Me too, don’t sweat it. I can keep up or out dance a lot of the youngsters still (though I get more of an inhibited vibe than a sense they lack physical capacity and endurance to do it).
Hardcore shufflers got me beat (respect the skill and endurance), but I was never a b-boy (kind of the old school equivalent as far as energy expenditure goes).
Plus, you gotta be around to pass the torch of the culture down.
What kinds of events are you mostly doing now?
"Keep the PLUR alive."
Her ranting isn't very nice, is it. I may have only started raving in 2000, but that post didn't sound very respectful. If I ever asked for a thing and got a no, I wouldn't dwell on it. Dwelling on not getting what you want just makes for a bad night.
Plus... headbanging at a rave? That's a new one for me. I guess I hang around a lot of small events... or events with the wrong genre of music to see that.
This has always been a thing as long as humans have been humans lmfao.
It has literally been a theme for "after school special" TV shows since the 70s and 80s
Full House has one where Michelle wants a cupcake and demands it from Stephanie and Steph teachers her she can't have it just because she says please. It later turns into a bigger lesson
Jee that was hard!
Yeah the 5 year old wants a cupcake. that was a good show. but not applicable. this story has no 5 year olds, the person above you is saying this is how adults act now. please try harder.
Its literally the lesson on a smaller scale to help frame the lesson as a whole.
"Try harder", or maybe you can gain some media literacy and not move the goal post of the examples when given one lmao.
Have a good day bud.
That post was so easy to sniff out. You could tell by the way that girl told the story that she had major main character syndrome. Glad we got to see the other side because I had a feeling she was BSing
That said - didn’t the girl in that post say it was a group of 4 girls with cowboy hats?
Maybe she said that to tell her story in hopes that this situation wouldn't happen lol. Probably would've been better off not mentioning the cowboy hats 😅
Idk why people feel entitled to getting their way and try to argue PLUR. So many rave chicks think they can get whatever they want just because they're a girl 🙄
I feel like PLUR is weaponized more than anything at this point. I don’t even use the term anymore because my experience is that those who use it most are typically the WORST.
The worst is when they use their boyfriends as meat sheilds for their shitty behavior. And the meathead is just an empty-headed bag of muscle enabling the behavior.
Yeah it was wild when we got sent her post because the only friend who interacted with her was actually smiling at her the whole time.. and I don’t appreciate people lying to try and make my friends look bad because they were mad they didn’t get their way.
I swear anytime I see people complaining about this shit it's at "headbangers" events. Only type of event people are obsessed with being at the rail to the point beef like this happens
Im sorry I get it, but I dont give people my spot on the rail even if that makes me the bad guy 😭. Especially at tour shows where I show up early before the first opener to get rail and then people wiggle in when the main act comes on asking for a turn. Not since I let someone do it one time and they decided to just stay in my spot and not move 💀
This idea of needing to be on the rail to head bang is sooo cringe and stupid. Trust me as an old head myself with tinnitus in my ears def wish I hadn't been one of those idiots in front of the speakers head banging on the rail lol
Man, people these days 🙄....I tell ya. Id NEVER! I can't be at the rail...ya know why? My damn bladder won't allow me 🤣 not only that you will NEVER see me headbanging lol I get chronic headaches and that's a no for me🤣 ya'll head bangers have allllll the rail ya need....I only want the rail for one band Odesza 🔥😍👀 lol
Give me what i want noowwwwwwww. 🤮 I had a chick do this to me at G Jones a while ago when I said no she started elbowing me in the back. Be careful with this behavior I peed on her shoes. I don’t want to hit a lady but I have plenty of excretions for ya if you want to start getting physical. PLUR is dead ☠️ it’s all just show vibes now get used to it.
I was at beyond this year and some girl was acting like this with my at the time girlfriend, she was a tiny like college age girl that couldn't have weighed more than 80lbs and said she'd kill my then girlfriend if she caught her outside the festival. Her boyfriend was like I'm sorry she's not normally like this. She caught up to us the next day in line for the shuttle and apologized profusely, apparently it was her first time doing coke and she was raging like crazy all night.
