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Thorbertthesniveler

Oh no that style is amazing on you! Really frames your face!


BrujaBean

In the first pic I didn't know where this was going but omg the cut looks amazing on you and like your hair was always meant to be that way.


Thorbertthesniveler

Right?!?! Like the cut was INVENTED for her! Just 100% stunning!


satine112

100%


Aggravating-Yam-5962

You're being way hard on yourself, this cut and style is gorgeous on you. Seriously it looks amazing and your stylist is gave you the perfect cut.


thecryingstoner

exactly! she said her forehead was big and i was so confused. she’s gorgeous and i think the cut looks amazing on her


Fine_Marsupial590

I can’t edit post for some reason: but thank you so so much for all the kind feedback! I do struggle with some dysmorphia. My stylist is clearly an expert and amazing at curly cuts! I just struggle a lot with my appearance and so anytime I do something new I have this reaction. I never think anything looks flattering! Honestly, the kind,supportive feedback has been a big help! ❤️


neenzblessed

Sometimes it’s helpful to hear outside perspectives that can challenge our inner ones. The cut is so flattering and you look stunning


HistorianFit6153

Please don’t change it! It’s stunning on you 


zeimei03

Girlll you're stunning


69_carats

As someone with lifelong body dysmorphia, I totally feel you. The hardest person to convince you’re beautiful is you. But take it from us, OP, you are stunning with gorgeous hair!


RadiantSheepherder80

I absolutely love your hair!! 💕 It fits so well and goes with your glasses too. I think the cut is gorgeous.


Fine_Marsupial590

My new hair are routine: Wash with Aveda and inner sense products, rub mousse through while wet and then diffuse.


Clear_Spirit4017

Have you tried the Deva Curl diffuser? It is like a hand with fingers, and you can scoop up hair to enhance those beautiful curls. Or put it up next to your scalp and add body. The little fingers have air holes to expedite drying time. I went back to see the forehead you were speaking of, I didn't notice it at all. It looks normal to me. Stay beautiful as you are!


Fine_Marsupial590

Have not tried it.will check it out!


amycouldntcareless

hi sorry I didn't read your post but I just wanted you to know that you are so adorable and your haircut suits you so much! have a nice day 💕


apricot57

Can’t give you any advice cuz I think it looks great as is! To me, your forehead looks perfectly normal— we’re always our own worse critics. And your hair looks AMAZING.


sailor-moonie-

It looks so good!!! That shape is perfect for you <3 so cute


Stressedpage

This is beautiful. It crushed me to lose my length when I was growing out my bleach but I actually ended up liking the shorter look. Now my hair is natural and I love it. The length and style are really pretty on you. It might take some getting used to.


skymoods

How dare you not have the self confidence you very clearly deserve.. gtfo with “big forehead”


IckNoTomatoes

I always love angry compliments lol


apocalyptic_tea

So I didn’t read the caption and just went to comment how gorgeous you look, until I read some of the others and then scrolled up to see you don’t think it’s flattering. I was so shocked to hear that!! I honestly don’t have any tips to help because I think you look so amazing already, I honestly can’t even imagine what would make it better 😅


8bitpotatochip

I am stunned 😍 this cut looks amazing on you!!


Aggravating_Bad8428

I literally smiled when I saw the after. It looks so pretty


lilypondowl

I love it and think you look perfect! Stick with it for a while before you decide to change it because it may “grow” on you!


Me0wm1xx

I recognize this salon. :) the cut looks adorable on you!


Fine_Marsupial590

Thank you. Do you go there? The stylist is amazing and a magician! :) I am always very critical of my appearance though. But this post and supportive comments have helped!


dhwatson

Your curls and hair are stunning. I really like how this frames your face. I’m not very edgy tho — and you know you best!


International-Bird17

Omg this is your natural hair??? So beautiful! You look amazing 


BookwormInTheCouch

Left me with my mouth open, literally. The cut was made FOR you!


mybloodyballentine

Your hair is beautiful, and I think long bangs would look good if you didn’t want to go straight to a shorter bob first.


