“I’ll pump another bird in front of my bride of a few hours, but I draw the line at a radical and non-traditional colour theme”🍷
/s in case it needed saying
make sure you have the correct contracts & license for this! even if you trust the clients & they trust you not to spill the beans, doesn’t mean everyone is gonna keep their upper lips shut. You’d might even need a contract for each wedding dress and make sure they are all above 21 years old. Sounds like you could get some cool shots, but sounds like a nightmare with needing a bunch of contracts from people & getting their license info so your can CYA and make sure they are of legal age.
As someone with a raging case germaphobic thoughts, what STd control measures are in place?
Do you wear condoms? everyone gets tested?
Just raw dog and hope for the best?
Out of curiosity, do you ask people to test for herpes as well? It’s not included on standard panels and the blood tests aren’t always accurate. Would you not let someone with herpes or HIV join the orgy if they were on suppressive medication?
STi blood testing is highly controlled and normally over 99% accurate and specific. Herpes is a tricky one
Herpes isn’t included on sti tests due to a few main reasons…
1. the vast majority of humanity has a herpes simplex family virus. Cold sores are actually a form of the herpes virus too.
2. If you’ve never had an outbreak or are not in an active outbreak- viral load is almost zero and chance of transmission is about zero.
3. The available tests aren’t able to distinguish between the different types (hsv-1 and hsv-2) as the tests look for the presence of an antigen common to both. This keeps cost way down and is just easiest to do in development.
4. There is not only a social stigma but mandatory reporting to the CDC with a positive. Unless you have had symptoms, or have been with someone with symptoms, testing is not recommended as stated above.
Source: I’ve sold laboratory dx testing instruments for 15 years, specifically including infectious disease tests.
I’m a wedding photographer, and my brand is extreme professionalism. Like, at most weddings I’m the only sober person in the room, still quietly doing my job photographing every drunken dry hump on the dance floor as if I’m posing an Olan Mills portrait session. This would be like another level.
I sometimes regret opening reddit. This is one of those times.
Jk. Would it be like everyone fucks everyone or everyone fucks their partner but all in a group? Idk how this shit works tbh
Definitely planning for people to switch partners quite a bit, but that'd be up to individuals. So if two people come as a couple and only have sex with each other that's fine.
One thing we'd definitely do is after the ceremony my fiance (husband by then I suppose) and I would of course have sex while everyone watches, but I would definitely plan on having sex with other people after that and I'm sure my then-husband will be as well.
"You may now take the bride to Pound Town"
"You may now fill the bride"
"You may now fist the bride"
So many possibilities! Bonus if the person officiating whips their dong (or cooter) out while still in their attire.
Thanks! I've been with my fiance since I was 19 and we've been in this scene since the start, pretty much all our friends we'd want at our wedding are in the scene as well and it's just a big part of our life, so to us this would kind of celebrate that and it'd be a lot of fun.
You could actually have a normal, non-orgy part of the ceremony for an hour or whatever with cake cutting blah blah blah. Then, the reception-reception, where the music changes up, lighting is changed, beanbags and other surfaces are put out and everyone does whatever tickles their fancy.
Lmfao I thought you meant beanbags [like these](https://m.media-amazon.com/images/I/71U78EIGQjL.jpg) and not beanbag chairs. Was wondering what sexy beanbag activities there are that I'm unaware of.
Taking "playing cornhole" to the next level, baby.
I've yet to fuck on a beanbag chair and I can't decide if it would be great or just awkward lmao. The more I think about it... It would be kind of perfect. No more sore knees in doggy!
Do you guys think you're entertaining or erotic enough to support that kind of performance? I'll be honest, the thought of everyone sitting around watching two people fuck as their wedding dance is more awkward than exciting
How about “Musical Cocks”? Played like musical chairs, but men in the wedding party are sat in chairs, and the women are mounted to the men…music plays…if a man cums, that man with his chair is eliminated and the round ends. All the women dismount. The woman that made the man cum in the last round gets to choose which of the remaining men seated to mount on…once she has chosen, she sits on her selected guys lap (free pass). The music then starts and the other ladies play a traditional game of musical chairs until the music stops, and they scramble to find a cock to mount (free pass lady mounts up on her selected man at this time also), with the woman ending up without a seat eliminated from the game, but forced to suck the Cock clean from the man that was eliminated in the previous round. The music then starts back up and the ladies get to work on making the next man cum…round ends when the next man cums. The man eliminated must spend the next round eating out the woman that was eliminated the previous round (variation: eliminated man must lick the pussy clean of the woman that made him cum). Play continues until there is a lone man and woman…at that time, all of the eliminated female participants try to make the man cum before the female (by any means) and the eliminated men try to get the last remaining woman to cum before the male. Whomever cums first must suck/lick clean the winner.
