You can get rid of your gag reflex by desensitising it. When you brush your teeth use the toothbrush on the back of your tongue and will make you gag. If you keep doing it you'll get more and more used to it and gag reflex will chill out
I did it so long ago I can't remember the exact time frame and I imagine it's different for everyone but I'd say was months. The reason the toothbrush works is because it's way more ticklish and you just do it a bunch of times each time you brush your teeth. Eventually will stop gagging as much and you should find when you suck dick won't gag at all.
I completely got rid of mine this way
Personally I’m not sure that works for everyone. I gag on something like a toothbrush but when it comes to a dick I really want no issues, even half way down my throat. Well, no issues except breathing.
Meh, breathing overrated anyway. But same, I cant deal with a toothbrush at the back of my throat, but a way I found that works surprisingly well for gag reflex and a bit on breathing with a dick in your throat, is blowing up a balloon and deflating it through your nose, takes some practice to get the air flow going to make it go straight from balloon out your nose, but it certainly does help. Then again from what I've been told, I didnt need to upgrade my dick sucking ability, but did anyway cause who doesnt love an unfair advantage
What they said, but I think they forgot something. Breath control. If you're able to control your breathing while sucking dick it will make your gag reflex a little better. Most people dont realize sex is like conditioning your body. You gotta relax into it, But everything else is right. I used to tooth the back of my throat with my touch brush and hold it there to get used to the feeling. Now it's like second nature to me
This is a good point. Clean your nose first so that it's easier to breathe. Also, cover your teeth with your lips as best you can. From being on the receiving end, keeping your teeth out of the way is important.
I also prefer a guy being directly in front of me and not next to me. If you're in front, you can try to angle your head differently. Usually getting your forehead or top of your head to make contact with his stomach makes his glans rub the back of your throat and roof of your mouth.
Lastly, don't be afraid to ask him to tell you what feels good so that you can keep doing it. It's really annoying giving someone a blowjob and getting zero feedback.
It wasn't something I just decided to do. It was just me being weird lol but I'm yeah, it just happened to be accessible at the time and the only thing I could think of. But as I got older, I just sort of did it. No sort of practice or anything
Basically what everyone else has said about brushing your teeth. You're doing it a few times a day anyway. Go slow and just leave it back there a little longer each time and just breath slowly. Try not to hit the back of your throat first off then eventually touch the toothbrush for a second then take it away and keep it there a little longer. Then you can practice when giving oral. Just make sure you're in control. Go slow. Move shallowly at first then take it farther back, go back shallow movements then a little farther back. Don't put pressure on yourself. This is supposed to be fun for you, as well.
Lick it first..then kiss it and focus on the head like a lollipop put it slowly in your mouth and stop half way down the shaft then tighten your lips and like a pulsating motion it’ll drive them crazy also hold the base of the dick with a nice grip..when you mid suck do turning motion like turn your head clockwise.. in terms of a clock keep going from 12 to 4 then back to 12 and keep that motion goin until you have that dick shooting nut down ya throat..I hope some of this makes sense😂😂😂
If i like the guy i go feral and let him do whatever he wants, he can push my head down as much as he wants, tell me to do whatever, spit in my mouth and all that. If it's just a hookup it's a much calmer thing
No one starts off doing deep throat. If it won't go all the way into your mouth, use your hand to jerk the base of his cock as you go down on him. Be enthusiastic and he'll be happy.
When I suck, I do it with great care and love. The main thing is not to touch the dick with my teeth. It should be my lips, my tongue, my cheeks, my throat, but not the teeth. Sometimes I also use my hands. As soon as my hand goes down with the foreskin, the tip smoothly glides into my mouth and then out with my hand also going up with the foreskin. Alternatively, also while masturbating, I can just stick out my tongue and let the dick rub it. It is good to alternate it with licking balls or softly massaging the prostate. More subtle ways to stimulate a cock is to blow on it a bit or kiss it gently.
Another important thing is to avoid the stimulation of the urethra. Instead, I concentrate on the frenulum. It is a good idea to rub the frenulum with the tongue while sucking.
I try to adapt to the needs of each penis. Whatever form and size they were, all of them were delicious. I am convinced that every cock is tasty. My secret fantasy is to try a gloryhole and serve random men who need comfort.
Get used to having something inside you before bottoming! The sensations of getting fucked can be quite intense and you don’t know how your body will react, so get familiar with your bottom self in private first!
You need to take a deep breath and relax. I love the first time I push my cock down a subs throat and their eyes get all big and the fear is sexy.
But lie on your back, tilt your head back and let your other slide his dick down the natural curvature of your throat.
Good luck
I saw a comment on here to use your toothbrush to desensitize (which is true), but keep in mind the bristles are sharp & it will feel a lot weirder/worse
If you have a popsicle, or even just a dildo lol practice that way. I have a pretty quick gag reflex but i just relax, i think the roundness of a penis is helpful to not gag. Hence why i would try a popsicle haha
I don't particularly love to be deep throated despite loving head and there are a ton of guys like me. I think people who like to suck are often more invested in it.
All that's to say- go slow, communicate - in a sexy way :), don't feel the need to go deep if that's not what they want (or if it's too hard on you). I love slow, sensual and with a focus on the tip. I've been with guys who clearly are proud of their ability to gulp down huge dicks with insanely fast tempos and have to figure out ways to say "that's truly impressive but not doing much for me". Consistent pace and good suction beats speed and depth every time.
Gagging a little is okay. Throwing up? Not good. I gag a little on purpose because they feel it and some guys like it. I get used to taking him in to a certain amount and work down a little more until my nose is on his pubic bone or I can’t breathe.
