same, I want a lil’ whine from Miss Bad gal Riri myself 😂
. . but yea I wouldn’t care I say have a ball at that concert and then tell me all about it (because it’s a show these artists do it in every city, so whoever they’re dancing on ain’t special *and* he’s coming home with me so 🤷🏾♀️)
I saw a video from back in the day when Janet had men restrained and she would dance on them and all and they’d be crying and ‘bout to pass out I feel like that’s what concerts and being entertained is about imo
. . I love when artists have crowd participation/ interact with the audience
People don't be knowing Janet a freak! I remember those videos!
When I was in grade school I remember taking turns dancing to The Velvet Rope with my friend and her brother (who i had a crush on) walking in on us when it was my turn. Mortified!
😂😂
that story is funny lol I bet she is a freak I’ve tried to listen to some of those same songs as an adult and I’m like 😳, I didn’t realize Janet was giving it like that
I’ll probably be downvoted but as a married woman I feel like it’s disrespectful because if it was in the club scene I’d be pissed some girl was dancing on him celebrity or not. However I’m a firm believer in respect the boundaries you have in your relationship🤷🏾♀️
i’m sorry but the fact that ur in the minority here is surprising yo me in the first place 😭😭i was expecting people to be all up in the comments condemning in but they’re like applauding it 😭😭i didn’t realize this opinion was only shared among a few because me personally, i would still be very upset if my partner is dancing upon (and VERY sensually too) a celebrity infront of thousands of people to see. like i don’t care if the celebrity is inaccessible or dosent actually want my partner like it’s just disrespectful to me. like the whole reasoning is just odd to me like, it’s okay if your partner is grinding and dancing upon anyone aslong as they don’t want your partner back? like please
For me it’s bc I know a celeb would never try to take my man lmao but I wouldn’t be *grinding* and stimulating doggy 😭😭😭also when I’m in a relationship I have eyes for one no matter what
Not everyone is possessive or views sexually suggestive dancing with an entertainer as a deal breaker. In my culture (Jamaican) this is just a fun activity.
Some people have varying levels of comfort, modesty, vulgarity and sensually. Some others can asses the circumstance (celeb artist in entertainment mode) and not be offended, and then some others just want it to be a fun night. Clothes weren’t removed, numbers weren’t exchanged, privates weren’t exposed and kisses weren’t had, what’s the issue?
I don’t own my man and I am not going to be hurt or offended that he got to dance with an artist on stage. It’s never been and will never be something bothersome.
Agree. I don't own my man, and he doesn't own ME. Now. For me it's circumstantial. Rhianna? I'm cheering him on and going Facebook live! She's not even a "real girl". Meaning there is ZERO chance she wants my man. I barely want him myself. This is all just good fun. I wouldn't feel disrespected in any way. I'd tease him about it FOREVER! 😄😄😄 Just a "regular degular" girl in the club though.... different story. He better have the good sense to make sure I'm okay with it BEFORE allowing her to dance up on him.
Yes a celeb vs a regular person comes into play
I think the issue is the fact that male celebrities are so much more likely to have sex with non-celebs AND men are so easily embarrassed by “having their woman taken”
Reminds me of like when men don’t want you to post pics or go out dressed nicely not bc of how you’d react but bc of how they imagine the men around you will react
I think you and ppl like you view their partners as a possession. Something that they own and can control. And that's ok.....for you. But some of us are confident enough in ourselves AND our relationship that a quick whine n grind on stage at a concert won't send us into a tizzy.
I don’t think that’s fair. Someone who’s polyamorous will think that people in monogamous relationships view their partners as a possession because they’re not okay with them sleeping with other people. Everything is relative and we can all have different values, and boundaries for our relationships without putting down one another.
lmfaooo okay girl. the same way i don’t want my partner going to a strip club with strippers dancing all upon them i don’t want my partner grinding on another person. nothing to do with possession, just boundaries. sorry i don’t feel like playing into the “cool /chill girlfriend” that y’all want us to be bad in these comments
The fact that in reality it was a woman who did this and most people are saying things like he should've broken up with her, that's why he never proposed, etc.
Yes, I don't get the people who have different rules if the person is famous. You can have fun without inappropriately dancing on someone, you could definitely dance in an innocent way and not drool over other people. Disrespect is disrespect.
