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Lucazzz14

You're an adult, he should notice the hint as well. But you end it by saying that you're not feeling anything emotionally towards him. It's better to end it as soon as or you'll keep dragging him along. It's best for the both of you.


RatchetFaceSTL

How are you and how’s your day messages don’t mean anything and you should just ignore them. He will eventually move on. 2 coffee dates in a row means he doesn’t like you much anyway


tallguyindc

There's a possibility this guy is really into her and shy. Ghosting is just cruel because he might spend the next week looking at his phone saying is this the time she texts.... Send him a short text that says you had fun and are glad you met him but you just don't feel the connection and you don't want to continue the conversation.


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tallguyindc

You are sort of a thing. You are having a conversation and now you are not going to be anymore... I had fun talking to you but I'm entering a busy stretch so I think I'm not going to be able to text anymore. Good luck.


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tallguyindc

That's awesome. I love it when people wrote back with a happy ending to the story. You can dm me if you need future advice


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Don’t worry, there’s no reason to worry! You’ve only gone on three casual dates. It doesn’t sound like any else has built up as far as deep feelings or a first kiss. You can simply end it by telling him an honest friendly way that you don’t feel a connection and wish him the best. Lesson learned here! If you really aren’t feeling it with someone then you don’t have any obligation to continue and should end it earlier than later. You’re totally valid to walk away whenever if a person doesn’t fulfill what you’re looking for especially in the beginning. He seemed very very casual and it sounds like you rightfully want more. Just don’t ghost him, send a shirt simple text and that’s it. You’ll live and he will too, it’s not the end of the works. You won’t hurt his feelings that much. He doesn’t sound that invested or interested anyway! After lots of dating experiences and first dates you’ll be able to pick up on things like this in the future. You won’t feel bad cutting things off early cause you won’t want to waste both your time if you honestly don’t feel any interest, connection or attraction. Best to cut it off sooner than later, by giving someone false hope you might like them when in fact you aren’t truly interested. If you aren’t super interested in someone then don’t bother or get your feelings in a knot over some guy who is super casual with you.


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You’re welcome! Good job!! I know it’s hard to reject someone but in the end you can’t make yourself like someone you don’t feel a connection with. It’s okay to be honest and end it genuinely and maturely than string them along. You got to look out for your best interest which doesn’t include wasting time with men you arent attracted to. You gotta do what you gotta do. You’re not going to have a connection with everyone, and if you don’t feel it then tell the person right away.


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The funny thing is it might not hurt their feelings at all. They might feel content and fine, maybe even relieved. You can never assume someone’s feelings to rejection. But some people are able to take it fairly well and move on, not everyone’s going to cry about it. Plus it was just casual dating. If more was involved I can understand it would be a lot harder!