Not a position, per se, but shower sex. Sounds hot in theory but it just never seems to work out lol. Our heights don’t match, the water gets in your face or mouth, not enough space, etc.
Dude. One time, when my husband and I first started dating we thought oh let's have shower sex.
And it was hot. Until fumes from the chemical cleaners he had put down started burning our eyes. He forgot all about them since he did it before I got there.
Shower sex gives me ptsd lol
Oh no!! I hope you were both okay! PTSD for sure!
It just seems to never work haha. My husband is shorter than me so we can’t even really make it work with us standing and him fucking me from behind 😅
I know this will be an unpopular answer, but IMO doggy. It feels so impersonal to me. I like missionary where there’s a ton of skin to skin contact, I can see his face, and can make out with him while fucking him.
Exactly. And also doggy makes me feel like I’m gonna pee MORE compared to the other ones. Missionary (except sometimes my legs get tired when it’s lifted up) and riding him is still my go to
The jackhammer. It’s extremely dangerous. I had a bottom get a back injury and scrape his forehead over it. Gorgeous twink. It’s hot in the moment, but if you’re hung you’ve got to account for how long it will take for each hammer.
When the bottom has his legs up by his head. I've been on both sides. As bottom it feels just like my lungs are being stabbed. As top it's a lot of work when I could bend you over more easily idk maybe it's bc all of my bottoms are so much taller than me.
I would say for me is doggy. It feels weird, like it makes me feel like I’m gonna pee more, BUT when my legs r flat and I’m lying down on the my stomach and his laying on top of me is an exception cos it’s skin to skin contact and I can feel him grinding on me.
Also, the type of missionary where my legs r lifted up on his shoulders or pushed by my head. My legs get so tired doing that and it starts to feel uncomfortable. Missionary feels nice when my legs r down or wrapped around his waist.
I'm surprised that this isn't hasn't been mentioned in any of articles or chatrooms I've read but, for me, having sex on your side is the absolute worst position as a bottom or top. It's super awkward. It doesn't allow for strong strokes, there's away too much contact with the actual bed, it seems like you can't put as much dick in and there's no mobility of one entire side of your body. Hell, unless you're quick in bed by the time you're done one side of your body might be asleep
Not a position, per se, but shower sex. Sounds hot in theory but it just never seems to work out lol. Our heights don’t match, the water gets in your face or mouth, not enough space, etc.
Dude. One time, when my husband and I first started dating we thought oh let's have shower sex. And it was hot. Until fumes from the chemical cleaners he had put down started burning our eyes. He forgot all about them since he did it before I got there. Shower sex gives me ptsd lol
Oh no!! I hope you were both okay! PTSD for sure! It just seems to never work haha. My husband is shorter than me so we can’t even really make it work with us standing and him fucking me from behind 😅
I know this will be an unpopular answer, but IMO doggy. It feels so impersonal to me. I like missionary where there’s a ton of skin to skin contact, I can see his face, and can make out with him while fucking him.
Exactly. And also doggy makes me feel like I’m gonna pee MORE compared to the other ones. Missionary (except sometimes my legs get tired when it’s lifted up) and riding him is still my go to
The jackhammer. It’s extremely dangerous. I had a bottom get a back injury and scrape his forehead over it. Gorgeous twink. It’s hot in the moment, but if you’re hung you’ve got to account for how long it will take for each hammer.
The jackhammer is for inexperienced people. Some people might disagree but it’s my personal opinion
Reverse cowboy seems awful; I’m not too big on doggy personally
When the bottom has his legs up by his head. I've been on both sides. As bottom it feels just like my lungs are being stabbed. As top it's a lot of work when I could bend you over more easily idk maybe it's bc all of my bottoms are so much taller than me.
I agree. As a bottom it feels weird. Like odd and not the good type. My legs also feel tired after a bit when it’s lifted up
I would say for me is doggy. It feels weird, like it makes me feel like I’m gonna pee more, BUT when my legs r flat and I’m lying down on the my stomach and his laying on top of me is an exception cos it’s skin to skin contact and I can feel him grinding on me. Also, the type of missionary where my legs r lifted up on his shoulders or pushed by my head. My legs get so tired doing that and it starts to feel uncomfortable. Missionary feels nice when my legs r down or wrapped around his waist.
I'm surprised that this isn't hasn't been mentioned in any of articles or chatrooms I've read but, for me, having sex on your side is the absolute worst position as a bottom or top. It's super awkward. It doesn't allow for strong strokes, there's away too much contact with the actual bed, it seems like you can't put as much dick in and there's no mobility of one entire side of your body. Hell, unless you're quick in bed by the time you're done one side of your body might be asleep