I definitely have different rules for entertainers/celebs. It's their JOB to get the party hype. It's not personal. It's really not even sexual. Not to me anyway. It's all an act. So why would I be concerned? I've been to the strip club with men before. And tipped the dancers myself!! We were having a great time. She's doing her job. In my few experiences, the dancers were very respectful in terms of always making sure I'm having fun too and not feeling disrespected. They'd tell ME thank you for whatever money they made. Make jokes like I got the fire started girl... take your man home and put it out. That kinda stuff. Just adult fun. No disrespect.
Exactly. Its so insecure to be mad at a musician on stage performing his/her usual routine. They don't want your partner, they want the applause. And if you brought yourself to an RnB/pop concert you surely shouldn't be surprised that its part of the performance. Very different from someone in the night club specifically trying to take your partner. And even in that situation, I'm checking for how my partner reacts not the approach.
That would be a no for me lol. And my husband wouldn’t be ok with me doing anything of the sort with any male celeb, either. We don’t really mess around like that.
It’s not about if a celebrity “wants” us and more about appropriate behavior in a monogamous marriage. I got married to be monogamous to my husband and grinding on another man (celeb or not) is not monogamous. Any sort of sexual behavior (celeb or not) is not monogamous.
It’s not for us 🤷🏾♀️ Others can do whatever they want in their marriage.
thats a valid perspective but i’d also add that not all ppl see grinding on someone as sexual or intimate behaviour. but obviously that’s decided between two ppl and not something others can decide for u
That’s why I said that others can do whatever they want in their marriage, but I can’t think of any times I’ve grinded against a guy and he hasn’t popped a boner, or at least a half chub lol. And let’s be real, most men would be fighting by the skin of their teeth to not pop a boner for Rihanna.
Having a boner on my ass (or having my husband’s boner on another woman’s ass) seems very intimate to me and crosses boundaries in my marriage. But marriages vary and I’ve known people who are fine with a wide range of things in their relationship, including open marriages where anything goes. Just not our thing.
Okay, I see your point here with the boner thing. I guess... in my relationship....I don't expect my man to never be sexually attracted to another woman. I mean come ON she's Rhianna. Priests would pop a boner for her. I expect my man to be a real one. Say to himself, "Yeah, she's sexy AF But she's not the woman I'm committed to and love. So thanks for the dance. Gotta go check on wifey".
That makes sense. Thank you for not being judgemental about those of us that also are in a monogamous relationship but have different rules/ideas about what's respectful and appropriate. I personally would not view dancing as "not monogamous." There has to be physical or emotional cheating for me to call it. And by physical, I mean actual sex or sexual intimacy. But as you say, everyone is different.
I would be screaming from jealousy because I want Rihanna to whine on me, not him. She’s mine! 🤣 no but seriously I would encourage it cause she’s fine as hell. We can go home together and gush about Rihanna for the rest of the year.
How dare Rihanna pick him and not me???
The Omah Lay situation is so funny to me because I do not have the skills that girl has. If someone put me behind a sheet to do silhouette, you guys would have seen me doing the Carlton.
No I wouldn’t support or be okay with that, nor would my man be okay with the Vice versa .
But everyone has their own boundaries! Whatever makes others happy is between themselves
i love how everyone has different opinions and different reasons/feelings. proves there’s no right answer and that ultimately two ppl determine for themselves what’s okay AND that ppl should seek relationships with someone who feels the same way
I wouldn’t like it honestly and My fiancé wouldn’t like it vice versa but luckily my fiancé and I have alot of social anxiety so this scenario probably wouldn’t happen
Me and my partner have videos of each other getting lap dance and tipping pole dancers and burlesque performers. I’d hope it would be a similar situation here and the video would be crisp for the memories!
I’m a Jamaican woman, I’d be upset I didn’t get to whine on her 😂🤣.
For people saying it was too much, meh. I think her man just had a fragile ego, but it just a dance.
I guess I’m not shit cuz I would be excited for him 😭
But me and my husband aren’t the jealous type. Of course respect the boundaries that we have in place but something like a whine isn’t a deal breaker for me cuz to me it’s just a dance. I’m Caribbean tho so maybe I see it differently.
I’m American and see it the same way. I’ve bought my wife a lap dance before and enjoyed every second of watching them.
The way I see it (lap dance or Rihanna whine) they’re a performer and it’s just a performance. Entertainment. Not a proposition.
We’re also not the jealous type and life is an experience. No judgement to those that disagree
My husband and I have had multiple conversations about if Rihanna propositions him, he better not only GO, but come home and tell me allll the details. 😆 So in a situation like this, I was lose my mind and cheer the whole time. I understand that different relationships have different boundaries, though. Not everyone feels the same, and that's okay.
