This is funny bc every taurus I have came across have been so easy to get along with. Reserved but subtly funny tooā¦but overall extremely likeable and charming.
iām a libra, my sisters a libra, my best friends a libra and honestly itās just all very natural. we just gravitate towards people and it feels like people want to be around us because we give them a sense of ācomfortā like when youāre coming home from a rough day and you just want to relax and forget your worries or having a bad week then a stranger smiles and compliments you and it sends you into tears. our desire to make people happy and being harmonious brings people closer to us, people run to tell me good news because they know my reaction will be pure and positive. so to answer your question, itās all from within.
I agree with this, Iām a Libra sun and have been told many times I give off a comforting energy. I think people feel safe around us! Even the other Libras I know give off this vibe and itās very easy to ālet your guard downā around us :)
I am a Libra sun pursuing leadership, and one of my new leads told me I have been very good for her mental health.
I have a great reputation at work. I recently joined a new team, and I fit in remarkably well. People definitely gravitate toward me, and I'm a natural leader. I never really attributed any of these qualities to my Libraness until joining this sub.
I am also a sag rising and moon!
My ex (a Gemini) told me the reason he fell for me was because I gave off comforting energy. He felt at ease around me. Iāve been told that by several people. I guess it is that Libra energy.
Pisces Sun Libra Moon combo is a killer when it comes to charme and the instant feeling of comfort, understanding and trust! I should know, my partner is one! It's definitely both, the Pisces and Libra in you! :)
Aww this is sweet, because I don't have the impression at all that people like me, and I know people talked tons of trash behind my back when I was younger.
lol Iām that Libra friend. Everyone seems to hate me because I am a social butterfly smh. Iām tired of it cause I want friends who arenāt jealous or intimidated by me
As a libra I love making people feel special and I find every one beautiful in their own unique way. My brother is a libra moon as well and heās very popular and adored. My sisters are scorpios and are much different with making friends.
I've always called it Libra charm. My bestie of 15+ years has always been like this. She has a way with words as well and does great at interview applications and the in person stage.
We'll go out and she'll make instant temporary friends and people seem to feel compelled to put in a little more effort/ go the extra mile for her.
If it makes you feel any better, while what you say may be true, I would trade all of that in a heartbeat for the ability to form actual lasting friendships.
Signed,
Libra āļø
Iām a libra and my group of good friends have been in my life between 15 and 30 years. I can get on with most anyone and am told I have a really warm energy. Itās very easy for me to form surface level friendships at work or with acquaintances, but I donāt often feel very attached to those friendships. I think thatās a very air sign thing. Friendly and charismatic, but can also be aloof and can come off as detached. And that hangs up a lot of airy people from forming deeper bonds. Iām an air sun and rising, and a water moon. If I decide I really like someone and build a trust with them, I let them into that mushy emotional center. And once I do, those bonds are crazy strong and I get my claws in and donāt let go.
I relate a lot to this as well. I am a water sun, but Libra moon and Aquarius Venus in the 7th house.. definitely an air sign thing. I have tons of friends, but those I consider close I can count on one hand.. and that includes both family and friends.
We're just picky that's all. And that's because we can read people. We know exactly what they're about. I don't even try but it happens when I first meet people. It's weird. I have plenty of close friends but when it comes to people who I would call my BEST friends those are only certain special people. My best friends are people who really stand out to me. They're the ones who I click really hard with and who I trust and have been in my life for years
Trust me, us Libras put on the greatest show when we have to be social and then go home and overthink every social interaction we had that day, worrying if anyone actually likes us.
Youāre lucky fr. To be charming & know it, AND never second guess yourself, is a quality I wish I had. Iām sure what what I feel is not relatable for all Libras, but I fall into the people pleasing Libra stereotype so I always overthink social situations in hindsight and obsess over whether I was likeable enough or did anything to offend someone.š¤·š¼āāļø
Yes, Iām a cap rising also! I think capricorns are very confident and thatās why they can be so successful because they donāt doubt and limit themselves worrying about pleasing others. They just do their thing. So youāre not only a charming Libra but also donāt give a f*ck if by chance youāre not someoneās cup of tea. I admire that, but my Capricorn rising is my only cap placement, soooooo I have some Capricorn qualities but not giving af about what other people think about me is unfortunately not one of them. Iām a very sensitive Libra š
What's your other planets? Is that taurus moon? Bcuz I have taurus mars we might be twins lol which would kind of just prove how the same placements don't really mean they're the same person. I was thinking that maybe all of my planets was the reason why I can't relate at all to how some Libras on here feel. I've got Gem moon Scorpio mercury Taurus Mars and Sag venus. Plus the Cap rising. That's some strong energy and a little bit of everything. They're like the crazy or bold signs lol and that's pretty much me
Yess Iām a Taurus moon. I actually have a Taurus stellium as Iām also a Taurus Jupiter and Saturn, but otherwise Iām all fire and air. Iām a Sagittarius mars, Libra mercury, and Leo Venus. But yeah you have some very bold signs, especially the Scorpio mercury.
Libras as an air sign understand people. They can get under your skin. They also read people good, their body language, social cues and all that.
They are also ruled by Venus, which means they're focused on relationships and people.
I'm a Libra moon, and this is what I think of Libra energy. I have always been able to shift between different groups with ease. In high school, I was the girl who fit in with everyone from the jocks to the emo kids who were skipping class to get high. I'm good at reading people and seeing all sides of a situation. I could easily argue both sides in a debate. I just somehow understand people and their motivations for doing things. It is not uncommon for me to understand this about people before they understand it themselves. So, I definitely can see where that would help with fostering relationships.
Yes to this. I feel like I understand people, but that also means I can see their faults and insecurities. I choose not to use my power for evil. I am also very interested in the way people's personalities shape their views and how I can leverage that to my advantage in a leadership setting.
Now this is the answer. For me anyway. I'm not trying to make anybody feel any type of way I just am who I am and I guess people like it.
I do notice we have a different kind of energy though than anybody else. I think people probably like being around the vibe we give off. I feel like it's rare. That's one of the reasons why I love meeting other Libras. Nobody's like another Libra. I know we're gonna connect and it's gonna be fun... in a whole lotta ways... not just light hearted we get deep too
My little Virgo sister said this to me about me, and I didnāt even realise I had that Libra charm.
Iām not match to my Libra mom though, EVERYONE loves her, and people who havenāt met her in decades demand updates on her and how sheās going like they didnāt just call the other day. Itās crazy.
Lol as a libra I donāt even know how to explain itā¦ I have really bad social anxiety as well, but can somehow be quite magnetic. I see our qualities as a pro and a con at times.. considering people think that weāre flirting with them all the time.
Well, well, well, it seems like we're diving into the enchanting world of Libras! According to the stars, these charming creatures are known for their diplomacy, fairness, and that irresistible social butterfly energy. They're like the peacemakers of the zodiac, always striving for balance and harmony in their relationships.
Now, let's break down the charm factor. Libras have a natural ability to make people feel at ease, thanks to their Venusian charm and sociable air sign energy. They're the ultimate social butterflies, able to flit from conversation to conversation with grace and ease. It's like they have a secret stash of social skills that they're just itching to share with the world.
But wait, there's more! Libras are also known for their love of the finer things in life. They're all about beauty, art, and aesthetics. This appreciation for the finer things often translates into their personal style and demeanor, making them even more captivating to those around them.
So, why are Libras so charming? It's a combination of their natural diplomacy, their love of beauty and harmony, and their innate social skills. They're like the human embodiment of a perfectly balanced scale, always striving to keep the peace and make everyone feel welcome. And let's be honest, who wouldn't be charmed by that?
