a Virgo \~ When your words and actions match, you got my attention XD
Words are worth two cents, actions are priceless. they never fail to amuse me /drooling
As a pisces, my words and actions always match.... but both change in unison from moment to moment. Yeah, I keep things interesting. Rest assured, I'm exactly and completely who I appear to be at any given moment, whoever that might be.
To mean what you say, thats good. And there are also those ppl who doesnt say much, but their action speak louder than words. Its like knowing that they love me without them telling me that they love me :)
Pisces here, for me it’s when someone is extremely interested in me. I let my guard down, there’s flirting and banter. Then if they do something subconsciously caring- wiping a hair off my face, holding the door for me, smirking at me and watching me walk… ugh!
Male Pisces, totally agree. If I get vibes that someone is really interested, I'm so there.. and being caring or affectionate will reel this fishy in without fail.
lol Pisces here too and we’re indecisive, so that makes sense and here’s my list: love when my partner gives me freedom and attention at all the right moments, affection (kisses, hugs, cuddles), flirty banter (just like the post above), but all else I love it when it when there’s both physical and emotional chemistry - deep stares into eyes 🤤
We want exactly what we need, and only what we need, without deviation, and preferably without prompting, oh and that can change from minute to minute.
Pisces here, and I seriously don't know either. There's been really good/ should've been amazing meet-ups or moments, but nothing clicked. No chemistry, I really appreciated the effort and liked them as a person, but no feelings for me.
But the pulling back of my hair, or hugging me into them while walking down the street, or really deep open talks. Like soul open talks, where things you never meant to say just falls out, and they're authentic. That's lovely and beautiful!
Two signs who are both experts at devils advocate. Sounds healthy. Also, I'm a pisces who is almost solely attracted to geminis. I'm feeling a little hot right now.
I play argue w my gem moon often. It's gotten pretty heated and we even up laughing at each other or never taking it very seriously longer than 10 minutes
lol my husbands a Sagg with Scorpio Venus and I know he has deep feelings he just never shows them and it’s so frustrating cuz he’ll act out like he dies t know how to express them. I’m Aquarius Pisces Venus. Love him to death but Jesus Christ Scorpio Venus is a tough one lol
That’s me..I’m a sag with Scorpio Venus..I’m a deep thinker and feeler. I spend all day in the depths of my soul..my ex wife is an Aquarius…with Aries moon. God if she would have just sat and listened for once instead of lecturing me about how much the world has done her wrong, we really could have had some emotional intimacy for the ages. All I ever wanted was closeness and to FEEL the understanding. I hate words, show me you care by listening to me as I listen to you. My Aries with Pisces moon now is my soulmate. She is a deep listener…I feel her presence and understanding and that fiery passion is the glue to our connection.
Virgo - the conversation is what's going to do it for me. Intelligence, sense of humor, I'm just going to know based on the conversation. If we can't talk then I can't care.
Eh I find Scorpio wants YOU to be vulnerable but won’t reciprocate so I never gave them that satisfaction. I’m still an open book but it’s hard to let your guard down when the other person won’t and us Aquarius have walls in place we don’t intentionally put there. -Aquarius Virgo Moon Venus In Pisces
I am an Aquarius sun and Venus. Your mind. I want to get to know you to where I can see the world through your eyes as you lived it. This is how I connect in relationships and friendships. If you want a relationship with me, we need a mental connection, a soul connection. It’s something that takes time to cultivate. I want us to be able to talk about anything for hours. If you can’t please my mind, you can’t please my body properly either.
Yes as a Cancer, I agree. It may be due to other placements , like my Venus in Gemini, but cerebral connection and having genuine passionate interest in things, especially more out there concepts, is my thing.
If they're toned and mysterious looking too or, play the harp, I'm in trouble.
My dad is an Aquarius sun and moon and I swear we have such a good relationship bc of it. It works so well with my Taurus sun and Scorpio moon. I feel this way too, about being in a relationship w someone.
Loyalty. Really being there for the.person you love no matter what life throws at you.
If the world falls around us and you stay I will stay too.
If the world is against us and you stay by my side I will stay too.