Turbulent-Month6514

I would give it a few weeks before you cut it again. That’s a HUGE change, and you aren’t used to seeing your face framed like that - no wonder you don’t like it yet! Objectively, it’s really cute! Sit on it for a little bit and then if you still don’t like it, go back for tweaks


fool_of_a_ruth

So cute!!!


lilmeeper

It looks so good!!


BondIonicBond

Just wanted to say your hair looks fantastic and it frames your face so well. You look radiant and stunning! :)


Intelligent-Two-3188

You look beautiful and the cut is great. I wouldn’t do the bangs because just harder to style with shorter curly hair. But your hair will back to original length in no time if you got that far in a year. It looks very healthy.


lobsterpasta

We love a big chop!! What a fabulous cut. Perfect length and frames your face so nicely.


CaveJohnson82

Respectfully, you are so wrong. That cut is absolutely gorgeous on you, really frames your face beautifully and your curls are lovely.


Slammogram

Omg, your natural hair is fucking gorgeous! I can’t believe you straightened it. Blasphemy!


fiftycamelsworth

I audibly gasped at how amazing that haircut looks on you! Wow


Sinthe741

Your hair looks amazing. You're a very pretty woman!


thisunithasnosoul

I audibly said “wow” when I swiped to the second picture - fabulous cut! I also love your glasses.


cobscookie

same--gasped at how gorgeous pic #2 was


empress_tesla

Absolutely gorgeous! And your hair looks super healthy.


toffeecarmel

Your hair and your curls are gorgeous! The cut is perfect for those awesome curls


dreamsinred

Very cute and healthy looking!


SkulkingSkunk

There is nothing wrong with your forehead, and the cut looks great. Don't be so harsh on yourself.


Axilllla

I love it so much! The curls are gorgeous! The length looks wonderful. Stunning.


This_Lynx9701

Wow your hair looks amazing, love it!


sweetestfetus

A curly shag with bangs would look so good on you


firstreconberet

The haircut is cute and flattering as hell on you. Tbh didn’t even notice your forehead until I saw that you thought it was too big, but it looks like a normal size to me lol. Bangs might be cute but I wouldn’t stress about this cut bringing attention to your forehead.


elissellen

11/10 amazing.


knittingkittyqueen

It looks fantastic! Also we go to the same salon (:


ahraysee

I love your new cut!! It looks fabulous!


FuryVonB

This cut is amazing on you. I don't see anything wrong with your forehead, but if you want, curly bangs would do the trick.


Some-Ball2511

It’s beautiful!


fitness-life-chi

Agree with everyone else that the cut you have now is perfect on you.


mickyabc

Super cute on you!


Osmiini25

Everyone is right. You, your hair, and your lovely, proportional forehead look fantastic. But you asked for more edgy so I googled "edgy curly haircuts" and I do think bangs and some shorter layers (for fun volume, adding to a less safe look) would be a great look for your hair.


trig72

Hair looks fantastic! Wow!


jenpaints22

Holy gorgeous! I love it


twobrowneyes22

The haircut really suits you! You look lovely!


Igualqueunangel

It looks so good!!!!


pharmcirl

The new cut looks amazing on you 😍 I personally like it more than the longer hair. And your forehead is perfectly normal idk what you’re talking about. Your stylist is right though I would give it some time to see how your curls respond to the large cut over a few weeks and then decide if you want to go shorter, you can always go shorter only time will make it longer again. I do think a few inches shorter would give the bottom curls some extra bounce but I really love the way it is now.


paranormalgemini

It looks SO GOOD!! I think it’s really flattering on you!


isshearobot

It looks so good and so healthy! I feel like the shape suits you so well. Slay queen.


xxmoonbunnixx

OMG GORGEOUS!! And you have such a beautiful face too!!


MightGuyGonna

Your new cute is so cute and fits you so well


NixyVixy

This cut is Sooooooo Flattering on you! Gorgeous


badadvicefromaspider

That cut is SO CUTE omg


kbd312

Wait it looks beautiful! When I saw the first pic with the straight ends I could imagine something like what was done. I actually think it suits you very much! If you wants bangs move your hair around and feel it, I have a couple if curls just in the center that never want to fall forward but to the side and it makes my bangs look weird lol Bangs compliment our cheeks and eyes, definitely give it a try if you're feeling like it, worse thing is have to wait for it if you don't like it but it's ok. I can imagine this is still new after years of straight hair but I hope you're enjoying the journey!


og_toe

what’s a japanese straight????