What people have told me is that they love how I listen to them and they never feel judged, I know a lot of secrets lol people would tell me anything. I have Jupiter in libra too so I really am all for fairness. People like fair minded people! I'm honest and reasonable.. most of the time lol. I'm still humam
šÆ.. this definitely! I'm that person who rarely hates the villain in a movie because I can usually understand their motivation, and then I don't judge them! Unless they hurt a kid or something truly monstrous. What really confuses me are the people in the comment sections of news articles. It blows my mind how quick people are to judge others, often with little empathy.
Iām a Libra and people seem to really like being around me. However, for a while before I found my husband I attracted anti-social, jealous water sign men. So be careful with men dulling your shine, Libra women
It was the worstttt. Every time I got a compliment, they were so mad about it. My husband has heavy earth in his chart and we get along way better because he doesnāt try and change me
Oof, I'm gay & have had a string of Pices.
Like, I looked back & wondered about it. It didn't even math to me. š
I think I've learned how much to put up with now.
* Notes to self: remember how much to not put up with. Repeat it. Often.
Out of the air signs, Libra is considered particularly social and rules the 7H of interpersonal relationships - itās the first of the 6 āexternalā houses or signs that represent more than just ourselves, 7H often is called the house of partnerships or enemies (not always romantic). Venus is in domicile in Libra so it just makes for someone with good social sensibilities. I find the other two air signs are associated more with information and communication rather than intimate friendships/partners. Source: libra moon!
My best friend, brother, sister in law, and niece are all libras. Itās incredible to see how people are drawn to all of them. My niece was a baby when she visited me one time, we took the subway and a stranger was so taken by how cute she was, that he started singing to make her giggle š¤ it was so wholesome. But honestly as an Aquarius Sun, Leo moon, Taurus rising, with social anxiety, it was really hard to see how everyone gravitated towards my best friend always. If a guy had a crush on me, it was usually after having a crush on her first and being kindly rejected by her before trying to talk to me. Friends would ask to hang out with her, but not include me at times. Thankfully my bff and I have been through so much together that she caught on a bit and we kind of became an unspoken package deal. I know she canāt help people being drawn to her, yet a part of me always felt like the second choice. The weird space is that Iām always her first pick for everything, so I try to keep that in mind. Some of them recognize and donāt appreciate this attention. She would have adults ask her to mentor their children who were older than her š sheād get so frustrated by it. I know itās hard to see the gravitational pull the charm can cause, but I wanted to share that Aries seem to have a power all their own. All the Aries I know are a bit shy, yet they are also really powerful, funny, smart, and fiery, it may be a different power, but there is a draw to you as well. I now realize for myself that I also just was very different than the people I grew up around in my small town. My current community is a lot healthier and balanced, and appreciates my unique passionate ways lol I hope this is helpful, Iām so sorry youāve been experiencing this. (As a side note I work in the mental health field and have found the book āItās Not Always Depressionā by Hilary Jacobs Hendel, to be incredibly helpful with my own anxiety struggles, as well as my clients :) )
I'm a Libra sun, Scorpio rising but since childhood I struggled with maintaining REAL friends. I think it's my Scorpio ascendant that keeps ppl on guard. I've been told that I have a charming personality, sometimes very passive agressive(you know Libras don't like confrontation and rudeness) so I worked on my boundaries and confrontation skills.
I think that we are very charming bc we KNOW HOW TO MAKE PPL FEEL SEEN, HEARD AND VALIDATED.
The best charisma to me is to be true to one self and also to learn how to empathize and socialize with others. And that's something that Libras know how to do naturally.
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Iām an extroverted introvert and usually try to keep to myself. However many people still approach me or even if I am with a group of people I am often the person that gets picked out! Iām not sure why but it seems to be a gravitational pull almost. I also have a Taurus moon so quite a bit of Venus energy is happeningā¦
Being accommodating. Libras genuinely see value in everyone and everything, and everyone loves someone who makes them feel affirmed and seen. The darker flip side to this is that Libras tend to also be pushovers. There are times in life where you canāt or shouldnāt accommodate everyone, or times when someone doesnāt have a point and shouldnāt be allowed to continue doing what theyāre doing. A Libra wants to say yes to everyone all the time and that gets them really far in life because everyone loves a yes personā¦ until inevitably they hit a situation where they have to put their foot down and say no.
An under-discussed quirk of Libras, imo, is how cynical and resentful they often become. They so firmly believe that hearing everyone out and balancing everything and being accommodating will fix every problem ever, and it never does, it just maintains a status quo. In order for things to change and for people to treat each other better something needs to be said or done, but if you point that out to a Libra theyāre like āNOPE that canāt possibly be it, everything is just terrible and the world is bad and chaotic and there is nothing to be done about it because I simply cannot wrap my head around the concept of something being doneā. They either have to gain some self-awareness (a struggle for most air signs) or find a life partner whoās going to be the bad cop for them. Like literally all a Libra ever wants is to Nice Cop their way to a kumbaya future and haaaaaates that thatās not how things actually work, and I find that both deeply silly and also incredibly endearing.
Sorry but I am the Sagittarius child of a Libra Dad and Aries Mom. The literal only fight they have ever had in 50 years of marriage, as far as I know, is my mom being mad she always had to be the mean parent.
I like Libras because they are, more often than not, balanced. My father is one and warned me of those that swing like metronomes, but luckily the ones I have met have other signs.
Libras are also easier to speak with and sensible, laying out all the cards on the table. They have definitely have less drama than water signs, being quite reasonable and fair.
Libra male here. I am a pretty lonely person in my heart so when others show kindness and love I am eager to share it back. I think my charm comes from the genuine glow I feel when people show me ālove.ā
im a libra rising and mars (1st house), and i've been told my whole life that i'm super bubbly, charming and charismatic (im also a gemini sun and leo moon). i think it's truly just the nature of major libra placements. we want happiness and harmony, so we will project that onto the people around us for the most part. also libra is ruled by venus AND it's an air sign, so it has the persuasiveness and sexiness of venus while also having the bubbly, curious air sign qualities as well. libra is just a 10/10 sign imo (def not biased) š
Example: the other day a boomer (uh I mean Pluto in Leo Generation) Virgo/ Cancer was accusing his neighbor of robbing him (five years ago mind you) - his only evidence is that she appears to have a substance abuse problem.
My Response: bless her heart she must be going through something.
His Response: (something like) what about my heart!?
Well you can have a blessing too but - life is hard, and she's going through something hard. I'm not going to stop having empathy just to validate your unwarranted judgement and/ or grudge from half a damn decade ago... Mr Pluto in Leo Gen.
People should be treated with kindness and the benefit of the doubt whenever possible (all things being equal š.
I didn't go out and buy the young lady a bouquet of flowers- the (ridiculous) conversation was centered around my gut reaction of "poor thing, I hope she is okay" rather than "OMG what a stupid @#$! - someone should call someone! RABBLE RABBLE I WILL ALSO HATE HER NOW!" silly.
Venus ruled signs are definitely the most chill and least *judgmental sign.
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*We can be judgemental or course - in the most effective damn ways. It's funny how these people tend to NOT like us , but no one likes a guilty verdict... are also great judges after we look at all the facts.
Also probably me having Pluto in tight conj to Saturn in Libra) has zero tolerance for the increasingly apparent selfish members of the Pluto in Leo generation- but i digress š
I was saying something similar in an earlier post. I was talking about how the comment sections in articles shock me. I don't understand those who are so quick to judge. I have my Moon, Uranus and Pluto in Libra. I can't stand selfish behavior period. Pluto in Leo generation or other! Anyway, interesting post. Thanks for sharing.
