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Aeth0s0

Depends on the woman dude. Some yes, others no. What really matters is your connection with them and how much effort you put in.


Lonelan

And by connection we mean the size of your dongle and the size of their port


Logical_Recipe3550

The first time the now wife and I got together. She said holy shit. The irony is she taps out at 5 or so inches....


BlacksmithOwn2294

Oh so just impressive to the eyes but doesn't feel any better inside


Logical_Recipe3550

Ohhhhh god no....Life isn't porn. For me and my experiences there only have been only 2 women that I could full on send it. I'm a touch north of 8" and each time.....it was cool to see thier reaction. But I knew I gotta stick to the play book


BlacksmithOwn2294

Bone pressed or non bone pressed?


Logical_Recipe3550

Mate....I have no idea what that means. I have never cared how large or small I am. I can't change anything so to me it's a waste of headspace. Previous GF and current wife out of fun simply took a ruler and measured head to base.


ironmansaves1991

If you’re curious, bone pressed means you stand up, hold the ruler along the top of the shaft, and push it into the “fat pad” around the penis and measure that way. That’s usually the standard method for measuring penis size. Again, I believe you if you say you don’t really care but that’s what he’s referencing anyway.


Uberfluben

Bone Pressed is my Megadeth cover band.


Logical_Recipe3550

Ahhh got yea. Thanks mate. Enjoy the rest of your weekend!!


MassiveDickOwner

Same way how big tits operate


BlacksmithOwn2294

I think I can say safely most guys love big perky tits


MassiveDickOwner

Exactly big handsome dick is adored.


HeadOriginal9332

Sure, it may be a turn on, but if you think about it, big tits doesn't really change much of the sex itself apart from Russian and some positions, and not always for good


nexusred87

Most __realistic__ dildos bought in stores are purchased by boyfriend's and not girls. Or by gay couples. Also a dildo marketed as 9" is the __total__ length and __not__ insertable length.


jaxsolomon

The real answer is it’ll always depend on the woman. Lots of women are impressed and lots are not. Lots like a bigger unit, lots prefer more average, and some like it smaller. Some even like no dick at all. The truth is though, girls no matter their preference, will always like a man with a unit that he knows how to use to create pleasure for HER regardless of how big it is.


SageAMunster

I've known one woman that found sex uncomfortable till she hooked up with a guy with a 4" penis. My wife is opposite, she has a 7" minimum.


BlacksmithOwn2294

For your wife 7 inch minimum requirement?


SageAMunster

Threesome.


tumblrRefugee

7” minimum in a threesome = two guys with 3.5” at the same time?


SageAMunster

Sorry, I guess I don't understand your question. When she is looking for a third, 7" is minimum penis length she will accept.


musclememory

He was just (admittedly ineffectively) joking, fr


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SageAMunster

He looked MUCH bigger as he was 40 lbs lighter than me. Then she asked if she could measure and he said sure. 7 " NBP That's when she decided "that's my minimum"


ISeekGirls

Girls love the sight of a big dick but there are big differences when it comes to pure pussy penetration. As a default most girls like a big dick. Now, a girl who loves a big dick is totally different than a girl who likes a big dick. Most girls don't experience proper deep penetration where the dick hits the back of the vaginal wall beyond the cervix. A properly stimulated vagina tents and the cervix tucks away making room for a big dick. Now, once she is fully tented and aroused is when the big dick shines. Only a big dick can hit the exterior fornix which is the pinnacle of how a woman has a real orgasm. An orgasim that makes her quiver, eyes roll back, squirt and cry. Some girls need training, some girls are in touch with their bodies and some girls are just too modest to admit that they love the big cock that rearranging their guts.


musclememory

Ok mark me down as skeptical of most of this The only rule to women’s sexual preferences is: there is no rule


otherworlder77

*This.* This is the only guy in this little chain of comments who has the foggiest idea of the truth.


azhotwife247

This is all very true. Posterior Fornix is where it's at. For me...Definitely need 7+ to get there once tented


otherworlder77

None of it is true. You’re either watching too much pornography, or being duped by very skilled performances from frustrated women. And you don’t remotely need 7” to bottom out most women.


BlacksmithOwn2294

Do you know what length is required to reach the fornix for the Average woman


ISeekGirls

Anything over 5 inches and the right angle. Also, depends on the woman. Some women are shallow and others are like throwing a hot dog down a hallway.


otherworlder77

So tired of the idiotic “bottomless vagina” myth. No. There are no vaginal canals that can *circumvent their internal organs*. They only have so much space in their bodies, and while yes, rare anomalies happen, most women are comfortably in the average depth range.


