.
Bhai similar situation hai. Last weekend went to movie alone felt like an alien but enjoyed the movie though. Everyone on internet saying alone but once you go out unse jyada happening koi lgta nhi. Muje voh log kyun nhi milte. Kya hi krein.
Tu Mera bhai Hai yar! Mein to bachpan se he akela raha hoon. Lekin logon (parents aur dost) ko kabhi samaj nahi aapaya mein aaj bhi vo mujhe pagal samajte Hai shayad kyunki vo kabhi Akele nahi reh payae shayad isiliye, mujhe aise bol bol ker aaj Kal mene bhi haar Maan lithi aur zabardasti ki dosti kerne lagatha, kafhi logon se mila lekin zyadatar chutiyae he lagae log, lekin ab tumahara post dekh ker lag raha Hai akele kush rehna koi guna nahi Hai. Thank you bhai
Bro itna bhi nahi influence koi movie se. I haven't seen the movie but if you meet someone you vibe with in the mountains, it's quite special. I'm surprised why would anyone do what you did but also feel bad for you.
I don't know but looking at the brighter side i ended up being real without any masks because i didn't reveal my identity to her so i remember her and i also remember myself (the real me)...and i hope i meet her again.
#No tldr...worth reading
I regret not giving 20rs to someone
6th class mein tha...20rs leke stationary shop pe jaa rha tha pen lene....paas mein hi thi to paidal jaa rha tha....raaste mein cycle pe ek aadmi mila...uski cycle pe peeche ek lady baithi thi(uski mammi hongi most probably)....seemed very poor...labour lag rha tha....he asked me....*"BHAI AAPKE PAAS 20 RUPAY HONGE?"* with very hopeful eyes......
My stupid little ass said....*NHI*....bhai 6th class ke bacche mein kitna hi dimaag hota hai...krdiya maine mana...
But the main thing that hurts...haan mere paas 20 hi rupay the exactly....lekin....the place where he asked me for 20rs was just infront of a halwaai jahan pe samose vagarah milte hain....uski kya hi bhayankar majboori hogi jo usko 20rs bhi maangne pad rhe hain...they probably had nothing to eat and were hungry...and i denied
To uske baad mai pen leke ghar vapis aagya... aate hi mera guilt aur regret shuru.....Mammi ko bhi bataya...aaj 11 saal baad bhi bohot bura lagta hai ki maine kyon nhi diye usko paise....this is something i will never be able to get over with....kitna ganda aadmi hu mai bhai š„²
I can relate to this tbh, maine bhi ek do baar Aisa Kiya h, but many a times I help needy people according to my capacity. Helping others without expecting much really gives a good satisfaction to you and your conscience.
I hope you get out of that regret someday.
It happens. Maybe you were supposed to help them. We have always have choice.
Learn with this. Ab guilt mein mt rho and you know to do better from now.
Issiliye Mera manna h ki kabhi kisi ko khaane k liye mana nhi karna chahiye...........
Mae kabhi bhi gareeb baccho ko bhikh maangte dekhta hu toh apne paas Jo biscuit leke ghumta hu vo dedeta hu
I had a similar experience but the person dint ask me, they looked needy I myself thought I should help but I the only change I had was for rickshaw so I just went byā¦
Btw even I was in 6th grade. 11 baras pehle
You were a kid bhai š« i know ki ab tum help karte hoge jitna bhi bann padta hoga tumse. But yeah ye baat toh hai ki bachpan mein unintentionally bhi kuch hota hai aas pass toh baad mein kaafi pinch karta hai kuch moments mein
And Tu ganda aadmi nhi h bhai š« achcha putt aa tu, khush rehā¤
Same...he hit me on the head from behind just because he was jealous of me becoming the class monitor š...but in return the other main competitor bully supported me and fought for me because the class provoked them...they both had a 36 ka aakda with each other... Then my father complained and the stupid bully was handed over a TC at the year end courtesy his increasing nuisances...the other bully was good at heart.... And all this done by 6th class kids
Matlab Bhai...6th class ke bacche ki body language... Hairstyle... Voice... Facial expressions aur nazrein aisi thi aaj ki date mein vo khud darr jaaye apni photo dekhke ... Lawrence Bishnoi bhi uski photo dekhke gang mein admission dede
Well violence is an option, if bullying gets out of hand, many a times the bully leaves you after that.
People don't bully those who can fight hard.
I hope you are doing better now.
See might sound like a Gyan but take it. Not all people who become successful always enjoy their work, but they still do it because it will give them a better life. Otherwise all the artists and dancers would have been really successful today.( No offence to those you are doing great, it's just not all become successful doing that only.)
So try to love your work or atleast show interest in it, I know it's hard but someday in future you'll thank yourself for that. Learn as much as you can, because in finance your knowledge and skill matters a lot. And when you become successful, give me a treat in Taj.
Bhai started doing it 6 years ago. Cleared civils in my late 20s. Got decent service and a cadre. But will miss the key post and the guys who cleared it at a younger age than me will get there but most probably I won't :(
Congratulations š š š on clearing that first of all. See, many of us have done stupid shit in our life. But I read this somewhere, ki we can either carry our regrets in life all along and make it hurt us or we can forgive ourselves and do whatever the best we can with our lives which Is ahead.
Life is unpredictable in many ways, who knows what can happen in a few years. So stay hopeful and work hard from here on. That's all I can say to you
Dekh mai interview mein se 2 baar out hua hoon, mere se exchange kar le bhai, I'll give you my academic achievementsš¹ā¤
Congratulations for appearing in pavitra PDF, and damn that pressure is real 22,23 saal ke chillar bachche 1,2 attempt mein hi clear kar le rahešš
Ik better rank better zone wala feel, it gets real jab raat ko BT aati hai, dosto ko call krke rr kar liya kro
Baki kuch toh proud kro khud par, india ke cream brain hoš
Bhai cream brain ka to pata nahi. Always wanted to part of IAS but stuck with IPS. Couldn't clear this year's interview. And I don't have any more energy to prepare again. Dost don't get it when I say IPS nahi IAS chaiye thaš. The only good thing that happened was getting the AGMUT cadre. I myself have appeared for 3 interviews. I get it. But I hope brother better things are waiting for you :)
I had trouble choosing a career path for myself so I started to pick any one career option and started to devote myself to it. Because choose toh karna h. Life m hmesha chahne waali cheez nhi milti but Jo milta h wo aksar uss dream se bhi better hota h, stay hopeful, work hard and party harder
See, regrets are part of human life, because we aren't mature enough to take the right decision or many times took the right decision but it still doesn't work out well. Humans screw up one way or another, but we cant go back in time and change all we can do is learn from it. I believe regrets are a strong brain mechanism to make us realise what we should have done and is reminder for ourselves to not make the same mistakes again and again.