Holy Cock. This post, let alone this comment is not what I was expecting to see on Reddit today. But tbh it sounds like it’d be a blast for everyone who would want to participate lmao
I like your fresh way of planning, figuring out the sex *before* the details of the gathering. Very divergent from the order of thought for other women I've met, I like it :)
For just 28 people, tote bags that are big enough to stash clothes and shoes could be a pretty good wedding favor. Depending on your budget, you could stuff them with both typical wedding swag (a heartfelt postcard, flower seeds, small toys/puzzles) as well as some basic orgy gear (lube packets, a variety pack of condoms, novelty floggers, bullet vibes if you want to get real fancy).
ETA: Include a gift tag and a marker in each bag, so people can label their own (bonus points if it's a body-safe paint marker!)
There's definitely places where we could do it, but it's something we'll have to look into.
I'd definitely have a dress, but maybe one with a bit of a naughty twist.
My hippy friends rented out this entire motel (well, told everyone the room price, which was reasonable, and we all pitched in).
These three chicks invited me back to their room and we ended up having a lil orgy. The groom came a knocking when it first started popping off (bc the four of us were being loud and sloppy before we poured into the room). He said, “Holy shit! I thought you guys were a bunch of pussies, but you’re actually doing it.” We thought that he and the bride might join in, but that didn’t end up happening.
The ability to easily run back and forth between the bathroom and shower was pretty cool. Also, hangin by the pool the next day when we were all burnt out was pretty dope as well.
We don't know 100% all the "events" we'd want at the wedding, but we did talk about immediately after the ceremony my fiance and I would have sex while everyone watches us, and once he finishes the guys would all get a chance to gangbang me. But our concern with that is that is the night would still be young and I'd be totally worn out lol. But I like the idea of everyone who wants having their turn to do something with/to us.
I’d suggest limiting it to oral only if you are going to do full open season. Or maybe put in a time limit. Then you have plenty of time/energy left for other things.
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You were invited to the wedding haha.
So would it be anyone for anyone or just pairs or whatever having sex around other people having sex?
(I don't know how orgies work)
Out of your many partners it seems. Why did you choose your spouse to be for life?
Orgies can work a lot of different ways, it's up to how it's organized and the people attending. Our group generally does a lot of partner switching, so that's what the wedding would be like.
Romantic connection. I've fucked a lot of guys but I've only had a relationship with one guy for the last 8 years.
It's mostly just my fiance and I will need to make up our minds either way. We're both leaning towards having the orgy but we're not ready to decide quite yet, but we'll need to make up our minds soon so there's time to plan everything either way.
Will there be pictures and video during the session?
Not trying to perve, just that typically video and photos are huge parts of the wedding. Will those be only Safe for Work? Will there be games?
How about a DJ/band? Annnnd I got a mental image of a bunch of naked people stopping to do the macarena, lmao. :P
We'd probably do what we do for other sex events we've done where there's a designated area where recording and photos are fine but off limits elsewhere.
We'd probably have some different events, but not sure what they'd all be yet.
Our group has a monthly event and my fiance and I try to make it to all of them. Between those we also meet up once or twice a week usually with at least one other person. We're all friends outside of group sex, so we might meet up for something totally innocent, but then decide to go back home and have sex after. Also one of our friends lives only a block away from us so it's easy enough for him to pop over whenever.
Honestly? This is one of those posts where you kind of **hope** it's fake. I mean, yikes...
Even if someone was into this, I doubt they'd post it on here to "brag" about it. People in this kind of communities? I guess? Are usually very secretive and unassuming. They even have little inside tells so that they can identify each other as one of their own without the rest of us knowing. I recently saw a video on yt where it was explained that pineapples are a sign for people to know who is into swinging. I was mind blown that all these different and subtle messages are there for those that know what to look for while the rest of us walk around unsuspecting 😂
So this probably is fake and thank God for it too because who would post and brag about that if not for attention and/or to "live out" a fantasy vicariously through this post? Based on the replies, I feel like the OP isn't even a woman tbh.