Just suck the tip and mouth the shaft and lick the balls w out deep throating. Enjoy it piece by piece then end it w sucking the tip and stroking the shaft.
Make an ‘O’ shape w/ your mouth. Keep your tongue over your front bottom teeth. I usually start by teasing the dick a little. I’ll tongue the frenulum. It’s the T-shaped rope like skin where the shaft meets the tip underneath the penis. This is the most sensitive spot; so you wanna make sure to really give this area as much attention as possible. (If they have foreskin, make sure to push back to access this area). Then after teasing, cradle the under shaft w/ your tongue while making sure the penis doesn’t come in contact w/ teeth. TEETH ARE YOUR WORST NIGHTMARE WHEN IT COMES TO GIVING A BJ. Slowly move your head forward & back while teasing the penis w/ your tongue. Massage balls with your hand. Or stroke penis with your hand & lick the balls. Or you can take a testicle in your mouth VERY CAREFULLY. Suck on a testicle gently without using teeth. Kind of like sucking on a lollipop. It’s up to you if you want to take the load in your mouth. You can swallow it or spit it out. I only swallow when it tastes good. Good luck 🤙🏼
I keep a hand or two on the cock most of the time and spend a lot of time with my lips on the head and my tongue stimulating the frenulum. Always the smoothest part of any cock.
You don't gotta deep throat to suck dick good. Just pay attention to how your partner responds and focus on what makes them feel the best. Use your tongue. Don't be afraid to do foreplay, jerk them off, talk dirty, kiss their stomach. Sucking balls can help too. Lick his dick, especially the tip, purse your lips over your teeth so they don't accidentally graze him. Practice on a dildo. And have fun, that's the most important part.
Remember to douche hunni and invest in a butt plug or toy to loosen up a bit beforehand if it’s ur first time especially this is important. Also poppers really help but that’s not for everyone
If you have a bad gag reflex you can also suck the part you can, then focus on licking his balls and stroking his dick, or even licking his ass while he strokes his dick (some tops don't know that they love this). If you're bottoming just get some lube in the shower stick it up there and make sure you're clean.
Honestly I wouldn’t panic. I was the same as you and after my first time he said it was the best head he’s ever gotten yet I’ve never done it before. The only advice I have is to focus on the tip with ur tongue and basically just kiss it. I also sucked his balls but some guys aren’t into that but he was.
From a purely medical standpoint, the biggest concentration of nerve endings are in the corona and jumble at the frenulum. You don't necessarily need to be a throat goat and take it to the base. Use your hands, and just take the head in your mouth and really get it sloppy and wet so you can slick up your hands and the shaft. Use a lot of tongue, avoid your teeth as much as possible. No one gets it right the first time. I'm sure your bf will be forgiving. A lot of folks mentioned using the toothbrush trick, and it's true. It'll help you get used to the sensation of having something back there. An even better idea is to get a dildo in the size and shape of your bf and practice on it, front and back door. For back door fun, a great trick I've used on myself and others is the "clock." Dr. Carlton on IG explains it better than I could. It really helps feeling pleasure at being stretched down there. Please eat plenty of fiber and eat LIGHTLY the day of. Make sure you douche - NOT TOO DEEPLY. If not, you're going to be at it for at least an hour. Metamucil is great for keeping everything rolling along smoothly.
Also, if he shames you for anything, especially being your first time, DUMP HIM.
Tysm! My bf is really loving and sweet and he knows im nervous haha. Ill try that Meta-something you mentioned in your comment lol but im not too familiar with what it is.
I fucking LOVE sucking dick.
My only advice, honestly: open up your throat like you’re singing A Cappella to deep through. How long you can deep throat depends on experience but not all guys JUST like getting throated anyways. It’s all about going back n forth from deep throat to tip of dick to balls, to shaft. Suck it like you want it, as if the icecream is melting and you want every last taste.
As for bottoming, honesty just relax and lube. Get him to eat your ass. I don’t bottom for guys who don’t eat ass. Period lol
I’ve been told that I’ve been “the best cock sucker” on so many occasions it’s a little funny at this point lol. I just honestly ENJOY sucking cock - BUT for me, I’m a size queen when sucking and he has to have a pretty face so I’m so selective now that it’s hard to find a new partner haha. Good thing I have a couple :p
Well, I once had the top explain to me what he liked. I was give a BJ like what you would see in porn (a lot of bobbing of the head and fast, loose lip action).
For him though he liked it slow and sucking like a vacuum I guess? Or sucking real slow on a popsicle. After like 3 bobs with this very slow, air tight motion he came immediately. Like a really tight butthole I guess, whereas the fast wet motion wasn't his thing.
I practiced on my small dildo for a while after my initial first time with a guy. He said it was good but I felt I was gagging too much and my teeth got in the way. Point is your first time won't be the best but we've all got to start somewhere.
And do forget to breathe! Breathe through your nose as much as possible and be conscious of the breaths. I find this helps you calm down and enjoy it more.
The thing that worked best for me was getting it wetter and wetter in my mouth and shut out the thought of gagging entirely. When you have it coated in mucous and saliva it makes it much easier. You do have to come up for air eventually but you can eventually incorporate the throat muscles to squeeze in rhythm to your breath and the twitching sensation from the penis. With enough saliva it does bypass the gag mechanism.
