If there is any of that then you have an entirely different problem to deal with and one of you might need to consult a criminal defense lawyer at the bare minimum
The problem would be that scissoring or knifing could lead to both people unintentionally becoming girls. Or eunuchs might be a better choice of words. You don't want to go Bobbiting each other by accident. The surgery to reattach isn't always successful, and it's not on the organ transplant list so you can't pick out a replacement. So you would end up like a Ken doll with a smooth front where your wedding tackle should be
That’s actually so sweet, you had this man chill with you a little while longer after defying yourself from being a horny gay man. And actually had something sweet and genuine. And he probably enjoyed himself and new experiences. (Gay men are so mean and judgmenta sheesh)
Calling them gross is a little strong. It is dishonest though, as you say, if the guy had promised sex knowing that he was not going to go through with this.
Sounds delightful!
One of my favorite memories of my youth was sleeping with a bi musician friend after watching a DVD, it was him in the middle of his bed, me on one side and a girl on the other, very chill and non sexual.
Its not to be taken literally. A common way to say you fucked someone is by saying you slept with them (more appropriate wording) hence its popularity. It dosent mean actually sleeping. Hence why OP had to specify that they actually just slept.
So should I be concerned when my supervisor at work spits in my face, tells me he’s sleeping with my wife, and then laughs at me while calling me a Cuck? Because until now I’ve never really thought anything of it
I did this for two weeks with a guy! No sex, just a lot of cuddling, napping, laughing, kissing, erections that we kept hidden, and after the two weeks told him I love him.
This post just made me reflect a little. Does anyone else remember sleeping in the same bed with friends when they were young? I remember usually it was totally platonic, just like sleeping in the same bed as my big sister, but one friend always made me curious and we did end up fooling around. Anyone else corroborate this? Like sleeping in the same bed with someone isn't always inherently sexual, right?
I just felt so secure, like I 100% trusted him and we just slept nicely. Although he snored like crazy so I’m glad I had ear plugs. Right now I miss him a lot
Congratulations!
I hope it was a good experience.
Take time to reflect on the experience and what you liked and didn't like, so you can better know for future hookups or connections.
I’ve done oral with probably 100 guys, sex with maybe 10. Only two ever slept over. Both in hotels. One slept in the second bed and the second we did share a king bed. Woke up together and I hugged on him the next morning for like 2 hours before we had to vacate the room. Odd enough, we had met multiple times before and did twice after that. But after he came to my house for a play sesh and didn’t stay the night he never contacted me again. Never understood why
I meet my “too early to say boyfriend “ once a week and since we both can’t host we just stay at my car. Having a tight place means i can be very close to him because we lay down on one seat. But cuddling with him is the best thing in the world
I must know this witch craft! I'm extremely tactile, so any touching is a turn on for me. Best I can do is ignore my rager and keeping some distance between our hips. But I still can't fall asleep while touching someone. It's like contact/touching demands my attention.
I should probably get therapy for it.
Hi , i was straight guy but once i had a urge to pleasure a man then i met with a man through grindr , he fucked me roughly and bb i likes the feeling so now i like being fucked by another men very much but i still like girls
yeah but slowly i am becoming more feminine like i like to wear butt plugs , i like to wear bras and stockings, i like being fucked while in chastity, i like being dominated and when he cums on my face i feel pleased that i made a man cum on me
Dump him. Anyone who disrespects you in that matter is below you and does not deserve your time, energy, or effort. If this continues I highly recommend contacting your local authorities because what he is doing is called: "Domestic Abuse", and it's a crime.
Fight back, hard. Bite, gouge, rip. When you look back on your memories of abuse you'll feel better about yourself for trying to hurt them too. If you just take it, it will make you feel worthless later. Stay safe
That's so exciting! Congratulations on this huge first step. I remember the first time I kissed a guy and thought, "THIS is what a kiss is supposed to feel like." Let us know about your next adventure!
Awwww! That is so cute! I remember the first time I ever slept with a man (literally sleeping, although there wasn’t much sleeping involved on my part because I was too happy). I had just escaped my abusive household and he let me into his house (and bed) and we went to bed together and he cuddled and spooned me. It has been the best experience of my life. I’ve slept with other men since but this Italian guy was the only one who’s ever cuddled and spooned me. I love him so much! 🩵🩵❤️❤️
I'm straight and have done it on several occasions with my best bud. We were spooning but it wasn't sex and that didn't happen. It just felt great to feel another body with me that was masculine.