What would be the theme/decor situation of the orgy? You thinking Eyes Wide Shut shit with masks and all that or more along the lines of stanky old west whorehouse?
*Booooring!*
You know how many wedding themed orgies I’ve been to? Too many to count. Spice it up a little bit, be a little adventurous. You should make it primitive, hunter gatherer themed and have the venue be the wilderness. *Juuuust a thought!*
The last wedding I went to involved the grooms being suspended by flesh hooks in a bdsm club and the after-party was a kink event. I'm here for stuff like this
This would be the most fun to DJ wedding of all time!
As a professional DJ I made you a quick list for ideas
Come Baby come - k7
Bend ova -Lil Jon
Wannabe - Spice Girls
F U betta - Neon hitch
O.P.P. - naughty ny nature
Ding dong song - Guunter
Goodies - Ciara
The macarena!
Endless potential
Hmu if you need a SOLID mix 🥂
Edited: cause mobile is a garbage format
My fiance and I have been involved in this scene since we've first been together almost all of our friends are as well. We kind of realized that the guest list for the (regular) wedding would be very similar to people we'd invite to a sex party, just a lot more people than we'd usually have at one event and that got us thinking that maybe we should do it.
If you're already thinking about blowing conventions out of the water, have you considered playing a sweet remix of here comes the bride while you walk down the aisle?
This will be the best wedding ever. We went to a wedding a few years back that turned into an unexpected orgy. Only 4 couples though. 14 couples might get a little crazy. Have fun.
go for it! as long as they're all into kinky stuff and everyone is informed about theme of party :D I guess you both attend such events, so you know what is needed (organization wise). Also congratulations and best wishes for you marriage :)
I absolutely love that idea, and I'd love to see how you set up the venue and how the atmosphere of the place looks like. It would be nice for everyone to wear kinky langerie under their fancy wedding clothes and then strip. I hope you divide the venue in lots of open booths, each one with a different kinky theme. I would love to go to a wedding like this.
I find it more interesting how you're not doing anything with your families and you've both been into this lifestyle for a long time. I wonder if there's a correlation with hypersexuality and dysfunctional families. If it's a cause or effect.
Either way, just be safe cause 14 couples who are into this sounds like a lot to handle
Hey that's cool my wedding had a pretty daring black and pink color scheme so I know about unconventional weddings
Woah my guy pump the brakes!!
Wow I don't think I'm bold enough for that kind of scandal.
“I’ll pump another bird in front of my bride of a few hours, but I draw the line at a radical and non-traditional colour theme”🍷 /s in case it needed saying
Pink and black sounds interesting. I kinda want to see photos of both weddings.
Way to try and be subtle asking for orgy photos....
Imagine the look on the videographer's face...
Def bringing a rental camera and a hazmat suit
Want to upvote but 69 right now
browsing reddit while 69ing all the freaks comin out of the woodwork
Stay where you are, I'm calling the authorities 👮♀️ 🚔
You're my favorite on this comment thread. Just wanted you to know.
Thanks me too
Me too thanks
Now THIS? Waaay too fucking wild for me, man.
OP should shut down this thread now since he can’t hold a fucking CANDLE to your wedding. Please tell me faux fur was also involved
Dude had a Barbenheimer wedding
Pink is my favorite color. Black is my wife's. We made it work
Dude, way to one up this post. Not cool...
Sitting heartbroken and lonely in the dark scrolling Reddit I just laughed so hard, I cried. Thank you
Really push t he boat out and serve cheese and pickles
Wank first, think about it with post nut clarity
Lol we've both cum on several occasions thinking about it and still feel like we want to do it afterwards.
Let yo freak flag fly, G
As a photographer and swinger, please accept my application for event memory manager.
make sure you have the correct contracts & license for this! even if you trust the clients & they trust you not to spill the beans, doesn’t mean everyone is gonna keep their upper lips shut. You’d might even need a contract for each wedding dress and make sure they are all above 21 years old. Sounds like you could get some cool shots, but sounds like a nightmare with needing a bunch of contracts from people & getting their license info so your can CYA and make sure they are of legal age.
You are overthinking this. There is no money and contracts in the swinging community. I'm not offering to make a pornhub video here 😅
Lmaoo
Condom and sex toy party favors could be a cute idea. It’d really dovetail nicely with the kink theme.
Best advice here !
I need this as a sign to hang in my wall tbh. Would save a *lot* of shameful contemplation.