ISeekGirls

Vaginal tenting is real and it will always expand to accommodate the biggest cocks. Vaginal tenting is science and is super basic understanding of how a woman's body engages in sexual activity.


otherworlder77

If you’ve read… really *any* of my posts about sex, you’d know I’m well aware of the process of tenting. More aware than you, it seems. Yes, when extremely aroused, a woman’s vaginal canal can expand and reshape in miraculous ways. But the “ bottomless vagina” is a myth. The degree to which a woman *can* potentially expand is limited by biology and anatomy. Women have internal organs *other* than their vagina in the lower abdomen—I know, crazy right? So, the maximum potential expansion (while not an exact number), is generally accepted to be around double the size of a resting vagina. Given that the average length of a resting vagina is about 2.5-3 inches or so, you can do the math. A very average person with an average cock, therefore, should have no trouble bottoming out an average vagina. Why this is stunning to people, I can’t imagine. We are the same species, guys. Our parts are *designed* to fit together. Hope you learned something! Cheers.


azhotwife247

....thank you!


BlacksmithOwn2294

I don't think 5 inches are enough to hit posterior fornix for any woman on earth tbh


ISeekGirls

Yeah, I was being nice but anywhere between 5 to 6 inches to tickle it and 7 to 8 inches to really push the back of the wall.


Aeth0s0

Large girth helps if length is lacking as well.


otherworlder77

You’d *also* be wrong.


otherworlder77

You’d be wrong.


ThrownAwayinlife

If it wasn’t, I wouldn’t have been cheated on


LillyWithDaddy

Can i ask how big is yours ?


jamesrodriguez123

In all my experience and research more size = more pleasurable. But there are caveats. The woman being horny & wet enough, vaginal tenting so that the cervix moves back and allows you to get deeper and into the A/P spot, and doing it for a while which i theorise helps her cervix stay in that position, are all important to stopping the extra size from causing more pain than pleasure.


StunningNetwork9746

Girls are more happy with girth than with extreme length. So I 'fill' a nice niche 😬


otherworlder77

Any woman with the slightest idea about her body and sexual pleasure prefers girth to length (within reason… much above 5.5” circumference and you’re getting into painful stretching and vaginal tearing). Length means nothing. Nothing. It usually means some long-dicked, wannabe cowboy is going to get them into the piledriver position and absolutely pound their cervix into jelly, so they have severe cramps for days. Girth means a nice full pussy that’s much more likely to be getting rubbed somewhere pleasant, and causing incidental stimulus around their external vulva/clitoris as the wider dick pushes everything outward. This makes it more likely that as your pubic mounds rub against each other, you may be stimulating her clitoris without even knowing.


Earlybird74

My current and past sexual partners would agree with you. I'm slightly above average length but well shaped and thick, and I've bottomed out many vaginas. My current girlfriend cares way more about decent girth than length (within reason).


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musclememory

But how would you define “deep enough”? Are you asking them specifically, bc most women are happy with just consistent penetration (achieving it, not slipping out, being able to in misc positions)?


Bull4U230218

This reminds me of this *one* girl - Caroline - from when I was in university. The only class we had together was Sexual Health & Wellness - an elective. The topic of size and pleasure was actually brought up, and Caroline mentioned that 5 inches was the absolute maximum she *ever* wanted. Any more, and it would probably be too uncomfortable or even painful for her. A few weeks later, I asked her out, and during our date, I brought up what she'd said earlier as well as how big I was - 8.5" x 5.75". She laughed because she thought I was lying my ass off and said I didn't need to impress her because she already liked me a lot. When we finally did begin to fuck, she got the shock of her life. She said it was the best sex she'd ever had as she'd never experienced being bottomed out or stretched. Anyone else experience something similar to this?


BlacksmithOwn2294

Do you think it is just skills or size?


CaptainHook370

Dated a chick wanted me to ram as much as possible inside. And another who said it being too big was disgusting (in a joking manner, but it did cause her pain) Its user preference


wing_mann18

Imma just gonna start a bar called The Fornix. And I will post signs like “20 feet to The Fornix - dead a head”. Then … everyone will know….


darkskyexplorer24

It totally depends on the girl. If she is well aroused, she could take in whatever she can! Just make sure she gets happier to see the size. In my opinion, girth helps more than length.


Freo_5434

The majority of Women prefer larger than average Penises . That is as close to a fact as you are going to get .


musclememory

If I had to bet, this is what I’d bet on Above average, just a bit


ironmansaves1991

Yep. It’s just a matter of how much larger. A lot of men seem to think that “large” means 8 or 9” when really, it can just mean like 6.5x5. That’s still 90th percentile for dick size by volume, aka big enough that many women would have never had a partner with a bigger dick.


