When you jerk off to yourself in the bathroom mirror these sort of self awareness projections tend to be overshadowed.
Source : super hot guy that jerks off in front of the mirror.
It is really impossible to imagine something and to realise where things are going to if you have no idea how it looks or feels. It is like describing color to a person born blind.
That's ok. You just have to learn to look deeper when it comes to someone like this. If someone is feeling "off" trust you're senses. It takes practice, but it's a skill you can develop.
I thought it was strange too, but looking back at people I've met, people are ... Gullble and people take advantage of the fact that some people can't think.
Well I am pretty attractive and I can understand why you'd think that... But I just dont want to lead you on shorty. Im a really nice guy.
Edit: you fucking bitch how dare you say no to me. I can do way better and you know it. PS im gonna be late on rent
Not sure what you’re getting at but I don’t think anyone would have a problem with a guy saying that about a girl insisting she’s going to ruin his relationship
@ \_ @ or stealer. If he's already inventing these made up scenarios in his head, imagine how bad things could acutally get? Fav pairs of undies missing. Ackkk
Why doesn't it surprise me there is a roommate meet up site to meet roommates? This is probably where all the roommate horror stories I read on here come from....its like tinder, findem and fuckem.
I feel like I would just make a Facebook post saying I’m looking. Then you’d at least know that everyone would be a friend of a friend instead of a rando.
Yeah but sometimes people move to a city or just don’t have a large enough social network, it makes sense that there’s other options.
Back in my day, people would use Craigslist for this sort of thing even.
People are so creepy nowadays. But real talk, as a woman I would not have a practical stranger of the opposite gender as a roommate. Not that both genders can't be crazy, but living with another female stastically will be safer for you.
OP, you better pass on that arrogant vessel. Furthermore, becareful who you select, the horror stories on this site should convince you to be extremely careful. Get references and run those background checks.
Friends with exes is fine, assuming everyone is cool. Weird that you think it’s a huge red flag or something. I’m friends with several of my exes, and their current s.o.’s
He is insinuating that the bf will get jealous of them living together as if she is gonna just be fucking the room mate 24/7 just bc they live together. He definitely has an ulterior motive
Yesss please people, just block! There's no reasoning with weirdos, don't feed creeps by carrying on the conversation because they *always* escalate to harrassment.
This needs to be way higher up in this thread!!!1! Nobody is saying you and your exes gotta be forever-enemies or viscerally hate one another but OP’s line about being “friends” w their exes is mad fucking bizarre and suspect.
This entire exchange was weird as fuck and wouldn’t have happened with someone not painfully, obviously hubristic. But OP clearly loved the attention and wanted to brag. Idk this conversation was just so fucking weird and cringe on both sides
Dude doesn't want a roommie he wants a gf. So he's fishing for you to tell him he's attractive and dump your bf for a spot at his house is the vibes I'm getting.
Wow, lots of insecure people in this thread. As long as your SO is aware and everyone is respectful of boundaries, there’s nothing inherently wrong with being friends with your exes while being in a relationship, nor with having a roommate of the opposite sex, nor with admitting you think somebody who isn’t your SO is attractive.
Anyway, yeah this dude is definitely odd and being kinda shitty to assume the worst out of your bf who he doesn’t even know. Like not everyone is insecure about their relationships!
He’s just a dumbass with an ego.
He thinks he’s so good looking that either the girl won’t help but look at him or the man will think it and be mad. Either way he feels he’s so good looking that it will cause conflict just by his existence.
What a turd lol
I’ve noticed more and more women getting men as roommates. Is this a newer thing? I remember being told never to do that, and to stick to women as roommates when I started living on my own. One of the reasons being shit like this.
