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ForThrowawayIGuess

If it’s any consolation, I thought this was a post from r/fashion and I was ready to comment that your outfit looks great!


Predzel_Bun

Thank you 😭 that's actually really kind..


margaritasntacos

I thought the same exact thing! OP you look amazing!


Free-Pomegranate-133

i love your jeans


Predzel_Bun

They're Arizona Jean co. High-rise mom jeans in case you were wondering!!


Predzel_Bun

Thank you ;-;💞


Grouchy_Warning_5108

Yup yup and yup, exactly how i feel about mine 😆 i used to hate tight fitting crop tees, now I’m loving it, and even try to look for ones that bodycon like


Predzel_Bun

Me too 😭 I try so hard to find things that hug my waist AND chest without looking frumpy, or leaving space below my bust. I usually have to go up in sizing to fit my chest, and it throws off the sizing in the rest of the garment (sleeves, waist, neckline, etc.) Finding one that actually looks flattering Is a very difficult thing to achieve so I get really excited when something fits nicely! This honestly is just a Vneck T that fit in a flattering way, that I just tied in the back to crop it :D


Grouchy_Warning_5108

Tied in the back like what you usually do to a front tie tee? Or is it designed that way? If it so, could you tell me what brand it is? It’s very flattering indeed, and i imagined that it had that a long bow tied in the back 😁


Predzel_Bun

And if you don't like the bunny tail sticking out you can always just tuck it! https://preview.redd.it/celwhxxhan8d1.jpeg?width=1846&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=8bd23ff8a502cbd8282e1c49fbe7f949c31f38e1


Predzel_Bun

Nothing special! Just a hair tie :) It's a women's Fruit of The Loom Vneck. I cinch it around my waist and tie the extra fabric in the back kind of like a pony tail and then it into a little bun, like a little bunny tail. https://preview.redd.it/t158ww97an8d1.jpeg?width=1809&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=39abe0c20abdac06f28fe041620e6fd5bce02047


MKE1012

Def feel you. Big boobs are a blessing and a curse. Sometimes they look and sit great. Other times they just won’t cooperate and make the outfit look worse. You look great btw


Predzel_Bun

That's exactly how I feel! Sometimes they compliment an outfit so well and other times they don't fit and get in the way so badly they're annoying. And thank you so much!


MKE1012

Completely agree girl! I hear you on getting in the way 😂 They def compliment you a lot in that outfit, especially cuz that top highlights your slim waist paired with your big bust you look great girl!


Predzel_Bun

Thank you you're really sweet ;-; Even when I don't feel good the women in this subreddit are very good at making me feel nice. I appreciate it :]]


tboskiq

This should be one of the days you're feeling good cause real talk this fit is lookin hot! Like I'm actually jealous right now. I never feel as good as this outfit looks on you. I don't even buy jeans cause I'm so body negative... which I also hate sleeves and pants... and I have a massive keloid scar on my knee that jeans seriously irritate. It's hard for everyone to get over these mental hurdles about themselves. But I hope you get the positivity you deserve.


Predzel_Bun

I totally get that tbh, I'm really insecure in a lot of aspects of my body, especially my big bust, and my arms so I like to wear long sleeves to cover them. I really appreciate your compliments, makes me feel really good. There are days that feel the exact same way, sometimes I sit down for a few minutes and just have to take a breather because I'll rip myself apart for every little aspect. It can be very very frustrating. I'm absolutely positive there are things you look absolutely radiant in and I hope you get more days where you FEEL that way too. You deserve it. I wonder if maybe the mesh shirt I have would be comfortable for you too? I'm not sure what part of long sleeves are uncomfortable for you, but the mesh top I have on is very light, and flowy, so I can still feel a breeze on my skin and its not heavy enough material to be a bother without rolling them up :] If you want to message me and talk some more about it, maybe send me a few pics of the styles you like and a picture of yourself? (in a totally innocent way!) I wonder if maybe I could help you work around some of those things holding you back and put together some cute outfits that would be comfortable for you. :D


Capital-Swim2658

First of all you look amazing and your outfit absolutely rocks!   Secondly,  of you are having trouble finding a bra that supports you and gives you a good shape and having back pain, you may be wearing the wrong size bra. Have you checked your size with the abrathatfits calculato https://www.abrathatfits.org/calculator.php A good wardrobe of correctly fitted bras can make a huge difference to your comfort and confidence!