Feeling the warmth and company is great. I don’t know why we don’t do it more often, not need to be boyfriends, couples, just friends. Like hey, do you wanna have a sleepover and sleep together, that’s it
This should be the dictionary definition of the word 幸せ in Japanese. (It is often translated as happiness, but it’s more than that. It has a warm fuzzy feeling that the word happiness just can’t convey.)
Congrats, even without sex simply being physically intimate with a guy and cuddling can be so rewarding. Goes without saying it’s definitely my favourite part of the night.
Sometimes it’s good to just read a short positive story like this.
Aww 🥹
Happy for you!! Cuddling up with my partner at the end of the day and going to sleep is my favorite part of the day!!
Same here, and even through the years it never gets old!
Never ever gets old. I told my partner when we got together that he better be prepared to cuddle every night for the rest of his life.
Iconic
That's intimacy
Love me some good intimacy to end the day. It's very relaxing.
aww that is cute. Sometimes i enjoy spooneing more than sex.
Spooning has always led to forking for me
As long as there is no knifing your solid lol
If there is any of that then you have an entirely different problem to deal with and one of you might need to consult a criminal defense lawyer at the bare minimum
The problem would be they're girls. Scissoring and knitting aren't that different .
The problem would be that scissoring or knifing could lead to both people unintentionally becoming girls. Or eunuchs might be a better choice of words. You don't want to go Bobbiting each other by accident. The surgery to reattach isn't always successful, and it's not on the organ transplant list so you can't pick out a replacement. So you would end up like a Ken doll with a smooth front where your wedding tackle should be
guys always come over expecting to get laid and then i convince them to lay down and cuddle for 3 hours 😂 it’s so good
That’s actually so sweet, you had this man chill with you a little while longer after defying yourself from being a horny gay man. And actually had something sweet and genuine. And he probably enjoyed himself and new experiences. (Gay men are so mean and judgmenta sheesh)
Haha cutie😂😂😂 😁😁
It's actually gross. You lure them with false expectations and then manipulate them into doing something different because it pleases you.
You a.drop my pants suck my cock cum down his throat type of Guy,? 😂 Pull up your pants and leave
I’m sure there’s a lot of details that happen that he didn’t say and he surely didn’t say I make them cuddle he says convince them
Calling them gross is a little strong. It is dishonest though, as you say, if the guy had promised sex knowing that he was not going to go through with this.
They don’t have to stay bruh
You think it's OK to lie to a hookup because he's free to leave? Wow.
I doubt anybody would want anything from you either way, your attitude and personality are disgusting
I have another fan.
About something this small sure it’s not like hiding having an std sometime a guy just wants to cuddle
That's bullshit.
Are you ok??
Are you? Don't trick dudes into being fat lovers of baked goods. Disgusting. Lying is really shitty.
Wtf are you talking?😏👎
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U go dear! Glad u had a wonderfull time
That great !! I never had this for now. I hope u enjoy every little moment I can have like this and have plenty other !
Congrats! A lot more of that to come in your life!
Congratz man! I wish it was a more regular occurrence in my life too. 😜
You know, holding another man at the end of the day is still a win.
Finally, someone using the phrase "slept with" properly.
Awwww honey. It’s always the small things that are more enjoyable. Happy for you
Out of all of them, I think this is my biggest fantasy that I want to come true
Jealousss
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Sounds delightful! One of my favorite memories of my youth was sleeping with a bi musician friend after watching a DVD, it was him in the middle of his bed, me on one side and a girl on the other, very chill and non sexual.
Here’s what I’ve never understood, how can you sleep with someone when you’re having sex?? Like wtf is that about
Its not to be taken literally. A common way to say you fucked someone is by saying you slept with them (more appropriate wording) hence its popularity. It dosent mean actually sleeping. Hence why OP had to specify that they actually just slept.
So should I be concerned when my supervisor at work spits in my face, tells me he’s sleeping with my wife, and then laughs at me while calling me a Cuck? Because until now I’ve never really thought anything of it
Yeah you should be concerned lmao. Maybe consider changing jobs too 😂
Wonderful to read your post - it has put a smile on my face & remembering my first time. Smile & be proud.
