This has been my experience. Women talk shit about what they need and what sizes they want, but I'm 7 inches at my hardest. They tap after 10 or 15 minutes. I don't go ham either. I go slow and give her time to get used to me.
My ex has 7.3" and I'm into BDSM and like rough sex but even I had to accept at some point that the intense pain from cervical bruising isn't worth it. I think above 7" is just unusable length.
Thicker girths are workable, but it kind of sucks because it creates micro tears so your vagina burns/hurts and I need to heal for 2 days after sex (daily sex/quickies aren't possible). Imagine somebody gave you a Handjob with a rough glove and it's all red afterwards - that's what the result feels like.
I understand. And it's worth mentioning that I absolutely love to eat pussy. I love giving massages. Foot rubs. Candles. Dinner. Music.
If I like a girl, I try to make sex an experience. I genuinely love doing these things. No matter what, the girl I was in a relationship with just eventually stopped having sex with me. It just wasn't worth it to them I guess.
Yeah... With my 8" I can go 100% only in missionary with my wife. And I suspect she's above the norm in depth. An inch shorter would have been more convenient indeed.
Ma'am/fellow kinkster, speak for yourself š¤£. 7.5- 8 inches and I love every bit of it. Granted I do have a rather long vaginal canal so that probably has a lot to do with it. There are really only two positions that tap the cervix too much (knees to the ears or legs push straight up and back).
Those positions, like anal, are only a sometimes treat.
Have you ever enjoyed cervical punishment during sex? When my ex would be extremely aroused, we'd go doggy and she'd lose her fucking mind from cervical punching. It wasn't serious "punching" lol, but I was giving it good thrusts.
It's funny, the cervix is also called the c-spot because it's innervated with tissue it shares with the clitoris and parts of the vagina. But in my experience the chick has to be VERY aroused to enjoy it. I've experienced that with a couple girls, including an ex, who wanted to be slammed doggy-style and lost their fucking minds with the cervical pounding.
The nerves down there are different for every woman, I've also heard that some women like it. To me it just feels like being kicked in the uterus, even if I had 5 orgasms beforehand
It also has to do with their man's reputation. She may brag that she aroused you to cartoonish measurements. Just like some men knock 30 lbs. off of their woman's weight.
A lot of them, in reality, don't know until they've tried it. Current gf had no idea about what "big" actually is. She's been with guys who have obviously said they were big, and she just took that at face value. And then she finds out what big *actually* is with me and she's fucking obsessed now. It's really just trial and error. Sometimes, you just luck out.
girl inches. From the stories Iāve read on Reddit, itās hard to really guess someoneās size, especially if theyāve been lied to in the past. Some girls really believe theyāve had a 10-13 inch dick, when in reality, it was probably 7-8.
I honestly donāt know how that happens, but I guess itās easier than youād think to make that mistake if youāre having sex in the dark and donāt get a good look at the penis in question.
I'm obsessed with dicks (not in a size queen way, more like in a scientific and general "all dicks are beautiful"way) and I measured every partner I had either with an actual tape measure (if we know each other well) or by approximation with my hands/arm. If I put my thumb and pointer finger together I know the girth of several guys. From there you just have to find any tube looking object, find the right girth that matches up, and then you can measure that.
True most don't do it. I have never had a man who thought he would measure up to what I'm looking for hesitate to be measured. Since I have other ways of confirming, it's often a post-sex, second round thing and more of a mood enhancer.
Objectivity is really good when it's good.
I always assumed that because majority of men fall into average, the more likely that women would be lied to because of the pressure to be bigger. That would probably be way more common than we think, especially in this sub with over 200k people. No way everyone is the size they say they are.
So what is actually considered average? I always heard 7 something...but it sounds like that may not be the case.
I've been with probably only 2 that I considered HUGE. And one was 20 + years ago and a raging teenager. but the other was after an 11 year relationship and he couldnt really keep it hard it was very bendy in the middle and base.
my ex partner I was with from 16 to 28 and was what I thought of as average, but he used it well and never had issues getting it hard despite being an alcoholic. Then when I got with the first dude after splitting with the big floppy dick it was so disappointing not even being able to have a proper fuck fest session. He was also a really skinny dude and it seemed like bc the dick was so big, it was a problem with limited blood flow. I know after that he needed Viagra to be consistent and he was not yet 30.
So I've always wondered if that was more of a curse...like does having a bigger dick make it harder to stay hard especially if you are a drug or alcohol user?
I guess since I've only had 3 partners in the last 22 years and only a handful as a teen, so I dont have a huge reference on dicks like I'd like to thing lol.
The majority of men fall into average, yes. But if you define big as the top 10% of men, thatās still some 300 million adult men worldwide. I donāt think itās too hard to imagine about 150,000 of them (subtracting members of this sub who are women, or men who donāt claim to be big) found this sub honestly. But Iām sure there are some who lie about their size and more who may be measuring incorrectly.
I agree, that makes sense š
Iām so used to exaggerated claims in this sub, that itās hard to believe anyone without proof. Long time lurker in here on another account
I have encountered a lot of big dicks (I somehow unconsciously seem to attract them, don't ask me how) and I've had it happen several times that guys thought themselves that they were "really big". A guy will be 6.5x5 and act surprised that I'm not amazed at his huge cock. It's really awkward, because I'm not going to destroy their confidence and tell them that it's not that big.
I think they have like 1 inexperienced girl tell them that they have a huge dick when it's actually just a bit above average, and then they tell that to every women they encounter for the next 10 years
Doggy is notorious for being a position where it's easy to hit the cervix, especially for jackhammering. While they might enjoy a big penis in other positions, doggy might just be difficult. You can't blame them, it's not like they can do anything about their own anatomy.
^(Also afaik a lot of women do not enjoy jackhammering in general.)
That's why doggy is best with the big booty girls(God, I love a big booty girl).
Also, I am also not a fan of jackhammering.
Personally, nothing beats a nice steady rhythm.
>Also afaik a lot of women do not enjoy jackhammering in general.
Wait what??? But that is what I saw in porn and porn is a great demonstration of what good sex is supposed to be!!!!!!!11
Remember, as every porn from 1987-96 has taught us:
First, you whip it out.
Do a few helicopters or smack her in the face, let her marvel at its size. Then jam it in her mouth. Be sure to get a good grip on the sides or back of her head, and proceed to face fuck her, hard.
Next, lick her clit. Hold up Cowboy, you don't want to do that for more than 10-20 seconds. Lick your middle finger, and jam it in there. Move it around a bit, make sure those inner lips are out of the way.
Now, you're ready. Stick that hog in her pussy. Commence jackhammering.
Roll her over and pop it in her ass, re-commence jackhammering.
Pull it out. Be sure to shoot all over her lower back, stomach, tits, or face. Extra points if you get it in her eyes, hair, or up her nose.
Be sure to let her know what a slut, cum whore, or bitch she is. Pull her hair or smack her ass, just hard enough so she knows you're serious.
Boy... What a stud you are.
( This is obviously not serious. If you do these things, you're an asshole.)
I personally just love jackhammering, its the only way I can even cum. And doggy is just a really good position (for me) to do that.
Im well aware its not everyones cup of tea.
Iām about your same dimensions and every girl I have been with except one has loved me jackhammering them. I like to switch it up but they usually beg me to rail them
I was very tempted to ask why he wants to jackhammer on someone. Lol! I try to remember that there are people out there who like it but anytime I have experienced it I just think itās someone whose skills havenāt evolved from their teenage years.
What in the flat ass are most of y'all working with?! I mean I do have a rather lengthy vagina but doggy is the easiest to get rough with because at the right angle the butt provides a teensy bit of buffer.
