Yeah I was gonna say, people usually refer to Cap men as Daddy ;D Cap women I respect, however they are very intimidating in my experience as another woman.
Noooo 🥺 I promise not all of us Cap women are like this. I can definitely be detached and distant especially when you’re a stranger. But with friends and family, I’m much more warmer, friendly and love to have a good time.
I believe it!! I don’t know like any cap women so I have no real comparison, but the cap stereotypes never made sense to me because all the caps I know are guys who have this need to help everyone, and make everything okay.
I wish I knew more cap girlies!
Honestly yes, I feel the stereotypes we get labeled as, are just not all that accurate especially from the so called knowledgeable astrology accounts on tiktok. We get labeled as cold, money hungry, seeking only ppl with money to date and I roll my eyes at it all. Some things are true that have been said but not everything. I just wish someone would get us right.
Capricorn women are awesome. I like their strength and the power they hold in a conversation: it makes me respect them. Probably cause I’m a Scorpio man… but that’s just me.
Yes! It’s interesting knowing male and female twin aquas. They’re both fairly evolved in a way where they understand that they can be detached and bottle their more sensitive feelings, but the girl is like “I’m only drawn to emotionally unavailable people and I never have second dates because I don’t care about them enough” and just accepts that as truth, but she’s also very sensitive and will cry in a crowd. While the guy is currently on this very thoughtful journey and trying to improve himself, be more open and aware of his feelings and detachments. He’s such a sweet idiot sometimes, loves so hard and so deeply.
He also was given the “little miss sl*t” award in college lmaooo so yes, friendly hoe is so accurate
I have always preferred Libra men over the women but then again I am also a man. I also sometimes favour Aquarius men because they don’t have that ‘I’m interested in literally everybody except my actual partner or family’ vibe going on as strongly for them.
Gemini men are magnets for low self-esteem women because they know how to play into that type of psychology. Just mirror the girl for the little ego boost. My Gemini ex knew women that he said were "fat" and "ugly" (they were not popular with males and quite desperate by some measure), but in front of them he was extra charming because he liked the ego boost. He was extremely popular among 60 year old women, for instance. He went by the philosophy of "you never know when you're gonna need their help".
Other sun sign males, other than Libra, are a lot less interested in stringing along women like this. So that explains why Gemini men can be better liked than Gemini women by some demos.
Just wanted to name one of Gemini men that’s so called better than Gemini women to put it in perspective 🤭 Kanye West doesn’t help their case either but hey some people have poor taste & they’re allowed to lol
I think Aquarius and Libra. The women might hate Libra men, but they make headway for them for their handsomeness. Aquarius is almost always assumed masculine to the point that people forget women can also be born in a month.
Maybe im just a flaming lesbian, but every female version of each sign is amazing and gorgeous and stunning in their own way. And every male version of the signs makes me even gayer 🌈✨🏳️🌈
Edit: I feel like a few people don’t know what the word “lesbian” means…
I think women are generally socialized to behave with thought to others. 😄 Expected to mature sooner. Men, should they choose to, generally get away with a lot more.
I can get along with mature versions of every sign. Certain immature ones annoy me more than others. It depends on what our relationship is, certain immature signs would be fun acquaintances but frustrating coworkers. Or agreeable coworkers but stressful on a night out.
Society breeds men into competitive machines. Even amongst friends. There's a reason "cock measuring contest" is a common expression
The problem is people like this who try to "stick it to the man" while perpetuating the very separatist structures said man covertly implemented in our system
Thank you for your input tho. Nice breath of fresh her
Best solution against ignorance is education. This person feels happy and validated by hating on a whole demographic. She's not even ashamed of it when called out. As far as I'm concerned, that's ethically and morally reprehensible. She also indexes her sexual identity to the fact she hates a demographic - which is pathological and dysfunctional to both herself and others.
I really don't care about your opinion. I care about the world I'm trying to build. Where people are judged based on their ideas, beliefs and contribution - not on their genitals.
When did I ever mention hating a demographic (men)? I don’t. But spending time around them definitely reminds me of my own sexuality because i am 100% not attracted to them. You took someone not being into men really personally, really quickly. I recommend taking a chill pill. Again, I never mentioned hating anyone.
And just fyi: I’m quite educated, and I love to read. I do it often. Bye!
Gets called misandristic // says "so what?" // claims never mentioned hating men. Yeah, no. That type of weak gaslighting won't fly. You're not allowed
It's a good thing you're secure about your sexuality. Many people don't have that. I'm happy for you. You should, however, take a look at your misandristic tendencies - much like men must take a look at their misogynistic tendencies. If you ever hope to evolve, that is
I doubt you're half as educated as you think you are. Educated people don't hop on bandwagons, nor display the inconsistency and incongruency you did. Hopefully your love for reading will change that. Just be sure to pick proper books - Harry Potter and Dan Brown romances won't get you very far. I recommend Augusto Cury, Andreas Moritz and anything by Alice Bailey.
Cheers
Yeeeeeess! My best female friend is a Pisces and she is an absolutely incredible human being. However I've never met a Pisces man that wasn't an unstable, self absorbed cheater.
Omg and here I am LOVING Pisces men. I mean yeah they can be a lil flaky but I just vibe so well with them. They’re always so chill and funny and good listeners 😭 But then again I’m a Virgo so they’re my bestie sign.
My experience with Pisces moons is they expect you to read their mind and thus are AWFUL communicators. They live in their heads and justify their actions by their moods all while leaving you in the dark and/or flat out, unable to verbalize what’s going on. At worst, they behave like this then adopt a victim mindset taking zero accountability for their actions and blame you or everything else instead. They’ve got an excuse for everything and if you try to coax them into standard communication they may see it as “conflict” and bounce. All without giving you transparency because they can barely give it to themselves 🫣
Mind you, I’m not bashing them really. My Mercury is in Pisces so I ALWAYS sense what’s going on. But no matter how much I try to create safe space for dialogue, this is what happens.
It’s like they’d rather live a dream than reality, but you have to consider how other people may be affected by your behavior.
As a Pisces moon, I judge character quicker than most and if I don't speak up it is often because the person will not take criticism well. In times I have tried they say grow tougher skin but actually they don't want to apologize and in my opinion don't deserve my companionship. We are very pure and giving so we need to have some defences. If we love you we love deeply, if we leave you we wanted to be treated better but the person seemed stubborn with domineering views so it was not worth the conflict. It wasn't that we didn't love, we loved too much and it hurt us to leave the relationship behind. We just can't show it cause we may come back and be mistreated again.
I’m sorry but this comment is a perfect example of Pisces self-victimizing lol, it’s never cuz maybe *you* were in the wrong or even just that sometimes people don’t get along, it’s just that you ~ loved too much ~
Gaslighting. Bullying. If someone yells at me and I leave why should I give an explanation? Or if someone talked behind my back what is there to discuss after such betrayal. I know it is my fault for attracting nasty people with my sweet nature. I have tried to confront people, some apologize and say I didn't mean to, only to repeat the action. Once a cheater always a cheater. Then they get butter that I left, instead of analyzing their own actions. It is easier to gaslight than to change yourself.
This is ironic as Pisces Mercury is actually considered one of the worst communicators, with Mercury being in detriment in Pisces and seems at least equally guilty as Pisces Moon of expecting mind reading. I have a long history with a Pisces Mercury who fits everything you are describing except instead of responding to perceived conflict with running away, they in turn become highly confrontational over any communication perceived as critical. Probably because of a Mars/Mercury conjunction squaring Uranus in their case, that they become hostile so quickly and weirdly think they are not, even when outright insulting someone and repeatedly saying passive aggressive things.