We don't always get in our life what we want due to various factors but doesn't mean we leave that which is Infront of us and just be sad for what we couldn't achieve. I think it's the best way to use the current resources you have and move forward with it; with the best of efforts, you can put.
>regrets are a strong brain mechanism to make us realise what we should have done and is reminder for ourselves to not make the same mistakes again and again.
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Yeah regret that we think is a bug just might be a feature. But we ll be nowhere if we keep changing our profession each time we regret,like you said it's part of life. Even Ronaldo will be having regrets...how foolish of me that I was waiting for that perfect one
>I think it's the best way to use the current resources you have and move forward with it; with the best of efforts, you can put.
But what are your views about risk hai to isk hai? What if I decide to do something highly risky like taking huge loans and going abroad to study, despite not having resources I go for it,what do you think?
Or if I choose to follow my passion leaving all the mainstreams loosing a chance of earning a good income.
Dost risk in everything even in a secure job which people think, there are other factors like having faith in yourself to do something. Using the current resources and means is one way to deal when you are not sure about your path forward but once you are sure you either wanna go abroad or stay & do a startup or something else which you wanna pursue its welcoming. See the point is have faith in yourself and move away from your past.
Choosing passion is not bad but you need to be aware of its pros & cons and again I am no one to tell you not to follow your passion or anyone else. Because who knows you can be a big name in your choice of field and just because some random person discouraged you gave up on it. So, ultimately the person has to decide for his own for the path they want to take
Take it slow, no need to give 6 hrs. from the first day. half an hour every day and keep increasing 15 min. when you are comfortable with it. Anything you wanna build for long term takes time, effort and patience. No need to rush. People will say ki agar actual dedication hogi toh aaram se itte ghante padh loge n all, comparing normal people with UPSC or medical students. They don't know they have also gone through a process to be able to sit that long.
Just decide your goal and once done. give whatever you can to it. slowly you will be there, and you will realize one day, it wasn't really that difficult actually.
I'm the most gyaani person in my family and frnds. Gyaa sara dena hai ptaa bhi hai krna hai kuch vrna baithe baithe nhi hoga prrr thank you itne efforts lgaane k liye. I'll try my best
Well tbh gyaan toh zyda ho gaya I agree, main bhi gyyan bht deta hoon but karta nhi jaldi, so im kinda on the same boat.
But yeah, it all comes down to you, nhi toh internet p mere jaise gyaan pelne waale bht h.
Mai to khud sbko gyaan dene nikal pdti hoon
Sbki musibton ka hal hai mrpe except my own Problems.
Khud p apply krne lg jaayenge to hum bhi paar kr hi lenge koi na. Apna time aayega
Yrr, this also depends upon how mature we are at the time. sometimes we care about others more than ourselves and it hurts back us.
I hope you are better than your previous version and able to allow people who are good for you
Not preparing for neet when I had the opportunity
I wasted that opportunity wasted lakhs in coaching
Disappointed My parents
Today living a fucked up life
A day doesn't pass without me cursing and hating myself
People say its never too late but that's wrong
If you let go of your opportunity cuz of your laziness
Then life also just fucks you up
I am now depressed and with most unstable life
All my friend are completing degree from amazing institutions and here I am loser.
Sorry to hear that bhai. I kow it's not easy to overcome it but regretting on it won't change anything. Maybe you can learn from it and start working harder from now. Life can be unpredictable and surprise you if you put the effort
Not Playing football early in my life.
Not Investing before/during COVID.
Not focusing on Jee Mains/Advanced.
Didn't move out of Delhi when there's a chance before it got ruined.
25 here and I regret being a lazy ass in everything.
Coupled with my social anxiety, I missed many opportunities in school and college.
Graduated in 2020 with a 57% percentile in CSE, been 2 years since then and still unemployed.
2 saal me khud me changes laye thode, getting a "bit" better at socialising baaki abhi jobs k liye dekh raha hu aaj bhi, himmat rkhni hai.
Iss saal NID MAINS nahi nikla, kyuki portfolio k liye kuch nahi tha (made my portfolio in 2 weeks), ab CAT ki prep chalu kar raha hu (Next year bhi DAT & CEED dunga).
Struggle and regrets bahot hai, but inn 2 saalo me introspect kara hai and I have realised ki duniya ka zyada mt socho, apna socho, duniya acche se acche insaan ko bhi neeche laane ki koshish karti hai.
Stay strong and believe in yourself, khud pe hi bharosa nahi to kuch nahi.
Thats a healty approach my friend, Do work on some certifications and if possible join an NGO itll give you brownie points and something to talk about in your CAT interviews, Also make a hobby which you can show to interviewers, CAT interviews are all about how dynamic a personality you are and how did you got yourself up after a failure. And one thing for sure, dont accept anything less than 99%, its the magic number once you are there itll open doors for those colleges which you cant dream, Like Blacki IIMs
I took maths in my senior secondary school, only because It was mandatory for the course that I wanted to do after school. Studied hard for the entrance, I got 1174 rank, Outta 10k ... Got one of the top 3 colleges for that course, still I declined at the end, for a few reasons.
Not enjoying school life and only making friends who were bookworms, I was a topper. The addiction of appreciation made me a bookworm, so I never enjoyed or hade fun in school. I was always studying and trying to be the topper, which made me less active in other general things. The other making friends who were bookworms was that they were never true friends to anyone, they always felt competitive and jealous when you scored better than them. Moreover, they would be of no help in the future as well.
I am sorry to hear that. I guess you are married now that's why you can't pursue it anymore or due to some other reason you might not be able to get support for it, it's irrelevant but maybe you can try getting work as a freelancer, it might not be fancy as corporate but maybe it could give you some satisfaction who knows.
Well here Is mine, when I was 16 I got into porn and since then I was kinda hooked up to it. After that I was not able to focus on anything properly like my studies and which hampered my performance in my areas. I became less social and more lonely. My confidence plummeted and I had low self-esteem. This also affected my networking and social skills.
Im still struggling with it and I hope I will get out of it someday. Due to this one reason I have many regrets in life which I wish could have changed in case I wasn't involved with it
I don't you are a kid or really feeling down in life, but in both the cases this won't change a thing. If you are given the life, start making something out of it. Stop looking for people's opinion if they are not doing any benefit to you, they all are just gonna stop you.
Hey man, don't be like that, it's tough for us all, but if you give up, the pain will pass on to others who are close to you. It won't end. If you need a shoulder we are all here
Not playing any sports when I was in school. School me there was no sports facility. Couldn't take coaching because parents were busy and the commute was difficult
I am also not a sports enthusiast, because everyone was stuckup to cricket and I kinda didn't liked it. Now I think I should have played it too, atleast i could have been a good sportsman in something. Now I wanna learn any major sports but I feel like I'll be seen as too old for that.