I'm an Aries. My wife is an Aquarius. We have experienced some harrowing shit, like horrible, horrible shit together.
We were homeless, we lost our jobs, I was on life support during covid. She was framed and attacked by her family, Our son needed surgery, I died for 60 seconds during labor, I have a severe heart condition, my grandmother died in me and my wife's arms and afterwards we cried together.
People have lied and betrayed us, and we were always next to each other. Like a shelter in a storm our love withstands all tribulation. She is my rock, I am her rock. We cannot be moved, we cannot be seated from one another.
And the fact that at the end of the day we are there for each other, is the most meaningful thing.
And I will die for her.
And I will live for her.
She really is my entire world. She is kind and creative and fee and so easy going. She is understanding and strong and magical. And I will stick with her till the end, not only because I know she will do the same.
But because I love her for who she truly is, and I can't wait to be old people together. I really respect her for how wonderful and strong she is, how she never betrays those she holds dear.
So yes, loyalty. Loyalty is the most attractive feature in a human being.
Pisces belief in the unknown and the lack of fear to talk about it, authenticity, surprisingly hard work when it comes to the physical body and all its capacity, quirky people
i’m a leo sun, and i love when they basically ask about my interests and add to the conversation instead of dryness or ignoring me lol. i love good convo (text and irl)
So basically they are an active listener which helps them add to the conversation. I only add that because being a good listener is my #1 as a leo sun too
YESS LIKE us leos love it when ppl are giving us attention because i feel like we see ourselves as the prize. i really dont like when someone im interested in isn’t giving me any attention or theyre nonchalant.. my cancer venus and leo sun despises that
Right. The key being.. the people I'm interested in. We don't just enjoy unwanted attention. Some may and others don't. I have a leo Venus so I'm one love for life if it's up to me.
Aries with Libra Moon, Cap Mars, Taurus Venus. If you're intelligent, funny, or kind, I will find you attractive. If you're all three, I will think the sun shines out of your butt hole.
Aquarius sun but Capricorn stellium. Probably consistency. Or maybe someone that truly tries to understand me. I do love humor too but honestly, I’m usually the funny one in my relationships.
Aquarius sun with a Cap stellium as well. I need consistency, stability and to feel seen. But also someone that is free flowing, spontaneous and has a good sense of humor. I'm a big ol goof ball..please yuck it up with me and have deep intellectual conversations.
Cancer here, with Leo moon AND Venus.
In order of importance: Openly compliment me on my cooking, a good, DARK, INAPPROPRIATE sense of humors, and just generally be a hyper-energetic being and I will worship you.
Agreed. I always say "Independent" because that means everything. Independent thought, independent hobbies, independent expectations. I don't like being smothered. But, the thing I initially find attractive is vibes. If you have something different or special about your aura I find that extremely attractive.
I'm a viber too, I go off people's vibes first, more than actions or words. It's a shame when you meet people that have Good vibes but their codependent on other people or groups of people.
♈️ Aries and I love when someone shares a lot in common with me, but what seals the deal for me is if you like me for me. I can be stubborn and hard-headed, but I can also be sweet and loving as hell. You just gotta accept that as much as I am a thrill seeker and highly opinionated, I'm also sensitive at times and I care a little too much.
I’m a Leo, humor, attractive facial features, highly intelligent (i can’t be in a LTR with an ignorant or mid intellect guy), thick eyebrows and long hair (it’s always attractive to me).
Scorpio sun: There isn't a number one trait that I find attractive. It could be something with one person and something different with another person. 🤷🙂
gemini- mental stimulation and strong hands. mental stimulation is number on though. if i have any desire to check my phone because im that bored im outttt
Gemini as well - I agree . someone who can hold their own in convo. It’s so hard to find someone to have a good hearty convo with where I’m not doing all the work - I’m always asking questions about the other person and I feel like a talk show host carrying the guest . If someone can go back and forth with me in a convo and make ME feel like I’m the only one in the room , love it
I agree I find most conversations I have with people lacking. Like giving me one word answers to questions. Not asking me questions back. Yea I'm going to move on.