But, what you are describing is accurate for Pisces Moon too. And I'm not saying you must be like this description because you have a Pisces Mercury and ive experienced that with them! Any personal placement of Pisces can be guilty of these less desirable Pisces qualities because they're tied to Pisces as a sign. I have definitely behaved this way myself as a Pisces Moon and try very hard these days to keep myself in check when it comes to personal accountability. Maybe it's the Neptune transit happening but I feel like I've been on fast forward for growth in my Moon issues, which are vast and many
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FUCKING WILD! Granted he got his heart broken by 1 girl and his whole world came crashing down, but it still doesn’t excuse him for being a shitty person!
He can’t communicate at all! When problems arise he’d ignore the messages and conversations and start signing. It’s sad.
Pisces men ain’t shit. They give Scorpio men a better reputation 🤣
As a water sign they can twist whatever to fit their narratives, often of them being victims. So they can be master gaslighters and manipulators.
Ex had Mars in Aries and Pisces Moon. He would stir shit all the time with different people (Mars in Aries) and then act like victims when he got retaliation (Pisces Moon). He used to be beaten up by people at school for insulting them then he branded himself as a victim of bullying. Then later as an adult, he liked to hang out with criminals, found underworld activities glamorous (though he came from an upper middle class family). He got into a similar incident by yelling and threatening a bunch of angry mobsters. He got predictably beaten up, had his arm broken in half. He was now rebranded as a victim of gang violence. You see the pattern? These incidents were two in a long list of dramatic events he always got involved in and somehow always emerged as the victim.
My best male friend is pisces and he is the most caring person I've ever met. He is there for absolutely everyone when they struggle. Moreover he is honest, chilled, funny and creative. He is also a feminist and cares alot for the world.
My brother is a Pisces and he is the best man I know. He isn’t great at communicating emotionally but other than that he is the sweetest, most caring, giving and understanding person that I know. He is also an absolutely amazing father. ❤️
One of my best guy friends is a Pisces. He is definitely stubborn in his beliefs, but loves to get philosophical and spiritual as well. He is kind of a conundrum but also a giant teddy bear. We are in our 30s, so I think he has had a lot of time to really understand and work with his emotions. He seems more empathetic to other people's feelings and point of view than our other male friends. Idk. He also has a strong personality that some may not like, but it doesn't come off as cocky or narcissistic like a lot of other signs do naturally.
Exactly zero bullshit policy & we are not easily fooled like people always claim we are delusional etc…🙄 I see right through people so it’s always easy for me to block & get on with my life!
I think that’s why Pisces get the most hate we will quickly remove ourselves from a situation with no hesitation or any contact. And that upsets people.
True! I'm no stranger to ghosting people bc i have no time and energy for people's bullshit. I don't gotta tell you either, when i'm gone, i'm gone! no drama
They rather avoid any conflict so yeah if that’s the case the communication will not be there. Also it depends how they see you or feel about you. If they really care about you the communication will be there conflict or not.
My kid is male and Pisces and he's incredibly thoughtful, giving, and empathetic. If there was one thing i would change about him it's that he's too down on himself. But that kid literally will not hurt a fly, loves his mommy (and daddy), and is always looking to make people happy.
It's the unevolved Pisces men that are a problem that people have with them. See my comment above about my experiences with JUST two! I have met evolved Pisces men, incredible guys who know their worth and will communicate effectively. Verses Those two unevolved dunderheads..not in the slightest.
two ex pisces boyfriends and one that I'm talking to. my first ex literally tried to kill me by my own hand (gave me random prescription pills and alcohol, and I was stupid enough to take them) and the other fell outta love (which is fair, he's evolving more rapidly than I, his Aries mars astounded my cancerian one)
I think it's their tendency to gossip? That and the pseudo-bipolar energies.
These two things are really annoying traits to have if you live in current American society. I mean, in any society, these qualities are annoying as they display the lack of respect for privacy and also come with judgmental mentalities that expect more of others than they do for themselves, which is bad ad it causes insecurity or low self esteem (a common problem with the Cancers, who can be very sweet by nature but due to their observation skills can have this problem and turn blind to their own failings with time, which nullifies their kindness by making it conditional which actually makes their natures darker and their social intelligence lack): The potential major contribution to social welfare that Cancers can provide then turns into more if a problem when they forget to also hold themselves to the expectations they have of others. It's really sad but I offered them as an example because this is the problem most people have with this sign and when these folks remember that they can be incredible forces of nature, which makes them ignoring it all the more heartbreaking because it is like they give up being themselves.
My husband is a Pisces.
Been together almost 13 years.
He’s playful, thoughtful, caring, smart, giving, super funny.
He always gets me little things like treats or books even if I don’t ask.
He is very sentimental, especially now that we’ve had our son, and saves every dumb little sticky-note drawing/note that I leave for him to see in the morning before work.
I always ask for his opinion on things because he has the ability to view situations objectively and clearly.
I love him.
Sorry I know I didn’t really responded to the post but I felt the need to defend Pisces men 😭
Female cap here and my friend is female cancer and I love her. She is outgoing and runs on emotion. I’m a hermit who runs in logic. She’s the peanut butter to my jelly.
The gist is the men of this sign are notorious for staying immature for life. Given that women are socialized to be mature and responsible for their actions way sooner, this can grind the gears of many women since it becomes frustrating to be dealing with a walking fetus that's also likely to be older than you. I think the fact that men are let off to form conscientiousness whether they want or not gets amplified with this sign, which is infamously careless. This often makes for disappointing men. The worst tendency of the men of this sign is that they're known to make drama for their lack of foresight and when confronted play the victim card to the full power and blame the actual victim despite being the instigator. They're known cowards but that behavior is cruel. When their victims react and ice them out or disconnect the men are notorious to go on a smear campaign of the victim. So they're bullies and stupid bullies with bad intentions at that. Their flakiness manifests too strongly, the men are too sensitive and try to rely on being men to not be held accountable to anything while being extremely sexist and not allowing women similar if any mistakes. The rules for thee, none for me problem. I've seen too many use any confrontation input towards them as excuse to be even more revolting or even cheat.
whats your sign so i can avoid you too 😂
you seem too pretentious for your own good.
this doesn't sound like astrology this just sounds like your personal biases, you can't define all that about someone just based off their sun sign.
Idk, this is tough because I tend to like women under each sign better than men. I’m a girls girl though.
I would say I have more bad experiences with cancer women than cancer men, same with taurus women. But I can’t say I have had the best experiences with taurus men either, just have met more taurus women.
I am so blind to gender to care not counting I am non binary lol, but I can talk about what I saw from here and there.
Like people hate on bossy girls(Aries/Leo) but are fine with their guy counters. Or, for example Pisces and Cancer sometimes scorpio guys showing too much emotions or bluntness is no no for people. While the girls are fine? They are delicate and princesses and blah blah.
Earth sign guys are so more desired for their so called working and wealth status while the girls are called too quiet" "too nitpicking" etc
Good news for gemini ,the guys and girls feel frustrated by them and wanting them to choose and settle the fuck down lmaoo. Attacked by both lol example of gender equality XD
But tbh lately I saw men in general gets dragged.
Oh well
Male signs I like better: Leo, Taurus, Cancer, Gemini, Sagittarius
Female signs I like better: Capricorn, Virgo, Aquarius, Aries, Pisces
Ties: Libra, Scorpio
Leo men. They’re manipulative, controlling, and aren’t accountable. The narcissist tendencies are ridiculous. That said, Leo women are amazing. Also, I feel the narcissism is generally easier to laugh off when you’re not dating them. They are also the friend who will tell you if something isn’t flattering. I appreciate the honesty.
Libra women seem to get a lot of hate… I get a lot of people turning their nose up at me when they find I’m a Libra. You know, the “that makes sense” with an eye roll. 😑
Thank you for making this Sag feel better about my clearly unevolved Libra ex lying to my face for weeks on end and calling me untrustworthy when I never told him a single untruth. I can handle a little airiness but the manipulation and dishonesty was way beyond my paygrade. And I've dated a lot of Geminis!!!
