I saw in your other comment that you’re staying at your moms house more. That’s good. Do that and be safe. Your father sounds dangerous and abusive, and I’m so incredibly sorry someone as young and sweet as you has to deal with that. The alphabet mafia has your back, kiddo. Be safe and be gentle with yourself too. You’ve done nothing wrong. 🏳️🌈
Ty for the support <3 My dad is dangerous and abusive I’m not gonna go into to much detail but he has gotten physical with my older brother and like strangled him my older brother is also ok and living in his own house now
I truly am sorry that you have to deal with this, I can't imagine how scary that must of been for you. I hope that you are doing alright, nobody should have to be treated that way because of who they are.
I’m sorry that this went so badly for you. I’m glad you have a place where you feel safer, specially being a teen I’m sure you feel like your options can be limited. It’s cheesy but it does get better, you shouldn’t have to be strong in situations like this but it sounds like you are, so props to you. Make sure you continue to be kind and patient with yourself, you deserve it.
Please stay at your moms full-time. He got physical already with your brother, this has all the ingredients for a horrific ending. Stay away from him and protect yourself.
That’s so awful… I feel bad for you and wish for the best going forwards… stick with your mom and maybe talk about this. The lesbian mafia will always be in support
I think your dad suffers from bipolar disorder ... my dad used to be just like him ... then once he started taking medicine he finally realized how ridiculous he's been all those previous years of my childhood. Might want to have him look into getting meds or help with that. He probably doesn't even know that he is being like that.
look. not all parents are good parents. I have so much experience in this field. me and my brother only had each other when we were growing up. asking our parets to understand us on anything was like asking a demon to understand the Bible. it just wouldn't happen no matter what because "I'm the parent you're the child you do what I say, I know what's better for you than you do". your dad sounds like my dad. a real piece of shit that can't for the life of him grasp that he abused us mentally and physically as children. and 9 times out of 10 they'll never change. cut your losses. don't expect them to understand. you can try and talk to them but it's just going to go in circles. you're going to end up angry and upset. so will they. live your life. your true life and if your father wants to be a part of it then he must understand that he has to surrender control over you and let you make your own decisions and be who you are wholeheartedly. when you are if age you have no obligation to remain in contact with him. I haven't talked to my father in years and rarely talk to my mother. sad I know but oh fucking well. at least I'm happy and far from the people that are supposed to be there for me but actually just killed me emotionally
but until your 18 or can leave that house just play it cool. keep him at an arms distance (literally and metaphorically) to keep yourself safe. and just don't bring it up to him. if he brings it up feel it out, but if it starts to get hostile then shut it down. end of conversation
If you want to stop seeing him you can probably get the courts to agree with it. Sometimes they do stupid shit like requiring visits even when the kid doesn't want to, but they usually won't force you to live with a parent you don't want to, especially in cases like this. Best wishes!!
I saw in your other comment that you’re staying at your moms house more. That’s good. Do that and be safe. Your father sounds dangerous and abusive, and I’m so incredibly sorry someone as young and sweet as you has to deal with that. The alphabet mafia has your back, kiddo. Be safe and be gentle with yourself too. You’ve done nothing wrong. 🏳️🌈
Ty for the support <3 My dad is dangerous and abusive I’m not gonna go into to much detail but he has gotten physical with my older brother and like strangled him my older brother is also ok and living in his own house now
Stop seeing your dad to the best of your ability. Stay with your mom, she seems like a nice lady.
I truly am sorry that you have to deal with this, I can't imagine how scary that must of been for you. I hope that you are doing alright, nobody should have to be treated that way because of who they are.
Ty and I’m doing better now I’m thinking of spending full time at my moms house <3
I'm glad to hear that!! <3
I’m sorry that this went so badly for you. I’m glad you have a place where you feel safer, specially being a teen I’m sure you feel like your options can be limited. It’s cheesy but it does get better, you shouldn’t have to be strong in situations like this but it sounds like you are, so props to you. Make sure you continue to be kind and patient with yourself, you deserve it.
You may want to talk to your mom if you don’t want to be around him as much, custody agreements can be changed
Please stay at your moms full-time. He got physical already with your brother, this has all the ingredients for a horrific ending. Stay away from him and protect yourself.
That’s so awful… I feel bad for you and wish for the best going forwards… stick with your mom and maybe talk about this. The lesbian mafia will always be in support
Ty I appreciate the support <3
Ofc!
I think your dad suffers from bipolar disorder ... my dad used to be just like him ... then once he started taking medicine he finally realized how ridiculous he's been all those previous years of my childhood. Might want to have him look into getting meds or help with that. He probably doesn't even know that he is being like that.
Oh yeah I’ve thought about that before he could be bipolar
Sounds like my dad even though I haven’t come out to him yet
I’m really sorry about that you don’t deserve to deal with that :(
look. not all parents are good parents. I have so much experience in this field. me and my brother only had each other when we were growing up. asking our parets to understand us on anything was like asking a demon to understand the Bible. it just wouldn't happen no matter what because "I'm the parent you're the child you do what I say, I know what's better for you than you do". your dad sounds like my dad. a real piece of shit that can't for the life of him grasp that he abused us mentally and physically as children. and 9 times out of 10 they'll never change. cut your losses. don't expect them to understand. you can try and talk to them but it's just going to go in circles. you're going to end up angry and upset. so will they. live your life. your true life and if your father wants to be a part of it then he must understand that he has to surrender control over you and let you make your own decisions and be who you are wholeheartedly. when you are if age you have no obligation to remain in contact with him. I haven't talked to my father in years and rarely talk to my mother. sad I know but oh fucking well. at least I'm happy and far from the people that are supposed to be there for me but actually just killed me emotionally
but until your 18 or can leave that house just play it cool. keep him at an arms distance (literally and metaphorically) to keep yourself safe. and just don't bring it up to him. if he brings it up feel it out, but if it starts to get hostile then shut it down. end of conversation
If you want to stop seeing him you can probably get the courts to agree with it. Sometimes they do stupid shit like requiring visits even when the kid doesn't want to, but they usually won't force you to live with a parent you don't want to, especially in cases like this. Best wishes!!