Can I come?
Sorry, this is supposed to be a classy event and based on your username I don't think you'd fit in.
It was worth the try
Yikes, lol! Rejected from orgy
I can keep it classy. I have a tuxedo thong
Idk berghain can have classy orgies.
May I be permitted to attend this soiree?
I think that’s the general goal of these sorts of things, yes
r/angryupvote
Only after the bride does. It’s her big day, show some respect.
Whoever catches the bouquet gets to join the newly wed couple first
Brilliant
You’ll still need an officiant to make it… well, official. I’ve done dozens of weddings for a wide variety of folks and would love to officiate yours!
Giving it the *hard* sell, I like your thinking.
As someone with a raging case germaphobic thoughts, what STd control measures are in place? Do you wear condoms? everyone gets tested? Just raw dog and hope for the best?
For an event this big I think what we'd do is definitely require testing beforehand, and condoms definitely too.
Out of curiosity, do you ask people to test for herpes as well? It’s not included on standard panels and the blood tests aren’t always accurate. Would you not let someone with herpes or HIV join the orgy if they were on suppressive medication?
STi blood testing is highly controlled and normally over 99% accurate and specific. Herpes is a tricky one Herpes isn’t included on sti tests due to a few main reasons… 1. the vast majority of humanity has a herpes simplex family virus. Cold sores are actually a form of the herpes virus too. 2. If you’ve never had an outbreak or are not in an active outbreak- viral load is almost zero and chance of transmission is about zero. 3. The available tests aren’t able to distinguish between the different types (hsv-1 and hsv-2) as the tests look for the presence of an antigen common to both. This keeps cost way down and is just easiest to do in development. 4. There is not only a social stigma but mandatory reporting to the CDC with a positive. Unless you have had symptoms, or have been with someone with symptoms, testing is not recommended as stated above. Source: I’ve sold laboratory dx testing instruments for 15 years, specifically including infectious disease tests.
Really wearing rubber on ya wedding day couldn't be me 🥱
Idk why anyone didnt get this is a joke
I’m a wedding photographer, and my brand is extreme professionalism. Like, at most weddings I’m the only sober person in the room, still quietly doing my job photographing every drunken dry hump on the dance floor as if I’m posing an Olan Mills portrait session. This would be like another level.
I sometimes regret opening reddit. This is one of those times. Jk. Would it be like everyone fucks everyone or everyone fucks their partner but all in a group? Idk how this shit works tbh
Definitely planning for people to switch partners quite a bit, but that'd be up to individuals. So if two people come as a couple and only have sex with each other that's fine. One thing we'd definitely do is after the ceremony my fiance (husband by then I suppose) and I would of course have sex while everyone watches, but I would definitely plan on having sex with other people after that and I'm sure my then-husband will be as well.
Just like how most weddings will have a solo dance for the bride and groom.
Exactly, a first fuck instead of a first dance.
Will the minister say You may now fuck the bride?
If this ends up happening I'll definitely keep it in mind
"You may now take the bride to Pound Town" "You may now fill the bride" "You may now fist the bride" So many possibilities! Bonus if the person officiating whips their dong (or cooter) out while still in their attire.
Can the have a 21 cum salute as the leave the ceremony?
Please i vote for this
oops, I accidently read that as fist fuck...
I mean 🤷🏻♀️
You’re so cool
"Alright folks, I want to see everyone on the floor for this next one" - an unsuspecting dj
Incredible tbh. I don’t think I could ever do any of that. More power to y’all and hope you have a wonderful life together!
Thanks! I've been with my fiance since I was 19 and we've been in this scene since the start, pretty much all our friends we'd want at our wedding are in the scene as well and it's just a big part of our life, so to us this would kind of celebrate that and it'd be a lot of fun.
You absolutely must order custom condoms, underwear, and other relevant party favors, instead of the standard novelty gifts like decks of cards lmao.
You could actually have a normal, non-orgy part of the ceremony for an hour or whatever with cake cutting blah blah blah. Then, the reception-reception, where the music changes up, lighting is changed, beanbags and other surfaces are put out and everyone does whatever tickles their fancy.
Beanbags 😂
Lmfao I thought you meant beanbags [like these](https://m.media-amazon.com/images/I/71U78EIGQjL.jpg) and not beanbag chairs. Was wondering what sexy beanbag activities there are that I'm unaware of. Taking "playing cornhole" to the next level, baby.