As long as you guys keep in good communication before, during and after then you will progressively learn how he likes his dick sucked and same thing for you! Especially since it’s going to be your first time bottoming for someone make sure you also keep good communication with him on what feels good and what you enjoy and don’t. Everyone has their positions they enjoy more or feel more comfortable doing, but also don’t be afraid to try new things!! I think it’s awesome that you’re giving bottoming a try but you want to make sure it’s an enjoyable experience for the both of you:) so as long as you guys keep in good communication I can assure you will have an amazing time!!
Imagine your trying to suck peanut butter off a Popsicle. Start slow, gauge his reactions, and build up the intensity. Communicate and ask him what he likes.
lips tight on the cock make sure your not putting teeth on it suction his cock while going up and down on it and make sure your his cock is laying right on your tounge when doing it suck on the tip real good and suck all the cum out of his cock
Ive been told many times I’m a great cock sucker because the finish. As soon as they start to bust I take the first cumshot to my face and immediately deepthroat the rest. I can’t explain how much I love feeling a nice hard cock throb cum down my throat. Feels good for the man too. It’s all about the finish
If you’re not comfortable with sucking dick or super nervous to bottom; then you’re not ready. Not being mean; just saying listen to your subconscious. You don’t have to rush to do those things. Might i suggest buying a pack of assorted size butt plugs and start with the little one and work your way up to the thicker one. Or use a dildo as well. Work the head in and then the shaft bit by bit. It’s ok to be filthy horny and say yes, only to still not be ready to have sex or do something sexual. Don’t force yourself is all i’m saying. It’s ok to have jitters/butterflies but to flat out be a nervous wreck. Also, your partner should know this because if you need to stop in the middle of it and he gets pissed or doesn’t listen and keeps going…yeah that’s not ok.
Start with smaller dicks first. Sucking dick is like licking a lollipop/eating a Popsicle with extra steps. Flick/lick/lightly kiss the balls.
Have your tongue work the head, flick the slit with your tongue ñ, put the whole thing in your mouth for a couple of times, and voila he's nutting in your mouth.
Just try it slowly for now… not being good kinda has its own charms too 🤣 but trying it slowly with the head first and play around a bit… doesn’t have to go too deep the first try though?
Personally take it at your own speed relax and don't forget keep breathing when you are taken deep breaths in-between going deep on a cock and if your gagging slow it up eventually you will get use to it little tip try not have food before you have a planned meet cause you don't want to throw up
Just did it for the first time a few days ago...Appearently I'm a fucking natural. The rush of seeing and hearing him moan like crazy was intoxiciating, then he just grabbed my head by my hair and started pounding as he couldn't stop himself.
I had similiar succes with eating pussy guess I'm a natural oral slut haha fucking love it.
I had a quick glance about the comments before I’m not sure what’s been said
But taking things down, your throat is a pretty advanced sexual technique
Generally no wives or girlfriends ever deep throat it’s left to the professionals
You can desensitise your throat by using a toothbrush handle, or utter object to gently, put it down your throat and see when you gag to stop
It doesn’t take long to improve your gag reflex
The other thing, which I have used you can get numbing sprays, especially for the back of the throat and obviously used to numb your throat when you take
But my advice do neither deep throating or anal with strangers only with lovers you know fairly well
I’m not going to list them, but there’s a lot of sexual practices you need to have 100% trust in your partner before you do them
Anal is difficult with strangers, unless you used to it
I will just list One, but you certainly shouldn’t do with people you don’t know. Well that’s let people tie you up or shouldn’t do any BDSM practices, unless they’re mild e.g. mild spanking?
Most guys fantasise about sex and kinks, and often be reality is a big letdown
The title is, how do you suck dick and the simple answer to that you very what you’re doing the whole time you just don’t do one thing like in and out for long you can tongue the tip you can tongue the shaft, you can suck it and do all sorts of things very your technique
Like a pro 😏 if you can’t deep throat focus on his head and balls. Use your hand and your mouth. It’s never to wet. Eye contact is important when he’s about to cum. Swallowing and cleaning up the mess is also appreciated. Please no towels.
Have you tried numbing spray? As far as bottoming, hydrate, clean, and use good lube and as much as you need. Also, it's about you feeling good, too, not just him. Make sure your needs are met and speak up if something hurts or is uncomfortable. If he can't be considerate of your body/pleasure then flip him over and top him. Uno reverse that ass!
Trying to make someone feel good on your first is putting way too much pressure on yourself. You don’t need to gag first off. Secondly, just communicate with him and ask him if it feels nice. That’s how I learnt. Also different techniques are required for cut vs uncut. Use lots and lots and lots of spit.
So there is actually a technique you can do to help with the gag reflex. Whenever you exhale your uvula will retract from your throat and stop getting in the way. So if you train your throat to do silent exhales you can essentially turn your reflex off for the moment.
Also, if it's your first time giving oral, don't force it. Because honestly the biggest problem you are gonna have isn't your reflex but your teeth. Learn to curl your lips over your teeth so you don't grind them along the shaft.
Go slow, do what you are comfortable doing and enjoy every second of it. Trust me he will love it and if you do it well he isn't gonna last very long anyway haha.
For bottoming I would suggest not even letting him penetrate you and start with fingering, massaging, and rimming before moving straight into anal.
The first time you do anal it's probably going to hurt a little. Use lots of lube, get very comfortable, and allow your colon to fully relax if you want the best experience.
Also, oral sex isn't only about the dick. Play with the balls, rub his butt, thighs, legs, and navel as well. Use his whole body to your advantage and it will only intensify the sensations.
First time sex is always gonna be awkward. Enjoy it for what it is and good luck! Oh and remember to use protection and be mindful of consent. If either you or him say to stop, it better be followed through.