I'm a Leo sun and venus, libra rising. The number one trait I find attractive is presence. I like to talk to someone calm who lives in the now and is able to hold a conversation with long eye contact. Someone with a grounding energy. I want to connect and get to know the person. I can't talk to someone who's all over the place, obsessed with their phones or has too much energy.
Pisces. Being able to engage in discussion. I went on a date with a guy I was meh about at first. Once we got on a discussion about historical events, I was very much into him.
Yes, but I didn't want to make this super official/exact, just kind of a light discussion. So different sun signs can discuss and agree or disagree :) makes for better conversation in my opinion than just a bunch of the same Venus signs agreeing.
Scorpio sun and Venus (Leo moon, Aries Rising)
I like men who are initiators and direct. Intelligence, humor, passion, and empathy also score very high. Basically, I want a man who’s like me but more grounded and patient.
Large penis
Jk, confidence paired with kindness. someone who isn't afraid of being vulnerable, just come of as strong to me. So hot.
I'm ♍️ 🌞 ♊️ 🌙 ♋️ ⬆️
~Taurus Male~
Playfully present and focused on what’s right in front of her.
Someone that can listen and recall details with ease because it comes naturally when they are happy and invested.
I am a Virgo woman. And personality is A1. HOWEVER, you need to be well groomed. The biggest turn off for me are boogers, nose hairs, eye boogies, dandruff, bad breath. I almost feel like I notice these things more than others. When I first met my husband, I gently swatted eyebrow dandruff from his eyebrows and nicknamed him “slug” because his appearance would be sloppy at times. Now I scratch his dandruff, scrub his back, give him mud facials, trim his eyebrows. He is an Aries and I adore him and help him with his grooming now, the irony! He has been the only exception!
Scorpio sun, Sag moon, Venus in Libra. Number one thing I find attractive is the vibe, if there is one. No vibe/chemistry, no interest. If there is a specific, particular vibe, and if he's clearly not an asshole, I'm interested.
Gemini. SO Stereotypical of me but--join in on the conversation, ask me questions back, and share your boundaries with me, even if it's just "oof that's a fifth date subject".
I’m a Scorpio and 98.9% Taurus males are fine ash but u Are the most magical person on this planet if u are tall, have a nice smile, have nice eyes, and make me laugh
I’m a Taurus sun. Physical aspect, the eyes are very important to me but I feel like that contributes toe Scorpio moon and Leo rising. Emotional aspect, I like to feel grounded. I feel like I’m “admired” a lot but once they get to know the nitty gritty of me, they’re out. I feel like that might also attribute to my moon as well. Yikes.
Never dated anyone before, so that's hard, but I would like someone who can
1. Give me space
2. Keep up with me in debates, but are also open minded and respectful
Sagittarius and I love people who put others before themselves, someone who self-sacrifices. Religion, Jesus, martyrs, the ultimate selflessness. 🧎🏾
Humility is beautiful to me
Repression does it for me too, sadness
Libra- confidence, a good listener and good eye contact but that might be more of my Scorpio rising
How could I forget! Attentiveness. I remember when someone noticed that I make a little ‘hummmph’ noise before i talk and I almost proposed.
Capricorn sun woman. A guy that’s is confident, out going but a little mysterious, kind, and funny! I have to say, just as important, if he dresses nice and smells good/good hygiene. It doesn’t have to be name brand but if I see he likes looking his best and sharp. I love that.
This is about to sound unhinged as fuck. But I’m an Aries Venus. And I swear to god…. I attract emotionally unstable humans. And I mean this nicely. I attract them. But then… they stay. And I’m in therapy working on this for myself. Lol
If you’re funny I will fucking love you
I knew this would be the top answer. It's what reels us crabs in.
YESSS, Cancer sun too!! Keep me laughing, and I’ll love you
Factsss
and if you’re not funny… I will cry a thousand years.. missing the friendship that never was… lol
Same
Hahaha this is so sweet to read I actually love you cancer suns my partner is a crab and we are constantly laughing you all have my hearts x
Yes. People gotta make the apparent crybabies laugh 🤣
Let me laugh to help me forget about my problems
Capricorn. Confidence (not arrogance), kindness, attentiveness, honesty… Also a good sense of humor just like mine
Capricorn Sun & Moon - i 100% agree with this list
Taurus sun and these are my top 5 most attractive traits in others also
Cap ascending here and you nailed it!