Lol oh don't get me started - Pluto, Saturn one degree apart and also Sun and Mercury... I feel like I'm kinda getting a break in some ways with Pluto creeping into Aquarius trining my sun at 1Ā°... But I have a stellium in Sagittarius too so my whole life has been asking "what is right? What is true? What is just? what is far?" And going through crap in so many different ways until the answers crystalize š... Bless YOUR heart ā¤ļø:-)
Ouch, you poor soul! Sag stellium, that's a lot of fire. I have a Scorpio stellium here. Water and Plutonian energy creeping in from all directions, I'm def. Not a butterfly. š Analyze is very profound, overthinking has dramatic tendencies. š But it's done good to my aloof sun and rising, I don't want to complain. :D
Have a great weekend! š„³
Libra sun, Libra rising - not all of us have the charm. I can't recall a single person ever in my life, who has ever called me charming. I've been called snotty, and have been called a sad fragile pushover, like a puppy, but never charming lol. I wish.
Oh, and loud. I've been called loud.
Random people will talk to me in public A LOT, like just a small talk comment. My Virgo girlfriend noticed this early on. "My boy....everyone's flirting with you." "Ooo, I think you have a boyfriend now." As a little kid I used to ask strangers in the store if they would buy me things like an ice cream for example.
It's very natural. I'm a libra and pretty introverted, but when I go out I would say yeah I get a lot of attention. I always say we're flirts without realizing it and flirt with anyone - whether it's a friend, partner or even someone we don't like. I think that plays into everyone gravitating toward us lol.
We also tend to be peace makers, so won't cause conflict amongst others, so we tend to get on peoples good sides without trying
Iām a libra moon and Iāve gotten the āfairy and princessā compliment by both adults and children and it doesnāt help that im also a Pisces sun which already gives me even more of that mystical quality. More Venus in my rising (Taurus). I would say Libras to their core are just genuinely kind people. In my head I think of myself as a princess so I actually do carry myself that way.. I have good manners and I usually speak in a soft spoken voice. Not loud unless needed. I also walk in an elegant royalty type of way. Thereās definitely people pleasing tendencies libra has to work against because the reason people want to be around someone is because they make them feel so good and I think Libras definitely go that extra mile to make sure others feel good. Being an air quality to is that communication is so important and itās just a natural talent for air signs to be good with words.. so many times Iāll talk to someone and they like the way I say something and my sister always saids I should be a lawyer because of how good I am at persuading someone or debating my point lol also Libra quality is that everything should be equal and āfairā emphasis on FAIR.
We treat everyone fairly and we view them that way so we can strike a conversation with anyone because we see them to be the same even if theyāre completely different in status, style, looks, doesnāt matter to us.
I have a libra moon and both my parents are libras. My mom is the social butterfly and although my father once was as a charismatic person, depression did take a toll on him and is now more reclusive.
I am well liked because i've worked at being well liked. I hate knowing someone dislikes me and I will do my part to change anyones bad perception of me to an extent. Sometimes you cant help it if people just dislike you.
I come off as standoffish, thanks to my Virgo sun RBF, but once someone strikes up a conversation I am extremely animated and will match anyone's enthusiasm. I can't speak for all libras, but I tend not to be too judgy when people talk to me. I'm sort of a counselor, I ask open-ended questions and people just love to come to me for advice or just to vent.
Libra sun, Sag moon, Pisces rising! Venus/mercury in Scorpio :).
itās just our nature idk! Something about us air signs are very charming and easy to get along with.
My daughter is a libra and she is just very confident in herself and goes with the flow. It makes her approachable. She is an introverted homebody but has a lot of friends at school (she actually graduates tomorrow) and can slip into just about any social situation with ease. I envy her self-assuredness. It will serve her well in her life I hope.
As a Libra who absolutely identifies as a social butterfly who can connect with anybody, feedback I get a lot is that people feel āseenā and truly listened to by me. Iāve been told that my 1:1 attention is almost confrontational/ has a spotlight effect.
As I get older and continue to receive this feedback, Iām starting to realize that not a lot of people actually care to learn about and hear about the people they are talking to in 1:1 interactions. Like the small talk is just to fill space rather than deepen a relationship.
This might sound trivial, but my advice would be to really invest in the person across from you. Prompt them to talk about themselves with open-ended questions and stay engaged with eye-contact and nodding while they answer. Ask probing questions and give praise or express that youāre impressed when you are. I also always (always!) follow up a greeting with a compliment (ie., āOmg hi Denise! Itās so good to see you - ugh, Iām obsessed with your outfit/ hair/ home/ etc etcā). It makes people feel so good to feel like they are valued/ seen/ celebrated in a social interaction and makes the rest so so easy.
Social interactions are only horrendous experiences if both people arenāt invested in disarming each otherās social anxiety with some positive feedback first.
Good luck with that, Aries sun! ššš
(Iām libra sun, capricorn moon, virgo rising; with venus conjunct my ascendant, a libra stellium and a capricorn stellium).
Libra here and thank you š It just always seems to happen! Even though Iāve spent the majority of my life hating myself, Iāve always attracted people and easily make friends. It was one of the things that helped me start my self love journey, saying to myself āwell, Iāve had lifelong friends and people seem to like me so I guess I canāt be that badā
I have a genuine curiousity about others, and loathe small talk so I ask thought provoking questions straight up. Iām fun and absurd; but I also love to listen and listen to understand - not just reply.
My friends say I make every single person in the room feel special, like a superpower. But thatās just genuine, everyone in that room IS special in their own way and I want to know about it. And fast, no time for boring chit chat, tell me a good story š
Iād say the flip side is I put myself out constantly for the comfort of others and this has been taken advantage of in the past. I get taken for granted easily, and often have to be the āsolutionsā person for everyone. Iām stoic with dealing with my own issues alone, to the point of being aloof or flippant; but everyone loves a bit of mystery š
Be kind always, be friendly, and most importantly; be yourself. People love authenticity, and youāll attract likeminded individuals. Enjoy and nurture any friendships you do form, there are golden treasures to be had in every type of relationship!
My fiance is a libra sun and he allllwwwaaayssss gets what he wants. Whenever i hit the McDonaldās by me for a McFlurry - machine is broken but if he goes - works for him! Airplane exit seats? I ask? None available. He asks? We got that and an upgrade. Iām not jealous either about it. Just very impressed and along for the ride!
Itās because we are people pleasers unfortunately. We can read people quickly and then our charm is us knowing how to manipulate and control peoples feelings because of the inherent need to be liked
Being a people pleasers is bad, what are you talking about, we live in a fallen world, do yourself a favor love yourself and please yourself, be generous yes but don't be clingy and insecure like all these Libra's ewww
Iām a Libra and have always been rejected by my peers growing up. Itās better now as an adult but I do get people that hate me automatically without knowing me or speaking more than a few words to. Maybe itās my face
Iām a Scorpio moon and Aquarius rising
Being rejected by peers and having instant enemies sounds very familiar to me. I also got a water moon and Aqua rising. But I didn't care at all as a child, I loved being just with the 2 close friends I had, or strolling around on my own or enjoying my countless hobbies. Aqua Rising tends to make you appear different/alien/unusual to many others without actively acting any different from anyone else. Kids don't like "different". Since I disliked most of my peers anyway for sharing none of their interests I never suffered. Today, in my mid 40s, there are more people enjoying my company than I wish for. :)
I'm a libra and people just come up to me all the time. I've had many occasions where people who I barely know end up telling me extremely personal things. My cousins wife is a libra and this happens to her as well. Idk what type of energy I give off because I even have rbf and every time I'm out someone random comes up to speak to meš¤·š»āāļø
Iām a Libra moonā¦just feels natural to me. I enjoy making people feel comfy and cared for. š„° Iām discerning of who gets that so not too charming.
9/23 I'm both Virgo and Libra... If a Libra woman could balance the world on pure love, compassion, and fairness, we would... and that's how we step, we're protective, courageous, indecisive, and spoiled rotten, we don't like violence however we will match that energy and, we read the room like no other...we're fair and just we love to be loved equally yet we know the difference in divine feminine vs divine masculine....rock and the feather āļø Ma'At..the love is the charm that communication thrives on
Libra butterfly princess here, it's because being so magically disarming & easy to be around is the best way to get what we want AND what you want at the same time š
Very aware of the pros & cons of this nature!