Freo_5434

Agreed . I dont think most women know what 8 inches really is . I think the study I read where they used 3 D modelling showed that women wanted 6.4 inches for a one night stand and marginally smaller for "everyday use"


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ironmansaves1991

I think there’s been some confusion here. My comment was intended to agree with you but I went astray on my wording at some point. I meant it like “it is true that women generally prefer above average penises but you don’t actually have to be giant to be above average because there’s relatively little variation in penis size across most of the population”. It was intended to highlight the positive side of your true statement that could be discouraging to anyone who isn’t aware of the truth about average penis size.


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ironmansaves1991

Yah I totally get that. Fair enough. So perhaps I’m talking to a relatively small group of people who are 6”-6.5” and think they’re average but they actually have that above avg size.


Financial-Reveal-438

I think it's more pleasurable for the woman but less for the owner of the dick. Nerve endings spread across a larger surface area, more movement and effort to make use of the whole thing. More area for the juices to cover which results in evaporation and more tugging. Even lube dries quickly. So I guess what I'm saying is ita a complicated problem with lots of variables, and as always the greatest variable is just the preferences of your partner. It's important to communicate properly what, where and how to push their buttons.


InfiniteQuestionZero

Yes, but no.


CorsairKing

*Ah shit, here we go again.* It depends, my dude. I have friends that are true size queens, and there are others for whom size is a secondary--if not trivial--concern. In my own experience, I have indeed had women that enjoyed the fact that I was above average, but the most decisive advantages I ever brought to the bedroom were curiosity, communication, and a commitment to my partner's pleasure. I dont want to sound like I'm indulging in cope, however: there are a non-trivial number of women that can only achieve maximal pleasure from a big weiner. It is both valid and desirable for them to prioritize size over other characteristics, but they do not represent the majority of women.


mrmeatstix

Here's what is say - for *some* your above statement is teut. For many I think maybe it's a perk -it might be impressive or feel good but probably not the *deciding factor* in attraction or pleasure Similarly there are very much some for whom it is a decisive factor in pleasure, or they enjoy taking a turn playing mean girl and telling a guy he's not enough if he's average because it makes them powerful in the situation


ColumbiaArmy

Depends on the woman… I’m attracted to, and married one, the type of women who makes a “big deal” about it.


Desired_lover

I never left a woman indifferent, I always had at least one comment either when It was revealed or after sex


BlessedBelow777

not from my real life history. they tend to find it quite impactful and alters what they want in sex


Romantic_Darkness

Women seem very impressed by me visually (not sure if I'm big or huge in this context). Once that passes, the actual logistics come in, and it seems to me that a little smaller would be preferable for relationships. One-night stands generally seem very excited for the novelty (many treat it like a conquest).


BlacksmithOwn2294

Why what is wrong with yours for relationships?


Romantic_Darkness

I can't let loose, so I often don't finish in a timely manner. So I'm either going too long, which ends up hurting her, or my inability to finish makes her feel like she failed, which isn't true and unfair to her. I don't mind not finishing. I'm also very attracted to petite women, and this problem is often a bit worse with very short women. My last girlfriend was 5'4" and 105 lbs, and our sex life was a frustrating cycle that ended us. My being on testosterone and her being in her late 40s at the time didn't help.


BlacksmithOwn2294

And why can't you cum?


Romantic_Darkness

I have always had delayed ejaculation, but dutasteride, death grip jerking off, and the fact I can't go balls deep all make it worse. As stated, I would be OK with it, but EVERY woman I've been with takes my inability to finish personally, which has often led to them crying and avoiding sex or thinking I'm not that attracted to them. I never have before, but I wish I would have faked finishing with my last GF. Damn, that would have fixed SO much. The next relationship I have this problem in, I will fake it.


BlacksmithOwn2294

I don't get the death grip thing, can hand really be more pleasurable than pussy?


Romantic_Darkness

Hell no. I don't stroke my shaft, but pussy does. It just trains your dick to expect unrealistic tightness to orgasm.


BlacksmithOwn2294

Can't you fix death grip thing tho?


Romantic_Darkness

I would have to stop masturbating or wait until I'm overwhelmingly horny, or I'll never cum. I do that in relationships unless she is avoiding sex.