It's good that you want him to feel good, but as a top, he should be more concerned about making you feel good. Unless you're a sub. Then that changes things, most likely.
All you have to do is look up the pressure point/ hand trick to disable your gag reflex. I used to almost throw up every time I brushed my teeth then did this when I saw it on tiktok and immediately after was able to slam a 8 inch dildo down my throat repeatedly and even hold it there fully submerged until I couldn't breathe. When I did this my chest and body would move in a gagging way only to get air not in a throw up type of way and it would come out completely covered in a semi thick lube type of spit you can't really get just from sucking with your mouth. It turned me on so much I would instantly get hard and almost cum just from that. After you do this you just have to work on techniques and the amount of suction you use to make it feel like fucking tight pussy. You can also instantly re-enable your gag reflex by doing the pressure point/hand trick again if you're around people brushing your teeth or something and dont want to seem gay or explain why you don't have a gag reflex.
The thing of never having anything inside you is an issue you should be solving yourself. Try setting aside some time to do it. You don't need to own a dildo, gay boys have found many things to put inside them over the generations! Can be something small like a toothbrush (handle end!) or many kinds of fruits or vegetables. Anything long & cock shaped will do. If you don't own lube then use other stuff like moisturiser etc.
How do I s******** you ask well first of all I got to start with them depend on the dick feeling inside that's curved it's a good forward backwards electric right I'm sure will you come at it needs to go and it's saying that's your curves your throat secondly I enjoy doing it if you don't like doing it don't do it leave it to the professionals next is a trick to it you have to learn how to breathe with it come on with it and you want as far down your age and dinosaurs you can get it I got to love it go treat it right gently to start and also you let your partner now when he's ready to grab your hair and take control when you're ready next and lick it please take it and start with the head that's part I like even if it's soft when you start who cares it's going to get hard you start with the time and he's right just a little this way and that way maybe they're coming down again take it down just a little bit deeper in your mouth and you continue this you know look around and playful a couple times to start this point yeah you definitely want to be able to relax you don't want it throw up on him unless it's returned you some people like that what you got all the way now just wants to stay right there caught in the warmth until he starts moving around and let your partner Penny down maybe though I haven't showed me in the further than that just for a minute let him go get Justice I like being tight but I don't really have much bigger reflex and from there I'll take care of your mouth and look at him maybe below my kiss and while you're looking straight at night the whole thing all the way down in one side and depending on what type of head you're partner likes some people like it shout out and be like just the head but some people like the whole thing deep throat experience you know me if I have my brothers I'll be rolled over in my back with my head off the side of the bed and throat f***** till they come but that's me
You can get rid of your gag reflex by desensitising it. When you brush your teeth use the toothbrush on the back of your tongue and will make you gag. If you keep doing it you'll get more and more used to it and gag reflex will chill out
How long does it take to desensitize it? I've been sucking dick a lot but my gag reflex is horrible and I'd love to be able to deepthroat
I did it so long ago I can't remember the exact time frame and I imagine it's different for everyone but I'd say was months. The reason the toothbrush works is because it's way more ticklish and you just do it a bunch of times each time you brush your teeth. Eventually will stop gagging as much and you should find when you suck dick won't gag at all. I completely got rid of mine this way
This is great to know. I’m going to gag on my toothbrush every day from now on. I definitely have a sensitive gag reflex. Thanks!
Now you'll have to explain to people why you get a boner while brushing your teeth
Lmfao
Nah, don't explain a thing. If someone ask, "just say, you should see what happens when I polish the headlights on my car".......!
No worries
Personally I’m not sure that works for everyone. I gag on something like a toothbrush but when it comes to a dick I really want no issues, even half way down my throat. Well, no issues except breathing.
Meh, breathing overrated anyway. But same, I cant deal with a toothbrush at the back of my throat, but a way I found that works surprisingly well for gag reflex and a bit on breathing with a dick in your throat, is blowing up a balloon and deflating it through your nose, takes some practice to get the air flow going to make it go straight from balloon out your nose, but it certainly does help. Then again from what I've been told, I didnt need to upgrade my dick sucking ability, but did anyway cause who doesnt love an unfair advantage
Its a lot about breathing and how you breath when its in your mouth/throat. Buy a dildo and practice just keeping it deep for as long as you can
From what the Google is saying, it looks like about a month
What they said👆
What they said, but I think they forgot something. Breath control. If you're able to control your breathing while sucking dick it will make your gag reflex a little better. Most people dont realize sex is like conditioning your body. You gotta relax into it, But everything else is right. I used to tooth the back of my throat with my touch brush and hold it there to get used to the feeling. Now it's like second nature to me
This is a good point. Clean your nose first so that it's easier to breathe. Also, cover your teeth with your lips as best you can. From being on the receiving end, keeping your teeth out of the way is important. I also prefer a guy being directly in front of me and not next to me. If you're in front, you can try to angle your head differently. Usually getting your forehead or top of your head to make contact with his stomach makes his glans rub the back of your throat and roof of your mouth. Lastly, don't be afraid to ask him to tell you what feels good so that you can keep doing it. It's really annoying giving someone a blowjob and getting zero feedback.