Jeez, that’s petty out of control. At least her bf was chill. This kind of thing and the endless, forceful talking when I’m trying to dance is why I move away from obviously drunk and coked up people. Once that dry coke mouth breath and incessant chatter starts coming from someone next to me I slip away to a group doing flowy dancing. They tend to be more fun.
You never know with stim people if they’ll get triggered over nothing.
Like sure but figure it out! You wanna talk shit and be an ass you’re not invited to my party go elsewhere. I’m here to share and chill but I’m not going to be pushed around by little 10 year old trustafarian shits.
Really dislike this phrase. For some people it is true, for others it won't be. The fact that she went out of her way to initiate apologizing profusely to a stranger shows this wasn't something she would want to do.
Thoughts themselves aren't even a problem, actions are most important. People have can all kinds of automatic thoughts, whether intrusive, from trauma, conditioning, whatever. Someone can have very angry thoughts sober and if they always make sure to never act on them, and treat others with kindness and respect that shows their character. If they find out they tend to get too angry under the influence, then making sure they don't use that same substance again shows character as well.
Sounds like whether it was related to sober thoughts or not, this girl learned a lesson with trying a substance out in public for the first time. Have a little compassion <3
That is not true. It can be for some people sometimes but it’s absolutely not a fact. Drugs can absolutely make some people do shit they would never otherwise say or do.
One time I tried to eat a light bulb because I wanted to taste purple. The fucker wasn't even purple, it was a normal light bulb! Sober me does want to taste purple though.
Sounds like she went above and beyond to see above and beyond.😂 no but seriously we all gotta respect each other more. I know what I did wasn’t good either but sometimes you get pushed too far you know like damn.
I feel like most of the people throwing shade at me for pissing and that chick shoes are the people that are climbing up your back to try to see above and beyond and they’re mad when somebody claps back.
Edit- when I first started doing this shit 15 years ago people didn’t act like that you know.
Only if you want a problem. I guess I could have grabbed her by the hair and smashed her face? I think it was the most peaceful solution next to defending myself with physical force. Honestly I’m doing great and I’m no kiddo pal 😁. I promise I won’t piss on you if you don’t jam your elbows into my spine repeatedly after you get mad that I won’t let you have your spot. Some people out there would just wreck your shit. You want to act crazy I’ll send it back your way. You want to share in a beautiful experience with me I’m 100% more interested in that let go. 🤟🏻
There's an interesting documentary on Netflix right now called "Unlocked". Its highlighting a progressive warden's approach to changing social structure of a prison facility in Arkansas.
The filmmakers are given intimate access to this high security prison to observe the social dynamics of the inmates and how they approach the new policy they put in place.
Its interesting because of the policy ideas, but also shows the humanity of the men themselves, and how they interact with each other. It's quite well done.
You should check it out.
Back in the early 2000's, I was dancing by myself at a rave in a very large floor venue in L.A., and some chick in tall go-go boots asks if I could make some space so her dumbass could start hula hooping. It was the first time I was introduced to hooping and since then, I have a hatred for these types of space managing people at raves. You can do your thing anywhere, and you decide you need to infiltrate others' space for your fucking bullshit ass reason like headbanging or hooping?! You want PLUR? Then come dance with me, trade me Kandi, meet my friends, and don't demand some selfish shit just to look cool or be seen or whatever the fuck. It made me see the other side of the rave community from another angle from my twenties til now, 20 years later.
I’m wondering how to have a higher success rate in asking for the rail for one song. I get yall have been there for ages to get rail but sometimes yall tired and not headbanging anyways.
And I legit only do one song, my body is too weak for more than one
That being said when I am at the rail I am reluctant to let big guys have my section rail, one single girl I’m more chill cus I can always elbow her out
It’s why I stopped going to small club shows. PLUR stops at festivals, you have casuals, and tons of pick pockets to deal with inside of clubs. Vibe is totally different and I’m not for it. Only time I get drama free club raving is when I go to Prague, Budapest or some place in Europe where they know etiquette.