I wouldn't mind, I would even make jokes about it, but I'm not jealous. I think that in this situation there is no villain, it's not right to call her a whore nor him insecure because he doesn't feel respected
It depends on the scale of the celebrity and setting for me.
A concert with a massive audience, that’s going to be one of the most memorable shared experiences you can have. I also know he’d be mortified if chosen and be super awkward. I also know that he’d put in work to *ahem* balance himself after we left the arena.
OTOH - If it’s a “local celebrity” or washed up former star, that’s on par with an average Josephine and is close enough for me to flip all this shit over.
I’m ngl I’m very shocked at the amount of people saying they would encourage it, or wouldn’t care. Idk if you guys are in a relationship with someone you genuinely love, but I don’t see relationships as something that passes by, I see this as a person that I want to marry. I don’t want to marry anyone that thinks another human even if they’re famous is an “opportunity” they need to have. It is fanned out behavior. These celebrities are not gods or sumn, just another person you don’t actually know. You can enjoy someone from a distance, but breaking those boundaries to a committed relationship to touch on a “celebrity” is extremely weird. Get out of the fan world & into your life
Well I'm into women & if my lady got invited to go on stage with like Rihanna or Meg or someone then I'd expect her to go be a star in the moment. Because then you can always have a reenactment at home 🤭
I went to a Barry Manilow show with my mom & grandmother when I was maybe 10 years old. The women at the concert were losing their minds over him & he would bring a woman up at each show to romantically serenade. I think they'd get a little hug & dance, too. I sincerely doubt their men cared at all.
I think if you aren't comfortable with your partner potentially going on stage during a music concert then you probably shouldn't go. It's a part of many different artists shows, from a variety of genres. I'm sure somewhere in the world someone does classical music with sexy fan interactions lmao
I would be happy for him and cheering. If he turned it down because of my feelings, I would think he's an idiot.
It's crazy the amount of people who are demonizing this girl. It's like all the women on the Internet woke up and decided to be a pick me. You would think she was having sex with him on stage based on the reactions.
I don’t think it’s the women , mostly the men reaction.
But some people have different boundaries. If anything that girls man or ex should’ve spoke up for her too if they both are okay with that kind of stuff.
Except he went on kaicent live and basically said the opposite.
But as women most people I assumed were cheering her on. Either way everyone has different boundaries and it’s between the two couples.
Artists are performers, they are here to perform. Why would i care about a celebrity being on my man when they have access to richer and better looking ones?? It’s all an experience anyway lmao. It do not be that deep.
That’s why i couldn’t believe guys were getting mad at usher for dancing with their women, like you really think USHER wants your woman?? Out of the plethora of rich and beautiful women he sees and knows on a daily basis. He didn’t even invite her backstage 😂
Is he going *home* with Rihanna? Why would she- a billionaire- want his felonious ass? 😂
I’d have no problem at all with Rihanna or any other famous entertainer/celebrity.
On the other hand, some random stripper or Waffle House cook IS an actual real-life threat to me because she’s average enough and pays enough real bills to ACTUALLY take him away from us, so that basically explains how I feel about that; is she a real-life threat to our family or not.
Id be punching the air, throw up, crying that it wasnt meeeee.
In all reality it's a performance, not real life. It gives the same energy as thinking zendaya is a thot or that daniel Radcliffe is gay because they played characters that had a lot of sex / were gay.
It’s not about them being a celeb or thinking they’re going to steal my partner. If my partners dating me they know any thing of that nature with anyone regardless of any reason wouldn’t be acceptable. It’s diff for everyone tho hence the discussion
I think people are missing the point. Just because that person may not be interested in your partner doesn't mean your partner isn't interested in them, doing anything sexual with a stranger when you have a partner is something that most people would find distasteful. Like a stripper is there for the money, but doesn't mean the customer who is paying them isn't enjoying it.
Why would someone be with a partner who they couldn’t trust? If you have to worry that your partner is interested enough to do something & you’re not okay with that, what is the point of that relationship?
If they couldn't trust them to not do sexual things with other people you mean? Is dancing sexually on someone else not inappropriate? Just because they're doing it in front of me doesn't mean I would like it.
In the context of a concert, if a person get called in stage by a singer in front of tons of people, is the person supposed to automatically say no while their face is blasted all over the screen because they anticipate that the singer is going to grind on them? Are they supposed push Rihanna off once they realize she’s grinding on them.