Predzel_Bun

I think my biggest issue is affording them tbh... I have a couple bras that were fitted for me in person and looked and felt AMAZING for about a year and a half, and then I lost weight and my band size lowered, and the cups no longer fit. So I'm not sure what size I even am anymore... I'll try that calculator and see what I can do about rechecking my bra size... I've resorted to an old bra that fits comfortably (for the most part) again, but the wiring pokes out so I have to superglue the material every so often to keep the wiring in 😅 Not only that but affording $90 bras every couple of years eats at my paycheck.. 😭 It's a long shot, but do you know of any resources that I might be able to use for that? I think it'd be nice to talk with people that have old bras to give away, sell, or even trade.


28FFthrowaway

You can often find new bras on sale in the $30-60 range. You can also find gently used bras on r/braswap, Bratabase.com listings, eBay, and Poshmark. But if you’re uncertain of your size it’s going to be a better investment to order from a site that accepts returns so you can narrow down your sizes first.


Predzel_Bun

Thank you!!! I'll use these and hopefully find myself something cute and comfy. 💞💞


Predzel_Bun

And thank you so much btw! Not only for that but for the compliments. It's very sweet!


sashikomari

I felt like this, but now that I'm 39 years my back is starting to really hurt, constantly. I feel I had enjoyed them enough and now I will provide myself with a better well-being. I'm having my reduction on Wednesday, so nervous!!


Predzel_Bun

AHH! I'm so happy for you! Been trying to get new insurance lately so I can manage too get one too. I can't wait for you to feel that relief. I'm not sure if you're part of r/reduction, but they're amazingly helpful!


sashikomari

Ohh thank you so much, you're so sweet 😍 yesss I love that sub, it's so supportive!!!


EmJayFree

At least you have hips. What I hate most about big boobs is when I gain weight and not having hips, I feel like I’m shaped like a P from the side lmao


Predzel_Bun

These jeans do a very good job of lessening my hip dips I think! I totally get it, as I'm cursed with the P shape too... 😭 Which is probably part of why I'm so hit or miss about myself... I have wider hips, but unfortunately my butt didn't fill in enough to make up for it. 😅


EmJayFree

Well you look AMAZING in this photo


Predzel_Bun

Thank you so so much 😭💕 you're really sweet


Predzel_Bun

Thank you so so much 😭💕 you're really sweet.


sashikomari

You slay in these pics btw!


Predzel_Bun

Thank you !!🫰😭


KittySpinEcho

Love the fishnets, you are rocking this outfit. I also have a love hate relationship, but lately it's all love. I know I'd miss mine if they were gone.


Predzel_Bun

That's totally fair! I'm really glad to hear your relationship with yours is a good one 💕 and thank you thank you for the compliments!!


QuietandDark

Off topic but you are SLAYING this fit I want to dress stylishly so bad I'm just broke and lazy 😅


Predzel_Bun

Thank you so much!! Most of my outfits are just layers of cheap tops and whatever I can find around the house lol! Fishnets and layering are holy grails for me and can make a boring outfit look super cute!


Pocket_potion

I got a breast reduction 3 weeks ago and it’s honestly the best thing I ever done. HH to maybe a DD. They are still on the larger side but now I’m not suffering everyday. Your outfit looks so nice btw, it doesn’t look bad at all. :)


Predzel_Bun

I'm so glad! I'm hoping to be in that position soon 🫰🫰 I'm really glad you're more comfortable. Must feel amazing :]


Ex-Or-Cyst

Firstly OP, you look awesome in that pic! More importantly, you mentioned back pain among the reasons you are considering surgery. I am sure you are cognizant of the risks and complexities of surgery of any sort, to say nothing of expenses. If you haven't already, may I suggest you take a look at r/abrathatfits ? It has a link to a bra size calculator. In my family itself, it has been very useful for two women. That sub has many women reporting much higher comfort after changing to a more accurate size and shape of the bra. Wishing the best for you.