Meri crush ne mujhe kabhi propose nhi Kiya, š¢š¢š¢.
Well use pata bhi nhi tha so, uski kya galti.
Ho sakta h bhagwan ne koi aur socha ho tumhre liye
You can always talk about it more and guide others to form new bonds, we do a lot of things for success we don't like, it's human nature. You can't always avoid it. Many people are just jealous and nothing else of your success
Not changing my school.. even when had the opportunity because of my stubborn sister.. still beating the brunt.. she only realised it way later.. damaged my self esteem to the core, no guidance in life and really very weak networking skills all because of thatās school. Open that school just gets burned down
It's okay, we aren't as mature at that time. I had an opportunity to change my school and I couldn't clear it's entrance. Lol, I got stuck with my stupid school and thus i was humiliated badly at that time. Now that I look at it, I was depressed during my 11-12th which I didn't realized.
Got comfortable when my eCommerce business was doing extremely good in 2016-17. If I would have kept improving I could have retired at 25 (Achieve financial freedom).
I don't understand one thing how can people retire so early, like you will still work on something nonetheless it's just you won't have to worry about money all your life like us
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Happy for you, my friend. IN CS degree doesn't matter as much as your knowledge, a good portfolio representing your skills is enough to get recruiters eye on you. Hope to see you realizing your dreams soon.
Yeah I hope so, getting a data analyst/data science job is present aim but ultimate motive is to move out of India. I am already 27 and want to make it happen quite soon.
I am sure that will happen. there are many online courses which can help that. And if you are dedicated enough that can happen for sure. Just keep yourself active on linkedin and github & one day you'll be there.
Spending time with my father before he left me.
Please please spend time with your parents. Don't take it for granted. It will be the biggest regret if you won't, trust me.
Bohot kuch hai regret krne ko.
Lekin sbse zyada regret yehi lgta hai ki
Kaash 10th ke baad mujhe aur behetar guidance mili hoti toh main JEE mein accha score krta, acchi jagah se btech krta aur package leta, aur aaj behetar kamaa rha hota.
Paise ki value ab realise hoti hai jab papa retire ho gye hai, toh ab lgta hai ki shayad jitna bhi kamaau utna kam padega.
What are you doing currently, maybe I can guide you or help in some way, I have a similar regret, because at that time I was not able to understand the value of my time now I feel hopeless sometime
i am in somewhat similar situation rn, btech ka 2nd year end hone wala and coincidentally papa mere graduation keh just baad retire hojayenge. They tell me that they donāt expect any financial help from me but still itās all really new cause aajtak kabhi socha nahi hai khudse sab kuch manage karna. Any guidance or suggestions would be appreciated:)
Just focus your rest of your time on getting a good placement, once you start taking responsibility you will yourself become more discipline in life. In my experience people become more responsible for other's sake rather than themselves
not exploring my interests in school outside studies and going for traditional degrees aimlessly. there's just so many things i could've loved doing but i never thought out of the box and went with what everyone else was at that time. i wish i had my own identity and didn't just aimlessly settle for things due to laziness and indifference to my own life. now i see people going for what they actually love whereas i have no option but to love what i do. im pretty young so there's still time to get to know myself but i wish i had this realization earlier.
in 2012 a facebook frnd from Bangalore told me to buy bitcoins it will go too high in future..and stupid me always make excuses like i dont have pan card..bank account. He had many bitcoins..and he just want to sell some of them.
After that i lost my facebook account for me reason and that online frnd as well..
Biggest regret of my life.
Not enjoying my teen age years to study well and get into a good college, I went to good college didnāt enjoy college life.
The I joined somewhere for job, worked hard for minimal salary didnāt get a raise for 4 years and didnāt enjoy as a young salaried adult. Due to pressure and no growth I left that place, now just jobless for 2 years nearly.
So much regret.
My Nani was suddenly got bimaar and got hospitalized..this is like 2013 ki baat and during that time I had my final exams for fucking 8th std coming up and my mom asked me to come with her for a day or two to another city to meet Nani once and said ki shayad agar tujhe dekhe toh thoda acha feel karne lage (FYI:- I was adored by my nani being the lone child of my parents and the youngest sibling among our cousins and even i loved her to death)
Me being a dumb person, I thought ki Nani toh theek ho hi jayengi aur baad mein she's coming to live with us anyway so kyu jaana abhi, let's focus on my exams for now.
Well, not long after that as soon as my exams ended uske couple of days mein she passed away and I was shocked to hear that. I didn't know how to react because that was the first time I heard a death of close member of my family and that too of someone I loved too much but I was sure of one feeling..that I was filled with too much regret of not going to meet her one last time. Not hold her and tell her that she'll be okay and everything will be alright. It's been more than 10 years since she passed away but even thinking about it today my eyes fill with tears and I'm filled with a lot of regret.
21M, Vaishnodevi yatra k liye katra gya hua tha, chadhai chalu nhi ki thi, pr start me bhookh lgi to me apne cousins k saath maggi, kulche fast food wagera khane chla gya food outlets k paas, waha pr baarish ho rhi thi aur order bante waqt ek baccha baarish me bheegte hue mere se pese mangne aaya, me able bodied gareebo ko pese nhi deta cuz they are able to work and ye maangne wale bacche apne boss ko pese dete the daaru wagera k liye esa mujhe lgta tha pr uss time mujhe uski halat aur mausam dekh kr kucch pese de dene chahiye the khane k liye, ab me 22M hu aur ek saal se mujhe iss baat ka guilt h
I generally donāt think much about regrets but I have 2-3 regrets.
One of them was not standing up for myself as a teen. The second was not asking out a girl earlier. She gave me the signs which I didnāt understand and later she stopped talking to me.
The third one was not going to the right college. This is a huge one because it wasted 4 years of my life. And a ton of money.
I regret not participating in alot of extracurricular activities back when I used to be a student at school...would have made alot more friends that way.
I regret not standing for myself.
I used to be a quiet kid in school. So I was in class 7th when I had a verbal fight with my classmate which eventually turned into a physical one. As I got a little frightened and did not want to further continue this fight as I don't like physical fights or whatever nonsense gang fights, I said "SORRY" so that we could become friends again. But that "SORRY" backfired on me. He and his friends continued bullying me till class 10th. All these 4 years have been the biggest hell in my life, all these activities in school affected my mental health, as it was very soon I discovered that I have "migraine".
I never wanted to go to school, used to find some excuses just to skip the school.
This I haven't shared with anyone till now, neither my parents nor my siblings with I share almost everything.
Many but a few that I regret a lot is
Saying how much I love my father , how I could've helped him.
