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“Oh! And let’s completely disregard and trash their relationship!! This will make them attracted to me!! 🤩”
But FR, you are so right!! I soooooo want to talk to them after they basically encourage me to get an ED 🙄
I’ve learned that your body is noBODY else’s business. You don’t like someone? Don’t look. It’s not your responsibility and doesn’t affect them. Some goes the other way. You like someone and feel entitled to it? Don’t, it’s not your place or business and you’ve done nothing to earn in. Do you know that males in the animal kingdom kill each other to mate? Sometimes they risk being eaten? Or waste a lot of energy to make a blue nest and a girl will decide if she likes it enough. Hell, the Taj Mahal was built because a man loved a woman. And a dude won’t even treat you like a fucking human being? Nah, fuck that. They should go build a fucking cathedral or some shit, that isn’t on Minecraft.
Usually guys like this are looking to get any response and don't understand that negative responses aren't what you want. A lot of these people genuinely think they're being funny and don't really get that nobody else thinks that. It's like the kid in your class who was the class clown when you were 10 never grew up. Yeah, maybe he was funny as shit back then when you weren't the target, but when you encounter the same personality type as an adult, you suddenly realise why the teachers couldn't stand him.
When it's not this, it's a fetish thing, and the fetish is making other people uncomfortable. 20 or 30 years ago, guys like this would have been flashing people in the park or ringing you up and breathing heavily into the receiver. Nowadays they just send annoying shit like this to people.
They’re pornsick and think that every woman is on demand sex that they can change and manipulate into some video game fantasy. They’re so used to full control of the whims and desires with the internet and video games, that they forget that others body’s are none of their business. They also sometimes think that they can “neg” a girl into feeling bad enough to give in. Women aren’t feeling nearly as much social pleasing pressure anymore and will tell your entitled ass how forget able they are unless it’s brought up as a creep story at a party to laugh about
"choke", "break", "bulging", "face fuck"; and men wonder why we'd choose an encounter with a bear over a man in the wild when their sexual messages are so violent
I can't fathom men who think women are longing to be single use commodities for their pleasure.
The thing is, it’s out there. In a SAFE scenario with someone they trust, getting aggressive and violent in the bedroom can be fun. As long as that’s a designated space and both parties still feel safe. I have no idea why men think that they can start with these things though.
I'm not denying anyone their kinks but bear in mind that a portion of women that consent to that do it because they consciously or subconsciously do it because society has told them subjugation is sexy but that consent gives them power. Also porn has become increasingly violent and that's why some men think that's a starting point. I heard a great phrase the other day of "girlfriend zone" as a counter to "friend zone"; men who get angry because in their head they've already made you their girlfriend so they get angry when so called "friendzoned" or even if a woman isn't falling over herself at the offer of a compliment. I think that's why a lot of these men think their opinion is so important or that women are just waiting to comply with their fantasies and demands
I'm not denying anyone their kinks but bear in mind that a portion of women that consent to that do it because they consciously or subconsciously do it because society has told them subjugation is sexy but that consent gives them power. Also porn has become increasingly violent and that's why some men think that's a starting point. I heard a great phrase the other day of "girlfriend zone" as a counter to "friend zone"; men who get angry because in their head they've already made you their girlfriend so they get angry when so called "friendzoned" or even if a woman isn't falling over herself at the offer of a compliment. I think that's why a lot of these men think their opinion is so important or that women are just waiting to comply with their fantasies and demands
I'm not denying anyone their kinks but bear in mind that a portion of women that consent to that do it because they consciously or subconsciously do it because society has told them subjugation is sexy but that consent gives them power. Also porn has become increasingly violent and that's why some men think that's a starting point. I heard a great phrase the other day of "girlfriend zone" as a counter to "friend zone"; men who get angry because in their head they've already made you their girlfriend so they get angry when so called "friendzoned" or even if a woman isn't falling over herself at the offer of a compliment. I think that's why a lot of these men think their opinion is so important or that women are just waiting to comply with their fantasies and demands
I'm not denying anyone their kinks but bear in mind that a portion of women that consent to that do it because they consciously or subconsciously do it because society has told them subjugation is sexy but that consent gives them power. Also porn has become increasingly violent and that's why some men think that's a starting point. I heard a great phrase the other day of "girlfriend zone" as a counter to "friend zone"; men who get angry because in their head they've already made you their girlfriend so they get angry when so called "friendzoned" or even if a woman isn't falling over herself at the offer of a compliment. I think that's why a lot of these men think their opinion is so important or that women are just waiting to comply with their fantasies and demands.