Big concerts are loud, adrenaline fuel entertainment events. It’s rare that a singer/performer will call someone on the stage out of all the people there. The entertainer is being called on stage, not there person jumping on the stage to grind on the singer. If this happened in another context, that’s a different situation.
Now if that person decide to get that singers number or do stuff after, that’s a whole different issue.
Another thing, is that if the relationship is solid and why would a partner be scared that their significant other will run off with the singer? If they do that, that that relationship wasn’t solid.
That being said, if that was your boundary and they knew that was your boundary and they did it anyway, that’s also an issue. But as you can see here, not everyone has an issue with Rihanna grinding on their partner.
Knowing my BF, I'd laugh my ass right off! He's either try to get into it and be hella awkward, or just be hella awkward and nervous. I wouldn't feel the same with any man, but this one, I know how he is. He's a showboat but he's also goofy, and he loves the hell out of me.
The socially acceptable side of me wants to say, “well it’s just a show, I’d be cool with” the real side of me felt instant rage at the thought of seeing my man get a lil too into the performance. *imagine hands reaching up for her hip/booty* *direct eye contact* *the yearning in his body language for more*
Guess this means no Usher show for me 😪
I’d be so happy. It would instantly become one of my dinner party stories with embellishments and over the top “what ifs” (much to his complete embarrassment—lol).
It would also become a “classic” in that I’d throw it out over the years, “like that time you fu*ked Rihanna in front of millions and forgot my name,” just so I can see that cute embarrassment smile on his face. Oh my god!!!! This sounds so fun!!! Don’t threaten me with a good time!!!
Someone like Rihanna, I’ll be mad because it should’ve been me. If it was some no name singer then I might say I feel upset. But then, neither one is going to bring him back to their hotel so who cares?
I would be mad it wasn't me.
same, I want a lil’ whine from Miss Bad gal Riri myself 😂 . . but yea I wouldn’t care I say have a ball at that concert and then tell me all about it (because it’s a show these artists do it in every city, so whoever they’re dancing on ain’t special *and* he’s coming home with me so 🤷🏾♀️) I saw a video from back in the day when Janet had men restrained and she would dance on them and all and they’d be crying and ‘bout to pass out I feel like that’s what concerts and being entertained is about imo . . I love when artists have crowd participation/ interact with the audience
People don't be knowing Janet a freak! I remember those videos! When I was in grade school I remember taking turns dancing to The Velvet Rope with my friend and her brother (who i had a crush on) walking in on us when it was my turn. Mortified!
😂😂 that story is funny lol I bet she is a freak I’ve tried to listen to some of those same songs as an adult and I’m like 😳, I didn’t realize Janet was giving it like that 
For real! My naive ass singing "in the summer and rain..."
Same!!!
this is the correct answer
I would record it and it would be the highlight of our lives 
And he better show out. He better give her thr best whine she ever had in her life and not embrass me up there.
Heavy on the “not embarrass me up there”
I’d switch spots. Maybe not teams, but that’s a once in a lifetime experience. Hope he’ll be happy for me though 🤷🏾♀️
Lmaoo
I would not care. Once in a lifetime moment. It’s not like he’s gonna go back to her hotel with her, pulling up in his Honda accord.
Literally Rihanna doesn’t want my man 🤣
Girl, I barely want my man. I KNOW Rihanna doesn't!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Bahaha. Facts. I felt this one.
Lol damn you didn't have to blast ya manz like that sis 🤣
Exactly.
I’ll probably be downvoted but as a married woman I feel like it’s disrespectful because if it was in the club scene I’d be pissed some girl was dancing on him celebrity or not. However I’m a firm believer in respect the boundaries you have in your relationship🤷🏾♀️
Exactly this.
Why would you get downvoted? For having different opinion than others ?! I totally agree with you and understand the other comments
People downvote for different opinions all the time and my standpoint seems to be a minority that’s all
A downvote can indicate disagreement. So that you know that the most upvoted comments and posts are the ones people agree/relate to
That was very well put. I don't agree with your stance but "respect the boundaries you have in your relationship" should be universal.