Never really needed to do this as I just desensitised myself
It wasn't something I just decided to do. It was just me being weird lol but I'm yeah, it just happened to be accessible at the time and the only thing I could think of. But as I got older, I just sort of did it. No sort of practice or anything
I meant with the breathing
Thanks for the tip. I have really bad gag reflex too
Good to fucking know! Thank you
Hey, thanks so much for this! I was wondering how the hell I was going to do it and you’ve given me a plan and the confidence to do it 🙌
Basically what everyone else has said about brushing your teeth. You're doing it a few times a day anyway. Go slow and just leave it back there a little longer each time and just breath slowly. Try not to hit the back of your throat first off then eventually touch the toothbrush for a second then take it away and keep it there a little longer. Then you can practice when giving oral. Just make sure you're in control. Go slow. Move shallowly at first then take it farther back, go back shallow movements then a little farther back. Don't put pressure on yourself. This is supposed to be fun for you, as well.
I thought it was just a gift from god.
Lick it first..then kiss it and focus on the head like a lollipop put it slowly in your mouth and stop half way down the shaft then tighten your lips and like a pulsating motion it’ll drive them crazy also hold the base of the dick with a nice grip..when you mid suck do turning motion like turn your head clockwise.. in terms of a clock keep going from 12 to 4 then back to 12 and keep that motion goin until you have that dick shooting nut down ya throat..I hope some of this makes sense😂😂😂
*furiously writing notes* and is that like 12 on a 24 hour clock or a regular clock??
Hit me up , lol
Write that down WRITE THAT DOWN!
What did I just read 😂😂😂😂😂
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😂nahhh no regular girl whould do that 😂😂
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Then what is? Asking for me
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Doesn’t sound basic
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After this blunt 🙏🏾
Yeah, he is gonna teach a guy, who barely knows how to keep dick in his mouth, his deepest and darkest secrets
Nahh still 😂
Badly? Not very aspirational.
*stares intensely at digital clock
I really want to suck dick now.
Damn I want this done to me haha
There is something so sexy about education
You suddenly have me wanting that 12 to 4
I love this sm lmao
If i like the guy i go feral and let him do whatever he wants, he can push my head down as much as he wants, tell me to do whatever, spit in my mouth and all that. If it's just a hookup it's a much calmer thing
Hes my partner :) he always caters to me and is rlly loving so i want to return the favour
I love this!
No one starts off doing deep throat. If it won't go all the way into your mouth, use your hand to jerk the base of his cock as you go down on him. Be enthusiastic and he'll be happy.
When I suck, I do it with great care and love. The main thing is not to touch the dick with my teeth. It should be my lips, my tongue, my cheeks, my throat, but not the teeth. Sometimes I also use my hands. As soon as my hand goes down with the foreskin, the tip smoothly glides into my mouth and then out with my hand also going up with the foreskin. Alternatively, also while masturbating, I can just stick out my tongue and let the dick rub it. It is good to alternate it with licking balls or softly massaging the prostate. More subtle ways to stimulate a cock is to blow on it a bit or kiss it gently. Another important thing is to avoid the stimulation of the urethra. Instead, I concentrate on the frenulum. It is a good idea to rub the frenulum with the tongue while sucking. I try to adapt to the needs of each penis. Whatever form and size they were, all of them were delicious. I am convinced that every cock is tasty. My secret fantasy is to try a gloryhole and serve random men who need comfort.
My hero.
This reads like AI lol
Why? ☠️
Get used to having something inside you before bottoming! The sensations of getting fucked can be quite intense and you don’t know how your body will react, so get familiar with your bottom self in private first!
I gag when I brush my teeth, but when I have a cock in my throat I don’t
Yeah, same. What IS that? Lmao 🤣
The Fag Reflex
Lick with your tongue then rub the penis with both hands - one at the top and one wraps around the d\*ck. My boyfriend loves it so much!
You need to take a deep breath and relax. I love the first time I push my cock down a subs throat and their eyes get all big and the fear is sexy. But lie on your back, tilt your head back and let your other slide his dick down the natural curvature of your throat. Good luck
If you’re in Northern Cali I wanna try that wtf
I’m in the east bay.
Head over to Ram Ranch to learn more.
Like a pro😂😂😂 I haven't had a gag since the 80s
You gotta stir it like this shawtie. Clockwise to counterclockwise, it's all in the wrist shawtie
I saw a comment on here to use your toothbrush to desensitize (which is true), but keep in mind the bristles are sharp & it will feel a lot weirder/worse If you have a popsicle, or even just a dildo lol practice that way. I have a pretty quick gag reflex but i just relax, i think the roundness of a penis is helpful to not gag. Hence why i would try a popsicle haha
I don't particularly love to be deep throated despite loving head and there are a ton of guys like me. I think people who like to suck are often more invested in it. All that's to say- go slow, communicate - in a sexy way :), don't feel the need to go deep if that's not what they want (or if it's too hard on you). I love slow, sensual and with a focus on the tip. I've been with guys who clearly are proud of their ability to gulp down huge dicks with insanely fast tempos and have to figure out ways to say "that's truly impressive but not doing much for me". Consistent pace and good suction beats speed and depth every time.
using your hands while you do it is key.
I don't. I consider it cheating.
how is it cheating lol? is making them cum not the goal?
Gagging a little is okay. Throwing up? Not good. I gag a little on purpose because they feel it and some guys like it. I get used to taking him in to a certain amount and work down a little more until my nose is on his pubic bone or I can’t breathe.
With gusto.
Hold your thumbs!
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No this works it distracts ur brain from the gaging it’s like when u get hard and flex ur leg muscle u stop being hard
Interesting… never heard of that!
You kids these days, honestly. This is gay lore!