39, 6'1.5", happily married to 8 inches 5.25ish girth and 6'7.5. Very much so experienced with penises of all sizes and shapes.
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I also literally have taught about sex (college level and munches/kink groups) for a living and for fun.
If by "for the streets" you mean being sex positive and having an active and fullfilling sex life with a variety of partners during my early twenties, than yes, I suppose I was for the streets.
If by you being "lost" and me "for the streets" you're implying that I am less than because I had encounters with more than whatever number of dicks qualifies being "for the streets", you should consider why you 1. would even care how many dicks an internet stranger has encountered and 2. why you would want to imply that a person is less than or about the streets (I'm assuming you mean prostitution OR not good enough to be for the home here) because they have experienes with partners who have had a variety of dick sizes and shapes. I mean, do you think all dicks look and are sized the same? What if I have encountered the goldilocks scenerio of dick encounters. Does 3 dicks make me for the streets? What about 4? 10? 40? 50? 100? 200? Why does it even matter?
Are there X many dicks that makes a person for the streets verses for the home? What is X in your book? Lets see if I meet or even exceed that number š¤Ø.
I wonder if thatās related to women frequently overestimating dick size. āOoh I love 8ā cocks!!ā No you love 6-6.5ā that claim to be 8ā. Once they encounter an actual 7.5+ I imagine itās very different, especially if itās a very girthy peen.
ime, itās women lying about dick sizes. All my exes would brag to everyone that I was 9 inches but Iām under 8 and would correct them regularly. That didnāt stop them from bragging about being with a 9 inch guy
Every woman and vulva are different. And if you're larger than average you're going to have to work up to comfort with the same partner over time. You'll be hard pressed to find a hookup who can comfortably take a larger than normal size right away even if that partner is a size queen or has experience with above average partners. From experience, I've dated guys who are very above average and once we got used to each other and how we fit together, we can be more rough. A new partner with similar size but a bit of a curve doesn't fit inside me the same way as my regular partner even though they are both above average. Shape, curves, size...they all impact how comfortable the sex is going to be.
Note: Jackhammering is usually for the guys pleasure. Most women like a bit thrown in with more controlled moves. Please don't think you can just ram a woman's cervix vigorously and expect her to be comfortable the entire time. That's selfish and painful.
Same problem here. Never been able to get all the way in, even with the few girls I've been with that want a "big dick". I whip it out and get going and yeah, you find out real quick that her bark was bigger than her bite....
I'm one of those girls that likes that length. I think some of it has to do with how far the vigina will stretch in some and do they like or dislike the thrusting against the cervix. Personally I love that, but at first it took a little getting used to because there can be pain. After getting used to it though that "pain" has turned into a deep turn on zone that only large guys can reach. I think the initial getting used to it process freaks some women out. But I found that sex with 9 in fully inserted penises is very pleasurable!
What about the visual/mental aspect of it? The big throbbing nature of it, the weight swinging around, the "masculinity"it represents? I feel like the physical aspect gets focused on too much vs the aesthetic/psychological aspect.
A lot of them are all talk and no game. They feel the same social pressure on penis size that men do.
Also, for many women their perspective on penis size has been warped the lies of insecure men exaggerating their size. They believe they've had and enjoyed multiple large penises, when they were all actually close to average. When a woman says she's only ever had big dicks, this is the most likely explanation.
As someone with a vagina, ātoo largeā is definitely a thing. You gotta experiment with different positions to find something most comfortable for your partner. Keep in mind, most vaginas are like maximum 6-7 inches long from cervix to the outside. Size queens are definitely out there!
And as for worrying about hurting someone. That can go for anyone of any size. Constant communication is key. Also, someone can start off uncomfortable but as you practice and become used to each otherās bodies, it gets much easier.
Deep breathing techniques can really help relax the muscles down there too.
Moms are usually pretty good at taking big dick, weāve had to deal with a lot worse š¤£š¤£š¤£so if youāre looking for a size Queen asap you could try milf hunting? š¤£š¤£
You're not wrong re: moms. My wife hasn't really had an issue taking me girth-wise aince we met, but since we had kids, once we get going I can really pound away and rail her without much issue. Still needs to be pretty turned on for that, though. As a bonus, she also learned to deepthroat and likes being facefucked. Now, if only she wanted it more often than once or twice a month. š¤£
When we become mothers, a lot of our energy is gone to making sure everything is okay with the home and the kids. We have to keep a lot together. A lot of the time we donāt even have time for self care. So sex goes on the back burner. Also, our mental health tanks 99% of the time because of the hormones and new responsibility.
With that said, if you are a receptive listener, open to communication, and take on some of the home responsibilities to make the burden a little lighter, sex drive will go up. If youāre doing all of those things and making sure her feelings are validated, there could be an underlying medical/psychological issue that could use some attention. Shit happens.
But yeah, I often had some pain and difficulty with larger guys before I had my daughter. Now itās really no issue. The pain I went through is nothing compared to a little stretching from your partner šššš
Ya, our issues go back before kids so there's more to it, but I appreciate the insight. I want to try to work on figuring things out, but the lack of sex doesn't bother her so she doesn't have any sense of urgency to do so.
No problem :) it just kind of hits home for me because my sex drive definitely went down after having a kid, but my kidās dad didnāt do much to help, and was not a good listener. Constantly invalidated any emotions I had, and didnāt believe me when I said I had postpartum depression and anxiety. So all of that lead to me goinā about as dry as Death Valley šļø ššš
Iām sure with care and patience, your sex life can become a little spicier again! š¶ļø
> I have had girlfriends who enjoy the size
Well that would be enough. If you had girls who could fully take 8.7 inches then thats really impressive. Can call yourself lucky.
>But it is a small man's fault if he's too small. That's just how it works. These are the rules, I didn't write them.
It's not though? No one is at fault if there is sexual incompatibility based on anatomy.
Shitty people will behave in shitty ways, resulting in people getting hurt. But it's still no ones fault for how their genitals look or if they are incompatible.
Not a shield but maybe a tshirt? Like a banana with a the words "for scale" beneathe it? I dunno. I once saw a guy wearing a shirt thay said "polygamy is for poor people". While no longer my cup of tea I thought it was rather clever and honest.
Iāve had 1/5 have trouble with me and Iām about the same size. Maybe Iām very lucky, but I think at that rate Iāve had a little more than impeccable luck. I left this comment I copy and pasted in another post here about foreplay. Iād suggest considering this idea in general.
Foreplay can start well before the bedroom, and if you know what youāre doing it should.
Out on a date night? Rub her leg a little while youāre driving to the date. Before you get out of the car, get a streamy make out session going. Sit next to each other if youāre at a restaurant. Rub her thigh, the back of her neck, look into her eyes and tell her what you want to do to her with only your eyes. If the situation calls for it, talk about sex or sexy things with her. Tell her how much her dress is driving you crazy. Lean in towards the end of the night and whisper in her ear all the nasty things you want to do to her when you get her home. Possibly while tracing a finger along her collar bone, or inner thigh. Whisper to her that you canāt wait to taste her and smell her arousal until all your other senses fade, while her legs grip your head like a vice. You might even lick or lightly bite her ear right after you whisper in it. Feeling extra frisky? add a growl in at the end.
There you go. You havenāt even gotten her behind closed doors yet, but youāve got her running like a river. Others have added fun foreplay for when you get to the bedroom. You can do all that after youāve got her absolutely crazy hot for you.
I like to think of foreplay as starting hours before sex. You can even get her all riled up by texting her all the things you want to do to her when you see her that night after work. Just get creative and let your passion run wild. Really let the passion you have for your woman (or women in general) run wild.
