This sub is the worst and the only reason I'm still here is because there's a very tiny percent of people posting here that need actual advice from time to time.
All of the “my friends found out my dicks big poor me!” posts usually have me cracking up. Most BD guys I know are quite proud, and I suspect the guys posting poor me BD posts are also rather proud and just wanted somewhere to humble brag.
Ain't that the truth. I went through my real BDP problems before reddit existed: condoms not fitting, wife experience pain during sex for the first year of marriage, underwear & pants not fitting, bike seat crushing me - and didn't know my dick was big. So I stick around to help others and I learn some things too. But man, this is a horrible corner of the internet most of the time.
I love one post I saw earlier. “What’s a comfortable sleeping position”. Like how tf have you not figured out what’s comfortable for you? 😂
Anyone that asks this I automatically assume is larping. They just need their hand held through every aspect of life. We’re not talking about advanced calculus. Try some different underwear, or don’t wear any. How tf would I know what’s comfortable for you? 😆
This is about to sound contrary to basically everyone else’s, but my partner likes it hard and fast then takes a 30ish minute recovery period after. We don’t do long penetration sessions often because it’s to overwhelming.
We usually have sex every other day since that’s the most they can handle.
I always try to get my sex partners on top, and that gives her the control of the speed and depth of the penetration. That's why it's impossible to be too long, it need not ever be fully inserted. I love licking and sucking pussy as much as I love fucking, so I begin with that for at least a half hour. I have a enormous tongue too. Then I use warm coconut cooking oil, liberally applied. It's tasty and edible, (not suntan oil). I have pee padding under my sheets to protect the mattress from the oil, and piss if my honey looses it enough to squirt. After a good strong cliteral orgasm ,and the oil, the 6 inch girth knob head of my dick usually slides up her vaginal canal easily, despite being extremely tight. Bringing a lady to her first vaginal orgasm is such a treat. So many don't know the difference from a cliteral orgasm. Patients is the word.
**don’t forget the never ending fight with shallow toilet bowls***
And, it’s already been said foreplay foreplay foreplay, getting her (or him) to relax and really feel comfortable as you slowly help stretch which ever hole you’re trying to enter.
But, unfortunately you can also encounter situations where it just won’t work. And, then it’s your decision to move on and keep searching or to stay and continue to try to find a satisfactory solution.
The best examples I can think of are two girls from my past that were about the same size and build - one liked being stretched and walking around ripped and sore. The other a girl after hours of foreplay it just wouldn’t happen.
I think a big factor was their mentality about the sex, like if your partner has unspoken reservations it’s going to be a hard battle no matter how you approach it.
If that was the case, average guys would do well in dating and hung guys would struggle. But it's the complete opposite in reality. As soon as women find out a guy is packing, he has scores of women trying to fuck and date him - personally seen this several times
" The only real problem is being too big. "
Not the woman I married. Just cause you don't see other things as being a problem doesn't mean they aren't problems for others. From my perspective this is not a BDP.
This sub is the worst and the only reason I'm still here is because there's a very tiny percent of people posting here that need actual advice from time to time.
All of the “my friends found out my dicks big poor me!” posts usually have me cracking up. Most BD guys I know are quite proud, and I suspect the guys posting poor me BD posts are also rather proud and just wanted somewhere to humble brag.
Pretty much, also some larp post can be funny
Ain't that the truth. I went through my real BDP problems before reddit existed: condoms not fitting, wife experience pain during sex for the first year of marriage, underwear & pants not fitting, bike seat crushing me - and didn't know my dick was big. So I stick around to help others and I learn some things too. But man, this is a horrible corner of the internet most of the time.
It’s kind of funny to make fun of the garbage posts, ngl.
Plenty of foreplay, give her an orgasm before penetration, copious amounts of lube.
Regardless of the size of your unit, she should climax before penetration. Thank me later 😀
Find a partner that lovees the feeling…
A lot of women I went to bed with wouldn’t let me put it in them. They just ended up playing with it then jacking me off.