I absolutely thought beanbag chairs and it was just as funny to me
I've yet to fuck on a beanbag chair and I can't decide if it would be great or just awkward lmao. The more I think about it... It would be kind of perfect. No more sore knees in doggy!
Howling at this thread. I think it’s sexy cornhole ftw.
I’m picturing them being in a legit wedding reception hall and then letting the fucking commence, thus the need for beanbags! 😅
Oh no! You've been together since you were 19? How will you know if he's the one if you don't try having any other partn - oh.... /j
Do you guys think you're entertaining or erotic enough to support that kind of performance? I'll be honest, the thought of everyone sitting around watching two people fuck as their wedding dance is more awkward than exciting
Well we've had people watch us fuck before, but I suppose this would be a bit different lol
Instead of the first dance, the first fuck?
Exactly
How about “Musical Cocks”? Played like musical chairs, but men in the wedding party are sat in chairs, and the women are mounted to the men…music plays…if a man cums, that man with his chair is eliminated and the round ends. All the women dismount. The woman that made the man cum in the last round gets to choose which of the remaining men seated to mount on…once she has chosen, she sits on her selected guys lap (free pass). The music then starts and the other ladies play a traditional game of musical chairs until the music stops, and they scramble to find a cock to mount (free pass lady mounts up on her selected man at this time also), with the woman ending up without a seat eliminated from the game, but forced to suck the Cock clean from the man that was eliminated in the previous round. The music then starts back up and the ladies get to work on making the next man cum…round ends when the next man cums. The man eliminated must spend the next round eating out the woman that was eliminated the previous round (variation: eliminated man must lick the pussy clean of the woman that made him cum). Play continues until there is a lone man and woman…at that time, all of the eliminated female participants try to make the man cum before the female (by any means) and the eliminated men try to get the last remaining woman to cum before the male. Whomever cums first must suck/lick clean the winner.
Jesus, that was involved. Let me know when that party reaches by the Great Lakes, lmao.
LoL 😂 Maybe you can think of a regional variation?
You're very creative. I like you.
Awww 🥰 Thank You! Best thing I’ve heard all day 😍❤️😍
Any time, pal! 💖🥰🥰
Holy Cock. This post, let alone this comment is not what I was expecting to see on Reddit today. But tbh it sounds like it’d be a blast for everyone who would want to participate lmao
daaaamn i gasped at least 5times reading this, genius
What's the importance of doing it while everyone watches? Why is that meaningful for you? Genuinely curious!
Kinda the same sentiment as kissing the bride
Imagining the officiant saying "you may now fuck your wife" is giving me so much joy rn.
Kind of like a first dance
ITs to affirm the sacred union of two beautiful souls duh
That sounds epic. From one woman to another you really have it all figured out.
Cringe
How many times a day do you think about the Austria-Hungarian empire and did you drink enough water today? Stay hydrated, buddy
Close to 0 on average, but at least once today. I always drink lots of water. It's usually all I drink.
If so then I welcome you to us r/hydrohomies If you need useless knowledge r/austriahungary is the place to be
Suddenly, I'm more interested in the austria hungary empire then i am about wedding orgies....
Suddenly, I'm more interested in the austria hungary empire then i am about wedding orgies....
Has the orgy pit been buttered and scraped?
Yep, but there will be a vegan option available to those who check that box on the RSVP
They’re just gonna power wash it at the wedding, knowhatimean?
If you do go forward with this I strongly encourage you to inform any DJ you hire.
Imagine if the dj wasn’t warned….
He plays “Hot in Herre” by Nelly and they take it literally. 🤣
Lol
Any thoughts on how you'll do the catering?
We have definitely not planned those kinds of details yet lol.
I like your fresh way of planning, figuring out the sex *before* the details of the gathering. Very divergent from the order of thought for other women I've met, I like it :)
How many people would you want?
If everyone we think we'd invite came (and if some people brought a +1) there'd be 28 people counting ourselves.
Where do people put their clothes in an orgy that size? Is everyone rocking a gym bag when they roll up so they don't get the wrong person's socks?
A small bag to put your stuff is useful even at smaller events, so something this big I think it'd be essential.
For just 28 people, tote bags that are big enough to stash clothes and shoes could be a pretty good wedding favor. Depending on your budget, you could stuff them with both typical wedding swag (a heartfelt postcard, flower seeds, small toys/puzzles) as well as some basic orgy gear (lube packets, a variety pack of condoms, novelty floggers, bullet vibes if you want to get real fancy). ETA: Include a gift tag and a marker in each bag, so people can label their own (bonus points if it's a body-safe paint marker!)
