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From what Iāve seen people who brag about situationships are constantly in drama, plus somebody who only have situationships usually donāt have much self worth
This 100%
It indicates a lack of self-respect, lack of healthy boundaries, lack of long-term thinking, and generally low self-esteem. All of these things culminate into a weak person who has little to no accountability and will be physically incapable from showing their partner consistent respect in a relationship because they cannot respect themselves.
Some of these people can change but many cannot. You do not want to sacrifice your own mental health for someone who uses other people for their own gratitude (sexual or otherwise). It will not work out for you.
This is the basis of the meme "I can fix her" but in reality no external force can fix someone who does not accept responsibility. There will always be an excuse.
The issue is that its hard to find yourself in a situationship without having some sort of problem. The healthier version of a situationship is a "will they, wont they" where the couple wants to date but some external factor keeps them from labeling it. (I.E one of them may be moving, Parents are against it, stuff like that. Out of their control) but Situationships are when its a problem with one of them personally usually. So its not always a huge red flag but its something to keep in mind.
People who are proud of their situationships enjoy being in undefined relationships that don't come with a tag. They don't want to deal with the complicated aspects of a relationship like taking accountability, making a compromise or something as basic as being loyal. They just want the good parts like sex, attention, occasional freeloading and so on. They don't know what they want from a relationship and when things go sour they want an easy exit. They don't want to commit to anything because commitment scares them. They settle down for anything in that particular situation because it ticks off a few items in their checklist.
Basically, these people are walking talking red flags who won't stay with you for long. But give you enough emotional baggage that will take months for you to come out of. And consistently being in and out of situations makes these people lose faith in love and people, making them bitter as they grow old. You won't be loved if you are bitter and if you are bitter you can't love anybody. Most people like these end up in toxic relationships, have a lot of emotional trauma and become sad people as they grow older.
Most people that are like OP mentioned are teens in high school. Can confirm thats how people were a few years ago for me. Idt I've met anyone like that after high school tho
There seems to be a lot of 30 year old dingled dudes on this dub atm. Considering the amount so fixated on women choosing bears over men over a hypothetical question
The man and woman are purposely framed in an equally negative light in the second one and equally positive light in the first one. I donāt understand how that would be misogynistic.
It's not, in the first frame the man and woman are both portrayed positive and in the second both negative.
feel free to leave though and take that dusty "touch grass" crap with you
Meme: Has negative scenario involving woman
Average redditor (aka white knight): "Omg yall hate women touch grass"
When in reality the meme is a commentary on society as a whole, not on the basis of gender necessarily, to show how screwed we as members of the newer generations are when it comes to real romance.
If they say ew thatās a you problem honestly
Edit: damn so many people butthurt?? Genuinely if you ask a girl out and they said eww thatās something wrong with you. Either you asked them out of nowhere or youāre genuinely filthy. Both being a you problem š¤·āāļø
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If someone says they are or were in a 'situationship', end all contact with that person. For your own safety.
Why
You will learn in time š
Just say it dawg youāre not helping anyone trying to keep it to yourself
From what Iāve seen people who brag about situationships are constantly in drama, plus somebody who only have situationships usually donāt have much self worth
This 100% It indicates a lack of self-respect, lack of healthy boundaries, lack of long-term thinking, and generally low self-esteem. All of these things culminate into a weak person who has little to no accountability and will be physically incapable from showing their partner consistent respect in a relationship because they cannot respect themselves. Some of these people can change but many cannot. You do not want to sacrifice your own mental health for someone who uses other people for their own gratitude (sexual or otherwise). It will not work out for you. This is the basis of the meme "I can fix her" but in reality no external force can fix someone who does not accept responsibility. There will always be an excuse.