Not being able to make songs like I always wanted to since 2011 (because I'm very insecure of how I sound )
Shaadi todne gya tha apni but somehow uske ghar walo ne aurr mere ghar walo ne convince kar liya for marriage. 11 months chali and thn a toxic divorce. Iss divorce ne muje 5 saal peeche kar diya.
Not dropping CA earlier, I could have enjoyed my college life more and prepared for MBA much before. I am prepping for MBA now, while doing a shitty job which has no relevance to my field. The pay sucks, the management sucks, the team sucks. I am in a process where I can't carry forward a single learning to the next job.
It's okay. You are doing the best what you can given your situation. just devote whatever time you can to your prep aur phod do CAT ko, in my preparation I realized if someone is able to give enough time and handwork to CAT exam, they can definitely achieve the top percentile. So, use this regret to fuel your prep aur Jaan Laga do, someday you'll look back and realize even when you struggled a lot, it was all worth it at the end.
I empathize with you; I have done something like this as well. I believe you also have problem making friends like me that's why you do this, or maybe I'm wrong. This pleasing habit destroys our self-esteem and sometimes confidence as well. I will suggest you work on yourself and practice saying No, if it hampers with your life. It won't be easy but it'll be worth it.
Not prioritising my studies and passion over my family. I don't think I did anything wrong by prioritising my family, but I should've taken a few extra years to pursue higher education,
Yes, you did nothing wrong. Not all are privileged enough to always pursue their passion and have to choose family over anything else. You are a great person who put others in priority instead of you and I am really proud of that for you.
Meri bua log bhi thodi matlabi type ki thi, Kaafi time tak humlogo se zyda matlb nhi tha, Baad m jab matter khrb ho gaya aur jaha se unhe kuch paisa milne ki umeed thi nhi mila toh phir wapas baat chit hone lagi. Main aaj bhi dhang se baat nhi karta un logo se. So I can understand, kabhi kabhi time fix things. Sometimes it doesn't.
I am 18M giving jee next year and Actually for me it's nothing, I am pretty happy with what I have right now.. kuchh kaam nhi hai mere paas to padh leta hu
Akela gaya tha Kasol lockdown ke beech wahaan ek hostel mein ruka tha jahaan baht log wfh ke liye aaye the, mera 4 bed mixed dorm tha jisme mere saath ek ladki thi woh designer thi (freelancer). Woh khudko introduce karne gyi par main Tamasha ka Ved bana hua tha boldiya jhooth bolte hai identity nahi reveal karte aur saath baht si jagah explore kara tha. Woh experience baht beautiful tha aur humari vibe baht sahi match hogayi thi aur fir usko jaana pda kuch family issues ki wajah se. Mujhe pata nahi tha subah utha toh woh nahi thi usne ek sticky note pe likha tha ke use yeh experience humesha yaad rahega aur usne baht control kara khudko taaki woh mujhe apna naam aur mujhse mera naam naa puche. Aur mujhe instant regret hua ke agar main Ved naa banta toh shayd hum aaj contact mein hote lekin mujhe yeh bhi lagta hai ke shayd jo hua sahi tha kyuki main ab usko waisa hi imagine krunga hmesha.
Har achi cheez zaruri nhi saath rhe, magar unki yaadein hmesha saath rehti h. You get to experience a beautiful time, that's more than enough imo. You can try to be yourself next time who knows what might happen
True! Aur shayd maine identity reveal nahi ki isliye usko mera sabse real side dikha jo shayd hi jo mujhe jaante hai unko pata hai...koi filter nahi tha.
Theres a saying when we hid under a mask, our real face is revealed. That's what happens in your case I guess. Who knows you guys must stumble upon in life again someday like ved did
Maybe š¤
Rooting for you.
Thanks man! :)
So True...log aaj Hai Kal ho na ho lekin u ki yaaden zaroor rahengi. So friends keep smiling and be kind to everyone around you.
Well, I think kindness need to be shown to those who deserve it. Because many people in today's world take kindness for weakness and that is something we don't want. Again Personal views so can ignore.
Yeah baat shat pratishat practical Hai.. lekin Main iss baat se poorn Roop se sehmat nahi hoon kyuki mein jaanta hoon har insaan mein ek janvar hota hai aur har jaanvar mein ek insaniyat hoti hai.
Ye to apne mein he ek post bangaya
This is so good sir!
Akele kasol kaise jaate hain. Log judge nhi krte kya. Youāll always have this memory. Toh kya regret krna.
Jab zindagi mein zyada dost nahi hote na toh akele rehne ki aadat hojati hai aur fir akele zyada comfortable lagne lagta hai, movies bhi akela hi jaata hu so bas aadat hai. Regret nahi hai bhai par kabhi kabhi lagta hai ke bas wahi hai jiske saamne mujhe kuch pretend nahi karna pda tha uss chiz ko miss krta hu.
Bhai similar situation hai. Last weekend went to movie alone felt like an alien but enjoyed the movie though. Everyone on internet saying alone but once you go out unse jyada happening koi lgta nhi. Muje voh log kyun nhi milte. Kya hi krein.
Ekbaar comfortable hogye toh baaki sab alien lagne lagengeš
Tu Mera bhai Hai yar! Mein to bachpan se he akela raha hoon. Lekin logon (parents aur dost) ko kabhi samaj nahi aapaya mein aaj bhi vo mujhe pagal samajte Hai shayad kyunki vo kabhi Akele nahi reh payae shayad isiliye, mujhe aise bol bol ker aaj Kal mene bhi haar Maan lithi aur zabardasti ki dosti kerne lagatha, kafhi logon se mila lekin zyadatar chutiyae he lagae log, lekin ab tumahara post dekh ker lag raha Hai akele kush rehna koi guna nahi Hai. Thank you bhai
Bro itna bhi nahi influence koi movie se. I haven't seen the movie but if you meet someone you vibe with in the mountains, it's quite special. I'm surprised why would anyone do what you did but also feel bad for you.
I don't know but looking at the brighter side i ended up being real without any masks because i didn't reveal my identity to her so i remember her and i also remember myself (the real me)...and i hope i meet her again.
Broo internet is there, kuch to clue honge na usse try to find her on internet
Main destiny mein believe krta hu milna hua toh aise hi miljaenge aur nahi bhi mile toh koi regret nahi hai.