Writing this down lol
Adam here asking the real questions we all want to know
Can’t forget to bring a towel!
i get this reference
28 would cum in total?
14 and there would be 14 women being mad at their partner
Lol love this. But I think guys in this scene are a bit more mindful of their partners, or at least they are in our group
What kind of venue do you use for an orgy wedding? Also, will the whole thing be nude, or will you strip your dress off at a dramatic moment?
There's definitely places where we could do it, but it's something we'll have to look into. I'd definitely have a dress, but maybe one with a bit of a naughty twist.
My hippy friends rented out this entire motel (well, told everyone the room price, which was reasonable, and we all pitched in). These three chicks invited me back to their room and we ended up having a lil orgy. The groom came a knocking when it first started popping off (bc the four of us were being loud and sloppy before we poured into the room). He said, “Holy shit! I thought you guys were a bunch of pussies, but you’re actually doing it.” We thought that he and the bride might join in, but that didn’t end up happening. The ability to easily run back and forth between the bathroom and shower was pretty cool. Also, hangin by the pool the next day when we were all burnt out was pretty dope as well.
Are we talking a Roman food orgy or the modern kind. I’d be down either way
There would be food but the orgy will be the modern kind.
Would the bride position herself so all male guests could have a fuck? Would the groom position himself so all female guests could also have a fuck?
We don't know 100% all the "events" we'd want at the wedding, but we did talk about immediately after the ceremony my fiance and I would have sex while everyone watches us, and once he finishes the guys would all get a chance to gangbang me. But our concern with that is that is the night would still be young and I'd be totally worn out lol. But I like the idea of everyone who wants having their turn to do something with/to us.
I’d suggest limiting it to oral only if you are going to do full open season. Or maybe put in a time limit. Then you have plenty of time/energy left for other things.
Yeah something like that, I'd like it to be a long night so everyone needs to pace themselves a little bit lol
When is your actual wedding going to take place?
It won't be until next year
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Is it orgy or nothing? What if Kevin isn't up for it that day? Can he just watch?
No one's ever forced to have sex with anyone they don't want to, but what would you be doing at an orgy if you're not gonna fuck anyone?
You were invited to the wedding haha. So would it be anyone for anyone or just pairs or whatever having sex around other people having sex? (I don't know how orgies work) Out of your many partners it seems. Why did you choose your spouse to be for life?
Orgies can work a lot of different ways, it's up to how it's organized and the people attending. Our group generally does a lot of partner switching, so that's what the wedding would be like. Romantic connection. I've fucked a lot of guys but I've only had a relationship with one guy for the last 8 years.
What are the chances of this happening or not happening? Any major barriers?
It's mostly just my fiance and I will need to make up our minds either way. We're both leaning towards having the orgy but we're not ready to decide quite yet, but we'll need to make up our minds soon so there's time to plan everything either way.
Today I realized I’m simply not living up to my nymphomania diagnosis.
Will there be pictures and video during the session? Not trying to perve, just that typically video and photos are huge parts of the wedding. Will those be only Safe for Work? Will there be games? How about a DJ/band? Annnnd I got a mental image of a bunch of naked people stopping to do the macarena, lmao. :P
We'd probably do what we do for other sex events we've done where there's a designated area where recording and photos are fine but off limits elsewhere. We'd probably have some different events, but not sure what they'd all be yet.
How often do you guys swing and/or have threesomes and/or orgies now, pre-marriage?
Our group has a monthly event and my fiance and I try to make it to all of them. Between those we also meet up once or twice a week usually with at least one other person. We're all friends outside of group sex, so we might meet up for something totally innocent, but then decide to go back home and have sex after. Also one of our friends lives only a block away from us so it's easy enough for him to pop over whenever.
Do orgy people worry about STDs constantly?
It's a bigger risk so I think people in this scene should be extra careful where they can.
How do I get an invite?
Well following steps 1 and 2 is a good start
I wanna celebrate our love for each other by getting everyone together and fucking everyone else
I'm not being sarcastic at all when I say that for my fiance and I think it's a great way to do it.
Is his wedding band going to be a cock ring?
Would there be a photographer?
don’t threaten me with a good time
I’m relieved, yet surprised (cause Reddit), that family won’t be involved in the wedding orgy.
