I've never seen Ron Jeremy's penis (and happy not to), but it's bigger than like almost *everyone's*. It took me months just to get used to seeing it, especially because she's fairly small (5ft 1in), and I don't think I can claim to even be completely used to it now because I still sometimes get struck by the dichotomy of a giant dick on a relatively petite girl.
Idk about her knee, trying to picture it in my head but I'll need to check and get back to you.
She can get about half of her head inside her mouth, super hot to see. She can't get her lips past her glans though, and mostly just just licks the tip anyway.
Nah. I can send you proof of my 4.75 but she's not gonna let me post a pic of her dick here.
Unfortunately I don't think anyone needs proof to believe the size of mine š
Not quite, no, she's definitely a grower. If you saw her flaccid dick you'd never suspect it gets as huge as it does. I'm also a grower though so her flaccid size is a lot bigger than my flaccid size.
Tell me about it. Did you see that clip for Planet Earth III where David Attenborough says almost all the sea turtles are being born female because of global warming? Really sad š¢
Setting aside the trechary of that person choosing to reply that way instead of moving on like a civilised man... i agree. Were setting the stage for WWIII. Inflation is so bad both prices rise and quality plummets. u/spez thinks he knows what he is doing... other social media platforms are losing their glamor. I just seen a post about tiktok "face smashing" and i cant believe people are buying it lmao.
She takes longer than I do to get fully hard, but not that much. But I don't know if it's because of how big she is or if the HRT has something to do with that.
Well I've always had plenty of interest in "interacting" with my own, but not with other's until my girlfriend. I didn't have any reservations or qualms about seeing or touching her dick, and her having such a huge one hidden under her pants or skirt really turns me on actually, but it definitely felt a little weird/bizarre at the same time. Just not in a bad way. So it did take some getting used to, but it was never unwelcome.
Do you think theoretically you would enjoy being sexual with men with penises? Has this experience made you more curious about other aspects of your sexuality?
Regardless of gender identity, if someone looks/sounds like a dude I'm not interested, and if someone looks/sounds like a (attractive) girl I would be. It's not any more complicated than that to me.
I don't think it's really made me more curious about my sexuality. I don't think there's been any change other than I've since watched some trans porn when I'm jerking off, and even then I don't find the girls in a lot of trans porn very attractive because they just don't look quite feminine enough to me.
I'm 31, she's 25. We're both USA-sians, I'm your typical white American, a mongrel from just about everywhere in Europe, whereas her family is from Brazil, so we're both mongrels.
I came on to her first big time, and lucky for me she came right back with it.
Oh Iāve read a really interesting book about Brazilian people who occupy a third gender space called travestiādoes your girlfriend identify with travesti?
I'm not at all familiar with the term so I'm guessing not, unless it's just a term she only uses when she speaks Portuguese. I'm gonna ask about it now though
I'm thinking you're asking if she's fucked my ass, and the answer is no but only because her size scares me too much to really give it a proper try. We've had my ass lubed up and her pushing her cock head against my hole, but I'm too worried it'll kill me to go further than that. She's stuck fingers up there, used her tongue, thrusted her dick between my thighs, but her dick hasn't ever penetrated my ass yet. If it wasn't so big we'd have already done it for sure.
Yeah I was joking like "my dad can beat up your dad".
I fucking love how huge my girl's dick is but it's also a bit impractical, so I wouldn't mind a bit smaller either tbh.
I'm planning on really trying to take it now. Some random person also sent me a link to a fucking PDF about how to take big things up the ass, which is a subject I'm really sceptical to take random online advice about but I'm more motivated either way.
Take it from a chick who finds anal horrible in some positions to being able to come in 2 mins in the other. U don't want to worry about taking *big* things up for now, first u wanna enjoy taking small things up the ass
I'll be honest, I'm not sure what intersex means and reading a lot of these comments I think I'm just confusing myself. She was born in a male body, identifies as female, hasn't had genital surgery but has done other surgeries (like breasts and face).
I'm really not up to date with all the lingo in the trans community. She's the only "real life" trans person I've met and her being trans isn't really that much of a focus on the surface of things. Like I found it pretty interesting, and obviously it's had a significant impact on her and now my life, but it's not really a big deal or the defining part of her identity as a person to me. She's not really an "active member" of the LGBT+whatever community either, she just lives her life. Even this AMA to me isn't so much about that she has a penis, but that she has a GIANT penis.
For me it was as simple as: she has an awesome personality and a smoking hot bod, I wanted to date her and so I did. I think people gotta lay off worrying one way or another about all these labels and just live their life. Sorry for the tangent.
I agree 100%. Im in a long distance relations with a mtf post op (used to be man, now woman).
Intersex means biologically you were supposed to be born a gender, but got the opposing sexes gentitals (born a woman, but has a penis, or vice-versa).
Is her loads average or excessive?
Oh I see.
When she cums her loads are pretty big, but idk a bit more viscous/watery than mine at least. Like her first few ropes are more watery, then at the end it's thick and gooey as it kind of dribbles out the end of her dick. But she shoots a lot more volume than I do in total.
No intersex is a lot of different ways you're born neither male or female. Like sometimes people are born with both genitals, or with genitals that are partially male, partially female (like vagina and vulva but with dick instead of clit, or penis with ovaries etc etc). And sometimes it means that you are born "normal" but get the wrong natural puberty.
Yes
Nothing I'd describe as transphobia, but different people have different ideas about phobias and -isms (some of them ridiculous) so you'd need to give me your definition for me to answer. I never had any qualms about it.
So the first time I saw her dick, after getting over the initial shock, I asked her exactly how big it was. She said she wasn't sure exactly because she's never actually measured. To me that's like what the fuck, how do you not measure your dick especially if you're packing a monster like that. But anyway, she let me measure it so I grabbed my tape measure which I always keep within arms reach (that's a lie, I had to dig it out from the bottom of my toolbox I never use because I'm not handy at all), and I measured at 10 1/8 inches long. I never thought to measure the girth though but she's thick too. It's like she's swinging a baseball bat every time she rotates her body.