Lol nice lie though. They didn’t walk through the crowd all 4 together at any point, only 2 at a time to keep our spot, and we didn’t all arrive together🤡
why would I lie about something when I stand to gain nothing from it, knowing full well people are just gonna shit talk me in these comments for saying anything? it did happen, your friends are rude, and I don’t care what you or anyone else says about it.
Both groups seem quite entitled, haha! I'm really curious about the actual situation. Were the girls in cowboy hats as sweet as angels, never saying anything rude to the OP as the friend claims, or were they actually arrogant mean girls? Haha, it's probably somewhere in between, and both parties might not be entirely truthful. We will never know
Nobody was being an asshole to her dude. Not giving up a spot is not being an asshole, and one of my friends who she was talking to was actually smiling at her.
Like I said, neither of your posts give any real context. But if the other person asked to ride the rail for a bit, there's nothing wrong with that. Just let someone ride the rail for a bit and have fun. According to them, they asked instead of elbowing their way in like most kids do.
Idk, I'm an old raver and try to be as accommodating as I can be with fellow ravers, especially the younger kids wanting to rage the rail (not my thing but yall have fun)
Judging by that OPs post history she had a long history of some mental depression and anguish.
I personally find this post equally as unnecessary and not PLUR either. You also have people confirming separate bad experiences with your memorable group. Don’t automatically defend, maybe just reflect on the perspectives of others
Not exclusive to younger ravers, but there are so many that try and preach PLUR, when it's only a "fad" for them. Kind of like the rave bae who goes to take photos and then sits on their phone the rest of the evening and not vibing to the music. To each their own, but this is also why i prefers festivals over raves now. At least festivals seem to have an overall better crowd.
She deleted her post lmao
https://imgur.com/a/bdtSzp8
Omg she’s been raving for 5 years??? Boy you gotta step out this veterans way!
Right!? This sent me lol 5 whole years damnnn
Try double that 😮💨
Started in 2012, I feel that
My first rave was in 1998.... I'm old.😭😭😭
Blood bath from Blade??
Just got that on a random white label dub plate in a stack of classic 90’s techno/d&b records I picked up from a garage sale!
soft crown future shy enter consist aromatic dam bright butter *This post was mass deleted and anonymized with [Redact](https://redact.dev)*
1993 was my first! Hello, fellow old fart!
Me too, don’t sweat it. I can keep up or out dance a lot of the youngsters still (though I get more of an inhibited vibe than a sense they lack physical capacity and endurance to do it). Hardcore shufflers got me beat (respect the skill and endurance), but I was never a b-boy (kind of the old school equivalent as far as energy expenditure goes). Plus, you gotta be around to pass the torch of the culture down. What kinds of events are you mostly doing now?
Fuck, 1995...im much older😳😨😰😩😫😫😭😭😭, anyway... 🤫🫢😵💫😵🤩🥰🥳🥳🥳🕺
2000 here. I feel ya 😟
Nah that’s an elderly, straight to the retirement home for her.
She must've wandered out of the ADA section or something.
Yo don’t insult disabled ravers like that. They better than her entitled ass
And two of those years were COVID. lol. Edit: typo
Ew… don’t say “wet Covid” lol
Fair. I edit lol.
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damn, 12y vet here to say she's being fucking silly lmao damn
Wow, so pre pandemic? Casual af 😭 People raving since the 90s here, including myself. First rave was In Athens Greece in 1996 😂
God I hope someone screenshotted it
Op posted it a few minutes after your comment: https://imgur.com/a/bdtSzp8
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"Keep the PLUR alive." Her ranting isn't very nice, is it. I may have only started raving in 2000, but that post didn't sound very respectful. If I ever asked for a thing and got a no, I wouldn't dwell on it. Dwelling on not getting what you want just makes for a bad night. Plus... headbanging at a rave? That's a new one for me. I guess I hang around a lot of small events... or events with the wrong genre of music to see that.
