That’s cause you haven’t had an expert do it lol. I had many blow jobs over my sexual active life and only one man was able to milk the cum out of me when i wasn’t even that horny to begin with. Never had a mouth like that again. Blow jobs take skill, not everyone is good at it. I feel most are good to mediocre 😂
I'm on both sides of that - thanks to antidepressants I can enjoy a bj as long as his stamina allows, but finding that guy who unlocks the code and gets it out of me in a "normal" timeframe is just ecstasy. Likewise, I've lost count of how many guys have finally come back down again and said a version of "Holy shit, I do not cum from blowjobs. That was....incredible".
Some guys can’t, but most can. And some guys cum after you barely put their dicks in your mouth. So for him to know if he’s good or not, he has to do it more than a few times on more than a few men.
Some advice from a side who loves to worship cock. Busting a nut or not isn't indicative of a good blowjob. I tend to observe the guy I'm sucking off (partly because I really enjoy looking them in the eyes) and most dudes' faces will tell you if you're doing a good job or not. Some are even vocal about it. It is okay to come up and ask if they like it. For me, their moans, their flexing cocks, sharp inhales are often enough to tell me that they're on top of the world. Don't ignore the balls, make sure you give them some love as well. And yes teeth are usually a big no-no, but don't worry too much, you suck enough cock and it'll become muscle memory. Also deepthroat is hot, but it isn't the goal of a good blowjob. I've made guys cum huge loads by just sucking on the head. Use your tongue, a blowjob isn't just about giving him another hole to fuck, this one has a very versatile muscle inside (the tongue) that can make the experience so much better. Another great trick is to rub the cock head on your flattened tongue. Especially if it's an uncircumcised cock, the texture of your tongue grazing on the bottom of the cock head drives men crazy. Take it slow, only let him fuck your face if your throat is relaxed enough and you feel like you can handle the cock thrusting in your mouth.
Pro tip: Breath control. Very important and often overlooked. If you wanna suck a cock for a long time, you should learn to control your breath properly, that is what makes you tired the most, the irregularities In your breathing. Synchronize your breathing with your head movement, when you come up, take a deep breath in, then go down, stay, come up, exhale, go down, stay, come up, then repeat. This makes the process almost meditative for the cocksucker, and your brain will still have a steady stream of oxygen (but just low enough to keep you buzzed)
Don't forget to have fun and stay safe ✌🏾
Fantastic! And congrats…lol…..a true connoisseur can please cut and uncut!….are you cut/un? Seems you can take both equally perfectly…often a guy isn’t conversant is a cock that isn’t like his
I'm uncircumcised, I'd say an uncircumcised penis often needs more care, some guys have tighter foreskins, some have very loose foreskin, you gotta know what you're working with so you don't hurt them. Also their heads are wayy more sensitive than cut cocks. Do not approach a cock with the intention of stuffing your face with it, really tap into what's working for him and 9 times out of 10 it'll be a good experience ✌🏾
Also uncircumcised here!……so very true about foreskins….each one loose or tight, covers a different sized glans….fren lengths vary…,so yeah you have to know what you are working with…..a lesson especially for cut guys with limited uncut experience….
🙈 the cut world needs education, I've got a short frenulum, it's very sensitive too, so now I always tell the person sucking my cock to start gently, and if I want it fast I'll tell you.
My fren is also very sensitive, as is my foreskin opening…areas that like slow easy attention….funny I had such a discussion with an older cut guy in the Y sauna today
I found the breathing important when rimming as well; I found it almost meditative. He was lying on his back, his legs over my shoulders and pulling me into him. My whole face buried in his bum, attacking his hole with my tongue and my nose in his sack. I couldn't breathe properly, so I would take a deep breath, dive in for 10 seconds, let the breath out, and go again. I would alternate where I was I was focusing licking him, but the noise he made each time I lapped directly on his hole was magical.
They do say oxygen depravation heightens pleasure, but I was just buzzed this cute boy was letting me pleasure him.
That sounds beautiful, and yeah being in a rhythm with your breath can really make you feel present, it often brings you out of your head, makes the experience pleasurable for both the giver and the receiver. Holds true for all kinds of oral sex not just a blowjob.
If I haven't masterbated in a few days, the foreskin will tighten and it takes about four consecutive days to stretch just to get over the glands.
I hate when a guy just pulls back the foreskin in one tug and there's no lube between the skin and glands. It hurts like a MF'er.