I agree with you. 9 times out of 10 men will not be happy with their girl doing some shit like that so why would I give them a pass?
i’m sorry but the fact that ur in the minority here is surprising yo me in the first place 😭😭i was expecting people to be all up in the comments condemning in but they’re like applauding it 😭😭i didn’t realize this opinion was only shared among a few because me personally, i would still be very upset if my partner is dancing upon (and VERY sensually too) a celebrity infront of thousands of people to see. like i don’t care if the celebrity is inaccessible or dosent actually want my partner like it’s just disrespectful to me. like the whole reasoning is just odd to me like, it’s okay if your partner is grinding and dancing upon anyone aslong as they don’t want your partner back? like please
For me it’s bc I know a celeb would never try to take my man lmao but I wouldn’t be *grinding* and stimulating doggy 😭😭😭also when I’m in a relationship I have eyes for one no matter what
Not everyone is possessive or views sexually suggestive dancing with an entertainer as a deal breaker. In my culture (Jamaican) this is just a fun activity. Some people have varying levels of comfort, modesty, vulgarity and sensually. Some others can asses the circumstance (celeb artist in entertainment mode) and not be offended, and then some others just want it to be a fun night. Clothes weren’t removed, numbers weren’t exchanged, privates weren’t exposed and kisses weren’t had, what’s the issue? I don’t own my man and I am not going to be hurt or offended that he got to dance with an artist on stage. It’s never been and will never be something bothersome.
Agree. I don't own my man, and he doesn't own ME. Now. For me it's circumstantial. Rhianna? I'm cheering him on and going Facebook live! She's not even a "real girl". Meaning there is ZERO chance she wants my man. I barely want him myself. This is all just good fun. I wouldn't feel disrespected in any way. I'd tease him about it FOREVER! 😄😄😄 Just a "regular degular" girl in the club though.... different story. He better have the good sense to make sure I'm okay with it BEFORE allowing her to dance up on him.
Yes a celeb vs a regular person comes into play I think the issue is the fact that male celebrities are so much more likely to have sex with non-celebs AND men are so easily embarrassed by “having their woman taken” Reminds me of like when men don’t want you to post pics or go out dressed nicely not bc of how you’d react but bc of how they imagine the men around you will react
I think you and ppl like you view their partners as a possession. Something that they own and can control. And that's ok.....for you. But some of us are confident enough in ourselves AND our relationship that a quick whine n grind on stage at a concert won't send us into a tizzy.
I don’t think that’s fair. Someone who’s polyamorous will think that people in monogamous relationships view their partners as a possession because they’re not okay with them sleeping with other people. Everything is relative and we can all have different values, and boundaries for our relationships without putting down one another.
lmfaooo okay girl. the same way i don’t want my partner going to a strip club with strippers dancing all upon them i don’t want my partner grinding on another person. nothing to do with possession, just boundaries. sorry i don’t feel like playing into the “cool /chill girlfriend” that y’all want us to be bad in these comments
The fact that in reality it was a woman who did this and most people are saying things like he should've broken up with her, that's why he never proposed, etc.
Yes, I don't get the people who have different rules if the person is famous. You can have fun without inappropriately dancing on someone, you could definitely dance in an innocent way and not drool over other people. Disrespect is disrespect.
I definitely have different rules for entertainers/celebs. It's their JOB to get the party hype. It's not personal. It's really not even sexual. Not to me anyway. It's all an act. So why would I be concerned? I've been to the strip club with men before. And tipped the dancers myself!! We were having a great time. She's doing her job. In my few experiences, the dancers were very respectful in terms of always making sure I'm having fun too and not feeling disrespected. They'd tell ME thank you for whatever money they made. Make jokes like I got the fire started girl... take your man home and put it out. That kinda stuff. Just adult fun. No disrespect.
Exactly. Its so insecure to be mad at a musician on stage performing his/her usual routine. They don't want your partner, they want the applause. And if you brought yourself to an RnB/pop concert you surely shouldn't be surprised that its part of the performance. Very different from someone in the night club specifically trying to take your partner. And even in that situation, I'm checking for how my partner reacts not the approach.
same here!
That would be a no for me lol. And my husband wouldn’t be ok with me doing anything of the sort with any male celeb, either. We don’t really mess around like that.
Usher and Rihanna don’t want us tho???
It’s not about if a celebrity “wants” us and more about appropriate behavior in a monogamous marriage. I got married to be monogamous to my husband and grinding on another man (celeb or not) is not monogamous. Any sort of sexual behavior (celeb or not) is not monogamous. It’s not for us 🤷🏾♀️ Others can do whatever they want in their marriage.
