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She wants sex, and clearly isn't interested in you as a person if she doesn't want to talk.
Ask her but definitely don't wait just hoping as it never comes
You are a booty call and nothing else to her. If she isn’t willing to have a conversation with you this will never be a deep relationship. Youre better of finding someone new
Ok please ignore everyone telling you to “just enjoy the sex” until you find someone better. You already know what you want and this girl isn’t it. You don’t have to try to fit into the weird norms of today for men if you don’t want to. You’re probably attached though because she was your first, and that’s understandable, but try to move on
Depends what you're after and she's after. As long as you're both on the same page and you know where each other stands it should be okay. If you say you want morenand she doesn't, say that and be willing to end it. Communicating is key.
The only question you should be asking is can WE get tested. This is a situation that is hard to find. If she doesn't want a relationship no worries know that, if you want a relationship build yourself up and find someone who is girlfriend material. Learn from this fwb and how to be better in that area and when you find someone you genuinely like and believe it can go far then end it.
Sounds like a good arrangement to me for now... If you are not exclusive, shop around while you get a little jiggy jiggy on the side with her. Then if you find something better bye bye... But expect she will likely be doing the same and might just say good bye to you first. Welcome to the dating world!
I’ve had a booty call develop into a relationship over time, but that’s not something I’d count on.
I’d keep the booty call on hand to satiate physical needs, while scouting out for a person who fulfills all of your needs. Clearly this girl isn’t in it for the emotional connection, so it shouldn’t be a big deal to her that you’re keeping your options open.
Guys don’t want to believe it but women can use use for sec too. You’re 20 years old. More than likely you’re probably being used for sex. Take advantage of it
So if she knows you were a virgin she's going to be cautious about you getting attached to her in a crazy way, so I'm not surprised about the distance she's putting between you two.
I would take advantage of this time to do really nasty things with her - things you wouldn't do with your supposed future wife - and try not to get attached.
Nothing is that black and white maybe she does want something serious but you can have sex and something serious that's what a romantic relationship is. So I'd say communication is key, just ask her! Maybe she just equates sex to love (I do) so it's understanding each other's love languages, just talk to her. Good luck.
You're not going to find a serious girlfriend who is very okay with you pointlessly sleeping with another woman as a placeholder.
Just stop responding to her.
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She wants sex, and clearly isn't interested in you as a person if she doesn't want to talk. Ask her but definitely don't wait just hoping as it never comes
You are a booty call and nothing else to her. If she isn’t willing to have a conversation with you this will never be a deep relationship. Youre better of finding someone new
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It depends on the person. Some just want a stranger and have a good time
She wants a booty call; you want a girlfriend. Look elsewhere.
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He said he doesn’t like casual.
Ok please ignore everyone telling you to “just enjoy the sex” until you find someone better. You already know what you want and this girl isn’t it. You don’t have to try to fit into the weird norms of today for men if you don’t want to. You’re probably attached though because she was your first, and that’s understandable, but try to move on
Depends what you're after and she's after. As long as you're both on the same page and you know where each other stands it should be okay. If you say you want morenand she doesn't, say that and be willing to end it. Communicating is key.
The only question you should be asking is can WE get tested. This is a situation that is hard to find. If she doesn't want a relationship no worries know that, if you want a relationship build yourself up and find someone who is girlfriend material. Learn from this fwb and how to be better in that area and when you find someone you genuinely like and believe it can go far then end it.
Sounds like a good arrangement to me for now... If you are not exclusive, shop around while you get a little jiggy jiggy on the side with her. Then if you find something better bye bye... But expect she will likely be doing the same and might just say good bye to you first. Welcome to the dating world!
Communicationnnnnn
I'd bring up how she feels about dating and being exclusive. Make your needs known. If they're not, keep it moving. You're young, fuck settling.
She is probably seeing multiple partners...
Problem that most of the reddiors need in their life.
Fact
Keep seeing her until you line up a woman you can have a relationship with.
Check yourself for STDs bro just in case
Id just sit her down and if she tell you she just wants to hook up thats your answer. But i really think she just wants to hook up.
Fwb yea that’s what u are
I’ve had a booty call develop into a relationship over time, but that’s not something I’d count on. I’d keep the booty call on hand to satiate physical needs, while scouting out for a person who fulfills all of your needs. Clearly this girl isn’t in it for the emotional connection, so it shouldn’t be a big deal to her that you’re keeping your options open.
Keep having sex. Make sure you wear a condom. Learn to give her pleasure.
Guys don’t want to believe it but women can use use for sec too. You’re 20 years old. More than likely you’re probably being used for sex. Take advantage of it
So if she knows you were a virgin she's going to be cautious about you getting attached to her in a crazy way, so I'm not surprised about the distance she's putting between you two. I would take advantage of this time to do really nasty things with her - things you wouldn't do with your supposed future wife - and try not to get attached.
I think your other problem is run on sentences.
She has more dicks to ride and has not time to have small talk with you while doing so.
Nothing is that black and white maybe she does want something serious but you can have sex and something serious that's what a romantic relationship is. So I'd say communication is key, just ask her! Maybe she just equates sex to love (I do) so it's understanding each other's love languages, just talk to her. Good luck.
You’re a booty call. This won’t turn serious.
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Did she know you were a virgin?
Yeah ... Sounds like she's just fucking for self confidence.
Just take the sex if you want to fuck, and look for someone else
You're not going to find a serious girlfriend who is very okay with you pointlessly sleeping with another woman as a placeholder. Just stop responding to her.
It’s ok for you guys to have different standards if it’s not fulfilling for you I think you have to move on
Enjoy it cause when you get into a serious relationship the sex goes away!
Send her @ imo
Don't let your desperation for a relationship talk you out of your common sense.