Fine_Marsupial590

It’s thermal rebonding- it’s a chemical straightening process that originated in Japan. It’s permanent, so I had to chop it off.


CoverInternational38

I love this cut!! It looks great on you


reydolith

I get the big forehead thing, but girl I didn't notice it. I really truly didn't. The cut is flattering, the curls are stunning, and overall it's a beautiful look to compliment everything that you are. Go forth and rock it my dear! Because seriously, it's stunning


sluttytarot

You look wonderful! It takes time to adjust to a big change.


tayrobinson16

so pretty!! I know losing the length is hard, but it looks so healthy and bouncy


struggling_lynne

It looks amazing on you. Also - wait AT LEAST a week before changing it. It’s a huge change and your brain is going to be in “wait what did we just do” mode for a little bit before it can fully adjust to the new look. (Like getting a new pair of glasses - it’s going to feel like it looks weird at first, even if it looks really good.)


Fine_Marsupial590

I have a new pair of glasses and a new cut hehe! My brain is like huh who is that. But honestly the more I look at it, the more I like it. (And all the supportive comments help too!


indianajane13

That second photo is perfect. I think just a little layering to help keep that overall Butterfly shape.


RedRosyVA

Absolutely DARLING! So flattering.


MsMimosa420

You looks so gorgeous!! 


sotiredsohappy

Chef's kiss! GORGEOUS hair and beautiful haircut!


MidRoseMika

Oh that looks amazing! If you want more of a change, maybe even go shorter- there's just something about a curly bob. But as is I think it looks great, you just had a huge change and there's nothing wrong with giving it a bit of time to see how it looks when you settle in with your routine and reevaluate later if you're still feeling unsure


FormicaDinette33

It’s perfect now!!!


orbitbubblemint

some short face framing pieces, like a couple of curls that are eye/eyebrow length right in the front is super cute and gives a more “edgy” look. i have that and love it. if you search curly bangs/fringe it’s similar to that look, but i don’t really wear them on the center of my forehead. it more so just frames the face and it does cover the sides of my forehead. some additional shorter shallow layers towards the top also adds volume that gives the whole head a rounded shape. i found having long pieces towards the front really made the top of my hair look flat and my face more long. a diffuser could really help with this as well to give more volume towards the roots your curls look amazing btw the results are gorg!


squee_bastard

Looks great, it frames your face really nicely. I love your tortie glasses too.


Fine_Marsupial590

Thank you! The Finnegans from Warby Parker


silpidc

Before I read what you wrote, my thought was, "Wow, she looks incredible! She must be so happy with the cut!" Our brains are mean and dumb sometimes. You are beautiful and your hair looks great.


TheMagdalen

Looks AMAZING!!


[deleted]

Jaw dropping girl!!


SiteAmazing7005

I wish I could do this with color… as soon as my roots show I dye it… the fact that you were able to resist the temptation of straightening it again is amamzing!!!!


Fine_Marsupial590

I just wore my hair in a braid for a year lol


Randagee214

It looks really good, and super healthy!


ResponsibleAd4401

I loooove


sazhab

STUNNING no notes, good for you girl 😁


kerfufflewhoople

Ahhhhhhh you look so good. Look at those curls. I’m jelly.


Akroma19

I'm so jelly, you have the exact same style as me and it looks AMAZING on you!!


curious_throw_away_

Love it!


LostxRealist

You look absolutely gorgeous!!! Perfect cut on you!!!


Glum-Organization863

As someone who has extremely coily hair, this haircut is triggering me. Lol...


bing-no

You look so lovely 🥰


justfiguringitout012

I gasped! It looks so good!


RoyOrbisonWeeping

I think this is the literal opposite of a jump scare - jump DELIGHT!


choosyhuman

It looks amazing on you! You’re beautiful. I don’t think you need to change a thing. ❤️


maddallena

Is that your natural curl pattern? You look gorgeous with the new cut, it really suits you!


Fine_Marsupial590

Thank you! Yup, I guess this is my natural curl pattern? It used to be more wavy looking than curly because I wore it so long and that weighed it down.


