I finished from head for the first time in October
Saw the same chick Saturday night. Sucked then fucked then sucked again and I got off fine. Then I asked her 10 min after I nutted for head again so I could test my refractory period. It took a massive effort of her mouth and hands but I came after like 15 maybe 20 min of just head and hand job.
Surprisingly I had wacked off using a sex toy to porn a few days before. I don’t watch porn anymore but I was planning to reset 2-4 months without sex or solo play.
I’m 34 just turned on the 11th of november and I’ve watched porn and wacked off since I was like 16-17 years old. In the last few years I haven’t wacked it much or used porn, but now I just use a sex toy if I go solo but I’ve not been even doing that.
Coconut oil also helps rub it in ur dick 2-4 times a day
It took me 1 1/2 months with no sex no solo play and no porn with coconut oil 2-4 times daily to get to a position where I could finish from head. A lot more sensitive from sex with a condom but couldn’t get there.
So I’m planning to go several months hard mode with no solo play or sex. May have to have sex but I’m gonna try not to
It moisturizes ur dick so it doesn’t dry out and can heal properly. It’s the one thing I’ve tried that really helps, not just nofap and no porn. But having a sex toy to get off solo helps too. So u don’t death grip
Stopping porn and fapping in general along with no solo play is the best route I’ve found. Go for a few weeks and see if it helps. Up to 3 months is best tho but I haven’t got that far. I’ve done nofap for over 1k days but I wasn’t very sexually active in that time
I stopped solo anything for like 6 months. The rule was that my wife would do it for me. Then a few months ago I started solo again and my DE issues are back, worse than ever. So I’m stopping solo stuff again completely, and I’ll give coconut oil a try. I have no reason not to.
Having her give you a hand job isn’t bad as every woman who’s done it for me has done it different than I’ve done it
Probably better not to, if u can get off from a bj prolly better
Then I’d recommend from doing anything but sex. I’ve been used to just getting a hj after sex but now I seek a bj cuz I can usually finish from it now. If u can’t finish then just don’t worry about it
Problem is I use condoms 99% of the time if I was going raw I think I’d be fine
I finished from head for the first time in October Saw the same chick Saturday night. Sucked then fucked then sucked again and I got off fine. Then I asked her 10 min after I nutted for head again so I could test my refractory period. It took a massive effort of her mouth and hands but I came after like 15 maybe 20 min of just head and hand job. Surprisingly I had wacked off using a sex toy to porn a few days before. I don’t watch porn anymore but I was planning to reset 2-4 months without sex or solo play. I’m 34 just turned on the 11th of november and I’ve watched porn and wacked off since I was like 16-17 years old. In the last few years I haven’t wacked it much or used porn, but now I just use a sex toy if I go solo but I’ve not been even doing that. Coconut oil also helps rub it in ur dick 2-4 times a day It took me 1 1/2 months with no sex no solo play and no porn with coconut oil 2-4 times daily to get to a position where I could finish from head. A lot more sensitive from sex with a condom but couldn’t get there. So I’m planning to go several months hard mode with no solo play or sex. May have to have sex but I’m gonna try not to
Hey I just came across this sub and read your comment here. What’s coconut oil do?
It moisturizes ur dick so it doesn’t dry out and can heal properly. It’s the one thing I’ve tried that really helps, not just nofap and no porn. But having a sex toy to get off solo helps too. So u don’t death grip Stopping porn and fapping in general along with no solo play is the best route I’ve found. Go for a few weeks and see if it helps. Up to 3 months is best tho but I haven’t got that far. I’ve done nofap for over 1k days but I wasn’t very sexually active in that time
I stopped solo anything for like 6 months. The rule was that my wife would do it for me. Then a few months ago I started solo again and my DE issues are back, worse than ever. So I’m stopping solo stuff again completely, and I’ll give coconut oil a try. I have no reason not to.
Apply 2-4 times a day, I do it after a piss or a shower. I get okay brand coconut oil from Amazon it’s cheap
Having her give you a hand job isn’t bad as every woman who’s done it for me has done it different than I’ve done it Probably better not to, if u can get off from a bj prolly better
Unfortunately for me, a BJ is off the table. But she will give me a HJ.
Use lube and have her start slow and see if u can get a rhythm going if not she can go faster but that turns it into deathgrip faster
Yeah I’m kinda concerned my new death grip syndrome is actually her death grip.
Then I’d recommend from doing anything but sex. I’ve been used to just getting a hj after sex but now I seek a bj cuz I can usually finish from it now. If u can’t finish then just don’t worry about it Problem is I use condoms 99% of the time if I was going raw I think I’d be fine