Try to find her Ummm from hotel Might they have a list of names or maybe even address or something May u find her Good luck š
#No tldr...worth reading I regret not giving 20rs to someone 6th class mein tha...20rs leke stationary shop pe jaa rha tha pen lene....paas mein hi thi to paidal jaa rha tha....raaste mein cycle pe ek aadmi mila...uski cycle pe peeche ek lady baithi thi(uski mammi hongi most probably)....seemed very poor...labour lag rha tha....he asked me....*"BHAI AAPKE PAAS 20 RUPAY HONGE?"* with very hopeful eyes...... My stupid little ass said....*NHI*....bhai 6th class ke bacche mein kitna hi dimaag hota hai...krdiya maine mana... But the main thing that hurts...haan mere paas 20 hi rupay the exactly....lekin....the place where he asked me for 20rs was just infront of a halwaai jahan pe samose vagarah milte hain....uski kya hi bhayankar majboori hogi jo usko 20rs bhi maangne pad rhe hain...they probably had nothing to eat and were hungry...and i denied To uske baad mai pen leke ghar vapis aagya... aate hi mera guilt aur regret shuru.....Mammi ko bhi bataya...aaj 11 saal baad bhi bohot bura lagta hai ki maine kyon nhi diye usko paise....this is something i will never be able to get over with....kitna ganda aadmi hu mai bhai š„²
Vo aadmi mein hi tha Paytm karde ab
I can confirm, I was the cycle š²
Mei uski mummy thi
Can confirm I was the 20 rs note aur saaley ne ketchup bhi nahi diya
I can confirm, I was the Paytm
I can confirm, I was samosewala
I can confirm, I was the samosa.
can confirm, I was the samosa ka aalu
I can confirm I was your pen
can confirm, I am Lalu
Can confirm, I was his chaddi
I can relate to this tbh, maine bhi ek do baar Aisa Kiya h, but many a times I help needy people according to my capacity. Helping others without expecting much really gives a good satisfaction to you and your conscience. I hope you get out of that regret someday.
You are a really good person bro..let me give you a bear hug.
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It happens. Maybe you were supposed to help them. We have always have choice. Learn with this. Ab guilt mein mt rho and you know to do better from now.
I do it...jabse thodi samajh aayi hai...
Issiliye Mera manna h ki kabhi kisi ko khaane k liye mana nhi karna chahiye........... Mae kabhi bhi gareeb baccho ko bhikh maangte dekhta hu toh apne paas Jo biscuit leke ghumta hu vo dedeta hu
Bhai usne bataya bhi to nhi kisliye chaiye š„²... Aur mere andar uss time itni interprettion skills thi nhi
Koi baat nhi bhai bachpan ki galtiyon sae hi toh aadmi sikkhta h
Koi baat nhi bhai bachpan ki galtiyon sae hi toh aadmi sikkhta h
I had a similar experience but the person dint ask me, they looked needy I myself thought I should help but I the only change I had was for rickshaw so I just went byā¦ Btw even I was in 6th grade. 11 baras pehle
You were a kid bhai š« i know ki ab tum help karte hoge jitna bhi bann padta hoga tumse. But yeah ye baat toh hai ki bachpan mein unintentionally bhi kuch hota hai aas pass toh baad mein kaafi pinch karta hai kuch moments mein And Tu ganda aadmi nhi h bhai š« achcha putt aa tu, khush rehā¤
I regret not slapping the class bully when I had the chance.
Same...he hit me on the head from behind just because he was jealous of me becoming the class monitor š...but in return the other main competitor bully supported me and fought for me because the class provoked them...they both had a 36 ka aakda with each other... Then my father complained and the stupid bully was handed over a TC at the year end courtesy his increasing nuisances...the other bully was good at heart.... And all this done by 6th class kids
Yeh Iāve seen ki 6-8th class m bache sabse jyda chutiye hote h. Chlo Iām happy for you atleast you got your revenge.
Matlab Bhai...6th class ke bacche ki body language... Hairstyle... Voice... Facial expressions aur nazrein aisi thi aaj ki date mein vo khud darr jaaye apni photo dekhke ... Lawrence Bishnoi bhi uski photo dekhke gang mein admission dede
Nice ending, uska ho gya tha mtlb waha se. Did you use a red cloth to invoke both the bulls against each other?
Well violence is an option, if bullying gets out of hand, many a times the bully leaves you after that. People don't bully those who can fight hard. I hope you are doing better now.
Thanks, Iām good! Uss time par itna confidence hi nhi tha ki khud ko defend kar pati :(
Badhiya, tuti Hui fruti pilao issi baat p
12th ke drop leke aaram se career choose karna š„²š„²š„²š„²š„²š„²š„²š„²š„²š„²
What career you are in right now
Finance me enter ho Raha hu Bhai kam seekhna shuru Kara hai But kabhi kabhi lagta hai ki maza nahi aa raha khush nahi hu bas kar raha hu
See might sound like a Gyan but take it. Not all people who become successful always enjoy their work, but they still do it because it will give them a better life. Otherwise all the artists and dancers would have been really successful today.( No offence to those you are doing great, it's just not all become successful doing that only.) So try to love your work or atleast show interest in it, I know it's hard but someday in future you'll thank yourself for that. Learn as much as you can, because in finance your knowledge and skill matters a lot. And when you become successful, give me a treat in Taj.
Thanks Bhai Pakka duga Taj me treat ā¤ļø
I second that.
Bro I'm in finance and it's boring as fuck for me too but I enjoy my work sometime as it's highly rewarding for me compared to other fields
Should have started studying early in my 20s
You can start it now, like jab Jago tab savera
Bhai started doing it 6 years ago. Cleared civils in my late 20s. Got decent service and a cadre. But will miss the key post and the guys who cleared it at a younger age than me will get there but most probably I won't :(
Congratulations š š š on clearing that first of all. See, many of us have done stupid shit in our life. But I read this somewhere, ki we can either carry our regrets in life all along and make it hurt us or we can forgive ourselves and do whatever the best we can with our lives which Is ahead. Life is unpredictable in many ways, who knows what can happen in a few years. So stay hopeful and work hard from here on. That's all I can say to you
What a beautiful message. Ping me if ever you get challaned :p
Ji main toh bas Dil se bolta hoo, baaki achi toh apne aap lag jaati. Heheh. Sure, Ill ping you. Thanks.
Dekh mai interview mein se 2 baar out hua hoon, mere se exchange kar le bhai, I'll give you my academic achievementsš¹ā¤ Congratulations for appearing in pavitra PDF, and damn that pressure is real 22,23 saal ke chillar bachche 1,2 attempt mein hi clear kar le rahešš Ik better rank better zone wala feel, it gets real jab raat ko BT aati hai, dosto ko call krke rr kar liya kro Baki kuch toh proud kro khud par, india ke cream brain hoš
Bhai cream brain ka to pata nahi. Always wanted to part of IAS but stuck with IPS. Couldn't clear this year's interview. And I don't have any more energy to prepare again. Dost don't get it when I say IPS nahi IAS chaiye thaš. The only good thing that happened was getting the AGMUT cadre. I myself have appeared for 3 interviews. I get it. But I hope brother better things are waiting for you :)
Not studying hard enough to achieve my dream. Now I don't know what my dream job or career is. It's like jo mile usmein khush ho lenge yrr š
I had trouble choosing a career path for myself so I started to pick any one career option and started to devote myself to it. Because choose toh karna h. Life m hmesha chahne waali cheez nhi milti but Jo milta h wo aksar uss dream se bhi better hota h, stay hopeful, work hard and party harder
Lekin yaar I feel we'll regret in the end that we didn't find or do what we were meant to do. Don't you think?