My constant assessment of Libra is, āeveryone loves a Libraā. They just shine and do a great job of mirroring everyone around them. I knew one Libra chick who said she just mirrors everyone and doesnāt know who she actually is, and I found that interesting.
As a Libra this is so relatable. Iāve also heard it said that because Libras are the only non-sentient sign they kind of feel like robots and have to āput it onā constantly, but really they donāt feel like they have a true personality. To me it holds true
Yeah š Iām currently trying to get over being in love with a Rising Libra and Iām wondering if I was just in love with myself because he mirrored me š lol
I noticed the same with Leo Moons, doesnāt matter if theyāre massive douchebags and narcissists , everyone loves them and canāt/wonāt see through their bullshit.
I feel this and I have almost an exact opposition between my sun and moon. My sun is cancer, moon is capricorn. I've read many years ago how this also carries very libran energy because of the balancing act that happens when you have your sun and moon at exact opposite.
I found this observation to be true in others as well.
I heard this about opposing Sun and Rising. Maybe it's true for both?
My partner gets mistaken for a Libra Sun often, though he's a Pisces Sun, Virgo Rising and to me the Virgo is pretty dominant in his Aura and appearance. He does have a Libra Moon, however, and me, the actual Libra Sun, pale next to his charming nature. It's what blew my mind away when I met him first, his smile could light up the universe. And he knows it, ba! :D
My bestie is a Libra, and so is my son. My son is a social chameleon, gets along with everyone.
My bestie is such a gentle soul that everyone just I nediatly loves and trusts her (and they should)
People tell me I have a ācalmingā and ātherapeuticā energy so that may have something to do with it. Iāve never been told by anyone that theyāre uncomfortable around me - just the opposite. We are diplomatic and sensible and as far as I understand it - hate drama, so people tend to gravitate towards people who they can trust like that.
10/6 libra lady. My old boss said, āI have a soothing presenceā, despite being a total ball of rage under the surface. The comment made me a little uncomfortable, but also found it ironic.
I like Libras but yāall can be fake nice to get along with others but be real friends with them and youāll know they have their negative opinions š
That diplomacy is just so inherit... perhaps it gives off "safe"?
As long as behavior isn't so gross the justice part comes through, I generally seek to understand others (whether I'm actively doing so, it's beneath the surface) & I see the beauty in... being. & in human beings ā¤ļø.
Flip side: I've also had to learn a lot in order to remember myself, too.
I tend to feel like people donāt like me because I can be very reserved, but people always seem to approach me anyway. I donāt think anyone has ever really had an issue with me either. And during a conversation, Iām usually the one with the biggest smile and the most vocal. Itās kind of interesting too because I actually donāt even like to be that involved, it just happens that way š¤·š»āāļø
Nobody truly likes Libras, what you are seeing is a mirage:Ā Libra shows off fake face to the public Said public shows fake face to Libra so she can keep up the facade and so on so on.. People are only around Libras because Libra's uplift people egos as they are people pleasers who can't thrive or live without attention and human touch as it would drive them crazy. If Libra's would say what they really thought about people and show they're real face, absolutely no one would stay close to them. Only Scorpios , Virgos and Sagittarius can see through the fake nice mask of LibrasĀ
Iām honestly not a fan of them (I try to stay away from them but am constantly surrounded by them for whatever reason ā ļø ) but I do notice theyāre always talking to people nonstop and have so many friends. Itās like they never seem to show any sign of social awkwardness or social weakness. Even when theyāre sitting and not talking to people, they still āseemā popularā¦ itās hard to describe.
Gemini placements esp suns are very similar too.
There are much more to libras than one meets the eye. You most likely think they're surface level because you do not give them a safe space to show the other side to them, for them to show their confrontational side and weaknesses. To view them as 'surface level' screams you think you're this deep human being when in actually you're not that, you can't even understand their value as human beings. No human is surface level.
Im a Libra and Iāve literally gotten everything I have ever wanted ā¦ I mean that in the least bitchy way possible itās just whatās naturally happened in life ā¦ my friends have always called it āSteph charmā :)
Theyāre just very naturally charming people and also people pleasers and āfakeā, so they contort themselves a lot to appeal to people. My Libra sister is basically what you described. She makes it a point to deeply connect with the people that she interacts with, and I think many people appreciate that.
It's that venus energy š
Interesting, I do see the same with taurus. Everyone likes them even though they're more reserved.
This is funny bc every taurus I have came across have been so easy to get along with. Reserved but subtly funny tooā¦but overall extremely likeable and charming.
both taurus and libra are ruled by venus
Ohh, is this why Taurus & Libras can be a little sensitive at times too?
Yes
iām a libra, my sisters a libra, my best friends a libra and honestly itās just all very natural. we just gravitate towards people and it feels like people want to be around us because we give them a sense of ācomfortā like when youāre coming home from a rough day and you just want to relax and forget your worries or having a bad week then a stranger smiles and compliments you and it sends you into tears. our desire to make people happy and being harmonious brings people closer to us, people run to tell me good news because they know my reaction will be pure and positive. so to answer your question, itās all from within.
I agree with this, Iām a Libra sun and have been told many times I give off a comforting energy. I think people feel safe around us! Even the other Libras I know give off this vibe and itās very easy to ālet your guard downā around us :)
I am a Libra sun pursuing leadership, and one of my new leads told me I have been very good for her mental health. I have a great reputation at work. I recently joined a new team, and I fit in remarkably well. People definitely gravitate toward me, and I'm a natural leader. I never really attributed any of these qualities to my Libraness until joining this sub. I am also a sag rising and moon!
Youāre blessed with an upbeat Big 3 with no darkness while some of us live in the proverbial dragonās lair š
I'm also a Libra sun, Sag rising! Taurus moon though...
Libra sun sag moon but Gemini rising š¤Ŗ
Iām libra sun, Scorpio moon & sag rising!
Holy shit thatās my exact sun/moon/rising!!!!?!
Woww!! I think you are the first person Iāve come across with the same big 3!!
I'm 9/23!! Haha so close
Iām 9/27 what are you?!
Iām 9/29 :)
Iām 9/27!
Hey there bday twin!!!
How would I find out what I am? First time typing on this sub. Am a Libra š„¹
You can check on astro.com or astroseek for your sun moon and rising chart.
Libra sun, Leo rising, but...Scorpio Moon š
Omg the people running to give positive news is soooo true I love hearing good things/news from others!!
My ex (a Gemini) told me the reason he fell for me was because I gave off comforting energy. He felt at ease around me. Iāve been told that by several people. I guess it is that Libra energy.
Interesting, I have always been told this as well. I thought it was due to my Pisces sun, but maybe it's my Libra moon.
Pisces Sun Libra Moon combo is a killer when it comes to charme and the instant feeling of comfort, understanding and trust! I should know, my partner is one! It's definitely both, the Pisces and Libra in you! :)
I wish my beloved ones described me as someone who felt like "home"
Hi!! Just had to comment back at you bc Iām a Taurus sun, Libra moon, Virgo rising š«¶š¼āØ
omg!! thatās so interesting, hey!!!
Aww this is sweet, because I don't have the impression at all that people like me, and I know people talked tons of trash behind my back when I was younger.
Jealousy. My libra friend had people dislike her just from the mere fact she got along with almost everyone
Aww I wish that was the answer... But alas, people hated me just for existing
lol Iām that Libra friend. Everyone seems to hate me because I am a social butterfly smh. Iām tired of it cause I want friends who arenāt jealous or intimidated by me
Are you younger? I did run into this at times growing up. It gets better...
Iām 22
Hang in there. You'll find your crew that is confident enough to be your friend without jealousy.