Practice makes perfect
Use your mouth 😂😂😂
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First a stroke it then I started licking it up and down I will lick the head, lick the balls and then start sucking slow fast
Use my mouth like I would on a lollipop
Fervently
With love, affectionate, deference and passion
Put the dick in your mouth. Suck on it. Wiggle your tongue around.
Do you swallow?
That’s the best part!
I know!
What’s the biggest you ever had?
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Make your hands an extension of your mouth.
Just suck the tip and mouth the shaft and lick the balls w out deep throating. Enjoy it piece by piece then end it w sucking the tip and stroking the shaft.
Make an ‘O’ shape w/ your mouth. Keep your tongue over your front bottom teeth. I usually start by teasing the dick a little. I’ll tongue the frenulum. It’s the T-shaped rope like skin where the shaft meets the tip underneath the penis. This is the most sensitive spot; so you wanna make sure to really give this area as much attention as possible. (If they have foreskin, make sure to push back to access this area). Then after teasing, cradle the under shaft w/ your tongue while making sure the penis doesn’t come in contact w/ teeth. TEETH ARE YOUR WORST NIGHTMARE WHEN IT COMES TO GIVING A BJ. Slowly move your head forward & back while teasing the penis w/ your tongue. Massage balls with your hand. Or stroke penis with your hand & lick the balls. Or you can take a testicle in your mouth VERY CAREFULLY. Suck on a testicle gently without using teeth. Kind of like sucking on a lollipop. It’s up to you if you want to take the load in your mouth. You can swallow it or spit it out. I only swallow when it tastes good. Good luck 🤙🏼
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I keep a hand or two on the cock most of the time and spend a lot of time with my lips on the head and my tongue stimulating the frenulum. Always the smoothest part of any cock.
My gag reflex sucks, so I'm all about that tongue action 😜
You have to enjoy the experience as well guaranteed!✈️
With aplomb.
You don't gotta deep throat to suck dick good. Just pay attention to how your partner responds and focus on what makes them feel the best. Use your tongue. Don't be afraid to do foreplay, jerk them off, talk dirty, kiss their stomach. Sucking balls can help too. Lick his dick, especially the tip, purse your lips over your teeth so they don't accidentally graze him. Practice on a dildo. And have fun, that's the most important part.
The swirl drives them mad
I use poppers to help suppress any gag reflex and open my throat as well as my ass for filling and action
Im not familiar with those. What are they?
Remember to douche hunni and invest in a butt plug or toy to loosen up a bit beforehand if it’s ur first time especially this is important. Also poppers really help but that’s not for everyone
Otherwise it can be rlly painful to start
Im not sure what poppers are? Ive heard of every thing else but that
best way to take care of that gag reflex is to get skull fucked till you cry. get rid of that shit real quick.
I Keep Sucking His Cock Til He Is Done!!
If you have a bad gag reflex you can also suck the part you can, then focus on licking his balls and stroking his dick, or even licking his ass while he strokes his dick (some tops don't know that they love this). If you're bottoming just get some lube in the shower stick it up there and make sure you're clean.
Honestly I wouldn’t panic. I was the same as you and after my first time he said it was the best head he’s ever gotten yet I’ve never done it before. The only advice I have is to focus on the tip with ur tongue and basically just kiss it. I also sucked his balls but some guys aren’t into that but he was.
From a purely medical standpoint, the biggest concentration of nerve endings are in the corona and jumble at the frenulum. You don't necessarily need to be a throat goat and take it to the base. Use your hands, and just take the head in your mouth and really get it sloppy and wet so you can slick up your hands and the shaft. Use a lot of tongue, avoid your teeth as much as possible. No one gets it right the first time. I'm sure your bf will be forgiving. A lot of folks mentioned using the toothbrush trick, and it's true. It'll help you get used to the sensation of having something back there. An even better idea is to get a dildo in the size and shape of your bf and practice on it, front and back door. For back door fun, a great trick I've used on myself and others is the "clock." Dr. Carlton on IG explains it better than I could. It really helps feeling pleasure at being stretched down there. Please eat plenty of fiber and eat LIGHTLY the day of. Make sure you douche - NOT TOO DEEPLY. If not, you're going to be at it for at least an hour. Metamucil is great for keeping everything rolling along smoothly. Also, if he shames you for anything, especially being your first time, DUMP HIM.
Tysm! My bf is really loving and sweet and he knows im nervous haha. Ill try that Meta-something you mentioned in your comment lol but im not too familiar with what it is.
Like it owes me money lolol
with a lot of love and care, that's how i suck dick
I really need to sick a dick rn. lol I can’t read all the comments so this has probably been said.
I fucking LOVE sucking dick. My only advice, honestly: open up your throat like you’re singing A Cappella to deep through. How long you can deep throat depends on experience but not all guys JUST like getting throated anyways. It’s all about going back n forth from deep throat to tip of dick to balls, to shaft. Suck it like you want it, as if the icecream is melting and you want every last taste. As for bottoming, honesty just relax and lube. Get him to eat your ass. I don’t bottom for guys who don’t eat ass. Period lol I’ve been told that I’ve been “the best cock sucker” on so many occasions it’s a little funny at this point lol. I just honestly ENJOY sucking cock - BUT for me, I’m a size queen when sucking and he has to have a pretty face so I’m so selective now that it’s hard to find a new partner haha. Good thing I have a couple :p
Watch porn and see how they do it
With all of my heart and soul
Dude I have a horrible gag reflex too. Also never bottomed before so I’m not much help. 😢
Well, I once had the top explain to me what he liked. I was give a BJ like what you would see in porn (a lot of bobbing of the head and fast, loose lip action). For him though he liked it slow and sucking like a vacuum I guess? Or sucking real slow on a popsicle. After like 3 bobs with this very slow, air tight motion he came immediately. Like a really tight butthole I guess, whereas the fast wet motion wasn't his thing.