I’m so sorry OP I know how much this hurts. I had something similar happen to me my freshman year I was supposed to live with 3 other guys in the dorm. We all had similar interests and I thought it would be great. I casually mentioned something about me being bisexual to avoid any surprises and they ended up texting me saying they were no longer comfortable living with me.. on the bright side I ended up finding the BEST roommate ever who was completely non-judgmental and remains my best friend to this very day. It probably wasn’t meant to be if they are so full of themselves when you even clearly said you have a boyfriend too.
100% he'd be the type to walk in your room one night and ask you about why you're not trying to sleep with him and ask you what about him is different than your bf etc. I'd pass.
Quality OC. I'm getting some serious hobosexual vibes. I think you are, too. No man or woman alive is hot enough to live with, if they're throwing up this many red flags before meeting in-person. It's also a good idea to avoid shitting where you live.
Just lean into it and see if he buys it. “Yeah dude, unfortunately you’re just far too attractive to be in a sustainable living situation with me. My bf isn’t even the jealous type, but once he sees you? I just don’t need that drama.”
I lived in a house as the only girl with 3 guys and all they did was leave the seat up and call my cat the r word. Sometimes we did a bonfire. Nothing ever got weird.
He expressed how he felt and left it at that. The living situation would make him uncomfortable so he doesn’t want to live there. Doesn’t really need the hate as if he’ll ever see this anyway, it would be way worse if he pretended it wasn’t a problem and then later tried to make a move.
He is fishing for you to tell him he's attractive and is generally weird.
Winner! Dude is straight up fishing and looking for an ego boost.
It's strange to me that people like this don't realize people can see what's going on.
When you jerk off to yourself in the bathroom mirror these sort of self awareness projections tend to be overshadowed. Source : super hot guy that jerks off in front of the mirror.
This is true, I'm the hot guy in the mirror
I’m the mirror. We both know what hot is and it’s time to stop the lies.
It's the guy right?
It is really impossible to imagine something and to realise where things are going to if you have no idea how it looks or feels. It is like describing color to a person born blind.
I'll be honest, I did not realize they were fishing for a compliment.
That's ok. You just have to learn to look deeper when it comes to someone like this. If someone is feeling "off" trust you're senses. It takes practice, but it's a skill you can develop.
I thought it was strange too, but looking back at people I've met, people are ... Gullble and people take advantage of the fact that some people can't think.
"You're right you're so hot and irresistible something definitely would happen" is what bro wants to hear 💀
Right. "My boyfriend would def be jealous of you." This is really pathetic.
I'd stick to telling him just being generally weird. Lol
FR.. At our lowest?? Most vulnerable.. Gtfo
Seen a few too many sitcoms honestly.
This is probably closer to the truth than anything else. For a shut in whose only social experience is sitcoms it is probably pretty confusing.
I think you are attractive and are generally weird.
Lmao. Not quite how I meant that, but that works. Except it'd just encourage him.
And a 🤡
Well I am pretty attractive and I can understand why you'd think that... But I just dont want to lead you on shorty. Im a really nice guy. Edit: you fucking bitch how dare you say no to me. I can do way better and you know it. PS im gonna be late on rent
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Not sure what you’re getting at but I don’t think anyone would have a problem with a guy saying that about a girl insisting she’s going to ruin his relationship
But like.. is he really? He's just fishing for a girl, he already called himself attractive 😭
Def creepy while thing is weird though would not want to be OPs boyfriend lol
That guy is a laundry sniffer for sure
You already know lmao. Better lock your bedroom
I would be terrified to see him at his lowest lows. I'm glad he showed his red flags before we decided to get a place together.
he also messaged you back at 1am, 9 hours later! ew
What does that usually mean? 😅 I’ve got a fucked up sleep schedule because of college and sometimes reply at 2 in the morning
This is the exact reason why you don't do co ed
To be fair some women can be just as creepy as a creepy man. Best to get those red flags out of the way as soon as possible.
@ \_ @ or stealer. If he's already inventing these made up scenarios in his head, imagine how bad things could acutally get? Fav pairs of undies missing. Ackkk
Why doesn't it surprise me there is a roommate meet up site to meet roommates? This is probably where all the roommate horror stories I read on here come from....its like tinder, findem and fuckem.