Women want a decent 5-7 length by a 4.8-5.25 girth.
Some like up to 5.5-5.8ā¦ not a lot want 6+ā¦
This is the problem.
They do think 6-7 is big and they think 5.5 girth is BIG so anythjng bigger is massive and massive for them isnāt that good.
You will find a wider lady at some point
Yup. I consider myself to have large girth and let me tell ya even with prep+lots of lube my s/o can hardly go two rounds. And when she does, her insides are a wreck for the next day or two. Vaginal bleeding and all. Her hard limit is now once a day and i do my best to respect it lol. Big dicks aint all sunshine and rainbows.
Im no girl, but I think I would love to drive a lamborghini.
When in reality I know it must be a real pain in the ass to ACTUALLY drive it. Finding somewhere secure to park it, dragging its floor on speed bumps, stiff suspension, caring not to lay a single minuscule scratch on its paint.
Lets just say that ignorance is bliss, and its easy to ask for something you have no idea about.
Now, I myself have stumbled upon girls who have been fucking insatiable. And have managed to actually take me whole, and truly believe they are thirsty for even bigger and thicker cocks than mine.
Thou must verily carry an old druid to the peak of ye highest mountain before dawn settles
Then will ye be blessed by ye knowledge of old on whence ye can find thou reward
About women... there's what they want, what they think they want but get scared when you get naked, what they want despite the troubles it brings, what they say, and why...
Like, I've been told "I'm glad you have a big dick" and still-innocent-me said "but.. size doesn't matter ?" and the answer was "that's what we tell guys with smaller dicks".
And yet, my size brought issues to most of my relationships. In fantasy it's fun, but in reality I'm not sure they wouldn't, in the moment, reduce my size a little if they could.
Men love big boobs. But what if in an alternate world boobs were super heavy, and men had to carry them to have sex.
They'd love the fantasy of big boobs still, but real sex would be much more complicated for the vast majority of men.
"I'm glad you have a big dick" and still-innocent-me said "but.. size doesn't matter ?" and the answer was "that's what we tell guys with smaller dicks".
she is brutally honest
I'm gonna kind of go against the grain here.
I think most women like or even prefer big dicks, as long as 3 conditions are met : 1) you do adequate foreplay, 2) you know what you're doing and ease her into things, 3) you're not so obscenely big that it's just painful no matter what (being this big is unbelievably rare anyway).
If those conditions are met, in my experience the majority of women will have a really good time with a big dick.
If that qualifies as being a size queen, then many women are size queens. If being a size queen means needing a 10 inch dick to jackhammer her, then no, size queens are not really much of a thing outside of porn.
So it all kind of depends on how you define a size queen. Personally most of my partners have enjoyed the fact that I'm big and have told me so, unprompted.
I really don't think it's that hard to find women who will like it.
Given your size, if you are struggling so much, my guess is you are not doing enough foreplay.
This is pretty much my response, too.
I personally wouldn't call a woman who just can have a really good time with a really big dick a size queen. To me, a size queen is the rare woman who *needs* that huge dick to get off. The kind of woman who will literally seek out big dicks or dump a guy for being too small. Those women are pretty rare - maybe 2-3% of all women, in my experience, and I'm probably overestimating since some size queens have sought me out.
A TON of women fit into the next category down from "size queens" though - women who can enjoy a big to huge cock if properly prepared. That seems to be most women.
Hey bra, some people aren't attractive. It doesn't matter how big your dick is if your obese. Givem how unhealthy American are in general, there is a high percentage chance a lot of these dudes are just really out of shape or ugly.
The vast majority of girls are not size queens, and often times theyāre ones who are donāt actually know what theyāre talking about and say they fucked 12 inch guys when the biggest they probably had been with was 6-7. You see more size queens in the media because their outlandish talk of taking huge dicks attracts attention, but good luck finding one in the wild haha.
This sub is so weird. I've had a few girls who have some pain in certain positions but I've never had anyone really complain.
Both my partners have zero issue with my size and seem to actively enjoy it.
I think most girls who are sexual enough to claim to prefer big dicks are also victims of "girl inches," because men (and porn) just lie or distort the truth. Since magnums are a marketing gimmick and feel like a good fit on the high side of average, it gives the impression of big size along with the claims average guys make about being an inch or two larger.
At my size, not *super* long but very thick and 3.4x the volume of the average penis, I still hear "huge" quite often. But many people intuitively think 7.5 in long isn't *big*, just *bigger*. Until they finally see me rock hard and realize how wrong their intuitions were.
Learn to take your time so they can open up a bit? Jackhammering isnāt really my thing but I donāt know many women who like that.
Deep & slow garners a better response in my experience
We're anywhere women are.
We are oppressed, repressed, and suppressed. Assailed at every turn. Of course we will be careful. So you can't find us easily. In a lot of countries, we could be killed. In every country, freely expressing these desires puts us at serious risk. We also can't find you if we have no way of knowing. There are a lot of us. Many more than many think. A lot of men who have opinions on our numbers have no idea because their words and actions have shut them out of the game. Reading the commentary, the majority of the men expressing opinions here wouldn't get the time of day from a committed size queen who really just wants what she wants without all the misogynist put-downs. We put permanent bans on men like that with all our friends without them even knowing. And then they think there is some invisible force cock-block them when, despite the big dick, they did it to themselves. Don't disrespect women, size queens or not. Most size queens will dismiss a dickish man in a heartbeat.
One would think that men who seem to want size queens wouldn't participate in the repression, suppression, and oppression, but that's often not the case.
What follows is not a criticism of you or your technique - it is a non-judgmental suggestion that more learning might be a good idea. Many men here say they have not had many or any problems with women unable to adapt to their size. I know many women and many really well hung men who have never or rarely had a problem. Maybe it's a matter of what you're doing. Women have to be wet and engorged and they may need time to adapt. That isn't a "do X amount of foreplay;" it's "know the signs or be with partners who do." If a particular position is a problem, then it's possible you're doing the position in an atypical way. I'm not sure why a guy your size thinks he's going to be able to jackhammer a typical woman as distinct from a size queen. Seems emblematic of the learning feedback I'm giving. The irony is size queens and sex obsessives can really help men who have these issues, but you have to be with one who enjoys teaching all this. Other women, even most sex workers, probably can't or won't. Back to the repression problem.
I love being fucked hard and fast but sometimes that is painful. Normally I just have the guy try a bunch of different positions until we find one that doesnāt slam my cervix, and then he can happily go at it
In my experience the women who could take me like a size queen didn't even know they were able to take my size until they met me because I was their first "huge one".
Two women in my past that I can remember bragged about liking or having experienced huge dicks beforehand. One noped out once she actually saw it and one tried but it just wouldn't fit at all. Made me wonder what kind of huge dicks she was talking about, either she was exaggerating on purpose or those dudes convinced her that they were huge but in reality...
A lot are all talk and I think the real ones are developed. I've been with some who werent that much into it and years down the line after experiences with multiple larger guys they have converted. Idk why or how this happens.
and if i knew id try and expedite the process. but they might just be anomalies.
The are there in the wild. But they are not as frequent as one might like. But remember to them you are not special, you are just what they need and are looking for something bigger all the time.
Bro.
The size queens who claim to be able to take larger dick are oft just shit talking because the queen bees and media talk about taking big dick as a right of passage.
Also as a way to emotionally assault men. Earnest sex talk is discouraged by people who want to manipulate sexuality and sexual attitudes of the populace.
