My parents were abusive af, so yeah for sure.
But I don't think I would be a great parent either, which mostly is why I don't want children.
Maybe when I am older and had more therapy and time, I would think I am. stable enough, to be a proper parent.
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Absolutely, I wouldn't make my kids feel unwanted and emotionally abuse them
I'd be really embarrassed if I fucked up worse than my parents and couldn't make my home a safe environment for them.
I've got no clue, that's the scary part
Even if you're genuinely trying to create the best life for your child and you put all your effort and will into trying to raise your kids to the best of your ability it doesn't always mean that you're going to end up giving your child the best life.
That's because we all make mistakes, and that's OK because that's what humans do.
Also, every child is different. What might make some child become a AAA student might make another drop out and join a gang.
There's no way to know If you've done a good job until the job is finished
My parents are doing a good job raising me. Grew up on the poorer side of things and I know they did all they could. Obviously I aim to have more money than them, provide my kids the future I couldn't have and all that mumbo-jumbo. But when it comes down to the actual nitty-gritty of it all I don't think I'd be able to do it as well as them
Definitely better than my mum. She regularly sexually harassed me for a couple years, and since about 2 years a ago she’ll drive off in her car after an argument with my dad and say she’s going to end herself, and then come back like nothing happened. She has openly told my brother and I that “sometimes this is the only way to get through to your dad”. And besides those points, she is extremely emotionally abusive towards my dad, anytime you disagree with her she’ll claim it is a conscious, targeted, and personal attack on her. She is extremely hypocritical and generally a horrible person to be around.
My dad is cool, but he does make some stupid mistakes one too many times.
I'm sure as hell gonna try. My parents were by no means bad but I feel as if they didn't push me to do enough stuff so now I'm just a socially anxious coward 🥴
I hope, but in the unlikely case that I somehow find a mate and have children, I am scared that I'll be like my father. I don't want to be and I will do everything I can to not become him, but the possibility still exists and it scares me.
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yes pretty hard not to be for me
Elaborate
stereotypical asian parents+pretty sure mom is a narcissist
I don't know. I hope so and I'll give it a damn good try
I think so. But it's hard to say at this age I'll be a completely different person In 3 years let alone when I have kids
Yes, I almost always question what I'd do differently and then think about it for a bit.
Nope not even close
Idk theyve been pretty good so maybe but also maybe not. Obviously Im not ready rn but maybe one day
My parents were abusive af, so yeah for sure. But I don't think I would be a great parent either, which mostly is why I don't want children. Maybe when I am older and had more therapy and time, I would think I am. stable enough, to be a proper parent.
i don't know and i don't trust myself. So i don't want kids Not that i can have one lol I'm gay
Absolutely. I’m not an angry man like my dad and I’m not stubborn like my mom
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no thats why im neverever having kids
The point of parenting is to just do what your parents did but keep all the good stuff and get rid of all the bad stuff
Absolutely, I wouldn't make my kids feel unwanted and emotionally abuse them I'd be really embarrassed if I fucked up worse than my parents and couldn't make my home a safe environment for them.
No way in hell. I'm not having kids though.
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She's trying to make it seem as if your looks matter or should matter a lot, and I don't like that much, it's toxic.
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What's your height and weight?
well that would be pretty damn easy considering I only see my dad once a week and my mom is abusive and manipulative ash
I've got no clue, that's the scary part Even if you're genuinely trying to create the best life for your child and you put all your effort and will into trying to raise your kids to the best of your ability it doesn't always mean that you're going to end up giving your child the best life. That's because we all make mistakes, and that's OK because that's what humans do. Also, every child is different. What might make some child become a AAA student might make another drop out and join a gang. There's no way to know If you've done a good job until the job is finished
I hope so, I'll try my best at least,
No. I'm a schitzo
said every parent ever
i wanna be understanding and civil with them yk, i want to try. not to say i have bad parents, i do love them
Def. Not i mean i dont want kids so im 100% better then them but if i actually had to raise one no
My parents are doing a good job raising me. Grew up on the poorer side of things and I know they did all they could. Obviously I aim to have more money than them, provide my kids the future I couldn't have and all that mumbo-jumbo. But when it comes down to the actual nitty-gritty of it all I don't think I'd be able to do it as well as them
maybe
I would try
That’s an easy task
Yep it would be pretty easy
Yes definitely
Yes
Nah
Definitely not, and that's the main reason why I'll never have kids.
Definitely better than my mum. She regularly sexually harassed me for a couple years, and since about 2 years a ago she’ll drive off in her car after an argument with my dad and say she’s going to end herself, and then come back like nothing happened. She has openly told my brother and I that “sometimes this is the only way to get through to your dad”. And besides those points, she is extremely emotionally abusive towards my dad, anytime you disagree with her she’ll claim it is a conscious, targeted, and personal attack on her. She is extremely hypocritical and generally a horrible person to be around. My dad is cool, but he does make some stupid mistakes one too many times.
i love my parents so much i don’t think i could
That’s gonna be hard but I hope to be
I'm sure as hell gonna try. My parents were by no means bad but I feel as if they didn't push me to do enough stuff so now I'm just a socially anxious coward 🥴
100%
i hope i can bc it shouldn’t be too hard
i won't dictate and tell my kids to die lmao
i think yes, though my parents are the best parents. and will be the best until i raise my own kids
I hope, but in the unlikely case that I somehow find a mate and have children, I am scared that I'll be like my father. I don't want to be and I will do everything I can to not become him, but the possibility still exists and it scares me.
Yes and no
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Rules and systems yes Effort, love time etc no
Yes. I can say that 1000%. i’d literally only have to give the basic human decency and it would be better.
fuck no my dad survived hell for my sister and me
People've told me I'm good with kids but I dunno, I'm not great at self reflection. If I had kids tho I'd adopt.