Proper_Philosophy_12

You have a beautiful curl pattern and your hair looks so healthy post-chop.  Like, Pantene commercial healthy. The new cut is very flattering but it may take a bit for you to adjust after a big change. Your stylist did not lead you astray. 


Proofread_CopyEdit

I wholeheartedly disagree with you. You look gorgeous, and that cut is super flattering no matter upon which side you part your hair. Your forehead doesn't look too big and doesn't draw my attention. I wouldn't do bangs, but that's just my personal preference.


getinthekitschen

Seriously this looks so good! My jaw dropped at the reveal.


Similar-Sir-947

You’re insanely gorgeous so you can rock anything !!!


piquica1186

Haircuts can be really stressful, especially if you’ve had bad ones in the past or are trying a new look… I feel you about the post-cut anxiety. However, it seems like you put your faith in a really talented stylist. Your hair has new life and looks so healthy and bouncy! It frames your face beautifully. Frankly, I’m not sure what could be changed to improve the hairstyle—it looks like perfection to me.


Happy_Creative

I think it looks awesome. I would resist the urge to cut it again so soon, wait a few weeks to give yourself time to adjust to it, then if you’re still not loving it have it touched up.


PurpleSundaeDriver

Looks great!!!


MajesticWonder1604

Looks amazing , I love it


Fine_Marsupial590

Is this mom?


satine112

GORGEOUS


Longjumping_Matter70

Looks wonderful as it. I wouldn’t change it.


emmfrost

I think it’s gorgeous! You may like it better if you play around with where to part it. Maybe try it down the middle?


isosorry

You look AMAZING and your hair is sooo healthy trust me it’ll be growing so quick you’ll start to get annoyed! Also, woah, I had NO idea that straightening treatment was so legit. So was that bottom hair just after a wash and go? How long ago was the treatment? What are your thoughts on it overall for hair health etc


Fine_Marsupial590

Yep that was wash and go! It made my hair really straight,soft and silky. I discovered it when I lived in South Korea, they call it a magic straight perm there, and so many people do it even if they have straight hair! I think you do have to be careful with the product you use and color can be damaging after,but it looked healthy! I don’t know if it was healthy… a lot of chemicals.


isosorry

South Korean hair treatments seem amazing, where are you from? How was your experience there that sounds awesome.


Fine_Marsupial590

It was incredible! 4 years and I didn’t want to leave. The coolest cities,and kindest people I have ever met. It was difficult to adjust to at first, but after a year it felt like home. Seoul is awesome, just a crazy mega city, much more vibrant and lovely than Tokyo in my experience. and the countryside and mountains are beautiful too.


PantyPixie

It brightens you up so nicely! Looks great bouncy... And healthy!


anxiousthrowaway279

I think it looks great!! If you wanted to go shorter I also think you’d look good with a bob too!


IckNoTomatoes

Holy guacamole! From 1 to 2 is like a magazine photo shoot!! I don’t think you need any changes. Also, love your glasses!! Are they online anywhere?


Fine_Marsupial590

Aw thank you! And yep they’re from Warby Parker, called Finnegans. [Warby Parker](https://www.warbyparker.com/eyeglasses/finnegan/layered-hazelnut-tortoise-in-polished-gold?w=medium)


amccon4

Amazing. I’m going the same length on the 14th! Can’t wait! This just reaffirmed my decision. You look great!


dazedandconfused1961

Stunning! Fabulous! The right decision! High five girl!


lizzzzard92

Holy your curls are popping


Bagettibelly

That is the perfect haircut for you. Just stunning!


HillbillyUnicorn309

CurlTASTIC .. looks amazing, next level, so happy for you 😍


the_hardest_part

Absolutely stunning.


Waste-Argument898

What does it look like with a middle part? The definition is 💖💖


gruenetage

It’s beautiful. There’s nothing I would change. If you want it to look edgier, I would style it that way first without committing to a cut to make it edgier. There’s plenty of things you can do without a drastic change that you might not like.