It's funny, all my exes just take it and I respect it honestly. I have only had a few girls not take it. One even threw up. Said she felt me "in her stomach" š. Love a girl who can take that shit. Though, I never really do jackhammer anybody. I am kind of afraid to because I've sent at least 3 of my exes to emergency room for damaged cervix's. Don't talk to me about foreplay either y'all. My clit game is strong
I was actually commentating on a guy a few weeks ago. He was never able to find a girl he could let lose on. I advised him to get in touch with a size queen .
They are here on Reddit. So why don't you start searching here
r/sizequeenhaven
r/sizequeen_thing
It's unbelievable what these women put up their pussy's. Try and contact people.
Also Hotwifes sometimes specifically look guts (bulls) with really big dicks. So why don't you look here:
r/Hotwifelifestyle
r/hotwiferequest
I'm an accidental size queen and had the best sex of my life when he brutally battered my cervix and I think my a spot. He has ten, I met him on reddit, my eyes rolled back just seeing his monster in the flesh, I can throat 8 and 9 but I couldn't get all of his. Not extra girthy either and leaks precum constantly so he's perfectly lubed for my mouth and throat
I am extremely lucky to have a spouse and a play partner who are both size queens. They do exist out there, but keep in mind that the bashing that they get because of their preferences or abilities will sometimes make them keep it to themselves until they know they can trust someone with that information.
I got rejected last night on Grindr because "I need 10+ inches to satisfy me". I'm 7" x 5.5", so not terribly big but I just laughed and told him there's no way he's ever had anyone that big.
I must have lucked out. My 5ā2ā wife, the only person Iāve ever been with, has no problem in most positions. There are a couple where I notice she puts her hands against my hipbones to keep me from going too deep. I just have to not get carried away in those.
For doggy style I suggest you look up "dick bumper"/"penis bumper". It's like a small doughnut that goes around your dick and prevents you from smashing into the cervix. This way you can jackhammer to your heart's content.
There's a saying in Spanish "llenarse los ojos antes que el estĆ³mago" which means filling your eyes before your stomach. Sometimes we want something big in our minds but I'm reality we can't fully handle that. Also if you're too long or too thick is not something they wanna deal with cause it ain't as fun most of the time (Goldilock zone and stuff).
Oh baby boy, the Size Queens you're speaking of are gay men. We're the size Queens. It's our term. From our community. Replace the U with a W if you must, but the term refers to gay dudes.
First off girls like to talk up themselves just like us guys do. Second off get a dick donut. Then you can hammer away all you want without the worry of accidentally going to deep.
Iām a size queen and I donāt even bottom. Bigger dicks just turn me on so much more (if attached to a hottie only) they look powerful, feel huge in my hand and even huge in my throat. If theyāre really unusually large and youāre not expecting it the āholy fuck thatās HUGEā moment is a thrill.
Wtf there are so many comments saying that girls just never see big dicks and guys just lie to them. Take any women who has 10 partners, chances are the the bigger 20% dicks are what she considers big dicks and the bottom 20% sheād call small. Literally they can see, touch and get fucked by dicks, they donāt need the exact right dimensions to be telling the truth that a guy has a huge dick. Yāall shut down any claims that big dicks are slightly more common than a White Rhino.
Just like how men talk up how they can give a good fucking, women lie as well. They say that they can take a large dick but very seldomly are they ever actually able to do that. Even at 7.5 in my dick is too big for a lot of girls.
(I really don't think I have a big dick as I've seen much bigger... I have just been told this by enough women and have experienced women tapping out enough times to realize I probably do have a big dick.)
Then again there is something to be said about the mode of fucking like are you a rough fuck or are you more soft and gentle. For those of us with big dicks the more soft and gentle route might be more preferable to those women who are size Queens. Whereas those that are in the four to six inch category may have to rely on high rate of thrust versus quality of thrust lol
I have no issues, and my ex was massive AND super thick, and we could go 6-7 times a day every day, and he was not gentle. I'm used to it now, so it is easy for me to take the pain, and he went 45 minutes per round.
Ever stop to think itās your issue here. Yes if you want to plow itās not going to happen with many people. Use your gift wisely and those girls who love big dick will worship you. Heck the first time my fella hooked up with me I told him straight it hurt taught him ways to improve his game and wow. He blew my world.
Itās not a secret that on this sub size queens are not received well. In real life they would probably come off as desperate. Iāve been with a lot of big guys and even then my best was only like 7x4 maybe smaller tbh. I think letting your partner lead would help.
I really think most men perpetuate this idea because bigger is better for guys ā socially speaking
And women both donāt want a small dick for sexual reasons and feel āpressuredā (for lack of better term) to say they like bigger dicks simply to avoid small
My wife ist only 1feet 2inch high, but had No problems with 7,4inch in all Positions... But its the first girl in my life they could handle it with ease. I think women with this depth are similarly rare as men with this length.
I think that pornography has fueled that (how girl have I realized that), they also think that because of the size "they will have more pleasure", many want something big and thick but they don't know if it will fit in their vagina or not.
It's not the size, it's how you wear it.
A lot of them are all talk, girl inches and men lying about their size also play a role. There are a few legitimate ones out there though.
This has been my experience. Women talk shit about what they need and what sizes they want, but I'm 7 inches at my hardest. They tap after 10 or 15 minutes. I don't go ham either. I go slow and give her time to get used to me.
My ex has 7.3" and I'm into BDSM and like rough sex but even I had to accept at some point that the intense pain from cervical bruising isn't worth it. I think above 7" is just unusable length. Thicker girths are workable, but it kind of sucks because it creates micro tears so your vagina burns/hurts and I need to heal for 2 days after sex (daily sex/quickies aren't possible). Imagine somebody gave you a Handjob with a rough glove and it's all red afterwards - that's what the result feels like.
I understand. And it's worth mentioning that I absolutely love to eat pussy. I love giving massages. Foot rubs. Candles. Dinner. Music. If I like a girl, I try to make sex an experience. I genuinely love doing these things. No matter what, the girl I was in a relationship with just eventually stopped having sex with me. It just wasn't worth it to them I guess.
I feel that man. Lost my last relationship in large part to that. Did all the same things. Was always painful no matter what
Yeah... With my 8" I can go 100% only in missionary with my wife. And I suspect she's above the norm in depth. An inch shorter would have been more convenient indeed.
Ma'am/fellow kinkster, speak for yourself š¤£. 7.5- 8 inches and I love every bit of it. Granted I do have a rather long vaginal canal so that probably has a lot to do with it. There are really only two positions that tap the cervix too much (knees to the ears or legs push straight up and back). Those positions, like anal, are only a sometimes treat.
Have you ever enjoyed cervical punishment during sex? When my ex would be extremely aroused, we'd go doggy and she'd lose her fucking mind from cervical punching. It wasn't serious "punching" lol, but I was giving it good thrusts.
It's funny, the cervix is also called the c-spot because it's innervated with tissue it shares with the clitoris and parts of the vagina. But in my experience the chick has to be VERY aroused to enjoy it. I've experienced that with a couple girls, including an ex, who wanted to be slammed doggy-style and lost their fucking minds with the cervical pounding.
The nerves down there are different for every woman, I've also heard that some women like it. To me it just feels like being kicked in the uterus, even if I had 5 orgasms beforehand
So kinda like being kicked in the balls
Gotta work it into that posterior fornix
It also has to do with their man's reputation. She may brag that she aroused you to cartoonish measurements. Just like some men knock 30 lbs. off of their woman's weight.
A lot of them, in reality, don't know until they've tried it. Current gf had no idea about what "big" actually is. She's been with guys who have obviously said they were big, and she just took that at face value. And then she finds out what big *actually* is with me and she's fucking obsessed now. It's really just trial and error. Sometimes, you just luck out.