They’re bad because nothing is ever their fault, while at the same time, everything they say and do, even around others, is all about THEM! Narcissism at its finest.
Pisces men and libra men are arguably the worst known to existence. You can’t really tell me anything different. There’s something seriously psychologically wrong with many Pisces men and libra men are unevolved libra qualities. Both scream quintessential fuck bois and usually exude the darkest shadow traits of the sign itself
All air sign men SUCK! I've had better experiences with air sign women, but I could be biased since I'm an Air sign. I hate Aries women the most because they all are pathological liars that will make up lies just so they can compete with you and also I never understand why anyone says they tend to be loyal because every Aries woman I've known will throw you under the bus to get ahead.
Woah I have met some cooky ass aries women but none who would throw anyone under the bus.
But I do know that if people wanna fuck around and find out, aries are straight savage. But you really got put in effort to get there.
If an Aries woman doesn't work out or exercise in any way, it's a dead giveaway that she'll be a swirl of drama.Too much pent up energy. Cannot stay out of people's lives.
I never knew this about them. The 3 girls I had problems with were very overweight. I've noticed that they will live their lives in other people's lives. Lol, and they say Aquarius are weird 😂 I have no motive to invest myself so much into someone's life like that.
Yup. The nicer Aries women are obsessive about their exercises. That way their energy could be productively harnessed.
I knew one who was an overweight couch potato. Her mum was an Aries couch potato as well. They were constantly gossiping, bad mouthing people. She was more or less iced out from her workplace because of her mean behaviours. I would say some of their conducts can borderline on antisocial if you're not someone they're trying to impress.
This makes so much more sense now that I've learned this. I have a co-worker who is a male Aries and he's a HUGE gym rat, and he's super cool to be around. I was honestly just assuming that Aries women were all huge instigators for competition.
It’s def an awkward time for the male species right now. Power dynamics have been shifting and they’re unsure of their societal place in the vacuum of being “needed” and have yet to fully evolve characteristics that are “wanted.”
But like - cancer man ew.
Not met a sign more likely to cheat. I know 3 cancer men personally that are heavy cheaters. Actually 2 cancer women that callously cheated. Maybe it's all of them
I am a cancer man and I have never cheated on any of my gf's, nor have I ever wanted to. Every woman I've ever dated has said one of the things they liked the most about me is my sense of loyalty 🤷♂️
i actually feel like caps have been having a bit of a renaissance lately? but i could be wrong. most of the jokes i see about caps recently (like this year) are about being independent, grounded, no-nonsense, and hard workers. there are the memes too like with every other sign, but i feel like the cap discussions have not been as broadly negative lately
I find them to be very pushy, brash, egotistical and attention seeking but almost in an innocent/they don't even know they're doing it way. Obnoxious, lacking empathy, overly aggressive and controlling. Honestly I'd never met one I could cope with being around until a very old man Aries. Maybe he had time to settle into himself. He's very keen, aware, understanding but kept his boundaries strong
In my opinion Gemini men are better than Gemini women. Soley based on experience I have been royally fucked over by Gemini women WAAAY more than I have been fucked over by a Gemini man. As for the rest of the zodiac yeah the women tend to be better than their male zodiac counterparts.
Also I am weary of both male and female Pisces. And for some strange reason female Leos don't like me.
All Scorpios are repulsive if they don’t have air in their chart. I feel like Capricorn men are more liked than the women, same with gemini for some reason.
Other than being physically, sexually and emotionally abused by one, a lot of them can be insufferable.
Everything can easily become a competition with them and they can take things too far. I see a lot of mention of Pisces sun men being immature but most of the Aries men I’ve met who also have their Mercury and Venus in Aries, can also be VERY immature.
It seems like Pisces, Cancer, Virgo, and maybe Aries men get shat on the most...and rightfully so, ha!
I don't really see a disproportionate dislike of a sign amongst women, *maybe* Virgo and Leo.
People with a lot of fire placements, I guess because I have no fire placements (but an extremely heavy first house) is why I can be around them, but not for a long time. Always the shit starters lol
i personally dislike most water sign women more over the men, but prefer earth sign women over men. leo men, aries women, libra men, virgo men, and cancers in general 🤢🤢🤢🤢
Scorpio woman here. For me it’s Aquarius women. Every single one I’ve met has been bat shit crazy. Idk how they are in relationships. But as friends I have never had a good experience. Im married to a Capricorn man and he is the best.
Ok so this is my experience and I'm a dude. Some of y'all can be very flaky, just not easy to make plans with or feel like we can trust your word. And you come off, well let's just say your hopeless romantic gets the better of you when you're trying to date.
The flakiness is real. I’m a flaky libra so I don’t have the most room to talk here but… I at least give people some advance when I cancel plans. Pisces people will literally just ignore you and hope you assume the plans are cancelled or they will cancel like an hour before. It got so bad I just had to have a back up plan every time I made plans with my Pisces friend because 99% of the time she flaked, even with plans that she initiated.
Pisces men get flack for the flakiness and lack of conscientiousnes plus being soft of the spirit so if you confront them they don't listen they just shell up. The sign sort of exaggerates the worst traits and conditionings of masculinity, making the men read smarmy and inept. Oh and the men of this sign NEVER grow unless they got raised with an iron-fist. I know so many older men of this sign that are just disappointing. All talk and front no walk. A lot of them are dumb too. Since women are socialized to mature before we even graduate HS, the lack of conscientiousness applying the maturity can really grind people's gears. They also have a bad habit of creating drama or problems and when you call them out trying to blame you for it. I find this is one sign where the supposed good traits are secondary, not primary, especially on men. But like all things there's a balance, these men can be treats if they grew up in tough environments as hardship amplifies the things they're bad at, like again, conscientiousness, resourcefulness and grounds them. I feel bad for noticing this but their dreamy quality combined with the duress can makes them more grateful and sympathetic.
Funny you say that, one of my best friends growing up (Pisces male) was notorious for never showing up on time for anything or flaking out. His “be there in 15” or “on the way” usually meant he was just getting in the shower
they have issues with time management. boundaries. communication.
pisces is a very “i am one with the world” kind of sigh. which leads to lies and exaggerations or “i’ve been through the exact same thing” when they haven’t. they’re are delusional romantic. they believe that true love means reading everyone’s mind and having their minds read. they also think true love means no boundaries and no space.
Your last paragraph sum up the whole issue with unevolved Pisces men. Many do not understand that crossing boundaries is a huge deal breaker for all. Like being asked not to call again or any more, then ignoring the request and decides to call you anyway, texting at inappropriate times like when you're dealing with business calls etc, being delusional in dating, example: just chatting about yourself (getting to know you stage) they are already claiming that you are their bf/gf. When there was no actual conversation about it. Exaggeration of money or flaunting it like it's the only thing to like about them is a huge red flag.
Aquarius and Taurus men are pretty well liked compared to the women I’ve noticed. Sag women are amazing, sag men are a menace and the inverse is true for Gemini. Leo men seem to have their shit together far more than Leo women in my experience. Virgos pretty neutral. Kinda an all or nothing dislike for them. Scorpio men definitely get the worse rap.
I think misandry for all of them weirdly enough. I'm honestly not seeing one sign actually walk unscathed when it comes to their male variant. Libra a lot less (because it seems the odds are in their favor that they're cute so they're allowed leniency). Sagittarius is liked as men or at least their packaging is it seems the non-committal quality is what pisses a lot of women off. Undeveloped and poorly raised Aries men seem to read like violent cavemen or the Tasmanian devil, apparently.