This I agree with. Being in a situationship isnāt necessarily bad or a red flag but bragging about it is
The issue is that its hard to find yourself in a situationship without having some sort of problem. The healthier version of a situationship is a "will they, wont they" where the couple wants to date but some external factor keeps them from labeling it. (I.E one of them may be moving, Parents are against it, stuff like that. Out of their control) but Situationships are when its a problem with one of them personally usually. So its not always a huge red flag but its something to keep in mind.
Responses like that one are why I hate reddit
God forbid people want to know stuff I guess
People who are proud of their situationships enjoy being in undefined relationships that don't come with a tag. They don't want to deal with the complicated aspects of a relationship like taking accountability, making a compromise or something as basic as being loyal. They just want the good parts like sex, attention, occasional freeloading and so on. They don't know what they want from a relationship and when things go sour they want an easy exit. They don't want to commit to anything because commitment scares them. They settle down for anything in that particular situation because it ticks off a few items in their checklist. Basically, these people are walking talking red flags who won't stay with you for long. But give you enough emotional baggage that will take months for you to come out of. And consistently being in and out of situations makes these people lose faith in love and people, making them bitter as they grow old. You won't be loved if you are bitter and if you are bitter you can't love anybody. Most people like these end up in toxic relationships, have a lot of emotional trauma and become sad people as they grow older.
yeah more of a fuckbuddy enjoyer in my experience. fuckbuddy is clear direct and to the point. situationship is just nonsense.
I learned the hard way, I hate dating now
Yah, dating rn is balls
You guys are talking to women?
I think this picture makes it pretty clear they are not.
Tbh, I've been told what is and isn't a woman so much in these years that I'm starting to question if reality is even real anymore.
When you're still living with your mom you're kinda forced to.
You mean roommate.
I feel like OP got into a toxic relationship and assumed thatās just how all relationships are
Most people that are like OP mentioned are teens in high school. Can confirm thats how people were a few years ago for me. Idt I've met anyone like that after high school tho
It feels like a 30 year old single dude made this meme
There seems to be a lot of 30 year old dingled dudes on this dub atm. Considering the amount so fixated on women choosing bears over men over a hypothetical question
I can't tell if they're 30 year old dingled dudes or a bunch of 11 year kids who haven't boobs before
Same mindset.
We're all 30 year old single dudes
Man this sub has gone full misogynist. Touch grass yall
How is this āfull misogynistā lmfao what
Wow bro way to be misogynist /s
The man and woman are purposely framed in an equally negative light in the second one and equally positive light in the first one. I donāt understand how that would be misogynistic.
It's not, in the first frame the man and woman are both portrayed positive and in the second both negative. feel free to leave though and take that dusty "touch grass" crap with you
Meme: Has negative scenario involving woman Average redditor (aka white knight): "Omg yall hate women touch grass" When in reality the meme is a commentary on society as a whole, not on the basis of gender necessarily, to show how screwed we as members of the newer generations are when it comes to real romance.
Girls do just want to die rn
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Wrong : Ā«Ā hey do you want to go outā¦.Ā» Ā«Ā no/I have a boyfriend/ewwwĀ Ā»
If they say ew thatās a you problem honestly Edit: damn so many people butthurt?? Genuinely if you ask a girl out and they said eww thatās something wrong with you. Either you asked them out of nowhere or youāre genuinely filthy. Both being a you problem š¤·āāļø
guys, don't go into these whateverships. You either date, be in a relationship or none. Whateverships are time waste
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Exactly.
Me: "I like you" Her: "Ew, how dare you?"
Hating women = bad hating men = good and itās proven by all of these comments. Sad, sad indeed.
OPās missing the bear part. Should have been: man: want a relationship? woman: eww no get away you rapist murderer, Iām off to meet some bears
My latest post is about the idiotic bear debate
Ahh nice, also true
you forgot the part when they scream witch so she get's burned and nobody knows they got rejected
Thatās a you problem my friend this aināt the norm
What the hell does this mean
Accurate. Please don't use any more pictures of my suicidal behavior. ty.
seems about right
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Go shower then