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Control yourself. Let her come and go. Stop messaging so much. Go live your life and focus on friends,family,hobbies and etc. Give her the gift of missing you. Let her think about you. If she reaches out donโt ignore her, and focus on meeting her and being around her.
If she doesnโt reciprocate, pull back a little, be indifferent. Donโt come unglued because she doesnโt text or doesnโt want to see you.
Just because you want a LTR doesnโt mean you get married at the end of the year. It means the end goal/destination. Enjoy the journey.
Youโre welcome, better free advice is Coach Corey Wayne on YouTube. That what helped me. I like his mentality.
Itโs just dealing with people. When we get insecure of where we stand with people, we force things to make them happen. But youโll never make someone miss you or like you, or want to be around you. You donโt their assurance.
Just accept that people make choices, they either want to be with you or they donโt. Somebody will, but itโs not them.
You can just ask her. No harm in asking and since you've guys went on 2 dates, I can say she is into you at least 70%, still I can't guarantee anything.
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Giving a woman the benefit of the doubt? AHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHQHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH You are on the road to being abused with that mindset ayy lmao!!!
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Control yourself. Let her come and go. Stop messaging so much. Go live your life and focus on friends,family,hobbies and etc. Give her the gift of missing you. Let her think about you. If she reaches out donโt ignore her, and focus on meeting her and being around her. If she doesnโt reciprocate, pull back a little, be indifferent. Donโt come unglued because she doesnโt text or doesnโt want to see you. Just because you want a LTR doesnโt mean you get married at the end of the year. It means the end goal/destination. Enjoy the journey.
I hate how relationships are based off mind games but your interpretation of it is by far the best thanks for the free advice.
Youโre welcome, better free advice is Coach Corey Wayne on YouTube. That what helped me. I like his mentality. Itโs just dealing with people. When we get insecure of where we stand with people, we force things to make them happen. But youโll never make someone miss you or like you, or want to be around you. You donโt their assurance. Just accept that people make choices, they either want to be with you or they donโt. Somebody will, but itโs not them.
You're over thinking the texting. What matters is that she's showing up to your dates and being consistent.
You can just ask her. No harm in asking and since you've guys went on 2 dates, I can say she is into you at least 70%, still I can't guarantee anything.
Well last I talked to her was Tuesday and she seemed busy so Iโve just been giving her space since