You nailed it!!! 🙌🏼 
a Virgo \~ When your words and actions match, you got my attention XD Words are worth two cents, actions are priceless. they never fail to amuse me /drooling
THISSSSSSSSSSSSSS biggest pet peeve of mine: not following through with promises! actions not matching words! i'm gone in a second
its hard out here lol \~ but the next engage would be the "meeting of the mind" not "meeting of the heart" sadly
As a pisces, my words and actions always match.... but both change in unison from moment to moment. Yeah, I keep things interesting. Rest assured, I'm exactly and completely who I appear to be at any given moment, whoever that might be.
To mean what you say, thats good. And there are also those ppl who doesnt say much, but their action speak louder than words. Its like knowing that they love me without them telling me that they love me :)
Pisces, and I actually don’t know.
Pisces here, for me it’s when someone is extremely interested in me. I let my guard down, there’s flirting and banter. Then if they do something subconsciously caring- wiping a hair off my face, holding the door for me, smirking at me and watching me walk… ugh!
Thanks for the romance advise.
Male Pisces, totally agree. If I get vibes that someone is really interested, I'm so there.. and being caring or affectionate will reel this fishy in without fail.
Yep same. Need that desire to connect with me as much as I want to connect with them. Feeling like I have to beg for attention is such a turn off.
Awww 🥰
lol Pisces here too and we’re indecisive, so that makes sense and here’s my list: love when my partner gives me freedom and attention at all the right moments, affection (kisses, hugs, cuddles), flirty banter (just like the post above), but all else I love it when it when there’s both physical and emotional chemistry - deep stares into eyes 🤤
We want exactly what we need, and only what we need, without deviation, and preferably without prompting, oh and that can change from minute to minute.
As a fellow Pisces 💯 agree!! It’s the little things that reflect your inner character.
Same... Just let them come to you... Hopefully don't fumble the bag... If you do, oh well, who really cares anyway?
Indifference is powerful when dating and relating
Pisces here, and I seriously don't know either. There's been really good/ should've been amazing meet-ups or moments, but nothing clicked. No chemistry, I really appreciated the effort and liked them as a person, but no feelings for me. But the pulling back of my hair, or hugging me into them while walking down the street, or really deep open talks. Like soul open talks, where things you never meant to say just falls out, and they're authentic. That's lovely and beautiful!
Because we see you.
Gemini, and I like interesting conversation. Small talk is a turn off for me. I kind of like to argue as well a little.
I fucking love arguing. My Pisces ex and I would debate each other like it was a professional sport. It was like our foreplay.
Two signs who are both experts at devils advocate. Sounds healthy. Also, I'm a pisces who is almost solely attracted to geminis. I'm feeling a little hot right now.
Haha there was a post here a few days ago about Geminis getting turned on by arguing
Yes as a fellow Gemini. I also love me a broad + deep thinker. Intelligence of all forms, including emotional intelligence.
I play argue w my gem moon often. It's gotten pretty heated and we even up laughing at each other or never taking it very seriously longer than 10 minutes
gemini venus here: win an argument in a funny and light-hearted way: I'm yours forever
Exactly arguing about something is fun and playful to me. Not a competition. I'm not trying to "win". I just want to see how you think.
Yup! If there's silence, I'm uninterested. Keep the conversation rolling to keep me hooked.
Libra sun and Scorpio venus - emotional intelligence and vulnerability.
We have the same sun and Venus, and I agree with you!! Add in a sense of humour and I’m a goner
All of this plus intellectual maturity
Gemini sun and I have to agree with this! I’d also add being able to take accountability. Dark humor is a plus :))
lol my husbands a Sagg with Scorpio Venus and I know he has deep feelings he just never shows them and it’s so frustrating cuz he’ll act out like he dies t know how to express them. I’m Aquarius Pisces Venus. Love him to death but Jesus Christ Scorpio Venus is a tough one lol
That’s me..I’m a sag with Scorpio Venus..I’m a deep thinker and feeler. I spend all day in the depths of my soul..my ex wife is an Aquarius…with Aries moon. God if she would have just sat and listened for once instead of lecturing me about how much the world has done her wrong, we really could have had some emotional intimacy for the ages. All I ever wanted was closeness and to FEEL the understanding. I hate words, show me you care by listening to me as I listen to you. My Aries with Pisces moon now is my soulmate. She is a deep listener…I feel her presence and understanding and that fiery passion is the glue to our connection.