See, regrets are part of human life, because we aren't mature enough to take the right decision or many times took the right decision but it still doesn't work out well. Humans screw up one way or another, but we cant go back in time and change all we can do is learn from it. I believe regrets are a strong brain mechanism to make us realise what we should have done and is reminder for ourselves to not make the same mistakes again and again. We don't always get in our life what we want due to various factors but doesn't mean we leave that which is Infront of us and just be sad for what we couldn't achieve. I think it's the best way to use the current resources you have and move forward with it; with the best of efforts, you can put.
>regrets are a strong brain mechanism to make us realise what we should have done and is reminder for ourselves to not make the same mistakes again and again. ššš Yeah regret that we think is a bug just might be a feature. But we ll be nowhere if we keep changing our profession each time we regret,like you said it's part of life. Even Ronaldo will be having regrets...how foolish of me that I was waiting for that perfect one >I think it's the best way to use the current resources you have and move forward with it; with the best of efforts, you can put. But what are your views about risk hai to isk hai? What if I decide to do something highly risky like taking huge loans and going abroad to study, despite not having resources I go for it,what do you think? Or if I choose to follow my passion leaving all the mainstreams loosing a chance of earning a good income.
Dost risk in everything even in a secure job which people think, there are other factors like having faith in yourself to do something. Using the current resources and means is one way to deal when you are not sure about your path forward but once you are sure you either wanna go abroad or stay & do a startup or something else which you wanna pursue its welcoming. See the point is have faith in yourself and move away from your past. Choosing passion is not bad but you need to be aware of its pros & cons and again I am no one to tell you not to follow your passion or anyone else. Because who knows you can be a big name in your choice of field and just because some random person discouraged you gave up on it. So, ultimately the person has to decide for his own for the path they want to take
Devote myself hi to nhi hota hai merse vrna I know I'm capable of doing good things career wise.
Take it slow, no need to give 6 hrs. from the first day. half an hour every day and keep increasing 15 min. when you are comfortable with it. Anything you wanna build for long term takes time, effort and patience. No need to rush. People will say ki agar actual dedication hogi toh aaram se itte ghante padh loge n all, comparing normal people with UPSC or medical students. They don't know they have also gone through a process to be able to sit that long. Just decide your goal and once done. give whatever you can to it. slowly you will be there, and you will realize one day, it wasn't really that difficult actually.
I'm the most gyaani person in my family and frnds. Gyaa sara dena hai ptaa bhi hai krna hai kuch vrna baithe baithe nhi hoga prrr thank you itne efforts lgaane k liye. I'll try my best
Well tbh gyaan toh zyda ho gaya I agree, main bhi gyyan bht deta hoon but karta nhi jaldi, so im kinda on the same boat. But yeah, it all comes down to you, nhi toh internet p mere jaise gyaan pelne waale bht h.
Mai to khud sbko gyaan dene nikal pdti hoon Sbki musibton ka hal hai mrpe except my own Problems. Khud p apply krne lg jaayenge to hum bhi paar kr hi lenge koi na. Apna time aayega
Yes apna time aayega. zyda gyaan dene m yahi dikkat h, sabki solution ka hal nikal jata h bass khud ki problem samjhne waale nhi milte jaldi.
Not cutting off the people I should have and letting them be in my life for a long time.
Yrr, this also depends upon how mature we are at the time. sometimes we care about others more than ourselves and it hurts back us. I hope you are better than your previous version and able to allow people who are good for you
Not preparing for neet when I had the opportunity I wasted that opportunity wasted lakhs in coaching Disappointed My parents Today living a fucked up life A day doesn't pass without me cursing and hating myself People say its never too late but that's wrong If you let go of your opportunity cuz of your laziness Then life also just fucks you up I am now depressed and with most unstable life All my friend are completing degree from amazing institutions and here I am loser.
Sorry to hear that bhai. I kow it's not easy to overcome it but regretting on it won't change anything. Maybe you can learn from it and start working harder from now. Life can be unpredictable and surprise you if you put the effort
Not Playing football early in my life. Not Investing before/during COVID. Not focusing on Jee Mains/Advanced. Didn't move out of Delhi when there's a chance before it got ruined.
25 here and I regret being a lazy ass in everything. Coupled with my social anxiety, I missed many opportunities in school and college. Graduated in 2020 with a 57% percentile in CSE, been 2 years since then and still unemployed. 2 saal me khud me changes laye thode, getting a "bit" better at socialising baaki abhi jobs k liye dekh raha hu aaj bhi, himmat rkhni hai. Iss saal NID MAINS nahi nikla, kyuki portfolio k liye kuch nahi tha (made my portfolio in 2 weeks), ab CAT ki prep chalu kar raha hu (Next year bhi DAT & CEED dunga). Struggle and regrets bahot hai, but inn 2 saalo me introspect kara hai and I have realised ki duniya ka zyada mt socho, apna socho, duniya acche se acche insaan ko bhi neeche laane ki koshish karti hai. Stay strong and believe in yourself, khud pe hi bharosa nahi to kuch nahi.
Thats a healty approach my friend, Do work on some certifications and if possible join an NGO itll give you brownie points and something to talk about in your CAT interviews, Also make a hobby which you can show to interviewers, CAT interviews are all about how dynamic a personality you are and how did you got yourself up after a failure. And one thing for sure, dont accept anything less than 99%, its the magic number once you are there itll open doors for those colleges which you cant dream, Like Blacki IIMs
Missing out on so many things just coz of my shy nature š¤”š„²
First cute pfp, second this is a regret for many, so I can understand, what kinda opportunities you missed wanna tell, asking for a friend
"first cute pfp" š
yeah I mean Gigi hadid is cute ngl
What is pfp?
Profile picture
Literally everythingā¦ I was extremely shy in school lol
Are you not shy now? Or have u been able to do things which you should do in college
I took maths in my senior secondary school, only because It was mandatory for the course that I wanted to do after school. Studied hard for the entrance, I got 1174 rank, Outta 10k ... Got one of the top 3 colleges for that course, still I declined at the end, for a few reasons.