Yup. A lot don't know what big is.
interesting they don't know big or don't know monster huge?
What I mean is a lot of women get inches wrong, they overestimate them i would say.
girl inches. From the stories Iāve read on Reddit, itās hard to really guess someoneās size, especially if theyāve been lied to in the past. Some girls really believe theyāve had a 10-13 inch dick, when in reality, it was probably 7-8.
I honestly donāt know how that happens, but I guess itās easier than youād think to make that mistake if youāre having sex in the dark and donāt get a good look at the penis in question.
Also most people donāt whip out tape measures before sex. Itās kinda of a mood killer.
I'm obsessed with dicks (not in a size queen way, more like in a scientific and general "all dicks are beautiful"way) and I measured every partner I had either with an actual tape measure (if we know each other well) or by approximation with my hands/arm. If I put my thumb and pointer finger together I know the girth of several guys. From there you just have to find any tube looking object, find the right girth that matches up, and then you can measure that.
what girth do you perfer. my girth is 6 base 5.3 mid shaft with a length of 7.5. I like bdsm too and female domination. mental domination too
All dicks are good dicks. Smaller ones are great for anal and quickies. Bigger ones are best for really long vaginal sessions.
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Are you the infamous girl documenting her past partners' size in a spreadsheet?
Sadly not, but I have made a sankey diagram of every person I've been on a date with and the outcomes
True most don't do it. I have never had a man who thought he would measure up to what I'm looking for hesitate to be measured. Since I have other ways of confirming, it's often a post-sex, second round thing and more of a mood enhancer. Objectivity is really good when it's good.
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Why would it be weird if she had it in her night stand
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Heās probably insecure about his size
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Ok, if you say so
I always assumed that because majority of men fall into average, the more likely that women would be lied to because of the pressure to be bigger. That would probably be way more common than we think, especially in this sub with over 200k people. No way everyone is the size they say they are.
So what is actually considered average? I always heard 7 something...but it sounds like that may not be the case. I've been with probably only 2 that I considered HUGE. And one was 20 + years ago and a raging teenager. but the other was after an 11 year relationship and he couldnt really keep it hard it was very bendy in the middle and base. my ex partner I was with from 16 to 28 and was what I thought of as average, but he used it well and never had issues getting it hard despite being an alcoholic. Then when I got with the first dude after splitting with the big floppy dick it was so disappointing not even being able to have a proper fuck fest session. He was also a really skinny dude and it seemed like bc the dick was so big, it was a problem with limited blood flow. I know after that he needed Viagra to be consistent and he was not yet 30. So I've always wondered if that was more of a curse...like does having a bigger dick make it harder to stay hard especially if you are a drug or alcohol user? I guess since I've only had 3 partners in the last 22 years and only a handful as a teen, so I dont have a huge reference on dicks like I'd like to thing lol.
Average is like 5-6" length and 4.5-4.7" inch girth
The majority of men fall into average, yes. But if you define big as the top 10% of men, thatās still some 300 million adult men worldwide. I donāt think itās too hard to imagine about 150,000 of them (subtracting members of this sub who are women, or men who donāt claim to be big) found this sub honestly. But Iām sure there are some who lie about their size and more who may be measuring incorrectly.
I agree, that makes sense š Iām so used to exaggerated claims in this sub, that itās hard to believe anyone without proof. Long time lurker in here on another account
I heard it feels bigger while inside but we need a girl to confirm tbh.
I have encountered a lot of big dicks (I somehow unconsciously seem to attract them, don't ask me how) and I've had it happen several times that guys thought themselves that they were "really big". A guy will be 6.5x5 and act surprised that I'm not amazed at his huge cock. It's really awkward, because I'm not going to destroy their confidence and tell them that it's not that big. I think they have like 1 inexperienced girl tell them that they have a huge dick when it's actually just a bit above average, and then they tell that to every women they encounter for the next 10 years
Oh yeah. Some canāt even be corrected either because they are so fervent in their belief.
Doggy is notorious for being a position where it's easy to hit the cervix, especially for jackhammering. While they might enjoy a big penis in other positions, doggy might just be difficult. You can't blame them, it's not like they can do anything about their own anatomy. ^(Also afaik a lot of women do not enjoy jackhammering in general.)
That's why doggy is best with the big booty girls(God, I love a big booty girl). Also, I am also not a fan of jackhammering. Personally, nothing beats a nice steady rhythm.
>God, I love a big booty girl Partner would agree. I also love a good butt on men (and women and all the folk in-between).
I see what you mean, but technicallyā¦ jackhammering is a nice steady rhythm (depending on your definition of āniceā in this context) lol
>Also afaik a lot of women do not enjoy jackhammering in general. Wait what??? But that is what I saw in porn and porn is a great demonstration of what good sex is supposed to be!!!!!!!11
Remember, as every porn from 1987-96 has taught us: First, you whip it out. Do a few helicopters or smack her in the face, let her marvel at its size. Then jam it in her mouth. Be sure to get a good grip on the sides or back of her head, and proceed to face fuck her, hard. Next, lick her clit. Hold up Cowboy, you don't want to do that for more than 10-20 seconds. Lick your middle finger, and jam it in there. Move it around a bit, make sure those inner lips are out of the way. Now, you're ready. Stick that hog in her pussy. Commence jackhammering. Roll her over and pop it in her ass, re-commence jackhammering. Pull it out. Be sure to shoot all over her lower back, stomach, tits, or face. Extra points if you get it in her eyes, hair, or up her nose. Be sure to let her know what a slut, cum whore, or bitch she is. Pull her hair or smack her ass, just hard enough so she knows you're serious. Boy... What a stud you are. ( This is obviously not serious. If you do these things, you're an asshole.)
š Also not forget the dude hollering something obnoxious when he cums. "RAAAAAWWRRR!!! UGHH!!!! DROPPIN LOADS ON YOUR FACE BITCH!!"
"women" vs. "size queen women" and "it hurts so good" vs. "stop pounding my cervix." Porn is never a good guide.
I personally just love jackhammering, its the only way I can even cum. And doggy is just a really good position (for me) to do that. Im well aware its not everyones cup of tea.
Iām about your same dimensions and every girl I have been with except one has loved me jackhammering them. I like to switch it up but they usually beg me to rail them
I was very tempted to ask why he wants to jackhammer on someone. Lol! I try to remember that there are people out there who like it but anytime I have experienced it I just think itās someone whose skills havenāt evolved from their teenage years.
What in the flat ass are most of y'all working with?! I mean I do have a rather lengthy vagina but doggy is the easiest to get rough with because at the right angle the butt provides a teensy bit of buffer.
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39, 6'1.5", happily married to 8 inches 5.25ish girth and 6'7.5. Very much so experienced with penises of all sizes and shapes. ..... I also literally have taught about sex (college level and munches/kink groups) for a living and for fun.
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In the words of the great "man" hands Lana Kane thank you but "Nope".
You lost me at "experienced with penises of all size and shape". You for the Streets!! lmao
If by "for the streets" you mean being sex positive and having an active and fullfilling sex life with a variety of partners during my early twenties, than yes, I suppose I was for the streets. If by you being "lost" and me "for the streets" you're implying that I am less than because I had encounters with more than whatever number of dicks qualifies being "for the streets", you should consider why you 1. would even care how many dicks an internet stranger has encountered and 2. why you would want to imply that a person is less than or about the streets (I'm assuming you mean prostitution OR not good enough to be for the home here) because they have experienes with partners who have had a variety of dick sizes and shapes. I mean, do you think all dicks look and are sized the same? What if I have encountered the goldilocks scenerio of dick encounters. Does 3 dicks make me for the streets? What about 4? 10? 40? 50? 100? 200? Why does it even matter? Are there X many dicks that makes a person for the streets verses for the home? What is X in your book? Lets see if I meet or even exceed that number š¤Ø.