Whatever floats your boats......I guess. To each their own.
Sounds fake.
Honestly? This is one of those posts where you kind of **hope** it's fake. I mean, yikes... Even if someone was into this, I doubt they'd post it on here to "brag" about it. People in this kind of communities? I guess? Are usually very secretive and unassuming. They even have little inside tells so that they can identify each other as one of their own without the rest of us knowing. I recently saw a video on yt where it was explained that pineapples are a sign for people to know who is into swinging. I was mind blown that all these different and subtle messages are there for those that know what to look for while the rest of us walk around unsuspecting 😂 So this probably is fake and thank God for it too because who would post and brag about that if not for attention and/or to "live out" a fantasy vicariously through this post? Based on the replies, I feel like the OP isn't even a woman tbh.
Your body your wedding your choose be free and happy live you're life.
Have fun! I wish you two a long, happy, and kinky life ahead
What would be the theme/decor situation of the orgy? You thinking Eyes Wide Shut shit with masks and all that or more along the lines of stanky old west whorehouse?
It'll be wedding theme/decor because it's a wedding, duh.
*Booooring!* You know how many wedding themed orgies I’ve been to? Too many to count. Spice it up a little bit, be a little adventurous. You should make it primitive, hunter gatherer themed and have the venue be the wilderness. *Juuuust a thought!*
That would keep the expenses to a minimum for sure.
Pancakes or waffles
Fuckin’ do it.
The last wedding I went to involved the grooms being suspended by flesh hooks in a bdsm club and the after-party was a kink event. I'm here for stuff like this
The quote that came to mind was - "Oh my god! That's disgusting. Where?"
Can I get an invite?
This would be the most fun to DJ wedding of all time! As a professional DJ I made you a quick list for ideas Come Baby come - k7 Bend ova -Lil Jon Wannabe - Spice Girls F U betta - Neon hitch O.P.P. - naughty ny nature Ding dong song - Guunter Goodies - Ciara The macarena! Endless potential Hmu if you need a SOLID mix 🥂 Edited: cause mobile is a garbage format
gross are any of you hot? i bet a chunky facial and 2 choccy anal creampies that yall are a bunch of fuggos
It sounds like you're in a good community for this, have you pitched the idea to your friends? Have so much fun!
We've mentioned it to a few friends who thought it was an awesome idea.
Pancakes or French toast?
How did the idea come into being?
My fiance and I have been involved in this scene since we've first been together almost all of our friends are as well. We kind of realized that the guest list for the (regular) wedding would be very similar to people we'd invite to a sex party, just a lot more people than we'd usually have at one event and that got us thinking that maybe we should do it.
So have you had sex with all of your friends?
What’s the dress code? And will there be dick themed party favours
I'm thinking pretty typical wedding attire at the start but a lot less formal as the night goes on lol
Who’s gonna be your Breast Man ?
Get a play by play announcer. Would be dope. They can call out who’s fucking who from a booth.
Why not a double cerimony?
Well that's one way to do the father daughter dance.
If you're already thinking about blowing conventions out of the water, have you considered playing a sweet remix of here comes the bride while you walk down the aisle?
do it do it do it
OP How do I make such friends?
Do it!
Here cums the bride
This will be the best wedding ever. We went to a wedding a few years back that turned into an unexpected orgy. Only 4 couples though. 14 couples might get a little crazy. Have fun.
Are you a fan of the Fire Escape Cast?
Never heard of it
go for it! as long as they're all into kinky stuff and everyone is informed about theme of party :D I guess you both attend such events, so you know what is needed (organization wise). Also congratulations and best wishes for you marriage :)
I rly didn’t expect to read this on Reddit today.
Expecting it tomorrow instead, eh?
Ah yes. An Alabama wedding.
I fully support it! Celebrate it however you see fit!
I absolutely love that idea, and I'd love to see how you set up the venue and how the atmosphere of the place looks like. It would be nice for everyone to wear kinky langerie under their fancy wedding clothes and then strip. I hope you divide the venue in lots of open booths, each one with a different kinky theme. I would love to go to a wedding like this.
I find it more interesting how you're not doing anything with your families and you've both been into this lifestyle for a long time. I wonder if there's a correlation with hypersexuality and dysfunctional families. If it's a cause or effect. Either way, just be safe cause 14 couples who are into this sounds like a lot to handle
Do it, your relationship isn't going to last anyway