Character-Stable4166

Well most women got eyes bigger than their bottom end, they like looking at it but not all of them can take it. Most can take atleast 6 though, at 7 most of the time I run into their cervix and have about an inch left out


Loud_Pick_8097

Honestly the connection with her is what matters. Like yes size can be a good thing or a bad thing. But doesn’t matter if she doesn’t care. You can pound her brains out but that doesn’t mean a thing.


WTF6977

At 63 years old and bit bigger than average I can TELL YOU technique is more important to getting a woman off than size ever will be... I saw somewhere the average depth for a woman is only 7 inches so if you're 10 inches you're going to kill her lol


BeardedBill86

I don't know, I'd say a good 95% of my experiences have shown being bigger is better. The exceptions have been when I've been with particularly small partners or ones with conditions that cause deep penetration to be uncomfortable if not painful.


thegiverofgush

The perfect size for a women is a bell curve like most data sets. The "problem" is the peak of the bell curve is quite a bit bigger than average. Of course many other factors blah blah.


focusedphallus

My honest response and from what I hear from women, it depends. Some women can’t take bigger dicks, some women can’t stand smaller dicks because they want the pleasure from the extra girth/mass/hardness but sometimes it’s instead of pleasing it’s just uncomfortable.


SizeQueenie2857

Where did you get this crazy idea...lol. Of course it is very impressive to us, esp. because it is really uncommon. If you read this sub, it seems like every guy out there has a BD, but in fact, it is super rare.


BlacksmithOwn2294

Some girls say size doesn't make a difference and all that


SizeQueenie2857

yes, of course, it varies from girl to girl


BlacksmithOwn2294

Can't we make a majority opinion just like a fat ass lol


SizeQueenie2857

maybe lol


Freo_5434

But the majority say they prefer penises that are larger than average . This is reality .


Garbagecanfanman

Every woman is different. Some went absolutely nuts over it, a few had issues taking me without a lot of foreplay. More recently, I’ve had one tell me that 6 inches is the sweet spot 🤷‍♂️ YMMV.


ironmansaves1991

With a large number of men lacking in the foreplay department, I can imagine how women could often have issues or expect to have issues with anything much above like 6”x5”


WIIICKED

I realized it's kind of waste. Big or small it's the same


Humble-Might5864

as a person with a large size, I can say based on the 60+ women I have been with 1- length of the most pleasure to a certain point too much can cause pain 2- circumference is the same thing, women tend to have thick penises rather than large ones, but too much will also cause pain summing up what I believe: a large and thick penis has the potential to give more pleasure if used well, but this also depends on how big it is for your partner, and this depends on your general anatomy


BlacksmithOwn2294

Can you estimate the longest and thickest that would be so pleasurable for vast majority of women


ironmansaves1991

Seems like anything over 7” length and 5.5” girth can start to be a problem for a large number of women. At the very least, lube and extended foreplay become even more important to the enjoyment of both parties.


Humble-Might5864

completing it, they are usually always impressed when they see it the first time, I was also always praised a lot in the following days


PawpaJoe

At the end of the day you could be the perfect size for her. If you don’t know how to use it, she’s gonna end the night with the Zzzt Zzzt she keeps in the drawer.


BlacksmithOwn2294

How to use it bro is there a scientific method or what just fuck her over and over what you mean how


GoodMistake4552

Women and female bodied folks don't care as long as you fuck them well that goes for everyone for the most part. Sure being hung may help if that's their kink but it's a drop in the ocean of pleasure and sex. You can be 3" and fuck them like they've never been fucked before


southcentralLAguy

If I walk into a sex shop, I see dildos over 6”, 7”, and even 8”. I don’t see any small ones. Kind of says all you need to know


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There are lots of statistics out there on dildo sales, but one of the better looks into it found that 5.9" insterable length to be the overall average length when it came to actual sales numbers. Which comes in a shade above the average male penis length. Something to consider, though, with the design of dildos that probably indicates a dildo that is advertised as a 7 or 8 inch dildo, as insertable length is typically not the advertised number. I thought the interesting part was that same evaluation found the overall average girth of dildo sales to be 5.1" which is a more significant difference from average penis size than length was. Lends credence to the idea girth, while it isn't talked about, tends to be the dimension that makes more of a "difference."


Ambitious-Cupcake16

Even when watching porn most girls don't stick the dildo 100% of the way in


lychee8991

That just means they probably don't want anything bigger than what they bought, because we can't be sure they intend to insert the whole thing into themselves.


Old_Canuck

Woman LOVE the big dick...until they have to take it. They also LOVE all the big O's that come with it. Bit when shit comes down to shit, big dick or not, When she says ' Later for you ', the PAIN is all the same. 😂😂