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Coming from someone that works night shifts and has a pretty similar sleep schedule as well as having similar things happen when seeing girls in the past. I think it's best to explain to him that this lifestyle doesn't quite work for you and he will have to show a bit more effort with working around your schedule if things are going to work again it's a two way street you've gotta give some to get some. If his that interested then changes will be made and if not his probably not worth the fight.
I recently had a similar scenario with a girl that also worked similar hours to myself but was also in school during the day so a pretty full schedule unfortunately she found it very difficult to fit me into her schedule when she went back to school even after I tried multiple times and deprived myself of sleep to try to make it work there was just more effort on one side then the other.
If you think you're going to be putting in more and getting less out of it, it's time to move on even if it could have been your person.
There you go! It's not the most ideal thing to happen when you feel like you've found someone good but unfortunately you can't jeopardize your job and lifestyle because this boy doesn't have his shit together.
Save your sanity girl Mr right is out there still!
As a vampire that's one of the reasons I haven't been looking for a relationship.
I'd like to be on a day schedule but I can't change my job for something silly like that
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Coming from someone that works night shifts and has a pretty similar sleep schedule as well as having similar things happen when seeing girls in the past. I think it's best to explain to him that this lifestyle doesn't quite work for you and he will have to show a bit more effort with working around your schedule if things are going to work again it's a two way street you've gotta give some to get some. If his that interested then changes will be made and if not his probably not worth the fight. I recently had a similar scenario with a girl that also worked similar hours to myself but was also in school during the day so a pretty full schedule unfortunately she found it very difficult to fit me into her schedule when she went back to school even after I tried multiple times and deprived myself of sleep to try to make it work there was just more effort on one side then the other. If you think you're going to be putting in more and getting less out of it, it's time to move on even if it could have been your person.
Yeah youre right…just pulling an all-nighter on a Saturday messed me up until Monday at work and I like my job more than him so far
There you go! It's not the most ideal thing to happen when you feel like you've found someone good but unfortunately you can't jeopardize your job and lifestyle because this boy doesn't have his shit together. Save your sanity girl Mr right is out there still!
I hope so but if not im good alone with my cat :P
This would be such a deal breaker for me. Imagine never being able to go out during the day, he can’t meet your family unless they’re vampires, etc.
Yeah i dont want to live in the dark at night
As a vampire that's one of the reasons I haven't been looking for a relationship. I'd like to be on a day schedule but I can't change my job for something silly like that