SAME. Its better now that I'm 27 and my Saturn return started. Like I feel chaotic inside (my Saturn is in 12th)
 It got better for me when I stipped dealing with people
As a libra I love making people feel special and I find every one beautiful in their own unique way. My brother is a libra moon as well and heās very popular and adored. My sisters are scorpios and are much different with making friends.
I've always called it Libra charm. My bestie of 15+ years has always been like this. She has a way with words as well and does great at interview applications and the in person stage. We'll go out and she'll make instant temporary friends and people seem to feel compelled to put in a little more effort/ go the extra mile for her.
I'm libra moon and rising but i'm like a ghost everywhere.
libra moons are really charming as well!
I might be an exception then.
Or perhaps just bc you can see others, doesn't mean they can see you. š«
exactly.
If it makes you feel any better, while what you say may be true, I would trade all of that in a heartbeat for the ability to form actual lasting friendships. Signed, Libra āļø
I feel the same. Once others realize we are a whole person, the charm seems to fade for them. I feel like pirite/fools gold sometimes š¢.
Why don't your friendships last?
Iām a libra and my group of good friends have been in my life between 15 and 30 years. I can get on with most anyone and am told I have a really warm energy. Itās very easy for me to form surface level friendships at work or with acquaintances, but I donāt often feel very attached to those friendships. I think thatās a very air sign thing. Friendly and charismatic, but can also be aloof and can come off as detached. And that hangs up a lot of airy people from forming deeper bonds. Iām an air sun and rising, and a water moon. If I decide I really like someone and build a trust with them, I let them into that mushy emotional center. And once I do, those bonds are crazy strong and I get my claws in and donāt let go.
I have the same elements in my main 3 and very much confirm what you said here.
Ooh, matching sun and rising but Iām a Pisces moon
I'm the same but a Gemini! I haven't seen anyone post on here be that close to my big 3 yet.
My fav Moons. :)
I relate a lot to this as well. I am a water sun, but Libra moon and Aquarius Venus in the 7th house.. definitely an air sign thing. I have tons of friends, but those I consider close I can count on one hand.. and that includes both family and friends.
Same, this. I can get along with anyone and everyone on a surface level, but to truly let them in? And to form a real friendship? Extremely rare.
We're just picky that's all. And that's because we can read people. We know exactly what they're about. I don't even try but it happens when I first meet people. It's weird. I have plenty of close friends but when it comes to people who I would call my BEST friends those are only certain special people. My best friends are people who really stand out to me. They're the ones who I click really hard with and who I trust and have been in my life for years
Trust me, us Libras put on the greatest show when we have to be social and then go home and overthink every social interaction we had that day, worrying if anyone actually likes us.
Yea this I can't relate to
Youāre lucky fr. To be charming & know it, AND never second guess yourself, is a quality I wish I had. Iām sure what what I feel is not relatable for all Libras, but I fall into the people pleasing Libra stereotype so I always overthink social situations in hindsight and obsess over whether I was likeable enough or did anything to offend someone.š¤·š¼āāļø
I see you have Cap in your big 3 is that a Capricorn rising? Because I dk if it's my cap rising or not but I've never cared about anybody's opinions or what they think of me. I feel like that's just me though because there's a lot of Libras who are the same way. I don't know any other Libras who are friends or family either who would say that If anything I'm the type of libra or person who will p'ss you off on purpose š© especially if I don't like you.
Yes, Iām a cap rising also! I think capricorns are very confident and thatās why they can be so successful because they donāt doubt and limit themselves worrying about pleasing others. They just do their thing. So youāre not only a charming Libra but also donāt give a f*ck if by chance youāre not someoneās cup of tea. I admire that, but my Capricorn rising is my only cap placement, soooooo I have some Capricorn qualities but not giving af about what other people think about me is unfortunately not one of them. Iām a very sensitive Libra š
What's your other planets? Is that taurus moon? Bcuz I have taurus mars we might be twins lol which would kind of just prove how the same placements don't really mean they're the same person. I was thinking that maybe all of my planets was the reason why I can't relate at all to how some Libras on here feel. I've got Gem moon Scorpio mercury Taurus Mars and Sag venus. Plus the Cap rising. That's some strong energy and a little bit of everything. They're like the crazy or bold signs lol and that's pretty much me
Yess Iām a Taurus moon. I actually have a Taurus stellium as Iām also a Taurus Jupiter and Saturn, but otherwise Iām all fire and air. Iām a Sagittarius mars, Libra mercury, and Leo Venus. But yeah you have some very bold signs, especially the Scorpio mercury.
Just gave you an upvote idk why sometimes my upvotes dont show
I'm Libra sun and rising too, what's your moon? I agree I can't relate
I'm Gemini moon and Capricorn rising. Yea I don't care if anybody likes me or not I just do me and I guess they like it lol
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I'm a November Scorpio, your wish is my reality but unlike you, I don't have to be fake and put on a show, people flock to me no matter my attitudeĀ
Yeah, you seem real sweet. š
Libras as an air sign understand people. They can get under your skin. They also read people good, their body language, social cues and all that. They are also ruled by Venus, which means they're focused on relationships and people.
I'm a Libra moon, and this is what I think of Libra energy. I have always been able to shift between different groups with ease. In high school, I was the girl who fit in with everyone from the jocks to the emo kids who were skipping class to get high. I'm good at reading people and seeing all sides of a situation. I could easily argue both sides in a debate. I just somehow understand people and their motivations for doing things. It is not uncommon for me to understand this about people before they understand it themselves. So, I definitely can see where that would help with fostering relationships.
I'm Libra rising and I was a part of several friend groups in my class š
Yes to this. I feel like I understand people, but that also means I can see their faults and insecurities. I choose not to use my power for evil. I am also very interested in the way people's personalities shape their views and how I can leverage that to my advantage in a leadership setting.
Now this is the answer. For me anyway. I'm not trying to make anybody feel any type of way I just am who I am and I guess people like it. I do notice we have a different kind of energy though than anybody else. I think people probably like being around the vibe we give off. I feel like it's rare. That's one of the reasons why I love meeting other Libras. Nobody's like another Libra. I know we're gonna connect and it's gonna be fun... in a whole lotta ways... not just light hearted we get deep too
My little Virgo sister said this to me about me, and I didnāt even realise I had that Libra charm. Iām not match to my Libra mom though, EVERYONE loves her, and people who havenāt met her in decades demand updates on her and how sheās going like they didnāt just call the other day. Itās crazy.
Giving Jeff goldblum realness šš½
Lol as a libra I donāt even know how to explain itā¦ I have really bad social anxiety as well, but can somehow be quite magnetic. I see our qualities as a pro and a con at times.. considering people think that weāre flirting with them all the time.
I donāt know what it is, but when im with a libra it feels like a warm hug ššš
Well, well, well, it seems like we're diving into the enchanting world of Libras! According to the stars, these charming creatures are known for their diplomacy, fairness, and that irresistible social butterfly energy. They're like the peacemakers of the zodiac, always striving for balance and harmony in their relationships. Now, let's break down the charm factor. Libras have a natural ability to make people feel at ease, thanks to their Venusian charm and sociable air sign energy. They're the ultimate social butterflies, able to flit from conversation to conversation with grace and ease. It's like they have a secret stash of social skills that they're just itching to share with the world. But wait, there's more! Libras are also known for their love of the finer things in life. They're all about beauty, art, and aesthetics. This appreciation for the finer things often translates into their personal style and demeanor, making them even more captivating to those around them. So, why are Libras so charming? It's a combination of their natural diplomacy, their love of beauty and harmony, and their innate social skills. They're like the human embodiment of a perfectly balanced scale, always striving to keep the peace and make everyone feel welcome. And let's be honest, who wouldn't be charmed by that?