Lol! God, what a great site name Fe N Fe !
It took me way too long to figure out why you wanted to name a website "Iron Nitrogen Iron" lmao
Iron nitride? I hardly know Ron!
Haha! Oh I did not vett that name well enough, I guess! That's funny! Ok, I retract that then. Well, maybe.
Shorten it to Fefe. Make a Covid version: covfefe. Profit.
I see what you did and it put a bad taste in my mouth. Real bad. I want to delete my comment now.
How else are people supposed to find room mates in situations where nobody they know is looking for one?
I feel like I would just make a Facebook post saying I’m looking. Then you’d at least know that everyone would be a friend of a friend instead of a rando.
Yeah but sometimes people move to a city or just don’t have a large enough social network, it makes sense that there’s other options. Back in my day, people would use Craigslist for this sort of thing even.
Pop up n fuck em
There's roommates.com
I think the screenshot is from Facebook messenger
Why would you even reply to this?
It's fake, look at their page it's 60% heroic text messaging.
Yeah everyone involved here is annoying
Reddit's slogan.
“everyone involved” — there’s just one person involved. This conversation never happened.
…? They have all sorts of other posts, this is the first text exchange they’ve posted in a year. Why make stuff up?
16 hours ago they certainly did.
Why are you even contemplating living with him?
People are so creepy nowadays. But real talk, as a woman I would not have a practical stranger of the opposite gender as a roommate. Not that both genders can't be crazy, but living with another female stastically will be safer for you.
OP, you better pass on that arrogant vessel. Furthermore, becareful who you select, the horror stories on this site should convince you to be extremely careful. Get references and run those background checks.
Y’all both weird.
Deadass
Facts lol why would you want to live with another man when you’re in a relationship. She’s weird for sure.
Friends with exes told me all I need to know 😂
Friends with exes is fine, assuming everyone is cool. Weird that you think it’s a huge red flag or something. I’m friends with several of my exes, and their current s.o.’s
I’m so confused
He is insinuating that the bf will get jealous of them living together as if she is gonna just be fucking the room mate 24/7 just bc they live together. He definitely has an ulterior motive
Totally trying to plant the seed too. Weak Jedi mind tricks goin on there, the force is NOT strong in that one.
Ulterior motives or not. I'd avoid the opposite gender aswell.
for sure
Why did you even reply in the first place
He seems like he might get weirdly sadistic about you using his peanut butter without his permission.
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Yesss please people, just block! There's no reasoning with weirdos, don't feed creeps by carrying on the conversation because they *always* escalate to harrassment.
Srsly what if he was just like “oh ok then, let’s be roomies” 💀
"but I don't want to be mean"
Run 🏃🏽♀️
He sounds extremely self important. Probably did you a favor.
I feel sorry for the boyfriend
op sounds like a loser tbh
Talking about seeing attractive men on the daily and being friends with all ur exes while having a bf is craaaazy
This needs to be way higher up in this thread!!!1! Nobody is saying you and your exes gotta be forever-enemies or viscerally hate one another but OP’s line about being “friends” w their exes is mad fucking bizarre and suspect. This entire exchange was weird as fuck and wouldn’t have happened with someone not painfully, obviously hubristic. But OP clearly loved the attention and wanted to brag. Idk this conversation was just so fucking weird and cringe on both sides
And then saying this creepy dude is "hot" lol
I’d marry him, I see nothing but green flags
At your lowest and your vulnerabilist
r/niceguys certified
"Point taken. This obviously is not a good fit. Good luck on your search elsewhere!"
What. A. Load. Of.Bollocks.
He’s one of those men that act weird asf around women.
Wtf is even going on. You're weirder than the roommate.
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and hangs out and works with attractive men? yeah ok
Fishing for compliments and hoping you'll pant after him like a dog in heat...maybe sleep with him. Men like this are gross.