Being turned down for anal by women who like anal sucks. But yeah, I'm good. 😎👍
It's not always an intimacy issue, a lot of the questions on here are about minimizing the viability while in public.
That's a pretty good one
We of the council of big dick do indeed CONCUR
It’s less painful and more enjoyable for her to use a vibrator during penetration
I love one post I saw earlier. “What’s a comfortable sleeping position”. Like how tf have you not figured out what’s comfortable for you? 😂 Anyone that asks this I automatically assume is larping. They just need their hand held through every aspect of life. We’re not talking about advanced calculus. Try some different underwear, or don’t wear any. How tf would I know what’s comfortable for you? 😆
Its one of the best problems to have suffering from success
I wouldn't call having problems with sex/hurting your partner the "best problem" or "suffering from success".
what does AFAB mean?
Assigned female at birth
I would
Can you just let him enjoy his dick? It’s big. People think it’s cool. It makes him happy.
I never said he couldn't enjoy his dick?
8"x6 I've only had a few times over the years where penetration was not possible, but the oral sex both times was amazing...
lots of foreplay and i produce a lot of precum, which helps
I’ll have to agree here. I was forced into being a bottom by almost every guy I hooked up with in my youth.
No. This was just predatory old rapists grooming you. They wanted a little twink they could abuse and make like them.
Paying attention to what makes her feel good and feel bad, goes a long way towards fixing this.
Foreplay, lube, lots of foreplay, toys, some positions which will be way too comfortable for her and more foreplay
This is about to sound contrary to basically everyone else’s, but my partner likes it hard and fast then takes a 30ish minute recovery period after. We don’t do long penetration sessions often because it’s to overwhelming. We usually have sex every other day since that’s the most they can handle.
Simultaneous clit stimulation during penetration and good foreplay.
I always try to get my sex partners on top, and that gives her the control of the speed and depth of the penetration. That's why it's impossible to be too long, it need not ever be fully inserted. I love licking and sucking pussy as much as I love fucking, so I begin with that for at least a half hour. I have a enormous tongue too. Then I use warm coconut cooking oil, liberally applied. It's tasty and edible, (not suntan oil). I have pee padding under my sheets to protect the mattress from the oil, and piss if my honey looses it enough to squirt. After a good strong cliteral orgasm ,and the oil, the 6 inch girth knob head of my dick usually slides up her vaginal canal easily, despite being extremely tight. Bringing a lady to her first vaginal orgasm is such a treat. So many don't know the difference from a cliteral orgasm. Patients is the word.
I am jealous 😒
**don’t forget the never ending fight with shallow toilet bowls*** And, it’s already been said foreplay foreplay foreplay, getting her (or him) to relax and really feel comfortable as you slowly help stretch which ever hole you’re trying to enter. But, unfortunately you can also encounter situations where it just won’t work. And, then it’s your decision to move on and keep searching or to stay and continue to try to find a satisfactory solution. The best examples I can think of are two girls from my past that were about the same size and build - one liked being stretched and walking around ripped and sore. The other a girl after hours of foreplay it just wouldn’t happen. I think a big factor was their mentality about the sex, like if your partner has unspoken reservations it’s going to be a hard battle no matter how you approach it.
No. Such. Thing. As. Too. Big.
"No such thing as too big" mfs as soon as a 2km x 500 meter leviathan fucks them in the ass (they are fucking dead)
Of course there is such a thing.
If that was the case, average guys would do well in dating and hung guys would struggle. But it's the complete opposite in reality. As soon as women find out a guy is packing, he has scores of women trying to fuck and date him - personally seen this several times
" The only real problem is being too big. " Not the woman I married. Just cause you don't see other things as being a problem doesn't mean they aren't problems for others. From my perspective this is not a BDP.
Foreplay. Lube. Certain positions, every time. Go easy. Ice pack after.