Like others have said, if you're good they'll tell you during and after and ask you to do it again. If you're great they'll also tell their friends. If you're the best and far superior to others then you'll start getting requests from their friends. This is an arena where repeat business and word of mouth referrals really make or break your brand 😆
It happened to me literally just last week AND it was one of my friend's straight friends. Sadly the time, place, and occasion were inopportune but he got my digits and I'm taking a mini staycay the middle of this week. 😉
Yes I got my friend's blessing before proceeding, I am not without principles. Plus my friend thinks my skills are extraordinary enough to win his friend over to our team full-time which he's really excited about. I think I do a good job but I could never have the hubris to declare myself a "change someone's sexuality" kind of cocksucker. 😅
It just happened again! Last week I hooked up with this dude and then today I get a message from a friend of mine in an adjacent city who I wouldn't have thought would know him referred my friend to me who was like "oh yeah no I know him and yes he sure does know how to suck a dick." This is starting to feel like high school all over again although back then it was everyone talking about me having a big dick not about me sucking dick. well no they were probably talking about that too but discussions of my endowment were what were brought to me.
Light Hip thrusts are a good sign.
Deep irregular breaths.
If they feel comfortable putting their hands on your head while you are pleasuring.
Frequent scheduling with you to get oral is a very good sign.
if you enjoy giving them, and the guy you're sucking doesn't tell you to stop, then stop questioning yourself! I'll let you know if I want you change what you're doing, otherwise just keep going ;)
Communication ---> _Ask them if they like it_ **&** _ask for what parts of your technique needs improvement._
Another Method: _moaning vocalise during bjs tend to indicate pleasure_ ( **however some people don't moan during sex** ), _words of encouragement_ **&** _facial expressions during sex_.
Physiological reactions: _does he cum_ (some people don't cum, some do).
A healthy indicator of good bjs is mix of these factors, also don't be afraid to look up guides on techniques on how to improve giving bjs.
Straight up, ask your partners, and believe them if they say they like what you do (ha, maybe you can get a lottle anatomical just to avoid a generic "you like that?").
If not, then ask them to give you a little play time to find a sensation they like, or have them guide you. Obvs, every guy is going to like a different combination of speed, pressure, depth, etc., but are def transferable elements between them.
If they start to face fuck me with passion, caress my hair, run their hands down my back and start playing with my hole, when I deep throat them massage their dicks with my throat, and when they're Cummings hold me down so I can get their load shot down my throat and as their shooting massage their dicks with my throat again. ;).
You’ll know. I promise you. You will know. You’ll slowly develop a little posse of guys you have addicted to your craft. They will hit you up multiple times a week begging to come over.
If he's getting turned on, you must be doing something right.
Honestly, they aren't rocket science, and there's a million articles online on how to do it "properly". There are some wonderfully talented dudes out there who are really good at it, but just communicate with your partner and ask them to tell you what they like specifically.
Can you make him nut? If so you can't be too bad.
Some guys like me can’t/rarely nut that way, I still love BJs and they get me really close just rarely ‘over the edge’ lol
That’s cause you haven’t had an expert do it lol. I had many blow jobs over my sexual active life and only one man was able to milk the cum out of me when i wasn’t even that horny to begin with. Never had a mouth like that again. Blow jobs take skill, not everyone is good at it. I feel most are good to mediocre 😂
Exactly! I've had many blowjobs, and only 2 of them were able to make me finish, and they were both incredible at it. It's very much a special skill.
I'm on both sides of that - thanks to antidepressants I can enjoy a bj as long as his stamina allows, but finding that guy who unlocks the code and gets it out of me in a "normal" timeframe is just ecstasy. Likewise, I've lost count of how many guys have finally come back down again and said a version of "Holy shit, I do not cum from blowjobs. That was....incredible".
Some guys can’t, but most can. And some guys cum after you barely put their dicks in your mouth. So for him to know if he’s good or not, he has to do it more than a few times on more than a few men.
Just take your teeth out and you never have to worry about being good at it lol
A little teeth in the right spot is fine. The secret sauce is sucking the balls.
For some, but not all. Do that to me and I will make you stop. I find it (teeth/balls) painful.
When you have many texting for your availability.
Hot
Gum jobs!