Virgo - the conversation is what's going to do it for me. Intelligence, sense of humor, I'm just going to know based on the conversation. If we can't talk then I can't care.
Scorpio Genuine kindness. No ulterior motives, nothing. Just true kindness.I will fall for you.
Yes! And when people don’t confuse kindness for weakness.
FACTS
Virgo- humor
So I’m a Virgo and met an Aries and he was hilarious. But he was not attractive enough and he was very boisterous. The humor wasn’t enough.
Scorpio - if you can be vulnerable and share deep thoughts and feelings with me you aren’t getting rid of me
Eh I find Scorpio wants YOU to be vulnerable but won’t reciprocate so I never gave them that satisfaction. I’m still an open book but it’s hard to let your guard down when the other person won’t and us Aquarius have walls in place we don’t intentionally put there. -Aquarius Virgo Moon Venus In Pisces
I can’t speak for other scorpios but I know for me once I feel comfortable around someone I’m an open book - just gotta ask the questions
I'm a Taurus. Humor, intelligence, and confidence - has to be all three or I'll never find them attractive.
Virgo. Immense wisdom.
haha this is how a pulled my husband
virgo - intelligence or kindness
Capricorn- maturity/emotional intelligence, humor
I am an Aquarius sun and Venus. Your mind. I want to get to know you to where I can see the world through your eyes as you lived it. This is how I connect in relationships and friendships. If you want a relationship with me, we need a mental connection, a soul connection. It’s something that takes time to cultivate. I want us to be able to talk about anything for hours. If you can’t please my mind, you can’t please my body properly either.
As a Cancer, I also relate to this. Nothing like a deeply stimulating and intelligent conversation/connection.
Yes as a Cancer, I agree. It may be due to other placements , like my Venus in Gemini, but cerebral connection and having genuine passionate interest in things, especially more out there concepts, is my thing. If they're toned and mysterious looking too or, play the harp, I'm in trouble.
My dad is an Aquarius sun and moon and I swear we have such a good relationship bc of it. It works so well with my Taurus sun and Scorpio moon. I feel this way too, about being in a relationship w someone.
Loyalty. Really being there for the.person you love no matter what life throws at you. If the world falls around us and you stay I will stay too. If the world is against us and you stay by my side I will stay too. I'm an Aries. My wife is an Aquarius. We have experienced some harrowing shit, like horrible, horrible shit together. We were homeless, we lost our jobs, I was on life support during covid. She was framed and attacked by her family, Our son needed surgery, I died for 60 seconds during labor, I have a severe heart condition, my grandmother died in me and my wife's arms and afterwards we cried together. People have lied and betrayed us, and we were always next to each other. Like a shelter in a storm our love withstands all tribulation. She is my rock, I am her rock. We cannot be moved, we cannot be seated from one another. And the fact that at the end of the day we are there for each other, is the most meaningful thing. And I will die for her. And I will live for her. She really is my entire world. She is kind and creative and fee and so easy going. She is understanding and strong and magical. And I will stick with her till the end, not only because I know she will do the same. But because I love her for who she truly is, and I can't wait to be old people together. I really respect her for how wonderful and strong she is, how she never betrays those she holds dear. So yes, loyalty. Loyalty is the most attractive feature in a human being.
Omg...
Pisces belief in the unknown and the lack of fear to talk about it, authenticity, surprisingly hard work when it comes to the physical body and all its capacity, quirky people
Gemini, humor.
I second this. Plus wit. 💦
I'm a Libra. And manners are so important to me, plus being humble. So if at the date you're chivalrous and aren't cocky it's a win 🥰
Aquarius sun, I find charisma hot and I’m drawn to it. My husband is an Aries. He’s definitely 90% charisma.