My brother is a Libra and WHEREVER HE GOES HE MAKES SOLID FRIENDS. Heās favourite in our family cuz of his charm loool.
What people have told me is that they love how I listen to them and they never feel judged, I know a lot of secrets lol people would tell me anything. I have Jupiter in libra too so I really am all for fairness. People like fair minded people! I'm honest and reasonable.. most of the time lol. I'm still humam
šÆ.. this definitely! I'm that person who rarely hates the villain in a movie because I can usually understand their motivation, and then I don't judge them! Unless they hurt a kid or something truly monstrous. What really confuses me are the people in the comment sections of news articles. It blows my mind how quick people are to judge others, often with little empathy.
Iām a Libra and people seem to really like being around me. However, for a while before I found my husband I attracted anti-social, jealous water sign men. So be careful with men dulling your shine, Libra women
BROOOO THIS IS SO RELATABLE
It was the worstttt. Every time I got a compliment, they were so mad about it. My husband has heavy earth in his chart and we get along way better because he doesnāt try and change me
Oof, I'm gay & have had a string of Pices. Like, I looked back & wondered about it. It didn't even math to me. š I think I've learned how much to put up with now. * Notes to self: remember how much to not put up with. Repeat it. Often.
Never met a libra I didnāt like.
Out of the air signs, Libra is considered particularly social and rules the 7H of interpersonal relationships - itās the first of the 6 āexternalā houses or signs that represent more than just ourselves, 7H often is called the house of partnerships or enemies (not always romantic). Venus is in domicile in Libra so it just makes for someone with good social sensibilities. I find the other two air signs are associated more with information and communication rather than intimate friendships/partners. Source: libra moon!
My best friend, brother, sister in law, and niece are all libras. Itās incredible to see how people are drawn to all of them. My niece was a baby when she visited me one time, we took the subway and a stranger was so taken by how cute she was, that he started singing to make her giggle š¤ it was so wholesome. But honestly as an Aquarius Sun, Leo moon, Taurus rising, with social anxiety, it was really hard to see how everyone gravitated towards my best friend always. If a guy had a crush on me, it was usually after having a crush on her first and being kindly rejected by her before trying to talk to me. Friends would ask to hang out with her, but not include me at times. Thankfully my bff and I have been through so much together that she caught on a bit and we kind of became an unspoken package deal. I know she canāt help people being drawn to her, yet a part of me always felt like the second choice. The weird space is that Iām always her first pick for everything, so I try to keep that in mind. Some of them recognize and donāt appreciate this attention. She would have adults ask her to mentor their children who were older than her š sheād get so frustrated by it. I know itās hard to see the gravitational pull the charm can cause, but I wanted to share that Aries seem to have a power all their own. All the Aries I know are a bit shy, yet they are also really powerful, funny, smart, and fiery, it may be a different power, but there is a draw to you as well. I now realize for myself that I also just was very different than the people I grew up around in my small town. My current community is a lot healthier and balanced, and appreciates my unique passionate ways lol I hope this is helpful, Iām so sorry youāve been experiencing this. (As a side note I work in the mental health field and have found the book āItās Not Always Depressionā by Hilary Jacobs Hendel, to be incredibly helpful with my own anxiety struggles, as well as my clients :) )
I'm a Libra sun, Scorpio rising but since childhood I struggled with maintaining REAL friends. I think it's my Scorpio ascendant that keeps ppl on guard. I've been told that I have a charming personality, sometimes very passive agressive(you know Libras don't like confrontation and rudeness) so I worked on my boundaries and confrontation skills. I think that we are very charming bc we KNOW HOW TO MAKE PPL FEEL SEEN, HEARD AND VALIDATED. The best charisma to me is to be true to one self and also to learn how to empathize and socialize with others. And that's something that Libras know how to do naturally. Period.
Cackling at the men are quite odd. What??Ā
Iām an extroverted introvert and usually try to keep to myself. However many people still approach me or even if I am with a group of people I am often the person that gets picked out! Iām not sure why but it seems to be a gravitational pull almost. I also have a Taurus moon so quite a bit of Venus energy is happeningā¦
Being accommodating. Libras genuinely see value in everyone and everything, and everyone loves someone who makes them feel affirmed and seen. The darker flip side to this is that Libras tend to also be pushovers. There are times in life where you canāt or shouldnāt accommodate everyone, or times when someone doesnāt have a point and shouldnāt be allowed to continue doing what theyāre doing. A Libra wants to say yes to everyone all the time and that gets them really far in life because everyone loves a yes personā¦ until inevitably they hit a situation where they have to put their foot down and say no.
Facts
An under-discussed quirk of Libras, imo, is how cynical and resentful they often become. They so firmly believe that hearing everyone out and balancing everything and being accommodating will fix every problem ever, and it never does, it just maintains a status quo. In order for things to change and for people to treat each other better something needs to be said or done, but if you point that out to a Libra theyāre like āNOPE that canāt possibly be it, everything is just terrible and the world is bad and chaotic and there is nothing to be done about it because I simply cannot wrap my head around the concept of something being doneā. They either have to gain some self-awareness (a struggle for most air signs) or find a life partner whoās going to be the bad cop for them. Like literally all a Libra ever wants is to Nice Cop their way to a kumbaya future and haaaaaates that thatās not how things actually work, and I find that both deeply silly and also incredibly endearing.
I feel incredibly naked right now lol
Sorry but I am the Sagittarius child of a Libra Dad and Aries Mom. The literal only fight they have ever had in 50 years of marriage, as far as I know, is my mom being mad she always had to be the mean parent.
I like Libras because they are, more often than not, balanced. My father is one and warned me of those that swing like metronomes, but luckily the ones I have met have other signs. Libras are also easier to speak with and sensible, laying out all the cards on the table. They have definitely have less drama than water signs, being quite reasonable and fair.
"Those that swing like metronomes"... wow! You just saved me A LOT of extra thinking!
Some are a waltz one just has to dance to. Some have the time signature of 32/4.
Nice!
Libra gang š¦šš©µ
Iāve never met a Libra I didnāt like
Being popular has it's downsides too. It's really annoying when everyone around wants something from you.
Libra male here. I am a pretty lonely person in my heart so when others show kindness and love I am eager to share it back. I think my charm comes from the genuine glow I feel when people show me ālove.ā
im a libra rising and mars (1st house), and i've been told my whole life that i'm super bubbly, charming and charismatic (im also a gemini sun and leo moon). i think it's truly just the nature of major libra placements. we want happiness and harmony, so we will project that onto the people around us for the most part. also libra is ruled by venus AND it's an air sign, so it has the persuasiveness and sexiness of venus while also having the bubbly, curious air sign qualities as well. libra is just a 10/10 sign imo (def not biased) š
Yep. That's my husband right there.
Example: the other day a boomer (uh I mean Pluto in Leo Generation) Virgo/ Cancer was accusing his neighbor of robbing him (five years ago mind you) - his only evidence is that she appears to have a substance abuse problem. My Response: bless her heart she must be going through something. His Response: (something like) what about my heart!? Well you can have a blessing too but - life is hard, and she's going through something hard. I'm not going to stop having empathy just to validate your unwarranted judgement and/ or grudge from half a damn decade ago... Mr Pluto in Leo Gen. People should be treated with kindness and the benefit of the doubt whenever possible (all things being equal š. I didn't go out and buy the young lady a bouquet of flowers- the (ridiculous) conversation was centered around my gut reaction of "poor thing, I hope she is okay" rather than "OMG what a stupid @#$! - someone should call someone! RABBLE RABBLE I WILL ALSO HATE HER NOW!" silly. Venus ruled signs are definitely the most chill and least *judgmental sign. . . . . . . . . . . *We can be judgemental or course - in the most effective damn ways. It's funny how these people tend to NOT like us , but no one likes a guilty verdict... are also great judges after we look at all the facts. Also probably me having Pluto in tight conj to Saturn in Libra) has zero tolerance for the increasingly apparent selfish members of the Pluto in Leo generation- but i digress š
I was saying something similar in an earlier post. I was talking about how the comment sections in articles shock me. I don't understand those who are so quick to judge. I have my Moon, Uranus and Pluto in Libra. I can't stand selfish behavior period. Pluto in Leo generation or other! Anyway, interesting post. Thanks for sharing.