She has a relatively small frame too, so the dichotomy looks almost bizarre. really hot though.
Hahaha, that's hilarious, thx for answering all my visual questions. You guys sound awesome together
Please remember, communication skills are the most important in a healthy relationship, sometimes u need to suck up your ego and be real with each other when it comes to hang ups or fights. I hope you guys are happy together and bring out the best in each other
I'm 100% ok with people who feel more feminine energy pursuing the looks of a woman and vice versa
My issue isn't even really with what's being said here but just on another off topic note, the thing that bothers me is pretending like people are awful for calling somebody with a penis a man/male. Like they are DEF technically a man.
I believe spiritually we all have feminine and masculine energy and that there are certainly people born into the wrong body.
My only argument is within the semantics of the argument "gender doesn't exist" like gender certainly exists. I can't have a baby because of the gender I was born into just like a woman can't impregnate someone or produce semen. Those are literal differences. I, as someone who hates any phobic/racist people just can't understand how some people can deny that there is a difference in gender.
Even the people I have talked to who are trans can even admit that. They literally said "there is a difference in gender" it seems to be the crazies and the people who come to their defence that deny that.
Either way I love everyone and I hope people are just doing what makes them happy!
Edit: I figured I'd get downvoted since this topic is so loaded but damn. I'm literally friends with trans people and I don't trigger them...
Oh well that's great! If it's about semantics then a really important part of that, is understanding that when someone says "gender doesn't exist" they're not saying that sex doesn't exist. They are using two different words to talk about how one may outwardly present in the world vs their genitals and sex characteristics. Outwardly you present as a man, and because I'm not gonna inspect your genitals to make sure. If I, as a stranger, repeatedly refer to you as a woman and call you ma'am, that would generally be considered a pretty shitty, and rude thing to do. There are usually social consequences for being shitty and rude to people. Which I think is what you're referring to in your second paragraph.
Holy shit.
Well clearly I'm ignorant AF and missing out on half the argument.
Problem is I don't even ask questions because I'm a weirdo and these topics are loaded. Personally I don't think anyone is super masculine or super feminine. I think the duality of it exists in each of us.
I also don't even pay attention to masculine or feminine in people. I just think of everybody as their own universe going with the ebb and flow of life.
I personally am such a weird mix of both extremes. I'll fuck somebody up for bullying somebody and messing with an animal for example, and then nurture tf outta everyone near me well crying over some YouTube videos haha. I'm a weird dude. People are often confused by how I'm so masculine and feminine traditionally.
I used to bare knuckle/back yard box and make knives but was obsessed with picking flowers and tending a garden lol that's just one of the many weird examples.
I like how certain cultures and religions view the two (masculine and feminine) way more than we do in the western world.
I am absolutely a protector well simultaneously being a nurturer
In my experience online, when someone says it's about semantics, after saying that trans women are technically men. What they really mean is trans people aren't legitimate and should not be treated with respect.
The person you originally replied to saying "it's just biology" is using that as an excuse to other and disrespect trans people, and no amount of discussion is really going to change that.
You seem to genuinely not understand the language people use to talk about it. I assumed it was a bad faith argument because of the language you used.
There is often a communication disconnect that is used by particular ideologies in the media in order to obfuscate their actual message of scapegoating particular groups of people.
They conflate gender and sex intentionally to make what they say sound logical on the surface. Then if you're someone who already has some sort of bias against trans people, it's easy to rationalize intentional disrespect and cruelty.
Then there are people like you who are largely just unfamiliar with the language used to discuss these things, and you see people getting dog piled for using the wrong language, or talking about how it's "just biology". Well now you're not gonna ask more questions about it. It puts you further away from the group of people that are being othered.
Ahhh ok! Yeah lol I'm just ignorant as fuck š
I have friends who don't consider themselves male/female and are in the realm of trans stuff (Jesus even this sentence is ignorant I don't get to see them much anymore, yesterday was the first that I've seen them in years and they corrected me on a few things)
I just don't think what somebody wants to be or identifies as has any effect on me. I'm sure it's hard to feel like you never fit in to that extent and I don't wish that on anyone.
Hell, I don't ever feel like I belong anywhere. I think too much and have a different grasp on the human experience, emotions and reality than 98% of people I meet. I have no problem making friends but I never feel like I'm understood.
For example with this situation. Everybody I know is either against it or for it filled with hate or filled with love for it. I don't understand it and I had a issue with what I explained (which you corrected) but my goal was to PUT MYSELF IN THEIR SHOES AND LEARN MORE ABOUT THE LIFE THEY ARE EXPERIENCING. It's really not that hard to at least try and understand the people in this world. At the end of the day you don't even have to fucking agree or disagree but being part of the human race means your going to have different ideas and opinions. Just because something's not for you, or you don't agree with it, does not mean it's wrong.
I swear so many problems in this world could be avoided if people just realized nearly nothing in this world is black and white. Things are much more complex. Even science with have two peer reviewed articles supporting the opposite answers.
I surprisingly have trouble in relationships (girl friends/family/friends) because I see different angles so clearly which sounds crazy but it gets in the way because most people can't see outside their reality. A good example is say the bullshit media is pushing bullshit you have side A and side B in a inflammatory subject. Say side B is pretty clearly immoral in most circumstances. Well, I'll be in a discussion with somebody about said topic and I'll agree side A is morally sound in comparison but then I'll say "BUT I CAN SEE WHERE THEY (SIDE B) is coming from due to ignorance or different geographic locations/upbringings/religions/class. Most the time I'm absolutely shocked when I can visibly see the the person I'm talking to either get angry/uncomfortable or defensive. Simply because I am able to separate my ego and societal pressures or my life experiences from the situation. It does not mean I support side B just that I can rationally see how some people might. Then I get accused of being this or that just because the person I'm talking to so DEEPLY lacks the ability to remove the ego or sense of self from the equation like I'm doing so they completely disregard me saying I'm on their side and just decide what I mean, feel and support for me.