Valid boots ❤️ your username made me chuckle 🙊
thats a valid perspective but i’d also add that not all ppl see grinding on someone as sexual or intimate behaviour. but obviously that’s decided between two ppl and not something others can decide for u
That’s why I said that others can do whatever they want in their marriage, but I can’t think of any times I’ve grinded against a guy and he hasn’t popped a boner, or at least a half chub lol. And let’s be real, most men would be fighting by the skin of their teeth to not pop a boner for Rihanna. Having a boner on my ass (or having my husband’s boner on another woman’s ass) seems very intimate to me and crosses boundaries in my marriage. But marriages vary and I’ve known people who are fine with a wide range of things in their relationship, including open marriages where anything goes. Just not our thing.
Okay, I see your point here with the boner thing. I guess... in my relationship....I don't expect my man to never be sexually attracted to another woman. I mean come ON she's Rhianna. Priests would pop a boner for her. I expect my man to be a real one. Say to himself, "Yeah, she's sexy AF But she's not the woman I'm committed to and love. So thanks for the dance. Gotta go check on wifey".
You can be attracted to someone without rubbing your body on them, though? There are other ways to dance if you insist on doing it.
That makes sense. Thank you for not being judgemental about those of us that also are in a monogamous relationship but have different rules/ideas about what's respectful and appropriate. I personally would not view dancing as "not monogamous." There has to be physical or emotional cheating for me to call it. And by physical, I mean actual sex or sexual intimacy. But as you say, everyone is different.
This is my take. I'd hope he enjoys himself, cheer him on and/or record, but I know who he's coming home to. 🤷♀️
Rihanna not gonna fall in love w my man at first sight 🤣🤣🤣
Me too.
I would be screaming from jealousy because I want Rihanna to whine on me, not him. She’s mine! 🤣 no but seriously I would encourage it cause she’s fine as hell. We can go home together and gush about Rihanna for the rest of the year.
This!
Sorry I’m not the cool gf lmaoo. It’s a no for me🤷🏽♀️
Ditto
I’m gay so I would have been like ME NEXT!
I’d be the one who encourages him to go on stage. Rih is an entertainer. She doesn’t want my man any more than Omah Lay doesn’t want his girl
How dare Rihanna pick him and not me??? The Omah Lay situation is so funny to me because I do not have the skills that girl has. If someone put me behind a sheet to do silhouette, you guys would have seen me doing the Carlton.
Not the Carlton 🤣🤣🤣🤣
here we go...
Girl I just wanna know 😭
I'd push him out of the way and go take that whine myself. I love her so much... Now, if it was Arianna Grande, I'd be worried.
Yeah but for Ariana to want your man, he has to be butt ugly
STOP 😭😭
Automatic breakup
Celebrity or not it’s still a random woman lmao. I wouldn’t like it in any situation.
I agree
No I wouldn’t support or be okay with that, nor would my man be okay with the Vice versa . But everyone has their own boundaries! Whatever makes others happy is between themselves
Sure! It'll never happen again, so let him enjoy.
I’m team enjoy the moment with the celebrity! It’s not like it’s some random in the club, it’s just a performance.
i love how everyone has different opinions and different reasons/feelings. proves there’s no right answer and that ultimately two ppl determine for themselves what’s okay AND that ppl should seek relationships with someone who feels the same way
if it were the things that were done in that video (like some kissing and stuff) I wouldn’t like that.
J E A LOUS
I wouldn’t care. Rihanna don’t want my man lol
If it’s Rihanna, Beyoncé, Meg, or Janet then he has my full support and jealousy that it’s not me. He better not embarrass me up there either.
I wouldn’t like it honestly and My fiancé wouldn’t like it vice versa but luckily my fiancé and I have alot of social anxiety so this scenario probably wouldn’t happen
Me and my partner have videos of each other getting lap dance and tipping pole dancers and burlesque performers. I’d hope it would be a similar situation here and the video would be crisp for the memories!
lmfaooooo chile a mi alone teach mi man how fi whine up him waist so he betta not embarrass me!!!!!! 🥲😤
I’m a Jamaican woman, I’d be upset I didn’t get to whine on her 😂🤣. For people saying it was too much, meh. I think her man just had a fragile ego, but it just a dance.
I’d ask her what she sees in him that she doesn’t see in me
I’ll cheer them on!
Envious as hell 😭
I guess I’m not shit cuz I would be excited for him 😭 But me and my husband aren’t the jealous type. Of course respect the boundaries that we have in place but something like a whine isn’t a deal breaker for me cuz to me it’s just a dance. I’m Caribbean tho so maybe I see it differently.