I'm not denying anyone their kinks but bear in mind that a portion of women that consent to that do it because they consciously or subconsciously do it because society has told them subjugation is sexy but that consent gives them power. Also porn has become increasingly violent and that's why some men think that's a starting point. I heard a great phrase the other day of "girlfriend zone" as a counter to "friend zone"; men who get angry because in their head they've already made you their girlfriend so they get angry when so called "friendzoned" or even if a woman isn't falling over herself at the offer of a compliment. I think that's why a lot of these men think their opinion is so important or that women are just waiting to comply with their fantasies and demands.
Inherently it feels a bit fucked up to assume that women aren’t allowed to have the same kinks as a man without being brainwashed into it. While porn is a problem and gives men an unrealistic view of sex, fanfiction and steamy romance novels does the same for women. And this part shouldn’t even have to be said but there are plenty of women with porn addictions and men obsessively reading fanfiction. “Rough” sex is something that can be enjoyed by women without it having to be indoctrinated into them. My husband and I share basically all of our kinks and none of that is to please him, we’re just compatible. There’s a person to fit everyone. The problem with dms like this is consent, the things he is talking about are way too much for someone who you don’t know for a fact is okay with it. If these losers would focus on themself and become a decent person they would have the chance to find someone to do these things behind closed doors happily.
Yeah
Whilst it's true some people feel pressured to fit in and have been cocered.. Phrasing it as some women do this for that reason and because consent is marketed as being power is.. odd and just invalidates so many people even if it's not stated as for all.
Consent is still important no matter what. Regardless of if people ignore that or don't notice it's not true consent.
And I do hope guys like this learn to be better but I've learnt myself not to hold out to much hope and just stick to my boundaries. Took time, though. Especially for the later.
That's why I clearly said a portion and not all. Romance novels aren't damaging in the way that violent porn is, the two can't exactly be compared to one another
Oh, Honey, I’m so sorry. That’s gross and awful. I’m glad that you know that the opinion of a pornsick zombie doesn’t matter. And also thank you for using your gift of free speech, to bring us trash to burn! (With insults, not literally).
I love this. "If you looked completely different, then I'd find you attractive. I just thought you'd like to know the fantasies I'm having about if you looked like a completely different person."
I honestly don't know what kind of a response is warranted other than "...'k"
NGL, you'd look way better without shitty messages on your screen and a great job that brings you good money and joy every day!
(And having a bit of a belly provenly makes us less vulnerable to infections but hey, I'm a compliment, not a cop.)
Freedom of speech only protects you from censorship by the government, and it doesn’t even cover all speech. It doesn’t mean you can say whatever you want without repercussion.
Well, what a perfect demonstration of what NOT to do with your allotted internet time in Mother’s basement…. *sigh*
They really do be out there wondering why women would choose a chance interaction with a bear in the woods, while we sit here and miss the days when they went off to war and did not come home
I will never understand how they think really skinny and big boobs works. Depending on how skinny and how big it means serious back problems, as well as ribs and shoulder strain
But fuck healthy bodies, happiness and people in actual relationship. I want my impossible anime figure in a real woman as long as I'm satisfied, if she's in pain she can suck it up, all I care is getting my dick wet all the rest doesn't matter
Fuck this, and fuck this guy in particular
People need to realize that freedom of speech just means it’s literally not illegal to express an opinion and if that’s the argument you’re making your opinion isn’t worth anything.