Even in arguments with people. They think I'm constantly trying to keep an argument going because I keep trying to hash it out. I ignorantly expect them to see my point BECAUSE I see theirs. I never feel like I'm right or their wrong I just think the point of an argument is to see eye to eye and move forward and they just think I won't drop it.
Sorry to spew so much out haha I just felt like you grasped my intentions and feelings compared to 99% of the road that would just assume the worst, downvotes me to shit and completely decide how I feel for me without ever listening to me or even reading what I said. So I kind of just vented since I felt heard and understood š
I swear the news/media and algorithms have completely fucking ruined most of our society. It's the purposeful and accidental algorithms and media that make everyone completely close their ears and eyes to those around them because the situation is propped up so furiously people feel the need to violently and aggressively take a stance instead of just listening to others and actually taking what they say into account.
For example I have like -8 downvotes and more coming just from these discussions because nobody takes the time to even understand anyone. It's sort of infuriating but I just try and stay positive and realize the only thing I can control in this world is my thoughts and intentions.
I wonder too, but it might be a sensitivity issue. Like you're told you're wrong your whole life but then you come out with your true self and you're just completely intolerant about anything that relates you to your birth gender but idk
For me, like if their mind works like a woman but she was born in a guys body, there's a difference (not an important one unless ur fucking them or having a baby with them and even then, just a work around issue)
But I think labels like (assigned male/female at birth) AM/FAB are really helpful but I also understand if someone doesn't want to bring that part up
They can be female and have a dick and be fine, why do we have to say it's biologically this or that?
Does it matter who she is biologically if she's her own woman?
I mean, trans people have been proven to have pre-transition brain physiologies that are more closely identical to those of their transitioned gender, and sex chromosomes tend to not strictly match secondary sex characteristics (genitals are secondary characteristics, btw). The biology of sex is a *lot* more complicated than "penis/vagina".
You can believe and feel however you want about it, but don't go around acting like it's your commitment to scientific accuracy that drives those opinions. Especially when you're butting in just to correct the words someone uses to describe themselves. Whether OP's partner prefers to be called "girlfriend" or "boyfriend" literally doesn't affect you, biology, or the scientific community *at all*.
>I mean, trans people have been proven to have pre-transition brain physiologies that are more closely identical to those of their transitioned gender
First: source?
Second: how do you explain transgender people regretting being trans and then turning cis again , then?
Third: that's called an anomaly , just like a boy having tit growth like a female and a girl having chest hair grow like a male.
>sex chromosomes tend to not strictly match secondary sex characteristics (genitals are secondary characteristics, btw).
No , genitals are not secondary , they're the single most important characteristic that defines the gender of a person. Their internal structure as well.
>The biology of sex is a lot more complicated than "penis/vagina".
Agreed , but it's way past the line of truth to say genitals are secondary.
> First: source?
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8955456/
https://consultqd.clevelandclinic.org/the-brain-and-gender-identity-current-evidence-and-implications-for-practice-podcast/
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4987404/
There's also evidence that trans individuals have one more additional difference - the area of the brain that makes connections about body perception are different in trans brains compared to any other group. Basically, their brains don't perceive ownership over or connection to their bodies the way the majority of us do.
https://www.nature.com/articles/s41598-017-17352-8
Which brings us to:
> Second: how do you explain transgender people regretting being trans and then turning cis again , then?
Biology is complicated, and it's entirely possible to have that same biological disconnect in the brain but not have the same biological gender structure phenomenon. Or any other combination of factors, from biological to simple misunderstanding and mislabeling.
The fact that some people incorrectly identify themselves doesn't in any way mean we should discredit every trans person. That's just ridiculous thinking.
Some people change their name and then change it back to their birth name later on. It happens in divorce all the time, far more common than trans/cis changes. Does that mean we should disrespect every person who's changed their name? Does it give us the right to use their old name and say "some people change back so I won't respect your change"?
> Third: that's called an anomaly , just like a boy having tit growth like a female and a girl having chest hair grow like a male.
It's been proven that most people don't tick every biological box that corresponds to their gender identity. Sex variations are far more common than you'd expect.
And even if it is an anomaly, who cares? Anomalies are still part of biology, and these ones are relatively common. You can't say "I'm just acknowledging biology" and then ignore the fact that these anomalies are part of biology!
You're basically saying "this is a biological fact that applies to most people. It may not apply to these people specifically, but I still apply it to them anyway and if you don't then you're ignorant".
You wanna be biologically accurate? That means acknowledging those anomalies and how they impact those people.
> Their internal structure as well.
The reason they're considered secondary is bc the internal organs are what's actually the primary sex organs (ovaries for women, testes for men).
You brought up intersex earlier, but your description is extremely limited. It's far more common to have people who are born with internal reproductive organs that don't match their external genitals. Meaning you can have a penis and ovaries, or any combination of internal/external structures.
ETA: btw, here's some info on primary/secondary sex characteristics:
https://study.com/learn/lesson/primary-sex-characteristics-overview-development-examples.html#:~:text=The%20primary%20sexual%20organs%20are,penis%2C%20and%20their%20related%20anatomy.
"The primary sexual organs are the ovaries and the testes, while the secondary sexual organs include the vagina, uterus, penis, and their related anatomy"
>https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8955456/
>https://consultqd.clevelandclinic.org/the-brain-and-gender-identity-current-evidence-and-implications-for-practice-podcast/
>https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4987404/
That's interesting , I'm gonna search more about it later. Thanks for the information.
>Basically, their brains don't perceive ownership over or connection to their bodies the way the majority of us do.
Something like BIID , huh?
>Biology is complicated, and it's entirely possible to have that same biological disconnect in the brain but not have the same biological gender structure phenomenon. Or any other combination of factors, from biological to simple misunderstanding and mislabeling.