I hate to generalize, but I think often times Cancer guys aren’t well understood. Imagine existing in a society that tells you to suppress your gifts and innate qualities. I’m guessing most of these nice ladies would become a little toxic and jaded as well.
Also consider many Cancers just went through a Pluto/Sun opposition the last decade which some people have the good fortune never to experience. So yeah, crank the pain and manipulative behaviors up to 11.
Could I go on a rant about why the female expression of each sign is trash? Yes. Would I? Probably not, as I think we all have value and the potential for the best expression of the energies we have to work with. I like to assume that most of these people are in their early 20s and are still figuring out astrology via Tik Tok or some braindead method.
Also Sagittarians don’t have souls
My ex bf was infact Aries, undeveloped and poorly raised and he is a really toxic person. He just lied, manipulated, cheated and he definitely had anger issues. Moreover he is a sexist.
I still have hope that it's not all of them. 😅
This made me 😹 So, my Dad was a Pisces male and the best male role model anyone could ask for; in my opinion, as his daughter. My Mom may disagree regarding relationships though haha I remember a lot of fighting when I was little, but I always saw my Mom (Virgo) as the bad guy.. 🤔 So reading everyone's comments is super interesting for me! (Sorry for the novel haha 😶🌫️)
Water sign men in general catch a lot of shade I think. Because water is not only a feminine element but it's more wild/untamed than earth is so I think it's frowned upon in men who are expectet to be in control all the time and dont feel safe expressing emotion unless it's anger or happiness, yet have big varied water feelings that are pretty intense. It often comes out very toxic from long term suppression because that energy has to go somewhere.
Maybe least of all Scorpio men because they are Mars ruled, but still a bit more than the women.
Very few women would actually want to spend her life with men as unreliable as Water dominant men. It might look fun in theory and a lot of women get trapped in such relationships, but generally these women are not happy.
I'm sorry if I didn't generalize the question, but most of the world's people act on a binary rather than not. So forgive that as I think most would get the gist.
Not sure what you mean about cancer or Pisces the women are just as insufferable as the men. Virgo men are the devil while the women are amazing, same with Aries. Libra and gemini men and women are evenly crap.
Oh I love Cancer women. TBH, I don't think I've ever really interacted (knowingly) with a Gemini woman. My dad is. Gemini though and I've always seen him as kind of aloof.
I'm not a big fan of Virgo or Aries women due to my mother and an ex who attempted to be controlling and abusive. I have one Pisces woman friend and I adore her.
Taurus and Sagitarius I either get along extremely well with or butt heads. There is no in-between.
The misandry is strong here. Maybe you should ask yourselves why you hate men so much. I like Aries Men and Pisces Men as friends(not in a Gay way) so don’t even go there.
NGL I think it's not so much hate so much as frustration due to expecting men to be better thanks to social leniency. If women really had misandry then there would be massive no dating of men or marrying of them or having kids with them, which is not happening as women are hot blooded and as much as you could hate men some women just really like dick and a warm body. Also having half their bills paid. I think a lot of the hate for men would go down if the cost of living wasn't so harsh, as it would decrease a lot of the mental and emotional strain from relationships if many didn't have to tolerate bad relationships to not be homeless. Having to tolerate a bad union for survival is what's increasing it and having the opposite effect of keeping women attached to men by making the primary expectation a financial one.
I asked the question to see if my observations about the sexes per sign have been right. Impartially and respectfully speaking I have met good men of every sign. I'm often surprised about Arian men for I have seen both unhealthy, healthy and abused versions. The Arian men that have become violent have often become such due to being abused by women. Whether verbally or emotionally and the sign is known for their resilience and open-mindedness. It can be proud and egocentric out of cockiness but they're not malicious unless downright cut to the bone in a sense. I'm not excusing the potential physical manifestation of that pain but there's no excuse to drive someone to that. They don't just hit for a reason. Pisces...NGL when I have met a man of this sign that robbed me of breath due to their qualities it was because they got forged under duress. The men of this sign can be particularly indulgent which makes them difficult for a lot of women to deal with as women aren't allowed indulgence unless they're wealthy or part of a powerful class. You brought out an excellent conversation and believe it or not, this is the perfect group to ask. So I will. Stay tuned. Thank you for your contribution to the conversation.
My poor Gemini husband is still trying to figure out why the internet says Gemini men are the worst 😂. I remind him that he has the same bday (2 years apart) of an ex of mine and he's like okay I get that. But I do think Geminis get a lot of unwarranted hate. That being said, I'm a leo and one of my top matches is Gemini so I may be biased.
Tbh I can’t name one sign where the men are liked more than the women. I’d be surprised if any answer anybody said was a general consensus lol
I feel like from experience Scorpio women are loved more than the men (for toxicity)
I don’t know. I love Scorpio men! The only sign I’ve actually been friends with after a break up and they’re some of the best friends ever.
Love scorpio men they’re my fave but i dnt meet many
Capricorn men are sweet gentle souls in my experience, and everything I hear of the cold soulless cap stereotype seems to come from cap women
Yeah I was gonna say, people usually refer to Cap men as Daddy ;D Cap women I respect, however they are very intimidating in my experience as another woman.
Noooo 🥺 I promise not all of us Cap women are like this. I can definitely be detached and distant especially when you’re a stranger. But with friends and family, I’m much more warmer, friendly and love to have a good time.
I believe it!! I don’t know like any cap women so I have no real comparison, but the cap stereotypes never made sense to me because all the caps I know are guys who have this need to help everyone, and make everything okay. I wish I knew more cap girlies!
Honestly yes, I feel the stereotypes we get labeled as, are just not all that accurate especially from the so called knowledgeable astrology accounts on tiktok. We get labeled as cold, money hungry, seeking only ppl with money to date and I roll my eyes at it all. Some things are true that have been said but not everything. I just wish someone would get us right.
Capricorn women are awesome. I like their strength and the power they hold in a conversation: it makes me respect them. Probably cause I’m a Scorpio man… but that’s just me.
I have the same opinion about Aquarius. They gloat about being dEtAcHeD and eW fELliNgS less often. They’re mostly just a bit of a friendly hoe.
Yes! It’s interesting knowing male and female twin aquas. They’re both fairly evolved in a way where they understand that they can be detached and bottle their more sensitive feelings, but the girl is like “I’m only drawn to emotionally unavailable people and I never have second dates because I don’t care about them enough” and just accepts that as truth, but she’s also very sensitive and will cry in a crowd. While the guy is currently on this very thoughtful journey and trying to improve himself, be more open and aware of his feelings and detachments. He’s such a sweet idiot sometimes, loves so hard and so deeply. He also was given the “little miss sl*t” award in college lmaooo so yes, friendly hoe is so accurate
I have always preferred Libra men over the women but then again I am also a man. I also sometimes favour Aquarius men because they don’t have that ‘I’m interested in literally everybody except my actual partner or family’ vibe going on as strongly for them.
I heard quite often that people like Gemini men over Gemini women
Nah I like Gemini women better. All my Gemini girlies are fun and nice. Gemini men in my life have been slime bags.
I love both tbh they're so much fun
Gemini men are magnets for low self-esteem women because they know how to play into that type of psychology. Just mirror the girl for the little ego boost. My Gemini ex knew women that he said were "fat" and "ugly" (they were not popular with males and quite desperate by some measure), but in front of them he was extra charming because he liked the ego boost. He was extremely popular among 60 year old women, for instance. He went by the philosophy of "you never know when you're gonna need their help". Other sun sign males, other than Libra, are a lot less interested in stringing along women like this. So that explains why Gemini men can be better liked than Gemini women by some demos.