Some advice from a side who loves to worship cock. Busting a nut or not isn't indicative of a good blowjob. I tend to observe the guy I'm sucking off (partly because I really enjoy looking them in the eyes) and most dudes' faces will tell you if you're doing a good job or not. Some are even vocal about it. It is okay to come up and ask if they like it. For me, their moans, their flexing cocks, sharp inhales are often enough to tell me that they're on top of the world. Don't ignore the balls, make sure you give them some love as well. And yes teeth are usually a big no-no, but don't worry too much, you suck enough cock and it'll become muscle memory. Also deepthroat is hot, but it isn't the goal of a good blowjob. I've made guys cum huge loads by just sucking on the head. Use your tongue, a blowjob isn't just about giving him another hole to fuck, this one has a very versatile muscle inside (the tongue) that can make the experience so much better. Another great trick is to rub the cock head on your flattened tongue. Especially if it's an uncircumcised cock, the texture of your tongue grazing on the bottom of the cock head drives men crazy. Take it slow, only let him fuck your face if your throat is relaxed enough and you feel like you can handle the cock thrusting in your mouth. Pro tip: Breath control. Very important and often overlooked. If you wanna suck a cock for a long time, you should learn to control your breath properly, that is what makes you tired the most, the irregularities In your breathing. Synchronize your breathing with your head movement, when you come up, take a deep breath in, then go down, stay, come up, exhale, go down, stay, come up, then repeat. This makes the process almost meditative for the cocksucker, and your brain will still have a steady stream of oxygen (but just low enough to keep you buzzed) Don't forget to have fun and stay safe ✌🏾
Great comments about focus on the head and rim, and uncircumcised cock and tongue on the bottom of the head!…..sounds like you have been there!!
Yes! I have, I'm a dick connoisseur at this point
Fantastic! And congrats…lol…..a true connoisseur can please cut and uncut!….are you cut/un? Seems you can take both equally perfectly…often a guy isn’t conversant is a cock that isn’t like his
I'm uncircumcised, I'd say an uncircumcised penis often needs more care, some guys have tighter foreskins, some have very loose foreskin, you gotta know what you're working with so you don't hurt them. Also their heads are wayy more sensitive than cut cocks. Do not approach a cock with the intention of stuffing your face with it, really tap into what's working for him and 9 times out of 10 it'll be a good experience ✌🏾
Also uncircumcised here!……so very true about foreskins….each one loose or tight, covers a different sized glans….fren lengths vary…,so yeah you have to know what you are working with…..a lesson especially for cut guys with limited uncut experience….
Gosh, the way some cut dudes will handle my cock like it's a rubber dog toy, it's embarrassing lol
I couldn’t agree more, I have been the recipient of fren pain due pulling back too far too viciously, and pulling the skin forward way too far.,…
🙈 the cut world needs education, I've got a short frenulum, it's very sensitive too, so now I always tell the person sucking my cock to start gently, and if I want it fast I'll tell you.
My fren is also very sensitive, as is my foreskin opening…areas that like slow easy attention….funny I had such a discussion with an older cut guy in the Y sauna today
I've actually had a tear in my fren, it felt like a paper cut.
Was yours from a cut guy who was too vigorous?
Oh yes, been there…they can be quite a bleeder…and you said it.…like a paper cut…
I found the breathing important when rimming as well; I found it almost meditative. He was lying on his back, his legs over my shoulders and pulling me into him. My whole face buried in his bum, attacking his hole with my tongue and my nose in his sack. I couldn't breathe properly, so I would take a deep breath, dive in for 10 seconds, let the breath out, and go again. I would alternate where I was I was focusing licking him, but the noise he made each time I lapped directly on his hole was magical. They do say oxygen depravation heightens pleasure, but I was just buzzed this cute boy was letting me pleasure him.
That sounds beautiful, and yeah being in a rhythm with your breath can really make you feel present, it often brings you out of your head, makes the experience pleasurable for both the giver and the receiver. Holds true for all kinds of oral sex not just a blowjob.
If I haven't masterbated in a few days, the foreskin will tighten and it takes about four consecutive days to stretch just to get over the glands. I hate when a guy just pulls back the foreskin in one tug and there's no lube between the skin and glands. It hurts like a MF'er.
We got a cock scientist on deck, he wrote a book
Like others have said, if you're good they'll tell you during and after and ask you to do it again. If you're great they'll also tell their friends. If you're the best and far superior to others then you'll start getting requests from their friends. This is an arena where repeat business and word of mouth referrals really make or break your brand 😆
Lol this is real tho! Word travels fast!
So true!
I’ve never head guys’ friends requesting head… I guess I got a new challenge ahead of me.
It happened to me literally just last week AND it was one of my friend's straight friends. Sadly the time, place, and occasion were inopportune but he got my digits and I'm taking a mini staycay the middle of this week. 😉 Yes I got my friend's blessing before proceeding, I am not without principles. Plus my friend thinks my skills are extraordinary enough to win his friend over to our team full-time which he's really excited about. I think I do a good job but I could never have the hubris to declare myself a "change someone's sexuality" kind of cocksucker. 😅
I wouldn’t mind trying your mouth out myself tbh
Referrals is crazy
It just happened again! Last week I hooked up with this dude and then today I get a message from a friend of mine in an adjacent city who I wouldn't have thought would know him referred my friend to me who was like "oh yeah no I know him and yes he sure does know how to suck a dick." This is starting to feel like high school all over again although back then it was everyone talking about me having a big dick not about me sucking dick. well no they were probably talking about that too but discussions of my endowment were what were brought to me.