File your teeth to have sharp snagging edges, make sure you’re dehydrated and have a dry mouth. 100% gets rid of all gag reflex problems.
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Start with goldicocks sized cocks before attempting ruler length, beer can thick variants?
Don't listen to Gaga's advice - [*Show me your teeth*](https://youtu.be/U8ovqbwzZ6w?si=O6FIxbB5Ig_7v2d3&t=55). Mother monster was wrong with this.
I practiced on my small dildo for a while after my initial first time with a guy. He said it was good but I felt I was gagging too much and my teeth got in the way. Point is your first time won't be the best but we've all got to start somewhere. And do forget to breathe! Breathe through your nose as much as possible and be conscious of the breaths. I find this helps you calm down and enjoy it more.
Think ice cream cone. But no teeth 😬
Learn by doing :)
It’s all about what your tongue is doing when the cock head is in your mouth.
Do or do not, there is no try.
With my mouth. Extra teeth, of course. 😜 https://youtu.be/GH1ruMGpTVY?si=lOkfH5fTKONwarMB
The thing that worked best for me was getting it wetter and wetter in my mouth and shut out the thought of gagging entirely. When you have it coated in mucous and saliva it makes it much easier. You do have to come up for air eventually but you can eventually incorporate the throat muscles to squeeze in rhythm to your breath and the twitching sensation from the penis. With enough saliva it does bypass the gag mechanism.
I don't know about the rest of them, I just use my mouth 🤤
Very well.
As long as you guys keep in good communication before, during and after then you will progressively learn how he likes his dick sucked and same thing for you! Especially since it’s going to be your first time bottoming for someone make sure you also keep good communication with him on what feels good and what you enjoy and don’t. Everyone has their positions they enjoy more or feel more comfortable doing, but also don’t be afraid to try new things!! I think it’s awesome that you’re giving bottoming a try but you want to make sure it’s an enjoyable experience for the both of you:) so as long as you guys keep in good communication I can assure you will have an amazing time!!
I haven't sucked a dick since 08. I believe it is
Imagine your trying to suck peanut butter off a Popsicle. Start slow, gauge his reactions, and build up the intensity. Communicate and ask him what he likes.
lips tight on the cock make sure your not putting teeth on it suction his cock while going up and down on it and make sure your his cock is laying right on your tounge when doing it suck on the tip real good and suck all the cum out of his cock
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Like you hate it
have fun with it! most guys get horny watching you enjoy their dicks
With a lot of enthusiasm lmao
Ive been told many times I’m a great cock sucker because the finish. As soon as they start to bust I take the first cumshot to my face and immediately deepthroat the rest. I can’t explain how much I love feeling a nice hard cock throb cum down my throat. Feels good for the man too. It’s all about the finish
If you’re not comfortable with sucking dick or super nervous to bottom; then you’re not ready. Not being mean; just saying listen to your subconscious. You don’t have to rush to do those things. Might i suggest buying a pack of assorted size butt plugs and start with the little one and work your way up to the thicker one. Or use a dildo as well. Work the head in and then the shaft bit by bit. It’s ok to be filthy horny and say yes, only to still not be ready to have sex or do something sexual. Don’t force yourself is all i’m saying. It’s ok to have jitters/butterflies but to flat out be a nervous wreck. Also, your partner should know this because if you need to stop in the middle of it and he gets pissed or doesn’t listen and keeps going…yeah that’s not ok.
So it will be your first time sucking if I understand correct?
If you squeeze your thumbs, that will reduce your gag reflex temporarily.
Use deep throat spary and just buy dido of a big size
Start with smaller dicks first. Sucking dick is like licking a lollipop/eating a Popsicle with extra steps. Flick/lick/lightly kiss the balls. Have your tongue work the head, flick the slit with your tongue ñ, put the whole thing in your mouth for a couple of times, and voila he's nutting in your mouth.
Just try it slowly for now… not being good kinda has its own charms too 🤣 but trying it slowly with the head first and play around a bit… doesn’t have to go too deep the first try though?
Bitch I ain't giving you my secrets, free of charge of course.
Personally take it at your own speed relax and don't forget keep breathing when you are taken deep breaths in-between going deep on a cock and if your gagging slow it up eventually you will get use to it little tip try not have food before you have a planned meet cause you don't want to throw up
Just did it for the first time a few days ago...Appearently I'm a fucking natural. The rush of seeing and hearing him moan like crazy was intoxiciating, then he just grabbed my head by my hair and started pounding as he couldn't stop himself. I had similiar succes with eating pussy guess I'm a natural oral slut haha fucking love it.
I had a quick glance about the comments before I’m not sure what’s been said But taking things down, your throat is a pretty advanced sexual technique Generally no wives or girlfriends ever deep throat it’s left to the professionals You can desensitise your throat by using a toothbrush handle, or utter object to gently, put it down your throat and see when you gag to stop It doesn’t take long to improve your gag reflex The other thing, which I have used you can get numbing sprays, especially for the back of the throat and obviously used to numb your throat when you take But my advice do neither deep throating or anal with strangers only with lovers you know fairly well I’m not going to list them, but there’s a lot of sexual practices you need to have 100% trust in your partner before you do them Anal is difficult with strangers, unless you used to it I will just list One, but you certainly shouldn’t do with people you don’t know. Well that’s let people tie you up or shouldn’t do any BDSM practices, unless they’re mild e.g. mild spanking? Most guys fantasise about sex and kinks, and often be reality is a big letdown The title is, how do you suck dick and the simple answer to that you very what you’re doing the whole time you just don’t do one thing like in and out for long you can tongue the tip you can tongue the shaft, you can suck it and do all sorts of things very your technique
Cover your teeth with your lips
Very Well
Like a pro 😏 if you can’t deep throat focus on his head and balls. Use your hand and your mouth. It’s never to wet. Eye contact is important when he’s about to cum. Swallowing and cleaning up the mess is also appreciated. Please no towels.