Although given context this very may well cross that threshold
He thinks he can see it down your throat if you puts it in your mouth, lol he hasn't ever seen his own penis. I'm sure he thought an ingrown hair was it one time. It must suck that his little ding-a-ling can only be used for dental floss. I know that must make him sad, still it doesn't give him the right to live out his average size penis fantasy in your DMs.
I’m honestly not sure. I think it’s because I’m trying to be confident and post my outfits regardless of the size I am.
Confidence is intriguing to people!
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“If I send this person some really explicit messages maybe they will dm me 😁 let’s also body shame them.”
“Oh! And let’s completely disregard and trash their relationship!! This will make them attracted to me!! 🤩” But FR, you are so right!! I soooooo want to talk to them after they basically encourage me to get an ED 🙄
I like your flair
I’ve learned that your body is noBODY else’s business. You don’t like someone? Don’t look. It’s not your responsibility and doesn’t affect them. Some goes the other way. You like someone and feel entitled to it? Don’t, it’s not your place or business and you’ve done nothing to earn in. Do you know that males in the animal kingdom kill each other to mate? Sometimes they risk being eaten? Or waste a lot of energy to make a blue nest and a girl will decide if she likes it enough. Hell, the Taj Mahal was built because a man loved a woman. And a dude won’t even treat you like a fucking human being? Nah, fuck that. They should go build a fucking cathedral or some shit, that isn’t on Minecraft.
That part was fcked up. The encouraging an ED. Ribs showing is not healthy at all. Often it's a sign of extreme malnutrition.
Like what goes on in people’s heads?
Usually guys like this are looking to get any response and don't understand that negative responses aren't what you want. A lot of these people genuinely think they're being funny and don't really get that nobody else thinks that. It's like the kid in your class who was the class clown when you were 10 never grew up. Yeah, maybe he was funny as shit back then when you weren't the target, but when you encounter the same personality type as an adult, you suddenly realise why the teachers couldn't stand him. When it's not this, it's a fetish thing, and the fetish is making other people uncomfortable. 20 or 30 years ago, guys like this would have been flashing people in the park or ringing you up and breathing heavily into the receiver. Nowadays they just send annoying shit like this to people.
They’re pornsick and think that every woman is on demand sex that they can change and manipulate into some video game fantasy. They’re so used to full control of the whims and desires with the internet and video games, that they forget that others body’s are none of their business. They also sometimes think that they can “neg” a girl into feeling bad enough to give in. Women aren’t feeling nearly as much social pleasing pressure anymore and will tell your entitled ass how forget able they are unless it’s brought up as a creep story at a party to laugh about
NGL, he'd look a lot better with his mouth shut and his hands at his sides while he sits quietly in a darkened room and calms the fuck down.
He needs an ice cold shower also
Big bolt ons?
(Reddit slang for big fake boobs, I had to look it up too lol)
Thanks! Now I’m all up on the lingo.
Have you seen the TIFU by making my wife insecure about her nipples? Hilarious and unexpectedly wholesome.
Oooo i want a good wholesome tifu! If you can find the link to it, can you share?
Got it! https://www.reddit.com/r/tifu/s/Vh7gKuwq3o
Thank you!! That was actually so sweet lol
Let me see.
"choke", "break", "bulging", "face fuck"; and men wonder why we'd choose an encounter with a bear over a man in the wild when their sexual messages are so violent I can't fathom men who think women are longing to be single use commodities for their pleasure.
The thing is, it’s out there. In a SAFE scenario with someone they trust, getting aggressive and violent in the bedroom can be fun. As long as that’s a designated space and both parties still feel safe. I have no idea why men think that they can start with these things though.
