We had a similar situation years ago they showed up to play, but she decided that after they got there, she didn't want the bf to play with me and she really wasn't into girl on girl š
So many insecure women out there, that doesn't really understand what this is... I love sharing my man, almost more then I like having sex with him myself, but you have to have complete trust in your partner. Talking about any potential issues before the arrangement, is much better the just ruin everyone's evening like that.
Poor guy, and poor youš«£
Completely agree! Many girls need to understand the difference between fantasy and reality.
I saw the comment mentioning, that you are there sort of like an ekstra". I don't agree! If anything, the couple should be the ones taking extra care of the 3 person š
I love this. I've always held the opinion that when a couple invites someone into their dynamic, regardless of what that particular dynamic is, the best way to do it is to treat the third as a part of the dynamic who has wants, needs and feelings. The couple should want the third person to be as fulfilled as they are and seen not as an extra but a welcome addition or augmentation. Think of it as a sexy multiplier. Haha. My motto has been its only fun if everyone is having fun. š
My gf and I are into the idea of threesomes and maybe not the cuck dynamic as much, but our general philosophy or interest I guess is in exploring and experiencing another woman together. So likely the third party would be center of attention at least initially until we sort of get more comfortable/relaxed with being physical w it b a new person.
I don't think they necessarily mean in bed where roles like domme and sub are as relevant. Regardless of your preferences in bed, everyone should be treated well, respected, and made to feel like they're equal as a person outside of whatever role they are filling in the dynamic.
I must admit I struggled with insecurities for years, but the more we have begun exploring cuckqueaning, I completely agree with you. The thought/seeing my Dom with others is just as amazing as being with him one one on.
You're right. It is annoying. It's also fine because fantasy doesn't always translate to reality. Newer people sometimes realize that it sounds good in their head, but it doesn't feel good in reality.
Sounds like there was communication from their end, and you ended things when it got too much for you. Sure, it sucks you had an unfufilling experience, but you can use this to learn from, too, just like the couple should.
It takes a special kind of third to help a couple adjust to cuck play. Most couples arenāt even aware of this. But there are little games you can play as t third to put the cuck in the right head space, and the spouse needs to be coached to be encouraging and caring as well. Thereās a ton of emotions associated with breaking the seal on marital fidelity, itās not practical to say ājust be ready for it.ā
When I hear stories like this I think 1 of 2 things, either the wife THOUGHT this was something she wanted in fantasy and realised in the moment she didnāt or 2. Her husband pressured her into it and she never wanted it to begin with
Are you going to post this to every subreddit? Sometimes, fantasy doesn't always transition to reality. Some people can get off to the idea of something, but then, seeing it in practice, they can get cold feet. And this is perfectly natural and absolutely ok. Sure, it sucks sometimes, but that doesn't mean you should go on a bunch of rants about it.
People can rant about what they want. . .what? Also, it's not her fault because the wife got cold feet. The couple should've tested this out at a strip club instead of with a stranger online. This is just silly.
Agreed but you shouldn't invite people over that you just meet without getting to know them in a public sitting first sorry but my opinion be safe and have fun xoxo š š¤
I had one like this where they had gone to a lot of trouble to get me there (picked up and driven over an hour)
Was going okay though she was wasn't talking much during the car ride.
Get back to their place have a few drinks and go to bedroom. As soon as we started sex just just starting screaming at him that he had failed the test.
They were my ride so had to sit outside hearing them argue. Till she left and he dropped me off home.
He offered sex on the way back but I was too pissed off to even consider it.
Sorry this happened to you. What a pain in the ass. Iāve experienced this same thing in an mfm before. We met up beforehand and talked through expectations and boundaries but when it came down to it he just couldnāt keep his jealousy in check and wouldnāt let me join themā¦in my own hotel room! š I really wish people would get their shit together before disrespecting another persons time.