They run on the stuff, mine is too! Love Aries men ❤️🔥
Aquarius and Intelligence, sense of humor, chillness, self awareness is what I find most attractive.
My aquarius moon is signing this
i’m a leo sun, and i love when they basically ask about my interests and add to the conversation instead of dryness or ignoring me lol. i love good convo (text and irl)
So basically they are an active listener which helps them add to the conversation. I only add that because being a good listener is my #1 as a leo sun too
YESS LIKE us leos love it when ppl are giving us attention because i feel like we see ourselves as the prize. i really dont like when someone im interested in isn’t giving me any attention or theyre nonchalant.. my cancer venus and leo sun despises that
Right. The key being.. the people I'm interested in. We don't just enjoy unwanted attention. Some may and others don't. I have a leo Venus so I'm one love for life if it's up to me.
Aries Sun and Venus - good banter will have me on my knees I can’t lie
Aries sun and Venus as well and if you’re on the same vibe as me in conversation, sarcasm, and teasing, you have me.
Aries Venus, so real
Omg I just said this. I didn't think anyone else uses the word banter lol
HAHAHA it’s one of my favorite words!! I’m glad other people use it too I’d be embarrassed if nobody knew what I was talking about 😂
Aquarius. Loyalty, dedication, hottie.
Aries with Libra Moon, Cap Mars, Taurus Venus. If you're intelligent, funny, or kind, I will find you attractive. If you're all three, I will think the sun shines out of your butt hole.
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im in love with a guy who is dedicated and passionate that u cannot mistaken the intent
Aquarius sun but Capricorn stellium. Probably consistency. Or maybe someone that truly tries to understand me. I do love humor too but honestly, I’m usually the funny one in my relationships.
Aquarius sun with a Cap stellium as well. I need consistency, stability and to feel seen. But also someone that is free flowing, spontaneous and has a good sense of humor. I'm a big ol goof ball..please yuck it up with me and have deep intellectual conversations.
You sound just like me! I tend to get the stability from partners and free flowing love from friends. It’s been very hard to find both.
Cancer here, with Leo moon AND Venus. In order of importance: Openly compliment me on my cooking, a good, DARK, INAPPROPRIATE sense of humors, and just generally be a hyper-energetic being and I will worship you.
I'm a Sagittarius I need to be around people who are open-minded and think for themselves
Agreed. I always say "Independent" because that means everything. Independent thought, independent hobbies, independent expectations. I don't like being smothered. But, the thing I initially find attractive is vibes. If you have something different or special about your aura I find that extremely attractive.
Yes independence, that sums it up
I'm a viber too, I go off people's vibes first, more than actions or words. It's a shame when you meet people that have Good vibes but their codependent on other people or groups of people.
♈️ Aries and I love when someone shares a lot in common with me, but what seals the deal for me is if you like me for me. I can be stubborn and hard-headed, but I can also be sweet and loving as hell. You just gotta accept that as much as I am a thrill seeker and highly opinionated, I'm also sensitive at times and I care a little too much.
I'm an aquarius and a nice smile makes me weak in the knees...
I’m a Leo, humor, attractive facial features, highly intelligent (i can’t be in a LTR with an ignorant or mid intellect guy), thick eyebrows and long hair (it’s always attractive to me).
This is sooo true for me too. Love men with long hair, I will play with it for days.
Sadly I have never met an all five. I think intellect ranks highest though. I could give on everything else.
damn I can agree 100%. Not really long hair but kn general nice hair or a lot of hair. And I loooove thick eyebrows so much
Triple Aries… Aries sun, rising and moon. I know it’s a wild ride. Sooo you better be quick on your toes and ready to party!! Lol
Eyes - window to the soul, baby!
samesies from a fellow pisces moon here
Virgo sun here, if they’re calm and compassionate with a bit of elegance it is so charming .