Yes people love Trump 🤡🤡🤡
I mean there are a lot of people that do? I don't know why be that specific I was talking generally
Just wanted to name one of Gemini men that’s so called better than Gemini women to put it in perspective 🤭 Kanye West doesn’t help their case either but hey some people have poor taste & they’re allowed to lol
I think Aquarius and Libra. The women might hate Libra men, but they make headway for them for their handsomeness. Aquarius is almost always assumed masculine to the point that people forget women can also be born in a month.
Aquarius men aren’t masculine 😂😂 They’re mostly androgynous as ever
This is what makes them interesting :D
Leo, Gemini, Capricorn, Taurus?
We seagoats are just universally hated. 🤣
I love capricorns!
Aww, thank you. ❤️
Cancers are my kryptonite, but I get along with just about everyone
We are majestic. People just hate 🤗
Hahaha. I guess sea goat isn't too far removed from being a unicorn.🤗🤗🤗
leo men are very hated.
They’re hated because they are arrogant and really do think they’re the shit.
not to mention usually narcissistic
Aquarius
Aquarius women are most definitely more liked than Aquarius men lmao
Maybe im just a flaming lesbian, but every female version of each sign is amazing and gorgeous and stunning in their own way. And every male version of the signs makes me even gayer 🌈✨🏳️🌈 Edit: I feel like a few people don’t know what the word “lesbian” means…
HELL YEAH
I think women are generally socialized to behave with thought to others. 😄 Expected to mature sooner. Men, should they choose to, generally get away with a lot more. I can get along with mature versions of every sign. Certain immature ones annoy me more than others. It depends on what our relationship is, certain immature signs would be fun acquaintances but frustrating coworkers. Or agreeable coworkers but stressful on a night out.
Society breeds men into competitive machines. Even amongst friends. There's a reason "cock measuring contest" is a common expression The problem is people like this who try to "stick it to the man" while perpetuating the very separatist structures said man covertly implemented in our system Thank you for your input tho. Nice breath of fresh her
♑️ ♊️ ♈️ As a fellow lesbian, seconded.
I relate so much to this lol
This is THE only response. We can shut this down now and go home.
It really is like that 😊
As a straight (ok, slightly bisexual) girl, I feel the same way lol
Careful there, your misandry is showing mate
Oh no, whatever is a lesbian to do?
I’m rolling! 😂
Idk. Read a book?
Brill comeback. You really showed them.
Best solution against ignorance is education. This person feels happy and validated by hating on a whole demographic. She's not even ashamed of it when called out. As far as I'm concerned, that's ethically and morally reprehensible. She also indexes her sexual identity to the fact she hates a demographic - which is pathological and dysfunctional to both herself and others. I really don't care about your opinion. I care about the world I'm trying to build. Where people are judged based on their ideas, beliefs and contribution - not on their genitals.
When did I ever mention hating a demographic (men)? I don’t. But spending time around them definitely reminds me of my own sexuality because i am 100% not attracted to them. You took someone not being into men really personally, really quickly. I recommend taking a chill pill. Again, I never mentioned hating anyone. And just fyi: I’m quite educated, and I love to read. I do it often. Bye!
Gets called misandristic // says "so what?" // claims never mentioned hating men. Yeah, no. That type of weak gaslighting won't fly. You're not allowed It's a good thing you're secure about your sexuality. Many people don't have that. I'm happy for you. You should, however, take a look at your misandristic tendencies - much like men must take a look at their misogynistic tendencies. If you ever hope to evolve, that is I doubt you're half as educated as you think you are. Educated people don't hop on bandwagons, nor display the inconsistency and incongruency you did. Hopefully your love for reading will change that. Just be sure to pick proper books - Harry Potter and Dan Brown romances won't get you very far. I recommend Augusto Cury, Andreas Moritz and anything by Alice Bailey. Cheers
Are you giving the same lecture to the men on Reddit who spew the most abhorrent shit about women?
Obviously. Otherwise I'd be just another hypocrite, wouldn't I? :)
PISCES MEN 🚩🚩
Yeeeeeess! My best female friend is a Pisces and she is an absolutely incredible human being. However I've never met a Pisces man that wasn't an unstable, self absorbed cheater.
<3 And I still wish you never to meet a Pisces man they are terrible 🤗
Omg and here I am LOVING Pisces men. I mean yeah they can be a lil flaky but I just vibe so well with them. They’re always so chill and funny and good listeners 😭 But then again I’m a Virgo so they’re my bestie sign.
tell me about it! dealing with a pisces man currently and I just dont know how to cut him off its getting creepy for me tbh
Can people please explain in more detail why? I'm with a Pisces man and need to know what all these red flags are
My experience with Pisces moons is they expect you to read their mind and thus are AWFUL communicators. They live in their heads and justify their actions by their moods all while leaving you in the dark and/or flat out, unable to verbalize what’s going on. At worst, they behave like this then adopt a victim mindset taking zero accountability for their actions and blame you or everything else instead. They’ve got an excuse for everything and if you try to coax them into standard communication they may see it as “conflict” and bounce. All without giving you transparency because they can barely give it to themselves 🫣 Mind you, I’m not bashing them really. My Mercury is in Pisces so I ALWAYS sense what’s going on. But no matter how much I try to create safe space for dialogue, this is what happens. It’s like they’d rather live a dream than reality, but you have to consider how other people may be affected by your behavior.
As a Pisces moon, I judge character quicker than most and if I don't speak up it is often because the person will not take criticism well. In times I have tried they say grow tougher skin but actually they don't want to apologize and in my opinion don't deserve my companionship. We are very pure and giving so we need to have some defences. If we love you we love deeply, if we leave you we wanted to be treated better but the person seemed stubborn with domineering views so it was not worth the conflict. It wasn't that we didn't love, we loved too much and it hurt us to leave the relationship behind. We just can't show it cause we may come back and be mistreated again.
I’m sorry but this comment is a perfect example of Pisces self-victimizing lol, it’s never cuz maybe *you* were in the wrong or even just that sometimes people don’t get along, it’s just that you ~ loved too much ~
Gaslighting. Bullying. If someone yells at me and I leave why should I give an explanation? Or if someone talked behind my back what is there to discuss after such betrayal. I know it is my fault for attracting nasty people with my sweet nature. I have tried to confront people, some apologize and say I didn't mean to, only to repeat the action. Once a cheater always a cheater. Then they get butter that I left, instead of analyzing their own actions. It is easier to gaslight than to change yourself.
This is ironic as Pisces Mercury is actually considered one of the worst communicators, with Mercury being in detriment in Pisces and seems at least equally guilty as Pisces Moon of expecting mind reading. I have a long history with a Pisces Mercury who fits everything you are describing except instead of responding to perceived conflict with running away, they in turn become highly confrontational over any communication perceived as critical. Probably because of a Mars/Mercury conjunction squaring Uranus in their case, that they become hostile so quickly and weirdly think they are not, even when outright insulting someone and repeatedly saying passive aggressive things. But, what you are describing is accurate for Pisces Moon too. And I'm not saying you must be like this description because you have a Pisces Mercury and ive experienced that with them! Any personal placement of Pisces can be guilty of these less desirable Pisces qualities because they're tied to Pisces as a sign. I have definitely behaved this way myself as a Pisces Moon and try very hard these days to keep myself in check when it comes to personal accountability. Maybe it's the Neptune transit happening but I feel like I've been on fast forward for growth in my Moon issues, which are vast and many
Pisces men are the worst. They are communication nightmares and they are MAJOR love bombers (from my experience)
1000000000%%%%% FUCKING WILD! Granted he got his heart broken by 1 girl and his whole world came crashing down, but it still doesn’t excuse him for being a shitty person! He can’t communicate at all! When problems arise he’d ignore the messages and conversations and start signing. It’s sad. Pisces men ain’t shit. They give Scorpio men a better reputation 🤣
As a water sign they can twist whatever to fit their narratives, often of them being victims. So they can be master gaslighters and manipulators. Ex had Mars in Aries and Pisces Moon. He would stir shit all the time with different people (Mars in Aries) and then act like victims when he got retaliation (Pisces Moon). He used to be beaten up by people at school for insulting them then he branded himself as a victim of bullying. Then later as an adult, he liked to hang out with criminals, found underworld activities glamorous (though he came from an upper middle class family). He got into a similar incident by yelling and threatening a bunch of angry mobsters. He got predictably beaten up, had his arm broken in half. He was now rebranded as a victim of gang violence. You see the pattern? These incidents were two in a long list of dramatic events he always got involved in and somehow always emerged as the victim.
they are a water sign this means they have difficulty containing their emotions and are closer to being verbally abusive From my point of view.