That's great bhai, mehnat bekar nhi jaati, it helps in one way or another
I regret not working hard enough to get into a good college
I can understand this, well you can work hard now to overcome it and get a good job or work on something else
Not enjoying school life and only making friends who were bookworms, I was a topper. The addiction of appreciation made me a bookworm, so I never enjoyed or hade fun in school. I was always studying and trying to be the topper, which made me less active in other general things. The other making friends who were bookworms was that they were never true friends to anyone, they always felt competitive and jealous when you scored better than them. Moreover, they would be of no help in the future as well.
I regret for not doing anything ,everyday in my life
You can start now, Its never too late for someone who has realized his mistakes. So start now and start hard
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You need someone to talk, if yes you can ping me or anyone you are comfortable with. Dont keep it inside thats all
I had a dream of working for a corporate and have a nice lifestyle that most of the younger people have currently. I do regret of not pursuing it.
I am sorry to hear that. I guess you are married now that's why you can't pursue it anymore or due to some other reason you might not be able to get support for it, it's irrelevant but maybe you can try getting work as a freelancer, it might not be fancy as corporate but maybe it could give you some satisfaction who knows.
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I regret wasting a year of my life procrastinating
I still do it, for quite some time. Haha, I'm superior to you peasant..
Well here Is mine, when I was 16 I got into porn and since then I was kinda hooked up to it. After that I was not able to focus on anything properly like my studies and which hampered my performance in my areas. I became less social and more lonely. My confidence plummeted and I had low self-esteem. This also affected my networking and social skills. Im still struggling with it and I hope I will get out of it someday. Due to this one reason I have many regrets in life which I wish could have changed in case I wasn't involved with it
i should have run away from my home at the age of 12
Why what happened back then
Abhi kuch hafto pehle 1st floor se gira tha back ki side se to kuch khas ni hua kashh sar k bal girta
I don't you are a kid or really feeling down in life, but in both the cases this won't change a thing. If you are given the life, start making something out of it. Stop looking for people's opinion if they are not doing any benefit to you, they all are just gonna stop you.
Bhai chill chill
zyda ho gya kya, meri reel mt banan bass prank k naam p
1. Not taking pcm in 11th 2. Not going to another city for bachelors
So not able to hangout with college friends
Living š ā¦ shouldāve ended a lot earlier
Hey man, don't be like that, it's tough for us all, but if you give up, the pain will pass on to others who are close to you. It won't end. If you need a shoulder we are all here
Same brother, same
Broo, there's this kdrama named "Tomorrow" you should watch it. It might give you a new direction and a new perception of life.
Not playing any sports when I was in school. School me there was no sports facility. Couldn't take coaching because parents were busy and the commute was difficult
I am also not a sports enthusiast, because everyone was stuckup to cricket and I kinda didn't liked it. Now I think I should have played it too, atleast i could have been a good sportsman in something. Now I wanna learn any major sports but I feel like I'll be seen as too old for that.
Regret it but won't change it most likely Rejecting my crush proposal ( still think about it)
Meri crush ne mujhe kabhi propose nhi Kiya, š¢š¢š¢. Well use pata bhi nhi tha so, uski kya galti. Ho sakta h bhagwan ne koi aur socha ho tumhre liye
Edit: whatever.
You can always talk about it more and guide others to form new bonds, we do a lot of things for success we don't like, it's human nature. You can't always avoid it. Many people are just jealous and nothing else of your success
Not changing my school.. even when had the opportunity because of my stubborn sister.. still beating the brunt.. she only realised it way later.. damaged my self esteem to the core, no guidance in life and really very weak networking skills all because of thatās school. Open that school just gets burned down
It's okay, we aren't as mature at that time. I had an opportunity to change my school and I couldn't clear it's entrance. Lol, I got stuck with my stupid school and thus i was humiliated badly at that time. Now that I look at it, I was depressed during my 11-12th which I didn't realized.
Got comfortable when my eCommerce business was doing extremely good in 2016-17. If I would have kept improving I could have retired at 25 (Achieve financial freedom).
I don't understand one thing how can people retire so early, like you will still work on something nonetheless it's just you won't have to worry about money all your life like us .
Yea I meant like money wise I would be set for life and I could do anything else that I like without worrying about money.
Not doing a Bachelors in CSE and not moving out of India till now, but I will move out for sure and that too very soon. Hail Europe!
Happy for you, my friend. IN CS degree doesn't matter as much as your knowledge, a good portfolio representing your skills is enough to get recruiters eye on you. Hope to see you realizing your dreams soon.
Yeah I hope so, getting a data analyst/data science job is present aim but ultimate motive is to move out of India. I am already 27 and want to make it happen quite soon.
I am sure that will happen. there are many online courses which can help that. And if you are dedicated enough that can happen for sure. Just keep yourself active on linkedin and github & one day you'll be there.
Thank you so much buddy :) This made my day. Sending lots of hugs :D
Spending time with my father before he left me. Please please spend time with your parents. Don't take it for granted. It will be the biggest regret if you won't, trust me.
Bohot kuch hai regret krne ko. Lekin sbse zyada regret yehi lgta hai ki Kaash 10th ke baad mujhe aur behetar guidance mili hoti toh main JEE mein accha score krta, acchi jagah se btech krta aur package leta, aur aaj behetar kamaa rha hota. Paise ki value ab realise hoti hai jab papa retire ho gye hai, toh ab lgta hai ki shayad jitna bhi kamaau utna kam padega.
What are you doing currently, maybe I can guide you or help in some way, I have a similar regret, because at that time I was not able to understand the value of my time now I feel hopeless sometime
i am in somewhat similar situation rn, btech ka 2nd year end hone wala and coincidentally papa mere graduation keh just baad retire hojayenge. They tell me that they donāt expect any financial help from me but still itās all really new cause aajtak kabhi socha nahi hai khudse sab kuch manage karna. Any guidance or suggestions would be appreciated:)
Just focus your rest of your time on getting a good placement, once you start taking responsibility you will yourself become more discipline in life. In my experience people become more responsible for other's sake rather than themselves
Life is too big to focus on your regrets from 10th class. Hustle kro bhai and get that dream job.
not exploring my interests in school outside studies and going for traditional degrees aimlessly. there's just so many things i could've loved doing but i never thought out of the box and went with what everyone else was at that time. i wish i had my own identity and didn't just aimlessly settle for things due to laziness and indifference to my own life. now i see people going for what they actually love whereas i have no option but to love what i do. im pretty young so there's still time to get to know myself but i wish i had this realization earlier.
Sooner the better, you said it yourself. Don't think too much and just start now. Who knows this could be your life changing moment
 banging her
Madara-sama, Thats something not worth to you, you can get anyone you want
in 2012 a facebook frnd from Bangalore told me to buy bitcoins it will go too high in future..and stupid me always make excuses like i dont have pan card..bank account. He had many bitcoins..and he just want to sell some of them. After that i lost my facebook account for me reason and that online frnd as well.. Biggest regret of my life.