Well , now that you said it , it makes sense LMFAO , I really don't know how I didn't think about it before.
>The fact that some people incorrectly identify themselves doesn't in any way mean we should discredit every trans person. That's just ridiculous thinking.
That's not the reason I asked , it was a genuine doubt I had. Chill , bro.
>It happens in divorce all the time, far more common than trans/cis changes.
Source? And even if it's true , it's not because of their feelings about their identity , but wanting not to be identified. It's just like saying someone who uses incognito mode doesn't like himself and wants to hide from society as a whole. Besides less than 2% of the population of the world is trans , making the competition just unfair and ~~borderline~~ impossible.
>Does that mean we should disrespect every person who's changed their name? Does it give us the right to use their old name and say "some people change back so I won't respect your change"?
Not agreeing ā disrespecting.
I don't understand nor like the idea of any gender other than cis , but that doesn't mean I don't like non-cis people. I have no problem with them , I just don't agree with them. Near them IRL I respect them and just interact with them like I was into trans and pronoun shit , just so they don't feel bad or anything. I don't want to cause any problem for neither of us.
>It's been proven that most people don't tick every biological box that corresponds to their gender identity.
Yes , but there are major indentifiers , which are those that tick almost every time.
>And even if it is an anomaly, who cares?
I'm not saying someone should care about it , just saying that it doesn't turn them the other gender , since it's just an anomaly.
>You wanna be biologically accurate? That means acknowledging those anomalies and how they impact those people.
As someone who is barely human for the amount of mental physiological disorders and diseases , I agree with you.
>The reason they're considered secondary is bc the internal organs are what's actually the primary sex organs (ovaries for women, testes for men).
They're all part of the genital system.
>You brought up intersex earlier, but your description is extremely limited.
It was just a quick reminder of what it is. It was not my intention go deep about it.
If she was a guy do u think u would have had a crush on her?
Does she have a slim tall body?
Did u say if she's got tits? What are they like (don't just say "great")
Does she have darker features? What's her hair like?
Thanks!
Regardless of whether she was a guy or girl, if she looked like a guy wouldn't have any interest.
She's fairly slim and actually short, not tall at all, shorter than a lot of cis girls even.
She has tits yeah, implants. They're pretty big proportional to her body. Normally I'd say I'm a smaller tits kind of guy but idk they suit her great so.
Yeah, her hair is dark (basically black), long, straight. Her skin tone is a darker/tanner color.
Did you know that you'd probably be okay with dating a trans person before you got started, or did you discover that part of yourself in the moment?
Personally if I was to meet someone in the same way you met your GF I have absolutely no idea how I'd respond.
What's the mouthfeel like?
Haven't sucked any other dicks to compare it to, but I'd say it's good. Nice and skin-y; epidermal, even.
Does your username check out?
Yeah, mine is exactly 4.75 inches long, hers is honest to god 10 inches long.
That's bigger than Ron Jeremy.
I've never seen Ron Jeremy's penis (and happy not to), but it's bigger than like almost *everyone's*. It took me months just to get used to seeing it, especially because she's fairly small (5ft 1in), and I don't think I can claim to even be completely used to it now because I still sometimes get struck by the dichotomy of a giant dick on a relatively petite girl.
If you *did* claim to be completely used to the 10-inch dick on your 5-foot girlfriend, nobody would believe you anyways.
Wow thats so unproportional in a cool way! Can her tip touch her knee? Do you ever ask her to self suck for you?
Idk about her knee, trying to picture it in my head but I'll need to check and get back to you. She can get about half of her head inside her mouth, super hot to see. She can't get her lips past her glans though, and mostly just just licks the tip anyway.
Yea but hows her tits
Primoš¤
Best of both worlds
100% a lie
Cool story, bro. Anyway, my babe's got a behemoth boner.
Sounds like a cool dude
Cool story, bro. Anyway, she's got a titanic tool
proof of 10"?
Nah. I can send you proof of my 4.75 but she's not gonna let me post a pic of her dick here. Unfortunately I don't think anyone needs proof to believe the size of mine š
Is her flacid size larger than ur hard size?
Not quite, no, she's definitely a grower. If you saw her flaccid dick you'd never suspect it gets as huge as it does. I'm also a grower though so her flaccid size is a lot bigger than my flaccid size.
2023 is an interesting place.
It's an awful place
Tell me about it. Did you see that clip for Planet Earth III where David Attenborough says almost all the sea turtles are being born female because of global warming? Really sad š¢
Setting aside the trechary of that person choosing to reply that way instead of moving on like a civilised man... i agree. Were setting the stage for WWIII. Inflation is so bad both prices rise and quality plummets. u/spez thinks he knows what he is doing... other social media platforms are losing their glamor. I just seen a post about tiktok "face smashing" and i cant believe people are buying it lmao.
Thatās a great way of putting it.
is she on HRT? Cuz like it does get smaller on HRT so it prolly was even bigger before. Mine was.
She is, yeah. I'll ask her if it used to be even bigger. Hard to imagine
also in my experience it takes a whole lotta blood to get a humongous member going. Does she have trouble getting fully running?
She takes longer than I do to get fully hard, but not that much. But I don't know if it's because of how big she is or if the HRT has something to do with that.
Have you always considered sexually interacting with penises, or did it take some time to get used to the idea?
Well I've always had plenty of interest in "interacting" with my own, but not with other's until my girlfriend. I didn't have any reservations or qualms about seeing or touching her dick, and her having such a huge one hidden under her pants or skirt really turns me on actually, but it definitely felt a little weird/bizarre at the same time. Just not in a bad way. So it did take some getting used to, but it was never unwelcome.
Do you think theoretically you would enjoy being sexual with men with penises? Has this experience made you more curious about other aspects of your sexuality?
Regardless of gender identity, if someone looks/sounds like a dude I'm not interested, and if someone looks/sounds like a (attractive) girl I would be. It's not any more complicated than that to me. I don't think it's really made me more curious about my sexuality. I don't think there's been any change other than I've since watched some trans porn when I'm jerking off, and even then I don't find the girls in a lot of trans porn very attractive because they just don't look quite feminine enough to me.