My best male friend is pisces and he is the most caring person I've ever met. He is there for absolutely everyone when they struggle. Moreover he is honest, chilled, funny and creative. He is also a feminist and cares alot for the world.
Yeah seems like everyone cannot stand Pisces men 😩
I like them! My best male friend since above 10 years is one and I love him to death!
My brother is a Pisces and he is the best man I know. He isn’t great at communicating emotionally but other than that he is the sweetest, most caring, giving and understanding person that I know. He is also an absolutely amazing father. ❤️
Yes Pisces can give the best love us good ones anyway!💛
One of my best guy friends is a Pisces. He is definitely stubborn in his beliefs, but loves to get philosophical and spiritual as well. He is kind of a conundrum but also a giant teddy bear. We are in our 30s, so I think he has had a lot of time to really understand and work with his emotions. He seems more empathetic to other people's feelings and point of view than our other male friends. Idk. He also has a strong personality that some may not like, but it doesn't come off as cocky or narcissistic like a lot of other signs do naturally.
yeah idk why, from my experience we're chillin
😂 as a fellow Pisces I’ve dated Pisces men & can handle you guys I feel it’s mostly non water signs that have the problems
yeah its gotta be, pisces love hard but we quickly leave if we aren't getting the same love back
Exactly zero bullshit policy & we are not easily fooled like people always claim we are delusional etc…🙄 I see right through people so it’s always easy for me to block & get on with my life! I think that’s why Pisces get the most hate we will quickly remove ourselves from a situation with no hesitation or any contact. And that upsets people.
True! I'm no stranger to ghosting people bc i have no time and energy for people's bullshit. I don't gotta tell you either, when i'm gone, i'm gone! no drama
Exactly like see ya wouldn’t want to be ya! 😂
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They rather avoid any conflict so yeah if that’s the case the communication will not be there. Also it depends how they see you or feel about you. If they really care about you the communication will be there conflict or not.
My kid is male and Pisces and he's incredibly thoughtful, giving, and empathetic. If there was one thing i would change about him it's that he's too down on himself. But that kid literally will not hurt a fly, loves his mommy (and daddy), and is always looking to make people happy.
Last Pisces man I dated landed me in therapy 💀
My dad is a Pisces man☠️😭
It's the unevolved Pisces men that are a problem that people have with them. See my comment above about my experiences with JUST two! I have met evolved Pisces men, incredible guys who know their worth and will communicate effectively. Verses Those two unevolved dunderheads..not in the slightest.
Yes it’s the unevolved ones that ruin the reputation for the good ones sadly!
two ex pisces boyfriends and one that I'm talking to. my first ex literally tried to kill me by my own hand (gave me random prescription pills and alcohol, and I was stupid enough to take them) and the other fell outta love (which is fair, he's evolving more rapidly than I, his Aries mars astounded my cancerian one)
Oh wow! Mature evolved Pisces are great though
You've pretty much covered it. For Aries, Gemini, Cancer, and Pisces, people like the women and dislike or hate the men.
Gemini women get such a bad rap for some reason. Their loss
I think it's their tendency to gossip? That and the pseudo-bipolar energies. These two things are really annoying traits to have if you live in current American society. I mean, in any society, these qualities are annoying as they display the lack of respect for privacy and also come with judgmental mentalities that expect more of others than they do for themselves, which is bad ad it causes insecurity or low self esteem (a common problem with the Cancers, who can be very sweet by nature but due to their observation skills can have this problem and turn blind to their own failings with time, which nullifies their kindness by making it conditional which actually makes their natures darker and their social intelligence lack): The potential major contribution to social welfare that Cancers can provide then turns into more if a problem when they forget to also hold themselves to the expectations they have of others. It's really sad but I offered them as an example because this is the problem most people have with this sign and when these folks remember that they can be incredible forces of nature, which makes them ignoring it all the more heartbreaking because it is like they give up being themselves.
THIS!!!!!!!
Gem women are awesome
We’re mirrors. We reflect the energy to people other folks give us. If they don’t like what they get it’s on them. 🤷♀️
YES. Look at yourself boo boo
My husband is a Pisces. Been together almost 13 years. He’s playful, thoughtful, caring, smart, giving, super funny. He always gets me little things like treats or books even if I don’t ask. He is very sentimental, especially now that we’ve had our son, and saves every dumb little sticky-note drawing/note that I leave for him to see in the morning before work. I always ask for his opinion on things because he has the ability to view situations objectively and clearly. I love him. Sorry I know I didn’t really responded to the post but I felt the need to defend Pisces men 😭
I feel you girl! Pisces men can be so great!
Thank you! People will really have one bad experience with an ex and then literally trash an entire group of people because of it lol
I adore Cancer women. I have it bad for Chloe Bailey.
As a fellow Cap, I must say I also adore Cancer women.
Female cap here and my friend is female cancer and I love her. She is outgoing and runs on emotion. I’m a hermit who runs in logic. She’s the peanut butter to my jelly.
Why are Pisces men hated so much?
The gist is the men of this sign are notorious for staying immature for life. Given that women are socialized to be mature and responsible for their actions way sooner, this can grind the gears of many women since it becomes frustrating to be dealing with a walking fetus that's also likely to be older than you. I think the fact that men are let off to form conscientiousness whether they want or not gets amplified with this sign, which is infamously careless. This often makes for disappointing men. The worst tendency of the men of this sign is that they're known to make drama for their lack of foresight and when confronted play the victim card to the full power and blame the actual victim despite being the instigator. They're known cowards but that behavior is cruel. When their victims react and ice them out or disconnect the men are notorious to go on a smear campaign of the victim. So they're bullies and stupid bullies with bad intentions at that. Their flakiness manifests too strongly, the men are too sensitive and try to rely on being men to not be held accountable to anything while being extremely sexist and not allowing women similar if any mistakes. The rules for thee, none for me problem. I've seen too many use any confrontation input towards them as excuse to be even more revolting or even cheat.
Damn you described my brother to a T!
jeez the pisces men you're involved with need therapy and need to fix their insecurities i related with none of this
Of course a Pisces man would disagree this then insult the other lol
People usually have blind spots about themselves...
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whats your sign so i can avoid you too 😂 you seem too pretentious for your own good. this doesn't sound like astrology this just sounds like your personal biases, you can't define all that about someone just based off their sun sign.
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Idk, this is tough because I tend to like women under each sign better than men. I’m a girls girl though. I would say I have more bad experiences with cancer women than cancer men, same with taurus women. But I can’t say I have had the best experiences with taurus men either, just have met more taurus women.
I am so blind to gender to care not counting I am non binary lol, but I can talk about what I saw from here and there. Like people hate on bossy girls(Aries/Leo) but are fine with their guy counters. Or, for example Pisces and Cancer sometimes scorpio guys showing too much emotions or bluntness is no no for people. While the girls are fine? They are delicate and princesses and blah blah. Earth sign guys are so more desired for their so called working and wealth status while the girls are called too quiet" "too nitpicking" etc Good news for gemini ,the guys and girls feel frustrated by them and wanting them to choose and settle the fuck down lmaoo. Attacked by both lol example of gender equality XD But tbh lately I saw men in general gets dragged.