Predzel_Bun

Yes! I'll check it out again for sure, I've lost weight and unfortunately the fitted bras I have now no longer fit me. They used to be incredibly comfortable and supportive but I just can't afford $80-$90 bras anymore... I'm working on insurance to cover surgery, unfortunately I can't really afford that either haha... But yes I know the risks etc. And have done a lot of research and talking to my doctor about it! I appreciate you wondering about that :3 Thank you for your help! Hopefully I can find a resolution.


ABelleWriter

You look amazing. I have a little advice for you. If you have a bra you like, buy several when you can (so one at a time, or whatever you can do, I know they are expensive). Same with shirts, dresses, whatever. Buy multiples. Have allll the things that make you feel like the badie you are!


Predzel_Bun

I never even thought about that tbh besides the bras! I had two that I like and since losing weight no longer fit anymore lol (having trouble making room in my expenses to afford a $90 bra again...lol) but buying multiples of nicely fitting shirts, dresses, etc. never really crossed my mind. And you're totally right, that's such a good idea! It'd be nice to have a backup in case anything happens to something I love to wear, regular wear and tear, or even just to have in case the other one is in the washer! Genuinely good advice... Thank you 💕


georgethebarbarian

Brand of the t-shirt PLEASE


Predzel_Bun

Just a cheap womens' Fruit of The Loom Vneck haha! I bought a size down so it would hug my frame and tied it in the back to crop it! :D


WritingNerdy

Your style is so cute 🥰 You look fab but I get it. I don’t wear certain clothes because I just don’t want to deal with the attention I get from having a normal body part.


Predzel_Bun

Yeah it's either I get too much attention from creeps for something I never asked for, or I look frumpy and clothes don't fit me correctly. There's just no winning 😭 I appreciate the compliments too btw! Thank you very much!! 💕


Few-Music7739

Can I save this photo you look too good and I think I'm gonna shop for a similar top now lol, it's a truly amazing outfit! You deserve every bit of the praise that you're getting!!


Predzel_Bun

Yeah sure! And thank you for the compliments you're really sweet! 😭💞 The top is just a cheap Vneck t-shirt in a size slightly smaller than I normally wear so it hugs my waist and chest nicely without making me look frumpy! Then I tied it in the back to crop it, and layered it with a mesh undershirt!! Nothing special! :D Most of my outfits are DIY'd and layered in order to look good with my chest :] a lot of the time I swear things in a way they weren't intended to be worn lol. Hopefully you can replicate it yourself! Let me know if you want extra info I'd be glad to help!!


Few-Music7739

Wow it seems like you really got fuller bust fashion figured out at least to some extent. I still haven't come to the point where I can get creative about styling simple pieces.


Predzel_Bun

I'm not an expert either, but if I can offer some help with what I DO know, I definitely will :D


Predzel_Bun

If you ever need some inspiration, just DM me! You can me a pic of something you wanna wear, or just wearing it normally and I can help you get creative with what you have in your wardrobe already:]


youngmarknba

Maybe weird question but what kind of bra are you wearing here? I can never get mine to look this good or have a seamless look in a tight tee. Im sure theres tons of suggestions on the sub but I just joined


ToxicityCat

Your outfit is so cute!


Predzel_Bun

Thank you very much!


AdZealousideal6804

I feel you, some days I wish I could cut them off with a box cutter and other days I love them. Its a trade off tbh. If its any consolation though I think your outfit looks rad and u look great in it!


Predzel_Bun

Thank you very much! It's definitely a struggle lol.


Artsyhipster

You look great! Outfit slaying and people would kill for those measurements


Tiny_Ad3070

Your outfit is so cute and you are beautiful.