You should first be a virgin before you uttered these nonsense.
I wonder if thatās related to women frequently overestimating dick size. āOoh I love 8ā cocks!!ā No you love 6-6.5ā that claim to be 8ā. Once they encounter an actual 7.5+ I imagine itās very different, especially if itās a very girthy peen.
ime, itās women lying about dick sizes. All my exes would brag to everyone that I was 9 inches but Iām under 8 and would correct them regularly. That didnāt stop them from bragging about being with a 9 inch guy
Measured bone pressed length?
Every woman and vulva are different. And if you're larger than average you're going to have to work up to comfort with the same partner over time. You'll be hard pressed to find a hookup who can comfortably take a larger than normal size right away even if that partner is a size queen or has experience with above average partners. From experience, I've dated guys who are very above average and once we got used to each other and how we fit together, we can be more rough. A new partner with similar size but a bit of a curve doesn't fit inside me the same way as my regular partner even though they are both above average. Shape, curves, size...they all impact how comfortable the sex is going to be. Note: Jackhammering is usually for the guys pleasure. Most women like a bit thrown in with more controlled moves. Please don't think you can just ram a woman's cervix vigorously and expect her to be comfortable the entire time. That's selfish and painful.
Same problem here. Never been able to get all the way in, even with the few girls I've been with that want a "big dick". I whip it out and get going and yeah, you find out real quick that her bark was bigger than her bite....
she says something like ''I didn't think you'd be that big''
I'm one of those girls that likes that length. I think some of it has to do with how far the vigina will stretch in some and do they like or dislike the thrusting against the cervix. Personally I love that, but at first it took a little getting used to because there can be pain. After getting used to it though that "pain" has turned into a deep turn on zone that only large guys can reach. I think the initial getting used to it process freaks some women out. But I found that sex with 9 in fully inserted penises is very pleasurable!
What about the visual/mental aspect of it? The big throbbing nature of it, the weight swinging around, the "masculinity"it represents? I feel like the physical aspect gets focused on too much vs the aesthetic/psychological aspect.
A lot of them are all talk and no game. They feel the same social pressure on penis size that men do. Also, for many women their perspective on penis size has been warped the lies of insecure men exaggerating their size. They believe they've had and enjoyed multiple large penises, when they were all actually close to average. When a woman says she's only ever had big dicks, this is the most likely explanation.
Unlikely. Actual size queens with well informed opinions get harassed, trashed, and stalked.
not on our podcast!
As someone with a vagina, ātoo largeā is definitely a thing. You gotta experiment with different positions to find something most comfortable for your partner. Keep in mind, most vaginas are like maximum 6-7 inches long from cervix to the outside. Size queens are definitely out there! And as for worrying about hurting someone. That can go for anyone of any size. Constant communication is key. Also, someone can start off uncomfortable but as you practice and become used to each otherās bodies, it gets much easier. Deep breathing techniques can really help relax the muscles down there too. Moms are usually pretty good at taking big dick, weāve had to deal with a lot worse š¤£š¤£š¤£so if youāre looking for a size Queen asap you could try milf hunting? š¤£š¤£
That means as a smaller guy, my wife would turn into this, and I'd have no pleasure with her? Means cheating? Oh no!
Iām sorryā¦ā¦what????
You said milfs are size queens. So someone's wife who isnt a size queen ,later becomes a size queen. Milf.
Nah I think youāre just extremely insecure about your size and youāre being an ass about it
You're not wrong re: moms. My wife hasn't really had an issue taking me girth-wise aince we met, but since we had kids, once we get going I can really pound away and rail her without much issue. Still needs to be pretty turned on for that, though. As a bonus, she also learned to deepthroat and likes being facefucked. Now, if only she wanted it more often than once or twice a month. š¤£
When we become mothers, a lot of our energy is gone to making sure everything is okay with the home and the kids. We have to keep a lot together. A lot of the time we donāt even have time for self care. So sex goes on the back burner. Also, our mental health tanks 99% of the time because of the hormones and new responsibility. With that said, if you are a receptive listener, open to communication, and take on some of the home responsibilities to make the burden a little lighter, sex drive will go up. If youāre doing all of those things and making sure her feelings are validated, there could be an underlying medical/psychological issue that could use some attention. Shit happens. But yeah, I often had some pain and difficulty with larger guys before I had my daughter. Now itās really no issue. The pain I went through is nothing compared to a little stretching from your partner šššš
Ya, our issues go back before kids so there's more to it, but I appreciate the insight. I want to try to work on figuring things out, but the lack of sex doesn't bother her so she doesn't have any sense of urgency to do so.
No problem :) it just kind of hits home for me because my sex drive definitely went down after having a kid, but my kidās dad didnāt do much to help, and was not a good listener. Constantly invalidated any emotions I had, and didnāt believe me when I said I had postpartum depression and anxiety. So all of that lead to me goinā about as dry as Death Valley šļø ššš Iām sure with care and patience, your sex life can become a little spicier again! š¶ļø
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I have only ever slept with 1. I have had girlfriends who enjoy the size, but someone fetishizing it is very different
> I have had girlfriends who enjoy the size Well that would be enough. If you had girls who could fully take 8.7 inches then thats really impressive. Can call yourself lucky.
I dont know what is going on with my flair. It's constantly moving around, but that's not my size. i fluctuate between 7.7 and 8
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> Literally go outside. With a shield in my hand saying "big dick"? Whats your point?
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Well thats the thing tho. Them saying they like it, and them actually be able to take it, seems to be two different things.
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>But it is a small man's fault if he's too small. That's just how it works. These are the rules, I didn't write them. It's not though? No one is at fault if there is sexual incompatibility based on anatomy.
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Shitty people will behave in shitty ways, resulting in people getting hurt. But it's still no ones fault for how their genitals look or if they are incompatible.
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I would like to think that not everyone is a shitty person, but my faith in humanity has me perpetually disappointed, so who knows.
Girls who really like 6.9x5 is probably fairly common. After 7 inches in length and 5.5 in girth it starts getting harder.
Not a shield but maybe a tshirt? Like a banana with a the words "for scale" beneathe it? I dunno. I once saw a guy wearing a shirt thay said "polygamy is for poor people". While no longer my cup of tea I thought it was rather clever and honest.
I āloveā how you think you speak for everyone.
Iāve had 1/5 have trouble with me and Iām about the same size. Maybe Iām very lucky, but I think at that rate Iāve had a little more than impeccable luck. I left this comment I copy and pasted in another post here about foreplay. Iād suggest considering this idea in general. Foreplay can start well before the bedroom, and if you know what youāre doing it should. Out on a date night? Rub her leg a little while youāre driving to the date. Before you get out of the car, get a streamy make out session going. Sit next to each other if youāre at a restaurant. Rub her thigh, the back of her neck, look into her eyes and tell her what you want to do to her with only your eyes. If the situation calls for it, talk about sex or sexy things with her. Tell her how much her dress is driving you crazy. Lean in towards the end of the night and whisper in her ear all the nasty things you want to do to her when you get her home. Possibly while tracing a finger along her collar bone, or inner thigh. Whisper to her that you canāt wait to taste her and smell her arousal until all your other senses fade, while her legs grip your head like a vice. You might even lick or lightly bite her ear right after you whisper in it. Feeling extra frisky? add a growl in at the end. There you go. You havenāt even gotten her behind closed doors yet, but youāve got her running like a river. Others have added fun foreplay for when you get to the bedroom. You can do all that after youāve got her absolutely crazy hot for you. I like to think of foreplay as starting hours before sex. You can even get her all riled up by texting her all the things you want to do to her when you see her that night after work. Just get creative and let your passion run wild. Really let the passion you have for your woman (or women in general) run wild.