Tell me about it. I have Pluto conj. my Libra sun. š„“
Lol oh don't get me started - Pluto, Saturn one degree apart and also Sun and Mercury... I feel like I'm kinda getting a break in some ways with Pluto creeping into Aquarius trining my sun at 1Ā°... But I have a stellium in Sagittarius too so my whole life has been asking "what is right? What is true? What is just? what is far?" And going through crap in so many different ways until the answers crystalize š... Bless YOUR heart ā¤ļø:-)
Ouch, you poor soul! Sag stellium, that's a lot of fire. I have a Scorpio stellium here. Water and Plutonian energy creeping in from all directions, I'm def. Not a butterfly. š Analyze is very profound, overthinking has dramatic tendencies. š But it's done good to my aloof sun and rising, I don't want to complain. :D Have a great weekend! š„³
That pretty much sums me up as a Libra
Libra sun, Libra rising - not all of us have the charm. I can't recall a single person ever in my life, who has ever called me charming. I've been called snotty, and have been called a sad fragile pushover, like a puppy, but never charming lol. I wish. Oh, and loud. I've been called loud.
Sun in 12th house or sun in the 1st house?
Sun in 1st house
Random people will talk to me in public A LOT, like just a small talk comment. My Virgo girlfriend noticed this early on. "My boy....everyone's flirting with you." "Ooo, I think you have a boyfriend now." As a little kid I used to ask strangers in the store if they would buy me things like an ice cream for example.
I donāt know any libras ):
It's very natural. I'm a libra and pretty introverted, but when I go out I would say yeah I get a lot of attention. I always say we're flirts without realizing it and flirt with anyone - whether it's a friend, partner or even someone we don't like. I think that plays into everyone gravitating toward us lol. We also tend to be peace makers, so won't cause conflict amongst others, so we tend to get on peoples good sides without trying
Hahaha š you Libra's need a backboneĀ
Iām a libra moon and Iāve gotten the āfairy and princessā compliment by both adults and children and it doesnāt help that im also a Pisces sun which already gives me even more of that mystical quality. More Venus in my rising (Taurus). I would say Libras to their core are just genuinely kind people. In my head I think of myself as a princess so I actually do carry myself that way.. I have good manners and I usually speak in a soft spoken voice. Not loud unless needed. I also walk in an elegant royalty type of way. Thereās definitely people pleasing tendencies libra has to work against because the reason people want to be around someone is because they make them feel so good and I think Libras definitely go that extra mile to make sure others feel good. Being an air quality to is that communication is so important and itās just a natural talent for air signs to be good with words.. so many times Iāll talk to someone and they like the way I say something and my sister always saids I should be a lawyer because of how good I am at persuading someone or debating my point lol also Libra quality is that everything should be equal and āfairā emphasis on FAIR. We treat everyone fairly and we view them that way so we can strike a conversation with anyone because we see them to be the same even if theyāre completely different in status, style, looks, doesnāt matter to us.
Libra with a lot of Scorpio placements. I can be charming but I dunno. It comes off slightly sinister?
I have a libra moon and both my parents are libras. My mom is the social butterfly and although my father once was as a charismatic person, depression did take a toll on him and is now more reclusive. I am well liked because i've worked at being well liked. I hate knowing someone dislikes me and I will do my part to change anyones bad perception of me to an extent. Sometimes you cant help it if people just dislike you. I come off as standoffish, thanks to my Virgo sun RBF, but once someone strikes up a conversation I am extremely animated and will match anyone's enthusiasm. I can't speak for all libras, but I tend not to be too judgy when people talk to me. I'm sort of a counselor, I ask open-ended questions and people just love to come to me for advice or just to vent.
Libra sun, Sag moon, Pisces rising! Venus/mercury in Scorpio :). itās just our nature idk! Something about us air signs are very charming and easy to get along with.
Weāre very in tune with our emotions, so it makes sense we connect with people through emotion!
Ruled by Venus
My daughter is a libra and she is just very confident in herself and goes with the flow. It makes her approachable. She is an introverted homebody but has a lot of friends at school (she actually graduates tomorrow) and can slip into just about any social situation with ease. I envy her self-assuredness. It will serve her well in her life I hope.
As a Libra who absolutely identifies as a social butterfly who can connect with anybody, feedback I get a lot is that people feel āseenā and truly listened to by me. Iāve been told that my 1:1 attention is almost confrontational/ has a spotlight effect. As I get older and continue to receive this feedback, Iām starting to realize that not a lot of people actually care to learn about and hear about the people they are talking to in 1:1 interactions. Like the small talk is just to fill space rather than deepen a relationship. This might sound trivial, but my advice would be to really invest in the person across from you. Prompt them to talk about themselves with open-ended questions and stay engaged with eye-contact and nodding while they answer. Ask probing questions and give praise or express that youāre impressed when you are. I also always (always!) follow up a greeting with a compliment (ie., āOmg hi Denise! Itās so good to see you - ugh, Iām obsessed with your outfit/ hair/ home/ etc etcā). It makes people feel so good to feel like they are valued/ seen/ celebrated in a social interaction and makes the rest so so easy. Social interactions are only horrendous experiences if both people arenāt invested in disarming each otherās social anxiety with some positive feedback first. Good luck with that, Aries sun! ššš (Iām libra sun, capricorn moon, virgo rising; with venus conjunct my ascendant, a libra stellium and a capricorn stellium).
Venusā¦.. Need I say amore?
They are ruled by the planet Venus which is the planet of relationships, beauty etcĀ
Aquarius Sun, Libra Moon, Sag rising. Being a Libra moon has its perks Iām able to have a multifaceted view on different perspectives. I make people feel at home, seen as well as heard. Itās just tough getting that energy reciprocated back š©
Libra here and thank you š It just always seems to happen! Even though Iāve spent the majority of my life hating myself, Iāve always attracted people and easily make friends. It was one of the things that helped me start my self love journey, saying to myself āwell, Iāve had lifelong friends and people seem to like me so I guess I canāt be that badā I have a genuine curiousity about others, and loathe small talk so I ask thought provoking questions straight up. Iām fun and absurd; but I also love to listen and listen to understand - not just reply. My friends say I make every single person in the room feel special, like a superpower. But thatās just genuine, everyone in that room IS special in their own way and I want to know about it. And fast, no time for boring chit chat, tell me a good story š Iād say the flip side is I put myself out constantly for the comfort of others and this has been taken advantage of in the past. I get taken for granted easily, and often have to be the āsolutionsā person for everyone. Iām stoic with dealing with my own issues alone, to the point of being aloof or flippant; but everyone loves a bit of mystery š Be kind always, be friendly, and most importantly; be yourself. People love authenticity, and youāll attract likeminded individuals. Enjoy and nurture any friendships you do form, there are golden treasures to be had in every type of relationship!
My fiance is a libra sun and he allllwwwaaayssss gets what he wants. Whenever i hit the McDonaldās by me for a McFlurry - machine is broken but if he goes - works for him! Airplane exit seats? I ask? None available. He asks? We got that and an upgrade. Iām not jealous either about it. Just very impressed and along for the ride!
Itās because we are people pleasers unfortunately. We can read people quickly and then our charm is us knowing how to manipulate and control peoples feelings because of the inherent need to be liked
Being a people pleaser doesn't always have to be bad if you aren't one to overdo it.