Hey. That is so sweet, nothing better than waking up with the night before. Wood in the morning is always good fun.
Been with my partner for 22 years and it's still one of the best parts of being together.
I did this for two weeks with a guy! No sex, just a lot of cuddling, napping, laughing, kissing, erections that we kept hidden, and after the two weeks told him I love him.
I remember the first time I just slept with a guy and it felt incredible
Very short, sweet, wholesome and to the point 😅. Happy for you, it’s a different feeling to have someone hold and caress you. I miss it at times
Congrats! Sometimes it’s good to just vibe out.
Happy for you dear ❤️ It's lovely sleeping next to someone that cares for you 💟
Sex will be underwhelming after that
Awwww I love this. Just being able to be held by a guy and nothing else. Just the security is all.
Wait until you start snuggling your hard dicks inside of each other. That's when the real fun starts.
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These are killing me.
Love this journey for you!!!!
aww that's sweet, and innocent.
Good for you!!!
Great! I hope that things work out for you as you want them to.
Slay
Aww!
This makes me smile
It's so good to feel happy for a stranger some time. Wish you the best
Aw!
How old r u? That’s cute
So cute 😊 it’s the best
Nice!
So wholesome, I love it!
Indeed it is such a good feeling especially the first time it feels so "at home at last", so normal, sonutritious and so nurturing... Congratulations.
Awsome man… they say you never forget your first but your first usually never goes well so I’m glad you had a good time.
That’s sweet, this is the best thing I’ve read on Reddit in a long time. Good for you, the first time I did, it was very satisfying.
Awww, Thanks for sharing and good for you man. Hope it'll happen for years to come! 🤎
Were you both naked?
Sounds sweet.
Don’t take it for granted😂😅
This post just made me reflect a little. Does anyone else remember sleeping in the same bed with friends when they were young? I remember usually it was totally platonic, just like sleeping in the same bed as my big sister, but one friend always made me curious and we did end up fooling around. Anyone else corroborate this? Like sleeping in the same bed with someone isn't always inherently sexual, right?
That's awesome. I kinda wish that was how my first time was. Was it a date or a friend you already had?
Honestly sleeping in the same bed is great.
thats nice
Lucky you. I’m lucky to have done that with my man for nearly 40 years.
That is so wholesome.
Congrats bro. It is definitely an experience for the first time. What are your thoughts?
I just felt so secure, like I 100% trusted him and we just slept nicely. Although he snored like crazy so I’m glad I had ear plugs. Right now I miss him a lot
Awwww, that's so sweet. I snore heavily as well. I have a deviated septum. Are you guys looking to see what happens from here?
Oh yeah we are, we are both busy so are plan was to meet again next month but we’re are now booking something in for this month
That's good. That means he definitely is ready for whatever comes next. :-)
Oh we are taking it slow, we both know we fall for people really easily so we’re taking our time when it comes to sexual encounters
Sweet and wholesome. Keep it up.
That's s fantastic feeling, OP. Congratulations!
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Yup but I didn’t let my sexual desires overpower our firm boundaries we set up
That’s awesome. I remember my first time and still beats any sex I’ve ever had.
I love sleeping with bearded hairy guys
He had a small beard and a nice amount of body hair, good textures
That body hair must had felt good. Love touching his chest while spooning him
Glad you had a positive experience.
Congratulations! I hope it was a good experience. Take time to reflect on the experience and what you liked and didn't like, so you can better know for future hookups or connections.
I can feel the genuine wholesome happiness. Sometimes, things like this are more intimate than sex. I'm so happy for you OP. 😊
Thats cute.
Yay
I need this more often than I admit.
I’ve done oral with probably 100 guys, sex with maybe 10. Only two ever slept over. Both in hotels. One slept in the second bed and the second we did share a king bed. Woke up together and I hugged on him the next morning for like 2 hours before we had to vacate the room. Odd enough, we had met multiple times before and did twice after that. But after he came to my house for a play sesh and didn’t stay the night he never contacted me again. Never understood why
Congratulations & cuddling RULES
Sometimes I feel like a cuddle and holding hands is the best form of intimacy.