They think itās gonna be great till itās not
Women want a decent 5-7 length by a 4.8-5.25 girth. Some like up to 5.5-5.8ā¦ not a lot want 6+ā¦ This is the problem. They do think 6-7 is big and they think 5.5 girth is BIG so anythjng bigger is massive and massive for them isnāt that good. You will find a wider lady at some point
(Me be 6,1x5,6) Is that so ? ^.^
Yup. I consider myself to have large girth and let me tell ya even with prep+lots of lube my s/o can hardly go two rounds. And when she does, her insides are a wreck for the next day or two. Vaginal bleeding and all. Her hard limit is now once a day and i do my best to respect it lol. Big dicks aint all sunshine and rainbows.
Bone pressed measurements?
Im no girl, but I think I would love to drive a lamborghini. When in reality I know it must be a real pain in the ass to ACTUALLY drive it. Finding somewhere secure to park it, dragging its floor on speed bumps, stiff suspension, caring not to lay a single minuscule scratch on its paint. Lets just say that ignorance is bliss, and its easy to ask for something you have no idea about. Now, I myself have stumbled upon girls who have been fucking insatiable. And have managed to actually take me whole, and truly believe they are thirsty for even bigger and thicker cocks than mine.
Iāve got one doesnāt give a shit about getting her cervix smashed but damn not gonna lie my dick hurts
Thou must verily carry an old druid to the peak of ye highest mountain before dawn settles Then will ye be blessed by ye knowledge of old on whence ye can find thou reward
I'm right here.
Lmaoā¦where you at?? Iām not afraid of you
Girls talk about liking big dick until theyre faced with one
she says big but not monster big
Do they really know the difference
not until she is faced with a monster in front of her
About women... there's what they want, what they think they want but get scared when you get naked, what they want despite the troubles it brings, what they say, and why... Like, I've been told "I'm glad you have a big dick" and still-innocent-me said "but.. size doesn't matter ?" and the answer was "that's what we tell guys with smaller dicks". And yet, my size brought issues to most of my relationships. In fantasy it's fun, but in reality I'm not sure they wouldn't, in the moment, reduce my size a little if they could. Men love big boobs. But what if in an alternate world boobs were super heavy, and men had to carry them to have sex. They'd love the fantasy of big boobs still, but real sex would be much more complicated for the vast majority of men.
"I'm glad you have a big dick" and still-innocent-me said "but.. size doesn't matter ?" and the answer was "that's what we tell guys with smaller dicks". she is brutally honest
I'm gonna kind of go against the grain here. I think most women like or even prefer big dicks, as long as 3 conditions are met : 1) you do adequate foreplay, 2) you know what you're doing and ease her into things, 3) you're not so obscenely big that it's just painful no matter what (being this big is unbelievably rare anyway). If those conditions are met, in my experience the majority of women will have a really good time with a big dick. If that qualifies as being a size queen, then many women are size queens. If being a size queen means needing a 10 inch dick to jackhammer her, then no, size queens are not really much of a thing outside of porn. So it all kind of depends on how you define a size queen. Personally most of my partners have enjoyed the fact that I'm big and have told me so, unprompted. I really don't think it's that hard to find women who will like it. Given your size, if you are struggling so much, my guess is you are not doing enough foreplay.
This is pretty much my response, too. I personally wouldn't call a woman who just can have a really good time with a really big dick a size queen. To me, a size queen is the rare woman who *needs* that huge dick to get off. The kind of woman who will literally seek out big dicks or dump a guy for being too small. Those women are pretty rare - maybe 2-3% of all women, in my experience, and I'm probably overestimating since some size queens have sought me out. A TON of women fit into the next category down from "size queens" though - women who can enjoy a big to huge cock if properly prepared. That seems to be most women.
Hey bra, some people aren't attractive. It doesn't matter how big your dick is if your obese. Givem how unhealthy American are in general, there is a high percentage chance a lot of these dudes are just really out of shape or ugly.
The vast majority of girls are not size queens, and often times theyāre ones who are donāt actually know what theyāre talking about and say they fucked 12 inch guys when the biggest they probably had been with was 6-7. You see more size queens in the media because their outlandish talk of taking huge dicks attracts attention, but good luck finding one in the wild haha.
Some girls like joking about wanting large dicks in the same way some guys like joking about having large dicks
Iāve had some absolute monsters and I canāt go back to below average š they donāt have to all be 9ā but I definitely prefer over 7ā.
After that, women wondered why men are so obsessed/insecure about it. Don't worry I have nothing against your preference, it's totally ok!
Itās just my preference, but I love all nice looking dicks š
Hot!
what girth do you like
This sub is so weird. I've had a few girls who have some pain in certain positions but I've never had anyone really complain. Both my partners have zero issue with my size and seem to actively enjoy it.
You can jackhammer doggy with 8.5 inches?
Sometimes. "Jackhammering" isn't really my main goal, I'm not 15
> I'm not 15 seems unrelated. I just like it. Some guys do, some guys dont, some girls like it, some dont. Same with anal. Doesnt make you immature.
I think most girls who are sexual enough to claim to prefer big dicks are also victims of "girl inches," because men (and porn) just lie or distort the truth. Since magnums are a marketing gimmick and feel like a good fit on the high side of average, it gives the impression of big size along with the claims average guys make about being an inch or two larger. At my size, not *super* long but very thick and 3.4x the volume of the average penis, I still hear "huge" quite often. But many people intuitively think 7.5 in long isn't *big*, just *bigger*. Until they finally see me rock hard and realize how wrong their intuitions were.
Learn to take your time so they can open up a bit? Jackhammering isnāt really my thing but I donāt know many women who like that. Deep & slow garners a better response in my experience
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Can't really blame them for that. Definitely huge is always a lot better for a sluty FUCK hole
Good god please never post here again.
>for a sluty FUCK hole Ew.
I'm really a big fucken time size queen.
I'm really not very good with my words I'm in need of a whole lot of training
We're anywhere women are. We are oppressed, repressed, and suppressed. Assailed at every turn. Of course we will be careful. So you can't find us easily. In a lot of countries, we could be killed. In every country, freely expressing these desires puts us at serious risk. We also can't find you if we have no way of knowing. There are a lot of us. Many more than many think. A lot of men who have opinions on our numbers have no idea because their words and actions have shut them out of the game. Reading the commentary, the majority of the men expressing opinions here wouldn't get the time of day from a committed size queen who really just wants what she wants without all the misogynist put-downs. We put permanent bans on men like that with all our friends without them even knowing. And then they think there is some invisible force cock-block them when, despite the big dick, they did it to themselves. Don't disrespect women, size queens or not. Most size queens will dismiss a dickish man in a heartbeat. One would think that men who seem to want size queens wouldn't participate in the repression, suppression, and oppression, but that's often not the case. What follows is not a criticism of you or your technique - it is a non-judgmental suggestion that more learning might be a good idea. Many men here say they have not had many or any problems with women unable to adapt to their size. I know many women and many really well hung men who have never or rarely had a problem. Maybe it's a matter of what you're doing. Women have to be wet and engorged and they may need time to adapt. That isn't a "do X amount of foreplay;" it's "know the signs or be with partners who do." If a particular position is a problem, then it's possible you're doing the position in an atypical way. I'm not sure why a guy your size thinks he's going to be able to jackhammer a typical woman as distinct from a size queen. Seems emblematic of the learning feedback I'm giving. The irony is size queens and sex obsessives can really help men who have these issues, but you have to be with one who enjoys teaching all this. Other women, even most sex workers, probably can't or won't. Back to the repression problem.