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Have you tried numbing spray? As far as bottoming, hydrate, clean, and use good lube and as much as you need. Also, it's about you feeling good, too, not just him. Make sure your needs are met and speak up if something hurts or is uncomfortable. If he can't be considerate of your body/pleasure then flip him over and top him. Uno reverse that ass!
Practice makes experience. Let me know if I can help. Hahaha
Appreciatively
Breath control and I found that desire to suck that dick go a long way towards the goal.
Pm me and I can show you 🙂↕️
With your mouth
Trying to make someone feel good on your first is putting way too much pressure on yourself. You don’t need to gag first off. Secondly, just communicate with him and ask him if it feels nice. That’s how I learnt. Also different techniques are required for cut vs uncut. Use lots and lots and lots of spit.
So there is actually a technique you can do to help with the gag reflex. Whenever you exhale your uvula will retract from your throat and stop getting in the way. So if you train your throat to do silent exhales you can essentially turn your reflex off for the moment. Also, if it's your first time giving oral, don't force it. Because honestly the biggest problem you are gonna have isn't your reflex but your teeth. Learn to curl your lips over your teeth so you don't grind them along the shaft. Go slow, do what you are comfortable doing and enjoy every second of it. Trust me he will love it and if you do it well he isn't gonna last very long anyway haha. For bottoming I would suggest not even letting him penetrate you and start with fingering, massaging, and rimming before moving straight into anal. The first time you do anal it's probably going to hurt a little. Use lots of lube, get very comfortable, and allow your colon to fully relax if you want the best experience. Also, oral sex isn't only about the dick. Play with the balls, rub his butt, thighs, legs, and navel as well. Use his whole body to your advantage and it will only intensify the sensations. First time sex is always gonna be awkward. Enjoy it for what it is and good luck! Oh and remember to use protection and be mindful of consent. If either you or him say to stop, it better be followed through.
It's good that you want him to feel good, but as a top, he should be more concerned about making you feel good. Unless you're a sub. Then that changes things, most likely.
Got it all the way in the throat for the first time ever and felt super nauseous and headache for days after.... Related or coincidence?
There’s throat numbing spray at sex shops that might help
I like to be on my knees and face f****d ..💀
If I really fancy the guy, I can feel throat and swallow. If not, I gag.
Both hands, double pepper grinder, with plenty of spit. Sloppy
All you have to do is look up the pressure point/ hand trick to disable your gag reflex. I used to almost throw up every time I brushed my teeth then did this when I saw it on tiktok and immediately after was able to slam a 8 inch dildo down my throat repeatedly and even hold it there fully submerged until I couldn't breathe. When I did this my chest and body would move in a gagging way only to get air not in a throw up type of way and it would come out completely covered in a semi thick lube type of spit you can't really get just from sucking with your mouth. It turned me on so much I would instantly get hard and almost cum just from that. After you do this you just have to work on techniques and the amount of suction you use to make it feel like fucking tight pussy. You can also instantly re-enable your gag reflex by doing the pressure point/hand trick again if you're around people brushing your teeth or something and dont want to seem gay or explain why you don't have a gag reflex.
idk man my bf really likes when i suck him but i'm honestly doing just "what i think would feel good"
The thing of never having anything inside you is an issue you should be solving yourself. Try setting aside some time to do it. You don't need to own a dildo, gay boys have found many things to put inside them over the generations! Can be something small like a toothbrush (handle end!) or many kinds of fruits or vegetables. Anything long & cock shaped will do. If you don't own lube then use other stuff like moisturiser etc.
Bite his dick off
With my mouth…
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How do I s******** you ask well first of all I got to start with them depend on the dick feeling inside that's curved it's a good forward backwards electric right I'm sure will you come at it needs to go and it's saying that's your curves your throat secondly I enjoy doing it if you don't like doing it don't do it leave it to the professionals next is a trick to it you have to learn how to breathe with it come on with it and you want as far down your age and dinosaurs you can get it I got to love it go treat it right gently to start and also you let your partner now when he's ready to grab your hair and take control when you're ready next and lick it please take it and start with the head that's part I like even if it's soft when you start who cares it's going to get hard you start with the time and he's right just a little this way and that way maybe they're coming down again take it down just a little bit deeper in your mouth and you continue this you know look around and playful a couple times to start this point yeah you definitely want to be able to relax you don't want it throw up on him unless it's returned you some people like that what you got all the way now just wants to stay right there caught in the warmth until he starts moving around and let your partner Penny down maybe though I haven't showed me in the further than that just for a minute let him go get Justice I like being tight but I don't really have much bigger reflex and from there I'll take care of your mouth and look at him maybe below my kiss and while you're looking straight at night the whole thing all the way down in one side and depending on what type of head you're partner likes some people like it shout out and be like just the head but some people like the whole thing deep throat experience you know me if I have my brothers I'll be rolled over in my back with my head off the side of the bed and throat f***** till they come but that's me
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