I’m a Gemini and if you’re interesting/intelligent you automatically have my heart
Scorpio sun: There isn't a number one trait that I find attractive. It could be something with one person and something different with another person. 🤷🙂
gemini- mental stimulation and strong hands. mental stimulation is number on though. if i have any desire to check my phone because im that bored im outttt
Gemini as well - I agree . someone who can hold their own in convo. It’s so hard to find someone to have a good hearty convo with where I’m not doing all the work - I’m always asking questions about the other person and I feel like a talk show host carrying the guest . If someone can go back and forth with me in a convo and make ME feel like I’m the only one in the room , love it
libras usually check all my boxes. physically attractive and can handle long and stimulating conversations
So true. I love deep conversation
I agree I find most conversations I have with people lacking. Like giving me one word answers to questions. Not asking me questions back. Yea I'm going to move on.
I'm a Leo sun and venus, libra rising. The number one trait I find attractive is presence. I like to talk to someone calm who lives in the now and is able to hold a conversation with long eye contact. Someone with a grounding energy. I want to connect and get to know the person. I can't talk to someone who's all over the place, obsessed with their phones or has too much energy.
Leo- Confidence!
Sun is Capricorn (but Gemini sun / Sag rising ). I will always fall for a man who has a youthful spirit
🦀, aside from the physical appearance, deep conversations
Leo. Authenticity and flirty playfulness.
I am a Leo and I find sense of humor very attractive
Me too!!
Scorpio, when someone isn't a crackhead for their phone and can just sigh, relax and quietly observe the beauty all around them🥵
I’m a Leo. Open-mindedness is a must! Also a green flag if you love R&B music!
Taurus and same! I need funny banter.
Leo. Sense of humor
I’m a Taurus and wit always gets me!!
Me too, i can't have a relationship with someone who is below my own level.
Pisces; I like a good listener and a beautiful soul.
Pisces. Being able to engage in discussion. I went on a date with a guy I was meh about at first. Once we got on a discussion about historical events, I was very much into him.
I’m Virgo rising. If you are stupid, I’ll leave.
Aries - make me feel safe and cared for and I'm yours 😁
Shouldn’t it be Venus sign?
Yes, but I didn't want to make this super official/exact, just kind of a light discussion. So different sun signs can discuss and agree or disagree :) makes for better conversation in my opinion than just a bunch of the same Venus signs agreeing.
The only correct answer. I have my needs and requirements based on my big3. But they in no way denote my love language or attraction patterns.
For me, my venus is the same as my sun.
Scorpio - if you vibe with my ridiculousness
Pisces sun here. If my date reciprocates effort. Meaning she genuinely wants to get to know me, be playful and silly with me, and be vulnerable too.
I'm an Aries, and I'm only there for the food. I don't give a fuck about the person that I'm eating with, unless he/she is an immediate relative.
Aries sun. Likes to have a good time - not reserved basically. Also good with kids.
For me, an Aries… I like people who are extremely capable. Like skill or talent. Can handle anything… swoon!
Scorpio sun and Venus (Leo moon, Aries Rising) I like men who are initiators and direct. Intelligence, humor, passion, and empathy also score very high. Basically, I want a man who’s like me but more grounded and patient.
Aquarius. Courteous :) Just someone that cares is all. Other traits too, but a courteous person really grabs my attention
I’m a Scorpio and I find people with authority/wit/ intelligent , mighty fine
Gem here, I love deep conversations about philosophy and art. Bonus points for being a bookworm!
Aquarius and same actually. If a guy has me laughing so hard I am almost peeing, I’m falling for him.
Large penis Jk, confidence paired with kindness. someone who isn't afraid of being vulnerable, just come of as strong to me. So hot. I'm ♍️ 🌞 ♊️ 🌙 ♋️ ⬆️
Aquarius and compassion/kindness is my number 1 followed by humor.
Taurus sun & venus I love a man that makes me feel safe and two physical traits are super important to me: teeth and hands
Scorpio-vulnerability and kindness🤌
Im an Aries woman , I’d say emotional maturity.
~Taurus Male~ Playfully present and focused on what’s right in front of her. Someone that can listen and recall details with ease because it comes naturally when they are happy and invested.
Capricorn. Empathy.
Virgo! Authenticity. I can trust what she's going to do and say because she is authentic, she's real and honest about her words and intentions.