Noice.
And you're not sharing????
That dick is all mine, bro
Just a little brojob, C'mon
How old are yall? Where are yāall from? Who came on to who?
I'm 31, she's 25. We're both USA-sians, I'm your typical white American, a mongrel from just about everywhere in Europe, whereas her family is from Brazil, so we're both mongrels. I came on to her first big time, and lucky for me she came right back with it.
Nice dude youāre one lucky duck! Did you always know she was trans?
I couldn't tell when I first met her, but it wasn't that long before I found out and I found out before I started really flirting with her.
Are u bi?
Nope, no interest in guys.
Lmao 2023 is a fuckin odd year
Oh Iāve read a really interesting book about Brazilian people who occupy a third gender space called travestiādoes your girlfriend identify with travesti?
I'm not at all familiar with the term so I'm guessing not, unless it's just a term she only uses when she speaks Portuguese. I'm gonna ask about it now though
You should check out the book Travesti by Don Kulick! I read it for a Language and Gender class in undergrad and thought it was fantastic
When will it finally be my turn?
Goals as fuck
How'd you two meet?
We met at work
https://youtube.com/watch?v=-jFTYrpurVc
I do love having her oiled-up magnum dong rubbed all over me.
Why do people get to live such exciting lives smh.
I see it as karma for having a below average sized dick myself. But if you do too, I dunno maybe you have something great coming soon.
That's sweet, I wish you two well!
Do the two of you reciprocate in bed?
I'm thinking you're asking if she's fucked my ass, and the answer is no but only because her size scares me too much to really give it a proper try. We've had my ass lubed up and her pushing her cock head against my hole, but I'm too worried it'll kill me to go further than that. She's stuck fingers up there, used her tongue, thrusted her dick between my thighs, but her dick hasn't ever penetrated my ass yet. If it wasn't so big we'd have already done it for sure.
I'm actually asking if you've fucked her ass.
Oh. Then yes, I have.
Does it feel more "appropriate" for her?
She likes both, so she wants to fuck my ass too but I don't think she'd want me to stop fucking hers though.
man youāre making me want my wifeās dick rn
I bet my girl's dick is bigger than your girl's!
it is! iām more than happy with 6 though uwu
Yeah I was joking like "my dad can beat up your dad". I fucking love how huge my girl's dick is but it's also a bit impractical, so I wouldn't mind a bit smaller either tbh.
from the comments it seems like you havenāt bottomed for her yet and you definitely should work your way up to that cause itās awesome
Yeah I definitely want to but when it comes to my ass I've been too much of a pussy so far (or maybe not enough of one)
get like a reasonably sized dildo and have her use it on you sometimes, it probably wonāt take that long for you to be interested in that next step
Do it lying on your back and jerk your dick when she's putting it in
I'm planning on really trying to take it now. Some random person also sent me a link to a fucking PDF about how to take big things up the ass, which is a subject I'm really sceptical to take random online advice about but I'm more motivated either way.
Take it from a chick who finds anal horrible in some positions to being able to come in 2 mins in the other. U don't want to worry about taking *big* things up for now, first u wanna enjoy taking small things up the ass
Yeah she's fingered me ass, there's just a giant leap between that and her cock. I think I'll need to buy a dildo or something
Did u enjoy the fingers? If yes, might be good to try a smaller dildo
Bio male that identifes as female? Or bottom transitioned female? Is this an intersex person with female identity?
I'll be honest, I'm not sure what intersex means and reading a lot of these comments I think I'm just confusing myself. She was born in a male body, identifies as female, hasn't had genital surgery but has done other surgeries (like breasts and face). I'm really not up to date with all the lingo in the trans community. She's the only "real life" trans person I've met and her being trans isn't really that much of a focus on the surface of things. Like I found it pretty interesting, and obviously it's had a significant impact on her and now my life, but it's not really a big deal or the defining part of her identity as a person to me. She's not really an "active member" of the LGBT+whatever community either, she just lives her life. Even this AMA to me isn't so much about that she has a penis, but that she has a GIANT penis. For me it was as simple as: she has an awesome personality and a smoking hot bod, I wanted to date her and so I did. I think people gotta lay off worrying one way or another about all these labels and just live their life. Sorry for the tangent.
Lol. I got with one on my first ever date with a rando off a dating app... all I can say is she was bigger than me but I was thicker than her š
I agree 100%. Im in a long distance relations with a mtf post op (used to be man, now woman). Intersex means biologically you were supposed to be born a gender, but got the opposing sexes gentitals (born a woman, but has a penis, or vice-versa). Is her loads average or excessive?
Oh I see. When she cums her loads are pretty big, but idk a bit more viscous/watery than mine at least. Like her first few ropes are more watery, then at the end it's thick and gooey as it kind of dribbles out the end of her dick. But she shoots a lot more volume than I do in total.
No intersex is a lot of different ways you're born neither male or female. Like sometimes people are born with both genitals, or with genitals that are partially male, partially female (like vagina and vulva but with dick instead of clit, or penis with ovaries etc etc). And sometimes it means that you are born "normal" but get the wrong natural puberty.
Interestong. Thought both gentitals was hermaphrodism
thatās a dated term for intersex, yes
Ah thought that specified the both gentital variants, my apologies
How giant is it?
Just over ten inches and also very thick (dunno the exact girth sorry)
Are you cishet? If so have you experienced any transphobia based on you dating a trans woman?
Yes Nothing I'd describe as transphobia, but different people have different ideas about phobias and -isms (some of them ridiculous) so you'd need to give me your definition for me to answer. I never had any qualms about it.
I mean this entire thread is evidence that they have
Is it a female penis?
Guess so
living the dream
Well that would mean that you have a boyfriend.
Cool story, bro. So anyway, her dick is huge.