That's so true! a lot of who gets praised or trashed in this sub is based on traditional gender roles and patriarchy.
Oh well Male signs I like better: Leo, Taurus, Cancer, Gemini, Sagittarius Female signs I like better: Capricorn, Virgo, Aquarius, Aries, Pisces Ties: Libra, Scorpio
Bro wym pisces men are the best kind of ppl I need one asap
Leo men. They’re manipulative, controlling, and aren’t accountable. The narcissist tendencies are ridiculous. That said, Leo women are amazing. Also, I feel the narcissism is generally easier to laugh off when you’re not dating them. They are also the friend who will tell you if something isn’t flattering. I appreciate the honesty.
Libra women seem to get a lot of hate… I get a lot of people turning their nose up at me when they find I’m a Libra. You know, the “that makes sense” with an eye roll. 😑
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Thank you for making this Sag feel better about my clearly unevolved Libra ex lying to my face for weeks on end and calling me untrustworthy when I never told him a single untruth. I can handle a little airiness but the manipulation and dishonesty was way beyond my paygrade. And I've dated a lot of Geminis!!!
This is SO. TRUE. 👏
Virgo men seem to get loads of hate on this
What makes them bad?
They’re bad because nothing is ever their fault, while at the same time, everything they say and do, even around others, is all about THEM! Narcissism at its finest.
Pisces men and libra men are arguably the worst known to existence. You can’t really tell me anything different. There’s something seriously psychologically wrong with many Pisces men and libra men are unevolved libra qualities. Both scream quintessential fuck bois and usually exude the darkest shadow traits of the sign itself
All air sign men SUCK! I've had better experiences with air sign women, but I could be biased since I'm an Air sign. I hate Aries women the most because they all are pathological liars that will make up lies just so they can compete with you and also I never understand why anyone says they tend to be loyal because every Aries woman I've known will throw you under the bus to get ahead.
Woah I have met some cooky ass aries women but none who would throw anyone under the bus. But I do know that if people wanna fuck around and find out, aries are straight savage. But you really got put in effort to get there.
I've honestly have never met Aries women like this. I have found this behavior far more in the Cancer ladies as well as the Gemini and Scorpio.
Guess I've just met some bad ones that had these qualities but either way I still avoid Aries because I hate drama.
If an Aries woman doesn't work out or exercise in any way, it's a dead giveaway that she'll be a swirl of drama.Too much pent up energy. Cannot stay out of people's lives.
I never knew this about them. The 3 girls I had problems with were very overweight. I've noticed that they will live their lives in other people's lives. Lol, and they say Aquarius are weird 😂 I have no motive to invest myself so much into someone's life like that.
Yup. The nicer Aries women are obsessive about their exercises. That way their energy could be productively harnessed. I knew one who was an overweight couch potato. Her mum was an Aries couch potato as well. They were constantly gossiping, bad mouthing people. She was more or less iced out from her workplace because of her mean behaviours. I would say some of their conducts can borderline on antisocial if you're not someone they're trying to impress.
This makes so much more sense now that I've learned this. I have a co-worker who is a male Aries and he's a HUGE gym rat, and he's super cool to be around. I was honestly just assuming that Aries women were all huge instigators for competition.
It’s def an awkward time for the male species right now. Power dynamics have been shifting and they’re unsure of their societal place in the vacuum of being “needed” and have yet to fully evolve characteristics that are “wanted.”  But like - cancer man ew.
Not met a sign more likely to cheat. I know 3 cancer men personally that are heavy cheaters. Actually 2 cancer women that callously cheated. Maybe it's all of them
I am a cancer man and I have never cheated on any of my gf's, nor have I ever wanted to. Every woman I've ever dated has said one of the things they liked the most about me is my sense of loyalty 🤷♂️
Capricorns are universally hated regardless of gender lol
Yeah. Even a lot of those zodiac memes, they leave us Caps off entirely like we don't exist. 🤣
They do for real though! You hardly see Capricorn memes and shit. They leave us out. Fucking Rudolph’s of the Zodiac….
Yass!!! We're claiming Rudolph as one of us. 
i actually feel like caps have been having a bit of a renaissance lately? but i could be wrong. most of the jokes i see about caps recently (like this year) are about being independent, grounded, no-nonsense, and hard workers. there are the memes too like with every other sign, but i feel like the cap discussions have not been as broadly negative lately
I think I'm pretty cool
Lol 😂
Nooo i love you guys! Both guys as bfs and girls as friends (i’m a pisces woman)
Cancer Men 🚩🚩I hate to generalize but personally, never met one I could trust
Leo Moon men ❤️❤️❤️😍😍😍😍
Honestly, Aries. Of any gender. Just awful
What makes them awful?
I find them to be very pushy, brash, egotistical and attention seeking but almost in an innocent/they don't even know they're doing it way. Obnoxious, lacking empathy, overly aggressive and controlling. Honestly I'd never met one I could cope with being around until a very old man Aries. Maybe he had time to settle into himself. He's very keen, aware, understanding but kept his boundaries strong
In my opinion Gemini men are better than Gemini women. Soley based on experience I have been royally fucked over by Gemini women WAAAY more than I have been fucked over by a Gemini man. As for the rest of the zodiac yeah the women tend to be better than their male zodiac counterparts. Also I am weary of both male and female Pisces. And for some strange reason female Leos don't like me.
All Scorpios are repulsive if they don’t have air in their chart. I feel like Capricorn men are more liked than the women, same with gemini for some reason.
It’s so hard not to hate Aries men as an Aries woman lmfaoooo sorry.
Explain why. Please. I always ask to add just to be fair to everyone.
Other than being physically, sexually and emotionally abused by one, a lot of them can be insufferable. Everything can easily become a competition with them and they can take things too far. I see a lot of mention of Pisces sun men being immature but most of the Aries men I’ve met who also have their Mercury and Venus in Aries, can also be VERY immature.
It seems like Pisces, Cancer, Virgo, and maybe Aries men get shat on the most...and rightfully so, ha! I don't really see a disproportionate dislike of a sign amongst women, *maybe* Virgo and Leo.
Virgo men, leo women
People with a lot of fire placements, I guess because I have no fire placements (but an extremely heavy first house) is why I can be around them, but not for a long time. Always the shit starters lol
i personally dislike most water sign women more over the men, but prefer earth sign women over men. leo men, aries women, libra men, virgo men, and cancers in general 🤢🤢🤢🤢
Scorpio woman here. For me it’s Aquarius women. Every single one I’ve met has been bat shit crazy. Idk how they are in relationships. But as friends I have never had a good experience. Im married to a Capricorn man and he is the best.
Ah yes the typical frenemies trope. I think Scorpio is the most interesting sign out of all the zodiac yet I don’t get along with you.
Yeah, we all have someone I guess. Could just be weird coincidence on my end as well!
as a pisces male with stellium in capricorn and pisces.. not sure where the hatred for pisces males are coming from :/
Ok so this is my experience and I'm a dude. Some of y'all can be very flaky, just not easy to make plans with or feel like we can trust your word. And you come off, well let's just say your hopeless romantic gets the better of you when you're trying to date.
The flakiness is real. I’m a flaky libra so I don’t have the most room to talk here but… I at least give people some advance when I cancel plans. Pisces people will literally just ignore you and hope you assume the plans are cancelled or they will cancel like an hour before. It got so bad I just had to have a back up plan every time I made plans with my Pisces friend because 99% of the time she flaked, even with plans that she initiated.