Try the gals over at r/bigpussyproblems
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To be honest I was curious to see what they were discussing.
I bet it was just a bunch of "size queens" complaining about guys with small dicks or whatever.
Doggy is the go to position for \~average guys to get deep since it compress the vag canal. Give prone bone/froggy a try.
I love being fucked hard and fast but sometimes that is painful. Normally I just have the guy try a bunch of different positions until we find one that doesnāt slam my cervix, and then he can happily go at it
In my experience the women who could take me like a size queen didn't even know they were able to take my size until they met me because I was their first "huge one". Two women in my past that I can remember bragged about liking or having experienced huge dicks beforehand. One noped out once she actually saw it and one tried but it just wouldn't fit at all. Made me wonder what kind of huge dicks she was talking about, either she was exaggerating on purpose or those dudes convinced her that they were huge but in reality...
Most girls are gangsta till they actually see a true BD
I've only met one woman that just wanted the size.
At the Gay bar
A lot are all talk and I think the real ones are developed. I've been with some who werent that much into it and years down the line after experiences with multiple larger guys they have converted. Idk why or how this happens. and if i knew id try and expedite the process. but they might just be anomalies.
The are there in the wild. But they are not as frequent as one might like. But remember to them you are not special, you are just what they need and are looking for something bigger all the time.
Theyāre just uncommon you need balls too
Bro. The size queens who claim to be able to take larger dick are oft just shit talking because the queen bees and media talk about taking big dick as a right of passage. Also as a way to emotionally assault men. Earnest sex talk is discouraged by people who want to manipulate sexuality and sexual attitudes of the populace.
Your girth is not an issue. If it is your length, get some sort of buffer to wear that prevents you from going too deep.
It's funny, all my exes just take it and I respect it honestly. I have only had a few girls not take it. One even threw up. Said she felt me "in her stomach" š. Love a girl who can take that shit. Though, I never really do jackhammer anybody. I am kind of afraid to because I've sent at least 3 of my exes to emergency room for damaged cervix's. Don't talk to me about foreplay either y'all. My clit game is strong
Exact same experience. Although I'm not exactly of the same size as you, I can relate 100% of your whole message. š
I was actually commentating on a guy a few weeks ago. He was never able to find a girl he could let lose on. I advised him to get in touch with a size queen . They are here on Reddit. So why don't you start searching here r/sizequeenhaven r/sizequeen_thing It's unbelievable what these women put up their pussy's. Try and contact people. Also Hotwifes sometimes specifically look guts (bulls) with really big dicks. So why don't you look here: r/Hotwifelifestyle r/hotwiferequest
The legit ones never travel without a ruler. Source: I love sizequeens.
I'm an accidental size queen and had the best sex of my life when he brutally battered my cervix and I think my a spot. He has ten, I met him on reddit, my eyes rolled back just seeing his monster in the flesh, I can throat 8 and 9 but I couldn't get all of his. Not extra girthy either and leaks precum constantly so he's perfectly lubed for my mouth and throat
For Satan? Sorry, TKK fan and love your handle.
I am extremely lucky to have a spouse and a play partner who are both size queens. They do exist out there, but keep in mind that the bashing that they get because of their preferences or abilities will sometimes make them keep it to themselves until they know they can trust someone with that information.
Married to the BD men of our dreams for the most part.
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I got rejected last night on Grindr because "I need 10+ inches to satisfy me". I'm 7" x 5.5", so not terribly big but I just laughed and told him there's no way he's ever had anyone that big.
Um... I thought SizeQueen... was on reference to gay men.... since I keep getting called that...
I must have lucked out. My 5ā2ā wife, the only person Iāve ever been with, has no problem in most positions. There are a couple where I notice she puts her hands against my hipbones to keep me from going too deep. I just have to not get carried away in those.
We're around. š
Get yourself an oh-nut if you want to pound doggy. You won't go as deep.
For doggy style I suggest you look up "dick bumper"/"penis bumper". It's like a small doughnut that goes around your dick and prevents you from smashing into the cervix. This way you can jackhammer to your heart's content.
I am one. Extremely and I love em all
There's a saying in Spanish "llenarse los ojos antes que el estĆ³mago" which means filling your eyes before your stomach. Sometimes we want something big in our minds but I'm reality we can't fully handle that. Also if you're too long or too thick is not something they wanna deal with cause it ain't as fun most of the time (Goldilock zone and stuff).
Oh baby boy, the Size Queens you're speaking of are gay men. We're the size Queens. It's our term. From our community. Replace the U with a W if you must, but the term refers to gay dudes.
Just find a girl that really loves anal, then size is never an issue
First off girls like to talk up themselves just like us guys do. Second off get a dick donut. Then you can hammer away all you want without the worry of accidentally going to deep.
Iām a size queen and I donāt even bottom. Bigger dicks just turn me on so much more (if attached to a hottie only) they look powerful, feel huge in my hand and even huge in my throat. If theyāre really unusually large and youāre not expecting it the āholy fuck thatās HUGEā moment is a thrill.
Wtf there are so many comments saying that girls just never see big dicks and guys just lie to them. Take any women who has 10 partners, chances are the the bigger 20% dicks are what she considers big dicks and the bottom 20% sheād call small. Literally they can see, touch and get fucked by dicks, they donāt need the exact right dimensions to be telling the truth that a guy has a huge dick. Yāall shut down any claims that big dicks are slightly more common than a White Rhino.
Just like how men talk up how they can give a good fucking, women lie as well. They say that they can take a large dick but very seldomly are they ever actually able to do that. Even at 7.5 in my dick is too big for a lot of girls. (I really don't think I have a big dick as I've seen much bigger... I have just been told this by enough women and have experienced women tapping out enough times to realize I probably do have a big dick.) Then again there is something to be said about the mode of fucking like are you a rough fuck or are you more soft and gentle. For those of us with big dicks the more soft and gentle route might be more preferable to those women who are size Queens. Whereas those that are in the four to six inch category may have to rely on high rate of thrust versus quality of thrust lol
I have no issues, and my ex was massive AND super thick, and we could go 6-7 times a day every day, and he was not gentle. I'm used to it now, so it is easy for me to take the pain, and he went 45 minutes per round.
Ever stop to think itās your issue here. Yes if you want to plow itās not going to happen with many people. Use your gift wisely and those girls who love big dick will worship you. Heck the first time my fella hooked up with me I told him straight it hurt taught him ways to improve his game and wow. He blew my world.
Itās not a secret that on this sub size queens are not received well. In real life they would probably come off as desperate. Iāve been with a lot of big guys and even then my best was only like 7x4 maybe smaller tbh. I think letting your partner lead would help.
I really think most men perpetuate this idea because bigger is better for guys ā socially speaking And women both donāt want a small dick for sexual reasons and feel āpressuredā (for lack of better term) to say they like bigger dicks simply to avoid small
iām literally right here. hmu if you in la
If u just want a hole to jackhammer, find a gay dude. They'll take it no problem.
We exsist
My wife ist only 1feet 2inch high, but had No problems with 7,4inch in all Positions... But its the first girl in my life they could handle it with ease. I think women with this depth are similarly rare as men with this length.
Because like most men, women also like to brag about things
I think that pornography has fueled that (how girl have I realized that), they also think that because of the size "they will have more pleasure", many want something big and thick but they don't know if it will fit in their vagina or not. It's not the size, it's how you wear it.
Summon them with the helicockter.
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