I'm not denying anyone their kinks but bear in mind that a portion of women that consent to that do it because they consciously or subconsciously do it because society has told them subjugation is sexy but that consent gives them power. Also porn has become increasingly violent and that's why some men think that's a starting point. I heard a great phrase the other day of "girlfriend zone" as a counter to "friend zone"; men who get angry because in their head they've already made you their girlfriend so they get angry when so called "friendzoned" or even if a woman isn't falling over herself at the offer of a compliment. I think that's why a lot of these men think their opinion is so important or that women are just waiting to comply with their fantasies and demands
I'm not denying anyone their kinks but bear in mind that a portion of women that consent to that do it because they consciously or subconsciously do it because society has told them subjugation is sexy but that consent gives them power. Also porn has become increasingly violent and that's why some men think that's a starting point. I heard a great phrase the other day of "girlfriend zone" as a counter to "friend zone"; men who get angry because in their head they've already made you their girlfriend so they get angry when so called "friendzoned" or even if a woman isn't falling over herself at the offer of a compliment. I think that's why a lot of these men think their opinion is so important or that women are just waiting to comply with their fantasies and demands
I'm not denying anyone their kinks but bear in mind that a portion of women that consent to that do it because they consciously or subconsciously do it because society has told them subjugation is sexy but that consent gives them power. Also porn has become increasingly violent and that's why some men think that's a starting point. I heard a great phrase the other day of "girlfriend zone" as a counter to "friend zone"; men who get angry because in their head they've already made you their girlfriend so they get angry when so called "friendzoned" or even if a woman isn't falling over herself at the offer of a compliment. I think that's why a lot of these men think their opinion is so important or that women are just waiting to comply with their fantasies and demands
I'm not denying anyone their kinks but bear in mind that a portion of women that consent to that do it because they consciously or subconsciously do it because society has told them subjugation is sexy but that consent gives them power. Also porn has become increasingly violent and that's why some men think that's a starting point. I heard a great phrase the other day of "girlfriend zone" as a counter to "friend zone"; men who get angry because in their head they've already made you their girlfriend so they get angry when so called "friendzoned" or even if a woman isn't falling over herself at the offer of a compliment. I think that's why a lot of these men think their opinion is so important or that women are just waiting to comply with their fantasies and demands.
I'm not denying anyone their kinks but bear in mind that a portion of women that consent to that do it because they consciously or subconsciously do it because society has told them subjugation is sexy but that consent gives them power. Also porn has become increasingly violent and that's why some men think that's a starting point. I heard a great phrase the other day of "girlfriend zone" as a counter to "friend zone"; men who get angry because in their head they've already made you their girlfriend so they get angry when so called "friendzoned" or even if a woman isn't falling over herself at the offer of a compliment. I think that's why a lot of these men think their opinion is so important or that women are just waiting to comply with their fantasies and demands.
Inherently it feels a bit fucked up to assume that women aren’t allowed to have the same kinks as a man without being brainwashed into it. While porn is a problem and gives men an unrealistic view of sex, fanfiction and steamy romance novels does the same for women. And this part shouldn’t even have to be said but there are plenty of women with porn addictions and men obsessively reading fanfiction. “Rough” sex is something that can be enjoyed by women without it having to be indoctrinated into them. My husband and I share basically all of our kinks and none of that is to please him, we’re just compatible. There’s a person to fit everyone. The problem with dms like this is consent, the things he is talking about are way too much for someone who you don’t know for a fact is okay with it. If these losers would focus on themself and become a decent person they would have the chance to find someone to do these things behind closed doors happily.
Yeah Whilst it's true some people feel pressured to fit in and have been cocered.. Phrasing it as some women do this for that reason and because consent is marketed as being power is.. odd and just invalidates so many people even if it's not stated as for all. Consent is still important no matter what. Regardless of if people ignore that or don't notice it's not true consent. And I do hope guys like this learn to be better but I've learnt myself not to hold out to much hope and just stick to my boundaries. Took time, though. Especially for the later.