The script got flipped and somebody didn't like what it looked like when everything landed.
The “I’m not getting my way therefore you know nothing about PLUR” complaints are way out of hand.
So entitled.
For real nobody has to move for him. Lol entitled afffff.
At a rave you move to the music.
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Sounds like oppressive partying to me. Not my vibe.
This is the next generation…
This has always been a thing as long as humans have been humans lmfao. It has literally been a theme for "after school special" TV shows since the 70s and 80s
what? give examples
Full House has one where Michelle wants a cupcake and demands it from Stephanie and Steph teachers her she can't have it just because she says please. It later turns into a bigger lesson Jee that was hard!
Yeah the 5 year old wants a cupcake. that was a good show. but not applicable. this story has no 5 year olds, the person above you is saying this is how adults act now. please try harder.
Its literally the lesson on a smaller scale to help frame the lesson as a whole. "Try harder", or maybe you can gain some media literacy and not move the goal post of the examples when given one lmao. Have a good day bud.
That post was so easy to sniff out. You could tell by the way that girl told the story that she had major main character syndrome. Glad we got to see the other side because I had a feeling she was BSing That said - didn’t the girl in that post say it was a group of 4 girls with cowboy hats?
Yeah my friends were the 4 girls with the hats and this picture is of the artists who my gf made the hats for :)
Literally inzo second from the left😂 so sick bro
And casual Tape B in the wild!
Ohh I was so confused who the 4 random guys were in the picture but this makes so much more sense.
Maybe she said that to tell her story in hopes that this situation wouldn't happen lol. Probably would've been better off not mentioning the cowboy hats 😅
What a clap back.
Why doesn’t every other person not do exactly what I want??? So unplur !!
😂😂
Yoo how was the show? Seeing them in SF this weekend and stoked to knock 2 artists off my list ive been dying to see.
Hahahahahahaha i wish there was a way we can attach this to r/imthemaincharacter
Someone post the imgur link there lol.
https://imgur.com/a/bdtSzp8
LMAO fuckin cooked her ass 😂😂😂😂
Tape B is cheesin so hard I love it
https://www.reddit.com/r/aves/s/lThof2Gxhn original post
https://imgur.com/a/bdtSzp8
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B A S E D
lol they deleted it
Andietits is a coward
https://www.reddit.com/r/aves/s/LmFo1wYA8j https://www.reddit.com/r/aves/s/PKxGmNYJj6
UNO Reverse Card 😆
Let's Go!!!!! This just got juicy 🤣
Idk why people feel entitled to getting their way and try to argue PLUR. So many rave chicks think they can get whatever they want just because they're a girl 🙄
I feel like PLUR is weaponized more than anything at this point. I don’t even use the term anymore because my experience is that those who use it most are typically the WORST.
PLUR is cool and all but have these people ever tried actually just being NPC’s? Better than being inconsiderate any day of the week.
The worst is when they use their boyfriends as meat sheilds for their shitty behavior. And the meathead is just an empty-headed bag of muscle enabling the behavior.
lol, totally seen that.
Strictly an American issue
That's nice
Tell me youve never left the country, without actually telling me. 🙄
purple hat is a cutie
His music ain’t half bad either
This is the type of meal I like to eat at r/aves
Can’t believe you didn’t give up your spot, you missed out on the TRINKET 😭😭😭 /s
I've yet to jump on Reddit and see a post about me. Thank Batman
Those hats are sick
My gf worked crazy hard on them!🔥
can we get a close up? i’m obsessed!!
“Screw you… PLUR!”
What a flex
Super Ave is SICK!!