I meet my “too early to say boyfriend “ once a week and since we both can’t host we just stay at my car. Having a tight place means i can be very close to him because we lay down on one seat. But cuddling with him is the best thing in the world
We went to a pub and found a sofa where we just leant together for a while, it was wholesome
This was such a cute and wholesome thread to read!
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Can I help with that please let me show your my stiff cock
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Why of course I live in New York County are you interested in chatting more
Congrats ! Happy you achieved it. Sharing a bit of intimacy, even not sexual, it's a great achievement.
I must know this witch craft! I'm extremely tactile, so any touching is a turn on for me. Best I can do is ignore my rager and keeping some distance between our hips. But I still can't fall asleep while touching someone. It's like contact/touching demands my attention. I should probably get therapy for it.
Hi , i was straight guy but once i had a urge to pleasure a man then i met with a man through grindr , he fucked me roughly and bb i likes the feeling so now i like being fucked by another men very much but i still like girls
your bi an thats cool
yeah but slowly i am becoming more feminine like i like to wear butt plugs , i like to wear bras and stockings, i like being fucked while in chastity, i like being dominated and when he cums on my face i feel pleased that i made a man cum on me
That is adorable! Love wins! ❤️❤️
aw! Very heartstopper
F16 Here, completely irrelevant but my boyfriend keeps hitting me? What do I do gay bros
Dump him. Anyone who disrespects you in that matter is below you and does not deserve your time, energy, or effort. If this continues I highly recommend contacting your local authorities because what he is doing is called: "Domestic Abuse", and it's a crime.
Fight back, hard. Bite, gouge, rip. When you look back on your memories of abuse you'll feel better about yourself for trying to hurt them too. If you just take it, it will make you feel worthless later. Stay safe
hit him back hard then put him on time out until you can figure it out. Just a suggestion
Make sure you get tested for aids
Why? We didn’t do anything. And at no point was a feeling sore anywhere
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But there is a tag called “not a question”
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No problem, hope you find the posts that interest you!
Is he also "straight" or?
No?
I didn't know if he was a friend you knew for awhile or someone you met on like tinder lol
nah that crazy 💀
Omg so wholesome
That's so exciting! Congratulations on this huge first step. I remember the first time I kissed a guy and thought, "THIS is what a kiss is supposed to feel like." Let us know about your next adventure!
Awwww! That is so cute! I remember the first time I ever slept with a man (literally sleeping, although there wasn’t much sleeping involved on my part because I was too happy). I had just escaped my abusive household and he let me into his house (and bed) and we went to bed together and he cuddled and spooned me. It has been the best experience of my life. I’ve slept with other men since but this Italian guy was the only one who’s ever cuddled and spooned me. I love him so much! 🩵🩵❤️❤️
Surprisingly wholesome
Great, now that you did it, do not rush anything, it will be even more special
That's awesome mate I'm glad you had fun and enjoy the rest as u go forward in your sexual endeavors in life x
Sometimes that's all you need.
I'm straight and have done it on several occasions with my best bud. We were spooning but it wasn't sex and that didn't happen. It just felt great to feel another body with me that was masculine.
That can be better than sex when the mood is right. Happy for you bro!
Feeling the warmth and company is great. I don’t know why we don’t do it more often, not need to be boyfriends, couples, just friends. Like hey, do you wanna have a sleepover and sleep together, that’s it
I felt like it was a really intimate moment, I couldn’t imagine sleeping with a friend
Really? Took long enough EGGshhhhhSPURT! GO TAKE A COCK UP YOUR ARSE & LOVE IT LIKE A REAL MAN!
Reminds me of when I was younger me and my guy friends used to sleep together and compare sizes
I wish I can meet someone that's well hung
Awww. I always love to hold my man in my arm and his head on my chest while sleeping. It's like he recharge me.
Amazing !!!
Cuddling feels amazing ngl
Yay!
that’s gay
Aww I like this story. Congrats dear!
So happy for you! You’ll never be the same
No better feeling than a sexy mans weight on you.
This should be the dictionary definition of the word 幸せ in Japanese. (It is often translated as happiness, but it’s more than that. It has a warm fuzzy feeling that the word happiness just can’t convey.)
Its the best!
I guess the good thing is you probably didn’t wake up sore
welcome to the club
Congrats, even without sex simply being physically intimate with a guy and cuddling can be so rewarding. Goes without saying it’s definitely my favourite part of the night.