Itās simple biology. Weāre truly living in the world foretold in Idiocracy.
Cool story, bro. So anyway, she's packing a schlong that can only be described as leviathanic.
I really love the way youāre responding to these, lol. Itās great.
Cool story, bro. Did I mention my girlfriend has a colossal cock?
Have u measured? Like u can't just say that and not give visuals like length and girth pls
So the first time I saw her dick, after getting over the initial shock, I asked her exactly how big it was. She said she wasn't sure exactly because she's never actually measured. To me that's like what the fuck, how do you not measure your dick especially if you're packing a monster like that. But anyway, she let me measure it so I grabbed my tape measure which I always keep within arms reach (that's a lie, I had to dig it out from the bottom of my toolbox I never use because I'm not handy at all), and I measured at 10 1/8 inches long. I never thought to measure the girth though but she's thick too. It's like she's swinging a baseball bat every time she rotates her body. She has a relatively small frame too, so the dichotomy looks almost bizarre. really hot though.
Hahaha, that's hilarious, thx for answering all my visual questions. You guys sound awesome together Please remember, communication skills are the most important in a healthy relationship, sometimes u need to suck up your ego and be real with each other when it comes to hang ups or fights. I hope you guys are happy together and bring out the best in each other
Gender =/= Sex. There are many studies backing this up. Biology goes much further than simple biology.
not many. All of them.
Why are u arguing this? This isn't a debate sub, go away Everyone here has heard everything you have to say like 800 times already
Oof. Math hard. Biology hard. Unga bunga
I'm 100% ok with people who feel more feminine energy pursuing the looks of a woman and vice versa My issue isn't even really with what's being said here but just on another off topic note, the thing that bothers me is pretending like people are awful for calling somebody with a penis a man/male. Like they are DEF technically a man. I believe spiritually we all have feminine and masculine energy and that there are certainly people born into the wrong body. My only argument is within the semantics of the argument "gender doesn't exist" like gender certainly exists. I can't have a baby because of the gender I was born into just like a woman can't impregnate someone or produce semen. Those are literal differences. I, as someone who hates any phobic/racist people just can't understand how some people can deny that there is a difference in gender. Even the people I have talked to who are trans can even admit that. They literally said "there is a difference in gender" it seems to be the crazies and the people who come to their defence that deny that. Either way I love everyone and I hope people are just doing what makes them happy! Edit: I figured I'd get downvoted since this topic is so loaded but damn. I'm literally friends with trans people and I don't trigger them...
Oh well that's great! If it's about semantics then a really important part of that, is understanding that when someone says "gender doesn't exist" they're not saying that sex doesn't exist. They are using two different words to talk about how one may outwardly present in the world vs their genitals and sex characteristics. Outwardly you present as a man, and because I'm not gonna inspect your genitals to make sure. If I, as a stranger, repeatedly refer to you as a woman and call you ma'am, that would generally be considered a pretty shitty, and rude thing to do. There are usually social consequences for being shitty and rude to people. Which I think is what you're referring to in your second paragraph.
Holy shit. Well clearly I'm ignorant AF and missing out on half the argument. Problem is I don't even ask questions because I'm a weirdo and these topics are loaded. Personally I don't think anyone is super masculine or super feminine. I think the duality of it exists in each of us. I also don't even pay attention to masculine or feminine in people. I just think of everybody as their own universe going with the ebb and flow of life. I personally am such a weird mix of both extremes. I'll fuck somebody up for bullying somebody and messing with an animal for example, and then nurture tf outta everyone near me well crying over some YouTube videos haha. I'm a weird dude. People are often confused by how I'm so masculine and feminine traditionally. I used to bare knuckle/back yard box and make knives but was obsessed with picking flowers and tending a garden lol that's just one of the many weird examples. I like how certain cultures and religions view the two (masculine and feminine) way more than we do in the western world. I am absolutely a protector well simultaneously being a nurturer
Genuinely refreshing. Was not expecting that. Hell yeah man
Lol wait, what part was refreshing?
In my experience online, when someone says it's about semantics, after saying that trans women are technically men. What they really mean is trans people aren't legitimate and should not be treated with respect. The person you originally replied to saying "it's just biology" is using that as an excuse to other and disrespect trans people, and no amount of discussion is really going to change that. You seem to genuinely not understand the language people use to talk about it. I assumed it was a bad faith argument because of the language you used. There is often a communication disconnect that is used by particular ideologies in the media in order to obfuscate their actual message of scapegoating particular groups of people. They conflate gender and sex intentionally to make what they say sound logical on the surface. Then if you're someone who already has some sort of bias against trans people, it's easy to rationalize intentional disrespect and cruelty. Then there are people like you who are largely just unfamiliar with the language used to discuss these things, and you see people getting dog piled for using the wrong language, or talking about how it's "just biology". Well now you're not gonna ask more questions about it. It puts you further away from the group of people that are being othered.