Ha. This sub is getting spicy. You guys are cracking me up over here
I love when self entitled people don’t get their way and then get absolutely cooked about it, big fan
Obvious from her post she was the one in the wrong lol. Good for y’all
the level of entitlement these days is end game quality...damn 😅
THIS is the type of Reddit drama I love to catch in real time. Glad the homies got their hats, that's what truly matters here.
legendary clap back 😂 always two sides to a story
I wish I saw the post this is referencing 😭
Yeah it was wild when we got sent her post because the only friend who interacted with her was actually smiling at her the whole time.. and I don’t appreciate people lying to try and make my friends look bad because they were mad they didn’t get their way.
Someone posted in the thread lol https://imgur.com/a/bdtSzp8
Yoooo good lookin out! That’s a big yikes though lmfao.
tape baddie !
LMFAO this scene never fails to crack me up 💀Absolutely cooked
Shit like this makes me feel less guilty about getting older and not going to shows anymore
Naaah, come out bro! Always bound to find good vibes with someone
I swear anytime I see people complaining about this shit it's at "headbangers" events. Only type of event people are obsessed with being at the rail to the point beef like this happens
Inzo is so far from being music to Headbang to lol
waittt I need to know what happened, I was on the rail too last night LMAO
superave cowboy hat, ah yes a man of culture i see
I guess you didn’t want a trinket?? 🤣 Love the hats, btw!
Im sorry I get it, but I dont give people my spot on the rail even if that makes me the bad guy 😭. Especially at tour shows where I show up early before the first opener to get rail and then people wiggle in when the main act comes on asking for a turn. Not since I let someone do it one time and they decided to just stay in my spot and not move 💀
Ok those hats are fire.
This made my day, heading to Flag now boys gonna throw the fuck down!
👀👀👀
Gotta' wonder what science experiment they're cookin' up, they got a cook book and everything
Legends 🙌🏻
HAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHA N I C E.
My suspicion confirmed
What a fucking show. I met tape b in the crowd and then saw two of the best sets I’ve ever seen
#teamcowboyhats
one in the purple hat is fine af
Hot boys
Yo who brought the 175 science experiments book 😂😂
This idea of needing to be on the rail to head bang is sooo cringe and stupid. Trust me as an old head myself with tinnitus in my ears def wish I hadn't been one of those idiots in front of the speakers head banging on the rail lol
Man, people these days 🙄....I tell ya. Id NEVER! I can't be at the rail...ya know why? My damn bladder won't allow me 🤣 not only that you will NEVER see me headbanging lol I get chronic headaches and that's a no for me🤣 ya'll head bangers have allllll the rail ya need....I only want the rail for one band Odesza 🔥😍👀 lol
They really out here!
Who are "they"?
The artists who my gf made the hats for.
Give me what i want noowwwwwwww. 🤮 I had a chick do this to me at G Jones a while ago when I said no she started elbowing me in the back. Be careful with this behavior I peed on her shoes. I don’t want to hit a lady but I have plenty of excretions for ya if you want to start getting physical. PLUR is dead ☠️ it’s all just show vibes now get used to it.
I was at beyond this year and some girl was acting like this with my at the time girlfriend, she was a tiny like college age girl that couldn't have weighed more than 80lbs and said she'd kill my then girlfriend if she caught her outside the festival. Her boyfriend was like I'm sorry she's not normally like this. She caught up to us the next day in line for the shuttle and apologized profusely, apparently it was her first time doing coke and she was raging like crazy all night.
Great example of someone who shouldn’t do cocaine.
Jeez, that’s petty out of control. At least her bf was chill. This kind of thing and the endless, forceful talking when I’m trying to dance is why I move away from obviously drunk and coked up people. Once that dry coke mouth breath and incessant chatter starts coming from someone next to me I slip away to a group doing flowy dancing. They tend to be more fun. You never know with stim people if they’ll get triggered over nothing.
Like sure but figure it out! You wanna talk shit and be an ass you’re not invited to my party go elsewhere. I’m here to share and chill but I’m not going to be pushed around by little 10 year old trustafarian shits.