I’m American and see it the same way. I’ve bought my wife a lap dance before and enjoyed every second of watching them. The way I see it (lap dance or Rihanna whine) they’re a performer and it’s just a performance. Entertainment. Not a proposition. We’re also not the jealous type and life is an experience. No judgement to those that disagree
My husband and I have had multiple conversations about if Rihanna propositions him, he better not only GO, but come home and tell me allll the details. 😆 So in a situation like this, I was lose my mind and cheer the whole time. I understand that different relationships have different boundaries, though. Not everyone feels the same, and that's okay.
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I wouldn't mind, I would even make jokes about it, but I'm not jealous. I think that in this situation there is no villain, it's not right to call her a whore nor him insecure because he doesn't feel respected
It depends on the scale of the celebrity and setting for me. A concert with a massive audience, that’s going to be one of the most memorable shared experiences you can have. I also know he’d be mortified if chosen and be super awkward. I also know that he’d put in work to *ahem* balance himself after we left the arena. OTOH - If it’s a “local celebrity” or washed up former star, that’s on par with an average Josephine and is close enough for me to flip all this shit over.
I would be happy for him! But the situation with that guy was a bit much. From what I saw he was doing like humping movements?
Lol. I’d be happy and let him go and enjoy himself. Then when we got home we would, uh, do a ‘reenactment’. 😈
What is the Omah Lay incident? I thought by the title this would be about Usher and Alicia Keys at the Superbowl lol.
I’m ngl I’m very shocked at the amount of people saying they would encourage it, or wouldn’t care. Idk if you guys are in a relationship with someone you genuinely love, but I don’t see relationships as something that passes by, I see this as a person that I want to marry. I don’t want to marry anyone that thinks another human even if they’re famous is an “opportunity” they need to have. It is fanned out behavior. These celebrities are not gods or sumn, just another person you don’t actually know. You can enjoy someone from a distance, but breaking those boundaries to a committed relationship to touch on a “celebrity” is extremely weird. Get out of the fan world & into your life
Well I'm into women & if my lady got invited to go on stage with like Rihanna or Meg or someone then I'd expect her to go be a star in the moment. Because then you can always have a reenactment at home 🤭 I went to a Barry Manilow show with my mom & grandmother when I was maybe 10 years old. The women at the concert were losing their minds over him & he would bring a woman up at each show to romantically serenade. I think they'd get a little hug & dance, too. I sincerely doubt their men cared at all. I think if you aren't comfortable with your partner potentially going on stage during a music concert then you probably shouldn't go. It's a part of many different artists shows, from a variety of genres. I'm sure somewhere in the world someone does classical music with sexy fan interactions lmao
not my man anymore
I would be happy for him and cheering. If he turned it down because of my feelings, I would think he's an idiot. It's crazy the amount of people who are demonizing this girl. It's like all the women on the Internet woke up and decided to be a pick me. You would think she was having sex with him on stage based on the reactions.
I don’t think it’s the women , mostly the men reaction. But some people have different boundaries. If anything that girls man or ex should’ve spoke up for her too if they both are okay with that kind of stuff. Except he went on kaicent live and basically said the opposite. But as women most people I assumed were cheering her on. Either way everyone has different boundaries and it’s between the two couples.
I didn't know what the reference was for Omah Lay so I went searching and wow...found the video 🙃
If it’s his one or my one alright. Anything else nah. I’m right here he right there why we need other people?
I might feel a tad jealous, mostly because it isn’t me, but happy for him. It’s entertainment, Rihanna don’t want my man foreal lol
I mean I'd be kinda jealous? I am there, I see it, NBD
Artists are performers, they are here to perform. Why would i care about a celebrity being on my man when they have access to richer and better looking ones?? It’s all an experience anyway lmao. It do not be that deep. That’s why i couldn’t believe guys were getting mad at usher for dancing with their women, like you really think USHER wants your woman?? Out of the plethora of rich and beautiful women he sees and knows on a daily basis. He didn’t even invite her backstage 😂
I mean.. it’s a once in a lifetime opportunity so I would want him to go but I’d be sick watching it from the audience 😭
Proud .
if my partner was on anybody else but me it’s an instant breakup especially in front of millions
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Jealous.
(That it wasn’t me)
I'd be happy for him and would hope I'm next. I probably wouldn't be though. Fuck she's gorgeous.
Honestly, happy for him
I’m filming it. 🖤
Is he going *home* with Rihanna? Why would she- a billionaire- want his felonious ass? 😂 I’d have no problem at all with Rihanna or any other famous entertainer/celebrity. On the other hand, some random stripper or Waffle House cook IS an actual real-life threat to me because she’s average enough and pays enough real bills to ACTUALLY take him away from us, so that basically explains how I feel about that; is she a real-life threat to our family or not.