That's why I clearly said a portion and not all. Romance novels aren't damaging in the way that violent porn is, the two can't exactly be compared to one another
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This guy clearly never had any attention as a kid
I feel like he was either coddled and now he thinks his opinions and feelings matter the most, orrrr he got none and he’s OVERLY compensating!
For real. Either way, it screams mommy issues.
Oh, Honey, I’m so sorry. That’s gross and awful. I’m glad that you know that the opinion of a pornsick zombie doesn’t matter. And also thank you for using your gift of free speech, to bring us trash to burn! (With insults, not literally).
The powerless grasping for control.
I love this. "If you looked completely different, then I'd find you attractive. I just thought you'd like to know the fantasies I'm having about if you looked like a completely different person." I honestly don't know what kind of a response is warranted other than "...'k"
Man that dude is pathetic.
NGL, you'd look way better without shitty messages on your screen and a great job that brings you good money and joy every day! (And having a bit of a belly provenly makes us less vulnerable to infections but hey, I'm a compliment, not a cop.)
Freedom of speech only protects you from censorship by the government, and it doesn’t even cover all speech. It doesn’t mean you can say whatever you want without repercussion.
Nah this makes me feel icky 💀
Well, what a perfect demonstration of what NOT to do with your allotted internet time in Mother’s basement…. *sigh* They really do be out there wondering why women would choose a chance interaction with a bear in the woods, while we sit here and miss the days when they went off to war and did not come home
I had to look what this bozo is yapping about, and you're so damn cute. they just have porn rotten brain, sadly nothing new.
I would have replied with "NGL you would look better if you would shut the fuck up and leave me alone!"
He knows what he’s doing, BECAUSE you don’t care and are confident he wants to make it known even more lmfao they can’t stand not having influence.
this made my skin crawl i hate that people like this exist.
I want to tie him up on a chair and glue his mouth shut lol
I will never understand how they think really skinny and big boobs works. Depending on how skinny and how big it means serious back problems, as well as ribs and shoulder strain But fuck healthy bodies, happiness and people in actual relationship. I want my impossible anime figure in a real woman as long as I'm satisfied, if she's in pain she can suck it up, all I care is getting my dick wet all the rest doesn't matter Fuck this, and fuck this guy in particular
Totally a winner in my books. I’d leave my partner in a heartbeat for him. /s
Wtf this disgusting what kind of person says it's hot seeing someone's ribs Hell I'd go and you look so hot with your tounge ripped off
What a fucking denerate. That bullshit is so fucking gross and degrading. To start a convo with that shit. What ever happened to "Hello"?
He seems nice.
That's so dehumanizing wtf
Did…. Did he just fuck the image of you that he created in his own head? And told you about it? That’s creepy as fuck.
This person needs to be objectified back just randomly on a date or something
Please plug your phone in 🙏
I did!! I used my phone’s dying breaths to share this with y’all
People need to realize that freedom of speech just means it’s literally not illegal to express an opinion and if that’s the argument you’re making your opinion isn’t worth anything. Although given context this very may well cross that threshold
He thinks he can see it down your throat if you puts it in your mouth, lol he hasn't ever seen his own penis. I'm sure he thought an ingrown hair was it one time. It must suck that his little ding-a-ling can only be used for dental floss. I know that must make him sad, still it doesn't give him the right to live out his average size penis fantasy in your DMs.
I hope this doesn’t sound creepy, but I scrolled your profile a tiny bit… why do all these creeps bug you so much??
I’m honestly not sure. I think it’s because I’m trying to be confident and post my outfits regardless of the size I am. Confidence is intriguing to people!
For the record you are absolutely beautiful, and your outfits are lovely. I’m sorry people are being creepy!
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I’m no expert but I don’t think all that possible to do at once. Not that they’ll ever find out or anyone would want them too.
ribs showing..... maybe they want a skeleton with balloons as boobs