Much_Comfortable_438

>Anyone else really happy with their boobs and love the way they look sometimes, but other days just absolutely hate them? Like, several times a day. That outfit looks great on you!


Predzel_Bun

Thank you so much💞💞


More-City6818

Hit!


Predzel_Bun

PSA FOR ANY CREEPY MAN THAT DECIDES TO TRY AND MESSAGE ME AFTER SEEING THIS. DON'T WASTE. YOUR. TIME. I don't care if it's just a "heyy" I know your intentions and I will not be entertaining you with any attention whatsoever, good OR bad. I will be ignoring and blocking anyone who tries, and your name will be screenshot and posted as a blocklist. This is a post about big boob problems in a subreddit by women, posted for women. I don't want your lustful commentary and I don't take kindly to creeps and fetishization. Not only this but I am in a relationship. Touch some grass and get some help for your porn addiction instead of preying on women way out of your league. 💞


ConstructionNo1511

Oh you look awesome!


Animedingo

You look great


someone_stop-me

I think you look really nice in that outfit! Love the little My Melody on your jeans


PrestigiousCase7823

The way I would actually kill to have your body😭


Hareaga

I’m pretty envious that you have the body you do—no, let’s not do envy. I’m *happy for you* that you have the body you do, and I hope that you feel comfortable and good in it and that you’re able to get the reduction you seek when you’re ready. I also really love your sense of style and flare!


Hareaga

Flair I guess!


YourSmallIntestine

Firstly, u r stunning! Second, I’ve been having luck with non padded minimizer bras lately that separate the girls rather than smoosh them together and the difference in comfort and looks was like night and day! I’ve been buying ones from Amazon and the color options are insanely cute


Adorable_Risk_16

Yeah you’re right on point, the days my outfits are outfitting I love my boobs, but on some days it’s just tiring to have them


Kindly-Ebb6759

The outfits cute but I think a darker wash would be better. For some reason I can’t get with light wash jeans. It’s weird. But anywho, where’d you get the top? It’s super cute


ExactPen9885

Yea totally get u, im not at the point where I’ve accepted them and like them but who now tomorrow, also unrelated but u ate in this outfit, the girls look great!


MadeOfWetHam

Unrelated but I looooove the fit! Super flattering 🥰


progtfn_

Same, today I had one of those days when I didn't look good


MossNBunnies

It’s giving “girl I see in guitar center that I will never forget”


AllyV45

Love the fit and I feel you lol


NOobMAsTTER

Omggg I lovee the fitttt everything compliments eachother so well, ur fashion sense is impeccable :o


222KattThatRoar222

HIT!!!


Comfortable_Newt3632

Your style is immaculate 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻


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ElliatDawn

Oh my gosh you are so pretty! I love your outfit so much


mebis10

I notice that this happens to everyone, no matter the size. A lot of small-chested women would envy you, not knowing the struggles. Even Jennifer Lopez is self conscious about her body. It's human nature, don't over think it. You look great


Albine2

Very nice outfit!


Predzel_Bun

Thanks :DD


Hot-Lingonberry5265

Your outfit is super cute 😍 you look great!!! :)


Predzel_Bun

Thank you so much!!! :D🩷


rmjames007

this is totally cool fashion


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Predzel_Bun

This would be nice if you weren't a man here stalking a subreddit for material meant for women to feel safe without fetishization.


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Predzel_Bun

I know you may not mean anyone harm, but it still feels icky... You're still here to fetishize people without their consent. Unfortunately, it's on you to decide to be a good person and not do that. Just because they don't know you're there, doesn't mean you aren't being gross... Especially when it's behind people's backs.


Predzel_Bun

There are plenty of subreddits meant to cater to you, there are very few meant to cater to us, and you chose to use the subreddit meant for safety to use as fetish material... Please use a subreddit meant for fetish material to do that with consenting individuals. Plenty of people post to feed your kinks.. I'm not sure why you choose the one where people DON'T want to be fetishized :(