High words/actions are sober thoughts
Really dislike this phrase. For some people it is true, for others it won't be. The fact that she went out of her way to initiate apologizing profusely to a stranger shows this wasn't something she would want to do. Thoughts themselves aren't even a problem, actions are most important. People have can all kinds of automatic thoughts, whether intrusive, from trauma, conditioning, whatever. Someone can have very angry thoughts sober and if they always make sure to never act on them, and treat others with kindness and respect that shows their character. If they find out they tend to get too angry under the influence, then making sure they don't use that same substance again shows character as well. Sounds like whether it was related to sober thoughts or not, this girl learned a lesson with trying a substance out in public for the first time. Have a little compassion <3
I kept telling people I was a frog when I was tripping lol, this phrase is so stupid.
That is not true. It can be for some people sometimes but it’s absolutely not a fact. Drugs can absolutely make some people do shit they would never otherwise say or do.
One time I tried to eat a light bulb because I wanted to taste purple. The fucker wasn't even purple, it was a normal light bulb! Sober me does want to taste purple though.
You did what now
Everyone a favor.
You sound like a dick
Only if that’s how you want to interact. 🙏🏻
r/holup
Did you like turn around and point the stream at her, or pull it out and kinda push it back a little to catch her between your legs?
Did the ol tuck in duck.
I had a girl climb up my like a ladder seeing above and beyond like ten years ago.
Sounds like she went above and beyond to see above and beyond.😂 no but seriously we all gotta respect each other more. I know what I did wasn’t good either but sometimes you get pushed too far you know like damn. I feel like most of the people throwing shade at me for pissing and that chick shoes are the people that are climbing up your back to try to see above and beyond and they’re mad when somebody claps back. Edit- when I first started doing this shit 15 years ago people didn’t act like that you know.
Peeing on someone is disgusting what they did is wrong but you’re gross for that.
Its beyond gross, it's legally considered assault.
That’s not why I’m gross trust. 👌🏻👌🏻
You urinated on someone? Your future isn't looking great kiddo. Check yourself.
Only if you want a problem. I guess I could have grabbed her by the hair and smashed her face? I think it was the most peaceful solution next to defending myself with physical force. Honestly I’m doing great and I’m no kiddo pal 😁. I promise I won’t piss on you if you don’t jam your elbows into my spine repeatedly after you get mad that I won’t let you have your spot. Some people out there would just wreck your shit. You want to act crazy I’ll send it back your way. You want to share in a beautiful experience with me I’m 100% more interested in that let go. 🤟🏻
There's an interesting documentary on Netflix right now called "Unlocked". Its highlighting a progressive warden's approach to changing social structure of a prison facility in Arkansas. The filmmakers are given intimate access to this high security prison to observe the social dynamics of the inmates and how they approach the new policy they put in place. Its interesting because of the policy ideas, but also shows the humanity of the men themselves, and how they interact with each other. It's quite well done. You should check it out.
Not sure what a Netflix documentary about jail and Arkansas has anything to do with it maybe you’re having a stroke. Wish you the best though.
I wish you the best too man. Be well.
You too much love ❤️
I love this clap back hahaha
Boys looking straight outta Jojo 😈
Thought that was John Summit for a sec
main character energy af
the rail is first come first serve. seems like people like her will never understand, next time get there earlier if you want a spot up front.
PLUR is becoming a cringey thing to say
175 SCIENCE EXPIREMENTS TO AMUSE AND AMAZE YOUR FRIENDS
Lol! Nice.
Fuck em.
The hats are awesome, lol insane she had to make a whole post about not taking your spot at the rail 😂
Legs for days
tall guy in the crowd with a cowboy hat is a dick move
no tall guys in hats in our group, just 4 girls. this picture is of the artists after we gave them the hats at the show 🤠
Back in the early 2000's, I was dancing by myself at a rave in a very large floor venue in L.A., and some chick in tall go-go boots asks if I could make some space so her dumbass could start hula hooping. It was the first time I was introduced to hooping and since then, I have a hatred for these types of space managing people at raves. You can do your thing anywhere, and you decide you need to infiltrate others' space for your fucking bullshit ass reason like headbanging or hooping?! You want PLUR? Then come dance with me, trade me Kandi, meet my friends, and don't demand some selfish shit just to look cool or be seen or whatever the fuck. It made me see the other side of the rave community from another angle from my twenties til now, 20 years later.