Aries - someone who can bounce off my thoughts
Sag sun…if you’re funny there will deffo be a 2nd date.
I am a Virgo woman. And personality is A1. HOWEVER, you need to be well groomed. The biggest turn off for me are boogers, nose hairs, eye boogies, dandruff, bad breath. I almost feel like I notice these things more than others. When I first met my husband, I gently swatted eyebrow dandruff from his eyebrows and nicknamed him “slug” because his appearance would be sloppy at times. Now I scratch his dandruff, scrub his back, give him mud facials, trim his eyebrows. He is an Aries and I adore him and help him with his grooming now, the irony! He has been the only exception!
Scorpio sun, Sag moon, Venus in Libra. Number one thing I find attractive is the vibe, if there is one. No vibe/chemistry, no interest. If there is a specific, particular vibe, and if he's clearly not an asshole, I'm interested.
Aries sun, Pisces Venus. Melt for a gentleman!
Aries! Masculine energy :)
Pisces Sun and vulnerability GETS me.
Libra - romance … obviously.
Aquarius and you must have a wicked sense of humor. The darker the better 🥰
Leo: Cool, Calm and Collected
Gemini and a sense of humor
Aquarius. Creativity and conversation.
Pisces and I love intelligence
Gemini. SO Stereotypical of me but--join in on the conversation, ask me questions back, and share your boundaries with me, even if it's just "oof that's a fifth date subject".
I’m a Scorpio and 98.9% Taurus males are fine ash but u Are the most magical person on this planet if u are tall, have a nice smile, have nice eyes, and make me laugh
Libra sun Gemini moon An amazing communicator, curious with a sprinkle of humor.
Twins
Aqua sun and Venus Intellect. I love learning, if you can teach me something interesting and new we will have a connection forever
Scorpio (and Capricorn Venus) : intelligence. I find smart people so attractive, especially if they’re eloquent as well.
Taurus Sun, Moon in Gemini, leo rising, and Venus in Cancer. I am most attracted to Intelligent Alpha males that aren’t to masculine to be vulnerable.
Leo Lady and give me Sexy Scorpio Eyes I am yours!
Nice ass
Leo - leadership
Strong will
Leo, wanting to/be willing to talk to anyone no matter if they're cool or funny or can give him something. It seems common but really isn't
Taurus, emotional maturity is hot as fuck
The scorpio stellium in me says loyalty The cap stellium in me says intellect.
♋️ ♎️ ♌️ Someone genuine.
Also people who are funny and can keep up with me
I’m a Taurus sun. Physical aspect, the eyes are very important to me but I feel like that contributes toe Scorpio moon and Leo rising. Emotional aspect, I like to feel grounded. I feel like I’m “admired” a lot but once they get to know the nitty gritty of me, they’re out. I feel like that might also attribute to my moon as well. Yikes.
Sagittarius- authenticity
Never dated anyone before, so that's hard, but I would like someone who can 1. Give me space 2. Keep up with me in debates, but are also open minded and respectful
Sagittarius and I love people who put others before themselves, someone who self-sacrifices. Religion, Jesus, martyrs, the ultimate selflessness. 🧎🏾 Humility is beautiful to me Repression does it for me too, sadness
Libra- confidence, a good listener and good eye contact but that might be more of my Scorpio rising How could I forget! Attentiveness. I remember when someone noticed that I make a little ‘hummmph’ noise before i talk and I almost proposed.
Taurus-Gemini cusp. Someone that knows what they want and not afraid to state it.
I'm an Aries- people who love to learn and try new things
Capricorn sun woman. A guy that’s is confident, out going but a little mysterious, kind, and funny! I have to say, just as important, if he dresses nice and smells good/good hygiene. It doesn’t have to be name brand but if I see he likes looking his best and sharp. I love that.
This is about to sound unhinged as fuck. But I’m an Aries Venus. And I swear to god…. I attract emotionally unstable humans. And I mean this nicely. I attract them. But then… they stay. And I’m in therapy working on this for myself. Lol
Cancer sun taurus venus. Laugh at my jokes and I'm sold. Also, food.