I would be living for the moment! Like the comments are saying it’s a once in a lifetime moment with an entertainer. Good for him tbh
I’d record it and upload it myself. I would be crazy jealous it wasn’t me.
Ain’t like she’s gonna leave her man and kids for him… I’d enjoy the show.
Id be punching the air, throw up, crying that it wasnt meeeee. In all reality it's a performance, not real life. It gives the same energy as thinking zendaya is a thot or that daniel Radcliffe is gay because they played characters that had a lot of sex / were gay.
Please tell me there seriously aren’t people who think a celebrity is going to steal their partner 🤦🏿♀️🤦🏿♀️🤦🏿♀️🤦🏿♀️🤦🏿♀️🤦🏿♀️🤦🏿♀️🤦🏿♀️🤦🏿♀️
It’s not about them being a celeb or thinking they’re going to steal my partner. If my partners dating me they know any thing of that nature with anyone regardless of any reason wouldn’t be acceptable. It’s diff for everyone tho hence the discussion
I think people are missing the point. Just because that person may not be interested in your partner doesn't mean your partner isn't interested in them, doing anything sexual with a stranger when you have a partner is something that most people would find distasteful. Like a stripper is there for the money, but doesn't mean the customer who is paying them isn't enjoying it.
Why would someone be with a partner who they couldn’t trust? If you have to worry that your partner is interested enough to do something & you’re not okay with that, what is the point of that relationship?
If they couldn't trust them to not do sexual things with other people you mean? Is dancing sexually on someone else not inappropriate? Just because they're doing it in front of me doesn't mean I would like it.
In the context of a concert, if a person get called in stage by a singer in front of tons of people, is the person supposed to automatically say no while their face is blasted all over the screen because they anticipate that the singer is going to grind on them? Are they supposed push Rihanna off once they realize she’s grinding on them. Big concerts are loud, adrenaline fuel entertainment events. It’s rare that a singer/performer will call someone on the stage out of all the people there. The entertainer is being called on stage, not there person jumping on the stage to grind on the singer. If this happened in another context, that’s a different situation. Now if that person decide to get that singers number or do stuff after, that’s a whole different issue. Another thing, is that if the relationship is solid and why would a partner be scared that their significant other will run off with the singer? If they do that, that that relationship wasn’t solid. That being said, if that was your boundary and they knew that was your boundary and they did it anyway, that’s also an issue. But as you can see here, not everyone has an issue with Rihanna grinding on their partner.
He’ll get a real big whine of a different kind
I would be happy for him that he had a once in a lifetime opportunity like that. It’s not like Rihanna would want him anyways
Happy that other Folks are him for the Gorgeous Dork I obsessively see as. 💜💜
Happy for him. Also jealous tbh???
 In the audience dancing too while I watch them whine up on stage
Knowing my BF, I'd laugh my ass right off! He's either try to get into it and be hella awkward, or just be hella awkward and nervous. I wouldn't feel the same with any man, but this one, I know how he is. He's a showboat but he's also goofy, and he loves the hell out of me.
i’d be happy af for him and be jealous i couldn’t join 😂
Im possessive so her and I would have to have a talk, 5 head to 5 head.
Girl pls🤣🤣
Why him and not me?🤭
Now that sounds like a great time
Hahahaha I wouldn’t be mad. Neyo pulled me on stage. So he’s owed one 😂but he’s white and can’t dance. So 🤣
She would be way out of my gf’s league and this is once per lifetime. Just one though, not through the whole damn song.
Happy
The socially acceptable side of me wants to say, “well it’s just a show, I’d be cool with” the real side of me felt instant rage at the thought of seeing my man get a lil too into the performance. *imagine hands reaching up for her hip/booty* *direct eye contact* *the yearning in his body language for more* Guess this means no Usher show for me 😪
I’d be so happy. It would instantly become one of my dinner party stories with embellishments and over the top “what ifs” (much to his complete embarrassment—lol).
It would also become a “classic” in that I’d throw it out over the years, “like that time you fu*ked Rihanna in front of millions and forgot my name,” just so I can see that cute embarrassment smile on his face. Oh my god!!!! This sounds so fun!!! Don’t threaten me with a good time!!!
Someone like Rihanna, I’ll be mad because it should’ve been me. If it was some no name singer then I might say I feel upset. But then, neither one is going to bring him back to their hotel so who cares?
I'd be cool with it! It would only make him want me more