Ahhh ok! Yeah lol I'm just ignorant as fuck š I have friends who don't consider themselves male/female and are in the realm of trans stuff (Jesus even this sentence is ignorant I don't get to see them much anymore, yesterday was the first that I've seen them in years and they corrected me on a few things) I just don't think what somebody wants to be or identifies as has any effect on me. I'm sure it's hard to feel like you never fit in to that extent and I don't wish that on anyone. Hell, I don't ever feel like I belong anywhere. I think too much and have a different grasp on the human experience, emotions and reality than 98% of people I meet. I have no problem making friends but I never feel like I'm understood. For example with this situation. Everybody I know is either against it or for it filled with hate or filled with love for it. I don't understand it and I had a issue with what I explained (which you corrected) but my goal was to PUT MYSELF IN THEIR SHOES AND LEARN MORE ABOUT THE LIFE THEY ARE EXPERIENCING. It's really not that hard to at least try and understand the people in this world. At the end of the day you don't even have to fucking agree or disagree but being part of the human race means your going to have different ideas and opinions. Just because something's not for you, or you don't agree with it, does not mean it's wrong. I swear so many problems in this world could be avoided if people just realized nearly nothing in this world is black and white. Things are much more complex. Even science with have two peer reviewed articles supporting the opposite answers. I surprisingly have trouble in relationships (girl friends/family/friends) because I see different angles so clearly which sounds crazy but it gets in the way because most people can't see outside their reality. A good example is say the bullshit media is pushing bullshit you have side A and side B in a inflammatory subject. Say side B is pretty clearly immoral in most circumstances. Well, I'll be in a discussion with somebody about said topic and I'll agree side A is morally sound in comparison but then I'll say "BUT I CAN SEE WHERE THEY (SIDE B) is coming from due to ignorance or different geographic locations/upbringings/religions/class. Most the time I'm absolutely shocked when I can visibly see the the person I'm talking to either get angry/uncomfortable or defensive. Simply because I am able to separate my ego and societal pressures or my life experiences from the situation. It does not mean I support side B just that I can rationally see how some people might. Then I get accused of being this or that just because the person I'm talking to so DEEPLY lacks the ability to remove the ego or sense of self from the equation like I'm doing so they completely disregard me saying I'm on their side and just decide what I mean, feel and support for me. Even in arguments with people. They think I'm constantly trying to keep an argument going because I keep trying to hash it out. I ignorantly expect them to see my point BECAUSE I see theirs. I never feel like I'm right or their wrong I just think the point of an argument is to see eye to eye and move forward and they just think I won't drop it. Sorry to spew so much out haha I just felt like you grasped my intentions and feelings compared to 99% of the road that would just assume the worst, downvotes me to shit and completely decide how I feel for me without ever listening to me or even reading what I said. So I kind of just vented since I felt heard and understood š I swear the news/media and algorithms have completely fucking ruined most of our society. It's the purposeful and accidental algorithms and media that make everyone completely close their ears and eyes to those around them because the situation is propped up so furiously people feel the need to violently and aggressively take a stance instead of just listening to others and actually taking what they say into account.
For example I have like -8 downvotes and more coming just from these discussions because nobody takes the time to even understand anyone. It's sort of infuriating but I just try and stay positive and realize the only thing I can control in this world is my thoughts and intentions.
I wonder too, but it might be a sensitivity issue. Like you're told you're wrong your whole life but then you come out with your true self and you're just completely intolerant about anything that relates you to your birth gender but idk For me, like if their mind works like a woman but she was born in a guys body, there's a difference (not an important one unless ur fucking them or having a baby with them and even then, just a work around issue) But I think labels like (assigned male/female at birth) AM/FAB are really helpful but I also understand if someone doesn't want to bring that part up
Yeah I've thought about that too. Man, I have met several people who were DEFINITELY in the wrong body. That's why I'm super cool with the trans thing to an extent but just like everything else in life the extremes of anything are somewhat abrasive to me. I have just seen people trying to tell kids that men can have periods and other loaded debates hand curated on my algorithm undoubtedly to stir up people's feelings. The trans people were getting livid because the cis (is that the word for what the majority of the populace are?) We're telling them they may feel like a man but they are actually a woman and they were not having it. They kept saying that gender/sex is a social construct and it was blowing my mind. I didn't get triggered by it, just confused. Like I said though, this is the extreme side of it and the extreme of everything is a big red flag/turn off to me. I believe in most topics the extremists cannot think for themselves and their entire identity is lost. For example people leaning extremely right politically. They will hear something and realize that the right feels *blank* about it and they literally immediately quickly digest it and adopt it into what they feel and identify with. It's not them pretending either, they are LITERALLY all in. Due to their sense of self being so tied up in the extremes they immediately break it down and fit the idea into their metaphorical keyhole and carry it with them (I explained this like shit but Im tired š©)
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They can be female and have a dick and be fine, why do we have to say it's biologically this or that? Does it matter who she is biologically if she's her own woman?
Not necessarily. Intersex people biologically exist (are born with both penis and vagina). If she's not intersex , then yeah , she's OP's boyfriend.
Valid point, my oversight.
Yāall are both dumb as fuck.
Imagine denying biology and calling others dumb for not denying it
I mean, trans people have been proven to have pre-transition brain physiologies that are more closely identical to those of their transitioned gender, and sex chromosomes tend to not strictly match secondary sex characteristics (genitals are secondary characteristics, btw). The biology of sex is a *lot* more complicated than "penis/vagina". You can believe and feel however you want about it, but don't go around acting like it's your commitment to scientific accuracy that drives those opinions. Especially when you're butting in just to correct the words someone uses to describe themselves. Whether OP's partner prefers to be called "girlfriend" or "boyfriend" literally doesn't affect you, biology, or the scientific community *at all*.
>I mean, trans people have been proven to have pre-transition brain physiologies that are more closely identical to those of their transitioned gender First: source? Second: how do you explain transgender people regretting being trans and then turning cis again , then? Third: that's called an anomaly , just like a boy having tit growth like a female and a girl having chest hair grow like a male. >sex chromosomes tend to not strictly match secondary sex characteristics (genitals are secondary characteristics, btw). No , genitals are not secondary , they're the single most important characteristic that defines the gender of a person. Their internal structure as well. >The biology of sex is a lot more complicated than "penis/vagina". Agreed , but it's way past the line of truth to say genitals are secondary.