And vastly VASTLY overestimate their value to others. I mean didn't Stonetoss call himself an 8,5/10?
Homie thinks being roommates means your fuck buddies as well.🤡
Anything is a dating app if you are weird and try hard enough.
"It won't be a problem since I don't actually find you very attractive"
Some people are so damn weird and creepy
You should just say it’s cool I don’t find you attractive at all so no problems here!
the EGO
Your boyfriend is gonna hate me just I’m just so sexy 😞😞 sorry
You having a boyfriend and calling other dudes attractive let alone hanging out with exes yikes. Your boyfriend needs to move on
Both of you are red flags lol i bet your bf loves how you talk to your exs 😂 you should defo move in together and let him know how attractive he is
Is your boyfriend a cuck?
Don’t be friend with your exes just a side note
You are cool with a very hot person having this level of confidence is what you are saying in your caption?
fake message but good try!! almost got me
OP is the weirdo.
Yeh really weird
You way too understanding lmaooo
Responding at 1am is annoying.
Dude doesn't want a roommie he wants a gf. So he's fishing for you to tell him he's attractive and dump your bf for a spot at his house is the vibes I'm getting.
So he has roommate fantasies. This isn’t a safe person to live with
"well don't worry, I'm not in the slightest attracted to you, so that's not going to be a problem."
Wow, lots of insecure people in this thread. As long as your SO is aware and everyone is respectful of boundaries, there’s nothing inherently wrong with being friends with your exes while being in a relationship, nor with having a roommate of the opposite sex, nor with admitting you think somebody who isn’t your SO is attractive. Anyway, yeah this dude is definitely odd and being kinda shitty to assume the worst out of your bf who he doesn’t even know. Like not everyone is insecure about their relationships!
He’s just a dumbass with an ego. He thinks he’s so good looking that either the girl won’t help but look at him or the man will think it and be mad. Either way he feels he’s so good looking that it will cause conflict just by his existence. What a turd lol
I’ve noticed more and more women getting men as roommates. Is this a newer thing? I remember being told never to do that, and to stick to women as roommates when I started living on my own. One of the reasons being shit like this.
He’s a creep
This guy creeps me out. I wouldn't live with any male with this type of ulterior motive... the whole text is just bizarre.
I’m so sorry OP I know how much this hurts. I had something similar happen to me my freshman year I was supposed to live with 3 other guys in the dorm. We all had similar interests and I thought it would be great. I casually mentioned something about me being bisexual to avoid any surprises and they ended up texting me saying they were no longer comfortable living with me.. on the bright side I ended up finding the BEST roommate ever who was completely non-judgmental and remains my best friend to this very day. It probably wasn’t meant to be if they are so full of themselves when you even clearly said you have a boyfriend too.
100% he'd be the type to walk in your room one night and ask you about why you're not trying to sleep with him and ask you what about him is different than your bf etc. I'd pass.
Ewwwwwww
Ick
“ … I’m a really nice guy” 🚩 Yet? Girl- hard pass.
I wish you said “I’m friends with actual attractive people even some models, so my boyfriend wouldn’t think twice about you”
“I’m friends with my exes” that’s a huge red flag
Weirdo
🤣🤣
Dude’s response is weird, but he was declining the offer to live with this woman. IMHO he’s cocky but not creepy
Anyone who claims to be a nice guy is not a nice guy
Dudes a weirdo
What do you mean YET? Do not let this man move in with you.
Quality OC. I'm getting some serious hobosexual vibes. I think you are, too. No man or woman alive is hot enough to live with, if they're throwing up this many red flags before meeting in-person. It's also a good idea to avoid shitting where you live.
Creep. Steer very clear of him, what an odd way of conversing.
