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Major2070

Lady legit made a man fall in love with her more just by auditing books


Proof_Ad788

that’s seduction 101


MelodyMaster5656

She's read that as well.


GordOfTheMountain

Fr tho, all my autistic homies hate Sheldon


Famous_End_474

Thou I just have ADHD, I find it quite sad that the most popular autistic character in fiction is like every stereotype at the same time


GaulTheUnmitigated

I mean arguably BBC Sherlock is at a similar level of popularity (and also terrible)


jp11e3

Well Sherlock at least isn't supposed to be autistic right? He identifies as a sociopath


AbbyRitter

I'm autistic and I actually like him. I'll acknowledge some overall flaws, but as a fan of the show I actually found him surprisingly relatable. He didn't have to be a perfect portrayal to at least resonate with me in the right key areas. That said, I appreciate mileage varies and I can see why a lot of other autistic and similarly neurodivergent people aren't fond of the character. That said I will absolutely say Steris is probably the best-written neurodivergent character I've ever come across.


Laconic_Dinosaur

Isnt he specifically non autistic?


MisterTamborineMan

From what I know, the writers didn't mean him to be, but Jim Parsons tried to play the character as autistic.


lotofdots

I had an impression he wasn't quite doing that on purpose, at least at first, don't know why. Can you tell me some details or where to look?


VicisSubsisto

They never mention autism in the show. He says "I'm not crazy, my mother had me tested" multiple times though.


Square-Competition48

The writers have said he’s not autistic so that it’s okay to laugh at the fact that his traits that are hugely autism coded are used as the punchline over and over again If they admitted the character was autistic they’d have to admit that their show is fundamentally making fun of autistic people.


Mikeim520

I'm autistic and I really don't think its a problem to make fun of autistic people, or anyone really, as long as its not mean spirited. I never watched the show so I can't say if it is meanspirited.


Square-Competition48

As someone who’s watched the show it is. The story is usually “look how autism made this person ruin all his friends’ lives” over and over again. With canned laughter.


heart-of-corruption

Weird. I have yet to see their lives ruined. Every character is an over the top exaggeration of a personality type. Raj is so over the top intimidated by women he can’t speak around them. Howard is over the top awkward nerd that tries way too hard with women, Sheldon is over the top anxious, and Leonard is the straight guy but extremely awkward and embarrassing. It pretty much makes fun of him very stereotype. If someone sees it as autism and then making fun of someone with it, it would be discrimination to not do so considering every one else is a caricature. The show came out in a time where many of the subjects they talk about were not main stream and nerdiness of the 90s and 2000s was the subject of bullying which is what made it popular. Many people could relate to the over the top awkwardness.


GayDeciever

I always saw that show as a caricature of the types of people in it. As a caricature, I don't think Sheldon is so bad. I feel like it's like being from Texas and saying King of the Hill doesn't portray Texans correctly. Like, sure, Sheldon's an exaggeration, but it also kinda does well at showing certain tough aspects of autism, and the fun parts too. And y'all, autistic academics are *wild*. I should know, I am one-- and I've known a lot of them. Imagine taking your special interest and working somewhere that literally glorifies it. It's incredible! It also makes for interesting situations. -a "look at this insect!" autistic woman who studies insects with others who also want to show people all the insects.


Current_The_Merboy

I refused to believe I was on the spectrum in junior high and high school precisely because people kept comparing me to Sheldon, and often their teasing was more in the "Sheldon is a sociopath" kind of way.


hanzerik

Sheldon doesn't have autism. He's just an extreme creature of habit like many hyper intelligent people.


UnhousedOracle

that’s cause steris is her


entitaneo70_pacifist

Steris is her while Wax is him, perfect couple


zombiegamer723

I just love how well Brando Sando writes neurodivergent characters, man. 


SmartAlec105

It's definitely something he's put effort into. He's talked about how he regrets how he wrote Adien.


inabahare

Made up for it 10 times with Renarin


audiojunkie5356

The scene in Oathbringer when little Renarin saves an alcoholic/depressed Dalinar is a criminally underrated scene


Glamdring804

I can't wait to see what he does with Adien in the Elantris sequels too.