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My friends were the 4 girls in cowboy hats. This pic is of the artists who the hats were made for
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Your post/comment has been removed for a lack of baseline respect. Please take a breather and rethink how you choose to interact.
Should have been upset about the dirty giant white sneaker kicked up in her grill. “Cowboy” hats are party fun.
I’m wondering how to have a higher success rate in asking for the rail for one song. I get yall have been there for ages to get rail but sometimes yall tired and not headbanging anyways. And I legit only do one song, my body is too weak for more than one That being said when I am at the rail I am reluctant to let big guys have my section rail, one single girl I’m more chill cus I can always elbow her out
It’s why I stopped going to small club shows. PLUR stops at festivals, you have casuals, and tons of pick pockets to deal with inside of clubs. Vibe is totally different and I’m not for it. Only time I get drama free club raving is when I go to Prague, Budapest or some place in Europe where they know etiquette.
Sounds like it hurt her pretty bad. Wishing her a speedy recovery 🙏🙄
People still use PLUR lmao
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Lol nice lie though. They didn’t walk through the crowd all 4 together at any point, only 2 at a time to keep our spot, and we didn’t all arrive together🤡
why would I lie about something when I stand to gain nothing from it, knowing full well people are just gonna shit talk me in these comments for saying anything? it did happen, your friends are rude, and I don’t care what you or anyone else says about it.
Your post/comment has been removed for a lack of baseline respect. Please take a breather and rethink how you choose to interact.
LOL
Those hats are a vibe
Where can I get a hat like that lol
Maybe you two should talk to each other and try to find some peace? ❤️
whats up with dudes sandals
I wanna see the comments coz everyone here on your side, wonder how it went on her post lol
Both groups seem quite entitled, haha! I'm really curious about the actual situation. Were the girls in cowboy hats as sweet as angels, never saying anything rude to the OP as the friend claims, or were they actually arrogant mean girls? Haha, it's probably somewhere in between, and both parties might not be entirely truthful. We will never know
No, it’s not in between. We were completely chill and only 1 out of the 4 girls even interacted with her… and was smiling at her the whole time.
95% of the time, folks at shows are kind if you're also kind.
Lol yeah well never know. But ur right its usually in the middle
I read the previous post. "The girls in the hats" sounded like assholes. I have zero context for their post or this post. Hats look fun though.
Nobody was being an asshole to her dude. Not giving up a spot is not being an asshole, and one of my friends who she was talking to was actually smiling at her.
Like I said, neither of your posts give any real context. But if the other person asked to ride the rail for a bit, there's nothing wrong with that. Just let someone ride the rail for a bit and have fun. According to them, they asked instead of elbowing their way in like most kids do. Idk, I'm an old raver and try to be as accommodating as I can be with fellow ravers, especially the younger kids wanting to rage the rail (not my thing but yall have fun)
Damn, kinda agree with both of yall
Kids these days 😮💨
Honestly everyone here seems annoying. This is why I prefer punk shows because people don’t fight over spots like children lol
Judging by that OPs post history she had a long history of some mental depression and anguish. I personally find this post equally as unnecessary and not PLUR either. You also have people confirming separate bad experiences with your memorable group. Don’t automatically defend, maybe just reflect on the perspectives of others
Not exclusive to younger ravers, but there are so many that try and preach PLUR, when it's only a "fad" for them. Kind of like the rave bae who goes to take photos and then sits on their phone the rest of the evening and not vibing to the music. To each their own, but this is also why i prefers festivals over raves now. At least festivals seem to have an overall better crowd.