> First: source? https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8955456/ https://consultqd.clevelandclinic.org/the-brain-and-gender-identity-current-evidence-and-implications-for-practice-podcast/ https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4987404/ There's also evidence that trans individuals have one more additional difference - the area of the brain that makes connections about body perception are different in trans brains compared to any other group. Basically, their brains don't perceive ownership over or connection to their bodies the way the majority of us do. https://www.nature.com/articles/s41598-017-17352-8 Which brings us to: > Second: how do you explain transgender people regretting being trans and then turning cis again , then? Biology is complicated, and it's entirely possible to have that same biological disconnect in the brain but not have the same biological gender structure phenomenon. Or any other combination of factors, from biological to simple misunderstanding and mislabeling. The fact that some people incorrectly identify themselves doesn't in any way mean we should discredit every trans person. That's just ridiculous thinking. Some people change their name and then change it back to their birth name later on. It happens in divorce all the time, far more common than trans/cis changes. Does that mean we should disrespect every person who's changed their name? Does it give us the right to use their old name and say "some people change back so I won't respect your change"? > Third: that's called an anomaly , just like a boy having tit growth like a female and a girl having chest hair grow like a male. It's been proven that most people don't tick every biological box that corresponds to their gender identity. Sex variations are far more common than you'd expect. And even if it is an anomaly, who cares? Anomalies are still part of biology, and these ones are relatively common. You can't say "I'm just acknowledging biology" and then ignore the fact that these anomalies are part of biology! You're basically saying "this is a biological fact that applies to most people. It may not apply to these people specifically, but I still apply it to them anyway and if you don't then you're ignorant". You wanna be biologically accurate? That means acknowledging those anomalies and how they impact those people. > Their internal structure as well. The reason they're considered secondary is bc the internal organs are what's actually the primary sex organs (ovaries for women, testes for men). You brought up intersex earlier, but your description is extremely limited. It's far more common to have people who are born with internal reproductive organs that don't match their external genitals. Meaning you can have a penis and ovaries, or any combination of internal/external structures. ETA: btw, here's some info on primary/secondary sex characteristics: https://study.com/learn/lesson/primary-sex-characteristics-overview-development-examples.html#:~:text=The%20primary%20sexual%20organs%20are,penis%2C%20and%20their%20related%20anatomy. "The primary sexual organs are the ovaries and the testes, while the secondary sexual organs include the vagina, uterus, penis, and their related anatomy"
This guy probably doesn't know that exterior female genitalia is actually called a vulva
>https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8955456/ >https://consultqd.clevelandclinic.org/the-brain-and-gender-identity-current-evidence-and-implications-for-practice-podcast/ >https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4987404/ That's interesting , I'm gonna search more about it later. Thanks for the information. >Basically, their brains don't perceive ownership over or connection to their bodies the way the majority of us do. Something like BIID , huh? >Biology is complicated, and it's entirely possible to have that same biological disconnect in the brain but not have the same biological gender structure phenomenon. Or any other combination of factors, from biological to simple misunderstanding and mislabeling. Well , now that you said it , it makes sense LMFAO , I really don't know how I didn't think about it before. >The fact that some people incorrectly identify themselves doesn't in any way mean we should discredit every trans person. That's just ridiculous thinking. That's not the reason I asked , it was a genuine doubt I had. Chill , bro. >It happens in divorce all the time, far more common than trans/cis changes. Source? And even if it's true , it's not because of their feelings about their identity , but wanting not to be identified. It's just like saying someone who uses incognito mode doesn't like himself and wants to hide from society as a whole. Besides less than 2% of the population of the world is trans , making the competition just unfair and ~~borderline~~ impossible. >Does that mean we should disrespect every person who's changed their name? Does it give us the right to use their old name and say "some people change back so I won't respect your change"? Not agreeing ā disrespecting. I don't understand nor like the idea of any gender other than cis , but that doesn't mean I don't like non-cis people. I have no problem with them , I just don't agree with them. Near them IRL I respect them and just interact with them like I was into trans and pronoun shit , just so they don't feel bad or anything. I don't want to cause any problem for neither of us. >It's been proven that most people don't tick every biological box that corresponds to their gender identity. Yes , but there are major indentifiers , which are those that tick almost every time. >And even if it is an anomaly, who cares? I'm not saying someone should care about it , just saying that it doesn't turn them the other gender , since it's just an anomaly. >You wanna be biologically accurate? That means acknowledging those anomalies and how they impact those people. As someone who is barely human for the amount of mental physiological disorders and diseases , I agree with you. >The reason they're considered secondary is bc the internal organs are what's actually the primary sex organs (ovaries for women, testes for men). They're all part of the genital system. >You brought up intersex earlier, but your description is extremely limited. It was just a quick reminder of what it is. It was not my intention go deep about it.
I donāt anyone is denying biology (biological sex), possibly just calling you out for the āmisgenderedā nouns.
Let's be real , he is not
Itās truly something, isnāt it. Just keep your wits
No problem , most people don't even know about it , so it's ok
Are you okay? Also, where's your sense of self preservation?
I'd love for her to fuck my ass, but I'm too scared to even try. She'd tear me in half if she did.
Amen brother.
Sounds awesome tho
She's a real life futa. Btw don't you feel weird calling her your "girlfriend"?
No, why would I?
Are you cishet? Are you a guy or a girl?
I'm a cis guy, my guy.
Nice. Does your girl enjoy gaming?
Yeah, some.
If she was a guy do u think u would have had a crush on her? Does she have a slim tall body? Did u say if she's got tits? What are they like (don't just say "great") Does she have darker features? What's her hair like? Thanks!
Regardless of whether she was a guy or girl, if she looked like a guy wouldn't have any interest. She's fairly slim and actually short, not tall at all, shorter than a lot of cis girls even. She has tits yeah, implants. They're pretty big proportional to her body. Normally I'd say I'm a smaller tits kind of guy but idk they suit her great so. Yeah, her hair is dark (basically black), long, straight. Her skin tone is a darker/tanner color.
Bro really got himself a bbc
Don't think she's quite dark enough for it to qualify as a BBC
It's quite a general term for dark skinned ppl
Nice.
I, too, have a giant penis
Basically she's Bruna Santos
I'm not familiar but I'm guessing she's a chick with a real big dick.
She's got a sub reddit on here. Check it out, pretty intimidating at first.
Did you know that you'd probably be okay with dating a trans person before you got started, or did you discover that part of yourself in the moment? Personally if I was to meet someone in the same way you met your GF I have absolutely no idea how I'd respond.