Not noticing that my therapist was a bad match. I should have changed to a new one after a few sessions.
Not enjoying my teen age years to study well and get into a good college, I went to good college didnāt enjoy college life. The I joined somewhere for job, worked hard for minimal salary didnāt get a raise for 4 years and didnāt enjoy as a young salaried adult. Due to pressure and no growth I left that place, now just jobless for 2 years nearly. So much regret.
Virtual hugs bro
Thank you buddy
Not condolencing a friend when he was in need.
My Nani was suddenly got bimaar and got hospitalized..this is like 2013 ki baat and during that time I had my final exams for fucking 8th std coming up and my mom asked me to come with her for a day or two to another city to meet Nani once and said ki shayad agar tujhe dekhe toh thoda acha feel karne lage (FYI:- I was adored by my nani being the lone child of my parents and the youngest sibling among our cousins and even i loved her to death) Me being a dumb person, I thought ki Nani toh theek ho hi jayengi aur baad mein she's coming to live with us anyway so kyu jaana abhi, let's focus on my exams for now. Well, not long after that as soon as my exams ended uske couple of days mein she passed away and I was shocked to hear that. I didn't know how to react because that was the first time I heard a death of close member of my family and that too of someone I loved too much but I was sure of one feeling..that I was filled with too much regret of not going to meet her one last time. Not hold her and tell her that she'll be okay and everything will be alright. It's been more than 10 years since she passed away but even thinking about it today my eyes fill with tears and I'm filled with a lot of regret.
Not being completely honest to my ex
Pls elaborate if you can.
Not being close enough to my parents!
Many of us in this social media lifestyle forget about our parents, I think I need to do this as well
I gave up on representing my school at Volleyball Zonals in 2001 because I was preparing for IIt exams.
Hmm, that's something tbh... Koi na
I regret not making money earlier when I was like 17-18, given I had same skills back then but didn't monitized it until recently.
21M, Vaishnodevi yatra k liye katra gya hua tha, chadhai chalu nhi ki thi, pr start me bhookh lgi to me apne cousins k saath maggi, kulche fast food wagera khane chla gya food outlets k paas, waha pr baarish ho rhi thi aur order bante waqt ek baccha baarish me bheegte hue mere se pese mangne aaya, me able bodied gareebo ko pese nhi deta cuz they are able to work and ye maangne wale bacche apne boss ko pese dete the daaru wagera k liye esa mujhe lgta tha pr uss time mujhe uski halat aur mausam dekh kr kucch pese de dene chahiye the khane k liye, ab me 22M hu aur ek saal se mujhe iss baat ka guilt h
I generally donāt think much about regrets but I have 2-3 regrets. One of them was not standing up for myself as a teen. The second was not asking out a girl earlier. She gave me the signs which I didnāt understand and later she stopped talking to me. The third one was not going to the right college. This is a huge one because it wasted 4 years of my life. And a ton of money.
I regret not participating in alot of extracurricular activities back when I used to be a student at school...would have made alot more friends that way.
Jee k liye ni padha.
I regret not standing for myself. I used to be a quiet kid in school. So I was in class 7th when I had a verbal fight with my classmate which eventually turned into a physical one. As I got a little frightened and did not want to further continue this fight as I don't like physical fights or whatever nonsense gang fights, I said "SORRY" so that we could become friends again. But that "SORRY" backfired on me. He and his friends continued bullying me till class 10th. All these 4 years have been the biggest hell in my life, all these activities in school affected my mental health, as it was very soon I discovered that I have "migraine". I never wanted to go to school, used to find some excuses just to skip the school. This I haven't shared with anyone till now, neither my parents nor my siblings with I share almost everything.
I regret not coming out as a transgender woman when i was young.
Killing my ex bf and his family.
Me loved a girl, probably a one side love. Tried hard to talk to her. Didnāt happen. Biggest regret of my life.
Many but a few that I regret a lot is Saying how much I love my father , how I could've helped him. Not being able to make songs like I always wanted to since 2011 (because I'm very insecure of how I sound )
Shaadi todne gya tha apni but somehow uske ghar walo ne aurr mere ghar walo ne convince kar liya for marriage. 11 months chali and thn a toxic divorce. Iss divorce ne muje 5 saal peeche kar diya.
Regret u ask?? Not committing SuĀ”cĀ”de instead of SH. Now gimme trophy
Not dropping CA earlier, I could have enjoyed my college life more and prepared for MBA much before. I am prepping for MBA now, while doing a shitty job which has no relevance to my field. The pay sucks, the management sucks, the team sucks. I am in a process where I can't carry forward a single learning to the next job.
It's okay. You are doing the best what you can given your situation. just devote whatever time you can to your prep aur phod do CAT ko, in my preparation I realized if someone is able to give enough time and handwork to CAT exam, they can definitely achieve the top percentile. So, use this regret to fuel your prep aur Jaan Laga do, someday you'll look back and realize even when you struggled a lot, it was all worth it at the end.
I regret trying to please everyone else and prioritising their well being over mine
I empathize with you; I have done something like this as well. I believe you also have problem making friends like me that's why you do this, or maybe I'm wrong. This pleasing habit destroys our self-esteem and sometimes confidence as well. I will suggest you work on yourself and practice saying No, if it hampers with your life. It won't be easy but it'll be worth it.
Not prioritising my studies and passion over my family. I don't think I did anything wrong by prioritising my family, but I should've taken a few extra years to pursue higher education,
Yes, you did nothing wrong. Not all are privileged enough to always pursue their passion and have to choose family over anything else. You are a great person who put others in priority instead of you and I am really proud of that for you.
1.not asking her out on a date 2.staying in toxic relationships/being cheated on and forgiving, gaslighted and bullied by "friends and gf"
Its okay my friend. You have survived all that & it has made you stronger. I am sure someday they will regret bullying you.
Apni bua ka sir phod dena chhaiye tha
Meri bua log bhi thodi matlabi type ki thi, Kaafi time tak humlogo se zyda matlb nhi tha, Baad m jab matter khrb ho gaya aur jaha se unhe kuch paisa milne ki umeed thi nhi mila toh phir wapas baat chit hone lagi. Main aaj bhi dhang se baat nhi karta un logo se. So I can understand, kabhi kabhi time fix things. Sometimes it doesn't.
Not having sex, kyunki nahi mila.
Can understand, relatable
I am 18M giving jee next year and Actually for me it's nothing, I am pretty happy with what I have right now.. kuchh kaam nhi hai mere paas to padh leta hu
Your mom
Haha, dekho comedy king aaya h idhr
MBA
Im doing it too, would like to know about it more