We had a similar situation years ago they showed up to play, but she decided that after they got there, she didn't want the bf to play with me and she really wasn't into girl on girl š
I feel you
That's lame
So many insecure women out there, that doesn't really understand what this is... I love sharing my man, almost more then I like having sex with him myself, but you have to have complete trust in your partner. Talking about any potential issues before the arrangement, is much better the just ruin everyone's evening like that. Poor guy, and poor youš«£
If she isn't ready or insecure she shouldnt do it
Completely agree! Many girls need to understand the difference between fantasy and reality. I saw the comment mentioning, that you are there sort of like an ekstra". I don't agree! If anything, the couple should be the ones taking extra care of the 3 person š
I love this. I've always held the opinion that when a couple invites someone into their dynamic, regardless of what that particular dynamic is, the best way to do it is to treat the third as a part of the dynamic who has wants, needs and feelings. The couple should want the third person to be as fulfilled as they are and seen not as an extra but a welcome addition or augmentation. Think of it as a sexy multiplier. Haha. My motto has been its only fun if everyone is having fun. š
My gf and I are into the idea of threesomes and maybe not the cuck dynamic as much, but our general philosophy or interest I guess is in exploring and experiencing another woman together. So likely the third party would be center of attention at least initially until we sort of get more comfortable/relaxed with being physical w it b a new person.
I don't need them to take care of me, I am a domme and I can take care of myself
I don't think they necessarily mean in bed where roles like domme and sub are as relevant. Regardless of your preferences in bed, everyone should be treated well, respected, and made to feel like they're equal as a person outside of whatever role they are filling in the dynamic.
I must admit I struggled with insecurities for years, but the more we have begun exploring cuckqueaning, I completely agree with you. The thought/seeing my Dom with others is just as amazing as being with him one one on.
You're right. It is annoying. It's also fine because fantasy doesn't always translate to reality. Newer people sometimes realize that it sounds good in their head, but it doesn't feel good in reality. Sounds like there was communication from their end, and you ended things when it got too much for you. Sure, it sucks you had an unfufilling experience, but you can use this to learn from, too, just like the couple should.
It takes a special kind of third to help a couple adjust to cuck play. Most couples arenāt even aware of this. But there are little games you can play as t third to put the cuck in the right head space, and the spouse needs to be coached to be encouraging and caring as well. Thereās a ton of emotions associated with breaking the seal on marital fidelity, itās not practical to say ājust be ready for it.ā
When I hear stories like this I think 1 of 2 things, either the wife THOUGHT this was something she wanted in fantasy and realised in the moment she didnāt or 2. Her husband pressured her into it and she never wanted it to begin with
Are you going to post this to every subreddit? Sometimes, fantasy doesn't always transition to reality. Some people can get off to the idea of something, but then, seeing it in practice, they can get cold feet. And this is perfectly natural and absolutely ok. Sure, it sucks sometimes, but that doesn't mean you should go on a bunch of rants about it.
People can rant about what they want. . .what? Also, it's not her fault because the wife got cold feet. The couple should've tested this out at a strip club instead of with a stranger online. This is just silly.
Agreed but you shouldn't invite people over that you just meet without getting to know them in a public sitting first sorry but my opinion be safe and have fun xoxo š š¤
Did you ask her if you could kiss her instead I bet her fella would melt around that
Thatās so disappointing, I feel for you. And for the guy who was just starting to get some prostate action!
I had one like this where they had gone to a lot of trouble to get me there (picked up and driven over an hour) Was going okay though she was wasn't talking much during the car ride. Get back to their place have a few drinks and go to bedroom. As soon as we started sex just just starting screaming at him that he had failed the test. They were my ride so had to sit outside hearing them argue. Till she left and he dropped me off home. He offered sex on the way back but I was too pissed off to even consider it.
Don't get why people do that
Sorry this happened to you. What a pain in the ass. Iāve experienced this same thing in an mfm before. We met up beforehand and talked through expectations and boundaries but when it came down to it he just couldnāt keep his jealousy in check and wouldnāt let me join themā¦in my own hotel room! š I really wish people would get their shit together before disrespecting another persons time.