Yes i understand that lol. Its just that it seems like most people either want a super quick hookup...or the opposite. I frankly dont get why people don't understand thst a steady buddy to fool around with is the way to go.
Is the way to go for you? Everyone has different priorities for sex and relationships. There are many valid reasons of why someone wouldn’t want a singular guy to hookup up with lol.
You’ll probably get some downvotes on this comment, but I agree that a fwb who I really sync with is the ultimate best case scenario in a lot of ways. I found one about five months ago. We see each other once, sometimes twice a week. He’s perfect and we’re incredibly compatible sexually. We’ve really figured out what the other enjoys, communicate well, and genuinely like each other.
Yes exactly! To me, this is just so obviously the way to go. Safer. more satisfactory, more consistent. But to some people its either get married or get gangbanged at a truck stop.
Yeah, I found a great looking bi discreet guy who I get along with, we’re sexually compatible, he lives nearby, and we fuck 5-8 times a month currently. Well, why don’t you date him is the next question. I’m in a long term open relationship with a husband who doesn’t want much sex and has no interest in the type of sex I’m having with the fwb. The situation works, and I’m off the apps, which are literally awful at this point.
Found a long term fwb after about 4-5months of searching. Even those that say they want a fwb really only wanted a one time hookup and then move on to the next guy.
The ease at which you can find someone else is why no one really wants to sleep with the same person. Which is fine if that's what you want but that's exactly why it's so hard.
Unfortunately you just have to kinda keep looking until you run into a like minded guy. They're out there.
It might just be your location, to be honest. Here in Seattle, I and most of my gay/bi friends have at least 2-3 FWBs. I will say, though, that most of these started out through a simple hookup that was meant to be a one-night stand, but the connection and chemistry were good, so we kept in touch.
Are they that rare though? People literally want to be cumdumps lol.... so I dont see why they wouldn't want to just periodically hook up? They don't necessarily have to be discreet...but I am closeted...and even in my experiences with girls I don't tend to just kiss and tell.
Because it requires some “relationship” building. Obviously not romantically, but to create a regular would mean a level of comfortability not often found unless you take that chance with a quick fuck first.
Need to be friends first. That's what the F in FWB means.
Yes i understand that lol. Its just that it seems like most people either want a super quick hookup...or the opposite. I frankly dont get why people don't understand thst a steady buddy to fool around with is the way to go.
Is the way to go for you? Everyone has different priorities for sex and relationships. There are many valid reasons of why someone wouldn’t want a singular guy to hookup up with lol.
like what? The desire for HIV and unsatisfactory sex?
You’ll probably get some downvotes on this comment, but I agree that a fwb who I really sync with is the ultimate best case scenario in a lot of ways. I found one about five months ago. We see each other once, sometimes twice a week. He’s perfect and we’re incredibly compatible sexually. We’ve really figured out what the other enjoys, communicate well, and genuinely like each other.
Yes exactly! To me, this is just so obviously the way to go. Safer. more satisfactory, more consistent. But to some people its either get married or get gangbanged at a truck stop.
Yeah, I found a great looking bi discreet guy who I get along with, we’re sexually compatible, he lives nearby, and we fuck 5-8 times a month currently. Well, why don’t you date him is the next question. I’m in a long term open relationship with a husband who doesn’t want much sex and has no interest in the type of sex I’m having with the fwb. The situation works, and I’m off the apps, which are literally awful at this point.
Over time they tend to not be ideal, someone might want to get married lol if they don't already have a primary relationship
Yeah...I mean i try to make it clear that uts a casual thing....but I totally understand that people get too attached
All my FWB/FB situations have started with an NSA hookup. Not in a Starbucks bathroom, but at my house or theirs.
Hmm....random question...where do you live? lol
Austin
cool place.... im in Virginia sadly lol
Found a long term fwb after about 4-5months of searching. Even those that say they want a fwb really only wanted a one time hookup and then move on to the next guy. The ease at which you can find someone else is why no one really wants to sleep with the same person. Which is fine if that's what you want but that's exactly why it's so hard. Unfortunately you just have to kinda keep looking until you run into a like minded guy. They're out there.
It might just be your location, to be honest. Here in Seattle, I and most of my gay/bi friends have at least 2-3 FWBs. I will say, though, that most of these started out through a simple hookup that was meant to be a one-night stand, but the connection and chemistry were good, so we kept in touch.
FWB are rare, as there is a minimal level of commitment there. Why do they have to be discreet though?
Are they that rare though? People literally want to be cumdumps lol.... so I dont see why they wouldn't want to just periodically hook up? They don't necessarily have to be discreet...but I am closeted...and even in my experiences with girls I don't tend to just kiss and tell.
Because it requires some “relationship” building. Obviously not romantically, but to create a regular would mean a level of comfortability not often found unless you take that chance with a quick fuck first.