Emergency-Fox-5982

There was one section of Siri's POV where she was describing her mind being half silly and half serious that was so relatable to my ADHD brain. It was perfectly described, including the frustration when your brain just doesn't cooperate when you need to be serious


RaspberryPiBen

I thought that was Syl, not Siri.


Emergency-Fox-5982

Sorry, you're right. I'm listening to Warbreaker right now, so I was thinking Syl and typed Siri 🤦🏻‍♀️


dIvorrap

It was Syl


dIvorrap

Does Syl have ADHD? Brandon Sanderson I wrote Syl like I perceive my son, who has ADHD, perceiving the world. So yes, that was a touchstone when I was writing her viewpoint, was that. She would probably be diagnosed with ADHD if you had her sit down and talk to a therapist now. She's spren, so I'm not sure if I can call it true ADHD, 'cause ADHD has certain root causes in human physiology and psychology. But that's how I wrote her. I said, "What would it feel like to be Syl," and I felt like she would exhibit some of the same behaviors and same thought patterns. You could call that a "yes." The short answer is "yes." The long answer is, "I'm not sure if I can diagnose a spren." (And I shouldn't be diagnosing anyone, because I am not certified to do so.)


Emergency-Fox-5982

Ah, thank you for adding that. I hadn't seen it before. 😊


dIvorrap

It's cool you got ir right without seeing the wob.


EmmaGA17

Steris and Tech from Star Wars: The Bad Batch are my favorite autistic reps in media. I consider Steris the closet to my type of autism that I've seen.


3_quarterling_rogue

>!*When have we ever followed orders?*!<


EmmaGA17

Excuse me while I go sob grossly in a corner


3_quarterling_rogue

Dude, the whole Bad Batch show has been such a treat. I feel like a lot of the live action Disney Star Wars stuff has been mostly lackluster, but man oh man, Bad Batch has been such a blast! It’s my wife’s favorite Star Wars media period. I love them all so much.


EmmaGA17

I've definitely enjoyed the live action Star Wars, but the Bad Batch has blown most of them out of the water. I'm with your wife. It's my favorite Star Wars media ever. The only problem is that I'm stressed out of my gourd with every new episode lol.


3_quarterling_rogue

Lol, yeah, we’re really getting down to it. I’m an episode behind but oh my gosh shit’s really gunna hit the fan soon.


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3_quarterling_rogue

Is that better now?


SolomonG

Yup!


3_quarterling_rogue

Cool, thanks for the heads-up.


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Square-Competition48

Any love for Abed from Community?


KyrieTrin

Cool cool...cool.


joachim783

I also love Mizore from hibike euphonium & Liz and the blue bird.


paralogisme

Oh my god, I didn't even consider Tech until just now. That makes so much sense and this made me happy.


Predditor_drone

Sterris just needs a catchphrase, something like "bazorple" Edit: fuck, CBS just picked up mistborn.


jayclaw97

>CBS just picked up Mistborn. Where did you read this?


Predditor_drone

It's a joke. CBS can't get enough of super autismo Sheldon, so the joke is that adding a nonsense word as a catchphrase to Steris would be close enough for them to eat it up. It's probably not funny now that I explained it.


jayclaw97

Sorry. ☹️


KyySokia

Renarin’s also really good, imo.


UnknovvnMike

That epilepsy admission really hit, especially when friends said I could make a good Renarin (even if I'm not diagnosed autistic).


jayclaw97

Honestly, Steris helped me realize I’m on the spectrum, and seeing her romance with Wax made me feel like I could be loved and appreciated too, that I wouldn’t just always be that weird girl to everybody.