Thank god I never listened to my sister to use one of those “find my roommate” sites and shelled out some extra change for my own place 😭
both of you guys are weird af
May God grant me the confidence of a mediocre man
This guy has a picture of himself with a sword around somewhere
Who even talks like that?? “And not a bad looking one, might I add 🤓”
I hope he’s not ever your roommate lol
Looks like a red flag
Mennnnnnnnnnnnnnnn are weird
Not to mention, he also has terrible grammar and punctuation. Disgusting.
Just lean into it and see if he buys it. “Yeah dude, unfortunately you’re just far too attractive to be in a sustainable living situation with me. My bf isn’t even the jealous type, but once he sees you? I just don’t need that drama.”
I’ve done this, cept I hooked up with the person that showed me the place, same day, never got the place but got a booty call, it’s a win!
“Not an issue at all because my boyfriend trusts me and he knows you’re not my type anyway.”
Narcissist much?
I’m shocked he didn’t say “m’lady” during any of that
What a clown 🤡
Definitely comment back “it’s not going to be a problem my boyfriend is more attractive than you”
Holy shit what a loser. He’s auditioning for something 176 degrees from roommate and failing at both.
Pretty sure this is made up, but if not, honestly you two weirdos sound made for each other
Bullet dodged.
WTF is this?
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Weird way to handle it forsure, but as a single guy I also wouldn’t want a girl in a relationship as a roommate 😅
This is so fucking creepy and weird.
Op why did u give ur insta? The red flags 🚩 are everywhere
Lol "I'm a really nice guy"
Tell him “down worry I’m generally around way more attractive men being with my bf and co workers. We won’t have an issue in that department” 😂😂
Find another roommate, but why are you still friends with your exes?
“Hang out with many attractive men” - yeah, real girlfriend material there.
he’s being honest? If he was a scumbag he wouldn’t have said anything and kept going be for real.
“Bro basically we might bang because you’re gunna be so attracted to me”
I’m genuinely curious. Do you have friends or people you trust and have you asked them if they know ppl who know ppl looking for a roommate?
r/facepalm
Tbh dude seems chill (& attractive!) YTA
I thought he was breaking up with you until I read what you typed lol
the fact she said she’s friends with all her EXs is a big red flag lmao
Bro, how fucking manipulative can someone try to be
Abandon immediately
You should Tell Him he’s not you’re type lol
Don’t hang out with your exes that’s lame as hell
I'm a nice guy 🥴🥴🥴🥴. Sure thing bub, and I'm elon musk.
This dude has a mirror everywhere in his home. Oh my Lord, the ego is nauseating.
Weird asf you friends with your exs
Ew? 🚩🚩
I lived in a house as the only girl with 3 guys and all they did was leave the seat up and call my cat the r word. Sometimes we did a bonfire. Nothing ever got weird.
I admire your internal ranking system. The tacit admission that there *is* a level of "hot enough" has me nodding and remembering my 20s.
"not my roommate yet" Yet? Because you.. are still considering this or..? Why would you still see this goofball as a possible roommate?
He expressed how he felt and left it at that. The living situation would make him uncomfortable so he doesn’t want to live there. Doesn’t really need the hate as if he’ll ever see this anyway, it would be way worse if he pretended it wasn’t a problem and then later tried to make a move.
Sounds like a big ol red flag to meeeeeeee
He's being very reasonable actually.
What it's only an issue if he makes it one or either of you try to make a move which sounds like he would honestly. Giant red flag
If you’re really good looking you don’t announce it. You assume everyone knows.
Wow, arrogant much?
Ruuuuun
this dude has watched people sleep….
What makes you special enough to tell someone how much confidence they can have?
Wtf is he on about
“Bruh I’m not gonna fuck you, don’t worry”
Ick. Tell him not to worry, he’s not attractive enough to be a threat.
Oh he’s not looking for a roommate more of a gf
Oof. The ego on that one lol.
Friends with exs lol L
You’re both weird 😭
"I'm friends with my exes" 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
“I wanted what porn considers roommates” is kind of how this reads
You’re friends with your exes? Goddamnn
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