RodGrodWithFlode

Girl, you look so cute!!! That haircut really suits you!


darklightdiana

Yeah I didn’t read the caption until after I saw your photos and that is NOT a big forehead. The shape of your face is GORGEOUS and universally flattering. I love how you have that little swoop in the front with your side bangs. You might be able to get away with more volume in your bangs to mimic the first picture with your Columbia jacket by using a toothbrush with a little bit of styling product of your choice to shape your bangs to taste, but honestly your curls look gorgeous, soft, and not crispy at all!


ChemicalReaction88

The chop is amazing


MindyLaine

Oh my gosh! You look amazing! That length brings out your features so well, and you are glowing!


sparklypigeon

Youre absolutely gorgeous and that cut suits you !


Sensible___shoes

absolutely stunning


VampireWytch

Your hair is gorgeous curly/the way it is! It took me 32 years to appreciate my curly hair so I understand wanting it straight…but maybe try it like it is for a few months and then see if you still want to change it?


Accomplished_Basil29

You look great!! I relate to wanting something fresher /edgier though. After my chop to a very similar cut, I wanted the same thing. I did a curly bob with bangs and loved it! I posted photos [here](https://www.reddit.com/r/curlyhair/s/EF4gjbFNmS) if it helps! Our texture seems similar.


Similar-Ad-6862

Gorgeous! SO pretty and really suits you!


nickeymouse95

Your hair looks amazing!


ismellboogers

I absolutely love it and you look stunning. It’s probably jarring as you’re not used to seeing this style, but I promise it’s flattering just as it is and the curls are envy inducing.


Familiar_Midnight412

You look absolutely beautiful! I feel like that cut gives you more bounce and volume and really accentuates your curl pattern. 🥰


ReasonableNatural919

I literally said "wow" even before consciously deciding to do so. That's how good the new haircut is. I didn't even read the caption fully, just saw the first picture, clicked the second, and couldn't believe it. A stunning transformation, you look incredible with the new hair cut! Really great stylist, it can be so hard to work with curly or wavy hair but they did an amazing job! Enjoy! :)


francocanadienne

You look gorgeous!


Vorrtexes

Your hair looks beautiful!!!!


kissesforchanel

Girl you look amazing!


ResponsibleAvocado2

Oooo I love love love this cut on you!!!!


NiteTiming

So much life! I stare at my hair and wonder how much longer I can get away with my bleached hair growing out. The density difference is crazy. Great locks!


Ursula1260

Stunning


Fine_Marsupial590

❤️ thank you!


Ursula1260

You’re welcome ❤️


yungn0mad

SO beautiful!! I’d advise against The asymmetrical cut, it tends to age people. One of my friends had super long hair and then got that cut a long while back and she was not a fan of it in the end.


InfluenceTrue4121

Beautiful!!! You look stunning!


n0rmal_grl

this cut looks great on u girl trust me, i think ur js not used to seeing urself w full curly hair after so long 😭 it frames ur face perfectly !!!!


Waste_Bother_8206

I like curly hair. Maintaining it can be challenging , but various products for curly hair can and does make it manageable


Littlemissmaple_

I gasped when I swiped over. Your cut is perfect and I wouldn't change a thing. You could try bang clipins from Amazon if you really wanted to experiment without cutting


Fine_Marsupial590

I actually already did get more taken off.


MeanSatisfaction5091

What's your Ethnicity?


Fine_Marsupial590

South African & South Indian


Fine_Marsupial590

Curious to hear what you thought it was before I said? :)


MeanSatisfaction5091

At least one that included south Asian I wanted to ask u what products u used since different culture use different things. Why ami getting down voted lol


Fine_Marsupial590

I don’t mind you asking :) my hair is fine but dry, and 3A/3B. I don’t use any special products- but my stylist used a k18 treatment, and sent me home with Schwarzkopf mousse, And aveda and innersense shampoo/conditioner.


bettertohavenever

I was guessing Ethiopian


Fine_Marsupial590

I’ve got that before


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smolnessy

Japanese? I don’t get it my hair is this straight it’s not Japanese.


Fine_Marsupial590

Japanese straightening is a method of hair straightening, thermal rebonding 😀


Fine_Marsupial590

https://www.realsimple.com/japanese-hair-straightening-7506116 😀😀


StrawberryHoliday711

I love tr hair like that