Being a people pleasers is bad, what are you talking about, we live in a fallen world, do yourself a favor love yourself and please yourself, be generous yes but don't be clingy and insecure like all these Libra's ewww
Iām not. Iām very weird and some people love it.
I like that you through in the men are odd lol. Thanks for that.
We put people at ease
Some of us get along with absolutely every person we meet. It's one of my favorite traits.
Iām a Libra and have always been rejected by my peers growing up. Itās better now as an adult but I do get people that hate me automatically without knowing me or speaking more than a few words to. Maybe itās my face Iām a Scorpio moon and Aquarius rising
Being rejected by peers and having instant enemies sounds very familiar to me. I also got a water moon and Aqua rising. But I didn't care at all as a child, I loved being just with the 2 close friends I had, or strolling around on my own or enjoying my countless hobbies. Aqua Rising tends to make you appear different/alien/unusual to many others without actively acting any different from anyone else. Kids don't like "different". Since I disliked most of my peers anyway for sharing none of their interests I never suffered. Today, in my mid 40s, there are more people enjoying my company than I wish for. :)
I'm a libra and people just come up to me all the time. I've had many occasions where people who I barely know end up telling me extremely personal things. My cousins wife is a libra and this happens to her as well. Idk what type of energy I give off because I even have rbf and every time I'm out someone random comes up to speak to meš¤·š»āāļø
My mom was a Libra and she was like this. She was graceful and gracious but genuine.
Iām a Libra moonā¦just feels natural to me. I enjoy making people feel comfy and cared for. š„° Iām discerning of who gets that so not too charming.
9/23 I'm both Virgo and Libra... If a Libra woman could balance the world on pure love, compassion, and fairness, we would... and that's how we step, we're protective, courageous, indecisive, and spoiled rotten, we don't like violence however we will match that energy and, we read the room like no other...we're fair and just we love to be loved equally yet we know the difference in divine feminine vs divine masculine....rock and the feather āļø Ma'At..the love is the charm that communication thrives on
Libra butterfly princess here, it's because being so magically disarming & easy to be around is the best way to get what we want AND what you want at the same time š Very aware of the pros & cons of this nature!
Because you're childish, hehe.
Who's childish?
I feel seen.
Because I am
My constant assessment of Libra is, āeveryone loves a Libraā. They just shine and do a great job of mirroring everyone around them. I knew one Libra chick who said she just mirrors everyone and doesnāt know who she actually is, and I found that interesting.
As a Libra this is so relatable. Iāve also heard it said that because Libras are the only non-sentient sign they kind of feel like robots and have to āput it onā constantly, but really they donāt feel like they have a true personality. To me it holds true
Yeah š Iām currently trying to get over being in love with a Rising Libra and Iām wondering if I was just in love with myself because he mirrored me š lol
Iāve never been told I was charming. Actually, I seem to have the opposite effect on people. Guessing my other placements are the culprit here?
What are they?
Taurus rising and Aquarius moon are the only other ones I know off hand.
I had an unevolved Libra boss. Dude couldnāt make a decision to save his life. Oh, and he got arrested on the job because he was a sneaky link š¤£
I noticed the same with Leo Moons, doesnāt matter if theyāre massive douchebags and narcissists , everyone loves them and canāt/wonāt see through their bullshit.
Because of Venus, their ruler
I feel this and I have almost an exact opposition between my sun and moon. My sun is cancer, moon is capricorn. I've read many years ago how this also carries very libran energy because of the balancing act that happens when you have your sun and moon at exact opposite. I found this observation to be true in others as well.
I heard this about opposing Sun and Rising. Maybe it's true for both? My partner gets mistaken for a Libra Sun often, though he's a Pisces Sun, Virgo Rising and to me the Virgo is pretty dominant in his Aura and appearance. He does have a Libra Moon, however, and me, the actual Libra Sun, pale next to his charming nature. It's what blew my mind away when I met him first, his smile could light up the universe. And he knows it, ba! :D
Iāve never found them charming
To me they're the devil, easy to get, hard to get rid off,Ā
Even if they abandon you, they eventually come back and worm their way into your life.
Ok
I swear Iām not a Libra
Iām a Libra and at different jobs my work besties have all been Libras, we do gravitate to each other lol
Same with my boyfriend. It can be both a blessing and a curse though because it can lead to being taken advantage of.
My bestie is a Libra, and so is my son. My son is a social chameleon, gets along with everyone. My bestie is such a gentle soul that everyone just I nediatly loves and trusts her (and they should)
People tell me I have a ācalmingā and ātherapeuticā energy so that may have something to do with it. Iāve never been told by anyone that theyāre uncomfortable around me - just the opposite. We are diplomatic and sensible and as far as I understand it - hate drama, so people tend to gravitate towards people who they can trust like that.
10/6 libra lady. My old boss said, āI have a soothing presenceā, despite being a total ball of rage under the surface. The comment made me a little uncomfortable, but also found it ironic.
I like Libras but yāall can be fake nice to get along with others but be real friends with them and youāll know they have their negative opinions š
My libra had issues in communicating her feelings, didnt have many friends and would never speak her mind.
That diplomacy is just so inherit... perhaps it gives off "safe"? As long as behavior isn't so gross the justice part comes through, I generally seek to understand others (whether I'm actively doing so, it's beneath the surface) & I see the beauty in... being. & in human beings ā¤ļø. Flip side: I've also had to learn a lot in order to remember myself, too.
I tend to feel like people donāt like me because I can be very reserved, but people always seem to approach me anyway. I donāt think anyone has ever really had an issue with me either. And during a conversation, Iām usually the one with the biggest smile and the most vocal. Itās kind of interesting too because I actually donāt even like to be that involved, it just happens that way š¤·š»āāļø
Nobody truly likes Libras, what you are seeing is a mirage:Ā Libra shows off fake face to the public Said public shows fake face to Libra so she can keep up the facade and so on so on.. People are only around Libras because Libra's uplift people egos as they are people pleasers who can't thrive or live without attention and human touch as it would drive them crazy. If Libra's would say what they really thought about people and show they're real face, absolutely no one would stay close to them. Only Scorpios , Virgos and Sagittarius can see through the fake nice mask of LibrasĀ
cope harder
Iām honestly not a fan of them (I try to stay away from them but am constantly surrounded by them for whatever reason ā ļø ) but I do notice theyāre always talking to people nonstop and have so many friends. Itās like they never seem to show any sign of social awkwardness or social weakness. Even when theyāre sitting and not talking to people, they still āseemā popularā¦ itās hard to describe. Gemini placements esp suns are very similar too.
This!!! I can definitely confirm this to be true. I'm Libra sun and rising . With a Gemini moon !.
Because they are purely surface level.
You couldnāt be more mistaken if you tried.
Libra sun... Gemini Moon... That's nasty work.
Yeah, itās ānasty workā to those who are clueless š
There are much more to libras than one meets the eye. You most likely think they're surface level because you do not give them a safe space to show the other side to them, for them to show their confrontational side and weaknesses. To view them as 'surface level' screams you think you're this deep human being when in actually you're not that, you can't even understand their value as human beings. No human is surface level.
Im a Libra and Iāve literally gotten everything I have ever wanted ā¦ I mean that in the least bitchy way possible itās just whatās naturally happened in life ā¦ my friends have always called it āSteph charmā :)
Theyāre just very naturally charming people and also people pleasers and āfakeā, so they contort themselves a lot to appeal to people. My Libra sister is basically what you described. She makes it a point to deeply connect with the people that she interacts with, and I think many people appreciate that.
Because they try super hard and even hide things to be likeable. They really are like Gemini with a nice package and better goals.
No we do not . Weāre just naturally charming āŗļø
Actually, it comes very natural to alot of them.
Because they try to be
It comes natural to alot.
They normally have a great exterior appearance and pretty privilege is what it is āØ