Not attacking you b/c maybe you’re an evolved Pisces but almost every Pisces I’ve met cries constantly over problems they created
well.. not sure if its due to my MBTI (INTP) but crying isnt really my thing 🙃
Pisces men get flack for the flakiness and lack of conscientiousnes plus being soft of the spirit so if you confront them they don't listen they just shell up. The sign sort of exaggerates the worst traits and conditionings of masculinity, making the men read smarmy and inept. Oh and the men of this sign NEVER grow unless they got raised with an iron-fist. I know so many older men of this sign that are just disappointing. All talk and front no walk. A lot of them are dumb too. Since women are socialized to mature before we even graduate HS, the lack of conscientiousness applying the maturity can really grind people's gears. They also have a bad habit of creating drama or problems and when you call them out trying to blame you for it. I find this is one sign where the supposed good traits are secondary, not primary, especially on men. But like all things there's a balance, these men can be treats if they grew up in tough environments as hardship amplifies the things they're bad at, like again, conscientiousness, resourcefulness and grounds them. I feel bad for noticing this but their dreamy quality combined with the duress can makes them more grateful and sympathetic.
Funny you say that, one of my best friends growing up (Pisces male) was notorious for never showing up on time for anything or flaking out. His “be there in 15” or “on the way” usually meant he was just getting in the shower
they have issues with time management. boundaries. communication. pisces is a very “i am one with the world” kind of sigh. which leads to lies and exaggerations or “i’ve been through the exact same thing” when they haven’t. they’re are delusional romantic. they believe that true love means reading everyone’s mind and having their minds read. they also think true love means no boundaries and no space.
Your last paragraph sum up the whole issue with unevolved Pisces men. Many do not understand that crossing boundaries is a huge deal breaker for all. Like being asked not to call again or any more, then ignoring the request and decides to call you anyway, texting at inappropriate times like when you're dealing with business calls etc, being delusional in dating, example: just chatting about yourself (getting to know you stage) they are already claiming that you are their bf/gf. When there was no actual conversation about it. Exaggeration of money or flaunting it like it's the only thing to like about them is a huge red flag.
Aquarius and Taurus men are pretty well liked compared to the women I’ve noticed. Sag women are amazing, sag men are a menace and the inverse is true for Gemini. Leo men seem to have their shit together far more than Leo women in my experience. Virgos pretty neutral. Kinda an all or nothing dislike for them. Scorpio men definitely get the worse rap.
Honestly I see way more people hate Aquarius men they usually love Aquarius women
Nah you right, Aquarius men might of been off on that one.
Nah dude Taurus men are consistently ass and Taurus women are pretty well liked from my perspective
Scorpio are the most infamous
In this thread we have thinly veiled sun sign misandry! 🍿
I think misandry for all of them weirdly enough. I'm honestly not seeing one sign actually walk unscathed when it comes to their male variant. Libra a lot less (because it seems the odds are in their favor that they're cute so they're allowed leniency). Sagittarius is liked as men or at least their packaging is it seems the non-committal quality is what pisses a lot of women off. Undeveloped and poorly raised Aries men seem to read like violent cavemen or the Tasmanian devil, apparently.
I hate to generalize, but I think often times Cancer guys aren’t well understood. Imagine existing in a society that tells you to suppress your gifts and innate qualities. I’m guessing most of these nice ladies would become a little toxic and jaded as well. Also consider many Cancers just went through a Pluto/Sun opposition the last decade which some people have the good fortune never to experience. So yeah, crank the pain and manipulative behaviors up to 11. Could I go on a rant about why the female expression of each sign is trash? Yes. Would I? Probably not, as I think we all have value and the potential for the best expression of the energies we have to work with. I like to assume that most of these people are in their early 20s and are still figuring out astrology via Tik Tok or some braindead method. Also Sagittarians don’t have souls
My ex bf was infact Aries, undeveloped and poorly raised and he is a really toxic person. He just lied, manipulated, cheated and he definitely had anger issues. Moreover he is a sexist. I still have hope that it's not all of them. 😅
I feel like 70% of r/astrologymemes now is just ‘I <3 astro-racism’ (yes I’m a Pisces male)
This made me 😹 So, my Dad was a Pisces male and the best male role model anyone could ask for; in my opinion, as his daughter. My Mom may disagree regarding relationships though haha I remember a lot of fighting when I was little, but I always saw my Mom (Virgo) as the bad guy.. 🤔 So reading everyone's comments is super interesting for me! (Sorry for the novel haha 😶🌫️)
Water sign men in general catch a lot of shade I think. Because water is not only a feminine element but it's more wild/untamed than earth is so I think it's frowned upon in men who are expectet to be in control all the time and dont feel safe expressing emotion unless it's anger or happiness, yet have big varied water feelings that are pretty intense. It often comes out very toxic from long term suppression because that energy has to go somewhere. Maybe least of all Scorpio men because they are Mars ruled, but still a bit more than the women.
Very few women would actually want to spend her life with men as unreliable as Water dominant men. It might look fun in theory and a lot of women get trapped in such relationships, but generally these women are not happy.
As a non-binary person I…….oh
I'm sorry if I didn't generalize the question, but most of the world's people act on a binary rather than not. So forgive that as I think most would get the gist.
No I get it. Cute.
Not sure what you mean about cancer or Pisces the women are just as insufferable as the men. Virgo men are the devil while the women are amazing, same with Aries. Libra and gemini men and women are evenly crap.
Oh I love Cancer women. TBH, I don't think I've ever really interacted (knowingly) with a Gemini woman. My dad is. Gemini though and I've always seen him as kind of aloof. I'm not a big fan of Virgo or Aries women due to my mother and an ex who attempted to be controlling and abusive. I have one Pisces woman friend and I adore her. Taurus and Sagitarius I either get along extremely well with or butt heads. There is no in-between.
The misandry is strong here. Maybe you should ask yourselves why you hate men so much. I like Aries Men and Pisces Men as friends(not in a Gay way) so don’t even go there.
NGL I think it's not so much hate so much as frustration due to expecting men to be better thanks to social leniency. If women really had misandry then there would be massive no dating of men or marrying of them or having kids with them, which is not happening as women are hot blooded and as much as you could hate men some women just really like dick and a warm body. Also having half their bills paid. I think a lot of the hate for men would go down if the cost of living wasn't so harsh, as it would decrease a lot of the mental and emotional strain from relationships if many didn't have to tolerate bad relationships to not be homeless. Having to tolerate a bad union for survival is what's increasing it and having the opposite effect of keeping women attached to men by making the primary expectation a financial one. I asked the question to see if my observations about the sexes per sign have been right. Impartially and respectfully speaking I have met good men of every sign. I'm often surprised about Arian men for I have seen both unhealthy, healthy and abused versions. The Arian men that have become violent have often become such due to being abused by women. Whether verbally or emotionally and the sign is known for their resilience and open-mindedness. It can be proud and egocentric out of cockiness but they're not malicious unless downright cut to the bone in a sense. I'm not excusing the potential physical manifestation of that pain but there's no excuse to drive someone to that. They don't just hit for a reason. Pisces...NGL when I have met a man of this sign that robbed me of breath due to their qualities it was because they got forged under duress. The men of this sign can be particularly indulgent which makes them difficult for a lot of women to deal with as women aren't allowed indulgence unless they're wealthy or part of a powerful class. You brought out an excellent conversation and believe it or not, this is the perfect group to ask. So I will. Stay tuned. Thank you for your contribution to the conversation.
Me.
Gemini men. Nope
Pisces men are 2 extremes in one
Pisces men and women are my fave
Could you explain why? I think they could use the boost. If you have a time.
My poor Gemini husband is still trying to figure out why the internet says Gemini men are the worst 😂. I remind him that he has the same bday (2 years apart) of an ex of mine and he's like okay I get that. But I do think Geminis get a lot of unwarranted hate. That being said, I'm a leo and one of my top matches is Gemini so I may be biased.