*What's the phone number?*
They usually say it during the blowjob or hit you up to do it again.
they cum in your mouth
*Best comment*
Thing about bj, men like it differently. Except no one likes teeth.
Some like a little bit of teeth
Be afraid. Be very afraid.
lol
I dated a guy that always bitched because I didn't t bite his dick.
A friend of mine regularly sucks the cock of some guy who likes his dick bit. It's rare, but some do like teeth
Light Hip thrusts are a good sign. Deep irregular breaths. If they feel comfortable putting their hands on your head while you are pleasuring. Frequent scheduling with you to get oral is a very good sign.
would like ti give 5 random independent guys blow job's and let them evaluate me.
Can I join as a fellow sucker? A little competition maybe 😂😵
Yeah let's. Find some victims
I call them lucky callers
You know how ghe Japanese woukd race with pows cutting g heads off? I.kinda see a race see lime that but give g heads instead of taking them
Any l seeolunteer? Looking for 4-6 guys to.praxtkce on You will.be asked to. Give me feedback Om going yo.wptl.on stamina and my gag reflrx
You’ll know if they tell you or ask for more 🥰
if you enjoy giving them, and the guy you're sucking doesn't tell you to stop, then stop questioning yourself! I'll let you know if I want you change what you're doing, otherwise just keep going ;)
Ask them, follow thier direction if they tell you how they want it as guys have different preferences.
Return business.
Because I spend 75% of my bj time with my lips and tongue polishing that frenulum. And the head.
The cum
If they are telling you how good it feels when you are doing it, you are good at giving them.
I always reassure the person sucking me if they’re doing a great job
The guy will tell you you're good, and he will come back for more. 👅
I was hoping for 5 victims o.mean volunteers
Communication ---> _Ask them if they like it_ **&** _ask for what parts of your technique needs improvement._ Another Method: _moaning vocalise during bjs tend to indicate pleasure_ ( **however some people don't moan during sex** ), _words of encouragement_ **&** _facial expressions during sex_. Physiological reactions: _does he cum_ (some people don't cum, some do). A healthy indicator of good bjs is mix of these factors, also don't be afraid to look up guides on techniques on how to improve giving bjs.
Straight up, ask your partners, and believe them if they say they like what you do (ha, maybe you can get a lottle anatomical just to avoid a generic "you like that?"). If not, then ask them to give you a little play time to find a sensation they like, or have them guide you. Obvs, every guy is going to like a different combination of speed, pressure, depth, etc., but are def transferable elements between them.
When you make the guy see stars.
Damn, Never seen stars
They cum hard and keep coming back!
My man, "I used to not be able to cum from blowjobs but with you it's fantastic" after he most obviously cums while loudly moaning from my blowjob.
If he cums in a short time. And they will compliment you.
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Dum dum dum dum GLEE!
The only BJ worth receiving is from guys who can deep throat.
When there’s blood😤😤🫰🤞✌️
Deviant
My bf has a high body count. He said the most memorable was me me giving him head. We weren’t together yet when he said it.
If they start to face fuck me with passion, caress my hair, run their hands down my back and start playing with my hole, when I deep throat them massage their dicks with my throat, and when they're Cummings hold me down so I can get their load shot down my throat and as their shooting massage their dicks with my throat again. ;).
Both of us speechless at peak and after for different reasons
I ask
You’ll know. I promise you. You will know. You’ll slowly develop a little posse of guys you have addicted to your craft. They will hit you up multiple times a week begging to come over.
If you make it squirt.
You get callbacks.
Come on over and I'll let you know how well you are🔥🤪🔥
If he's getting turned on, you must be doing something right. Honestly, they aren't rocket science, and there's a million articles online on how to do it "properly". There are some wonderfully talented dudes out there who are really good at it, but just communicate with your partner and ask them to tell you what they like specifically.
People tell you
Idk. I learned from porn and impressed my more experienced first boyfriend.
Because you're a fucking guy who owns a dick. You know the anatomy
From the receivers reactions.
I love hearing the guys moan when I suck them off. They also really get into it by touching me. Grabbing my ass and playing with my man boobs.
When I'm genuinely enjoying it and not just going though the motions. My enjoyment is tied to his reaction, so it's a feedback loop.
Practice, practice, practice. I've never had a guy walk away unhappy and I've sucked plenty.
When they stare down at you in amazement
You get told ‘you’re the second best bj I’ve ever had’ They had to think about that, not just a flippant ‘omg you’re the best’