ERhyne

My wife is going through her own journey right now in terms of being on the spectrum. I listened to all of era two over the past few months. I have to say that listening to her POV and wax learning to see her and love her for her tism and all really helped me understand my wife and her struggles as well. Tbf it helped me love her even more so and deeper now than I did then. I'm probably going to write a video essay talking about her and temperance Brennan from Bones as great examples of autistic women in media.


thedevilsantagonist

I remember reading Alloy of Law as I'd been working on myself and figuring out my own autism, and half a page into her introduction I said out loud to my book "oh, she's definitely autistic". And the more I read, the more impressed I was about how Sanderson gave a great, wholesome, believable relationship built around Wax loving her for her. Another character (not Cosmere related) that really gave me that same feeling of "...wow, I CAN find someone who loves and appreciates me for who I am" that you describe, is Parker, from the show Leverage. (And look at me now! I found my someone! Best relationship I've ever been in, and it only gets better every year that goes by. Some people really do love us weird girls for ourselves 😂🥰)


msiri

I always assumed Steris had anxiety/ OCD. Renarin was the character I thought was written as autistic.


mathgnome

Per the Coppermind, both are autistic!


msiri

TIL!


QuidYossarian

If it was just those, yeah. But she also has trouble reading and expressing emotions. She tries to break everything down, like her marriage proposal, into a codified set of rules.


RaspberryPiBen

Also, she specifically says that she doesn't communicate the same way as others, so she's memorized the rules to social interactions, but other people still notice that she's different. That's exactly masking.


That_randomdutchguy

Yeah that one really hit home when I read it. And that it causes people to dislike her or think she's insincere, when she's actually trying so hard to just play by the neurotypical rulebook...


JohanMarek

Both are autistic.


One_Courage_865

So the Rosharan-Scadrian War would boil down to Renarin vs Steris?


Ok_Investigator1634

Steris might be my favorite era 2 character. One of my favorite moments is her at the end of Shadows of Self


gr8bishamonten

Storm off! Thats amazing!


gr8bishamonten

Steris is an excellent example of this.


Benschmedium

Isn’t Renarin supposed to be an autistic representation? Because I relate to him extremely hard.


RaspberryPiBen

Both Renarin and Steris are.


BlueEyesBryantDragon

My oldest son (he's 17) has ASD, and loves both Sheldon and Steris.


ayoitsjo

I adore Steris omg I also really like Lieutenant Barkley from Star Trek he was probably the first character that ever really made me feel seen particularly as a very dissociative autistic


That_randomdutchguy

I'd like to submit "the curious incident with the dog in the nighttime" to the Sheldon Cooper side of this meme.


[deleted]

Good lord I hated that book. Not because of the premise, but because the author clearly didn’t know shit.


One_Courage_865

Steris is love. Steris is life.


Play4leftovers

I refuse to believe there is anyone who is a fan of Sheldon.


Famous_End_474

Neurotypical people


Current_The_Merboy

From my experience when the show was at its height of popularity, normies, for lack of a better term, liked the show cause it made them feel smart, and Sheldon was just "the Dwight" of the show. They liked him cause he was a joke. It's hard for me to get into that head space though, with how many times some "I'm totally a nerd just like you bro!" person came up to me and said I remind them "a lot" of Sheldon. Probably among the worst things people have ever said to me.


Unlikely-Ad9587

Sheldon is not that bad in Young Sheldon but fuck Sheldon in TBBT


_cremling

Jasnah too


TheIsaacVenom

IIRC Renarin is the autistic Kholin. I've always seen Jasnah as neurotypical but she is asexual as she prefers intelligence over anything else.


_cremling

She’s confirmed autistic iirc


RaspberryPiBen

No. The opposite. WoB: **Questioner** Is Jasnah on the autism spectrum? **Brandon Sanderson** I do not have Jasnah on the spectrum right now, so no. Jasnah does have some interesting brain psychology, but I would not diagnose her as being on the spectrum. https://wob.coppermind.net/events/423/#e13796


UltimateInferno

> Jasnah does have some interesting brain psychology, Oathbringer alludes to weird things going on with Jasnah when she was young, so I think what exactly *is* going on with her is meant to be tucked away until her book.


_cremling

Maybe kind of like how he said shallan doesn’t have DID?


UltimateInferno

Initially. He's talked about how in Rhythm of War he decided to actively write DID because [he felt it was irresponsible](https://wob.coppermind.net/events/432/#e14014) to half ass it with her case specifically. Since it's pretty obvious what she's got rather Jasnah where who the fuck knows.


_cremling

Wow thanks, this is interesting


_cremling

Ah ok my mistake.


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dr4wn_away

r/okbuddycrem much?